How To Stop Divorce And Save Your Marriage 

Omg, thank you soooo much! I needed this! It does need to go viral.

I needed this. What a weight off my shoulders, breakthrough, whatever you want to call it. Thank you. This channel is blessing my whole family and improving our future.

The reason I'm still with my abusive husband is because it wasn't his fault... it's his childhood that made him abusive and I saw how his dad treats his mom up to now... abusive still. So I am trying to change my husband because he doesn't want to see a counselor. These videos save not only marriages but children's future. Thank you all for saving lives. May God bless you more. Amen

This video changed my life!

Wow. I never heard of such solution not to take problems personally but to focus on third party which is the past or childhood. I will try this. The possible problem is use the childhood stories against our spouse which discourages opening up.

Larry, Paul, thank you. Very insightful.

Thanks so much 👍

Wow! I’m listening to this just now - 4 years after this sh posted- and this is great. I hope it works

MY WIFE WONT EVEN TALK TO ME, UNLESS SHE IS BEING MEAN HOW CAN I TURN IT AROUND ?

The key is thinking more about your wife or husband. The wife spends her life on family such as bringing up the annoying kids, doing housework all the time, taking care of all family. The husband works hard to earn more money to let his family live a good life. If they have different opinions on something, they should take a step back. In the end , there will be smile on their face.

What if your spouse dont wanna open about their childhood/ parents or upbringing ?

There may be a child of chaos but regardless of that even being raised in a healthy home relationships can struggle because of sin & people lean toward pride & selfishness and these become habitual. There may be issues & no bad childhood to talk about. Plus going back to childhood about every issue sounds exhausting for husband & wife.

Hope is not a plan.. wow

How does one handle having these conversations (even in depth) with spouse, only to have some of those characteristics (negative) from the parents, be used as insults onto me. When talking about these stories years ago, we grew closer, now we’re back in the chaos and most of the negative characteristics my mother had are being thrown in my face. “You’re just like your mother...you just want a warm body and not love...you just want to be taken care of without giving back...” when the truth is I give as much as I can with what I have currently and am working on finding creative ways to help more. But there really is some very Deep and dark experiences in my husband to the point that he will often change any narrative to suite his point in an argument. He’s not bad or cruel but he becomes cruel and will say the most heartbreaking things (for me personally) and after I begin to take action to leave (Bc that’s often the first one) he threatens by saying “if you leave that’s it for good!” Etc.

If couples are fighting over mayo on a sandwich, I'd think there's a bigger problem.

If she wanna go $#@$ the #$$ let her go