I just found your book on the streets of Manhattan along with some Pengun classics and a sociology book. I started reading yours. I hate self help books and the whole cultish self-help industry however yours grabbed me . The problem is I am a man and your book illustrates to me the problem with contemporary feminism. Women think they are the only ones experiencing pain, disillusioned, feeling shifty when, in fact there is No difference between the semester in this instance. Thus their progress oft gets posited in a dialogue of entitled victim hood. Hey baby, we all feel shitty wake up!!!!!!