How to Stop Yelling at Your Child - Peaceful Parent Happy Kids, Dr. Laura Markham (Summary Part 1/3)

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How to stop yelling at your child by regulating yourself and managing your emotions.
Summary (Part 1 of 3) of the book, Peaceful Parent Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting, by Dr. Laura Markham (Creator of AhaParenting.com)
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Buy the book (Peaceful Parent Happy Kids, Dr. Laura Markham): amzn.to/386Ucxz (affiliate)
^ This book contains so much information, I had to do a summary in three parts, with multiple other videos covering side points that I felt were equally just as important. As a matter of fact, I found it difficult to cover everything in these videos. I even feel embarrassed making so many videos based off of one book, that I think it fit to just tell my viewers to try buying and reading it if they have the time. It was rather insightful.
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@evgeniavm 7 месяцев назад

I use the statement from the book “How not to hate your husband after kids” by Jancee Dunn: “I know that what I’m about to do is going to cause you harm, but right now, my anger is more important to me than you are.” This instantly shifts my mood from anger to a high level of compassion.

@inthegroovewithms.rachelle6440 4 года назад

Another tip is to *SING* what you want to say if it's appropriate to do so. Have a jingle that relates back to your family expectations. Choose a little tune that you can instinctively recall and you can freestyle or prepare little rhymes for instances that have commonly been a challenge for you all. Example: *(Tune of "Mary Had A Little Lamb") *It's time to put your shoes on now Shoes on now, shoes on now It's time to put your shoes on now One foot at a time.* Or: "Speak to me with a quiet voice so I can hear your words." and you can do the same as part of your technique for letting some air out of that frustration balloon: " *I'M* going to use a quiet voice So you can hear my words." Experiment and learn what is helpful for you and *your* family. Find your *Groove*. ❤🎵

@tifaninicole7872 2 года назад

I appreciate this approach! Totally new perspective 👌🏾

@jeenymaltese3623 2 года назад

Thank you 🙌🤍🤍🤍

@mercyadegoke2820 2 года назад

This is so beautiful 👏

@inthegroovewithms.rachelle6440 2 года назад

@@tifaninicole7872 That's great! How are you?

@inthegroovewithms.rachelle6440 2 года назад

@@jeenymaltese3623 You're welcome. :) I hope you and your family are doing well.

@biancaharrison5712 2 года назад

I choose to Love well!

@janechiu370 5 лет назад

I choose connection

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 года назад

I agree yelling gets in the way of connection

@Ronaldothegoat1234football 3 года назад

I choose love!

@徐铭阳-s6d 2 года назад

I chose love

@holitomoliholisticartsacad1075 10 месяцев назад

You are amazing thanks for making these videos

@orangetosca4007 2 года назад

I choose for the long run 😌

@esminenelson4330 Год назад

Good morning to you doctor and your family... well done great job thank you so much for the information it's helping me a lot have a great day God bless you...

@brilliantz90 3 года назад

Thanks for these summary videos!

@cristinareyes-dixon2281 5 лет назад

Love these short videos! Wondering when the 3rd part will be published? I don’t see it here....

@RealHappyEndings 5 лет назад

Glad you're enjoying them. The part 3 of 3 can be found here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8tmuATOCB9c.html

@trisha61387 Год назад

Okay, I get this and I do this, but what about what you actually need to be done. For instance, if they won’t put their pajamas on. I’ll do all this and come back to him but at the end of it all, I STILL need him to put his pjs on. This helps me stay calm, until I really really need him to do this and it’s been 45 min. Or if he’s not following you in public and won’t move. I can be calm all I want but it won’t make him move. Then what? Screaming at him is the only thing that ends of getting his attention that this isn’t okay and to MOVE. Idk this is all nice and lovely but it’s still not addressing how to get from point a to b without yelling.

@RealHappyEndings Год назад

So from this book, she suggested getting down to their level and really empathizing with them. Really try to see things from their point of view and let it show on your face and in your voice but tell them that they still have to do it. I have tried this when I have time, and it surprisingly works. You can also compromise with them. Like, okay, I'll give you five more minutes because I understand that you never had enough time to play today, but then you have to change. But I understand not always having time for that. So there's this other book I like to follow. Setting Limits with your Strong Willed Child by Robert J Mackenzie. Basically, you follow up whatever you tell them with a relatable consequence. And something you're actually going to follow through on. He suggests making it a natural consequence of possible. But that won't always be possible, nor safe, so self made consequences as well. I think a mixture of both these methods have served me well (when I use them :| ) Hopefully they do something positive for you.