I am honestly wondering why people get so obsessed with their gender and sexuality. It seems pretty odd. Like you don't have enough going on in life to think of anything else.
People have different values in life. Me and a lot of other people value and care about figuring out their identity which includes gender and sexuality. This is just another way of being able to explain who you are to yourself and other people. I don’t exactly know why this stuff interests me either, but I know a part of it is that if I can find a label or way of identifying that I feel connected to it can help me and other people respect and understand me. It’s kind of grounding to identify yourself and it’s great to find a community of similar people. Obviously everyone else has unique feelings and values their lives and identities differently so this in no way is meant to represent anyone else. You probably weren’t looking for an actual response but whatever, have a good day
@@heatherchandlersanxiety4320 You just made an entire essay about this. But I mean it's not like I hate people that are like this just don't be like "OMG DID YOU JUST ASSUME MY GENDER" But be more like "Hey that's not what I like to call myself instead I'm this" you know?
@@Corrupted7 yeah at makes a lot of sense. I get it can be frustrating when people kind of blow up on you. I think oftentimes people are on the defensive causing other people to get defensive as well. Thank you for being respectful
Wow this comment section is something. If you're someone reading through these comments who's debating your gender identity, please don't let these small minded twats that don't seem to understand simple self expression knock your confidence. The way I see it, exploring gender is exactly the same as exploring any other part of who you are while growing up and I get that many people don't understand that or don't understand the point but calling this lovely person who's merely offering guidence and anyone else who in whatever way doesn't align with their gender assigned at birth insane is point blank rude, does common courtesy not exist for you??
We aren't small minded, we are just simply smart enough to understand that this is ridiculous, and that not aligning with gender stereotypes doesn't mean you aren't a girl or boy.
This is so helpful! I've been using nonbinary for awhile now, but it doesn't really feel right except as an umbrella term. For me it feels too stable and I experience all genders at different points. I like that genderfluid is more... fluid lol
Little tip from a genderfluid person, Genderfluid does not mean fluid between man, woman, non-binary Genderfluid means a gender that is fluid It says nothing about what genders one may be fluid between There are subsets and a zillion other labels and stuff that do specify gender Like genderfae/doe/thil is fluid between all non masculine genders, genderfaun/fawn is the opposite of that, Theres genderflor where one is fluid between any non masculine non feminine genders Personally I just say Genderfluid, but a label that better describes me is genderfruct, fluid between all genders, Other than that it was a nice video but I just wanted to make sure people know that Genderfluid is as ambiguous as the term non-binary /nm /lh
@@albertfralinger2711 Of course but there's a difference between having questions and completely dismissing it. And there is a respectful way of questioning a topic which a lot of people don't realise
Yeah fr though. Literally like 95% of these comments are just undeserved hate. I wish people who "don't agree" with scientific facts (because gender identity _is_ scientific, yeah I know, shocker) would just either educate themselves or simply scroll past this video instead of clicking on it and commenting hateful things.
@@HyperNovva it’s not scientific fact, sorry. The problem is, we have reached the first real younger generation who grew up with the internet as their social circle with a great big lacking of adult presence. That may sound patronising but every generation has a youth movement for those that need to ‘find themselves’ - in the 50s/60s it was the Mods and Rockers, in the 70s it was the Punks, in the 80s it was the Goths and in the 90s it was grunge and Emo’s. I truly think you will all grow out of it and the world will move on. And every adult on RU-vid was also young once, we’ve seen it all. Nothing to do with being conservative. I click on the video because I am concerned, there are some life changing decisions being made by some who may grow up to regret it. It would be remiss of me to turn the other way.
@@esselleanderic It is a scientific fact that gender does not equal sx. You can do some research. This again...ugh...please take into account that nearly nobody regrets their transition. The regret rate is lower than 1%. Transitioning has also been proven to improve mental health and well-being, and it causes no overall harm.
@@HyperNovva none of what you have stated is true fact, you can type whatever you like in a comment or on any social media platform, I can state that we don’t know how many people regret it because the latest influx of transitioners has only been in the last decade and it’s much too early to know long term effects both physically and mentally. There was a period of time that doctors used to prescribe cigarettes (1930s to 1950s) because they weren’t considered dangerous and we just didn’t know the long term effects.
this comment section is so disgusting. this person didn't hurt anybody, they're just saying they're most comfortable identifying and presenting to the world in a gender-neutral way. of course when it comes to your sex, you're going to have a certain set of parts; male, female, or intersex. that's basic biology. but gender is just how you choose to express yourself to the world. how somebody lives their life is their choice and their free will to do so. just like you choose to express yourself in whichever ways you do. at the end of the day, we're all just humans trying to make sense of the life we were given. we only live so long on this world.. the least amount of good we can do in this life is be respectful and courteous. it's okay to not be non-binary, and it's even okay if you don't really understand it, but i hope you can at least understand no matter what your opinion is, there is a human being just like you behind every person you make a comment toward.
Yeah, he/she just spread this false ideology, nothing harmful. Being a female/male are not "identities/presentations", they are biological facts. Intersex is not a third dex. It is a group of around 40 different medical conditions that are in themselves specific to each sex. Like only men can have Xxy Syndrome. Only women can have Turner Syndrome. Thex are not a third sex, they are often difficult and sometimes life threathening medical conditions. "Gender is how you express yourself to the world" - so, it is basically a costume what you can create and chamge whenever you feel like it? Basically you said it is the stereotypes/roles avout women/men. We can be respectful towards basic biology too...
actually its not ok to be non-binary. alao intersex is not the "third sex" its a disorder which means it has a different order than what is considered normal or typical.
My question is : If you yourself are still confused with who you are, what gives you the right to force other people to accept who you say to be? Especially if your mind keeps changing like the colors of an autumn leaf🤔 Besides, our gender and sexuality are a fraction of our personality/who we are. Why put all this time, effort and energy demands and insanity into it?
I was confused when I started questioning too, I had the same doubts. I'm nonbinary, but my dysphoria has stronger and weaker days. I thought it was about fluctuation of gender, but my gender is the same everyday, but dysphoria is more or less intense
At least you'll admit that you have gender disphoria. I can respect this! ♡ Most people just say "it's who they are" and get really angry if you don't agree. I hope whatever happens you figure this out.
Both genderfluid and agender fit under the nonbinary umbrella :) no matter how you identify, if you're not exclusively binary gender, you fall under that term and are accepted. You don't need a niche microlabel if you don't want one!
What do you feel connected to than. I remember being 13 and not liking typical girl stuff like all my class mates would like I hated wearing bras and make up … I never was confused though wether I was female or not .
Agreed! I just consider myself a female whose mind works differently. And why are ppl so obsessed with not being "misgendered?" I have a prominent nose and am sort of flat chested. Sometimes, when I have short hair ppl will mistakenly call me "sir." I don't get upset about it. I know I look kindve boyish from a distance. I would never in a million years be offended by that...
It's honestly different for each person. Good for you that you were never confused and don't have to worry about this! That just means you're not nonbinary, but some people are. Being a misgendered or offended at being misgendered is different for each person. For me, I don't care if someone calls me she, he, they, it, whatever. If people think I'm a girI, boy, enby, who ever, I'm fine with that. But others may not feel that way, and it can get annoying after a lonh time of being misgendered daily for people who have to fight for their identity to be considered their identity.
just because you don't like doing stereotypical "girl stuff" does not make you less of a female. let me ask you one thing Do you bleed every month? If you do your female so is ur sex and gender. It has nothing to do with ur personal feelings or likings
Because gender identity is a spectrum and different for everyone. Just because you didn't like girl things and still identified as a woman doesn't mean that people feel the same way as you.
@@MooMooMoo717Your sex is female, your gender is woman. There is a distinction. Sex is determined by physical attributes, chromosomes, hormones, genitals, etc. You can be male, female or intersex (which is a combination of both male and female attributes. This is rare but does happen.) And gender is a social construct. You can be man, woman, non-binary, under the umbrella of non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, transgender, etc. This is identity, not science. Sex is based on scientific facts, gender is based on feelings and personal preference.
I’m trying to learn not offend. So, what if we eliminated the gender concept and only went by sex? That way if you’re born a male always a male… BUT you can identify anyway you desire as far as appearance goes. If you want to look feminine then go for it! If you want to look male… also go for it! Look however you desire and have ZERO labels. Would that not be more freeing and empowering to he yourself? Or am I out to lunch?
@@MadameCorgi But we can’t allow people to pretend they are cats either. So we need to suppress a little bit. We have kids acting out in school who meow at teachers instead of learning. I also thought trans people would like it because they complain about labels so I thought removing them would be something good. Just trying to understand. Either way a population won’t be happy so I think it’s about finding a middle ground. One that won’t offend trans, and won’t upset the majority of the world either. It’s a tricky balance.
@@gorillamasterofgaming5525 I understand gender as a social expression of being a biological man or a biological woman. And I'm absolutely fine with natural differences between the two. Some stereotypes have roots in them, they make sense and come naturally. Probably these stereotypes got to be named "gender"? But other stereotypes are not based on reality. And also they don't take into account individual differences. What you call "classic" femininity is probably not something that existed two thousand years ago, or something that was called feminine in ancient China, or in some African tribes. But they were all women. Biological sex is the base, social expression of it (aka gender) comes second. So please don't think that I oppose natural differences. I question social norms, not biology.
but yk, gender is all about fashion. we live in a world where gender equality exists and we really don't need a term "agender". Just identity with the the genitalia you're born in and live the way you want. Wear whatever what you want and marry who you want.
It bothers me that nobody will except me being gender fluid. Just because I'm 6'2 , 350 pounds, covered in tattoos with a thick beard. Sometimes I wake up feeling like a girl and but dont change my appearance. People should stop being bigots and let me use woman only spaces that morning because that's how I feel inside that day
It's okay, -man- girl. People who the doctors guessed were male are also allowed to cry and show weakness. They just can't identify as a man than because they're clearly some other gender.
@@user-os4cd3ic3ywhichever one they want. The men's room, the women's room, a gender neutral bathroom, anything. Nonbinary means "To not exclusively identify with one binary gender." You can be a man and a woman. You can be neither. You could be partially a man but not. There is no one universal experience, so they just pick what best fits them and makes them the most comfortable.
I'm so sorry for this comment section. If you are a person trying to decide your header please do not listen to these rude comments. And obviously you should not worry about these comments because your video has probably helped alot of people, just like it helped me. ❤
Unisex clothing has been around since the 70’s, maybe longer. Personally I dress like I’m very plain as I’m not trying to advertise what type of sex I enjoy.
Person: *Literally discussing how they found their identity and themself in their labels.* You: "But why don't they be themself in a way I can understand/relate to?"
@@NiTuJHGTkO I didn't even mention about women. "Woman" means different things to every person. "Woman" is just a label that some people identify with, but it is often associated with certain traits like femininity. Although, not every woman is feminine, and not every feminine person is a woman. So, it means different things to different people. That's just some quirks of language, it can't perfectly communicate everything, and there is a social element too. Everyone contributes to the idea of what a woman is in our society, but no one label can encapsulate all the possibilities of womanhood. This is the same for any gender.
@@franksanz1044 I guess you can never be anything then? How do you identify without a label? I know some people don't label their gender, but, man/woman/genderfluid/etc. are labels. If you believe yourself to be any of them, then you identify with a label.
I'm a pretty inclusive person, but most things LGBT these days are starting to feel like a plastic bag being wrapped around my head with a bunch of people holding it in place, demanding that i'm never to take it off, no matter how much air i struggle to grasp for.
You just described what gender dysphoria feels like. Good job, you're starting to understand! (Jk. I know you're just being intolerant). Saying you're inclusive and just being like, "anything that doesn't make sense to me is being forced upon me and OH MY GOD, I CAN'T BREATHE!" isn't profound, simply hypocritical.
@Idara Ekanem Imagine how confusing it must be to actually experience gender dysphoria and go through several stages of questioning. Maybe never truly feeling at home with your presentation or gender because your gender is simply not easy to grasp for anyone. Maybe your gender is hard to describe or it feels more fluid than stagnant. Trust me, if you haven't had to question your whole gender identity before, you have little room to complain about confusion.
The best thing is you have NO IDEA what it feels like to be a man. So you literally cant feel like a man cause you have never and will never experience that. Just like ive never had a coochie and have no idea what its like to have a period, an ill never know what its like cause im a man lmao 😂
did anyone ever say they "feel like a man" or "feel like a woman" ? No. It's about the labels, gender roles, and possibly anatomy you feel comfortable with. Not about "feeling like" a specific gender.
@@HyperNovva you kinda just contradicted yourself, though, if i’m not mistaken? you said it’s about feeling the “labels, gender roles, and anatomic features” (so… what i perceive to be the components of what gender actually is) but not about “feeling like” your gender…? also the person in the video said they don’t particularly align with womanhood or manhood, but they have never even experienced true manhood in the first place so that makes no sense. also, i hope this doesn’t come off as a jab at you, i am just genuinely confused and think this isn’t very logically based. please help me understand.
@@hannah3970When the person in the video (Lynn) said they don't connect with manhood or womanhood, they meant they don't feel like they "fit in" with men and the concept of being a man. The same applies for womanhood. Well, I guess it depends on who you're talking to. There are several ways to define gender identity, and I guess you could technically describe it as feeling like a specific gender. In my opinion, the best description of gender identity is the following: suppose you one day woke up with the anatomy and social status (terminology, pronouns, the gender people perceive you as, etc) of the opposite sx (typing the word this way so that youtube doesn't censor it). Most likely, that'd feel...wrong. Unnatural. You'd probably experience discomfort or distress in said situation due to this. Why? Because your gender identity wouldn't match up with your body and the way society perceives you. So basically, your gender identity is the way you perceive yourself and what you feel comfortable with. Lynn saying they don't connect with manhood nor womanhood was also about this. If you want a more detailed or scientific explanation of what gender identity is, feel free to look it up.
@@theceoofeggmansempire5214 You will probably find that it is the other way around. The overthinking leads to questioning things... One of those things being your gender. Plus with all the people around you telling you that it is OK won't be helping. Rather than getting your head in order the idea that your body isn't right gets lodged in your brain. This is not good.
This is not a hate comment. I only want peace for people asking this question. The boxes aren't real. You don't have to fit in them and that doesn't mean you can't claim your gender. You can be a girl or a boy and not match stereotypical gender norms. We cancelled gender norms a long time ago. Everyone is overthinking this and no one will have peace while living in limbo. Think about who you are without your sex or gender. You're a whole person behind those superficial identifiers. That's what really matters.
Gender identity is simply not the same as gender norms or gender presentation. If this isn't a hate comment, maybe you can understand that or you could try to understand. If your comment isn't a hate comment, then, hello there. This comment section is a mess.
Yeah, that's kinda the whole point of being non-binary. It's just a label that people use, when what hey're actually doing is being themselves without having to worry about the societal expectations of gender. Of course, these is a neurological aspect to it as well.
Answer: your not anything other then female or male. Also I like how all these non binary youtubers contradict each other and never actually see a qualified professional about this and instead make up their own label.
Yesterday I made a lemon icebox pie. The day before, I cleared and burnt about a half acre of blow downs. Never felt like anything but a man. Because I am.
@@babykillingcadillac6719 if one would dig out this person'a bones in the future, guess what would be the result, they couldn't tell what was the sex. I doubt it.
When I was like 12, I realized that I didn’t have pronoun that I didn’t mind using until one day, when my friend called me a he, it began to bother me very much so I thought that I’m not non-binary but rather just a female. And then I realized that some days, I wanted to be called a boy and some days I wanted to be called a girl and how some days I wanted to act and look like a boy while other days I wanted to be a girl- I figured this out after playing Roblox for a little bit actually- kinda funny but I’m happy that I know I’m gender fluid ☺️
Well, facts don't care about your feelings! Don't get mad if someone calls you, say, a girl when you are evidently a girl. Absolutely no one has to rewire the way they use the English language based on some perception you may have about yourself.
@@Hiro.Lee.tanaka it is ok, whatever floats your boat. But if I see you in the streets and you drop something, I will address to you by what you look like. You can't be offended in any way because I couldn't read your mind and what's going on in it.
I've been questioning it on and off for a while now, like I feel I fit more into the nonbinary label, but I also don't mind she/her pronouns. There's times I'll be fine hearing someone refer to me as she, but then there's times where it just doesn't sit right, it doesn't feel right....I know of Genderfluid, and that's what I had said I was for a while, and I know of something called 'demi' something, but I honestly don't know. I always have said I don't put a label to myself, I'm just me, but when now of days a lot of times I'm asked "what's your gender" "what pronouns do you use" and I'm just there thinking this whole thing in my head.
Binary is a way of counting FYI and there is 3 genders man, woman, trans anything after trans marginalizes trans people like LGB was doing for years. Well done on joining that delusional mob
Notice how it's always how they "feel" or "connect with"... no matter your feelings, biologically you will always be the gender you were born as which is either male or female
Well yeah, but that's your Sex not your gender. Doesn't allign for everybody. And even from the biology standpoint there is way more then just female or male
Live a life guys. Don’t make your whole life revolve around sexuality. I’m telling you once you live and come outside it really is nice. The fresh air is quite refreshing.
First of all, it's about gender, not sexuality. Second, then why do _you_ make your life revolve around commenting hateful things on videos that aren't intended for you? Maybe _you_ should go touch grass instead. Third, we don't make our life revolve around gender or sexuality. But when you're trans, it automatically becomes an important part of your life. You don't know what gender dysphoria feels like so you don't understand, and you don't need to. Another reason why it becomes an important part of our lives is due to the amount of hate we get from people like you.
@@HelloHamburger she’s a biological woman. Sex is biological aka gender. Female. So yes, sex does equal gender. If she doesn’t menstruate than that’s a whole other story on why she doesn’t. Biological women have periods monthly. Why are you questioning a fact? Seriously though…why are you siding with these people? They need a mental evaluation and help. Stay grounded.
@@francorodrigodequentinoS€x is what you were assigned at birth: male, female or intersex of any variation. Gender is mostly understood as a social construct, as a set of human-made ideas, to indicate the personal identity and social role of the individual in relation to masculinity and femininity. The gender of an individual means to what extent a given person feels he is a man or a woman, which gender is attributed to someone by the environment and what behavior and character traits are therefore expected them. Gender can only mean the gender identity of an individual or only gender stereotypes and roles. It's simply about how you want them to call you and refer to you in society or in general, that's also how you express yourself, maybe how you behave, etc., etc. Interesting... Whenever it's a topic that people like you don't like, everyone suddenly becomes an expert on everything. With veganism, nutritionists, I've even seen those who suddenly become lawyers, and when it comes to topics about the rights of transgender people and LGBT+ in general, all of a sudden (out of nowhere) there are psychologists and biologists (without really caring, and without ever really caring, it's just that suddenly biology is terribly important to you and you have a weird need to interfere to the lives of others, whose lives you don't live, only yours is so boring that you want to see the suffering of others for entertainment) and the only truth is that you simply do not like these people and do not wish them well. Apparently, according to you, a cis woman stops being a woman at menopause.
@@Sillygoobers580 An intersex or hermaphrodite person is not a new sex. They are very rare, although their numbers today are being greatly exaggerated. A smaller than average penis does not make one intersex. Most are slight birth defects where their sex is readily apparent and can be surgically corrected. There has never been an intersex or hermaphrodite person who could impregnate themselves. They are either predominantly male or female depending upon the number and degree of abnormality.
@@Sillygoobers580 isn't intersex a mutation, not an actual sex? Also, (correct me if I'm wrong) but from what I've heard, being intersex isn't one thing. Isn't there kind of a variation to it?
It's just words, really. Meaningless words that they use to fill a meaningless life. Still, they'll have something real to worry about soon, when a loaf of bread is $10 and you can only get water for 10 minutes every day. Maybe then all this nonsense will dissappear.
Non binary people aren't new, if you would bother to take just 2 minutes to inform yourself you'd realize that, but I guess thing like this are just too nuanced for some people
I think I got it figured out. We used to obsess over music and musicians. But todays music is so bad that now young people obsess over all kinds of odd things. I have a suggestion. Get out some Beatles and Rolling Stone albums and listen to all of them and obsess over them and stop thinking about gender.
@@Lance.Gardenhire nope I’m non binary =] (and yes you can get surgery 🙄 (I wnat surgery to get my b👀bs removed can you do anything about that no! I will not go as a female I go as non binary
Having a different personality isn't a gender, you can be a boy and be femine or be a girl and be masculine people put too much importance on labels these days
People have always put too much importance on labels, why is this any difference? Just because someone doesn't identify as strictly male or female shouldn't mean they have to do what a woman does or what a man does if they don't want to. If someone if more comfortable with being genderfluid, trans or a different gender, let them. Just being a man or woman doesn't work for everyone
You said you "don't connect with womanhood or manhood," so can you define what a woman and a man actually are? And don't just say a person who identifies as one because that's not telling me what they are actually identifying as.
No one can really answer this question. Manhood and womanhood means different things to different people. It all depends on who/what you relate to and feel at home with and who/what you don’t
@@djjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj A piece of furniture with a flat base and poles, called legs, to support the base, meant for one person to sit on. There you go. Now, can you define what a woman or man is? That is, without contradicting the left's own logic.
@@zacharyswan4927 In nature, there is a species of mushroom with almost 30,000 distinct sexes. Of course, we are not mushrooms, but I just wanted to point that out. There are also more than 2 chromosomal sexes in humans, but I see many people like you outright refuse to believe that as a fact. Also, according to studies, the physical and neurological brain structure of trans people more closely resemble that of the gender they identify as rather than the gender they were assigned at birth. There were also some people that had brain structures different than either men or women, proving that non-binary people exist.
@@30000beesinatrenchcoat Having an extra X chromosome or two isn't a different sex. A lot of these "transgender brain studies" will not control for sexual orientation, or be restricted to those on hormones or homosexual transitioners. There was one study by Savic of nonhomosexual males seeking to "transition to female" but not on hormones yet, it found their brains were masculine, not feminine. Plus even if a male did have a more feminine brain it wouldn't make him woman, just like if he were only 5 feet tall it wouldn't make him a woman either.
@@SeaBreeze-w9999 Even still that doesn't matter. You can believe what you want, but you'll never get to truly experience what it's like to be trans. It's not right to pass judgement on something you couldn't ever 100 percent understand.
i might be genderfluid idk 😓 I’ve identified as a girl my entire life, but I’m starting to like the title “boy” more, but I also don’t feel like I’m a boy. i don’t want to be a man and I cringe when I hear someone call me a girl so like?? help me please
Yeah basically the same thing with me. I'd say that you might be agender then as I read your comment. I was born male but half of my life I was identifying myself as a transgender which felt (not) right at sometimes. I think I'm more like genderfluid too
@@FrostNapCat i figured it out, I’m definitely genderfluid. i only didn’t associate myself with “man” since it’s associated with masculinity n i amm nott but then I remembered that femboys exist so yay cool 👍
I strongly agree. Women are women whether you like sports or fashion, wear suits or skirts, or date women or men. You don’t need to label yourself some neogender nonsense in order to be yourself.
@@drooooop you're exactly right, it's refreshing to see that there are still lots of people who see the incoherence in it. i thought a big part of the woke movement was that men and women are "breaking out of the gender stereotypes" that have always existed for us depending on what culture we were raised in. there's no one way to be a man, and no one way to be a woman. and i think that's beautiful- we should have that freedom to the extent of self expression. but introducing this non-binary ideology is destroying all of that, and making everyone confused. i truly don't understand why we have arrived here. there are only two genders, period, and those two can already be so fluid in themselves.
@@theceoofeggmansempire5214 i never said sex and gender are the same, I just said there are only men and women. And you’re right, I forgot to include intersex people about intersex people, it still feels like they are only valid nonbinary people because otherwise it doesn’t really make sense. But then again anyone can transition so who am I to say. An example that I think is a bit iffy is, when a woman-presenting female calls themselves nonbinary when they are a straight up woman and made no changes whatsoever but then get mad when people call them she. That’s when it gets dumb imo.
I'm still figuring my gender out but I don't think I'm gendeffluid, I feel like demigirl or nonbinary but not male that much. I do wanna be a boy sometimes but I dunno.
It’s difficult to say because non binary is kind of an umbrella term which encompass a lot of terms, but technically, being genderfluid mean you’re not just a men or just a woman soo, yes you ca be non binary while being genderfluid
Why do you think that your feelings about yourself are that important? Who cares? There are 700,000,000 people living in poverty. That might be worth thinking about.
What you feel, and what you are are two completely different things. I can’t imagine what it feels like to constantly think about what I identify as and express it to the public. I can’t imagine being that self absorbed.
I go by nonbinary. I just don't particularly feel anything either way and don't feel a need to tick any boxes at all. All these folks getting worked up about what people decide to call themselves really cracks me up as if they don't have anything better to do. Maybe they don't? 😂
These boxes are stereotypes, they are IDEAS of womanhood and manhood. And these ideas are detached from reality. No man or woman made of flesh and blood fits perfectly into them. You don't have to fit in any of these boxes because you are real, you are not an idea. What you feel is normal.
actually you crack me up because you think you are special for thinking you havent checked any boxes because you created your own in this delusion that it makes you special for not being the norm.
@@danjones6702 I mean, feel free to be cracked up! I din't feel particularly special. I say nonbinary because that's the general term for not really leaning one way or another. I don't really care what I'm called as long as I know people are referring to me!
@@sociallyundead419 this terminology seems strange to me. I'm a woman, and I don't "lean into" it. I don't have to do that. Besides, the definition of femininity changed through time, it looks very different in different cultures. That's because it is a social expression of being a woman. And once again I tell you that these are customs, stereotypes. It's absolutely possible to be a woman and to be not following stereotypes about womanhood.
be so fr, kids dont only think about themselves. clearly you are uneducated about then and you mifht need to surround yourself with soem kids more often. plus you probably just turned 26 si now u think you csn h8 on everyone whos younger than you. thats crazyy 💀
Your gender is in your pants. You're sexuality can be whatever. But gender like politcal partys there is only 2 and you don't get to choose. Facts need to matter.
@@Hiro.Lee.tanaka unless you're a hermaphrodite there is no such thing as binary. It's a fictional constrict. You can be bisexual. But not bigendered. When the doctor at your birth proclaimed your gender thru examining genitalia. It was proclaimed correctly.
Everyone feels genderless. If you ask anyone "do you feel like a man or woman?" Everyone will say they just feel like "themselves". This is the human experience. I am a woman but I often feel masculine in many circumstances. When I analyzed this masculine aspect of my personality, I discovered I was emulating my dad and other male role models. This is very common and people just don't think to share this phenomenon. It's only when people ruminate on it that they start to think they're in the wrong body. There is no need to overthink it and take everyone you know on a rollercoster ride while you discover yourself.
Non binary people have existed since a really long time, some indigenous tribes recognized non binary or third genders, I understand it feels dumb if you're ignorant in the matter, I was in the same camp not too long ago, but I informed myself, I learned, you can't just decide to ignore the existence of a group of people just because you don't understand them
@@repoyo8685 i don't care to understand them because they are literally forcing their rubbish onto people. Girls can't even use toilets in school without having a trans join them. Sorry, but not entertaining that.
@@repoyo8685 I'm not going to have sleepless nights over what you think of me. My opinion is what the majority think and feel. We're just forced to keep silent.
Live and let live! If identifying as non-binary suits you well, go ahead! It's your body and your life, nobody but you should have a say in what you do with it. Personally, I'm much happier not worrying about exactly what box I fit in and rather expressing myself however I please, to be perceived by others according to their views of gender and sexuality.
@@SeaBreeze-w9999 Correct. Your right to free speech does not end where someone else's feelings begin. That said, the "golden rule" still applies, and if you go about your life treating trans people poorly, don't be surprised when said trans people don't think favorably of you.
This is the most understandable video I've seen so far on non binary people. I always have a hard time understanding nb because of the whole trans part and the debate of whether you need dysphoria or not to be nb, a lot of young cis people self IDing with different pronouns as a trend, and me not being able to understand how gender fluidity works. ❤
