Moral lesson: get to know that person in personal way by asking personal questions gradually. Also helps if you both go thru significant events together
The best way to make a friend is to spend a lot of time together doing activities. That’s why it’s easy to become friends with a classmate who sits next to you every day vs. someone you rarely spend time with. And I think you should really open up about yourself and say things about yourself first before you ask them personal questions
Yeah but,the good people i see who are like me and we even talk together alot has other friends to talk & our teachers just changed our places and my partner is a lil awkward
it feels like my friends arent even my friends. i mean its not awkward, or atleast on my end. ill ask a question, and they answer, but it normally doesnt even last long enough, and it feels as if im interviewing them.
A big piece of information missing here is that you need to share information about your personal life with them as well. They are not going to open up unless you do.
When you ask them a question then make sure you stick to that topic for few moments thats how you do it if you asked question and they replied and you are ready to ask another question then it will become stress conversation You cant just directly ask them personal questions Lets say If you met this person at gym now context is gym make sure you talk about gym if hes really engaging and you feel the vibe then ask them what they do and stick to the that question
I met a coworker about 4 months ago. We started out just casual talking and I’ve noticed we’ve started talking about our upbringings, how we were raised, where we’re from, etc. I check up on him whenever I notice him having a bad day. I remember he went on vacation for 2 weeks and I didn’t see him on the week he came back. Thought he went on vacation for 3 weeks. When eventually I did see him he looked upset and ignored me. Saw him again and he waved from a far but didn’t say anything. I went into his room and he somewhat indirectly said he was upset we didn’t cross paths the 1st week he came back. He and I call each other “brother” / “bro”. He’s a cool dude. Sometimes I hear ppl call him things or talk about him but I don’t involve myself in that. Lately he’s been a bit “off” again and I can’t figure out what it is
@@GamingLegendsGG I think with additional time getting to know him, he kinda has a “little kid” mentality. Somewhat of an ego that needs to be fed. He needs to be spoken to and given attention. If he doesn’t receive it, it upsets him. He’s a good person at heart. I care about him. But his demeanor is like a child at times.
Right it just seems kinda weird to put of the blue ask personal questions. Idk I think people would just find it weird and wouldn’t want to be your friend then
nah you have to be like “do you have any siblings??? you seem like an only child🤣🤣” make it funny then something like “I don’t know why but i feel like you’re the type of person who doesn’t know how to swim” then yeah
I wanna become friends with someone who has catched my eye, but he always goes with 4 other friends of his, I've started working together with him and 1 of his friends in a group project at university. But is still very difficult and almost impossible to approach him alone. And I don't want that the rest of either groups (his friends or the project group) really notice that I have a preference for him above the rest. How would you handle the situation? P.s. I don't have any romantic interest for him and I barely know him but since we've started the project, I've started liking him more and I really wanna know more about him and become friends with him.
It's great that you want to be friends! You can try initiating casual conversations within the group project, then gradually find opportunities to chat individually. Maybe suggest grabbing a coffee or discussing project details. Keep it natural and inclusive, so it doesn't raise suspicions. Building connections takes time, and your genuine interest in getting to know him will likely shine through.
I really really like this boy like I've never felt this way about anyone but I'm not even friends with him I mean he's in my friend group but he dosent really talk to me but I all wnat is to be friends with him like that's all I ask for I just want to talk to him
@Seraphic Chic I honestly don't even remember. We progressed really fast and ended up dating about a month after I posted it. It happened so fast that it's hard to recollect
Hi someone please help and advice me as soon as possible, I am a boy and am 16 and 17 this year. I have not had true best friends actually in life and now I swam to have got close to 4 best friends(1 boy and 3 girls) who on their own are 4 best friends. I love them sooo sooo much and they mean a damn lot to me. Sometimes I feel as though I love them more than my own sibling. I want to be more included in their lives but although they do make me feel included that is really rare and they get along themselves much more readily..and I really love 2 of those friends (1 boy and 1 girl)really very much and I feel I never get that love back. Because I sometimes get really short replies for long messages I send saying how I feel. I love them as friends(not with the intention of having a crush or forming relationships). I feel very sad. Someone pls help me
I'm amazed by the quality of this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and it was a revelation. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Hi guys, nice to meet here on youtube. First if all, let me introduce myself. Im sir irfan from indonesia. Im a teacher of english. Im so much eager to make close friendship with those of english speaking country. I hope you would respond me guys. With love. Sir irfan, indonesia, asia continent..😊
I'm gonna try this on my friend lara last year we were very close and she used to stand up for me this year she made other friends and is awkward with me
is it bad that my best friend ashley me and her became best friends after two seconds same thing happend with mckenzie we didnt start off as friends we were best friends
Then play "Never Say Never" by Romeo Void at the end of the 45 min interview and ask them where the song makes their mind wander in respects to the newly struck close friendship... 🤣😎😉
