Lao Tzu says "Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” We hope that you enjoyed this video and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using ancient philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thanks so much for watching.
I’m not doing that for you but it’s just like the whole way of you being so I just want you to feel bad about that and I’m just being honest about that and not doing that you want me to be in the world of what time is the best for him so he doesn’t 😊
@@drin_237 I entered her channel and saw that she takes content from other platforms and from other people and presents it as her own. She literally quotes famous people and plays the role of an enlightened guru.
“Simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures. Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being. Patient with both friends and enemies, you accord with the way things are. Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.” ― Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
Loving myself comes down to how disciplined I am (self trust) and not what I do but why I do it. I do things for good reasons without expectation, I only share love, i never give it away. If I don't keep some, I am unable to truly love. I can adore, desire, lust or long for, but i can't love if I am incomplete in loving myself. I am scared of losing noone because I am comfortable with myself. I am in good company when I am alone. I don't need applause, nor do I need to talk about myself. I learn more from listening and feel even better about myself when I do which allows me to share even more love. I self cultivate love and share it with people who are like minded. I am not afraid to tell people no and I love toxic people from afar. I don't judge them, but i dont allow them to manipulate my energy not cause I don't have compassion for them, but because my love travels much farther with others who are willing to share it as well
Wow, well said.. I need to work on this.. I haven't really heard self discipline as a way to love yourself. You mentioned self trust and that is something I definitely don't have. Thanks for the insight
@@0ijm3409fiwrekj if I have only one piece of fruit and I give it to you, you look at me with distrust and do not want to take it, if u do take it, i go hungry and I seek from others to fill the void. If I make sure I have two pieces before I give one away. I am sharing my love. One for myself and one for you.
@lostandfound3999 Watching Videos with Joe Dispenza, Eckhart Tolle, or Peter Crone may help. You can find audio books for the first 2 at libraries. Peter Crone's book hasn't come out yet. He easier to understand though. Lots of videos and podcasts of all 3, I believe.
my younger brother studied Lao Tsu and he put me on to the teachings and i must say this shit is profound wisdom that works in all areas of life..i wanna say thanks to my bro ,and thanks for making this video g..peace!
As a song says, learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all. Self-love is not selfishness but rather a requirement to learn how to love others with compassion and understanding. It is a reflection of how you value yourself. Thanks as always, Philosophies for Life. Your channel and videos deserve more subscribers.
Read many ancient Roman & Chinese philosophy to help meditate & find myself, to be honest, Lao Tzu's words, really make most senses to me in life, so simple & enlightening & relatable, even after thousands of years... amazing!
How do you prepare for tackling unpredictable danger?! I m suffering from anxiety problem, I really enjoy the nature but I have so much fear to leave my home…
@@recuerdos2457 it sounds like you get more anxiety than me, but i just try to let go of it and trust the world, accepting the possibility of danger. we hvae to accept this every day. you're probably more likely to react appropriately to danger if you're calm and alert. at the end of the day, no matter how many fearful plans and thoughts you have, 99.9% of what you think about doesn't even happen, and when that 0.1% does happen, you probably react in a totally different way to what you imagined in your anxious thoughts anyway, so it's pointless. use common sense and don't go to dangerous places and you'll be fine just like all the other people who go there. trust yourself. besides, if you have a plan for something bad happening, you have a way to respond, so don't worry anymore! i know it's not that simple though ahahahaha. here is what works for me: take small steps and go out for short periods and build up from there, spending longer outside each time if you can and seeing if you can practise trusting the world around you, maybe seeing if you can just shift your attention away from your thoughts and into whatever stuff is around you, something in your senses - each time your attention wanders into thoughts or anxiety and you notice this, just gently move your attention back to whatever sensation you were focussing on before. this is all totally okay. ensure your breathing is slow, deep and controlled as this will help you stay calmer and more relaxed. hopefully with all of this you'll slowly begin to train yourself that it's okay to be outside and you aren't always in danger. unfortunately the only way out of this problem is by going right through it. i can only advise you with what's worked for me but i hope it helps
I've always struggled with self love and not knowing my own strengths or what counts as a strength. I just don't how to get started and I've been trying to find help or inspiration from these kind of videos.
You practically described my life around 3:40… I was able at 36 years old to change the flow of my river back to my original self. I was even considered successful in my previous field
This is inspiring. I’m 36 now and in the midst of a massive career change that is aligned with my soul and what I feel is my life’s purpose: Dogs. Ha! It makes me giddy just typing it. Life is short- happiness and giving your self through service is what we came here to do. 🤍 Thanks for posting this. It’s like an affirmation at the right time .
Thank you for explaining it.i never actually understood what it actually was.was always thinking it was about looking after yourself via exercise for some stupid reason.ive been told I need to practice self love.i just hope I haven't lost the my love(my woman) because of it and hope it isn't too late🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
You are on the right path. Your relationship will stand up to your changes if it’s meant to be. That may be hard to accept now but as you grow in your self love, that and more will be apparent. Love yourself first and everything else and you will align with what’s meant to be, for your higher good. Much love ❤
Then stop telling them. Stop telling everyone anything about yourself. You only need to talk yourself into better thoughts and better perspectives. You are the most important person in your life
that's all good and well to not compare and devalue yourself when seeing more successful people, but those more successful people certainly do judge those they deem "less successful" and treat them with disrespect
But you have the ability, the power to not let it bother you. To choose to not react or to look inside , draw strength from these teachings and move on. It’s not easy but it’s possible.
@@alanmurchie7330 I was talking about the double standard, that those "less" successful are supposed to change themselves whereas those "more" successful don't have to do anything
Buddhism's esoteric traditions add an extra layer of mystique to this already enigmatic religion. It's a world of hidden knowledge waiting to be unlocked.
Just wanna say this is the most digestible tao ☯️ cliff notes one can share with skeptical materialists. PS Check out "Kototama " chanting as taught by Masahilo Nakozono
Sir, please make a video series on Advait Vedant philosophy also known as non-dualistic philosophy. The vedant teachers extreme level of self-introspection and critical self-analysis. For reference you can go for Philosopher Adi Shankaracharya literature and 'Vedant' written by Prashant tripathi (Acharya prashant). You can also go for your own reference.
I agree with and appreciate this video from a conceptual level. However it is naive in the extreme to think that you can move into the artist community without worrying about their approval. Today, that community would tell you what words you can use, what thoughts you can have, and how you can express your art without "harming" anyone. The real answer is do what you do, be grateful, don't worry about what others think, but keep your mouth shut.
This would be much more effective without the AI Bot-voice. I'm sure Lao tsu would concur h who espoused embracing your natural state. Kindly do this again putting some humanity into it.
It's a bit hard to listen and comprehend while you emphasize each word. Maybe that's only me struggling but consider changing your pace and manner of speaking 🙃
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Basically why he tells us to embrace our true nature is, that puts us in a state of stability and peace, and gives us ability to think and act calmly which is the best course of action.
