Thanks so much Dr. Joe, I finally know how to approach my husband & what to say that will, hopefully, get him to agree to attend y'all's workshop. Since, he knows that I am already in Individual Therapy to work on myself, your suggestion will help me start the discussion, again. Because, all the times before I always ended up losing my emotional control & started in with Push Behaviors by being accusatory & bringing up all his affairs (both emotional & physical). We have been together for 18 & 1/2 years, I love him very much & I don't want to lose him, but I refuse to keep living like this. If we end up having to go ahead with the Divorce, I (for my own emotional need & well-being) want to know that I did give it my by shot & exhausted every single avenue available.
I was actually very happy that you posted a video about something like this because I am in this exact situation and so are many others. However, I am incredibly dissapointed in your advice for this woman. Pretty much it was like, "talk to our coaches". If possible, maybe making a seperate video about this kind of situation would be helpful.
Thank you for that feedback Christine! We will add this to the list of future video topics to film! Sometimes it requires a coach to hash through all the details first before we can give sound advice. If we can help you, don't hesitate to reach out to us. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
