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Arguments are unavoidable. However, you can go into one knowing you have a good chance of making your point when you are armed with this advice.
Produced by Justin Gmoser. Narrated by Graham Flanagan.
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@romaniangamer1
@romaniangamer1 8 лет назад
This does not work with idiots, it never does.
@Xocists
@Xocists 7 лет назад
I'm not sure it works on anyone. As the video said, the logic part of people's brains shuts down when they have an argument. Basically, the act of arguing turns you into an idiot. The problem is that most people see argument-induced idiocy as something that happens to other people; never see it as happening to themselves. In fact, most people seem to present themselves as a rare gem of complete rationality in an ocean of bullshit. Just look at the people in the comments section being all "this doesn't work on liberals/sjws/feminists/women/anyone i disagree with/anyone who isn't as special as me." And they wonder why they don't win more arguments when they have such a condescending attitude like that.
@vixencreatives5450
@vixencreatives5450 7 лет назад
If anything can convince an idiot is these emotional tactics.
@Justwantahover
@Justwantahover 6 лет назад
+Bob McBob Why should attitude make any difference to what is true? What about HARD EVIDENCE? Shouldn't that work (no matter what)? That is if we are really talking about being rational. So my forceful attitude is going to make you disagree, is it? I'm angry cos people IGNORE evidence so they can support their agenda (e.g. creationism and flat earth sickness). If I'm angry and still present hard evidence how could that make any difference? Has my rationality broken down when I can present evidence?
@bobertjoe7869
@bobertjoe7869 6 лет назад
Never argue with idiots.
@alwayslookingatself
@alwayslookingatself 4 года назад
@@Xocists Arguing makes everyone an idiot is so true, I don't think I've ever seen a debate change someones opinion. It seems understanding with bits of arguing over time can shift a persons opinion on issues. Daryl Davis's methods of converting KKK members is pretty impressive.
@OscarLT321
@OscarLT321 8 лет назад
People usually think they win an argument because they talk louder or interrupt more, while I usually use more facts and use more logic. Stupid people always do that
@ericlimon1139
@ericlimon1139 8 лет назад
shut the fuck up
@Kiyomi123Gaming
@Kiyomi123Gaming 8 лет назад
Oscar Exactly. I love arguing with people who actually present even more logic than my argument (really hard to find). But I hate arguing with people who are uneducated about a topic and argue with emotion rather than logic (99% of people)
@ericlimon1139
@ericlimon1139 8 лет назад
k night :)
@quickly4702
@quickly4702 8 лет назад
SHUT UP OSCAR I'M RIGHT AND YOU KNOW IT
@kellyhe3012
@kellyhe3012 7 лет назад
+Kiyomi 99.999999999999999999999999999% of people
@7camscdan249
@7camscdan249 8 лет назад
To win an argument, you have to go into FACT mode.. Fast, accurate, concise and true..
@josephmewett6489
@josephmewett6489 8 лет назад
Turn into vsauce
@catsexual3412
@catsexual3412 8 лет назад
and if I am against a hardcore theist?
@eomdri
@eomdri 7 лет назад
Well then you're someone who argues about religion on the internet. You're a bit too far gone.
@saltymonke3682
@saltymonke3682 7 лет назад
try that to a woman, you'll lose before you even start it, lol
@wattlebough
@wattlebough 7 лет назад
Camaro Troy My facts are better than your facts. I win.
@99batran
@99batran 8 лет назад
The best strategy in an argument is to focus to bring down each of the person's points, not assert your own.
@Sourwhatup
@Sourwhatup 8 лет назад
It says the best way to win an argument, not to come to terms and make up.
@99batran
@99batran 8 лет назад
Sourwhatup I never said that... you sure you are responding to the right comment?
@edwardan2473
@edwardan2473 8 лет назад
What if u are trying to win an argument when you are arguing with an unintelligent person?
@evancabralsilva93
@evancabralsilva93 8 лет назад
Like a creatard?
@edwardan2473
@edwardan2473 8 лет назад
Evan Cabral Silva Just normal people, I guess; but unintelligent.
@DeathProfessor
@DeathProfessor 8 лет назад
No like an atheist that believes and explosion created intelligent life. lol fucking *retards*
@morthim
@morthim 8 лет назад
that is when this advice works
@hharvv4245
@hharvv4245 8 лет назад
"No like an atheist that believes and explosion created intelligent life. lol fucking retards" Clearly you do not understand the 'big bang theory'. This was a probably theory of increasingly high molecular movement of which their electrons eventually collided, creating an ATOMic collision (hense the name). This collision gave out billions and trillions of electrons involved in the previous atoms, creating new elements. Through evolution and adaption over trillions of years it is believed that galaxies and planets etc. were created. And by the way I could testify your belief in some upheld God (Giant man-force) watching above us his every second, "who created everything! Rainbows and clouds! Nothing is Scientific! He will save us haha!!!"
@Lason249
@Lason249 9 лет назад
Using the Socratic method pisses a lot of people off
@petersepall2590
@petersepall2590 9 лет назад
+Demosthenes Theofanopoulos Using logic pisses a lot of people off.
@lochlannkingz5279
@lochlannkingz5279 8 лет назад
noted
@kellyhe3012
@kellyhe3012 7 лет назад
using facts pisses a lot of people off
@Kamel419
@Kamel419 7 лет назад
so when you say "a lot of people", who specifically are you referring to? exactly how pissed off do they become? do other methods cause these same people to be pissed off? is the difference in anger between the socratic method and other methods measurable?
@petersepall2590
@petersepall2590 7 лет назад
Could you rephrase that?
@AbelSosa-r9u
@AbelSosa-r9u 8 лет назад
i just cover my ears and go "lalalalalalala i can't hear you", it's worked miracles for me😀
@stevenchan6739
@stevenchan6739 7 лет назад
lalalalalala i can't see you, comment
@smellslikeblackberries5355
@smellslikeblackberries5355 7 лет назад
Steven Chan *your
@stevenchan6739
@stevenchan6739 7 лет назад
+Smells like Blackberries Nice try correcting me,but you should've known that I _put_ a coma before the word " comment " So, * you,
@stevenchan6739
@stevenchan6739 7 лет назад
And I didn't edit that,if you're wondering
@smellslikeblackberries5355
@smellslikeblackberries5355 7 лет назад
Lower case i
@VezzyPHD
@VezzyPHD 9 лет назад
fake... these things don't work when arguing with a girlfriend
@carterito
@carterito 9 лет назад
+vezzyPHD they should change the tittle to: how to win anargument WITH MEN
@JayVeeDee
@JayVeeDee 8 лет назад
+cesar malabrigo mujica Or reasonable people
@yendothegamer6477
@yendothegamer6477 8 лет назад
+Cameron Dumont is*
@yendothegamer6477
@yendothegamer6477 8 лет назад
Well obviously you do if you took the time to reply to me
@tatep17
@tatep17 8 лет назад
yeah...if you have one.
@ch1ll1add.25
@ch1ll1add.25 8 лет назад
Wrong. My dog keeps bitching why I didn't gave him chicken.
@mason1447
@mason1447 5 лет назад
the reason i think arguing on the internet is easier than arguing in real life is because you have time to process the information and come up with a counter-argument due to the time you have. when you argue in real life, you have to come up with a defence and process it all within like 4 seconds.
@the747isnotdead6
@the747isnotdead6 3 года назад
yeah i always think of counter-arguments like 2 weeks later in the shower thinking "oh man i should've said that"
@ChaosBW
@ChaosBW 8 лет назад
To win an argument, you have to go into "IAR" mode, "I'm Always Right". No matter what you or your opponent says, just keep repeating yourself, until your opponent gives up and leaves, or attacks you in a physical rage. Congratulations, as far as you are aware, you have won this argument.
@growingupvlogs1480
@growingupvlogs1480 4 года назад
Lol the 3 argument tenchique's I go for is: Ignore / saying: "k" Acting like a genius while talking to them (idk why it works but it does.) Giving them facts.
@jestemgraczem
@jestemgraczem 8 лет назад
What this video is referring to is called "Eristic" and it's NOT about "truth" and "evidence" how you stated. It's simply about convincing the other side to your point of view, regardless of the actual facts. For example you can win on a dispute over whether Stalinism is the best social-economic system, despite of being a totalitarian nightmare, just with use of Eristic. It's really about manipulation and in bad hands is quite dangerous.
@solomonnissan6226
@solomonnissan6226 5 лет назад
This video show how a liberal debates no facts all bullshit
@tobris3738
@tobris3738 3 года назад
It's hard to win an argument with a smart person, but it's damn near impossible to win an argument against a stupid person. -Bill Murray
@sudokuacrobatics
@sudokuacrobatics Год назад
You can win an argument with a stupid person, just give them an amateur stomach surgery with your fists and try to wake them up with the poke flute when they're down
@HollowInn
@HollowInn 7 лет назад
This video is not about arguments, logical structures, or philosophy. This video is about verbal confrontations on a social level. There is no "me, or you" in philosophical arguments. Philosophical arguments are analytical and are presented in 3rd person. There is also no "winning" or losing" to be had when discovering a truth that is independent of any thinker. If there is a vocabulary in which the speakers/writers are forced to use 1st, and 2nd person narratives, they are not engaged in philosophical argument-driven debate. It's merely bickering.
@skyyyizzle
@skyyyizzle 8 лет назад
nothing works against a stubborn mother. nothing.
@emrecanguner4344
@emrecanguner4344 8 лет назад
What does youre mom do?
@MyArtsProduction
@MyArtsProduction 8 лет назад
Emre Can Güner ''Socratic method''
@JustinLaieatsbacon
@JustinLaieatsbacon 7 лет назад
Emre Can Güner "SHUT UP AND GET TO IT"
@mattbot5167
@mattbot5167 4 года назад
If you try to win an argument then just walk away. Saves time and lives!
@Bebsiman
@Bebsiman 8 лет назад
if you wanna win an argumant u need a gun
@Harshit-vu6ky
@Harshit-vu6ky 4 года назад
I carry cannonball
@yoboi9504
@yoboi9504 2 года назад
I carry full enchanted netherite, end crystals, Bow with harming 2 arrows, a super shotgun, m16, and send in the Freddy fazbear
@BILLBENMOSES
@BILLBENMOSES 8 лет назад
this works only in (man VS man)
@akaka6377
@akaka6377 7 лет назад
or with normal women, not feminists...
@futurestoryteller
@futurestoryteller 7 лет назад
Sure, nothing irrational about either of these statements...
@nutsky420
@nutsky420 7 лет назад
Socrates... The original troll!
@crossfire7474
@crossfire7474 8 лет назад
The only way to win the argument is to avoid arguing in the first place.
@mdallday107
@mdallday107 7 лет назад
I used all of these methods and didn't even know that some philosopher said it thousands of years ago. I guess great minds do think alike lol
@JAMes-vc6gd
@JAMes-vc6gd 4 года назад
*Salesman has entered the chat* *Lawyer has entered the chat*
@thecommentpeople
@thecommentpeople 8 лет назад
that's right all you have to do is ask your opponent a loaded question and piss them off!!! good idea!!!
@ZzLeVo
@ZzLeVo 8 лет назад
ASK TARGETED QUESTIONS, SOCRATIC METHOD: HUGH MUNGUS WOT?
@SeanArcherXXX
@SeanArcherXXX 8 лет назад
You've clearly not met my wife...
@bradsuarez2683
@bradsuarez2683 7 лет назад
Sean Archer just tell her to stfu.
@mattbot5167
@mattbot5167 4 года назад
You ain’t got one that’s why
@raquel_era_lei_4930
@raquel_era_lei_4930 3 года назад
No shit lol. Not one bit of that would work on me either. Bad advice for anyone who wants to win.
@raquel_era_lei_4930
@raquel_era_lei_4930 3 года назад
@@bradsuarez2683 tell yours that. Let us know how that works out for you lol.
@realryan7361
@realryan7361 3 года назад
lol
@h0bost
@h0bost 7 лет назад
how to win any argument: *different people, different opinions*
@futurestoryteller
@futurestoryteller 7 лет назад
That's how you chicken out of having one, not how you win one.
@h0bost
@h0bost 7 лет назад
futurestoryteller \(ッ)/
@Mb-vs3lw
@Mb-vs3lw 7 лет назад
That's the problem, most people aren't qualified, to argue most points
@great567
@great567 7 лет назад
I usually just respond "Can I think about it and get back to you later?"
@teamnovember5594
@teamnovember5594 7 лет назад
Most common arguments are just each side restating their own position because they feel misunderstood. That's why you always hear people saying, "No! but what I'm saying to you is..."
@gdcat777
@gdcat777 7 лет назад
One can't reason with a troll because he or she is there to have the last word. The trick is to make them appear as the idiot by staying calm and never using ad hominem attacks. Also, shortening the answer is best, and never acknowledging their straw men.
@NextGenerationHealth
@NextGenerationHealth 5 месяцев назад
No one ever wins an argument, except in their own mind
@James-uv8hx
@James-uv8hx 7 лет назад
or just use alternative facts
@irinavoicu3412
@irinavoicu3412 6 лет назад
probably the most helpful video I have ever seen
@3eeway
@3eeway 7 лет назад
Aaaaagh i was about to watch this, but when you explain stuff you make it like a school lesson.
@lisamonalisa4260
@lisamonalisa4260 4 года назад
Winning ANY argument is not and should not be the goal of discussion! Only, the stronger argument loosing must be avoided, and some of these suggestions can help.
@oldssaccount990
@oldssaccount990 6 лет назад
The only problem with making those 1 point arguments,(are there more cars), is that it doesn't do any more than prove that point. Getting them to agree on one thing doesn't mean you win the argument. It can also be a way for a person to turn the argument back at you.
@ierfan300
@ierfan300 4 года назад
Just remembered my friend keep on using the socratic method on me
@lagimmediafiles6478
@lagimmediafiles6478 3 года назад
I Love This Channel...
@eboypilled
@eboypilled 7 лет назад
I already did these except the last method in arguments, but people are too stubborn and usually don't care.
@indianetizen
@indianetizen 7 лет назад
nobody wins an argument, because that's what argument is. Debate may.
@yendothegamer6477
@yendothegamer6477 8 лет назад
This way of argueing worked with my girlfriend when she was freaking out for nothing.
@shuga6266
@shuga6266 5 лет назад
Yeah this stuff works half the time, and when it does there is more intensity
@savagehenry7143
@savagehenry7143 8 лет назад
you don't necessarily have to win, you just can't be wrong
@AzuReGravity
@AzuReGravity 7 лет назад
if I know im right, and they not listening i ltierally say "alright" shuts em up everytime
@YoHoOMirster
@YoHoOMirster 8 лет назад
there's only one problem NO ONE EVER GIVES UP.
@passivlyassertive9696
@passivlyassertive9696 7 лет назад
Nah fam, I just hit a fuccboi with that rabbit season duck season shit
@ProMurda
@ProMurda 6 лет назад
ow to win an argument? Simply say "NO U"
@foreverKHHV
@foreverKHHV 4 года назад
Before the meme was relevent tf
@christopher4443
@christopher4443 3 года назад
Ben shapiro: I see no god up here, other than me
@ReRiver_EasHar_NYC
@ReRiver_EasHar_NYC 7 лет назад
This tactic presumes an argument between two rational people. Some (many) people prefer to defend delusion to a hilt.
@afghaaj
@afghaaj 7 лет назад
Why I would argue with someone in the first place? In 99% of situation, topics which start dispute are stupid and irrelevant, and people who are envolved are often undereducates for arguing anything. So, arguing with someone who is stupid about something I don't give a fuck is way below my level. If I really want to argue anything that concerns something that really matters, I do it with someone who is well informed on topic, and those conversations are much more constructive two-way advices, tips or brightminded opinions than plain arguing. At end of the day, for me is much more important that both sides learn something new in issues they are interested in, than to satisfy your small ego by winning meaninless arguing dispute.
@satire9509
@satire9509 8 лет назад
Just say you believe in a magic Pixie. You'll automatically be right every time, because the Pixie in my head says so.
@Soul9Knight
@Soul9Knight 6 лет назад
to win an argument, you should use one or more of the following tricks: . . . 1- "yeah sure, whatever. can i go home now?" it shows that you don't wanna hurt your head by arguing with someone that don't understand shiz. 2- "y'know what? fuck your opinion, okay? now lemme play my games in peace. ugh" 3- just start talking about something random. for example: Person: that's not how you say "pig" in german. it's called "schwein" you: oh by the way, i beat your highest kill count in fortnite! . . . Works for me
@esterak7344
@esterak7344 6 лет назад
This might help you win a moderated debate. An argument cannot be won.
@mitchellcurtis3604
@mitchellcurtis3604 Год назад
The best way to win a argument is to walk away
@HeatyFrog
@HeatyFrog 8 лет назад
"... can cause your opponent to think that THEY are overreacting" But why go to all that trouble when I can just escape on my flying pig?
@Connor-ng1mo
@Connor-ng1mo 7 лет назад
Step 1 : win the argument.
@FRISHR
@FRISHR 6 лет назад
How to win an argument: 1. Look the person in the eye 2. Take off your pants 3. ....... 4. Profit
@voluntarism335
@voluntarism335 7 лет назад
how to win any argument you use FACTS, STATISTICS, REASON ect STATISTICS ALWAYS BEATS PEOPLES OPINIONS
@angus7278
@angus7278 4 года назад
It difficult to argue with conservatives because 1) they have difficulty accepting and understanding new information, and 2) they often must resort to name-calling and insults when facts fail them.
@soniczforever5470
@soniczforever5470 7 лет назад
That explained a lot,
@teamnovember5594
@teamnovember5594 7 лет назад
that "more cars on the road now than there were 50 years ago" strategy is so annoying. Most people use it with some straw-man argument just to get you to agree and miss the larger point.
@FireOccator
@FireOccator 8 лет назад
Step one: be right.
@erickberlang
@erickberlang 8 лет назад
This is an Awesome Video
@tomcanee9625
@tomcanee9625 9 лет назад
or just don't get into an argument
@faereb02
@faereb02 8 лет назад
Hahahaha! Okay. XD
@jerus2608
@jerus2608 6 лет назад
I love this!!!!!
@jashrajsingh9782
@jashrajsingh9782 4 года назад
i haven't seen the video but let me tell you all.......you can't win an argument.
@w41g87
@w41g87 8 лет назад
If two people using this strategy argue with each other, which side will win?
@gravityhook1810
@gravityhook1810 8 лет назад
the one that's actually correct
@JustinLaieatsbacon
@JustinLaieatsbacon 7 лет назад
Philip Jin It'll rarely happen that two people are using this
@l_vwv_l
@l_vwv_l 3 года назад
They really used themself as a source
@Matthew-qy7op
@Matthew-qy7op 7 лет назад
We live in an era of shouting and not much listening.
@n0tlance314
@n0tlance314 7 лет назад
just make something up that has nothing to do with the argument to stump the opponent thats what i do
@GlobalWarmingSkeptic
@GlobalWarmingSkeptic 7 лет назад
Ben Shapiro had another addition to this as well, and that is that you need to first detect if someone is at least open to having their mind changed. None of the methods in this video will work if someone is not open to being convinced by evidence and/or logic. You can do a lot of things with an open person, but there's nothing you can do to make someone open to new ideas.
@DeathProfessor
@DeathProfessor 8 лет назад
Or argue like a liberal and just call your opponent racist and sexist for using statistics, facts, and logic!
@ATiGaming1
@ATiGaming1 8 лет назад
jesus christ you are so boring
@DeathProfessor
@DeathProfessor 8 лет назад
ATiGaming1 You shouldn't talk about Jesus like that!
@griffinrupe
@griffinrupe 8 лет назад
Or you could be like Trump and just say "You are wrong" to everything your opponent says
@The_Skrongler
@The_Skrongler 8 лет назад
Or, more specifically a regressive liberal.
@deeznutz32108
@deeznutz32108 8 лет назад
+Griffin lol
@blubbaditty
@blubbaditty 8 лет назад
There is no way to win an argument on the internet. The best you can hope for is to be the last man standing.
@188metalhead881
@188metalhead881 8 лет назад
Very interesting...
@AbcDef-st6et
@AbcDef-st6et 6 лет назад
How to win an argument: Never get into one...
@internetnomad07
@internetnomad07 Год назад
Twitter tutorial screen 💀
@aspie96
@aspie96 7 лет назад
How to win an argument: 1) Be right.
@Dumb-Comment
@Dumb-Comment 8 лет назад
CHILL! MAYBE YOU CHILL!!! OH OK LET'S GO!!! GET OUTSIDE MAGGOT!!!
@pabstblueribbon7287
@pabstblueribbon7287 6 лет назад
Thanks to denial I always win
@yourfriendkrustin3823
@yourfriendkrustin3823 7 лет назад
What if you go into an argument and your opponent is also using this strategy?
@GlobalWarmingSkeptic
@GlobalWarmingSkeptic 7 лет назад
lol, as a climate change skeptic, if someone were to respond to my skepticism with that car argument, I couldn't help but laugh a little.
@danielgreer7692
@danielgreer7692 6 лет назад
I just try to walk away and if I don't I black out and next thing you know it I end up being more pissed and black out even more so it's best when things like that happens I should be fare away from other people at least till am not pissed no more the best away to win argument is to void trying to have one in the first place but if you got a girlfriend that like to argue all the time then you can't win
@droppingdime619
@droppingdime619 6 лет назад
So in the last technique, it basically suggests creating a false dilemma by asking a red herring rhetorical question. I'm guessing this probably won't work on people capable of critical thinking.
@UpperRobin29
@UpperRobin29 7 лет назад
How to win any argument. - No u
@papercat9911
@papercat9911 4 года назад
It’s hard to win an arguement with a smart person It’s impossible to win an arguement with a stupid person
@destinedtobedifferent9921
@destinedtobedifferent9921 8 лет назад
Shout louder than the other person
@bistay9157
@bistay9157 3 года назад
I have a debate tomorrow wish me luck
@kodyfreeman3034
@kodyfreeman3034 4 года назад
Hello I would like to have a political discussion about legalization of marijuana. So whose it going to be?
@지서현-v3g
@지서현-v3g 7 лет назад
I AM DOING WORLD SCHOLARS CUP TODAY SO SCARED THUMS UP IF I CAN GET THEM
@michaelheeheejackson7255
@michaelheeheejackson7255 7 лет назад
stop endorsing the tories
@DirectX3
@DirectX3 8 лет назад
Just never argue with stupid people because they will drag you to their level. Sounds it comes from Mark Twain.
@cheneyww
@cheneyww 7 лет назад
What you are talking here is dispute not argument. Argumentation is not about win or lose.
@caseysivard4070
@caseysivard4070 6 лет назад
Interesting, but I feel as though maybe purposefully manipulating a situation is a borderline of abusive tendencies. Just an opinion, though.
@aaronbrown8377
@aaronbrown8377 8 лет назад
GO FORTH FEMINISTS! FIGHT WITH MEN OF STRAW!
@KarMa-lx6oq
@KarMa-lx6oq 6 лет назад
Who didn't know this...
@bradsuarez2683
@bradsuarez2683 7 лет назад
Or sneakily use strawman arguments and confuse the shit out f your opponent.
@Username-or9nr
@Username-or9nr 7 лет назад
Pathos,Logos,Ethos
@JustinLaieatsbacon
@JustinLaieatsbacon 7 лет назад
Aw crap, flat earthers watch this
@captainobvious1415
@captainobvious1415 7 лет назад
Trump loyalists need to watch this.
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