Huge huge thank you for everyone's lovely comments. I'm so humbled by the comments and acceptance by Finn's huge 13,000+ FinnFam members. One of the most nerve wracking "Meet The Family Moments" EVER x
Haha! You were amazing babe, I told you, the FinnFam are one very accepting bunch! And your honesty about your thoughts on my being trans, will help many people. Its completely OK, to not know, to feel unsure and to get things wrong. Mistakes are human and are far different to getting things wrong in malicious intent. I love you so much, so of course everyone is going to love you too! xx x x
We could all see that your words came straight (no pun intended) from your heart, and we all saw the way you look at your InFinncible Finn so yeah, we love you! x
I know I'm two years late to the party, but as a trans man still insecure about my masculinity and sexuality, it's really tough to move away from shame and dysphoria when it comes to liking men. This video just put a huge smile on my face, though. Thanks so much for uploading this and showing me that gay trans men exist, and that this kind of relationship is a possibility :) It means a lot
The way you look at each other, it made me smile so much! I'm a trans man as well I hope that one day I'll be able to have such a beautiful relationship like yours ♡
Finn and Furrfurr - Youse have cheered me up end. My mum always says "what's for you, won't go past you" - I can see clear as day you two are a match made in heaven. Love to you both.
Love that saying! Not heard it for years, thanks for reminding me! And thank you, l count my blessings every day! Glad to have cheered you up, much love!
Chris your heart is gold. No comment you made could ever come from a mean place and so I could never hate you. You and Finn are adorable! Love you guys xxx
I clicked 'like' in the first ten seconds - that intro! - and my face now aches from the 18-minute grin. This whole thing was so lush, and the both of you are wonderful. Yes please to more videos with Chris!
Haha! Yes, that was fun to do! So happy to make you smile! Thank you for such lovely comments, we will indeed do another video after all this love for Chris!
Bless you! I think we can all over think it and worry it might not happen for us, but, when you least expect it...bam! Thanks for such a lovely comment!
you guys are flippin adorable, and I laughed right out loud when Chris said "shame they dont have an app for that" :-D So happy for you finn, ive been following you from very early on and its been so amazing to see how youve grown as a person. Chris, thanks for being one darn awesome human! Happy anniversary fellas
Such a bloody lovely comment thank you! I love that you've been following for years, sharing this journey makes it all the more special, thank you so much!
I'm late to this party too, and I'm so pleased for you both. I've only been following Finn for a short time (since being diagnosed with M.E.) but I never would have guessed you are Transgender. All that matters in life is love & happiness ❤❤
You are such a lovely couple! I'm seperated from my girlfriend during lockdown, but afterwards we're finally going to move in together, five years after we first got together, since when she's realised she's a lesbian, and I've realised I'm trans.
Yay, this really has been a long time coming, Chris, if fin loves you..everybody will, ya proper sound, dunna worry. As for language go for it, it would be a good video. Side note I do think folks from our neck of the woods, Chris, have very dry humour and we have quick whit that could be taken the wrong way, it helps to be with people who are like minded.
Yep thats exactly his worry! But, I think people will love him for being honest. Its important that people feel able to get it wrong and learn. Thanks buddy! Much love to you and Gwenie!
@@chriss3420 it happens to me all the time, people don't know if I'm being serious or not, so they don't know wether to laugh or be shocked and saddened at what I just said or implied, but I'm a cheeky bastard and get away with alot of stuff I really shouldn't hahahahahah
@@FinnTheInfinncible honesty is always best, and yeah totally people shouldn't feel scared to get it wrong, unfortunately we do live in an odd society where people take offence at the mildest thing so I do understand the fear, secretly we are all people pleasers we don't like to upset people on purpose, it's a societal issue for sure..life doesn't carry a trigger warning.
You guys are amazing together. I laughed and smiled so much! I would be interested in that video about language! It's always nice to know more about sensitive topics. Sometimes people say something and it never crosses their mind it might be insensitive to someone else. Also what may be inappropriate to one person may be just fine with someone else. Language has always been a fascinating thing! Also...Chris! You are a natural! Do more videos please....and thank you!
Im very glad to make you laugh! And I agree, language is facinating, and often tricky, its good to hear so many people would like the language video as I agree with you that it will be very useful. Thanks for watching and for such a lovely comment!
Awww thanks. We go well together. Language has some many contexts and meanings. Awareness and education are key to conveying the correct meaning. Thanks for your lovely comments x
i'm sooo happy that i randomly found your page today . i'm male trans and also bisexual. the transition was so hard for me ,because of my family and society of my country. until now I only came out as a bisexual for just one person. for me it's to much to take in that i santd up in front of my family one more time and say i like men. to the point that at first i didn't want to belive it and felt ashemed by it. i'm better now and still trying to love and accept myself as who i am more and more. by seeing your videos I felt the confidence that I didn't feel in long time so thank you for that💙
What a lovely comment to find. I am so glad that my video has helped. I can relate to the shame, it was very hard for me to accept myself as gay, as if it made me less of a man and 'not trans enough'. I had to do a lot of work on myself, before I could arrive at a place where I knew that being attracted to men doesnt make us any less male, and of course trans people can be sexually-orientated in all sorts of ways just like cis people. I have a playlist of my own adventurs in this if it helps. Thank you for your lovely comments and absolutely be proud of who you are! ru-vid.com/group/PL-xdbMjLqelK3Pykrp3t6XBBAvgFY9WwF
Oh my Lord, I was grinning from ear to ear throughout this whole video! You two are the cutest!! Isn't it fun to share "How we met" stories? Love to both of you!
Ah I missed this message! yes! We love sharing our how we met story! Apparently, coiples who still share their how we met story excitedly are more likely to stay together.....which makes sense! Love you!
i know this video is a year old now but i wanted to thank you for it. i’m gay and trans and i often worry that i’m not going to be able to find someone who loves me and sees me for who i really am. thanks lad :)
Bless your heart I can understand that as l had the same fears . We are just as loveable and worth of love as the next person my friend. It starts with loving and valuing ourselves and then we naturally attract those that treat us as we deserve 🙏❤
I know it may seem like more of a challenge for you. But I tell everyone be hapoy with yourself, your life and your friends. Enjoy your life anything else is a bonus noy a necessity x
This was so lovely. I remember watching you so giddy with excitement when you guys started dating so was lovely seeing you both chat about it. I look forward to future vids of the two of you! ❤️
Chris is Awesome! No one could ever hate you Chris. You are a true ally, one who is willing to learn and educate. You guys are awesome together, keep doing what you do.
Ah bless thank you. Injustice and prejudice makes my blood boil. To see the Trans Community facing the same injustice and prejudice that I faced when i came out nearly 30 years ago absolutely disgusts me !!!
You two absolutely restore my faith in people. Of all the differences you've had in your lives, it's hard not to believe that you were always meant to end up exactly where you are and it honestly warms my heart to see you both. Some people are just built for each other and there is no couple that is truer for than the paid of you. Beautiful, kind, warm, wonderful humans, I wish you a lifetime of exactly what you have. 💗💗💗
Awh lovely video! You 2 are so cute and funny together! Happy anniversary 🥰 And a video about language would be amazing! Good to link to new friends or partners! (And always just a joy to watch!)
I totally get what you mean by you have no doubt of your masculinity.. when I met my ex boyfriend it was the first time I actually had that lighthouse moment of oh I’m actually a boy now and every ting we did together (behave 🤫) reminded me of that every day! And for that I’m eternally grateful!! P.s... Chris is adorable!!
Yes exactly this! Itsnt it amazing! Seeing ourselves reflected in others is incredible powerful. And yes, he is rather adorable...cheeky....but adorable!
You two are a two lovely gents indeed! Keep these coming. Part of mental health is (if you want to) finding a partner that's right for you, that's shown here wonderfully.
I really liked this video, please do some more together! Anybody can see that both of you just absolutely adore each other and it's so lovely! You are both such genuine, funny, down to earth people and it's so nice to watch you together. I've been doing the online dating thing myself for about six months now, and as another trans man to another, it is really difficult and scary to put yourself out there. I just hope I find somebody one day that will accept me and love me for me, you two really give me hope for the future. Take care both of you x
I completely relate, it is utterly terrifying, and l think as trans people, we also often over think it! But....the risk WILL pay off, there are plenty of people like Chris who dont give a damn about our pasts and just see us as we are! Thank you for such a lovely comment! And we will do more as it seems folks are enjoying it and now Chris is more relaxed!
As a gay cis man I have had plenty of disappointments, let downs etc via the whole online dating process. Remember, we often think after a disappointment that we must have faults in someway. When actually it was either not right or it is the other party that has the fault. Keep going when you least expect it will happen x
You two are the cutest,campest,most lovely,hairy bears on RU-vid.Its obvious from how you look at each other that you are mad about each other.Here's to many more years of FinnFurr xx
Stuck at home during the pandemic and feeling down, this is just what I needed to see. Thank you Finn and Chris! I have been watching you on you tube over the past few years and have really enjoyed seeing Finn's whole journey and then the addition of Chris just made it even better. I am a transman of a similar age who transitioned in my forties and is also coming out as a gay man. I have been nervous about starting to date, and it is really encouraging to see a happy, healthy relationship between a cis and a trans man. It is also great to hear Chris speak with his northern accent! My mother comes from Manchester, and to my American ears Chris's accent sounds the same as my nan. I hope to see of more of you both on you tube and I wish you the best.
Aw that is lovely to read. I thought my accent sounded much stronger on the vid. But Finn tells me tha'ts how Northern I sound !! I wish you all the best with the dating. When its right you'll know. If its wrong head up smile and move on it wasn't meant to be
Happy Anniversary to you both ! There are not enough thumbs up options for how I feel about this. I was feeling a bit down on this, the 3,286,429th day of lockdown and you two have completely brightened my day, thank you!
you two are so wonderful! as a gay trans person it's so rare to be able to see models of happy every-day couples that look like me, so it makes me even happier to see you guys' happiness together ❤
Oh my God, you two are very very very beautiful!!!! You don’t know how much I’m happy to see you so happy!!! Two years....you deserve this big love!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Shoot it´s like match made in heaven. I can see how people would hate you, because they would envy and there´s lots to envy. Everyone can only wish to have a relationship like that. I wish you both all the best and many many more years of happiness.
Love is in abundance, there is more than enough to go around. Healthy relationships are available to everyone! It's all about loving ourselves and owning our worth first, then we attract relationships which honour those values
@@FinnTheInfinncible I still think that you have something pretty special, but I also know that relation like that needs work on both sides and tolerance. If you can wave your hand and say, well, whatever like you do, that´s pretty much it. When I was a little girl, boy or whatever and the other girls wanted to be princes, I wanted to be the knight or a king and have some cute page of his own and I was about 6 at that time. Sadly that did not change, I am the ruler. You both seems to have great sense of humor and you grew a lot like a human during the time you were searching for yourself. I am from post communist country so autism or being different in any other way was not tolerated. It´s still hard and it made me a sour person, but I got circle of "weird" people around and we take each other as we are.
The two of you seem so perfect together thanks for sharing how you met. I love hearing these stories :) perhaps not the most manly thing to say but I'm still getting used to the idea of binary being fiction. I didn't even know trans was a thing till I met my wife and have only transitioned for maybe 2 years? Anyhow you really made my day with this. Thank you
Ah what a lovely thing to say! As for manly.... stereotypes are overrated! Being expressive, showing emotions, thiis isn't less manly, it's just human! No matter what gender we are we should be able and free to express these thoughts and feelings!
You two are just couple goals!!!!!! From that very first date when you got all giggly your eyes got a sparkle that id not seen before. Two years have gone by so quickly. Sending lots of love to you both from GeordieLand! xxx
I really love this video ! I’ve only seen a few of your videos but I’m a 22 year old trans guy (currently single but I matched with a really cute guy on a dating app last week ) and it honestly is so nice seeing and older trans men clearly in love! It’s something I didn’t really think was possible for myself but your videos really make me hopeful for my future and that I can in fact find someone to love me for who I am!
Ah my freind absolutely yes it is possible! I am very glad that my videos have helped you to realise this. I think often, as trans folk, we worry far too much and I have found that people are frequently surprising me on how accepting they are. In early days, I couldnt imagine my body being OK to someone , but now I realise that there are plenty of decent people and the right one wont care about our pasts and wont care how we are configured, they will love us for us! Thanks for watching and for commenting, welcome to the FinnFam! There are some written posts about dating, and other trans/mental health stuff, over on my website finlaygames.com
Been subscribed for donkeys, way back before you even had top surgery. Tuned out of RU-vid for a bit but was lovely to look at this and see how far you’ve come and how happy you are now. Really pleased for you
I love this video, and love hearing you both chat and tell your story of how you met. Chris is always wonderful. He's very charming, humble, thoughtful and has a good heart and a great sense of humour. Yours is one of my favourite channels on youtube Finn Finn. A video on language is a great idea. I think it would be really wonderful to see and also help bring people together, and learn about each other. Much love to you both xxx
Aww thats lovely to hear Michelle. Especially coming from one of longest FinnFam members, Feel like I've passed the Meet the Family test with you folks. Here.s to when we can all meet up in person x
Thanks lovely. I knew he would be well recieved, people have seen enough of his ways on my monthly Finnstalments and understand his humour! He just worries because the northern way is to be very blunt! Weve had so many lovely comments though, and hes now up for a language video!
Omg hi jess here ftm just at the very beginning of my journey so wish I had had access to knowledge and the trans community or I wud have transitioned yrs ago but I am ftm and I am gay .....and people say people r not born this way...lol really yes world I just woke up last week and said hi world I am trans and am gay ...I have a cisgender fiance cant wait to get through the physical part of my transition and just finally be together as the real us thank u so much for sharing ur journey is so similar to mine cute couple by the way 💙
I think a video on language would be really cool and helpful- especially talking about the honest feelings and worries about getting things wrong from the partner's perspective! i've found similar things with my boyfriend, who knew absolutely nothing about anything LGBT (until he met me and realised he wasnt as straight as he thought 😅). i think it's actually very common for partners of trans people to worry far more about seeming like they don't know "enough"- when their trans partner really doesn't care! especially in the initial stages of the relationship, where you've had less time to learn, and you're less comfortable with each other. so it might be really helpful for a cis partner to have an honest chat about that aspect, so that others who are in the same situation can relate and be reassured! (if chris would want to share about that! ❤)
i think it's really helpful for partners to remember; we weren't born knowing those things either! your trans partner is just further on that learning curve than you- but we can remember that we once didn't know those things either!
You are absolutely right. I think it will help so many people. Chris just needed to feel reassured that his honestly would be well recieved which it absolutely has been.....so watch this space!
@@chriss3420 Hahaha! It was you, actually, Chris 🤪 when you described your lightbulb moment with the waiter and being referred to as gents. It echoed experiences with my own family, which I believe have resonated with them in the same way. ❤️
@FinnTheInfinncible and @Furr Furr you two are such a joy to watch, you're both so expressive, open and clearly share an especially beautiful and true love! Thanks for this video, I laughed out loud so many times that I'm surprised that Lamby didn't knock the camera over (he was the camera man right?). Please do more video's together, and yes, one about language too!
Very glad to make you laugh and smile! We are both very expressive and l hadn't really connected that before you said it! Chris was nervous of how he would be recieved....but with so many lovely comments l doubt l will have any issues getting him back in front of the camera! And yes....lamby did the filming set up 😜 Much love!
@@FinnTheInfinncible LOL, I was so focussed on watching you two that - for the first time - I didn't notice Lamby in the background! Sorry Lamby, we'll blame it on all the chemistry flying around between your favourite humans, just this once, okay?
I am so glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! With all these lovely comments, I don't think I will have any issue convincing Chris to do another video!
What a lovely video. A video on language would be very interesting. My boyfriend is a trans man and like you both we have a laugh and a joke in private but I’ve seen some TikTok trans men and women saying “we don’t like this” etc. as if you all know each other. 🙄 I’ve then checked with my man and he laughs it off saying how he cares a lot less about slip ups or interpretations so it’ll be interesting to get your point of view as you seem far more down to earth than some of these TikTik guys and gals.
A late reply to your comment! Yes, we must make a video on this! Language is such a tricky thing, there is public language and private language, and then our own personal choices!
Finn is so right Chris, you don't know everything off the bat, nobody does (honestly I learnt pretty much everything I know about trans* from Finn lol) and no matter what you said FurrFurr we could never hate you because we know it all comes from a place of love not nastiness 💜 this had proper got my heart warmed you pair of beauts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Exaxtly this, mistakes are far different than malicious intent to misuse language. I really think an honest vid will help many people who are afraid to get it wrong. Weve got so much love for this video so I think Chris will be happy to do the language one! Glad to warm your heart! Sending a ton of love!
Beautiful video. Part of me desires to live my life vicariously through you, Finn. We have a lot in common, minus the bottom surgery and the lovely gay relationship.
I cant believe i followed you before you even met furfur. Seems like just a few months you were discussing your first surgery. Yes please on terms n language. Congrats. Lovies!! Smootchies n coodles!!
❤️❤️❤️ Love you guys. What a lovely man Chris is, so glad you have found happiness, Finn. I’ll never forget when you first met and you told us about “Penguin!!!!!” 😂😂😂
You two are a handsome couple. I’m a heterosexual cisgender man but my brother is trans and I’ve shown him your channel and he loves your videos as do I.
This made me so incredibly happy! You can see how much love you two share ❤️ Also, how's it been 2 years?! haha I remember those early videos of yours like it was way less time ago haha
Its wierd isnt it!! It feels like yesterday....but also like forever! Thank you for such a lovely comment and for sharing this epic journey and happiness!!!
Hi guys. Loved the video. It would be really cool to see a video about language. I’ve been out as a trans guy for a year now and still learning myself.
I know I am really late to the party on this one, but it is amazing to see this. I tried signing up on Plenty of Fish, but I just get a bunch of errors when I register lol. Not sure how else to meet people. I live in a pretty small town, so i'd have to branch out using online sites.
You Both are very Beautiful People 💕Fabulous video💕 Thank you for sharing your Love Story! So many memories you both have to Cherish ❤❤looking forward to watching more video's of you both 💘💘🙂
You two are so cute! Me and my husband met on match.com and our first date lasted hours when it was meant to just be a lunchtime drink lol I loved this chat so much. I would love a video about language I think it’s the thing that holds people back the fear of saying the wrong thing but it’s important to look at if someone meant to be mean with what they say and try to educate instead of getting mad or pushing them away. Love your videos so much and I appreciate you both so so much for sharing your journey xx happy anniversary when is the wedding?
