How Women Judge Your Value 

World of warcraft taught me everything I need to know about leveling.

let's all raise money and get todd a new jacket

Todd, You are a legend bro. One of the things that I love about your content is that you keep it real.

Todd, give a raise to ur editor video guy. he is a BEAST.

The toughest part of leveling is "maintaining" it. It has to become a part of your personality or women will see through it fairly quickly.

After being following many pick up guys I can honestly that Todd is the best one. This thing of the subtlety is key. He's the first one who approaches this. He's the mature version of game. I've improved my game so much thanks to him.

Todd's so fucking good at explaining concepts that it's almost impossible to be content with any other teacher

Here's a novel idea. How about seeking a sense of self-value rather running around chasing female validation?

The highest value and richest guys dress down for comfort

Let’s all take a second to thank RU-vid , Todd, and every dating coach that helped you improve socially. If it wasn’t for these guys millions of us including me would still be confused and virtually useless when it came socially. 🙏🏼

This guy has great insight. Not even from a pick up perspective but in a spirtual one as well. He has great awareness of his mindset and that of others

You have your own style and that's why we like you - honest, logically information. A rare sight these days.

I don't think I'd want a girl who judges me on what brands of clothes I wear 😂

It looks so complicated for my simple mind, i'll only focus on having a degree, get a good work, and be a better version of myself.

I got the system for the purpose of finding a good girl and having a relationship, it worked, got my first girlfriend about 2 weeks after getting the system. We broke up today and I'm going back into the field on Saturday, she wants me but she cant deal with the drama rn, so shes gonna keep me in the friend zone but the PREMISE is that later we can get back together (she wants to call regularly and meet every week). So imma go out and find other girls cause shes gonna take some time to be ready, but the system has given me so much, and such an massive improvement to my quality of life. Even in my job search the knowledge of social interactions has given me huge confidence in interviews.

I seriously consider myself to be lucky to find all this stuff before I'm even 22!

Sometimes Kmart clothes are actually pretty nice and some designs are basically the same as you would buy branded items. I like to mix both expensive and cheap as long as it fits well with the outfit.

Get a life you really love living is always Rule #1 fellas

Got excited at 5:28 cause of my receding hairline then realised what you meant

Todd want to talk fashion after wearing that uniqlo jacket for the last 5 years!?

Hi Todd! Can you make a section in the system dedicated to "Body Language" and "Alpha Behaviors In Groups"? Great video as always boss😎

the most important thing that he said here is to make sure that your life is one that you truly enjoy and are proud of FIRST. don't make the terrible mistake of building a life that you hate so that you can get a woman. don't do it!! you need to be thoughtfully calm and happy in your life first. then the objective is to find a partner that adds to your individual happiness.. regardless of how she looks, take the time to find out who she really is before you go too far in. she is a complete person just like you are. she has a background and a past just like you do. she is physically attractive to you now because she is not yours. after a few months with her, her physical uniqueness will not be the same unless she also has the personality that allows you both to be truly happy together. and please please don't let her make all of the decisions about birth control....

My grandfather always told my brother to dress/groom himself like he was about to meet the love of his life that day. I think that is good advice. I've been blessed in my life with dating quality men in long term relationships. Mutual attraction, trust and respect are key. Good luck!

Some guys are completely clueless about how they dress or look. And most people won't say anything to be polite so they go through life thinking they look good. I went with some friends out to a party and one of them wore a GIANT baggy suit thinking he looked good! I just told him his suit is way too big but didn't want to insult him so I kept it to myself. Sometimes people just cannot see things the way you do. Its out of their comfort zone and reality. One of my wings was balding and he looked 50 yrs old. I told him to shave it off completely and he looked 1000% better and 20 yrs younger. Few months later hes back to his old balding look. Either you have fashion sense or you don't.

For someone who usually refuses to buy any content I bought the system and let me just say it's pretty concrete it's extremely versatile and most importantly it's complete it doesn't leave out anything.

How women judge my value? Let them judge me however they want. I don’t need their judgement to change my value or worth. I’ll do whatever I want in my life.

Love this!!!

All these tips are presented like they're the main criteria for most girls. Income and looks are all that matter to most girls. Being well dressed does a lot, but being a very easy-going person that also fits the clothes in terms of personality means a lot more. Essentially, a guy in a suit who's kinda nasty and trying too hard is worse than a nice, good looking dude who's friendly to everyone in a professional way.

Note: the best game is being 100% honest and not caring what she says or thinks. She can either get on board or get lost.

I never take anyone’s word as truth when they are trying to sell me something.

it's funny how people want to be "alpha", and still listen to everything someone on the internet says, and are adapting it. the whole alpha concept is BS anyways. there are men with certain qualities, and men who lack of them, nothing more and nothing less. if you want to be "alpha" you need to go YOUR OWN way, and you need to be 100% confident with it. you have to know that your way is the right one. an "alpha" doesn't care about how much women he attracts, or if he's attracting any in the first place. he just does attract them. dress the way you want ! if i'd be rich, i'd be dressing the way i'm right now ( people keep asking me if i'm a drug dealer ), because i like my clothes. of course you should have good looking stuff as well, but you don't must have them if you don't want to. an alpha doesn't chase around looking for girls, constantly trying, to adapt what girls like. an true alpha goes his way, and tries to improve himself every day. of course you need to be able to attract girls. but you don't need to attract all of them ! it depents on WHAT YOU WANT. if you want to sleep around like crazy, maybe you should really listen to what he has to say, and then go for it ! but first of all you need to actually know yourself, and what you want ! if you want a relationship, you need to know it, and you need to know as well if you're ready to have one in the first place. you need to know your weaknesses as well as your strengths and you need to be 100% honest to yourself. you need to accept yourself and at the same time you need to constantly improve yourself. don't put the focus on girls. put the focus on yourself. that's the main thing. i don't want to give this guy bad promotion though. cause infact, if you want to learn about conversations and how to keep them going, he's your man. really smart, as well as confident and experienced.

I love being told how and what I think ♡♡♡ that's when I feel like the person talking to me really respects me

Hey thanks for your time, bud, but there's really only three things that matter. 1. Have security 2. Be genuine and confident 3. Don't give a damn, and make that clear.

Overthinking all of this by eons. Just focus on yourself (academics, career, fitness, health, mental health) and put yourself out there when there's a single attractive girl you find, and that's it. Your returns will be much better if you focus on yourself than focus on coming up with cheap gimmick "game" strategies. A real man doesn't care about "game", he cares about being his best self in the categories I mentioned above. Women can tell a real man from a phony within 2 minutes of meeting. Really not this hard.

I watched the whole thing I swear

Will Smith Said: we buy things we dont need, with money we dont have, to impress people we dont really like.... stop caring about superficial shit, thats the real deal

Some of these comments below about the system seem really fake.

Thank you so much for this video, I started suspecting a few months ago that the way I was acting was working perfectly with hotter girls, and not at all with lesser girls, and I noticed a differentence but was very confused by it, I didn’t get why it seem like the hotter girls were started to look at me more, while lesser girls didn’t seem as interested in me anymore You gave me a lot of piece and clarity, I believe this was actually a fundamental problem with my last relationship, while my woman may have been a hot girl, I think she saw her self as lesser, and the more I grew and became more attractive, it was like our relationship worked less and less, while I was left confused because other woman were responding well to me, but not my own, I think she saw herself as a 6, and was afraid that if I out grew her too much that I would leave her, funny because I saw her as a 10, woman what you gonna do, i suspected for years I out grew her, but wasn’t sure because I was too focus on my finances as being the source of our problems Thank you for this video sir

Ahhh, so that's what it's called. So I guess I should thank you. I've been asking the question for years about trying game if you are not at the level you want to be. For example I know I want 9s and 10s and I have had pseudo success with them (I learned that while 7s and 8s were always taken, there was usually a good chance 9s and 10s were not because most guys were too afraid to approach. However I would always lose the girl because my level was some where between 6 and 7 and my charm wore off too quickly. I still approach and talk to women in kind of a nonchalant manner because I'm not in my 9-10 bracket yet but I am getting there. I wonder what the best way is to practice game while you are transitioning leveling brackets until you can actually play ball. Thank you Todd, this was the missing link I knew existed but didn't know how to define.

Great content. Reminds me of Adam Lions back in the day talking about the PEN model psychology and how you should learn some behaviours (Nice Guy, Bad Boy, Leader) and then mix and match them according to the psychology of the woman you are meeting... and them stop using them and be yourself (a new and better version).

Fantastic topic. I don’t think I’ve seen it anywhere else

I'm genuinely impressed at the level of accuracy and realism this video has.

It is not high value when you pay for top fashion brands, it is when they pay you to wear them!

Most of the clothes I wear I bought from charity shops and markets, its really not about the price of clothes its how they fit and if you wear them with confidence. Most guys I knows wardrobes cost about quadruple my own yet I still get more women. if you don't have a good sense of style then you need to put some time into listening to those who do, you really feel the difference and so do the ladies.

Good stuff Todd.

Wow! This Video is All about Validation. Haha. Just Love your life. That Will attract people close to you. Don’t live to Impress. Live to Have Fun.

omfg watching this at 2x speed wasn't enough... Jesus christ.. Can sum up 60% of this video's content with 1 word: ''genuine''. People will be less attracted to you if you act in ways that don't appear to be genuine.

If you don’t want to dress well then don’t, neither does your average billionaire

Todd, any chance you can put the entire written version in the description? Some of us prefer to just read the info real quick rather than watch a video. Just a thought...

Todd's advice just got me past a huge shit test, closed off body language, I just dropped the bull shit, recalibrated, escalated the situation to a kiss on the cheek. I even got up to leave, she pulled me back to sit right next to her. From there and more last minute resistance I was able to get a full make out and she had to stop cause she wanted to go farther, I respected that

The truth is that Beauty rules it for 90%, the rest is social status and money It's quite the opposite of what Mystery says.

Gotdammit Todd. I'm in a fucked up time right now and I know that's a prime price for that product. But you're videos get my buy and as soon as I have I have the extra (now even now extra) it's a high priority. I hope you understand this when I say that I appreciate your honesty and that's why I chose to study under you. Stay blessed bro.

Leveling is some incredible thing... I think women can genuinely feel when you're attracted! Attraction is not something you can fake. In that sense, I tend to get high level of women aka my type of women( tall, tanned, brunette, tight ass..) because I'm genuinely attracted and they can feel it... like I'd approach than make out under 2 minutes just with solid eye contact! You don't need more. While on the contrary I'd fail with uglier women! Thing is after women have seen it all, you want to come off as authentically attracted!!

You're right and guys in smaller (US) cities have a huge advantage here. It's far easier for them to stand out in these ways when many guys are out of shape and put no effort into their looks. The traits you described are way too common among men in NYC though. Seems like almost every dude is in good shape, dresses really well, and is extremely confident.

"leveling" aka practice and experience

Todds videos didn’t make sense before I had like 5 years of game under my belt. I had a great month last week, 7 girls including a threesome and finally I am understanding the language of Todd. But not in a chance would any of these concepts make sense to someone with less than 3-5 years of practicing game, they’d be lucky to understand half of it. I think I’m at the level of implementing most of these ideas but still not fluent in it. Confidence definitely helps tho

The system is a legit how too book! Your lesson plans and road map are making game so understandable

Here's the concept, be attractive and have money, very simple.

way better than rsd rsd is like a standup comedy act now lol

Todd’s game is so much more effective than most at RSD.

I appraise women on their drive, career success, abilities, and intellect. If she judges me on my fashion or height alone, and not my personality and goals, then she's not worth my time. I don't walk around wearing business suits or expensive trending clothing as an indicator of my "status". It's a waste of money, even though I make a lot, and this also filters the pretentious bichez from the cool nerds. You talk about gimmicks in this video, but can't even realize that wearing trendy clothing is ALSO a gimmick.

I want to emphasize openers. When I go to a club, I usually look at girls and the situation. Last week an opener was, hey do you want to sit on your phone in a club, or should we have a nice conversation instead?

What’s the salary range table for each level ! 😀

Just when I thought I know everything that needed to be known, Todd spit some facts that made me rethink about game. Todd's Plan

I was a 9 with legend status, and was happy every weekend to score multiple sevens and eights. (two 8s equal 16) You get lazy after while,...+ the nines and tens are sometimes too crazy or too much work and not worth effort ( with the odd exception)

Its such a big thing. So many guys just don't get that they are a chore to be around. Everybody is ready to blame women, but nobody is strong enough to take a long, hard look at themselves

Your money and your social status/power... that's literally it.. I just answered in a sentence worth. You welcome.

Advice on getting to know -> meet -> hookup/date/ get a gf, also how to approach girls at uni when they’re not in your course, and how to not come off as boring/ not interesting enough

love your content todd wanna get the system but i dont have any money :/ greetings from chile

I watch your videos to help me at work, i have closed more deals nearly doubled my sales just by applying these lessons on every sales call/ meeting. I will most likely sign up for the System just so i can learn more. If your wondering what i do ,I actually sell advertising for the one of the largest advertising companies in the US

The system needs some infield for the exercises. I'm doing "Yes and"- exercise and i don't even know if im doing it right. It is just so unclear, how to do it. Infield video needed to show how to do all the exercises in the system.

You're backgrounds are so soo good. You could probably make money off of them alone haha. Enjoyed the video btw

I wear a lot of the latest fashions, mostly John Varvatos, Robert Graham, and Armani. I've noticed that this will greatly affect what kind of women you attract. These kinds of clothes will often draw very sophisticated and slightly older women. If you're into tattoo-covered rocker chicks, don't dress like that!

ive had a few women tell me i was great and other women tell me i was horrible which just leaves me confused

what guys do the 10/10 girls look for? can I be an 11

Hey todd it is not about fashion, it is about being lier and talkitive person. And be on momentum with her

U are telling contrary statements like horoscope.

My clothes mostly are loose because getting a fit is hard at my height, but they are of middling quality and clean. I generally wear well fitted pants, leather shoes, and a nice casual shirt. I used to just wear t-shirts and jeans, but this didn't really work too well for me. Definitely wearing the shoes gets a lot of compliments from chicks. As they say " the shoes maketh the man"

...or just have a personality, be genuine, and stand for something. As a member of the females, a lot this advice makes it hard to find worthwhile guys because they are out here doing the most and we don’t know who is real anymore :/

Seriously spot on! Your work is changing lives. At least mine for sure. And this may be the best video I've seen on the topic. Thank you for all your hard work!

Todd what did you do for a living before PUA? Why is PUA so much low ROI work to get results?

This is insanely amazing advice Todd.

Most ppl with money dress like bums tho

You really are amazing. I love the way you give roots to people who will really deeply work to get what you bring. For the others they can pay you and get results... so you are paid by the lazy ones. You are so clever man, thanks for your work brother.

Sounds like a lot of work for something that is not worth the equal amount

It's always cute when people try and tell you want other people want from you, especially the opposite sex.

Stop using the scarcity tactic to sell the system, we all know it will still be there?!

This video is what *concrete thinking females feel attracted to, not abstract ones* . Get to know your MBTI (Myers-Briggs) type to know what type of women you want to attract and what type of guy you are.. IF you're an intuive type (abstract thinking), you possibly will feel attracted to intuitive women as well. The difference between abstract women (intuitive) and concrete thinking women is that they *determine your value differently* . The concrete woman will *judge your value for who you are at this moment* . So they see your value as what you have achieved in terms of *status and money* so far . For intuitive women however, it matters more what *your potentials* are. Intuitive women are far more interested in things like *intelligence, and talents* . Both are a *potential* that you could use to achieve something, but not particularly that on itself are things that have concrete value at this very moment. So if you are an intuive yourself and feel interested in intuitive women, material things do not really matter. Generally all intuitive types have the higher IQ's (top 20% or so) and the majority of people are sensors (80%) who tend to have lower IQ's (lower 80%). So if you know you're a high IQ guy, all *game* you got to have is a bit different than what is typically out there, as most game theory is aimed on concrete women who are 80% of the women. What matters more for intuitive women are your motivations behind your actions, rather than your actions themselves. So it's usually a layer deeper where you have to impress them, rather than just the outer layer. *So example of the difference* Concrete thinking/feeling female will judje a painter on whether they are succesful, no matter what their talents really are. Think of a DJ for example. It does not really require much talent to be a DJ. However, that does not matter for a concrete thinking/feeling female. If you have status, will you will automatically become more attractive. Abstract thinking/feeling females will judge you on your potentials as a painter. Your talent are more attractive, and not that much what you've achieved with them. Just being famous will not attract them. Of course being famous would help to know more females you existed, and thus in that way will help. However, the status and money on itself do not attract them.

Sorry guys. I was an average pickup artist getting better with women but then recently stopped. Why? Who wants cold pizza. I'm working on a virgin. Keep chasing sloppy seconds or get a good girl.

Sorry I zoned out when you went off with the clothes shit. What are you trying to pick up here? Some provider Hunter? Why not just flash your credit card, lol.

This is a great video Todd. For long term relationships the dynamic is different. A woman may not have any hope of extracting resources on a long term basis from a guy who is even slightly higher value than her. So if she is aware of this, she won't bother with him. If a guy is high value but thirsty, he becomes a target for parasites (gold diggers).

I watched this 2020, still 48 hours?

So hypergamy is real Todd?

I have the idea that by leveling I get much more results. I can get lot of different girls,8 and 9 ,while when I'm genuine I don't get lot of attention

Im a 12 no wonder why im alone

although I'm happy with your product. I'm unhappy that it's incomplete! how can you sell a product, main gripe being that it has a 365 day time constraint! and not have levelling behaviours incomplete? coming soon... would be ok if there wasn't a time constraint

I think personality is one of the no.1 measure of how women judge men's value.

I like how almost all youtubers always have a link for you to buy their shit, and how they pathetically beg you to like and subscribe. What happened to just making a video with focus on the content? I guess this must be the new hustle.

Todd is a woman's sexual history our business or not ?

Todd is the best dating coach in existence, hands down.