HUSBAND LEFT HOME TO AVOID VIOLENCE || Justice Court EP-169 

If is to run their leprous mouth "I don't need a man" "useless man" "What have you done for me" Just one month, she dey complain like a crying baby. Worthless things men marry these days

Yea idk why she said that. It was rather dismissive. He's in school. Who else but his parents will help him.

Yep

Its the the law. 18 year old is an adult.

Not just a mean woman, a man isn't loved he is only loved by his ability to bring money. If a man doesn't bring money he will be hated by 99 percent of ladies worldwide, only 1 percent will remain faithful regardless of his status

Real suffering my brother and our righteous judge was somehow one side ...gender equality

I agree 100%😥 For the 1st time, I feel somehow about Judge Funmi's decision.

Honestly, how can a mother be telling the children not to run an eran for their father.

So Auntie Judge did the law says that women should treat men badly ? Please let the men voice out too. Men have emotion too. They both should take responsibility of the children 50/50

Pls women be helpful to these men Ha it seems that this is ashamed of himself bcoz he is no more capable of maintain home. Pity them

You’ve said it all

Your first line isn't true , some men play's pity card , my kids dad always left home when he has money and come back after the money is gone and claim he left home because he has no peace 😂 . Had it been it wasn't a family compound whereby he used to beat me and our son , stole my money etc , people would have believed that . Someone that claim he doesn't have peace at home , always have peace when he has no money and you always feed him 😂😂.

​@jennkitchen4559 😆... You are very funny. It's a painful story, but you presented it in a funny way.

God have mercy . My question remains; are there still marriages in the true sense of it?

Lol he might be enjoying another woman outside

Kizito you have said the truth

I'm speechless u nailed it completely, similar thing happening to me in my marriage of 6years, mine abuse me without apologising major reason I'm still in same house is cause of my kids, I grew up with my parents and even when my mom passed away my dad refuse to marry and later join my mom. Each time i think about leaving, I looked at my kids cause I don't want them to grow up in a divorce or broken home, I'm very attached to my kids and this one of the reasons why is hard for me to leave the marriage. This has really affected my mental health that sometimes I just ponder on marriage and were I went wrong, and came to conclusion that probably cause I got married to the 1st woman I ever dated, maybe if I have dated lots of women before I would have be able to make right choice, and also maybe cause I'm just a year older than her, honestly I equally don't know were I got it wrong, and more reason I told my young bro to take his time before getting married so as not to make same mistake like I did. It actually not easy to leave cos of my two kids.

@@jamanpatrick4183 i understand not leaving for the sake of your children but your mental health should also be considered. Have you guys tried marriage counseling? It might help cuz staying believe it or not is not always the solution. It causes more harm than good. You might loose it one day and end up harming her and end up in jail. I know divorce is frowned upon by us Africans but at times some couples are not just compatible. You both can always co-parent the kids. Remember a broken man can never help his kids. I’ve seen cases whereby one of the couples ends up committing suicide just cuz they wanted to tolerate. I wish you all the best bro I’ll be praying for you and your family.

This gender heeeę!!! 😊😊😊 no say I no tell you

​@jamanpatrick4183 this is very sad. I pray God heal ur mind. Have u tried fasting n prayers? Because it's possible she has a spirit husband that is making her act up. Or u have a spirit wife. Pray n ask the Lord to break every generational n foundational curses in ur home. Pray n ask him to take over ur home. Tell him to deliver u cuz that's a stronghold on u. U ain't happy but can't move. By the way, u are an excellent dad for considering ur kids. Please pray about it. If u need someone to pray with, I'm here bro. I cover u with the blood of JESUS CHRIST. May GOD wrap his arms around u. May he cleanse ur hope n marriage in JESUS name.

To what end?

Its irrelevant.

This big problem of Africa

How about don’t have kids at all? Will you die if you don’t have kids?😂😂😂

​@kalimbaayinde25 my dear, exactly

At times, people lose jobs along the way

So far they have this mentality of na God dey give children, God will provide. it would still be a problem.

If its the other way round. You will see people shouting irresponsible Husband.

Am with you. Judge Funmi is becoming bais now. Allow the man to talk.

Both of them said they don't want to come together again. Therefore, there's no need to consider any complaint. The judgement is solidly for children welfare only.

No Sir.. If the two people are not ready to Come together, what's the need of listening to the stories? If you have been following her, you'll understand that she doesn't really listen to stories of spouses who are not ready to come back together.. She's not taking sides..

You are not serious. Why would a man with 4 kids leave his home giving useless excuses and am sure he is already having another woman somewhere

Hhhm!

You are totally wrong, some men can look gentle or what not outside but inside are fierce lion.

​@@ritalinus5097but he's saying it right in her presence, I agreed with you that some men can look gentle and are beast in the home.

I cried while watching this

May God give me a good wife in Jesus name

@agboolatoyosi3631 women lake accountability, they will make excuses just to be right and emotionally blackmail. Do you know what it means for a man to leave his own house twice? From what I watched, clearly is weak. That's why's been emasculated..

Absolutely true 💯 Love is not Enough

Money rules it all not love at all....

@@nwoluoluchi109 money doesn't rule it all. You can have all the money in the world and still be run over by your partner.

@@adeyemiadeleye5428 That means the person don't stay one place, numerous girl frds distracting him....

​@@adeyemiadeleye5428 mah brother money solves 95% of marital issues today sir.. In life, Just have money for no reason sir....thanks

I observe the man never wanted to quit but nature of d true situation want to have better part of him quiting by force due to his wife attitude of which Judge Funmi has no interest on..of course D judge is right cos she can't force it...may God help us all

And will you be the one to watch two hours show if the judge gives them such time?

@@adeyemiadeleye5428now it’s all about d show, not justice

And you think it's possible to lie against a woman and she will keep quiet, the only weapon a woman has is there verbal power and its very uncontrollable if they are on their right or feel cheated, this woman here is guilty of all allegations I can bet it.

I'm Beginning to dislike this judge. She's annoying sometimes

Not all men are leaving homes because of this. Some are leaving their wives to be with other women and to hang out with friends. There are many irresponsible men in this world.

Hmmm, there is something not noticed here, the lady is equally overwhelmed, that's why is being aggressive and nagging. The uncle doesn't want to stretch himself either. Why marry her when you didn't trust her, then bring up those issues now, 18yrs after😢😢, no nah. The lady is not to be absolved of blames either but trust me, this man is not ready to do anything meaningful. Women will always complain when the bulk lies on them for too long, it takes the grace of God and self control for a woman in her situation not to be full of anger all the time.

They no longer want to stay married, so Judge Funmi has to deal about the welfare of the children, if their were no children involved will they bring themselves to court

Comrade

The men make the country the way it is! BLAME THE MEN FOR YOUR COUNTRIES SUFFERING!

A man that can't feed his children is a good father abi? When you wear her shoes you will understand better....

@@nwoluoluchi109 this is why we have somany daft women like you these days that don't have sense, it seems you need to go bk to school so u can understand where he said they have where the woman goes to take food stuffs , mumu woman, no go dey useful

There is no guilt all over her face, she just wants him to do his financial duty in respect of the kids.

MEN.....WE ARE IN TROUBLE.THIS WOMAN IS FULL IF GUILT GOD WILL JUDGE HER

Hahahaha

This is why more African women are marrying foreigners so they don't have to deal with this bs.

No one is forcing you rather

Some people are enjoying marriage. Don't use this as a yardstick.

Seriously 😳

If she allows them bare their minds, it can take the whole day and the show is just for 30 minutes.

That will depend on why they are in court. If its all about the kids as in this case, then there's no need for long talks.

Yep. I concur. Bless Up 🙏 @emmasworld511

Same for responsible women who runs way for their lives. Until both sides of the story are heard, nobody can judge your story.

@@MariamsadventureI have known one thing for sure a woman has verbal power, I'm a lawyer, phycologist and I'm a mother too, this woman here did all the man said, it's never possible for you to lie against a woman and she keeps quiet, this woman has some fault how would you ever manipulate your children against your husband, my father is very irresponsible and we all know as we are mature to know that then, but my mum stood as a man to send us all to school, today it's my mum first and any other person follows, she would even tell us to send some money to our Father, this woman is a very big failure I hope she sees what behold her in future because her children will grow to decide who's wrong too, the man is just poor and lack the ability to take responsibilities and that is weak on his part, and about the children, my mom will always a woman only determine the number of kids she wants , you know the financial capability of yourself and your husband , there are several way you can control your birth, this woman should work on her mentality period! This explains why men died untimely and has lots of them in jail , men should take proper time to decide on who to marry “if you say love is blind, marriage will open your eyes”😊

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Idiot suffer what…. Tell me who impregnated her…. Ode because it’s not ur daughter in that situation… can’t the man buy condom if he can’t afford the kids that he’s reproducing some of u men are crazy

Can the kids take the mother's surname 60/40 too? You are not serious at all. His calmness shows his dangerous. Imagine him saying he don't want more than 1 child radarada....

You caught her with a man, yet you went ahead to marry her. You're not serious.

If they're separated it should be 50/50. No more, no less.

I believe she was not. She is only focusing on the welfare of the kids and she share the responsibility equally.

Safety of the children, bcs of people like you not to bully them tomorrow, you don't have to vomit every word out.