The Justice Court EP 61 || WHAT RUINS THIS MARRIAGE, ALCOHOL OR MOTHER-IN-LAW? 

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I am Psychiatic mental Nurse Practitioner in the 🇺🇸. After watching this video, the wife gave a vivid description of the effects of alcohol in the family. Effects of alcoholism is universal. It’s impact the person suffering, the family and financial. The man needs help. The wife and the entire family need help. The family needs to support the man in his recovery and that is the only way he can recover not by throwing stones. Alcoholism is a disease. DSM 5 diagnosis for severe alcoholism is F10.20. This man and entire family needs help. Remember one common behavior with alcoholics is DENIAL

Oh God, 22yrs now in marriage and still counting, no issues. I can't thank you enough. I must reach the finished line by your grace Lord

It’s really sad how people that were once in love become sworn enemies🙁

A very big round of applause for the Judge. clap clap clap clap. What an intelligent judgement. Respect "your Honor".

She said the husband is lying but he came with receipts like it’s tax season

Moral of the story; Never ignore the red flags whilst dating. 2) keep 3rd parties out of your relationship 3) even in divorce or separation aim to be amicable

This is my first time watching this. I Don't know we have this type of proper court in Nigeria. I presently work in the court here in the states. And every time I go to the court environment, my heart always prays that God should help us in Nigeria to have this type of proper court of law with the judge that has the wisdom of judgment like Judge Funmi.

How did judge Funmi pull this off? Her sagacity is out of this world. Thank you your honour for this display of professionalism.

In every divorce there's that one person that still love his family.

Life is short, why waste time on fights, alcohol etc. forgive, say sorry, do your best to improve, and live together. Your kids need you both. 🙏🏾👍🏾

One thing I love about this man is that he did not hide his problem of alcoholism.

This case is very touching. Both the plaintiff and the defendant have their points but I have the opinion that Yemi's wife's parents are unduly intruding in the marriage and oppressing Yemi because of their contacts with the law enforcement agencies. All the same, I respect the judgement of the judge.

Stop the buying ,stop the supplement, just PAY 😂😃😂😂

Madam Judge, I tuale for u! 3 gbosa for u, ma!! God bless u with long, exciting and good health! Cheers, watching from Ireland🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪

The alcohol is an issue, the mother in law is a problem. But what broke the relationship was a woman who simply never left her father's house.

All you calling her mother-in-law, no mother will watch her child going through distress for quite a time & will keep acting dumb. Remember she stayed with the husband's family for 4 years before they packed out. So when did her mother start interfering? Right from the start? The man should work on his alcoholic & anger issues while both work together to limit the interference of in-laws.

Meeeen this case is not a child play, I'm working and also watching I don't want to miss any part of it, God bless you MA, we from the eastern part of the country appreciate your wonderful work.

I wish Nigeria would truly understand the real caliber of Judge God bless them, this Judge deserves more than just a Judge, I wish her minister of justice some day in a very respectful and responsible government in Nigeria . Corrupt African leaders will never see ur effort. Look the way u give everyone the platform to express their stories , this is call peace building and without peace no development. God will reward you ma Judge

When an accountant comes to court with all the financial statements 😅😅 any money that came out must be accounted for ....

Lord Asaolu is such an amazing judge, very calm, intelligent and calculating. Amazing personality!

They both proved that they love each other but the wife's parents are going through their marriage & destroying it. As father I will rather fight my child than fighting my in-laws

Bringing up kids in such a toxic environment can be damaging to them. This is a sad case caused by alcohol abuse, interference from third parties, anger issues etc. Good thing they’re no longer together, they both need to seek therapy. Sadly there are so many damaged souls roaming around the streets. Lastly, those kids need counselling because I’m sure they’ve witnessed so much abuse. Such a shame

The Man came prepared with evidences. Smart move. But please divorce is the only solution in this case. Too much external interference and alcoholism

D judge is very smart calculative I love this program we need this kind of person to handle Nigerians having same or similar problems here in Italy.

I felt this was one of the toughest cases brought before the Justice court but she handled it flawlessly

No matter what happens in your marriage, never, never, never raise your hands on your wife. Instead of doing that, just walk away and cool off. Especially, especially, if you've children.

Bro u have an angel for a wife.....there is no proper channels of communication here.....its very simple,stop drinking,engage with deep conversation nd recreation to re kindle ua love for her.Relocate bro.TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FAMILY.

Domestic violence is never excusable. He just decorated his side of the story......how can you be leaving your matrimonial home for days? Haba! You are irresponsible jare.

He beats her, he is a drunk... she reacts and leaves but her family is a problem for wantjng to protect her? Wow! This is the problem with Patriarchal society. I like how Judge Asaolu says go to the Police in cases of DV; but we know nithing happens when cases get there

The man seems to be more truthful than the woman. The moment he brought out those evidences, the lady expression said it all.

This is the problem that couple face when you live around your parents and parents in-law.

If he is beating your children you must leave!!! You cannot stay with a man that is abusive to children!!

Very good judgement justice Funmi. Couple pls try to solve this problem. Let bygones be bygones. May God be by your side.

God bless the Judge Funmi and The Justice Court crew for helping the society. These cases are really educative.

My father , my father, my mother,my mother... Kids getting married.

Until this man realizes that his Alcohol consumption shapes him. It’s a major problem.

I have come to realize Marriage is not by your strength to handle all issues cos your strength might just get tired one day......You can never go wrong Activating the presence of God for divine direction.

Honestly this is how judgement should be delivered in every law court

This judge is amazing! She's so fair and calm my.

Judge Funmi Asaolu is d most intelligent judge currently in Nigeria no arguments❤️❤️🙏

I’m an Igbo woman but I’m angry with this woman’s family. Look at her face.

This judge needs an Award in Nigeria❤❤ thanks Your Honor for saving homed

What an intelligent woman! God bless you Ma!

Awesome Judge, love the way she handled this case.

These ones are jokers. They are still much in love with themselves. Keep them in a room for some days (like a retreat) and you will see them making sweet love again💕💕.

By far one of the best judgement coming from Nigerian court. I salute judge Funmi’s wisdom

This judge is great . Thank you for the way you handled this case

Proud to see our African people doing this.. Not just focused on the west.

This case is the highest ohhh, How can this be settle my judge?

Brother I feel your pain, I refused to be controled by my mother inlaw. This is almost the same thing I have been facing since I got married in 2017 n divorced in 2018. My marriage life was hell because of my mother inlaw. Third party in marriage is hell. Since 2018 I have been denied access to my beautiful twins because I couldn't go on with the marriage and file for divorced. Wise word having a good mother in law is better than having a bad wife. The truth shall overcome always. I wish we have platform's like this in Gambia where Divorced rate is high n most are cause because of mother-in-law interference. Beating a woman is not an excuse as well we should protect them and if we can't be together in peace after million times trying separation is the way. May the lord give us all the right partner!

An extremely fair and intuitive judge based on experience in life and law. Marriages don’t have to always have a resolution but the children’s welfare is paramount. The couple still require counselling on how best to communicate moving forward so that the children of different sexes still learn about conflict management and have poor views of relationships.

The man did not come to joke no no no He is loaded very sharp in court .fully representing himself .His "drinking" seems educated too not lazy drinking.

Man's even looking drunk AF in court 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Did anyonelse notice that the woman seems excited at the 50k monthly upkeep for the kids, but didn't have same expression when asked to be dropping the kids with the husband?

Wow!!! What a case!! So deeply rooted issues. They need to stay separated while they go for counselling.

I wish all the judges where the same as this mom The court would have been a very GOOD resolution place God bless you Mom

The twist and turns in this case. All I can say is that keep people this includes family members out of your marriage

Words can destroy and can build. With few adjustments and counselling the marriage can be resurrected. For a start, the alcohol and external influences most stop.

this marriage will survive the storm, the couple are so lucky to present before this kind of judge

You still go church, thats is funny. All the messages received at the church should be enough to settle the dis-agreement

God Bless you Judge Funmi. You have been an amazing Judge to Marriage matters. Love u ma.

My father , her father , my mother blablablablablablabla

I came all over from Twitter to watch the full video here on RU-vid because that's where I saw the video.😢💔

No matter how kids are manipulated, when you as a father is providing and caring, your kids will see it.

Never never mess with an accountant... der always keep documents of everything

This Judge is wholesome and very well learned.

He went to court ready 😂😂😂😂

This is truly the justice court and justice judge.

If a woman you married stopped loving you because you lost your job. For me that woman is not us

Judgement well served...not a word more needed!

The judge handled this perfectly. As a Judge and as a counselor

Love is paramount, marriage has no formula.

The lady is just a mess! Why should women have custody? The working parent should have custody, and the parent most likely to provide for the children. The Husband should have full custody and the lady have visitation rights

This judge is God sent to Nigerians

This alone is practical wisdom for marriage success class for me.

Another reminder to singles: shine your eyes before marriage o

This woman is very wise judge i salute droping and picking the children to the father, one thing can lead to another thing, then comes eventual settlement.magana yakari. Very lovely judgements❤❤😅😅😅😅

The woman will regret this moment for the rest of her life. A man's status can change at any point in life as long as he has the will to change his situation through hardwork and perseverance. She did not try to develop herself but rely on the malicious support of her parents. I pity her, very soon the same parents will ridicule her and chase her out of their home

This man came with receipts 👏👏👏

That marriage is dead on arrival.

You could see that this judge has empathy. It wasn't an emotionless ruling.

This is by far the best case the judge has dealt with, in my opinion. She follows the standards of the laws, demonstrates her usual compassion and fully moral justice.

Your DECISIONS is always ACCURATE and LOVELY, Thanks and GOD Bless you abundantly in the Name of Jesus Amen

Alcohol and beating is a serious issue.Aside that,am sure the wife would have tolerated her.

That mother inlaw was like my baby mama mother

Omoooooo x1million 🤦🏼‍♀️ This is some complicated shit + alcohol problem from the man...I hope he truly got better.

Old man, the only thing coming out of his mouth is my father, my father! Red flag!

I love this show and the Judge ALWAYS imparts such good wisdom 💙😃💙

If this woman can stand in law court and give all this terrible lies, That means that the man is really going through pains,I fell for him.

This judge should be on the supreme court of Nigeria 🇳🇬 she is fair and amazing

The judge herself should try and bring them back because I could see that they still love each other

Accountant general of the federal republic of Nigerian.. na waooo marrying an accountant no easy ooo.. be prepared for he can even keep an account of the Maggi and salt he provided at home🤷🤷

Women always belittle a man if his struggling with the finance, women especially married once need to stand by your man of that man dey Hussle

Thank you ma!. We all are learning from you. God bless you so much.

Wisdom like a solomon.welldone judge.

This man is an alcoholic and also in denial about his problem drinking. Alcohol ruined my sister's life I hate 😡 alcohol 🍻

This judge! So intelligent

The guy lack of employment and alcohol has driven him to the point of " Mental breakdown, anger and frustration " and he's taking it out on the woman. And both in laws and the church are too much in their marriage. That should stop ASAP immediately.They need to leave them alone to manage their own home. Both sides have a lot to say. The marriage is too violent, too volatile,and the children will be affected. And it's not compulsory that they come back together. They can divorce,and then work on co-parenting.

The one only problem between this couple is lack of proper communication. When a couple decides to solve their problems through a third party there will always be obstacles!!!