And 8 hours with no breaks is illegal. So he should either sue the hell out of his employer for 10s of thousands of dollars, or he's lying. Every boss I ever had demanded I take breaks just so the company wouldn't get sued, or the boss get fired their damn self.. OR, now hear me out here, Or.. he's lying when he says he doesn't take any breaks. Hmmm.... I wonder which one it is?? 🤔
@@Mandarella79 well I work 12’s and technically don’t get breaks or lunch so it’s not illegal for all jobs but yea jobs like his have to give breaks. You will not win a medal or get a promotion if you work through breaks
I woud live on those bowls. The man is a child. Children think about what they feel like eatin right now. Adults will eat sensible economical and healthy
So let me get this straight. This guy is fully aware that there's food at home. Doesn't bring any to work. Turns down the free food that is at work (maybe he doesn't want it everyday but still), then how's the audacity to say he works an 8-hour day. Brother, you made it sound like you were working 24 hours at the ball crushing factory.
"Where have all the cowboys gone?" Guy wanted the traditional, stay at home wife and mother...but forgot the part where he's supposed to be a good, traditional MAN who works as hard as it takes to make his family thrive
My wife packs me a lunch every day even though I have never asked her to. She also puts a homemade meal on the table every night and we est as a family. I am blessed beyond measure. 🙏
I used to do this for my ex. I made him amazing food. He always complained. It was heartbreaking to pour love into someone like that and have it rejected night after night.
Easy to mock when you’re an obese fake accountant who tells people they spend too much on RU-vid. Even easier to be the obese virgin commenting on how you find it funny lol
If I reaaaally can't cook one night my husband comes home and cooks. He works 12 hour shifts too. I try not to put that on him but it's something he takes pride in being able to help with. Sometimes I've just had too much on my plate for the day and I don't have time. Where I fall, he catches me. I'm so grateful for him and his strength.
Same here. I work 2 jobs, 1 at home. He works 1 job, with a long commute. I try to cook on his workdays, and we both cook on weekends, but if he gets home and I'm still working, he dives right into making dinner. That's what a team does.
My hubby is the same, I’m currently stage 2 RA (moved into moderate) and some days I just can’t do much of anything, my hubby works long hard hours but will still come home and take care of the family. He’s an amazing man. Never take the good ones for granted ❤
Not just that, but the things he has at home are garbage anyway, she actually wants proper food that’s likely cheaper anyway and *she* gets demeaned He’s an asshole, seriously question why she’s with him
That’s what I’m saying. I use to work 3 days on 3 days off 12 hour rotating shifts with no breaks in a paper mill. He’s a pussy and his wife is gonna leave him for an actual man.
My ex always used to do this. Except he wouldn't stop on the way home. He'd come home, then tell me he was going out to get fast food instead of my dinner "because he was craving it." My current partner comes home, eats whatever I serve, & always thanks me for the meal & praises my food.
Here's an idea for him: Call your wife when you get off work. Tell her to pop a hotpocket into the microwave so you can have an instant food fix as soon as you walk in the door.
@@MyHairIsAlive It gets better. After work he always stops by the gas station for chips and beer. Dude is so immature. Out on the limb of speculation: they grew up super religious and didn't live together before they got married, and are still clueless as to how those dynamics work. Or, grew up religious, but she's his beard.
But like he usually grabs take out and THE ONE day that she actually wanted him to do it, he suddenly feels not in the vibe... He is just looking for ways to make her share the blame
Exactly. Most days she does cook. That particular day she asked him to bring food, because eggs, mac n cheese and a hot pocket is not what she would normally serve for dinner.
@@mollygrace3068because it’s not really a meal those are basically snacks. I know this because that’s what I have for dinner and I try to convince myself they are not snacks😭 but they definitely are
Also, to add: he could’ve just brought some of the FREE food he gets from work home to her and the kids. He ain’t eating it. He can eat the hot pockets and Mac
NO.. imagine pretending there's "food".@ home with different items. ZERO are a soild meal together. But .. how dare she say we need a real meal? I had an Ex like that! He bought 5 pounds of bologna, some rice and a few cans of "veggies" swearing we had "food at home" and HIM going to a restaurant for a solid steak meal all while talking about how ungrateful I was being.
Eggs for the whole household or fast food for one member of the family? Yea it’s kinda a no brainer. You have kids and a wife and still refuse to sacrifice for them. Fast food almost every day. That’s got to add up for the month. If he stopped eating fast food all together that is 100’s of dollars per month you have to keep that fridge full. Food at home should always come first.
That’s literally my thought process when I’m contemplating a $15 fast food meal if I happen to still be hungry after my packed lunch cooler. I’d rather be just a little bit hungry as long as my wife and kids can have full meals and snacks. I feel absolutely selfish and disgusting anytime I actually go through with it.
Plus one of the big things he mentioned as food ready to cook is hot pockets. If you’re struggling with food and still going for hot pockets instead of getting something that can go towards multiple meals, you’re doing it wrong. I get hot pockets as a treat so I can have something fast as a snack.
@@xxyy1318 That's not the point. The point is that she's acting like that's absolutely nothing. Whereas my response to that, is that it's not "Nothing".
Yeah, dude doesn’t even wanna try to eat at home. He’s also ordering food like wingstop late at night just for himself. And those doordash/ UberEats fees nearly double the price. Like cmon dude, grow up. I’d feel like an asshole if I were eating that well and my wife wasn’t.
@@JaxOnJaxOnJax doordash and Uber eats are terrible I don’t understand how anyone uses them consistently. For convenience here and there yes, but constantly? Worst part is they don’t even pay their drivers so customers are getting screwed on the fees and then drivers are getting screwed with the low pay. Not sure how they’re unprofitable charging 50-100% in fees.
U got a hearing problem???? He was saying he didn't wanna eat he asked her to cook but she said there wasn't food , so he listed what she can make she didn't want to she said it herself.....how stupid can u be??? S
@@timefarmer444 nope. She has also the kids. They can figure it. Eat breakfast, eat an energy bar, if you otherwise can't ear during work and help your partner with the meal. At least make the salad or smth. She is your partner, not your butler.
My husband works 12 hour shifts most days & I always have a plate for when he walks in. He doesn’t eat at work either, he comes home starving! The only time I don’t have food ready is on most nice days in the spring and summer when I take the kids and the dog out after school. But even then, I’ll call him & ask him do you want leftovers from yesterday or should I order you something. We always find the compromise together.
@@nunyabizay9253I work ten hour days in extreme heat and the last thing you want to do is boil water or be next to heat. She's a good wife for realizing the harshness of his job on his body and takes care of him.
@@nunyabizay9253i guarantee he can cook. It sounds like she doesn’t work so having food ready when he gets home is a very basic way to show appreciation and love for him making their lifestyle possible
@@serious323 there’s nothing wrong with making food for your husband. If I didn’t have to work I’d do it more often. I’m just saying he might not have basic knowledge on how to cook, what if the wife dies? He’ll need to know how to cook.
I'm gonna assume from the homeschooling, how young they got married, and just their demeanor that they were raised religious. They probably met through church
Haha the first ""yeah i kno"" was him thinking dude was agreei g with him n quickly realized dude was making fun of him with the voice ... the second " i know" is hilarious
If he works at a place where he's offered "free acai bowls," I'm pretty sure him not taking a break is his own fault lol. 😅 Sounds like a soft ass job to me.
Breaks are legally required -- he just not taking him because he probably hates his job and wants to get it over with as soon as possible. Then he needs to fill his misery and hunger with junk food, like he's going to the bar after work. @RideRedRacer
Husband is incredibly immature. My husband works minimum 60 hours a week. I pack his lunch. He also can’t wait to get home for a home cooked meal every evening! I had to have surgery and omg how much we spent on takeout. Hubby never learned to cook, first meal he ever made gave us food poisoning. So I do all the cooking ( I love to cook and bake)and he cleans up the dishes and kitchen after dinner. We never buy bread, cookies or dessert I make all of it, including ice cream. Time for this man to grow up! I wasn’t stay at home wife. I worked full time for 25 plus years and still did all the cooking, baking, and lunch packing. Husband did all the grocery shopping, just give him my list. Plus I only buy what’s on sale and make meals according to that. Not difficult just needs planning.
More hours per week != more mature. It's not a competition of who can spend the largest % of their life at work. Most people would work half time if they could
@@IntensePeppers I both agree and disagree. The number of hours worked in a week is a poor measurement of maturity. There is some correlation as people who don't work tend to be less mature than the people who do. However, a lot of people could work half-time, if they really wanted to, but they don't want to give up that income.
Recent SAHM here and I am not the best cook. My mom never taught me and my husband honestly is the one that loves cooking, I’m more of a baker. I can do basic meals but for the more fancy stuff my husband does the majority and I’m the designated veggie chopper lol But the other day we hadn’t done grocery shopping but I looked to see what we had and was actually able to scrap together chicken parmigiana with some homemade garlic bread. My husband called on the way home asking if he needed to pick up food since we hadn’t gone grocery shopping. I told him no that we could scrap together something at home, he sounded disappointed, but Oh the look on his face when he walked through the front door! It felt amazing to surprise him with one of his favorites and all from scratch! Just seeing his loving smile and how excited and grateful he was made the long process all worth it.
Don't belittle a man in front of his wife. His habits are fucked up and he needs to feel convicted for them but shes actively losing respect for him. Bro code man.
Agreed but she was losing respect for him already. Now she'll be justified in continuing to disrespect him and doing it in front of their kids so dad loses their respect too.
Both are at fault, but out of all the comments I'm seeing, a stark minority are even factoring the wife into the equation. It's just blame the man as usual.
My husband and I started our family young. We NEVER ate out. He would take a Peanut Butter Sandwich to school and work. I would take leftovers for myself and our son to eat at the daycare center I worked. We qualified for food assistance and bought just the basics. We still saved money to move to another state. People are so entitled!
Wait she’s cute so she doesn’t have to cook for her husband 🤯🤯 Like I have kids like I cook for them and like myself so like if you cooked for your husband he wouldn’t need to stop!
its his job and his money to spend how he wants as he works for it. shes not entitled to anything from his paycheck what he gives her is a gift. not an expectation of a percentage of his wage.
Children raising children. This is why the other countries are winning. The problem is now that “husband” and “father” isn’t even considered to be lazy or bad by todays standards . The bar is so low , this guy has a BEAUTIFUL wife who cooks dinner for him and he couldn’t care less! I hope she wakes up and finds a real man ❤
They didn't have food worthy of a meal in the house, they had two side dishes and a box of preservatives. And I'd bet his life that he spent more money on his fast food than the amount spent on that food.
She is even worse! She doesn't work or feel like cooking the food that she has in the house and is asking him to bring somehting else. He is like a teen boy. She is like a little girl.
@@GrrrKawa You completely missed the point. She does cook, it's the talking phallus who refuses to eat at home and wastes money on trash food and won't buy groceries.
Guys, this is how she will do you in the therapist's office before the divorce also. You saw it here. This isn't television. She threw him under the bus and he wouldn't help himself. And when he brought up a counter, her unwillingness to cook was justified in her mind. Husband needs to shape up, but the missus is probably getting ready to leave.
HOLD UP i like how at the end he's blaming her for not cooking and then he lists off the things that she had to cook and she didn't want to cook,,, why couldn't this dude just cook his own damn hot pocket and mac n cheese??? hot pocket is literally just throwing it in the microwave why would he have to get takeout if she "didn't cook"
@@armadillo6315 and he's supposed to be a breadwinner, except his bread is not enough for his spending habits. And she didn't want to cook because she clearly didn't consider things they had suitable for a full on meal.
@@armadillo6315 i'm a stay at home mom and i don't cook every night of the week and i definitely wouldn't be able to cook if there's no groceries in the house for obvious reasons. there's no reason this grown man can't put hot pockets in the microwave instead of spending 50$ on take out
I work construction for 10 hours a day my money no woman on this planet can tell me that I cant buy MYSELF when you cook for yourself she just mad he not get her nun
This boy has no business being a husband let alone a Father. She’s in it now, but he really needs to grow up or things will get a lot worse over the next few years and she might not be able to take it.
She is also part of the problem. If they have Mac and cheese at home but she didn’t feel like making Mac and cheese… We ALL have times where we don’t feel like eating or cooking what we already have at home. Being a grown up means telling yourself “we have food at home” a lot. That’s part of being an adult is delaying your gratification. And honestly, how hard is it to make Mac n cheese from a box? Meal prepping can also save you on those days when you just don’t want to cook. But you have to plan. Sit down like adults and come up with at least 5 meals that are quick, easy & budget friendly and then stock the pantry. PB&J? It counts. A bowl of cereal? It counts. Frozen pizza? It counts. Dude was turning up his nose at his workplaces acai bowls. They might actually be pretty good. 🤷🏻♀️
Mac and cheese is not a meal for growing kids. Where's the fruit and vegetables? What I don't know understand is that she cooks for her and the kids without making any for him. I suspect that he refuses to eat "leftovers ". He also whines that there is "some bottled stuff" that he doesn't get free. Does he think he gets brownie points for not taking breaks? Take them. I believe that it is federally mandated. He could take one break and eat a free acai bowl. He's working in a food establishment but not a sitdown restaurant. How does he expect to raise a family on that salary? He just raises my hackles. An entitled wuss.😊
@@janisedenton4242exactly. She can't wait for him to feed the children and he won't reheat the plate. This is what happens when people who are barely adults get married and have children. She'll be raising those children alone by 30 and he'll be whining about child support.
@@SunDevi1s66no this episode is actually great. Tbh out of his other guests these two seem like a genuine couple that's willing to do better, they're just way too young and ran into a traditional family life way too fast. But this is one of my fave episodes. This clip makes him seem awful but they both do take accountability throughout the full episode.
Yeah? What about that one lady that was just gonna “mANiFeSt” everything into existence? Lmao. Nah but this episode is definitely worth a watch. One of the best imo.
People are lucky to have dinner together. My husband and I work opposite shifts, so we don't usually have dinner together. People need to humble themselves, be grateful for the time they get together, and learn to count their blessings.
I totally agree with you, I work two jobs and I'm alone in a foreign country, I miss eating with my family so much that I tear up sometimes while eating alone.
I can’t imagine getting takeout only for myself on the way home. If we both get off work late and are too tired to cook, one of us will always get food for both of us. Even if I’m eating out with a friend I’ll always order something extra to take back home for him. When you’re in a relationship you’re supposed to care about the other person as much as how care for yourself, when you have a child you’re supposed to care about them more than you care about yourself.
I just love how he invalidates his wife by saying "I work eight hours" implying that he deserves to pick up food. But his wife has been home caring for the children ALL day, longer than eight hours AND cooking his meals and feeding his children.
VALID! I am a homeschooling SAHM of 5 and the work just keeps going..and going..and going LOL but it still beats the tar out of working outside of the home.
Ive been a stay at home dad after my daughter was born i worked part time maybe 20 hrs and was the primary babysitter. You just lazy 100=150 years ago the wife and the kids all worked the homestead. Brutal work just to survive life is not that hard
Alot of men where I'm from have this mentality with alcohol. Alot of the older generation were bad with alcohol and would excuse themselves drinking alot by saying "I work hard I get to drink after a hard day's work". I remember my nan telling me stories of women hunting down their husbands on pay days in the pubs to make sure they didn't spend all their wages on alcohol before they could pay the bills cause their wages wernt enough.
I'm 15 and I understand the girl's position, she doesn't want to make anything because she feels under-appreciated as a cook for the family, however a kid has to eat
I’m so glad my girlfriend and I don’t have these immature passive aggressive tendencies. We may not be perfect but watching this channel gives me so much confidence in my relationship.
@@crisspyg.9742 but it was him saying that's food, she was saying that there is no food and they need to go shopping. So I'd assume usually their pantry looks different.
@@tymondabrowski12 they listed off those foods, as things in their home when this story occurred. I dunno who you think you’re talking to but, I’m pretty sure we’re both here because we just watched the same video…
@@RandomGamerCory😂😂 except you NEVER GET A BREAK FROM IT!!!! If you think being a stay at home mom is easier than working a paying job, you are clueless.
To be fair that isn't normal to work 8 hours without lunch breaks. He should really just draw a boundary there, take a proper lunch break with a home packed lunch and then he won't be so hungry at end of day
A lot of the time, this is chosen by the worker. I used to never take my lunch break because it was unpaid. But it's possible he works at a terrible place.
If it is mandated no lunch, then he has a legitimate gripe. I used to never take lunch because the sooner I got the job done, the more I made. Also, stopping to eat was just a pain as I would have to pick back up where I left off. But that is just me.
I'm a merchandiser for a soda company. About 99% of the time I work 9-10 hours straight with no break. Granted I sort of get one when I'm driving from location to location in my car but I'm still chocked in and I don't stop for food.
My boyfriend is the same way. " I cant save money." There is food i buy in the house. Chicken, pork kielbasa, fruit, veggies yougurt, milk cofee, ect. Every week filled with good food to take with him. Orders food to go or gets food from a chain...everyday.
@@gee4947Another hack for you: drink a glass of water as soon as you get up. Have it ready before you go to sleep nearby. You just spent eight hours with nothing but air. Try to get it down in under 15min. Bonus points if you can drink a glass and wait 30min before each meal but most of us don't have that luxury. It's like a warm up flush/lubricant for your digestive system.
The girl admits that she lied but she's doing it so she and her child eat more healthy than just eggs and mac&cheese.. Is a positive trait he's ungrateful for..
No he seems like the kind of kid that mom would solely give him chicken nuggets because he asked while everyone else eats normal shit. Bro doesn’t even look the type to boss a hamster
Man, the fact that he feels no guilt eating out while his family is eating macaroni is insane. She works just as hard. I feel so bad for her. I would just save money on the side just in case she needs to leave him.
@@colerobin7708 I also do the same, I usually don't eat until I finish work. I'll usually have one large meal in the evening and have some snacks till I go to bed.
I could say the same of her. They both are doing the same shit, you all need to stop blaming men for every fucking thing take some god dam accountability
When men say that there's 5 things in the house it usually is a list that sounds like this- mayonnaise, two slices of stale bread, a packet of noodles,soy sauce and one avocado.
People like this show me that me and my husband have good heads on our shoulders. We both grew up poor and we're now middle class with 2 incomes, and we still spend money like we're on a super tight budget. It boggles the mind how people can just conveniently forget they have a funds problem but then go and be lazy like this.
I tell my wife there's nothing to eat. She claims there's plenty in there. I rebut that there's only ingredients, not meals. It's a give and take 😂. Context: she's a stay at home mom, a damn good one at that, and i work 12hr shifts. I eat anything that she makes, simple or gourmet.
No I’m 21 and I literally made my family Shepherds pie. The other day pot roast. Me and my spouse are good at managing finances. People mature differently
I am a stay at home mom who cooks for my family. Often, I miss lunch and just eat breakfast and supper. Did you know that if you make your own bread, you can save a bundle?
I remember eating the same food 6 days a week every day while doing 10 hours a day because it’s what we could afford. Never complained, was just happy to have food to eat.
From a retired geezer who often worked an active job 14 hours straight with a 5 minute lunch at my desk, I am SO happy to hear a young person calling out another for his whining about having to work at a fast food place for only 8 hours (as compared to many jobs where people do heavy lifting/standing/walking for 10-12 & more) WITH the offer of a free meal, and for the fiscal irresponsibility of both parents in this scene. They both needed lessons in real life before having children. If someone my age said these things, they’d be castigated for being a boomer who doesn’t understand the problems of youths these days.
Exactly I work as a lvn and do Amazon flex as my 2nd job. Bro i call my Mondays days off because i only work 1 job and it’s just a 10-6. My hard days are my Thursdays-Sundays where I work from 10-6 get off and go right to my other job to work a 7-5:30
An active job at a desk? I'm confused. I've worked fast food, I've worked heavy labor, I'm now in an office. Fast food is STILL the hardest job I had. Him working normally and complaining sure...mock that but don't act like fast food is sunshine, rainbows and lollipops. Or that your desk job is harder. Come on, this isn't the flex you think it is.
Idk i used be a SAHM with savings, made dinner every night asked what he wanted. i used my own savings for groceries, made dinner he say it was shit ( which everyone else loves my cooking) take my card without telling me and my fast food. My savings dried up fast. After that he still buy fast food for family to eat by himself. I go get groceries realize i had nothing, asks him to pay, he just say he already spent all his money. So when he asked why clean all day the house never seems clean, constantly belittle me for not having job when we had a baby, with 0 help .I asked him how he works all day never brings money home. He said it was his money, he doesnt have use on his kid. I married someone else. But ill never be house wife again. Sorry people who dont provide dont derserve housewifes. If dont like it, then be an adult and pickup after yourself.
@@Lvl03cumnrun the funny thing about OF is that if you REALLY want to make bank on there, you have to put in a lot of work, at least in the beginning. I'd even compare it to a regular full time job. I know because I looked into it at some point and realized that there's no point in putting so much effort into making adult content when I'm limited by time (age) anyway. Might as well put this effort into something that capitalizes on my brain and life experience as those aren't necessarily going anywhere. 🤷♂️
