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I'm a Bengali... married a Bengali didn't work out... married an Egyptian, it's going great Alhumdulillah... you never know who your soulmate will be! 🙃
Um... where was I putting down "bengalis"? Just cause it didn't work for me with A BENGALI... doesn't mean it won't work for someone else. I'm a bengali too so...???🤷
@@aklimab1235how do you guys communicate with each other in different languages. Is he okay with eating asian food ? I heard Arabs don’t eat spicy food
I’m not gonna lie. If you see me and my husband we are exactly like you guys. I’m Bengali and my husband is Pakistani. I’ve known him since 16 and went to uni together. We are 26 and 27 now. InshaAllah you’re journey will be easy and lovely.
@siemenssx1 I understand your point. But in the end, life is what we make it. Our parents want best for us too but they're also fulfilling their wishes through choosing who we should marry. Will we do the same for our kids too? Unless there is an obvious bad reason that a person shouldn't marry, everything else is acceptable.
MashaAllah, God bless your relationship. You guys seem to have such a beautiful relationship and I love how important Islam is to you guys. I totally agree with Kamran about how us muslims create such differences and segregation, it’s quite sad really because as Muslims we shouldn’t care about another persons race, status or whatever! We should set an example and inshallah we will all get along despite our differences 🙏🏼
Kamran please let Habiba talk. I'd love to hear her expressing herself more with less interruptions. May Allah put baraka in your union and put love, mercy and peace between you like He promised.
Mashaa Allaah I think you both are amazing. Very happy for you both. May Allaah Subhaana Hu Wata Aala bless your marriage abundantly, protect you both from all forms of evil, grant you both success in this life and the next and unite you both in this highest Jannah ameem Soooooooooo happy to see a good couple like you both
It's well known that many Pakistani guys have a very strong preference and very strong attraction towards Bengali girls. Bengali girls are very beautiful, very loving, very caring and they have a great sense of humour Mahshallah 👍
@Shazzad Afridi what do you mean they are not attracted towards anyone every human has some sort of attraction towards each other whether its a girl or a boy. why 98% marry their cousins. Are they forced to marry their cousins. 98 percent dont you think its odd. And whats wrong in marrying someone outside their nationality as long as the guy is muslim it should not matter. This type of mindset is haram.
@Shazzad Afridi Are you pakistani. Forcing is haram in Islam. Its really very very sad.I dont understand why pakistani parents have this mindset that their daughter have to marry someone from their culture like a pakistani guy. Islam comes before culture.
@Shazzad Afridi Most Pakistani girls don't find Bengali guys attractive from what I've heard while there are some Bengali girls do find Pakistani guys attractive that's the difference. But it comes down to an individual's personality regardless of their ethnicity.
Awwwwwww mashAllah💕💕 cute! And these days our Bengali parents are accepting any ethnicity as long as they’re Muslim, so mashAllah and stay happy always x
No no no, I've once seen a video of a Bengali girl marrying a black guy but her parents took 4 years to accept the guy as their son in law or something like that.
I'm 28 single and realised people I knew from the past who are successful, married are the ones who grew up in school knowing each other and studied at th e same time. It's having the same vision and goals to grow together. It's long term, esp when that common ground and friendship is there from the he beginning. I'm not saying this is the only right way of doing things but that these relationships last MashaAllah
@s ahmed lol. No. I just can't be bothered to get married. Honestly life's less complicated. But I'm just a few, most bengali girls I've come across are married.
Get married to the right guy (dont settle for crap cuz of pressure baisicily). Just believe ur husband is out there and beilive he will come into ur life . Trust that and know that and it wil manifest into ur life.
Honestly sis don’t make a huge wedding just something small you already know what’s going on in this world do you want to risk all of that for one night🙄😏🤔be smart
Mashallah what a cute couple, may Allah keep you both happy and you have a successful marriage together :) You both have inspired me to do my nikah asap too, may Allah bless you xx
@@maryam.aziz01 actually i couldnt phrase my sentence properly. For me my mother tongue is important thats what i wanted to meant. But for you it good that you understand both. Have you been to Bangladesh or pakistan.
Islamically if youre ready, its better off esp if you already have someone. Parents shoudnt say no if they can afford it etc bc i thinkkkk its not favourable. Plus they need to put that mindset or ego aside, usually theyre afraid of what the society will say etc, but no point sinning bc of society.
@@hanna4yearsago312 Its rare when it comes to a pakistani girl marrying a bengali guy. But their are many many bengali girls married to pakistani guys.
Nice guys keep the spark always in your life. Communication, respect and trust is the essence of all relationships. Wishing you guys happy life together.
I've seen a lot of pakistani men marry bengali girls but never the opposite. Pakistani girls usually marry Pakistani boys or if they're pashtuns/pathans then they marry afghans
I totally agree with you. Pakistani girls have this mindset they only prefer pakistani guys. There are many pakistani guys married to bengali girls but in the other hand pakistani girl dont usually marry bengali guys. Only 1 of 1000 cases.
@Balochi boy Maybe a few date arab girls but in Arab culture marriage outside is frowned upon so it's very unlikely. Pakistani boys date white girls more often especially urdu speaking and Punjabis. lol but end up marrying in pakistan to someone within their ethnicity
Loool that’s funny because I see so many Pakistani girls dating/marrying Bengali guys. In fact one my Bengali friends is actually in the process of marrying a Pakistani girl as they have dated for like 7 years. You’re just deluded and you got a superiority complex which is just embarrassing. No wonder they like Bengali guys more 😜
Ma'sha'Allah a lovely video. I pray Allah give you both a successful marriage. And may you always please Allah.. In'sha'Allah Ps: Habiba can you please share a makeup tutorial. I would love to see
I'm not Asian, but this is pretty interesting, does it really create problems if you're not from the same country even though you're both ethnically Asian?
Iamyou iamyou Even if there hadn’t been any wars it would be the same, because Asian parents expect you to be married to someone from the same city and language dialect as you, so marrying someone from the same country is hard too.
@Dolla Holla no way! I never would have guessed it. Its similar to the African culture too, some countries only want to marry someone from the same country and tribe. I don't think it matters tbh as long as they are a good person.
Just personal opinion ... im GLAD i did not marry the boy at uni back then. im GLAD it didnt work it out with him. We were too young and niaeve. And didnt understand how to do relationships. We still needed time to grow into our own personalities and after that i realosed we are not the same and completly incompatible. Now 3 years later ive met the perfect guy الحمد لله ❤
Mashallah you're both so adorable! This might be a bit of an ask but could you give some advice about how you overcame your parents disagreement with the marriage? I know it all worked out in the end for you alhumdullilah but at the time where your parents were against it, how did you overcome this? Did you think they will change their mind eventually, or would you have married regardless of if you had their approval?
Lol i cant imagine what a ‘Covid’ wedding’s gonna look like. Mines this summer too and we’re still tryna figure out all the tings. #AllahistheBestofPlanners.
Hi. Just wanted to ask...you said you haven't had your wedding yet. I assume nikkah is done? Also do you live together? If not...shouldn't you be in own households and not mixing due to coronavirus guidelines etc. Xx
What about Pakistani girls if all Pakistani boys are going to marry bengali girls why don't they marry bengali boys boz they are not so educated and nice so these days it's a trend to find Pakistani boys. Please boys do think that its unfair with Pakistani girls.
I agree with you. pakistani girl usually dont marry bengali guys on the other hand many bengali girls are married to pakistani guys. To make it fair more pakistani girls should marry bengali guys and become more open minded.
cool tohid tbh I think it’s both bengali boys and Pakistani girl problems as a whole, bengali parents are a lot more strict on the boys in marriage as they’ll see the bride and their son a lot more and of course when they see the bride they’ll try engage in conversation but if they can’t communicate there’s no way to start communicating, whereas with their daughter they know they will see them less frequently than their son and overall they want their daughters to just be happy where they are which is the main reason I think the parents are more strict on boys with marriage, and Pakistanis seem to hate bengalis for some reason as you can see with some of these comments in the comment section so the Pakistani girls parents will not allow the marriage this happened with one of my friends he barely managed to go to her house and her mum was happy for her and fine with it but her dad politely told him the marriage can’t be done because her family don’t mix on top of that elderly People will hate the idea of interracial marriages .I’m half Syrian and half bengali my dads bengali and mums Syrian, my mum told me that she had no problem marrying my dad but when my dad said my mum was Syrian my grandparents lost it but eventually they allowed her to come and talk about it she didn’t tell me anything else after that but I’m guessing they thought she was a good person and my mums side as a whole we’re good muslims too so they agreed with the marriage. So I think it’s usually the bengali parents that stop these interracial marriages going on
@@altair311 what you are saying about bengali parents when it come to their son getting married to a pak girl is 10 percent right. Its not always. But what i see its completely opposite for pakistanis parents they arent very much possessive with their son but very possessive with their daughter. Just see uk for example 80 to 90 percent pakistani girls are forced to marry their first cousin. Moreover pakistani girls arent attractive to bengali guys because they say bengali guys are dark skinned.
@@tohid5416 lol not big number of girls out from Pakistan. Mostly men are outside country. That's why you not seen these cases. Here are also Bangali origin in Pakistan and girls are married with them lol
@@samahmad8203 No, because sylhetis are native to North East Bangladesh and they speak sylheti, an independent language similar to Assamese and bengali but not bengali. Bengali is the Bengalis speaking people and they're mostly from west Bengal and east and south Bangladesh region.
Loool that’s funny because I see so many Pakistani girls dating/marrying Bengali guys. In fact one my Bengali friends is actually in the process of marrying a Pakistani girl as they have dated for like 7 years. You’re just deluded and you got a superiority complex which is just embarrassing. No wonder they like Bengali guys more 😜
Lol.....many Bengali guy married white romanian, american....they upload videos....and I have seen 2 wedding where bride is pakistani groom is Bangladeshi
@@altair311 pashtuns also lives in Pakistan but pashtun people on average are very strict they married within their clan and you are from South london yeah in West Pakistani origin or Afghani pashtun they are different because they are born and brought up in different environment and different culture but if you look at pashtun from Pakistan and Afghanistan they are very strict they don't gave their daughters to other people specially Punjabi or Sindhi people in Pakistan.