'Husband Withheld Info About His Body Before Wedding' -- Reddit Story 

The problem here isn't his body, or how he understandably had a difficult time telling her. The problem is that since he didn't wait for religious reasons, I feel like the guy rushed into marriage to "lock her" and prevent her from leaving when she realises he has a micro penis. What else would he be waiting until marriage for? This is so manipulative...

I have no preference for “size”. Literally none. If I had been convinced to marry someone before sex because of their morals & found out they had purposefully withheld this information AND had gotten married just because they didn’t want me to be able to leave as easily once I saw their dick… that’s not ok. If they’re willing to use something as serious as marriage to benefit their self esteem is terrifying and makes me wonder what else they’re hiding or lying about and what else they’re willing to do.

I died when you said a bullet vibrator and the guys just go “mmmm” at the same time 😭😂

"He was afraid I would leave him if he told me before the wedding." So...he trapped her? This is literally fraud, and not OK (you can actually list fraud as a reason for divorce).

If I was bamboozled by a man like this I don’t even know what I would do lol

Huge lie. Completely unacceptable. And gives people who actually do wait for marriage for religious or personal reasons a bad rap.

"its the motion of the ocean, not the size of the boat" but in honesty there's a lot they can do, but if someone lied to me for a year I'd be...upset to say the least?

Sexual compatibility is a huge part of relationships, and he really did lie to her here.

I saw a comment on the original post that said, put the micro p aside. His way to deal with problems is to lie and hide it. How is he going to handle future problems in the marriage? That’s the real issue I think.

I will die on this hill: HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.

I feel like the lying is the largest issue. I feel so bad for her. It's like I understand his insecurity but you can't trap a person like that. Totally unacceptable. Like give her the option or find someone that would put up with that.

According to Reddit, he found out about the posts and is upset. He's filing for annulment and considering suing for defamation of character. Edit: He wants to take out a mortgage to get an extention (and we're not talking about a house) thus she is leaving him.

Me & my husband waited until marriage & I literally made him measure himself over the phone (length AND circumference) because we were both virgins and I was highly concerned how things were gonna fit together😂

Wow. . It's not about the sex it's about the fact that he lied to her for so long. Anytime they do have sex she's going to think about it, anytime he tells her something where she needs to trust him she's going to think about it. It's going to be hard being able to get far in the relationship after the fact that their relationship is kind of basically built on lies.

"I bet he can finger like a demon" lmao. For reals though, I would have a HUGE problem with being lied to on such a serious degree. They are MARRIED they should be OPEN with one another. Honestly this is on a similar, not the same, level as baby trapping.

The ultimatate bait and switch. I'm not sorry but no. The whole situation poisoned that well. I'm sure technically she can get that marriage annuled for fraud.

I can understand a man avoiding sex due to insecurity, but the fact that he made sure it would be harder for her to leave when she found out is quite weird

Imagine her not telling him she’s infertile until after they got married?

These guys were funny. You should have them on again!

I’ve been in a similar situation where I was with a guy with a micro and he didn’t tell me until we got intimate. I didn’t mind until I found out how selfish he is in bed. If you’re in that situation, you HAVE to make sure your partner is taken care of too. You can’t just think about yourself. So yeah, I dumped him. He semi stalked me and I had to block him on everything and every time he made a new fake profile, I blocked that too.

There are tons of options for intimacy in this case. It’s all about communication with the person you love. The problem was that he didn’t tell the truth about his reason for waiting until marriage. These guys had me rolling my eyes this whole video. This wasn’t a cool take

Justin is watching this and yelling "communicate!!!"

yeah i mean as far as intimacy it shouldn’t be the biggest issue in the world, there’s other stuff they can do. but lying about it is not okay.

Not my story but an ex coworker of mine had a similar story dated and got married within 7 months of starting to date and the man convinced my coworker to become a born again virgin. Only to find out on their honeymoon that he couldn’t get it up. Like at all….. idk if it was an annulment or divorce but she’s single now!

I feel like if he couldn't be upfront about this challenge and insecurity, it doesn't bode well for their future challenges together.

That's manipulative and she should get an annulment.

Oh no, poor baby was worried she'd leave bc of his size but doesn't think RESPECTING the person he plans to MARRY is worth anything? Cry us a river. Lying for an entire year about something crucial makes me wonder what else would he lie so much about. It would have me questioning even him marrying me. Like he wouldn't be able to do this to other women and was just marrying me to lock me in due to low self esteem making him think his size would make him unmarriable.

"I've tried to Google micro penis and not a lot comes up" that's fucking HILARIOUS! Especially because Morgan didn't mean it that way.

Here’s the thing, if she were the one, she wouldn’t care. The size isn’t an issue because he can’t control it, and I understand insecurities but he intentionally kept it from her until she essentially couldn’t leave. Thats not okay and i hope he works on his insecurities

noooo he 100% trapped her. if this had been about like, waiting to reveal that he has a child or massive student loans or something it would've been the same case. it's not wrong to expect to know someone before you marry them

It’s a red flag for me just because what happens if he does something and is too embarrassed to tell you? And then hides it and lies? If he’s willing to lie about something this immature this early then it’s not worth it for me. He already doesn’t have any trust

This was a good episode!! Do you think two hot takes could do a collab with against community guidelines? I feel like that would be an ultimate crossover episode

I have such mixed feelings about this! On one hand I don’t like the idea of anyone being shamed for their bodies for anything, which of course isn’t her intention, but is kind of a lot of our’s. BUT- the fact that he made it seem like the celibacy was for moral reasons, when he was really trying to trap her with marriage without letting her know what that would mean for her, is what is wrong here to me. I don’t think she’s TA. I feel bad for him that that’s what he felt he had to do

It's not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean.

These guys are hilarious, please have them on the podcast again soon 😂

“It’s the motion in the ocean” but dude isn’t creating any waves with that.

I can emphasize with the guy but what he did was so wrong because he did it for the wrong reasons. He lied and took away her right to fully know who and what she's committing to. We can preach all day that it shouldn't matter but you can't hold people hostage no matter how much you disagree with their preferences.

“She does say the size” “YESS” I died

"Scandinavians are tall and hot." Ma'am I'm 4'11 😭

I had to do a whole freaking presentation about this for my medical class, they still function like normal and everything he was probably just super embarrassed but a fun fact is that we only need 3 inches to be pleased 🤷🏻‍♀️

I find it interesting how OP and many people in the comments have said that the fact that they can't have penetrative sex isn't relevant.

I mean... there are ways to get around it. You can get attachments that mold onto it and extend length. So yeah...

Imagine if he's one of the guys that don't eat p....

"By pyramid I mean 11/2 inches " I cannot stop laughing!!

I’d be extra pissed because it could’ve easily been avoided had he learned to be a good salesman and been upfront and used the “you get to pick your perfect strap on” perk 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ but instead he lies and hides it.

As long as they can communicate and find loop holes to work it out it should be fine but no matter what he lied and I would feel betrayed that’s just messed up regardless

“This is our podcast now”. 😂

Please make more podcast with these two they are hilarious I could not stop laughing the whole time.

Please have these guys back, this is my fav episode of yours they are freaking hilarious 😂

There are SO MANY ways to have great sex when you are smaller. But, this kind of thing you need to openly communicate about. He KNEW this was a special circumstance. They will probably want to use different toys- well, what if she wasn't comfortable with using toys? This was a lie that he KNEW would be a problem (even if there was a solution) and wasn't open about it. He's a liar.

Just wanted to say that in the metric system 1.5 inches are like 3.8 cm

Its the way he says ✨cooter✨ for me.

He's not a sweet man. He was sure the girl would leave him so he made it so she COULDN'T leave him. That's not fucking sweet in any way. I hope she sees that soon and DTMF.

Loved them, hope you have them on again 🤣

I need more of these two guys on your pod 😂😂😂the comments got me 💀

Size isn’t as big of a deal as most people make it out to be but why would he risk being with one of those people by withholding it. I would rather tell my partner about things like this so if they didn’t want to be with me then I wouldn’t waste my time. To me the issue is definitely the lying.

“After a cold shower? I’m fucking myself”. 💀 these guys are hilarious!!! Great additions, Morgan!

Honestly… I’m suuuuper old fashioned and religious. I can understand the frustration and betrayal, really. But my viewpoint; I’m all for waiting until marriage to discover what is down below. It’s the most wonderful statement of “I take you as you are because I love you.” He was insecure, clearly, and lied, indirectly, and that is what should be the main concern. I recommend she put that aspect aside though, out of compassion, and just tell him he never has to feel that he need to be discrete with his issues again.

4:54 The guys

Like 2 woman can get it on! you can work with that!

Big deal. Divorce only option. What else hes hiding.

It’s not the length of the ship it’s how it sails

It's not the size of the ship or the motion of the ocean, it's whether the ship stays in port long enough for the passenger to get off.

"finger like a demon" 💀

It's the motion of the ocean, but you can't get to China in a rowboat.

I wonder if OP's husband is actually intersex. Might be worth looking in to.

I spat my coffee out at the mini corn dogs comment, I CAN’T! 😂😂😂

I swear I love your videos you’re inspiring me to start my own podcast !!!

I see it similar to if he had lied about his income and bank account… “don’t worry I make good money and I’ll take care of you”. Then you get married and find that he has $10 to his name and doesn’t have a job.

I’m married now & satisfied 😄But when I was dating I had a bf with a micro AND had neverrrrrr tried anything with his mouth if you know what I’m saying…. Talk about disappointment 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Yeah... as a guy... I wouldn't know how to handle, what, 4cm ? in my life either. (Being Scandinavian and all... ;-) ) That must be a life time of constantly feeling insecure and getting reminded of it time and time again. I really hope he finds a way to compensate for it sexually.

He intentionally held that from her and I would be pissed

Divorce.

he better be the best 🐱 eater ever to keep me around ! lol

I'd not be intimate with the person on the honeymoon because that doesn't feel like informed consent. Then I'd tell him we'll have a 6 month resting period and get divorced for irreconcilable differences.

Na because he could have learned to please her but he decided to lie because of his own insucritys about his size and not being able to please her Oh the irony of men

She’s pretty dumb to not be suspicious of him not wanting sex aaaaand getting married after 6 months. So weird.

“Cause u cant see them” 😂😂😂

2:28 “it’s gotta be hard…” “Nothing’s hard, listen..” really got me 😂

Omg these new guys are so funny. I was snort laughing thru my data entry

Honestly the fact they got engaged after 6 months after dating is a red flag in itself

Nope! You were lied to, and he cannot consummate. Nope. Annulment.

Focused way too much on the micro part. It's the lie for an entire year that's important here.

My husband's Scandinavian, lol i can confirm its biiig 😅

The intro song is so good omg I need to hear the full version

Oy vey. "It's not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean. "

1) he lied 2) sex is important in most relationships

Lmfao really enjoyed these guys! 🤣

I had an ex that had a micro He years after got surgery Shit happens

These guys are amazing, super funny and sensitive

I'd go with it if he told me but if he lied to me and didn't tell me until after.

He said "micro cooter" 🤣🤣🤣

I don’t blame her for feeling trapped

Sexual compatibility is super important to a lot of couples. It’s important for me and my partner, as we feel it deepens our emotional connection. If he had kept that information from me and potentially “locked” me into a marriage with him, all because I hadn’t seen his wang and it was small, I’d leave. Luckily that isn’t my situation and me and my partner are happy together, but my point still stands.

Yo! 😅😅 my hubby is defendant of a viking clan & 100% truth in the big cocks😙 i was almost scared when i saw it

It's not how deep you fish, it's how you wiggle your worm.

Noooooooooooooooooo! No! No! No! I’d sue the bastard! I’d divorce and sue him for all he’s worth! 😠 He lied completely to her.

Listening to the episode and all the jokes and shaming comments maybe some can empathize why this man would be concerned.

I mean my fiance told me it was small but not exactly what that means. I got lucky hes like a 4 maybe 4.5 on a good day so yes still small but not micro

We need more of these guys on this podcasts. They're funny as heck 🤣