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I’m still here. Going forward… 

Narcissism Survivor
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@nazcarcup
@nazcarcup 2 года назад
I'm so freaking grateful that you're here. Seeing this notification makes me so happy. Makes my soul happy.
@SomeOne-il9kl
@SomeOne-il9kl 2 года назад
Yay right I dam near cried when I saw there was a video from this lovely genuine man who helped me personally so much. Ahhh good times.
@susieq2334
@susieq2334 2 года назад
I started to cry at the library lol. I’m so happy he’s ok. I saw the second video first and was so shocked that I couldn’t concentrate. Just hit like without a clue about what he was saying.🙃🤗💕💕
@LouiePlaysDrums
@LouiePlaysDrums 2 года назад
Praise the Lord, you're still here. Some people were saying that you passed away last year. I'm glad it's not true. You're an inspiration. GREAT to see you again!!! Looking forward to your next videos.
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 2 года назад
So happy he’s back! What a beautiful Sunday it is!! He was one of the first channels I watched!! Can’t wait for the next new video! Welcome back!!
@libertycan6959
@libertycan6959 2 года назад
Ill second that!!
@josephpress1235
@josephpress1235 2 года назад
God doesn’t take away the scapegoats we need to do his work and spread the news to others what devils hidden in the family can do.Glad your back .We always manage to keep going even when the tough gets rough we persevere!
@indreurbonaite5886
@indreurbonaite5886 2 года назад
So happy to hear from you! We all missed you. Take care of yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself regarding posting videos.
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
Yesssss💜 What Indre says😉
@clarasiewwl
@clarasiewwl 2 года назад
Agreed!
@ShireWitch
@ShireWitch 2 года назад
So happy to see you Tom! Here's to all us survivors 👏👏👏
@pjtucker1660
@pjtucker1660 2 года назад
You are a Warrior! Shine your Light bright 💜💛
@FirehouseDub
@FirehouseDub 2 года назад
You're a good guy, Tom. Happy to see your face and hear your voice.
@shannonwhite3721
@shannonwhite3721 2 года назад
You have changed my life! Helped me find myself a few years back when I was lost in the dark. You are a beacon for many. I'm sooo glad you're here❤️❤️
@di-6895
@di-6895 2 года назад
Me too. He opened my eyes. More than therapy
@Mangoliveson
@Mangoliveson 2 года назад
So great to see you, Tom. I hope you continue to heal. You pulled me out of my deepest darkest time. I was 58-years-old, having anxiety attacks, not having a clue why. One night at 3:00am one of your videos popped up randomly on RU-vid. I watched it and cried my eyes out. Then I watched the rest of your videos, and made some major changes in my life. I cut ties with my abusive Golden Child sister, and cut way back on communication with my narcissistic father. I feel like a new person. You have helped so many people identify this horrible behavior. I wish you well! Thank you!
@ahlmost
@ahlmost 2 года назад
There he is!!!
@susieq2334
@susieq2334 2 года назад
❤️
@magicelectric4475
@magicelectric4475 2 года назад
You talk about whatever you want ! We are all just glad to see you back !
@SomeOne-il9kl
@SomeOne-il9kl 2 года назад
Totally totally agree with this comment.
@changeisnecessary5371
@changeisnecessary5371 2 года назад
I'm so glad to see you posting again. You helped me understand narcissism better than anyone else. I also wish you peace and thank you for your wisdom.
@stellabella5269
@stellabella5269 2 года назад
Omg what an awesome surprise! So glad you're ok!!!!
@lauB30
@lauB30 2 года назад
O thank God , im so glad that you are fine , 🥰
@nazcarcup
@nazcarcup 2 года назад
I discovered you in 2016 and you helped me through such a difficult time. We are so freaking happy you're back. We need you sorely in this day and age.
@bellefiori574
@bellefiori574 2 года назад
Knowing that you are ok brings me so much joy!! I was worried and sad. But I KNEW you were ok that's what I kept telling myself because you are more than a thriver! You've changed my life Tom and I will always be supportive. New videos or not I am SO GLAD that you are ok! HUGS!
@Petar90
@Petar90 2 года назад
Im glad you are okay sir. I look forward seeing more of your videos
@REHABPOKER
@REHABPOKER 2 года назад
You're alive my man
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941 2 года назад
💜oh my goodness! What a wonderful surprise!!! Sooo glad to see you!!!
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941 2 года назад
💜 Just like the title of Eartha Kitt's autobiography "I'm Still Here"! Thank you for all your inspiration when i began this journey in 2017. Feel educated enough in 2021 to do the "real work" now!
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941
@madamepiafsteinkitt8941 2 года назад
💜Thank you! Teary eyed that Tom is back and so grateful to have met the multi-talented Eartha Kitt💜in Atlantic City! She autographed this very book for me.
@vincenzafiorica
@vincenzafiorica 2 года назад
Glad to see u tom
@marycrawley7119
@marycrawley7119 2 года назад
So very happy to see you. YOU have touched so many lives and have personally helped me more than anyone or anything else. Please, please take good care of yourself. You offered everything to us by being willing to share your life. I can only imagine the toll each video took out of you. Only do what helps Tom. We already love you.
@libertycan6959
@libertycan6959 2 года назад
Amen!
@justme8101
@justme8101 2 года назад
Oh my word. You have made my day. Bless you. Take your time in looking after yourself. Once victim, survivor now thriver I've been on a journey no doubt So I'll use what I've learnt on the journey To show others there is a way out R. Philomena
@josephcassano6296
@josephcassano6296 2 года назад
Make videos on things you like to do, discussions about things going on in the world or different topics, your favorite places to eat in Brooklyn, the music you like, the good things in life! You deserve it and in my experience the best way to overcome the past.
@milicasakic9079
@milicasakic9079 2 года назад
I'm so happy to see you again 😊❤️
@beeswax888
@beeswax888 2 года назад
So good to see you Tom
@borgullet3376
@borgullet3376 2 года назад
We love you Tom, you are A Warrior - Happy All Hallows Eve.
@birdchirp6129
@birdchirp6129 2 года назад
Peace to you too friend. Survivors 🙌
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries 2 года назад
Anything you want to say is GOLD!!!
@layladee5604
@layladee5604 2 года назад
What a wonderful surprise, Tom! You are so appreciated ♥️🌺♥️
@SimplyMy777
@SimplyMy777 2 года назад
Tom i’m so very happy to see you!! Sorry you had a rough year, I pray and send my very best wishes for your well-being long into the future. Much love ♥️
@AC-ew2xr
@AC-ew2xr 2 года назад
wow ! welcome back! you look fantastic! Hope you get well and do more videos. We miss you!
@erics.5645
@erics.5645 2 года назад
So glad you're here. I have been watching your videos, helping me so much. Thank you so much.
@jaykram7754
@jaykram7754 2 года назад
Sorry to hear that you experienced such a rough year, Tom. Hopefully, this next year will be more gentle for you...I personally have really benefited by viewing your videos. I appreciate the fact that you are not a professional mental healthcare worker. But, an actual down to earth person who personally experienced the horrific abuse common to the rest of us.
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
A mental health professional cannot duplicate you and your expertise however I am concerned on how you feel about it when you bring back your feeling from the past when helping us, I mean we love you, but we don't want you to get dragged down by teaching us. You've been through enough and you've helped so many of us enough already. Just be careful, baby steps.
@laday4792
@laday4792 2 года назад
What a great Halloween for me! I’ve received two of the best treats. My granddaughter was born this morning and now seeing you are okay! What a relief. 😊
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 2 года назад
Congratulations!! It is so good to see Tom back!!
@laday4792
@laday4792 2 года назад
@@rorywright5692 thank you and yes!
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
Congratulations🎀💕👚🥿
@laday4792
@laday4792 2 года назад
@@selfesteem3447 thank you!
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
@@laday4792 sooo exciting when new babies joining families😊
@erikavaleries
@erikavaleries 2 года назад
Love you so much!!!!! Hope you feel better. We adore you.
@angeelee9277
@angeelee9277 2 года назад
Good to see you again.
@lightningbug276
@lightningbug276 2 года назад
Hi! Glad you’re here. Sorry things were bad. I have anxiety too. It’s not fun.
@caseyrevoir
@caseyrevoir 2 года назад
Made me happy to see the notification on my phone. Good to see you again, Happy Day. Would love to see the videos you suggested making.
@akricket2956
@akricket2956 2 года назад
So good to see you Tom! Thank you for posting and take care of yourself!
@wellnesswithsaira5331
@wellnesswithsaira5331 2 года назад
I’m so happy to see you back. Lots of love and hugs to you 💕💕
@shellcshells2902
@shellcshells2902 2 года назад
So so so good to see you sir! 💓
@luizamoura9193
@luizamoura9193 2 года назад
When I saw the notification of your video, I came as fast as I could. I'm so so so glad you are still here Tom. Praise the Lord! ❤️ Your videos have helped me immensely.
@A.S2400
@A.S2400 2 года назад
We love you Tom! Praying for you ♥️👏🙌🏽🙏🏼
@korberdekraai4017
@korberdekraai4017 2 года назад
I'm happy to see you again 😊 I hope you will be fine 🤞🙏 I'm so happy to see you that I'm crying now 😭 What a relief to see you
@harpsailorharp6716gg
@harpsailorharp6716gg 2 года назад
he is one fabulous guy xx
@austenhenning3237
@austenhenning3237 2 года назад
It’s so great to see you! Any videos that you make will be appreciated. Your videos have been so validating and enriching, I can’t thank you enough.
@joyfuljoyjoy4360
@joyfuljoyjoy4360 2 года назад
Love to see any content you decide to put out! Thank you for who you are.
@locarla1044
@locarla1044 2 года назад
Welcome back. Yes, I agree that after many years of seperation from the narcisstic dysfunctional family dynamics, you can gain strength by deep introspection and change our installed (by them) malware programming. This would be a good topic to inspire others that this ubiqutious conditioning is not who we, (their scapegoats) really are.... Glad you are well.
@caireengraham
@caireengraham 2 года назад
Grateful you pulled yourself out of a very challenging situation. Much peace and harmony.
@catspajamas2961
@catspajamas2961 2 года назад
So glad you're back, Tom. You sound great! Just, Yay!
@nathaliedufour3891
@nathaliedufour3891 2 года назад
Hellloooo there!!! Sorry about the horrible time you have had to endure😪 Thank you for what you do for all of us, survivors🙏❣
@paperseatbelt
@paperseatbelt 2 года назад
I just wanna tell you how much you have helped me stay strong. Your a beautiful person 💕💕 very happy that you made it though health scares. I hope all positivity in your life. Stay strong 💪 💪 you got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lindsayharrell6343
@lindsayharrell6343 2 года назад
So glad to see you!!!
@sixtysix2632
@sixtysix2632 2 года назад
Hey Tom, good to see you. I was wondering what happened to you. I'm happy you back and making videos again. May God bless you.
@BetterOff735
@BetterOff735 2 года назад
So glad I saw this video pop up in my feed.. Heyyyyy !! I said to myself.. Look who's back!! SO Great To See You !!! Thank you for popping in.
@lindsaydavies9775
@lindsaydavies9775 2 года назад
Wow, so glad you are ok.. I was hoping you would be back soon. your videos have helped me over the years, especially 2 years ago when my grandmother passed away. My Narc mother raised hell and you helped me through it.. forever grateful I have been no contact ever since, until my brother passed last week and searched for you on RU-vid straight away because I am going to his funeral and need support. I feel so much stronger after listening to your experience, courage and hope. God bless you what a gift you are to everyone 🙏
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 2 года назад
Had to watch again to make sure I saw what I saw!! I’m willing to bet everyone here is so overwhelmed by your coming back!! This is why I kept you in my notifications, in the hope you would be back!! I sure will look at your new videos! Take care of yourself! I’m also glad your old videos still show up! We had contact with you in that way while you were away! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@maryrichardson6029
@maryrichardson6029 2 года назад
So glad you're back. Take care of yourself first. I would enjoy anything you want to share with us. I use to listen to your old videos. They were comforting to Me. Update: NM died oh what a relief. Peace brother💕🇺🇲
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
Mary Richardson🌻🤍
@kurlykaitlyn
@kurlykaitlyn 2 года назад
As everyone else says, I am so grateful to see you again! Someone who truly understands and gives us permission to feel our sadness and anger, and the courage to walk away from that source of pain . I lit up when I saw you on my screen!! Bless you and take care of yourself ❤️
@amandawoods4051
@amandawoods4051 2 года назад
I'm so happy to see you... thank you so much for coming here. I'm so sorry for the year you have had but so glad to see you xxx
@elizabethd.2398
@elizabethd.2398 2 года назад
May God bless you ABUNDANTLY, Tom.🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
@hodansaciid8706
@hodansaciid8706 2 года назад
Omg thank God that you’re still here with us. I’ve been checking your channel like everyday. I hope that you’re well and happy. Edit: I wrote my above comment before I’ve watched your video, that’s how happy and excited I was to see you. Yes please make more videos, I’m one of the people your videos have helped tremendously. I went no contact with my narcissistic mother and siblings too and I’m so happy about that, I just wish I went no contact sooner.
@bryan101384
@bryan101384 2 года назад
This made much more than my day. I'm so happy to see your face Tom. We love you no matter how often you are able to make a video. I knew some of the rumors in the comments were false. People can be very sick and twisted.
@anxious6023
@anxious6023 2 года назад
Hi tom
@Nonreligeousthiestic
@Nonreligeousthiestic 2 года назад
HAHAHA Your still here, i'm so glad, like seeing an old friend that was there for me. So glad your still trucking 🎈
@tuffryda
@tuffryda 2 года назад
welcome back! we missed you and we appreciate you coming back. hopefully next year and the years to come will be better for you, praying for your health and the health of your family! you encouraged me to go no contact with my narc family. god bless you!
@LoriCor-
@LoriCor- 2 года назад
Oh, wow, bless you heart. It is so good to see you, again! I am so happy to that you are doing well! The content / videos you described, here-how you thrived and how it would have been different had the abusers been in your life would be of great interest to me! I hope you do these. I can't wait. Many blessings, Tom. Much love, ~Lori 🙏🌺🌈😊🎶🌹
@ginger1174
@ginger1174 2 года назад
God bless you Tom! 🙏 So happy you are okay 👍 missed your videos!
@indira5601
@indira5601 2 года назад
It’s good to see you again! I’d like to see videos of you more often, but you should only make videos when you feel like it 💖
@kristinanne6534
@kristinanne6534 2 года назад
I’m so glad you’re back and that you’re doing ok. I’m so excited for future content.
@godzillamanstreb524
@godzillamanstreb524 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️so happy to see you and can’t wait for your new videos ✨
@naynaypeaceatlast349
@naynaypeaceatlast349 2 года назад
God bless you💕🙏This video made my day..so happy to see you.. I'm sorry to hear it has been a rough year for you..I pray each day gives you more strength..I think those things you discussed would make wonderful videos and help so many of us..have a wonderful day..thank you
@sinead5925
@sinead5925 2 года назад
So glad to see your back Tom 😄 lookin forward to seein your videos 💕
@janasebastian
@janasebastian 2 года назад
Great to see you again Tom, you helped me so much in the early days of my journey. Glad to know you are ok !
@tragedienne1
@tragedienne1 2 года назад
So good to see you again!!! 😊🏆🏆🤗🤗
@spacegoat7955
@spacegoat7955 2 года назад
Good to see you Tom! Very difficult couple of years here too. Many visits to the hospital, also thanfully not covid related. Peace
@glenwrobertsii
@glenwrobertsii 2 года назад
We are so glad to hear from you, I've just been re-watching your series and was so grateful for it when I first discovered it and I'm glad to hear that you are feeling strong enough to come back to this platform.
@samphazm
@samphazm 2 года назад
So so happy to see you. You are so loved Tom ❤️
@romanastrasheim5226
@romanastrasheim5226 2 года назад
Just hold on sir!! Hold on!! Jesus loves you!! 🙌❤ GOD LOVES YOU! WE LOVE YOU!! 🙌 GLAD TO SEE YOU! HOLD ON TO HOPE. YOU ARE NOT ONLY A SURVIVOR BUT A WARRIOR!! FOR GOD! ! ❤
@mattrussillo4587
@mattrussillo4587 2 года назад
Glad you're O.K.! Glad you're back.
@katrinmurnain9197
@katrinmurnain9197 2 года назад
Wonderful to see you Tom , i can relate it has been a devastating year here also and also with another breakdown etc ...i am so glade you are back and you are amazing a golden soul , yes i would love to hear your ongoing journey , anything , know you are much love , big hugs and understanding from Kat in Australia
@micheby2186
@micheby2186 2 года назад
You look great with the beard. Glad you're well. 💛💛💛
@billyyousaf01
@billyyousaf01 2 года назад
Hi Tom, Wow, awesome to see you back! I was really worried! Really sorry to hear that you had a challenging year but great to see that you survived it.😊👍 Videos wise, definitely videos about surviving & thriving would be useful, but, emphasising why no contact from the Narcissist is important would also be a topic to cover along with some of your experiences that you went through. Massive thank you for making the video and great to see you back! 😊 Cheers, Billy
@TheMinimalistSparrow
@TheMinimalistSparrow 2 года назад
So glad to see you. Share what resonates with you, what you are learning. That would be awesome I have cancer because of the abuse went no contact in 2015. I got curious and called...Big mistake!! They never change except getting meaner. I'm done for good!! Moving forward no turning back EVER! Evil to the Corps!
@QuintessentialKeygirl
@QuintessentialKeygirl 2 года назад
I'm so happy to see you! Any videos you choose to do are great!
@DeeChele
@DeeChele 2 года назад
Tom!!! I'm so glad to see you!!!! 🙏🏽
@connectingthedots100
@connectingthedots100 2 года назад
Yeh! 🙌 Love it! Looking forward to it! That's where I'm at as well. So that's going to be interesting! So glad to see you again!
@lisa0795
@lisa0795 2 года назад
I’m so glad you are okay. Thank you for posting.
@robina9185
@robina9185 2 года назад
Wow, so glad and inspired to know you are still with us despite everything the world has thrown at all of us. 'Survivor' is the word!
@marquitamyers6267
@marquitamyers6267 2 года назад
Yessss we need to know how to move forward after the narcissist abuse. Please help us on are journey of healing we need each other . It's really good to see you again an hear from you. praying for you an your health .
@skajs426
@skajs426 2 года назад
You are a noble man.
@DSWH072869
@DSWH072869 2 года назад
Hello there! I was wondering. God bless you!! Thank you for your teachings.
@jacquelinebaird2824
@jacquelinebaird2824 2 года назад
So pleased to have you back. God bless you and keep well.
@travelbug4536
@travelbug4536 2 года назад
High dose B12 for nerves, trust me!
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 2 года назад
Hmmm... cool
@numgun
@numgun 2 года назад
The legend is back! Welcome and happy to see you again. I followed your advice and many years later after finally escaping that hell and going no contact I have healed tremendously and enjoy life a ton more than before. 💪 Thank you!
@theresavita9633
@theresavita9633 2 года назад
I'm sooooo HAPPY TO SEE THAT FACE! I wish you peace Tom! 🦋❤️
@radiantbritt
@radiantbritt 2 года назад
Glad you’re back!!!! Wow. Back to watching the video now. 💕
@joeleonard2222
@joeleonard2222 2 года назад
Hi Tom. Glad to see you are doing ok. Please have your doc. Check your magnesium levels. I had a horrible experience with my nerves and anxiety. Because it was very low. Peace and be well.
@nicholas5160
@nicholas5160 2 года назад
Please Tom. Keep doing videos! Thank you very much!
@desirae8591
@desirae8591 2 года назад
So good to see you again. Thank you for making this video.
@LK-bs1vg
@LK-bs1vg 2 года назад
Your videos kept me alive , I always prayed for you and hoped to see from you. Welcome back
@jacquelinetillyer8666
@jacquelinetillyer8666 2 года назад
Ah, hi Tom good to see you back. You were the first Narcissist channel I found on You Tube and your wise words saved my sanity back then. Every day brings new revelations. We survive, together we all survive. Thoughts and all good things from London UK
@yoginipatrice7992
@yoginipatrice7992 2 года назад
So happy to see you again. I've missed you so much. I learned so much from you and am looking forward to learning more. What are your spiritual insights? Do you have any insights about the Archons? LOVE
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