I started to cry at the library lol. I’m so happy he’s ok. I saw the second video first and was so shocked that I couldn’t concentrate. Just hit like without a clue about what he was saying.🙃🤗💕💕
Praise the Lord, you're still here. Some people were saying that you passed away last year. I'm glad it's not true. You're an inspiration. GREAT to see you again!!! Looking forward to your next videos.
God doesn’t take away the scapegoats we need to do his work and spread the news to others what devils hidden in the family can do.Glad your back .We always manage to keep going even when the tough gets rough we persevere!
So great to see you, Tom. I hope you continue to heal. You pulled me out of my deepest darkest time. I was 58-years-old, having anxiety attacks, not having a clue why. One night at 3:00am one of your videos popped up randomly on RU-vid. I watched it and cried my eyes out. Then I watched the rest of your videos, and made some major changes in my life. I cut ties with my abusive Golden Child sister, and cut way back on communication with my narcissistic father. I feel like a new person. You have helped so many people identify this horrible behavior. I wish you well! Thank you!
I'm so glad to see you posting again. You helped me understand narcissism better than anyone else. I also wish you peace and thank you for your wisdom.
I discovered you in 2016 and you helped me through such a difficult time. We are so freaking happy you're back. We need you sorely in this day and age.
Knowing that you are ok brings me so much joy!! I was worried and sad. But I KNEW you were ok that's what I kept telling myself because you are more than a thriver! You've changed my life Tom and I will always be supportive. New videos or not I am SO GLAD that you are ok! HUGS!
💜 Just like the title of Eartha Kitt's autobiography "I'm Still Here"! Thank you for all your inspiration when i began this journey in 2017. Feel educated enough in 2021 to do the "real work" now!
💜Thank you! Teary eyed that Tom is back and so grateful to have met the multi-talented Eartha Kitt💜in Atlantic City! She autographed this very book for me.
So very happy to see you. YOU have touched so many lives and have personally helped me more than anyone or anything else. Please, please take good care of yourself. You offered everything to us by being willing to share your life. I can only imagine the toll each video took out of you. Only do what helps Tom. We already love you.
Oh my word. You have made my day. Bless you. Take your time in looking after yourself. Once victim, survivor now thriver I've been on a journey no doubt So I'll use what I've learnt on the journey To show others there is a way out R. Philomena
Make videos on things you like to do, discussions about things going on in the world or different topics, your favorite places to eat in Brooklyn, the music you like, the good things in life! You deserve it and in my experience the best way to overcome the past.
Tom i’m so very happy to see you!! Sorry you had a rough year, I pray and send my very best wishes for your well-being long into the future. Much love ♥️
Sorry to hear that you experienced such a rough year, Tom. Hopefully, this next year will be more gentle for you...I personally have really benefited by viewing your videos. I appreciate the fact that you are not a professional mental healthcare worker. But, an actual down to earth person who personally experienced the horrific abuse common to the rest of us.
A mental health professional cannot duplicate you and your expertise however I am concerned on how you feel about it when you bring back your feeling from the past when helping us, I mean we love you, but we don't want you to get dragged down by teaching us. You've been through enough and you've helped so many of us enough already. Just be careful, baby steps.
What a great Halloween for me! I’ve received two of the best treats. My granddaughter was born this morning and now seeing you are okay! What a relief. 😊
When I saw the notification of your video, I came as fast as I could. I'm so so so glad you are still here Tom. Praise the Lord! ❤️ Your videos have helped me immensely.
Welcome back. Yes, I agree that after many years of seperation from the narcisstic dysfunctional family dynamics, you can gain strength by deep introspection and change our installed (by them) malware programming. This would be a good topic to inspire others that this ubiqutious conditioning is not who we, (their scapegoats) really are.... Glad you are well.
I just wanna tell you how much you have helped me stay strong. Your a beautiful person 💕💕 very happy that you made it though health scares. I hope all positivity in your life. Stay strong 💪 💪 you got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, so glad you are ok.. I was hoping you would be back soon. your videos have helped me over the years, especially 2 years ago when my grandmother passed away. My Narc mother raised hell and you helped me through it.. forever grateful I have been no contact ever since, until my brother passed last week and searched for you on RU-vid straight away because I am going to his funeral and need support. I feel so much stronger after listening to your experience, courage and hope. God bless you what a gift you are to everyone 🙏
Had to watch again to make sure I saw what I saw!! I’m willing to bet everyone here is so overwhelmed by your coming back!! This is why I kept you in my notifications, in the hope you would be back!! I sure will look at your new videos! Take care of yourself! I’m also glad your old videos still show up! We had contact with you in that way while you were away! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
So glad you're back. Take care of yourself first. I would enjoy anything you want to share with us. I use to listen to your old videos. They were comforting to Me. Update: NM died oh what a relief. Peace brother💕🇺🇲
As everyone else says, I am so grateful to see you again! Someone who truly understands and gives us permission to feel our sadness and anger, and the courage to walk away from that source of pain . I lit up when I saw you on my screen!! Bless you and take care of yourself ❤️
Omg thank God that you’re still here with us. I’ve been checking your channel like everyday. I hope that you’re well and happy. Edit: I wrote my above comment before I’ve watched your video, that’s how happy and excited I was to see you. Yes please make more videos, I’m one of the people your videos have helped tremendously. I went no contact with my narcissistic mother and siblings too and I’m so happy about that, I just wish I went no contact sooner.
This made much more than my day. I'm so happy to see your face Tom. We love you no matter how often you are able to make a video. I knew some of the rumors in the comments were false. People can be very sick and twisted.
welcome back! we missed you and we appreciate you coming back. hopefully next year and the years to come will be better for you, praying for your health and the health of your family! you encouraged me to go no contact with my narc family. god bless you!
Oh, wow, bless you heart. It is so good to see you, again! I am so happy to that you are doing well! The content / videos you described, here-how you thrived and how it would have been different had the abusers been in your life would be of great interest to me! I hope you do these. I can't wait. Many blessings, Tom. Much love, ~Lori 🙏🌺🌈😊🎶🌹
God bless you💕🙏This video made my day..so happy to see you.. I'm sorry to hear it has been a rough year for you..I pray each day gives you more strength..I think those things you discussed would make wonderful videos and help so many of us..have a wonderful day..thank you
We are so glad to hear from you, I've just been re-watching your series and was so grateful for it when I first discovered it and I'm glad to hear that you are feeling strong enough to come back to this platform.
Just hold on sir!! Hold on!! Jesus loves you!! 🙌❤ GOD LOVES YOU! WE LOVE YOU!! 🙌 GLAD TO SEE YOU! HOLD ON TO HOPE. YOU ARE NOT ONLY A SURVIVOR BUT A WARRIOR!! FOR GOD! ! ❤
Wonderful to see you Tom , i can relate it has been a devastating year here also and also with another breakdown etc ...i am so glade you are back and you are amazing a golden soul , yes i would love to hear your ongoing journey , anything , know you are much love , big hugs and understanding from Kat in Australia
Hi Tom, Wow, awesome to see you back! I was really worried! Really sorry to hear that you had a challenging year but great to see that you survived it.😊👍 Videos wise, definitely videos about surviving & thriving would be useful, but, emphasising why no contact from the Narcissist is important would also be a topic to cover along with some of your experiences that you went through. Massive thank you for making the video and great to see you back! 😊 Cheers, Billy
So glad to see you. Share what resonates with you, what you are learning. That would be awesome I have cancer because of the abuse went no contact in 2015. I got curious and called...Big mistake!! They never change except getting meaner. I'm done for good!! Moving forward no turning back EVER! Evil to the Corps!
Yessss we need to know how to move forward after the narcissist abuse. Please help us on are journey of healing we need each other . It's really good to see you again an hear from you. praying for you an your health .
The legend is back! Welcome and happy to see you again. I followed your advice and many years later after finally escaping that hell and going no contact I have healed tremendously and enjoy life a ton more than before. 💪 Thank you!
Hi Tom. Glad to see you are doing ok. Please have your doc. Check your magnesium levels. I had a horrible experience with my nerves and anxiety. Because it was very low. Peace and be well.
Ah, hi Tom good to see you back. You were the first Narcissist channel I found on You Tube and your wise words saved my sanity back then. Every day brings new revelations. We survive, together we all survive. Thoughts and all good things from London UK
So happy to see you again. I've missed you so much. I learned so much from you and am looking forward to learning more. What are your spiritual insights? Do you have any insights about the Archons? LOVE