I Cheated on My Husband (Should I Tell Him?)

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I Cheated on My Husband (Should I Tell Him?)
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@zerocrutch 2 года назад

She didn’t just betray her husband. She betrayed her whole family. Poor kids.

@cennon 2 года назад

Are those kids even his? He should demand a DNA test.

@jimcole6423 2 года назад

That statement is true.

@SarahR2D2 2 года назад

@@cennon So true

@johnsmith-kt7ef 2 года назад

Seriously don’t understand this, as someone who works out 5/6 days a week this is so common too. She destroys her family for a trainer who is probably running through women. As someone who has a couple friends who are trainers some of the stories they have shared with me are pretty crazy. Honestly if your a husband build a home gym for your wife. It’s crazy how many times married women have flirted with me at the gym and I am just a guy whose slightly above average looking but in great shape. This is just very common unfortunately.

@SarahR2D2 2 года назад

@@johnsmith-kt7ef It's not about you Satan is just trying to destroy what you have

@nikkole9951 2 года назад

Why do people refer to cheating as a “mistake”? It’s not a mistake. Cheating is a choice. You do not trip and fall and land on another man or woman’s privates. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Thebootyrater 2 года назад

Because she wants to sound less guilty. It’s something manipulators do.

@nolimes4u449 2 года назад

I agree...but look up Ehsan Abdulaziz

@NeccoWecco 2 года назад

People can regret their bad actions. A mistake is an action or judgement that was misguided or wrong.

@LtGrandpoobah 2 года назад

"Mistake" is not synonymous with "accident." Mistakes are intentional, bad decisions which can lead to accidents. Accidents are unintentional, like the consequences from mistakes. I think you're using them interchangeably.

@antoinelyons5323 2 года назад

You are so right

@VliengWieng 4 месяца назад

My wife did this to me, she told me that she 'kissed a guy' and that it was a mistake and it was over, I took us to counselling. The therapist saw through her lies in 5 minutes and she cracked open. Turns out she had a full blown emotional and sexual relationship with a coworker for a year. I'm divorcing her now. Cheaters are the biggest selfish assholes on earth.

@dpeagles 4 месяца назад

Stay strong friend. Been there

@7seas852 4 месяца назад

If they tell you it’s worst then whatever they tell ya. I found out my wife had an emotional relationship I let her cheat a lot of family and friends where mad when this was revealed I made sure her parents caught her 1 day I invited them out to lunch same spot my ex wife and BF would go. Knowing she would of cheated but I stopped her I wouldn’t be able to trust her the same way so why not let her go full tilt

@cjpreach 4 месяца назад

Betrayal. That's the hardest to deal with. If a stranger is cruel to you, it hurts less because you never invested your deepest trust to that person.

@steve6631 4 месяца назад

Stay strong.

@vicmanm010 4 месяца назад

Good for you man. And im sorry yours going through this. Be strong in the Lord.

@jonos9467 3 месяца назад

Imagine you are a happy married husband and you casually listen to youtube, suddenly you hear your wife.

@Silvermoonscorpion Месяц назад

I wonder about this everytime..

@emaansalle3111 Месяц назад

😂😂

@NiKtHeB0Ss Месяц назад

Then you’re clearly not a happily married husband, are you? 😅

@Hudson__scott__morris Месяц назад

@@NiKtHeB0Ss not anymore

@tsaunders4684 29 дней назад

I know, that would have to suck and hurt so bad.

@aaroncoles2433 Год назад

He gotta get outta there. She doesn’t love him. He was just the “safe” guy.

@truthfulpatriot9129 7 месяцев назад

yep🎤

@manuelvalencia2828 7 месяцев назад

So what? 😂

@makeitallgaming8396 7 месяцев назад

@@manuelvalencia2828so what? You have to be a woman. That man needs to go ahead and leave. You should NEVER be the safe guy. She should be head over heels for you other wise she will go heels over head for someone else. Just like this woman did. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@igorlang884 6 месяцев назад

She’s for the streets end of story!

@golfer435 6 месяцев назад

She very much does love him or this wouldn't be eating her alive

@kunya16 Год назад

"I found myself in a relationship" "He just started talking to me" "We ended up sleeping together" "I made a mistake" No accountability. At all. If she had any she'd say "I chose to cheat on my husband. It was awful and now I don't know what to do."

@Privateryannnn Год назад

Typical woman

@carolinekamya2339 Год назад

sounds like narc traits

@eyoung8215 Год назад

do you know men who say I chose to cheat on my wife. This is the lack of unaccountability in people.

@adspur Год назад

They never take responsibility.It’s always someone else’s fault

@CallMeLTR Год назад

@@eyoung8215yes all the guys I know that did something like that said it openly 😂😂 men admit it pretty easily. I have yet to hear a woman do the same.

@d.barrett578 6 месяцев назад

The fact she lowkey admitted the affair only stopped because the husband found out about the messages is sickening.

@mssophiad03 6 месяцев назад

And even then she didn’t tell him the whole truth. I hope he listens to the show and recognizes her voice.

@user-og3jz2ev8r 6 месяцев назад

Women are disgusting. She’s probably more worried about losing his providing for her than the relationship. How she ends up stacking shelves as a single woman in her 70’s

@goodgolly8465 5 месяцев назад

If the loser trainer made enough money to support her she would still be with the trainer and bounced on her husband. She sucks.

@TheGrimConspiracy 5 месяцев назад

Watch fresh and fit

@d.barrett578 5 месяцев назад

@TheGrimConspiracy I have a life and have been actually touched by a women. So I'm good.

@drewdjv1 2 месяца назад

As a married man - this really hurts my heart

@avacado9689 2 месяца назад

Yeah right!!... No good husband and No good wife deserves that!!.. ❤️

@angelkat333 Месяц назад

@@ATexasPerson101Is he willing to go to couple’s counseling? If he’s not willing to work on your relationship and be honest with you, it’s time for you to leave. Life is precious and you don’t deserve to waste a single second longer with someone who disrespects you. There are good men out there who would never even dream of hurting you like that.

@Reaper-ri6lm Месяц назад

@@ATexasPerson101 you gotta ask yourself if he told you the truth would you forgive him? If the answer is "no" then you gotta do what's best for you and your child and just leave. He'll never respect you enough to tell you the truth, much less not keep cheating on you in the future. If he thinks he got away with it once, he'll do it again. I hate cheaters, my ex wife cheated on me and didn't admit it until I caught her red handed.

@gregorycarlson6632 Месяц назад

@@ATexasPerson101I’ve dealt with situations like yours professionally for over 30 years. You’re in a tough spot. I usually try to encourage people to try to work things out. But in situations like yours I advise people to get out of the relationship if at all possible.

@lottoo5693 Месяц назад

Pretty naive getting married at all 50% of marriages end up in divorce and 40% of married couples are in a unhappy marriage.

@rossmanngroup 2 года назад

What the heck is this? She found herself in an unhealthy relationship? Found herself? Like she had nothing to do with engaging that relationship, starting that relationship, participating in that relationship? She just found herself there. The way I find a dollar on the floor.

@szzk7937 2 года назад

She is a horrible person Louis.

@Ruffles2012 2 года назад

Louis Rossman :D didn't know you followed Dave Ramsey

@enjoylifeyolo73 2 года назад

Nice to see you here Louis. 😁

@adrianjeffrey2897 2 года назад

It was an entanglement

@minoozolala 2 года назад

It's just a way of saying she got caught up in it. No huge deal.

@fullmetal_neet2288 Год назад

This woman isn’t sorry for cheating. She’s sorry she got caught. When asked what would do differently, she never said she wouldn’t have cheated.

@naraendrareddy273 Год назад

She isn't, there's a reddit story that came out at the same time roughly that matches this story. Her comments were outrageous.

@jim2386 10 месяцев назад

@@naraendrareddy273can you post a link?

@naraendrareddy273 10 месяцев назад

@@jim2386 Just search "Wife cheated on husband with gym trainer reddit". It'll be the top search result

@leeninini 9 месяцев назад

F for link

@kimberlyreed5236 8 месяцев назад

I think it’s funny how things became “really well” in their marriage in 2 months! It went from horrible to very well in 2 months. She didn’t really get caught. She side stepped what was found out with a lie. She’s talked to people and GOOGLE and knows she’s wrong. I think she didn’t like how she got treated afterwards by the personal trainer or maybe found out she wasn’t the only one the trainer was complimenting on her form. She said she was so stupid. She thinks she’s stupid cause she realized the PT played her, not because she threw her family under the bus!

@jasonbourne1119 2 года назад

“I was in an unhealthy relationship” I swear, these girls can’t just admit what they did.

@AntiAshley 2 года назад

Right. I wanted John to ask what she meant by that

@jasonbourne1119 2 года назад

@@AntiAshley yeah, he usually makes people clarify but I think he knew right off the bat where she was going with this.

@andrew8168 2 года назад

Hard Times create Strong Men Strong Men create Good Times Good Times create Weak Men Weak Men create Hard Times (WE are here)

@CR1SPBAC0N 2 года назад

This is the thing with the majority of Women, they want the authority of a Man, with the privileges of a Woman and the accountability of a child. Her opening up with “I was in an unhealthy relationship” is a prime example.

@4x4cherokee 2 года назад

Which relationship was she referring to as the unhealthy one? The one with her husband or the one with the family wrecker? 🤔

@spacepope87 2 месяца назад

She got busted AND only wants to tell him because of guilt. What a selfless woman!

@ryanzackel2019 2 месяца назад

he’s gonna leave her as soon as she tells him.

@Tony-bp1nr 2 месяца назад

You mean selfish. Right?

@spacepope87 2 месяца назад

@Tony-bp1nr You are right. Thank you.

@jamesmorrison7989 2 месяца назад

@@ryanzackel2019hopefully. He absolutely should leave her. Can’t ever have trust in a relationship after that.

@Illtechnica Месяц назад

Right. Notice how she led off with the relationship toxicity. She’s trying to obfuscate total accountability. And she’s calling into this show to hopefully, selfishly, remove her own guilt. She WANTS to bury this. But her conscience is killing her. But she doesn’t want to look like the bad guy.

@biancav1623 2 года назад

The fact that when she was asked “if you could do this all over what would you do differently?” And she didn’t immediately say not cheat on my husband speaks VOLUMES

@davidlatting3789 Год назад

You’d think that would’ve been her immediate response.

@ChrissyBeTalking Год назад

Yep. This is about her guilt. I feel bad for her husband.

@jamilarichardson6393 Год назад

That was shocking to me too. Her answer was more about her than not hurting him. Makes me wonder how much she really loves her husband.

@TheMasterMUF Год назад

The only reason that she is telling him is so that she can feel better. It has nothing to do with him.

@matthewjohnston7071 Год назад

I thought the same thing

@spencersmith312 2 года назад

This is so awful. Charles Spurgeon once said, "So many times we trade an ocean of trouble for just a teaspoon of pleasure." Sin is a dreadful thing that should never be entertained.

@zeal4god402 2 года назад

The wages of sin is death and in this case, death of intimacy, death of joyful communication, and possible death of the marriage

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

I like that quote.

@SDALLE99 2 года назад

Must be pretty cold up there, on your high horse. Sometimes you just have to embrace a bit of darkness to feel alive. Dogma leads to death. Live and let live.

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

@@SDALLE99 If you need to feel alive, jump from a high cliff preferably without a parachute. Just leave other people out of your "darkness".

@reedriter 2 года назад

@@zeal4god402 I really think this is a big danger at gyms. Any personal trainer should not take their clients out for coffee- they should set up strict boundaries so this doesn't happen. Just asking for trouble.

@robertballard4611 7 месяцев назад

She won't tell him, she is looking to justify not telling him

@listrahtes 6 месяцев назад

Sometimes telling is the more selfish act. It really depends.

@gabrielmenezes8206 6 месяцев назад

No@@listrahtes

@joev7014 6 месяцев назад

@@listrahtesnaw that would be selfish. Thinking about yourself

@clydefowler5560 6 месяцев назад

You don’t tell him.

@cantorcarmen 6 месяцев назад

Telling him is hurting him more than anything. What good can come out of this?

@marciaeovino3584 3 месяца назад

When you tell your husband be prepared for a divorce. He will never trust you again. Good luck

@Lejuno1 Месяц назад

Indeed,there is thing that you should keep to the grave and not doing it again. Because telling the other will destroy a family

@Dandosa1 21 день назад

@@Lejuno1hard disagree, keeping this secret is just as much of a marriage killer as the cheating itself. Tell him, hope to god he forgives, earn the trust back, and most importantly, NEVER DO IT AGAIN!

@kaikai-pb7fh 13 дней назад

No man can love a women who's been with another man during their relationship. Disgusting, get rid immediately

@CruiseMajor69 9 дней назад

@Dandosa1 The problem is that apart from not being able to trust again, the husband can't be sure it won't happen again

@jtlegionnaire6310 2 года назад

The pain I feel for this guy, and his children, so sad.

@marcusarelius 2 года назад

Not gonna lie…I had PTSD while listening to this

@jtlegionnaire6310 2 года назад

@@marcusarelius Same, except was a serial cheater, and never apologized or felt guilt for anything lol but fortunately we didn't have any kids, and she kept her student loans. Much luckier than most guys.

@ThatFlippingFamily 2 года назад

This was hard to listen to for sure.

@GodSaveTheClothes 2 года назад

@@marcusarelius same

@grizzlybear2702 2 года назад

Are they really his children. Doubt he got a paternity test.

@tcasper22t 5 месяцев назад

Not only did she sleep with this other guy but she lied to her husband about it in counseling. That relationship will never be the same. Trust is gone. Ive been there.

@gunner3921 4 месяца назад

Totally agree. He probably went into counseling thinking “this is where the truth comes out and I think I’m open to forgiving.”. Now that the window has closed, lord knows what he’ll do.

@gd8205 4 месяца назад

SAME. Been there. It won’t change

@neurotechman 3 месяца назад

@@gunner3921what's sad she probably did things sexually with the other man that she never does with her husband, and that's another thing 😅

@bossmanham 3 месяца назад

Yeah. Not sure it's salvageable.

@gordocarbo 2 месяца назад

Same here lots of us have. Gotta be the worst thing a person can do to another. Ultimate slap in the face Only thing her husband needs is a good lawyer and some strange..

@debfox Год назад

When people cheat, someone’s health is literally in jeopardy.

@ppharaoh5421 8 месяцев назад

Stds are a bit h

@AdrianoNoGrande 7 месяцев назад

Damn right

@Kenny-Ross 7 месяцев назад

So true. Not just physically but mentally and emotionally.

@Darkyahweh 5 месяцев назад

and if they lie, multiple lives are in jeoperdy. Lost my uncle in his 30s because his wife lied and he never got treatment. Hepitites destroyed his liver because he was non the wiser and a vaccine would have fixed it. Did SHE get murder charged? Nope, cus we live in a matriarchy.

@Prosecute-fauci 4 месяца назад

Someone’s life is literally in jeopardy

@mweiland88 2 месяца назад

13:25 “What would you do different” “I would have told him the first time.” And THAT’s what reveals her real character. Hope he ran.

@flugamenastyedits24 13 дней назад

Right, the answer should’ve been I wouldn’t have cheated. She also reveals a lie in that moment she stumbles on saying the first time. Then tries to clear it up by saying I should’ve told him everything the first time. Couple that with her only stopping bc she was caught. My conclusion is she didn’t just have sex with the trainer one time.

@ultimouomo11 2 года назад

If the husband hadn’t found out about the communicating right after the hook up had occurred, she would have happily continued cheating with the trainer at the gym. But she got caught ‘communicating’ so she had to cut her losses before her husband found out about the sexual affair. I hope the husband has the courage and self respect to leave her and never look back. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing every step of the way; and she doesn’t deserve a second chance. She said she lied because she was scared about losing everyone & everything? Funny how that fear didn’t cross her mind when she made the choice to throw it all away.

@ineedhoez 2 года назад

No one thinks they will talk.

@deanfisher5017 Год назад

UGLY-ZACKLY !

@yuch1102 Год назад

She didnt think about it when she was sucking the other man’s duck

@fakebrake Год назад

exactly.

@Benny-zo3qh Год назад

Yup, I agree with everything you said. I will add (it kills me do defend her) that at least she has some what of a conscience. Most women I know, including one that I've dated will take the sexual part of the affair to the grave and not talk about it with anyone. At least it bothers her

@adamarcher8359 Год назад

She may have only been PHYSICALLY unfaithful with the trainer, but when she said “talking like I wasn’t married” tells me she was flirting with possibly more guys than she’s willing to admit.

@retrobluemusic Год назад

lol why is it always trainers that break up marriages

@benfranklin3638 Год назад

EXACTLY...her closing statement said a lot.

@rachelrivera2997 Год назад

That's a big assumption. She's obviously devastated ans regrets she did this, i think if she's so guilty and wants to come clean she would have said if there was more.

@naraendrareddy273 Год назад

@@rachelrivera2997 She clearly sounds like the flirtatious type. The kind who gets turned on by humour and social proof. I don't sense any regret in her voice. She's never cried. It's just tough to hold it in for her. It's all about HER and not much about him. Their marriage is done mostly. And we need an update on this.

@Monalisa0622 Год назад

@RetroBlue it's very dangerous to have a personal trainer when one is married especially if the marriage has problems. As women we are emotionally beings and sometimes get caught up. Glad that didn't happen to me. I had a personal trainer yes attractive but was never fond of his personality. Even if I was single he wouldn't of been my type.

@daphblue 11 месяцев назад

She can’t find the right time to tell her husband, but she’s got plenty of time to work out and cheat on her husband while he’s potentially watching their kids at this time

@scourge8097 6 месяцев назад

@@6birddog9Yeah....registry. Cool. How profound do you think this is to post it in every thread?

@6birddog9 6 месяцев назад

@@scourge8097 hahaha spread the wordddd

@ArmageddonIsHere 3 месяца назад

Would you be any different? Women follow their feelings, not logic. And feelings can be manipulated. You could be manipulated to do exactly the same thing.

@wordysmith 2 месяца назад

"Just goin down the gym again hon...love you...*whips mobile out*"

@kpj2224 2 месяца назад

@@ArmageddonIsHerethat’s an whore excuse.

@jtahoe81 4 месяца назад

@3:13 he tells her how brave she is??? If a man cheated like this Dr. D nor anyone would call them brave.

@fsu3784 Месяц назад

Exactly.

@manuel007dragon 26 дней назад

It’s just a tactic to make people feel comfortable

@austinmillus7 22 дня назад

Facts

@EazySqueezy-chan 19 дней назад

@@manuel007dragon not people, just women

@abhijitdande3293 18 дней назад

hes a big time womanizer , but when you call him out on his you would see all kinds of gaslighting in all possible directions! haha

@justinchapman1001 2 года назад

She packed on a few pounds after baby # 2 headed to the gym to feel better about herself and the first chad/Tyrone that gives her more than a friendly smile she bangs and all it took was a $4 coffee lmao

@PasturePig 2 года назад

Sometimes putting it so bluntly helps to cut through the 13 min of her excuses. Awesome comment lol

@Unami0929 Год назад

Now hiring: personal trainer. Want to get paid and laid, sign up for an interview. Flexible hours, perks include free gym membership and one-on-one sessions with overweight middle age women who could use some attention. Acting skills a plus.

@drippin_sauce9874 Год назад

I took that guy a $4 coffee to sleep with a married women now image the hoops she made her husband go thru

@achavez78 Год назад

Facts!!!! Alpha seed, beta need!!!

@mrcwoodworks4523 Год назад

That’s sums up this episode on to the next one

@kenmorgan316 2 года назад

I'm 49 years old, and I was cheated on when I was 30. I still feel the pain 🥺 when I hear about it happening to others.

@dalpz205 2 года назад

What if you could've chosen to never find out and live a happy marriage

@kenmorgan316 2 года назад

@@dalpz205 nope... I don't want a relationship based on a lie. The truth always comes out.

@dalpz205 2 года назад

@@kenmorgan316 No, not always. You just don't hear about it when it doesn't. But was just curious if you'd rather not have had the pain of knowing.

@blackbutterfly233ify 2 года назад

@@kenmorgan316 it's been 20 years. Don't you think it's time to move on? Im sure the cheater has definitely moved on, so did your friends and family

@kenmorgan316 2 года назад

@@blackbutterfly233ify I don't dwell on it anymore. But when I watch things like this on RU-vid it is a constant reminder.

@michaelchamberlainart 2 года назад

Ever notice that women almost never call it cheating. It’s always “a relationship with” or “an entanglement with”. Just my anecdotal perspective.

@journeytothevoid2899 2 года назад

She is also making herself sound like a victim. The only reason she wants to tell him is to clear her guilt.

@JustinTheJT 2 года назад

Good Eye. She even hesitated about going back and changing things. She's only sorry she got caught.

@keii5808 2 года назад

It’s an entanglement 😡

@milesmeralis5334 2 года назад

Because they take no responsibility

@aseerih 2 года назад

Nice observation 😷😷

@BRMachiavelli 4 месяца назад

Shame her. Don’t call her brave.

@devadii24 2 месяца назад

Delony was way to nice to her but different when it’s male callers who cheat… it should be the same vibe…. it’s the same act….

@straight-edgemalu 2 месяца назад

@@devadii24his a nice guy and not a good man, doesn’t surprise me.

@MRkriegs 8 дней назад

It's because shes a she and not a he.

@Thebootyrater 2 года назад

Tell your husband, so he can leave you

@carstuff4u942 2 года назад

Yes

@cipryan96 5 месяцев назад

Yes

@SicilianTradition 5 месяцев назад

And then the judge will still give her 70% of everything and make him pay alimony and child support. And she’ll convince the kids it was his fault.

@camsdopejams2411 4 месяца назад

And she will run back to the guy she cheated with lol

@SyrietaHall 4 месяца назад

That's just rude😡

@ImRestriaL 4 месяца назад

Imagine having two children… married for 5 years… and still decide to cheat. This fucking world is a scary scary sick place.

@SamuelPradhanisfit 2 месяца назад

My dad did this when I was 7 or 8 urs old...it tore me my twin brother and my mom...I have forgiven him 16 yes later but I dotn accept him as my father anymore

@DougIIGB Месяц назад

@@SamuelPradhanisfitso stupid. If a man cheats it’s just sex and he still lives the woman he’s with, for women, they cannot love a man and cheat. Men can.

@Melior_Traiano 29 дней назад

@@SamuelPradhanisfit Some people aren't ready to be parents.

@SamuelPradhanisfit 29 дней назад

@@Melior_Traiano that is y making children without conscious discussion is wrong brother

@charlesbell5500 28 дней назад

Well her personal trainer is obviously a pro at picking up women, he's good looking, tall, and her husband probably doesn't workout and is probably a push-over.

@Rbbats1996 15 дней назад

A mistake is accidentally forgetting to turn the oven off. Cheating on your husband / partner is a series of intentional bad decisions, not "a mistake". The fact that she considers this "a mistake" is telling of the kind of person she is in her day-to-day life. Poor husband and kids.

@babbahassa 2 года назад

She is both a cheater AND a liar, run for the hills my friend that is not a wife

@gamer67678 2 года назад

Yeah she's a compulsive liar for sure

@kylehackett162 2 года назад

Must be nice to have never made a mistake yourself eh?

@babbahassa 2 года назад

@@kylehackett162 I have made many mistakes in my life and try my best to learn from them but some people simply cannot be trusted and she is one of them

@cmnhl1329 2 года назад

She belongs to the streets (gyms) and misery is her future

@collinrhodes5667 2 года назад

This whole comment section acting like they’re above these things lol

@angeldaroseli3031 6 месяцев назад

This totally pisses me off. Disloyalty is unacceptable.

@infotechsailor 4 месяца назад

She’s a 304. Watch fresh and fit. Red pill men. A comfortable woman is a bored woman and bored women cheat.

@Mangofruitbowl 4 месяца назад

Real

@catastrofakilluminati4884 3 месяца назад

Most women these days. What a pos she is.

@arielsea9087 21 день назад

If the script was flipped she'd be angry and betrayed. The outcome is inevitable. It wasn't only cheating, it's the lying Double punch in the gut.

@PluripotentKLF4 2 года назад

She didn't just do this to the husband. Everyone forgets, she did this to her own children.

@matthewgardner2144 2 года назад

Will no one think of the CHILDREN!!!!

@Miltonman100 2 года назад

Also her own intermediate family and her inlaws as well

@PluripotentKLF4 2 года назад

@@matthewgardner2144 It doesn't look like it.

@ineedhoez 2 года назад

I'm sorry but children are not involved in the marriage. They're part of the family unit but they're not in the marriage. People say that they stayed for the kids all the time. The kids are relevant to the relationship between the two adults. You never involve your children in your marriage

@snoozyq9576 2 года назад

I don't think everyone forgets but sure lol

@aloha-rob 2 месяца назад

11:15 him saying u runied thanksgiving is so true....she did...really unfortunate. Live and u learn. Hope your kids dont grow up hating u because you just flushed your family down the toliet.

@pattypastel3786 6 месяцев назад

She didn't stop seeing her trainer until her husband found out about them communicating. Which means she wasn't going to stop seeing him if she could have kept it under wraps.

@adnanorochi3761 5 месяцев назад

And that also means that her husband cares for her and he gives her attention to the chick on what she was doing, that just closes the mouth of those who say he didn't give her attention!!! She just fell for the best looking trainer forgetting that she's a mother and has a husband.

@lilblackfish2009 5 месяцев назад

i mean she could have just left it like that and move on and dont tell him that she slept with him but she cant live with herself and yea that theres stories of ppl that can but thats not working for her

@arjundhaliwal8853 5 месяцев назад

@@lilblackfish2009woah a cheater feeling bad about cheating. She’s just a gardening tool

@fatalradius 5 месяцев назад

Exactly. Gotta leave this woman asap.

@danbev9313 4 месяца назад

The trainer folded her up like an origami and cream pied her. I call BS on only getting plowed by this Chad 1 time. She was getting her back blown out daily

@talyahr3302 2 года назад

5 years of marriage AND 2 kids and you still couldn't resist not destroying that? That's sooooo dumb. I don't understand people sometimes.

@ModernSouthernBelle 2 года назад

💯

@amydoran9987 2 года назад

Yes

@grizzlybear2702 2 года назад

And the kids are likely not biologically his

@Gheuns3251 2 года назад

👏🏽

@dj_86 2 года назад

@@grizzlybear2702 don't do that

@araineacutebrownnurse7315 2 года назад

Do you know how much effort, thought and premeditation has to go into actually sleeping with someone?! Its not a mistake , its a decision you made.

@thedoglover8079 2 года назад

Right! It's not like they ran to the gym showers.. They made plans, got ready for those plans, probably lied to go out to those plans and then decided to go home together or to a hotel. She wanted this. It was an affair.

@knowthyself8233 2 года назад

Yep

@elainenilsson5472 2 года назад

Premeditated. Yes, took careful planning.

@BelieverStarcraft 2 года назад

Yep

@whistlepiglet 2 года назад

Well said

@baxinst4102 3 месяца назад

Whats a womens biggest weakness??? Accountability

@ruckin3 4 месяца назад

wife cheated on me. She wanted us to stay together. But I explained that a woman can never again fully respect a man who would allow that and stay with her. She will never look at him quite the same for tolerating it. I dont make the rules. Thats the wiring.

@seecklara3893 4 месяца назад

Good on you. You are 100% correct.

@ruckin3 4 месяца назад

@@seecklara3893 Thanks. I wanted to deal with it and be forgiving as she showed genuine remorse (possibly) but I knew she could not ever respect me the same if I did that. I think a lot of men dont understand this.

@BirdDogey1 4 месяца назад

Truth

@MyDyerMaker 4 месяца назад

You are 1000% correct.

@mercifulservint 4 месяца назад

💯 accurate!

@SidewaysEightSix 2 года назад

Cheating is not a “mistake.” It’s a grown and conscious decision… “I thought maybe I could get out of this….” “This is a rescue for me because it’s not going to go well, so I want a way out.” “Yes, I’m married. THATS the problem.” That’s not bravery. This girl has zero respect for her husband. Her only concern is herself. Her body, her looks, her attention, her lack of responsibility, her lack of confrontation. It’s her her her her her. She doesn’t love this man. She’s scarred of loosing a stable partner, but she’s not scared of loosing HIM

@ModernSouthernBelle 2 года назад

I agree 100%.

@jengable4888 2 года назад

I agree !

@bgpurser 2 года назад

Savage truth.

@gamer67678 2 года назад

I hate cheaters

@jengable4888 2 года назад

@@gamer67678 me too !

@gabrielgalvan9534 2 года назад

I feel bad for the guy. 5 years wasted. I could never forgive my wife if she did that to me.

@thundersnow93 2 года назад

This happened to me after 15 years. I tried my best to forgive and heal, but she checked out and was done. My counselor recognized that right away and prepared me for the amputation and ultimately the divorce. It's been a painful several years but I've got to a point where I'm enjoying my single life now and trying to be a good dad to my kids.

@jefftX 2 года назад

@@thundersnow93 this is why men should never get married. Only keep long term partners. Women are scam artists, most will cheat eventually, they are not logical.

@elainenilsson5472 2 года назад

@@thundersnow93 Ditto

@Ianhawaii10 2 года назад

@@thundersnow93 you sound like a good man, best of luck to you.

@elainenilsson5472 2 года назад

@King Of Crunk Remember that the next time you hear about someone getting scammed with $$. Everyone has temptation. Some people are better at spotting someone who is weaker than others and prey on them. Tell them everything they want to hear. So, it doesn't take 2 to tango. It only takes one good salesman.

@ProfessorOfLogic81 7 месяцев назад

She joined the gym to find exactly what she was looking for, and she found it. She waited until the end of the conversation to reveal that she was the one presenting herself as single and available. She has learned nothing and I really believe she wants him to end the relationship so she doesn’t have to.

@Hybeekay99 5 месяцев назад

Exactly rhe comment have been looking for! She wanted to cheat so badly that she presented herself as single.

@rocketman7471 5 месяцев назад

If you want to end the marriage then you can tell him.

@lindatannock 5 месяцев назад

Why can't a married person go to the gym?! 😂 That's a ridiculous statement to make lol 😆 @@Hillsman001

@lilblackfish2009 5 месяцев назад

@@Hybeekay99 who says ppl who present themself as taken dont cheat lol or ppl who meet someone that say thier taken care what dose that have to do with them lol married ppl cheat with other married ppl it happens all the time

@TheBlackAztec3 5 месяцев назад

@@lilblackfish2009No one said that. You’re reading comprehension is on a 3rd grade level. She wanted to chest so bad she appeared as single. No one said people that appear as married dont cheat. Read carefully next time

@Melissa.712 2 года назад

"Then he FOUND" out about us communicating" so if her husband never found out she would keep seeing this guy?... sounds like it to me

@4mr4goldfish4ily4 2 года назад

Going off how she is handling herself in this call, I think she would’ve felt extremely guilty regardless and caved in at some point early on But who knows

@greg6909 2 года назад

@@4mr4goldfish4ily4 clearly not, "early on" would've been before she got her back blown out.

@Melissa.712 2 года назад

@Dr. OBELA cured me no one cares.

@donpowers6331 Год назад

@@4mr4goldfish4ily4 wrong

@craigford3711 7 месяцев назад

Once trust is broken, I don't think it can ever be mended.

@blazerprophet 7 месяцев назад

I agree that genuine trust & faith are gone forever. What she can do is be faithful to herself every single day and be faithful to him in every way, no matter how small. Her honesty is her best way to some amount of trust.

@TEM14411 6 месяцев назад

It can but one must take personal accountability and seek to understand the root cause of their actions. May all people heal.

@vauxvids 6 месяцев назад

@@TEM14411nope. This rat 🐀 committed adultry.

@stoned_kakapo8736 6 месяцев назад

@@TEM14411 anyone that forgives cheating and tries to make it work, is a naïve fool. if they're older than 20s, theyre idiots

@TEM14411 6 месяцев назад

@@stoned_kakapo8736 all judgement returns to sender.

@acid2824 Месяц назад

bruh 13:10 - He asks, "If you could go back and do this over again would you do it different? what would you do different?" AND SHE RESPONDS WITH "I would've told him the first time he found out" soooo your first thought isn't "I would've never pursued another man while being married" what a moron. How is that not your first regret.

@1986nesha Месяц назад

In all honesty, when he asked the question, I think she misunderstood his question. Her primary concern is not telling he husband, which causes a lot of stress. So when he asked what would she do differently, her instant reply was to do the one thing that causes the problem now, which is to tell him what she did. And then when he asks her to backtrack a bit more, then she replies that she would not talk to the guy.

@darrengeorgetown6758 2 года назад

This affair would have continued multiple times if the husband didn't find out she was talking to someone else. She might have decided it was a one time thing but once the excitement winds down and she starts craving it again she would have contacted the guy from the gym again. We all know how this goes.

@michelleh4717 2 года назад

talking from experience?

@israelrosario3922 2 года назад

@@michelleh4717 if there are no clear consequences to ones actions, said person will clearly keep going without any back minded conscious.

@michelleh4717 2 года назад

@@israelrosario3922 pretty sure extreme guilt counts as a consequence. You don't always have to be told off by someone else to not repeat a mistake you did

@israelrosario3922 2 года назад

@@michelleh4717 trust me, I understand. Most people and most situations though. Not the case

@nickdipaolofan5948 2 года назад

@@michelleh4717 This woman does not show any guilt. She only shows fear of getting caught down the road. If this blows over and her husband never finds out she cheated, she will eventually get bored again and she will start another "friendship" with a strange man, and it will "just happen" again. Women (all people, but especially women) seem to act as poorly as they think they can get away with. Very few people have actual integrity these days....

@msmit152 2 года назад

4:33 She's a liar......she's probably lying about it being a one time hookup.

@SaintlySaavy 15 дней назад

She definitely hooked up more than once. That is terrible for that man. I pray that he can live the rest of his life with his children full custody and be at peace. May God bless him in such a terrible circumstance.

@CabanaD 13 дней назад

Definitely. There was a series of steamy car “meetings”.

@saladboy1465 Год назад

The way she speaks about him says all we need to know "Oh he shouldn't be too surprised" "He's a safe guy". She's only admitting it now because she thinks he's going to find out about it from someone else guaranteed. She's a POS, ruined everything in that family. She's not yours, it's just your turn.

@saladboy1465 Год назад

@@JR-wu8dc what do you disagree with no chin

@hollystiener16 Год назад

She didn't ruin it. It she does it in the right way

@saladboy1465 Год назад

@@hollystiener16 Please, expand on that

@jameshorton3692 Год назад

This is the correct take

@lsubeast13 Год назад

She wouldn’t of cheated on him if she respected him in the first place. the way she talks about him (disrespectfuly) backs that up

@andreaj8319 2 года назад

This is tough because when it comes down to it you put your relationship and your children’s stability at risk for a dude at the gym that probably flirts and does this type of thing with a lot of women. Unfortunately this is the *choice* (not mistake) that a lot of married men and women make and it’s not worth it.

@zeal4god402 2 года назад

What we don't know if this is a dude that would have continued his flirting if he would have known the truth of her relationship status

@mambofuego5101 2 года назад

Female nature…

@henryanaya8459 2 года назад

@@zeal4god402 I think it would have depended on the dude and how this woman carried herself after she told him she is married

@greg6909 2 года назад

@@zeal4god402 unfortunately this type of thinking is very naive. No other guy owes you or your relationship anything. It is 100% on the ones in the relationship. Instead of acknowledging thus though, it's easier to blame others.

@andrew8168 2 года назад

And we all know C. Ramsey and Company would be MUCH harder on a man...

@KDrop84 2 года назад

She is a Narcissist and actually is proud of herself. She is not ignorant of what she did. It was not a mistake.

@cuckertarlson3037 Год назад

Marriage was ruined when the government took it over and created no fault divorce. Imagine getting cheated on, then having to give her half your stuff, pay spousal support, half your retirement, losing your kids, paying child support etc. Modern marriage is a contract where the woman benefits from breaking it.

@hollystiener16 Год назад

She knows what she did. She could go on without telling him, but she is not.

@tunkytunky Год назад

You could hear the smile in her voice.

@map3384 8 месяцев назад

@@tunkytunkyOw he made her shutter with pleasure and I don’t believe for a moment she’s not seeing him on the side.

@Markjacobs4477 7 месяцев назад

@@map3384 yes

@serendipitouscomet 15 дней назад

He said “bravery.” People love to sugar coat things for women and put them on a pedestal.

@Hierosir 11 часов назад

Fucking pisses me off. It allows her to skate around it.

@jefftX 2 года назад

This woman is clearly a terrible person. First she cheated through premeditation. Planned meeting up and did the deed, that wasn’t an accident. Now she’s lying by omission and hiding it from the person she hurt. Now she’s asking if she even needs to tell him? What an awful person.

@lyssbeth 2 года назад

John 8:7

@neemaborji9993 2 года назад

She belongs to the streets!

@TheDaumWorld Год назад

You got that right. She’s my sister in law and we are just now finding this out in my family. She did not only did this once, but 4 times with 4 guys in a year alone. Such a tragic situation for the family right now

@MicahMadru Год назад

@@TheDaumWorld the sister in law of the woman in this video?

@lyssbeth Год назад

@@canyonstinky7817 like i said, john 8:7 babe

@prepordietryin9119 Год назад

She met a fit dude at the gym and wanted to get pounded out. Plain and simple. She knew exactly what she was doing. This is exactly what the red pill community talks about. She probably settled with her husband so that she would have a good life and that he would take care of her and he probably does and gives her everything but that still wasn't enough for her. She still needed to get that Chad to dong her on the side. I can only hope that her husband finds out and kicks the skeezer to the curb. Such disgust. What makes it so much worse as they call it a mistake. No a mistake is being caught up in the moment and kissing someone and then catching your balance and saying no won't happen. A mistake is not meeting someone going out for coffee and allowing things to progress to the point where you're spreading your legs to receive him. Literally no accountability.

@jcme1205 Год назад

Exactly! She dated the guy

@louiscyfer6944 Год назад

you have a very limited understanding of what a mistake is. "noun. 1. : a wrong judgment : misunderstanding. : a wrong action or statement proceeding from faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention." as you see mistake doesn't only mean getting caught up in the moment. a mistake can be bad judgement, such as going for coffee and getting further with it.

@jake_carrillo Год назад

@@louiscyfer6944 dude. Just no

@louiscyfer6944 Год назад

@@jake_carrillo so, you don't know what mistakes means either?

@daisylavenderlove Год назад

@@louiscyfer6944 there was no "faulty judgment" on her part. She sounds like she was WELL aware & in tune with her judgments throughout getting to know gym dude. The mistake was to ever let things move past a one-time conversation. One-time conversation about "form," ok sure. "Hey thanks for the help with my form the other day but i'm married & I don't make friends with men at the gym. See you around, take care." She made a sequence of choices that led to them sleeping together & she needs to deal with the consequences.

@Guitarlvr01 2 года назад

I can’t imagine keeping a secret like this. Some people just shouldn’t get married.

@startingtech3900 2 года назад

you'd be surprised

@charlesg7926 2 года назад

Hopefully My Dude watches this channel and hears his wife’s voice lol

@Guitarlvr01 2 года назад

@@charlesg7926 hopefully she comes clean. Personally I can work through almost anything but not infidelity. That would be the end for me.

@charlesg7926 2 года назад

@@Guitarlvr01 I would actually forgive my wife if she came clean and told me. Obviously, she would have to give me one free pass, and she would have to understand why that’s fair. But I would 100% forgive her. However, I would NOT forgive her hiding it

@charlesg7926 2 года назад

@@Guitarlvr01 basically, if she doesn’t tell me until I find out, the relationship is over. If she comes to me and confesses before I’m suspicious, then I forgive her, as long as she’s understanding of me also getting a free pass. That way, neither one of us got cucked

@antoniorapalo2352 3 месяца назад

Never trust a woman who intentionally wants a male gym trainer lol the day my girl even suggest that, I’m letting her go. I don’t play those games

@_RiseChampions 3 месяца назад

Facts. Too many men are too weak to set boundaries.

@drewbruns2895 5 месяцев назад

Wow a cheater and a liar and laughing about it. What a psychopath

@SC-vw1nx 5 месяцев назад

Narcissist

@davibe2304 3 месяца назад

That’s what they do

@imdannymartins 3 месяца назад

Exactly 😡😭

@johnparker4484 2 месяца назад

It’s a nervous cope thing people

@daryancoffee1050 2 месяца назад

You can tell by the tone of her voice she actually doesn't care

@trentmsteel 2 года назад

Cheating seems to be the only situation where the victim is expected to work out the terms of how they played a role in their victimization. SMH

@MisterModder123 2 года назад

I was cheated on after four years and I can't explain how crushing it was. I'm engaged (to someone else) today, and I still hurt over it. And small little things make me nervous. I can't stand how she giggles about what happened (I know it's nervous laughs) but it's frustrating that she doesn't get it. Ugh. Poor guy. If I were him, and I found out, that relationship would be over immediately.

@brandymeidl7126 2 года назад

Same. Can totally relate. I divorced my exh: 16 years together. Met in high school. Both each other's firsts. That's a level of betrayal and intimacy that...6 years later after divorce. It stays with you. Was the love of my life. Fortunately no kids. I don't think cheaters get it.

@kpas22105 Год назад

@@brandymeidl7126 That’s horrible, horrible. People that have not experienced it have no frame of reference about how deeply this hurts and how long lasting that pain is. Best of luck to you

@matthewhall9692 Год назад

@@kpas22105 Indeed. It is a different type of pain than anything else.

@deadbeats4417 Год назад

so shitty when the person that hurts you laughs about it when telling you, like cmon this ain't funny

@alvarovasquez3687 7 месяцев назад

If For the safety of their kids, Another solution is letting him to f**k another woman to be equal in this situation then they can give peace each other, I know that sounds pretty bad but believe me it works

@bryceoleski5680 4 месяца назад

This woman is not going to tell her husband the truth. When she tells John about the cheating, she is says things like “he started talking to me,” about the trainer. She’s still trying to push responsibility.

@bobmabel8543 8 дней назад

Totally agree. She couldn’t even bring herself to spell it out on the call. What hope when faced with the father of her children. They’ll still get divorced, she’ll keep the kids, he’ll pay child support. The next few years will be difficult, especially when he finds a good woman and the kids start calling her mom.

@Bee-sp7mb 2 года назад

She’s not gonna tell him. She just needed to say this out loud to someone whose not in her close circle. This was her outlet. She’s had plenty of time to tell Him and now that things are going better since he found out there’s no way she s going to open that wound up again.

@nickdipaolofan5948 2 года назад

That is exactly what I was thinking. She has no plans on telling her husband. She probably is only calling the show because she gets off from the drama and is probably getting excited reliving her affair. She uses language that shows she is avoiding ownership of her behavior (such as calling her affair and "unhealthy relationship"). Very typical woman who deflects personal responsibility at all costs. I'll bet IF her husband ever finds out, she will immediately soften her actions by diverting blame onto her husband (he was not there enough for her) and the other man (he seduced her and she was vulnerable). I would file for divorce if I was her husband (if he ever finds out). She will never hold herself responsible for her actions.

@elainenilsson5472 2 года назад

Smart woman

@nickdipaolofan5948 2 года назад

@@elainenilsson5472 If she was smart, she wouldn't have destroyed her entire family just for a selfish, base moment of pleasure. That is not a smart woman.

@jutde 2 года назад

I can tell you from experience that this is what's happening. My ex's outlet was the other guy. I had hard evidence of the affair for months and gave her multiple chances to confess, and even after I confronted her with the evidence she still lied about it and after months of the story changing it was finally enough for me to admit that I'd had enough. She knows it's over, she's just prolonging the husbands pain because of her own cowardice.

@nickdipaolofan5948 2 года назад

@@jutde sorry to hear that. Can I ask you, how did you live with her for months knowing that she was having an affair at the same time and not confront her? That would have been very hard for me to know that every time she left the house, she might be going to her other dude. I can't imagine sleeping next to someone like that every night.

@jonathanfang9612 5 месяцев назад

How is she brave. to tell a bunch of strangers? shouting into the void isnt brave.

@gordocarbo 2 месяца назад

Cant believe anyone would praise her for being brave. Cheats are frigging cowards!

@hammadbhatti263 2 месяца назад

Right. Sometimes this Dr is a dork lmfaoo

@chris-ryan 2 месяца назад

Imagine his family hears this call and recognises her voice before he knows. She knew what to do, she called in for validation and sympathy.

@klickingkayasmr7585 2 месяца назад

It’s a psychological ploy, to get people to let their guard down , so she can feel comfy to open up

@jennprescott2757 2 месяца назад

It’s a tactic to get them to remain open

@melionaire 2 года назад

She cant own up to it . She cant say” i cheated on my husband. im a cheater and a liar” if she cannot own up to it, he needs to leave.

@leannladd3216 2 года назад

No, she needs to leave past mistakes in the past and move on. Commit to doing right...right now and in the future. She needs to repent of her sins, accept God's forgiveness. Her husband doesn't need to know, it's over and time to move on

@birdman7941 2 года назад

Umm yes he needs to know I, take thee, to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part what part of the gives people a pass to cheat? they can move on if that’s what they feel is right but like John said it’s affecting the husband still whether or not he knows that’s not going away on its own…..

@leannladd3216 2 года назад

@@birdman7941 John may have given advice based on what he thinks, but its not biblical. He who is sinless cast the first stone. Since we have all sinned and fall short, we are commanded to repent and sin no more, not placate a spouse that thinks they have a right to know every sin their spouse ever did.....

@jwebby85 2 года назад

@@leannladd3216 Abuse, Abandonment, and ADULTERY are all biblical grounds for divorce. This poor husband is well within his biblical rights to break up with his cheating wife who just will not accept responsibility for her decision and actions. So save your "Let he who is without sin" cherry picking.

@leannladd3216 2 года назад

@@okene I'm not saying she gets a pass. If she is a Christian, and has repented for it, that is enough. She has God's forgiveness. If hurting her husband further by confessing to him is what she does, it's not going to change what she did, so why tell him. Concentrate on loving yourself and living your life in service to God....not man

@RatIceCream 4 месяца назад

Her saying her relationship was “unhealthy” is probably a coping mechanism. If anything, she’s the one that was making it unhealthy (even before the cheating)

@ondemandaquaworkouts 2 года назад

It must be extremely chard to forgive someone who cheated on you, and then lied about it as well. It is like being cheated twice :( Poor guy!

@hamidmohaddes2774 5 месяцев назад

This is the guy she tells you don’t worry about.

@jaws23100 3 месяца назад

So so so true

@kayn2756 2 года назад

This lady is crazy. The husband probably deep down knows she slept with dude, but he is in denial. The moment she confirms it, the marriage is over.

@proudatheist2042 2 года назад

She was willing to throw her marriage away by cranking her legs open to another man she wasn't married to.

@mikenelson8377 2 года назад

As it should be

@BlahBlahPoop617 15 дней назад

She doesn’t even sound that bothered by it. Disgusting.

@henrythompsonIII 5 месяцев назад

Don’t play victim. Take responsibility and move forward.

@seefourgoesboom9090 2 года назад

This man needs to run. Once a woman cheats, always a cheater. She’s for the streets. Infidelity is about the worst thing you can do in a relationship.

@Weakeyedominant 2 года назад

She will get custody of his children plus child support so she won't be getting tossed onto any street. He is the biggest loser in this scenario. He certainly wouldn't be able to trust her again after being lied to twice and this was after he caught her out. It's in her interest to make the marriage work for the sake of the children, but next time she has marriage trouble what's to stop her seeking comfort elsewhere again. I don't know what I'd do in this situation, if he isn't able to forgive 100% the marriage will never work and it will be 100 times worse for them both mentally. I would give it 12 months though to see if time and counselling can heal.

@NeeNee_B. 2 года назад

@@Weakeyedominant 😂😂😂😂😂 thats not what "for the streets" means at all 😭😭😭😭

@aaa-dc5us 2 года назад

What if they’ve cheated in a past relationship but not on you?

@Weakeyedominant 2 года назад

@@aaa-dc5us depends if she was married or not. If she was 19 when she cheated on her boy friend in college I'm sure I could give her the benefit of the doubt.

@carstuff4u942 2 года назад

So true

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

Goodness, what a cliché: Cheating on the husband with a gym instructor....🤦

@LtGrandpoobah 2 года назад

LOL, right?! Exactly my thoughts.

@JustinCase780 2 года назад

Haaaaa...Like a 1990's Richard Gere movie.

@kerrymillar1267 Год назад

Who probably sleeps with loads of women there…..yuck

@seawatch3944 22 дня назад

Disagree with Deloni's advice. Once you tell your husband all the truth, you will break his heart forever. Don't do it. If you sincerely have regret of the affair, don't tell your husband more than he already knows. Pray for forgiveness, give your husband as much love as he deserves, but do not tell him. He will die emotionally, and might never fully recover from it.

@doctorh2005 22 дня назад

Agreed. Certain things are between us and God

@One-rr8um 14 дней назад

No. He deserves the truth. Relationships based on falsehood will die out eventually anyway. I don't know if a person who really regrets the wrongdoings can keep another wrongdoing of keeping the lies hidden from someone who deserves truth and closure. Two wrongdoings by the same person. What a horrible person one can be!

@jfb3361 6 месяцев назад

The husband already knows or suspects… he probably thinks you’re gaslighting him by saying nothing physical happened.

@BlueDauntless 6 месяцев назад

To be fair, she was.

@ibelieve96 5 месяцев назад

🎯

@chris-gx7rs 5 месяцев назад

He should get a revenge cheat

@stro5570 4 месяца назад

Been in that exact boat as the dude😂. Just give it up, “leaned in” did it all, its not worth it, if it’s not this, then it’ll be something else down the road with this woman

@ErayQforgetU 4 месяца назад

@@chris-gx7rs and She should have to watch it

@mokhan1694 2 года назад

She doesn’t regret anything and she will do it again. I can hear it in her voice/demeanor.

@npalmi88 2 года назад

Yup

@knowthyself8233 2 года назад

Of course she will

@ugabuga1361 2 года назад

I hope the husband uses this phone call in court. Hopefully the judge by some miracle will have a brain and not grant this girl any money from her son to be exhusband

@frankcb11 2 года назад

I was thinking the same thing. She may not even tell him. Typical entitled suburb style of doing things. To her its merely a mistake and i think she is more upset that she has to confront it than upset about the actual act itself. She would rather just move on like its no big deal... Have met similar

@the_rush_to_nothing 2 года назад

Yep. The guilt is eating her inside, but she wouldn’t hesitate to do it again. The husband’s forgiveness is the point where she will feel safe to do it again.

@bankslie4one Год назад

i was with my highschool sweetheart for 14 years and she cheated on me when i was working away. it took me to the brink of suicide, to be betrayed like that, I have not felt a more intense pain in my life. long story short is that there's plenty more women out there and they're not all cheaters. don't put up with that kind of disrespect. she can go back to where she belongs which is to the streets.

@isaacwinters6954 7 месяцев назад

I can’t imagine pouring yourself into a person for over a decade Only to have them cut you to the core with that level of betrayal

@bankslie4one 7 месяцев назад

@isaacwinters6954 I hope you never experience it Isaac. It's been a bit over 2 years since it happened and I'll always bare an emotional scar

@beasley1095 7 месяцев назад

@@bankslie4oneDamn brother, I went 5 years to get betrayed. It does cut deep. Sorry bro I feel like that pain never truly goes away.

@robsnodgrass915 7 месяцев назад

Now you know.

@NXT_LVL_DVL 7 месяцев назад

why did she cheat ?

@Savedandfreed 17 дней назад

You know this world is messed up when people think that the truth is what destroys their lives. The truth doesn’t do that. It’s the lies and infidelity that do.

@SelfRighteous101 4 месяца назад

By "found herself" in a toxic relationship, what she really means is that she "chose" a relationship. Her husband is the one that "found himself" in a toxic relationship. With her.

@dmimz7691 2 месяца назад

Good point !

@dankbreh9013 2 года назад

“Maybe I can get out of this” This woman literally doesnt care at all. That marriage is torched. Get the papers.

@ChrisCardenDrums 2 года назад

I don't condone domestic violence, obviously, but if she ended up with a couple black eyes, I get it...

@jennboyd5671 Год назад

She didn’t accidentally find herself in an affair. It was a choice. She needs to own it.

@therocinante3443 7 месяцев назад

Fat chance, they never do.

@Mica-e4p 5 месяцев назад

I think people underestimate their sex drives and the safeguards they need to put in place to protect themselves and their relationships.

@deleon5522 15 дней назад

John is way easier on this woman than other men who have called in regarding the same subject. Come on John.

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

If the guy knows his worth, he’ll file for divorce, hire a solid attorney, seek counseling, and begin the long, drawn out process of moving on with his life

@mariejane1567 2 года назад

why when she wants forgiveness?? would you say that for a man?

@dannydevito4975 2 года назад

@@mariejane1567 Yes. The fact that you defend her speaks volumes about your own character.

@-MOYST- 2 года назад

@@mariejane1567 forgiveness doesn’t come without consequence.

@altx7 2 года назад

Oh yeah just f*ck the kids then right? It’s not like they matter at all. He can just move on with his life cuz that’s what matters in this situation🙄

@ryankelly8077 2 года назад

@@altx7 - uhh he’ll take majority custody while have him & the kids in both individual & family counseling

@Dev-In-Denver123 4 месяца назад

This woman never told her husband about cheating, kept doing it and got pregnant from the other guy. They’re divorced now. I heard about this from her ex husband’s brother. She felt no remorse for any of this

@cplmpcocptcl6306 4 месяца назад

Thanks for the update. Hopefully she receives the same treatment she doled out.

@1984wasthebestyear 4 месяца назад

😮😮😮

@InvestgoldUK 3 месяца назад

Your post should be further up the list. Awful woman and I got the feeling she just called hoping the presenter would say best keep that bit quiet forever.

@michaelmoran2125 3 месяца назад

Honestly if he heard this id be out. Idk if yall can hear it when someone's happy over the phone. But she's an easy read. She liked cheating that was a big kink for her. Probably some ugly girl when she was young and couldn't deal with adult life. Hope she's paying child support.

@ephapax1 3 месяца назад

This aligns with what my intuition was saying to me. After this convo with Delony, she wouldn’t tell him.

@LoneWolf-yg1mr 2 года назад

So now we calling women who cheat “brave” for admitting it ? 😂😂

@jefftX 2 года назад

Simp counselor.

@adamrocks19 2 года назад

Of course! They’re all strong, powerful, and brave no matter what that do. Gotta stay with the feminist mantra no matter what.

@lsjt8924 2 года назад

All the women I’ve seen in the comments have been disapproving what she did… who are you talking about?

@LoneWolf-yg1mr 2 года назад

@@lsjt8924 we talking about women like you

@lsjt8924 2 года назад

@@LoneWolf-yg1mr women like me who disapprove of cheating? Lol… sorry but this “we” you are talking about isn’t making sense…

@kyleh4339 4 месяца назад

Yea, my brothers wife cheated on him with 2 kids. She chose men satisfying her temporarily over staying loyal to her family. She denied all of it for over a year and denies anything to this day and claims that the guys are just friends. She always goes out to clubs and bars without her husband and finds men, and still denied all of it. Worst part is the two small kids are now forced to grow up in a house without a father, with drugs, crime, and poverty all because she wanted to indulge, knowing theres no consequences for her actions.

@hawaiidoc808 Месяц назад

I belong to the Kevin Samuels camp. She shouldn’t tell her husband. Why should she use the husband to get over her guilt, and thus burden him with HER guilt? She should bear the guilt for the rest of her days.

@DMM9619 6 месяцев назад

Notice how when he said “ if you could go back and do this all differently, what would you do?” Her response was to tell him straight away and not to actually cheat on him in the first place. She belongs to the streets.

@ivankrushensky 4 месяца назад

And she follows up with something like "I shouldn't have acted single....." So in other words, she was the one on the chase.

@Nido17 4 месяца назад

Exactly lol

@shanecle 6 месяцев назад

“I found myself in a relationship …” 30 seconds in and already absconding responsibility.

@uncommonsense5876 Год назад

The 100% selfish stonewalling dishonesty, about the sleeping with the guy, is even worse than the affair itself. Far worse. Because she had to do it over and over a thousand times. THAT breach of trust, the lies about the big lie, reveals everything to the husband about her true character.

@demonvictim 6 месяцев назад

She doesn't respect him enough to tell him the truth that is the problem. The husband is playing honesty and she is hiding cards. Its like a classroom scrambling looking for the last puzzle piece whilst the smug bully hides it in his pocket. The smugness comes just from deceit and its a sort of false power trip

@howben3544 Месяц назад

She's not a Good Wife, or Mother, if she was able to find Time to Cheat. Taking care of Two young Children take a lot of Time.

@Thebootyrater 2 года назад

Title: I cheated on my husband John: what’s up Natalie how you doing? Natalie: pretty good 😆

@Joshuarcade 2 года назад

☠️

@gamer67678 2 года назад

She'll do it again.

@grizzlybear2702 2 года назад

And his kids are likely not biologically his.

@dj_86 2 года назад

@@grizzlybear2702 again...do not do that..

@firefly9838 2 года назад

Open relationships people. Cant be cheated on if you don’t care.

@rebeccal1110 Год назад

The most unfair unkind thing my husband did was to tell me he slept with another woman while we were married. He immediately told me he wanted to be forgiven and that I could never bring it up again. I never recovered, and I believe it was selfish for him to lay that burden on me.

@alluringbliss4165 Год назад

So you would have rather not known.

@molls0922 Год назад

@@alluringbliss4165 I was cheated on and yea, I would’ve rather just not have ever known. Full disclosure, I’m also guilty of cheating once too- I realized messed up and instead of burdening my boyfriend with the truth of my selfish action, I broke up with him even though I really liked him. I felt he deserved a better woman than me, he was amazing. I was young, dumb, and learned how terrible it feels and would never do that to anyone again.

@jacobwiebe1460 Год назад

@@molls0922 I would much rather want to know the truth then live in a lie. I would have much greater respect for my wife if she told me, then if I had to find out otherwise. But, I would never see her the same way again either way.

@aelh123 Год назад

I hope he isn’t your husband any more. Gross 🤢 he gets it off his chest and just throws it at you to carry it

@alluringbliss4165 Год назад

@@molls0922 I did not see this reply till today. I see where you are coming, I would broken up too , some people get really traumatized by cheating. On the other hand, I would rather know unless he breaks up with me.

@Phillyfan94 2 года назад

It’s women like this that makes me reconsider marriage

@deadbeats4417 Год назад

marry a woman who does not seek attention, but is confident in herself, meaning she doesn't need validation, those women do not entertain the idea of cheating, a woman with an excessive need for attention, whether she's smoking hot or butt ugly, will cheat when the opportunity arises. ways to tell she's not attention seeking: doesn't post on social media, doesn't have many male friends, doesn't try to look skanky everywhere she goes, doesn't cry when you don't give her attention 24/7, doesn't lust after hot looking men all the time.

@11nica5 Год назад

Who you end up marrying is a reflection of your choices. Choose wisely

@kroenkeout708 8 месяцев назад

The worst part is, that she's a Christian who attends church. Like in the world.

@roymercer22 7 месяцев назад

Marriage sucks. Avoid it.

@tillfilms 7 месяцев назад

She is a horrible wife. Her tone is nonchalant and unrepentant. And she knew what she was doing. What a w*or3.

@jimdelarosa9776 3 месяца назад

He started talking to me...child please... What about your 2 children? I hope he leaves you.

@begood4000 2 года назад

This is why when you are dating someone seriously or married to someone. You shouldn't be around others as if you are single. We are often told that you are jealous or insecure if we don't want our spouse to do certain things, but in reality we are rightfully protecting your relationships and having boundaries. Having no boundaries and acting like you are single when you're not leads to broken homes, relationships, and hearts.

@PasturePig 2 года назад

Yeah I go to the gym w a sweatshirt and shorts on. No reason to draw attention to myself. She was probably in leggings in a gym. Recipe for complete attention from every guy in the gym. She knew this and her husband did as well. He should have spoke up at the beginning but probably didn’t expect a gym trainer and Starbucks would lead to a private cardio workout.

@thespicyonion Год назад

@@PasturePig a respectful person will wear whatever they want and when they are approached they make it clear they are happily married . Has nothing to do with what you wear

@Flash3-22 Год назад

Wise words indeed. "acting like you are single" sets one up for breaking marriage vows.

@SuAlteza92 Год назад

Agreed

@rachelmaddowswife8713 Год назад

Yeah, have boundaries 100%, don't be flirting with randos. But what do you mean by "you shouldn't be around others", like you aren't allowed to go to the gym or grocery store or office without your spouse? That's not really realistic. We need to be able to trust our partner to behave well when they're out and about without us.

@nickdaven3520 4 месяца назад

Side note- this woman has no remorse. Very easy to feel it in her voice and how she expresses herself in this. She fears the consequences of her actions. It is sickening.

@gordocarbo 2 месяца назад

Disgusting. She has no right to cry about all the people (kids) that will be affected by this. DIdnt care at the time she decided to get some strange dik in her!

@bachelormindset8577 2 года назад

Gee, why are men avoiding marriage? She has zero accountability and expects everything to turn out fine.

@alangwhiteTheBoss 2 года назад

Yup, they get mad at the tinder swindler when women do this daily and have the states support

@Onehottherapist 2 года назад

When I give someone a chance to be honest with me and they STILL lie…I have nothing else for them. Immediately cut off…

@briant8 2 года назад

Bam-ba-lam-whoa-oh...

@Onehottherapist 2 года назад

@@briant8 😂😂😂Now I’m singing it!

@robertbinder2743 25 дней назад

He will never trust her again, it's over. She outright lied to her husband when he confronted her about a sexual encounter.

@texan903 2 года назад

Stories like this make marriage a hard sell for me. Imagine investing in someone emotionally, physically, financially, having children, buying homes, cars, etc., and it all blowing up in your face. Her answer about what she would've done all over, says everything you need to know about how little she regrets the affair. People at the gym know and are talking, wondering how much her husband really knows.

@Melissa.712 2 года назад

The fact that men trust women it's hilarious to me🤣

@kylemedeiros6907 2 года назад

you can't avoid the best things in life because things like this could happen. I would rather have an experience like this than the experience of feeling like I'm letting my life pass me by because i fear pain and adversity. read Corey Wayne.

@Melissa.712 2 года назад

@@kylemedeiros6907 read what you just wrote back to yourself!! you're the type of guy that these women hunt for so they can do this stuff too