He was stuttering so bad, like dude, we all know that's signs of guilt and someone who is LYING! SMH.....I guess chile....🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
All of that stuttering trying to stall until he can get it out… and y’all women need to stop inventing phrases that don’t make sense because men like this will use it against you… such as that “my truth” garbage. Either tell “the truth” or don’t say anything at all… silence is an option too…
He looks so goofy lying up there! Her frown is deep and real!! Ladies.....he justifies and justiLIES everything!! And he tries to make it seem as if it's on her. It's him!! If he was stumbling physically the way he is verbally, he'd be falling all over the place!! He's going to do it again!!
He annoyed my soul and I’m just watching him smh. I don’t like that the judge seems to let things go when they claim they didn’t sleep with someone else. If you can actively take time to jump from DM to DM shooting your shot the only thing stopping you from cheating is their willingness to sleep with you. Also if you wonder why women don’t leave relationships where they’re obviously being disrespected, look at what her brother said after his coworker told him what that man did, they always have family that’s encouraging them to stay with the cheater. Your children will resent your weakness to stay in a toxic relationship.
Absolutely. Tbh Judge be annoying me at times. I feel like she let too many people slide with the mess they do. Some of these people don't need to be together and judge don't be saying it clear enough
What we have here is a serious case of LOVE.. She loves him very much, and that's why she's still allowing herself to be overruled by her conscious. When a man has an answer for everything. ( He's lying ) When he can't remember msgs he wrote. ( he's lying ) When he's stuttering in court ( he's lying ). Bottom line, these are the signs of man who's not ready for a serious relationship. However, she loves him, and it some times take time to figure out she should've left a long time ago.
This isn’t love. This is limerence. You can’t have a romantic love for someone else when you don’t love yourself. Some one who loves themselves would not tolerate his behavior. They’d have standards and boundaries they respect and enforce.
This whole case is dumb . At a certain point you can’t feel bad for people anymore because they allow behavior and it continues. How many more situations does she need ?
So he thinks it’s cool texting a lady she’s hot. The only reason it didn’t progress is because he was caught. He acts like he has to seek counsel from strange women 🙄 be single trifling dude
He’s lying….too much stuttering and fumbling with his words. Ain’t nobody got time for that. He’s immature and can’t be trusted. Everytime she says something uncomfortable he’s on his phone….looking like he’s looking.
Premarital counseling is 1) to identify red flags and 2) to get educated on how to have a successful marriage. She has already identified the red flags, so why move forward with him?
She says he’s a good man…good men don’t cheat! And if you’re mad or going through something, you don’t seek comfort in another woman. BUT, if you think he is all you can get or he is the best you can get, then- if you like it, I love it!
What you said! (I'm just sick of it)!!! The person is good enough until they get them, and then they want something else, and something else, and something else! uggghhh
Irresponsible, unaccountable people have very little moral fiber, character, values, or ethics. If you don’t get them from these attributes & just going off of looks and a “vibe”, you get what you get.
Now as pretty as her name is, why in tarnation did her parents spell it that way 🙄 but anyway let me watch this episode. This man stuttered like a mug the entire time. Girl let him loose and reclaim your life, period.
Not with his kids she won’t. He won’t let her. He seems like that real petty guy that will continue to sabotage her, the kids, or any future relationships.
This one of them embarrassing bd 😂😂out here just begging for attention and the women telling on him b4 he make it back to the house 😂😂😂 Chile he don’t even know what he saying 😐
😅Judge Starr " side chicks aint loyal... Or at least the right one..." A man who is a side piece is more likely not try to get the woman in trouble but a woman who is a side piece to a man will more likely get him in trouble eventually...FACTS Just start being honest with yourself and everyone you are with...💯
Lord forgive me!!!!! That man was tooo much for me. He sounded real good and ignorant! Stuttering, LYING! Whew! Sis……PLEASE STAND UP!!!!! He will do the same things to her is she follows through with this marriage. I really hope she wakes up because she’ll be miserable the rest of her life.
It’s only a matter of time if he keeps that foolishness up, he better stop that behavior or she’s going to kick him to the curb!!! This relationship may be on its last leg if he doesn’t heed the premarital counseling.😢 She’s not playing with him!!!!
do what again? there is no evidence of him cheating.. yes he texts other ppl. a lot of yall men do the same and you are just not aware. i haven't heard any evidence of him being physical with anyone else.
She should truly be embarrassed to bring him on DC, then at the end she's defending his character. at 16:53 she said "He's a GOOD MAN". Chile, if her standards are THIS LOW, then she can have him.
Obviously we’re only onlookers, but I’m really not feeling his commitment to this lovely lady. He stumbled over his lies, didn’t appear sorry and he left her standing at the end. I know it’s hard to walk away when you want to believe in someone and you’re so invested, but his actions have not conveyed any assurance that he won’t run to the next woman the next time things are uncomfortable at home.
She’s weak minded as a woman to be staying with a man and accepting that foolishness. It’s her fault. He’s definitely going to be the same man he is now unmarried or married. He has nothing but excuses.
Sooo, if his self worth is low, where’s her self worth??? This is why we ( both men and women) have to make decisions/choices based on evidence, morals, values, and ethics.
I need him to speak clearly and confidently. He is stuttering all over the place. He cannot confidently answer one question. He anit ready for a real woman. Sis keep your head up.
Bless my soul, that man is triiiiiiifling!!! If "comfort" was so necessary, people would've died straight out of the womb for immediate lack of it!!! And that crap about "I've never been in a relationship before." is such a freaking sorry excuse. It doesn't fly here!!! 15:05
I'll tell you what they can do for the sake of the kids: COPARENT!!!!!!! That way they don't have to deal with his idiot role modeling and she can go find a GOOD MAN!!!!!!!
Girl u didn’t need the judge to tell u anything. Stand up and leave his funny looking ass. Stop letting people play with u baby, u deserve better. He needs to go to speech instead of trying to cheat. Don’t go talk to other women, go back to school.
When someone cheats , just leave because you’ll never be able to trust them again. Why put yourself through that?! They will only turn the tables on you and all of a sudden, YOU’RE the problem because you won’t stop bringing it up. If you’re willing to forgive someone then you can’t bring the cheating up anymore nor can you keep tabs on them.
If your having problems in the relationship and your need to stepped outside of your relationship,isn’t better for you as a man or woman to keep it honest and just say I need to cheat or flirt with other people instead adding fire to the relationship
He is so cringe, trying to talk to his fiancé stumbling all over his words he do not mean nothing. He says says you need to run and get some confidence about yourself.
His mouth is dry...you can hear it, he's stumbling with his words...this was a waste of time, they're dragging this out for nothing...I wouldn't be asking anything, I would just move on, he got too much going on.
I know how she feels it’s one thing to be cheating but meeting ppl at your daughter’s school. At least he wasn’t with the teacher like my kids father I had to leave that garbage can alone and hope she does the same the DISRESPECT is real out her. She wants to stay with him, that’s why she saying I’m not going to deal with this but still turn around and deal with it 🤦🏾♀️
I encourage you not to dwell on the things your enemies did to you because it opens doors to unforgiveness, bitterness and evil thoughts. Praying for them and letting go is the best way to handle it.
LMAO anybody I mean anybody who constantly goes through someone's phone we shouldn't even be worried about. She's crazy driving herself crazy behind a nobody!!! It takes 1 time to "SEE" WHAT you don't wanna see ain't nobody gotta tell her that she likes being insecure and unloved
I noticed many of the men have eyebrows that are clipped in sections. One man had a large space between his left eyebrow. Another his right eyebrow, another one eyebrow is completely shaved off but not both. Are these signs for codes.meani g. Straight. Gay. Bi. Single. Married. In a relationship. Etc.
She’s not going anywhere….Sooooooo NEXT! Per usual. Let these men cheat in peace bc these women will break their OWN hearts before they break up w/raggedy ass men. It’s crazyyyyyyyy!
Mr. Hale as the brother I thought you would've been more direct and said no to the whole relationship. Also, what is all this he is a good man talk he is a man (He's a good man SAVANNAH LOL) with no character, not ready to settle down, and does not want you. Her brother told her indirectly to co-parent and get out. I hope she walks.
One thing these men going to do embarrass you to no end. They do all this but would not take anything like that if it was her. He is an attention seeker he needs to heal before he can be a good man to anyone.
if i was the Judge, Folks would be upset w/ me because I would've told Appifany to runnnnnnn far awayyyyyy , Babuhs too much was done in 5yrs , A parent at the school, someone at the corner store lol and the brothers co worker , naw i'll pass
He's lying so much he stutters, everything is "a long time ago", when in fact it is recent incidents. Why come to Divorce Court when she knows exactly what she needs to do.
She’s a placeholder. He’s looking for someone he believes is better. This young woman is fulfilling some need(s) for him, but doesn’t fit everything he has in his mind. So he doesn’t want to let her go, unless and until he can find and secure someone he believes to be a better fit. She’s locked down and in with his children. This is a perfect example of why you don’t have children with men you are simply dating. Having children and getting married are risky, especially for women. It would be much simpler to walk away if there are no children. Why lock yourself into relationship with a man who hasn’t put a legal and financial covering over you? Now he will still have some control over her, through the children, even if she walks away. She’s a placeholder to him, but gave him children. Stop doing this to yourselves. A marriage comes with legal protections. It gives a wife rights. It can be dissolved if it’s not working. Having children outside of marriage doesn’t come with protections, or rights, and you will be a mother forever. So way are women giving men babies so easily. It’s not in a woman’s or the child’s best interests.
Girl he doing to much, then he walked off the stage, he didn't even grab her to walk off the stage, girl him, he not gonna change, and he be doing to much jibber jabbing with his talk 😂
