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I don’t like the way I look. // Asian Multifandom 

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@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
For those who don't have access to the subtitles (cc), here are the drama titles: 0:00 - 0:13 The weight of her 0:14 - 0:37 Birth of a beauty 0:38 - 0:58 My ID is Gangnam beauty 0:59 - 1:07 My fat love story 1:08 - 1:22 A little thing called first love 1:23 - 1:44 200 pounds beauty 1:45 - 1:57 Love the way you are movie 2019 1:58 - 2:16 Vivid romance 2:17 - 2:27 Coffee do me a favor 2:28 - 2:48 Oh my Venus 2:49 - 3:02 Marry me now 3:03 - 3:13 She was pretty
@jeonqiqi7674
@jeonqiqi7674 3 года назад
I remember watching some but couldn't remember the names, so thank youuu💜
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
No problem:))
@magicalmystery3506
@magicalmystery3506 3 года назад
I am going to watch them they seem so inspiring
@cookiefreak9415
@cookiefreak9415 3 года назад
Thank you!!!!!!
@princesaabdullah8234
@princesaabdullah8234 3 года назад
omg ur a lifesaver literally
@ashh3062
@ashh3062 3 года назад
After loosing weight the way everything just changes is soo weird do people forget how they used to treat a person before weight loss or they just shamelessly expect you to forget everything
@emeraldzzz6002
@emeraldzzz6002 3 года назад
My classmates before looking down at me calling me fat but after this quarantine i got skinny that i wouldn't eat anything im starving myself they start texting me , complement me being pretty but i could not forget how they treated me before
@bsk2908
@bsk2908 3 года назад
@@emeraldzzz6002 Those type of friends are *Toxic* friends. I hope you will find *True* friends in future and *Be Happy* 😄😁
@bsk2908
@bsk2908 3 года назад
@@emeraldzzz6002 They might think that the victim won’t remember it. But we will remember each and every detail. We must speak for ourself when they tease us. Yeah in situations like this , we should speak for ourselves. Yeah these people make us want to protect ourselves. To them it’s just *FUN* But only we know. When we change they will act like nothing happened and try to become friends with us. But don’t allow them in your life. Think of them as dirt and rub it off *TOXIC FRIENDS* will get their _KARMA_ back. Their life will definitely change and it won’t *ALWAYS BE GOOD* for them. So don’t worry. Even if we don’t do anything KARMA will do something for us!! 😎😎😎
@ashh3062
@ashh3062 3 года назад
@@emeraldzzz6002 can totally relate some of my exclassmates did the same to me....it broke my heart when you said you are starving yourself Cuz I can understand what it means n feels...i wont tell you to stop talking to them right now Cuz its not possible but slowly n slowly please start distancing yourself from those who always make you sad you only have one life n you r equally important as everyone else so u shouldn't let same people hurt you again n again💜..hope you know your worth n what makes you happy💜
@ashh3062
@ashh3062 3 года назад
@@bsk2908 it's great that things turned out good with you💕
@itsjiminsnonexistentjams1221
@itsjiminsnonexistentjams1221 3 года назад
The actress who played "the weight of her" actually said she got insecure after filming since she had to play the "ugly fat girl"
@userURL003
@userURL003 3 года назад
Omg… i feel really bad :(
@nenaboricua2098
@nenaboricua2098 3 года назад
Wonder if she felt what is REAL fat ppl go through for just being us
@greenteayy
@greenteayy 3 года назад
i feel bad for them 😭
@lumitylover1486
@lumitylover1486 3 года назад
Aww this is so sad
@faye9465
@faye9465 3 года назад
@@nenaboricua2098 please stop. a person's insecurity is bad on its own and to make it seem like it's not a big deal or they can't compare with 'real' insecurity is very rude
@callmebyyourname1321
@callmebyyourname1321 3 года назад
But the cringe part is that, in these all drama,atlast everyone become good looking skinny one.And then the hero or heroin fall in love.that disgusting I want something that accept the person the way she is till the last
@wenningakathecinnamonroll539
@wenningakathecinnamonroll539 3 года назад
1:01 this girl actually didn't change, at least I think. She found a guy that liked her not caring about her looks
@novemberrobinson5584
@novemberrobinson5584 3 года назад
There's a movie on RU-vid, it's called 'Fat Chance'. It's not korean but it really shows how to accept the person that you are and also the person that you love, no matter if they're fat or skinny, tall or short. It's one of my top rated movies at all times. You should check it out once.
@callmebyyourname1321
@callmebyyourname1321 3 года назад
Thank you for your recommendation.i will watch
@nirmalakodiveetil3410
@nirmalakodiveetil3410 3 года назад
Its true.it feel like they saying look matters by these dramas.
@novemberrobinson5584
@novemberrobinson5584 3 года назад
@@callmebyyourname1321 anytime buddy 😉
@xycx4962
@xycx4962 3 года назад
It's so sad that's on internet everybodys like "outer looks doesn't matter.", "body positivity" and all that stuff but when people face someone's like this in real life they change like snap.
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 года назад
Exactlyyy! 💯
@ifrat1555
@ifrat1555 3 года назад
One of the reasons why k-pop and kdramas are so famous is because they are pretty
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
In real life, they let people speak to them. They never fight back, even never talk back, they just let people speak to them
@navyajindal9825
@navyajindal9825 3 года назад
Yeah you are right. I saw so many people and I was also like that before. Just used to say these lines like "Everyone is beautiful" and all but in real life when we see people, we always judge them by their looks. Now I have changed myself. I wish people mean what they say.
@astrielle446
@astrielle446 3 года назад
I am sick of those lines "accept yourself as who you are" This is a sad but utter truth that the person who said those lines, beneath the screen, they would disagree with it. We can't accept ourselves as who we are. We always want to change. People taunt others, people shame others. But instead of becoming perfect we should be who we want to be. As long as you're healthy, and functioning well, no matter if you're fat or skinny, you're beautiful. But if you eat some stupid cheeseburgers all the day and think that you're fat and wait for someone to say some "MOTIVATIONAL" lines for you, it's you're fault. If you're purposely fat, it's you're fault, fix it before you get obesity and go into the hospital. But if you're healthy and you just look fat, it's not your fault, be happy.
@pastelsky4236
@pastelsky4236 3 года назад
The teacher who was taunting her on her weight should look at himself first🙄
@godgemini2750
@godgemini2750 3 года назад
IKR
@sujaahmed4428
@sujaahmed4428 3 года назад
There is a famous phrase in korea that was said by a very popular host (idk his name) he said girls should always think about how to become thin nd beautiful then he said now people will say look who is speak ( because he was also a heavy looking man) but don't forget I m a man and u r a woman.... This was the worst sentence i can say that i have every heard in my entire life
@arcradire1559
@arcradire1559 3 года назад
Actually, I think that was on purpose. Guys don't get shit on as much as the girls do for being fat (in some cultures at least)
@sujaahmed4428
@sujaahmed4428 3 года назад
@@arcradire1559 yes
@itsjenniekim
@itsjenniekim 3 года назад
Fr
@mairashah6316
@mairashah6316 3 года назад
No one should be judged by their looks but the reality of this cruel world is completely opposite of it 😟😢😞
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 года назад
Exactlyyyyy!! But people want to judge everyone. If they're skinny they have a problem and if they re fat they have a problem.
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 года назад
Tbh, Im too skinny but I am trying very hard to get little fat but it's not happening...but then too people don't understand they start saying why aren't you eating nobody is giving you food...I have started eating so much at the point sometimes it's difficult to breathe but people don't understand yaa..
@mairashah6316
@mairashah6316 3 года назад
@@youtuber-nx5en no one will ever be happy with you so just be what you wanna be, don't listen to anyone, you are perfect the way you are. I am over weight and I am trying to lose it for my self not of anyone else plus I have eating disorder and depression and my family is the reason of it but I don't care about anyone anymore.😊💝
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 года назад
@@mairashah6316 Thank You so much for your kind wordss. You're so sweet. And you too take care. Stay Safee. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕
@mairashah6316
@mairashah6316 3 года назад
@@youtuber-nx5en thank you sweetheart 💝💕💖🌹
@jiminxbts4880
@jiminxbts4880 3 года назад
She's still pretty even if she's "fat" ...everyones perfect
@kookieslostcookies5044
@kookieslostcookies5044 3 года назад
Everyone's not perfect. No one is and it's okay to not b perfect. Ik that u meant good but ur wording is wrong- Edit: ur wording doesn't seem right*
@mrsoz8661
@mrsoz8661 3 года назад
The wording in your comment is in poor taste…appears condescending to me.
@kookieslostcookies5044
@kookieslostcookies5044 3 года назад
@Periodt. everyone's not perfect even by heart tho (• ▽ •;)
@Vucci-q5w
@Vucci-q5w 3 года назад
No one is born ugly, they're just born in judgement sociality -Kim Nam Joon :)
@kookieslostcookies5044
@kookieslostcookies5044 3 года назад
@@Vucci-q5w Rm never said it. Pls stob spreading fake news :
@thefirstwanderingeggoflix7099
@thefirstwanderingeggoflix7099 3 года назад
It's sad that people nowadays take the word "fat" as an insult. They connect the word "ugly" and "fat" together when they aren't even the synonyms of each. People should really change their mindsets
@emo_weeb_stanie1019
@emo_weeb_stanie1019 3 года назад
completely unrelated but i like ur username
@नहींभाईसाहबमेरीगलतीहै
The most logical and meaningful comment I have found so far
@e.d.rarendyag7firnen28
@e.d.rarendyag7firnen28 3 года назад
I have seen several chubby girls who are very beautiful especially some Indians. A chubby face is beautiful and youthful, when I had a chubby face I looked much better than when I lost weight and it became thinner and narrower.
@rosierrd21
@rosierrd21 3 года назад
Hey stay
@lrvdo
@lrvdo 3 года назад
Yup. I would like it even better if ugly is also not an insult, just a descriptive word, no emotions attached to that. I mean it should be okay to be ugly too.
@astrolovesmusic
@astrolovesmusic 3 года назад
I'm in a classroom filled with all these skinny girls. I have to go to school and see them. Even though they never say I'm fat or ugly, I still feel bad when I look at them.
@aqilalala368
@aqilalala368 3 года назад
I feel you 😔✊
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
I feel bad too, cos they are weak starving students and i dont
@Ray-po1oi
@Ray-po1oi 3 года назад
Hey, its okay as long as you are at a healthy weight, it isn't a problem. I know it's easier said than done but you should be happy in your own body , someday someone truly beautiful will see the actual u
@roshnisharma4704
@roshnisharma4704 3 года назад
You are lucky that they don't call you fat ... But my condition is worse my whole class is laughing when I dance in front of them .my confidence is crushed, just think how I feel when I have to face them again I cried that whole day 😔😔😔 next day who call me fat and buffalo when I dance is my best friend and she act like nothing happened☹
@roshnisharma4704
@roshnisharma4704 3 года назад
You are lucky that they don't call you fat ... But my condition is worse my whole class is laughing when I dance in front of them .my confidence is crushed, just think how I feel when I have to face them again I cried that whole day 😔😔😔 next day who call me fat and buffalo when I dance is my best friend and she act like nothing happened☹
@chelsealemonnn1811
@chelsealemonnn1811 3 года назад
Turn on CC for the names of the dramas (thanks Soo Ah Li for doing that!!)
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
You’re welcome!
@totallyapple9568
@totallyapple9568 3 года назад
It’s honestly disgusting the treatment large people get. I had gained some weight and fell and nobody came to help. But a year later, I lose some weight and I fall, a crowd of people come to help.
@yongeekeepatnee4289
@yongeekeepatnee4289 3 года назад
how is it that im skinny and people say that i dont eat when i do and they call me a toothpick......how is it that people say i look like a b*tch when i dont smile when its just my regular face....how is it i had messed up teeth and people told me to get braces so i did and now they say i should get them off.i dont get it
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
“We’re just born in a judgmental society.” -RM
@Planktonpants
@Planktonpants 3 года назад
They probably feel insecure
@Bogalog
@Bogalog 3 года назад
Da frick you live in, Detroit? Sound bonkers.
@user-bear27
@user-bear27 3 года назад
@@sooahli1992 RM actually didn't say that, there is no proof of it.
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 года назад
I feel you on an another level!!! Lots of love to youu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. Stay Safee
@xendercage7892
@xendercage7892 3 года назад
Be fats doesn't makes you ugly people makes you feel ugly
@BlackCrystal4You
@BlackCrystal4You 3 года назад
I can't stress this more - this is so true and so right Everyone should get reminded of that The Body of others is none of my business, as my body is nobody elses business. The only one person on this earth that is allowed to have an opinion about that, is my doctor. End of story But Some people need to "look down" on others to make themselfs feel better, for the price of giving their insecurity onto the person they are looking down on. Humans are incredebly frustrating, when it comes to this..... They dont change, even tho people are trying to spread awareness They choose their ego-boost over other people, it's just selfish shit, nothing else.
@graceedwards3901
@graceedwards3901 3 года назад
Thank you for that i know im late but that helped me The reason i dont like myself is not because of my friends its because of my family and suroundings i may have spelled that wrong but you get it umm my family says stay away from negative people when they are the one's hurting me the only persons that makes me fell safe is kpop idols and i know they have been though worse but they stil make the time and effort to there fans so im happy and sad ohhh and my friends well only 3 friends are my real friends and there are 10 of them So thank you 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 saranghae stay safe
@pikapika1630
@pikapika1630 3 года назад
@@graceedwards3901 i can totally relate to you
@kinsley4514
@kinsley4514 3 года назад
gosh i cant believe i missed this masterpiece you edited. a few years ago i was really fat and even my relatives would insult me publicly but now that i lost weight they started saying i look like im sick and have a disease although i dont
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
Hang in there ChaKina, good things are coming:) and the fact that you’ve overcome a lot in the past, you can overcome these challenges as well:)
@kinsley4514
@kinsley4514 3 года назад
@@sooahli1992 ty🥺
@you_know_me8218
@you_know_me8218 3 года назад
To hell with the relatives, they are just some judgement old crows. Just remember, what matters is how you feel about the way you look. If you like how you look, never care about what others think.
@jesa_guk
@jesa_guk 3 года назад
People will always judge you hang in their fam and love yourself cuz u deserve it ! I know it sometimes hard but u can do it ! U did well ! Love you 💜 thanks for being here 💜 *sends virtual hugs*
@mavidoton162
@mavidoton162 3 года назад
C'mon one can never please people around him/her so don't even bother to listen and comprehend things they say to you. You are beautiful the way you are so don't let them change your mind.
@najaeminisgrandpabunny4940
@najaeminisgrandpabunny4940 3 года назад
I lost 30 kgs...but the fat was me and even the skinny one is me .But the behavior of people with me is different.when u look good they treat u well.when u look ugly they don't give a damn bout u .this world is disgusting
@deepikamali5398
@deepikamali5398 3 года назад
Hi stay❤️
@najaeminisgrandpabunny4940
@najaeminisgrandpabunny4940 3 года назад
@@deepikamali5398 hi stay sis I luv hyunjin btw
@ibolyakatona8192
@ibolyakatona8192 3 года назад
I don't get why people seems to think being big or even overweight looks ugly. It really doesn't. If you wish to change then change for yourself, not for anyone else :)
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Better dont give damn about you than letting yourself to starve and weak just to get some perverts all around you.
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
@@ibolyakatona8192 it's ugly situation when you are making fun of fat person, they are gonna stomp you like flat pancake
@ashe.9142
@ashe.9142 3 года назад
i like people that are "fat", short, have scars, discoloration, dark skin and other "imperfections" and i always get told that i like "ugly" people coz im "ugly" myself.
@sristitiwari8113
@sristitiwari8113 3 года назад
You are not ugly .everyone have their own personality and you should not judge yourself with others Everyone is best . They have their own quality the only thing is that you should learn to love yourself
@b1gpp
@b1gpp 3 года назад
Stfu you are beautiful and you are loved and you are perfect ♡
@sowhoisgae2622
@sowhoisgae2622 3 года назад
I think they have corona because they have no taste
@notanormalcivilian65
@notanormalcivilian65 3 года назад
@@sowhoisgae2622 that's savage
@sowhoisgae2622
@sowhoisgae2622 3 года назад
@Stillwith_Guk RIP the sad cat The sad cat had a stroke while reading this
@jananishakthi4942
@jananishakthi4942 3 года назад
"No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society." -Kim Namjoon💜
@mille_vents
@mille_vents 3 года назад
That's the quote world needs to know💜
@jananishakthi4942
@jananishakthi4942 3 года назад
@@mille_vents True💜✌️
@jananishakthi4942
@jananishakthi4942 3 года назад
@karyn chambers Hey there fellow ARMY! Thanks for letting me know abt this.The quote is still epic tho.💜
@mou5381
@mou5381 3 года назад
🥺💜
@swianie
@swianie 3 года назад
he didn't said that
@arfakhan959
@arfakhan959 3 года назад
There's something I would like to share with the people who think they're not good looking, not good enough or the people who think they're not worth anything then let me stop you right there because you are an amazing person, you don't deserve to be treated badly, you can be anything you want because looks don't matter what matters the most is that are you a good person? So always remember that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes so you don't have to worry or be disappointed or depressed. You are beautiful /handsome in your own way. Just think that the God who made you loves you this way so you don't have to worry about anything else. Live your life happily and love yourself plz 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@ES-fq8gr
@ES-fq8gr 3 года назад
💜
@luck8805
@luck8805 2 года назад
Tyy💗💗💗💗💗
@kpopandanime9301
@kpopandanime9301 2 года назад
Thanks stranger. I needed that. Just got fat shamed by my own mother. I found this comment when I was trying hard not to breakdown. Thank you so much
@btsarmy-yz6bp
@btsarmy-yz6bp 3 года назад
Once my karate sir told me to quit because i was fat, my classmates also insulted me but I don't want give up or quit I exercised every day and after 1 year I got the result I wanted, I know the pain every well. The outside beauty doesn't matter only the beauty inside the heart matters❤️❤️
@ROSIE-sp1wx
@ROSIE-sp1wx 3 года назад
The karate teacher shouldn't call themselve a teacher
@ROSIE-sp1wx
@ROSIE-sp1wx 3 года назад
@@lachimolala5804 yeah they might kidnap you 🚶‍♀️👽
@dracomalfoy9098
@dracomalfoy9098 3 года назад
Opposite happened to me. Realized it was unhealthy for my mental health. Left it. I am happy with my self but still insecure.
@kashafmurtaza6362
@kashafmurtaza6362 2 года назад
And helow armyYes true a
@プッイン
@プッイン 3 года назад
Its crazy how normalized judging people are by their looks "YOU MAY BE PRETTY ON THE OUTSIDE BUT NOT ON THE INSIDE"
@tejureddy4976
@tejureddy4976 3 года назад
But no one cares what's on the inside like most of the times... well everytime ig, because people judge based on what they can see on the outside. And this is where the saying perfectly fits, "Don't judge a book by it's cover"...
@プッイン
@プッイン 3 года назад
@@tejureddy4976 yes. also I kinda of messed up I flipped it around. sorry
@プッイン
@プッイン 3 года назад
@@tejureddy4976 it depends on what people think I think everyone's pretty their own way.
@the___anna6499
@the___anna6499 3 года назад
@@tejureddy4976 ye
@lame-y4721
@lame-y4721 3 года назад
Then let's take out those insides😃 I'm joking....hehe...
@swateenath1673
@swateenath1673 3 года назад
Only heavy weighted girl could understand the pain they almost forget what make them happy whether they like to be herself or not its the people surrounding her make her uncomfortable n confused that girl loose all hopes they are like shattered glasses when those with heavy weighted mind made hurt comment on her. True we cant change them but also true we should not change ourself for them.
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Well i understand about heavy weighted person that making people in painful way
@sangluralura8464
@sangluralura8464 3 года назад
Moral: Never call anyone fat or insulted them because Even if they smile and act like they don't care You won't understand what pain they are facing 🙃
@ES-fq8gr
@ES-fq8gr 3 года назад
Yeah you're right
@stopsubscribingtothischann394
@stopsubscribingtothischann394 3 года назад
No one is perfect. But everyone is BEAUTIFUL.
@luckyee6525
@luckyee6525 3 года назад
I can relate to this being bullied I mean..... of what I look and so on 😶 it's the worst ever, when you just listen while the talk shit about you🤧 that kind of feeling is cannot be explained by words. I felt EMPTY the most.
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
Gosh ikr
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Because you are just listen, they will always talking shit about you. Dont let them talking about you, silence them instead
@luckyee6525
@luckyee6525 3 года назад
@@limousinecar230 I'm doing the best not to be affected but tf it hurts and the worst of all... my family blame me and shame me about it.
@nitya2039
@nitya2039 3 года назад
People will always judge you appearance, as a child growing up i was fat. everyone would make fun of me then in grade fourth i got some good friends who stuck up for me and then i lost weight when i hit puberty... people still make fun of me...
@rababrabq
@rababrabq 3 года назад
dont be sad let the dogs bark all they do is barking and they just jealuos of your confident so let them be bc ur the one who has confident =3
@chandlerbing9964
@chandlerbing9964 3 года назад
U r perfect ok don't listen to others❤
@ibolyakatona8192
@ibolyakatona8192 3 года назад
Don't listen to people like that, they are stupid and immature. You are perfect however you look 💖
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Well, when i was growing up fat, they are scared of me. Whenever i make fun to them, they are scared of me. They judge me as fearless awesomely
@lrvdo
@lrvdo 3 года назад
Now at least good to know it wasn't about your weight
@zainneeeeeee
@zainneeeeeee 3 года назад
loved that she also put male leads cause they feel tge same way too >:
@taannu
@taannu 3 года назад
I can feel their pain. All we want is to be loved and accepted the way we are. I wish people starts appreciating inner beauty more than just judging us by our outer looks.
@sakshisingh1899
@sakshisingh1899 3 года назад
what i hate was that in some of the dramas she changes her look and weight to get back to that guy who rejected her initially.
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Why? Cos she is making him fall in love too hard and then breaking his heart too hard?
@Yash-kz8rx
@Yash-kz8rx 3 года назад
won't they accept the girl the way she is?
@bahaebenbrahim4043
@bahaebenbrahim4043 3 года назад
Except in oh my venus where the male lead first liked her before loosing weight then at the end she got pregnant and gained weight again and he was okaay with it you should really watch it it's really good
@mohhkvyouvycycvyub175
@mohhkvyouvycycvyub175 3 года назад
Fr
@nobodyknows4770
@nobodyknows4770 3 года назад
To all the beautiful people out there, always remember "we were not born to please anyone" so Don't pay any attention to those who don't like how you "look" coz you aren't bad until they exist☺
@RXERRXY
@RXERRXY 2 года назад
Is being "fat" the worst thing a human can possibly be ? I wanna know....is it worse than being greedy ,jealous , selfish , dishonest , unkind , full of pride or disrespectful ? Why do we change for other people ? Why do we try to lose/put on weight just because they called us "too thin/fat" ? Do people really have to go this far ? They might not know but one harsh word has enough power to push the person off that edge of the cliff they're standing at.... I just hope people realize that they "advices" (bodyshaming comments ) are NOT HELPFUL...
@kpopstudio6527
@kpopstudio6527 3 года назад
If someone fat that's a problem If someone skinny that's a problem If someone so tall problem If someone short that's problem Ahh what this society wants well we are all perfect the way we look so be happy guys ❤️
@sonasharma2989
@sonasharma2989 3 года назад
I'm chubby , but not ugly for sure . Honestly it's more of a family trait But because of my very cute and friendly behaviour(I made my self that way so that people won't judge we with my weight) I have a lot of good frnds who adore me .......but that are many times I feel insecure , ugly, and feel suffocated ......but now a days I'm watching what I eat and being more active not to be skinny but to feel free , confident and strong
@jisooyang204
@jisooyang204 3 года назад
this made me cry, I mean, how can one get treated so badly, that one doesnt even expect to be considered as a normal person and that just because of looks.
@akshithareddy7790
@akshithareddy7790 3 года назад
no one is ugly..we r just born in judgmental society!! -KIM NAMJOON-
@user-bear27
@user-bear27 3 года назад
I knew that someone would write this quote lmao. Bdw, he didn't say it.
@Meow43221.
@Meow43221. 3 года назад
@@user-bear27 he did
@user-bear27
@user-bear27 3 года назад
@@Meow43221. nope, there is no proof of it. It's not his quote.
@Meow43221.
@Meow43221. 3 года назад
@@user-bear27 watch this ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oTe4f-bBEKg.html
@user-bear27
@user-bear27 3 года назад
@@Meow43221. bruh, he never said that in the speech itself 🤷🏽‍♀️
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
It's not about the way you look, it's about how you think about your look. If you think you look beautiful, then you are beautiful. And if they think you are ugly, then you think they just having ugly mind and mind their own thinking.
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
@Lara Croft dont justify being skinny like skeleton, you're gonna die
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
@Lara Croft it's their decision to weight as much as they want, and none of your business
@jesa_guk
@jesa_guk 3 года назад
Remember ! Don't go hard on yourself ! Love yourself your perfect the way u are don't change for others ! I am fat too but I don't care till I am happy ! So don't need to change yourself if u don't want ! Don't be hard on yourself u did weel you are loved I love so stay the way you are cuz ur absolutely perfect 💜
@irene_keira5056
@irene_keira5056 3 года назад
No one is ever ugly they’re just different
@jiaxii
@jiaxii 3 года назад
1:09 i like “a little thing called first love” because lai guanlin/ lai kuanlin was in wanna one and angel zhao is in it too :) i won’t give any spoilers of the drama but watch it if you’re bored
@anushkatanvi
@anushkatanvi 3 года назад
i swear there'll always be an army quoting bts in these body-positivity videos.
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
True and I’m one of them!😄
@Bogalog
@Bogalog 3 года назад
What do you expect from kids
@user-bear27
@user-bear27 3 года назад
@@Bogalog please stop assuming that they are kids. Writing quotes is not a "kid-like" behavior.
@manaswinireddy6630
@manaswinireddy6630 3 года назад
@@Bogalog or maybe we are just trying to spread positivity and comfort unlike you??the largest percentage of our fandom are in their 40s stop assuming we are kids
@Annpurna818
@Annpurna818 3 года назад
@@Bogalog ummm.....so?
@yakvlutaddict13
@yakvlutaddict13 3 года назад
“No one is born ugly,we just live in a judgemental society.” -RM
@pratibhapatel2150
@pratibhapatel2150 3 года назад
Even if you don't look good in other eyes their are 2 person who always like you your father and mother so plz love your self 😊
@rice9215
@rice9215 3 года назад
What if they started to call you ugly too like mine 😂
@pratibhapatel2150
@pratibhapatel2150 3 года назад
@@rice9215 then rice sis, you have to love your self because God does not make any human being for a waste. And if u can't respect and love your self then no one will respect and love you 😊😊
@Ok_ni_ki
@Ok_ni_ki 3 года назад
@@pratibhapatel2150 what if u don't have a sister??
@pratibhapatel2150
@pratibhapatel2150 3 года назад
@@Ok_ni_ki uff no i mean rice sis
@amulyadsouza3168
@amulyadsouza3168 3 года назад
And God ✝
@lemon_boii1074
@lemon_boii1074 3 года назад
What i don't like about fat to skinny, or more like "ugly" to "pretty" is that i feel like they just...ignore all the shit they went through?? Sometimes they still like the person who disliked them for being fat, or sometimes being pretty is shown like all her problems have been solved and, what rubbs me off the most....a lot of the actors aren't even ugly. They wear ridiculous hairstyles that wouldn't look good on anyone and thick glasses, or they're fat, but they're not actually ugly. The world is superficial and judgemental, but it's not so horrible as to not help a woman up just because she's overweight. And then some actors were so blatantly attractive, too. Like the guy? Admittedly i haven't seen it and maybe the reason she broke up with him was cause of his personality, but seeing how he had that "messy hair" and thick glasses i think they're going for the "dorky" look. Like, i could never go out with someone that eats with their mouth open, so if it's that, then i can understand, but if it's cause of the appearance then it's just ridiculous. Idk what I'm saying anymore.
@Wassapppp_kiddus
@Wassapppp_kiddus 3 года назад
Everyone is the perfect one in their own way.....no need to blame your self, just change your habits. Thats all..... And I don't know how I look or how am I, I wanna introduce my-self as a Human Being....
@daksha_ravindra
@daksha_ravindra 3 года назад
I've seen My Id Is Gangnam Beauty and honestly, I never thought I could relate to kang mi rae as a character as much any other "fat" Or "obese" Characters. beauty standards in the world are so ridiculously unrealistic that we have to think about plastic surgery and ways to fix ourselves. If we had to be one size, we as a species would have been set to be a certain size. But we aren't. We come in different shapes and sizes and honestly, we need to start loving ourselves more. Who cares about looks? It matters on what's on the inside.
@tixirustotheti3326
@tixirustotheti3326 3 года назад
i was pretty chubby as a kid, then started to gradually lose weight as i grew up. i had mental health issues and although i wasnt conventionally attractive, i had a big, inflated ego and thought i was the shit. after a 'friend' told me i was ugly, my confidence went and i couldnt stop finding faults with my face. then i lost weight and im now considered 'pretty'. but i always think that im egotistical if i look into the mirror and tell myself "you arent that pretty". my biggest insecurity is my nose. my face only looks good in a certain lighting to me. i hate how it's kind of like a pig's and how in the wrong lighting, it looks really ugly and messes up my whole face. im working on my confidence and im researching on why my face is the way it is so that i can appreciate the way its made because noses, chins etc. theyre made so that we can be adapted to our environment. they have a special function made esp for us. so we should appreciate what we have because god gave it to us for a reason. and being ugly doesnt strip you away from your personality, it doesnt make you any less of a person. conventionally attractive or not: you still have a personality and thats what matters.
@Saku-t6t
@Saku-t6t 3 года назад
Just wanna say don't change yourself for someone, Your perfect...
@umaishatasneem2609
@umaishatasneem2609 3 года назад
Whether you are fat, ugly, short, dark just be yourself. That's the real beauty . If the face was crying so much but never gave up and smiled that is your beauty. You are you . You are the most beautiful person in your own way . First accept yourself, love yourself then what others say will never effect you . 💜
@shamakhan9932
@shamakhan9932 3 года назад
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. If someone doesn’t like u it’s his or her fault. 💞just be good to urself u r amazing
@beingme8485
@beingme8485 3 года назад
The fact that these show are still popular..😞
@zubu2112
@zubu2112 3 года назад
For the people that say "You look so beautiful now that you've lost weight" Honey... I was fat not ugly. Being unhealthy has nothing to do with beauty.
@I_am-z5g
@I_am-z5g 3 года назад
I'm fat, I'm dark I have scares But I love myself Love your self too
@ashironikko5860
@ashironikko5860 3 года назад
1:14 I don't like how they portrait an "ugly" character with darker skin tone, curly hair and a glasses, almost moking black people or who have that kind of features
@sanasff8764
@sanasff8764 3 года назад
If someone is ugly we should not behave like that we should be kind friendly to them so that if they think they are not perfect we can comfort them
@sophia8780
@sophia8780 3 года назад
0:46 literally my life every time i confess to a boy. :(
@delighted9062
@delighted9062 3 года назад
This is honestly so sad. People actually get treated this way in real life and people end their lives because of it...this is really painful
@prathanapratiksha908
@prathanapratiksha908 3 года назад
Everyone is perfect it's ok if you are a little 'fat'.......... My sister is also a little 'fat' and people bodyshamed her alot but she faced her fears and talked back by telling 'so what if I am fat my parents feed me food' and she is proud of her self nobody should be ashamed if you are a little 'fat'
@itiriadorian9528
@itiriadorian9528 3 года назад
"do i apologize for looking ugly"- it hurt me so bad bcuz it's so fucking real
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
I apologize for making things ugly hurt to them
@ananya7708
@ananya7708 3 года назад
You know the feeling when looking yourself in mirror before going out and not looking attractive at all and the way i want,still going out not feeling to make eye contact or talk with anyone because u feel so disgusted by the way you are looking, in your class no one never really tells you that you are ugly but you can feel the privilege that one pretty girl is getting from making friends to getting opportunities, you can't help but get jealous of her and feel so demotivated This might not be the motivational comment you are looking for but i hope you can feel that i am like you too if you feel insecure about your appearance
@alicej-
@alicej- 2 года назад
You just described my daily life lmao
@MK11-6
@MK11-6 2 года назад
I don't know how but my daily routine is exactly the same as u described... and i can't help it
@artemis.13
@artemis.13 3 года назад
I hoped the world was as comforting as the comments section ... 🥀
@imgoingtofanofrockinmynext2219
@imgoingtofanofrockinmynext2219 3 года назад
Beauty is in the beholder's eyes
@nikitaagarwal8683
@nikitaagarwal8683 3 года назад
no matter how your body is no one should define you by it, and no one should even have right to bodyshame other
@bangtangirl6951
@bangtangirl6951 3 года назад
I can relate😌i'm always being bullied for my weight...
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
:(
@limousinecar230
@limousinecar230 3 года назад
Are you sure you are not the bully one? Cos you're big you could stomp them like attack on titan
@bangtangirl6951
@bangtangirl6951 3 года назад
@@limousinecar230 umm no-not...I feel depressed and cry bcoz I have no frnd and they are in grp so..
@strawberry761
@strawberry761 3 года назад
Seriously people like that don't deserve you, stay away from them. Just stay with someone who is good to you. You don't have to lose weight for anyone else but if you want it for yourself then go for it. Nevertheless, always love yourself!!
@srihithamudunuri6164
@srihithamudunuri6164 3 года назад
@@bangtangirl6951 I always think we shouldn't care for those who does not love us ,we should be sad for people who love us care for us bcoz they only deserve our tears .and tears are the most valuable things in the world.
@Patootieshane_
@Patootieshane_ 2 года назад
This edit is so great, literally great because it really describe my situation everyday.. If I were them, I wouldn't like my self neither.
@Cherry-ok7st
@Cherry-ok7st 3 года назад
"And at the end of the day i didn't lose weight or tried to make me look beautiful buz i know my worth cuz these ppl ain't gonna pay my hospital bills when I'm sick so why should i change me for them"
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
GO GIRL
@shatakshichoudhary9524
@shatakshichoudhary9524 3 года назад
Love u 💕 .. that's the hole damm point
@lem0nxade324
@lem0nxade324 3 года назад
Okay so here's something for everyone reading this , ik you're insecure about yourself and the way that you look , please try to love and appreciate yourself based on your heart and not your appearance .... Let's stand up together , we will all help anyone who is getting shamed or bullied for being plus size , and we will stop this together , remember that a small action from you can actually end up Saving someone's life ❤️ Love , a stranger miles away 🤧
@130sumaiya5
@130sumaiya5 3 года назад
i have lived this.. the boys of my school used to tease their friends with me each time i passed them just because They wud feel ashamed to be paired with me..the trauma is so💔💔
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
:( i'm sorry to hear that
@gengen6034
@gengen6034 3 года назад
*if most men you dated are toxic, then c'mon don't be shy.. date a women* XD
@snehajagajith6409
@snehajagajith6409 5 месяцев назад
There are good men i... Uh.... Think they exist.
@soniyamenon5660
@soniyamenon5660 3 года назад
THE COMMENT SECTION IS SOOOOOOOOO COMFORTING~
@tikasinjali117
@tikasinjali117 3 года назад
I can feel their pain I m one of them
@fantasyflicks4961
@fantasyflicks4961 3 года назад
Ya maybe me too🙂
@gmqueen1348
@gmqueen1348 3 года назад
It is the same feeling l have ur l never make myself crying or belittle in front of some else if they some bad word l gave them worse but inside l feel so hurt what if we are not skinny it doesn't matter to me anymore
@atiny7256
@atiny7256 3 года назад
But there's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark You should know you're beautiful just the way you are And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful - Scars to Your Beautiful lyrics-🌚❤
@anya9732
@anya9732 3 года назад
It's from the Drama "My ID is Gangnam beauty"
@anschenthompson8561
@anschenthompson8561 3 года назад
This left me in tears and why is the world so mean
@A_wildflower7
@A_wildflower7 3 года назад
Actually after getting skinny in past everyone's sudden change towards me was very overwhelming at the age of 16 to me but as time went by i was not happy about those . My mental health got worse and the situations too so i again gained 25 kg i lost and now they treat me again like trash but now I don't hate me anymore and neither i want validation of others . I will be healthy person as my doctor said but i will never try to be a person to please someone's eyes and make me feel bad
@binamodi7280
@binamodi7280 3 года назад
The worst part is that All people says that we should lose weight to change society's point of view and to prove ourselves but why can't they accept the way we are ..society has change the whole meaning of beauty
@smiles8275
@smiles8275 2 года назад
A teacher in my class said " mask is good to cover ugly faces " he looked on me saying that maybe because I was the only one who was wearing mask rest of the students were having mask below their mouth. (He was just joking but I felt bad because I really look ugly) .
@october3268
@october3268 3 года назад
1:13 lmao this tv series isnt about that. he is actually really really kind to her and even likes her since he met. its just that they arent close friends at that time and the girl he waved is his cousin XD
@alicej-
@alicej- 2 года назад
What is it called?
@gracie1524
@gracie1524 3 года назад
She really cute😍, pray to have eyes to see beauty in everything
@sudeshnamazumder2126
@sudeshnamazumder2126 3 года назад
I used to think if i become slim everyone will love me.but it was WRONG. I was Bullied becuse i wasn’t pretty in school.but u know i was WRONG it doesn’t matters if u are slim or chubby. Its just people like TO see fault in other f them who told u are ugly they need eye surgery and u don’t need any beauty surgery. Trust me u are pretty. No matter what others say u are bron with kindness and love u are pretty
@ivieanita6352
@ivieanita6352 3 года назад
My chest abeg. I feel like crying. I won't survive such treatment.
@feyznaik2857
@feyznaik2857 3 года назад
at 5th grade cuz everyone shipped us so i started to like a boy...... afterwards i got to know he like my bestie ...and without thinking i ended up thinking that its all cuz im fat ...ofc i dont like him anymore im 16 now .......but still now im 47 kg with 5'1 hieght still...................... it kills me...
@txtlover4917
@txtlover4917 3 года назад
@feyz naik you have a good weight according to your height which would give u a normal bmi .U r not fat at all. Stay happy girl .
@joemamaisded_7558
@joemamaisded_7558 2 года назад
Pls don't be hard on your self All are beautiful in there own way Beauty is from the inside There no shapes in beauty 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 Live a long life 🖤🖤🖤
@usernotfound11111
@usernotfound11111 3 года назад
No matter how much we try to make our personality outshine this is our deeepest insecurity and affects us deeply
@kanimozli8138
@kanimozli8138 3 года назад
Actually after a long time, I'm commenting, it's because I want to tell the people who has inferiority complex for being fat, or being black, or being skinny, or having Pimpled face or being short or being too tall or other some reasons, these world is crucial about criticising u. If u r chubby, it says u r fat. If u r without golastral, it says u r skinny. If u r thick skin which never got skin discease, it says u r black, if u r soft skin, it says u have pimbled skin. Whatever u have, this world wants to make u fun. So don't think about it too much. Just live ur life which is only one chance, happily guys. I'm doing and I'm being very happy. U too try this guys. Thank u
@eluzsius774
@eluzsius774 3 года назад
Omg this made me cry the fact that people could sit there and just laugh made me even cry harder and I can’t believe this also happened in the world we live in. Just a reminder your beautiful the way you are 💜💕 I’m proud of you 🥺🥰❤️
@oikstooru
@oikstooru 3 года назад
1:58 WHY IS THIS GIRL ALWAYS PLAYING THE VILLIAN LMAOOO who are you school 2015, weightlifting fairy Kim bok joo and now this
@strawberry761
@strawberry761 3 года назад
She played a good role in juror 8. Ngl, she has some great talent.
@navyajindal9825
@navyajindal9825 3 года назад
It's not suprising anymore that most of the people just say these lines like "Everyone is beautiful" and all but none of them mean it. In real life, most of the people judge others by looks
@lizanna__sakura4710
@lizanna__sakura4710 3 года назад
💯 True even though they say this behind the screen when they see them in real life they start to judge, it's sad that everyone is writing these comments and many of them will straight up judge you.
@madinenivijayalaxmi7589
@madinenivijayalaxmi7589 3 года назад
When I was small I was skinny and then they called me skeleton but when I came to my teenage I started eating quite well and started gaining weight now they are calling me 'Fatty' Aish i quite done with this shit
@chandanhembrom3757
@chandanhembrom3757 3 года назад
It Dosnt matters how u look either u black or ugly The thing that matters is lenght of ur heart and kindness 💜No one is born ugly only society made us
@mjkpopstanweeblonelyweebbl6015
@mjkpopstanweeblonelyweebbl6015 3 года назад
I don't care about other people's weight, it's their own problem and it's their job to take care of themselves, them being too fat or skinny doesn't matter to me, i just want a friend who will stand by my side so i can stand by for them. Everyone thinks im sad or angry when im tired or just have a normal face and when I tell them that this is my normal face they act shocked. I mean i am a pretty mature for 12 year old but that doesn't mean I don't have fun or smile, i do that when i need to. Idk why my grandpa doesn't like the fact that im fat like why does that matter? I can take care of myself, im a child now im just grown too early. Im not insecure about anything sometimes, all tho i do get anxious around strangers. I know that this will be a problem for me in the future, my weight but i'll try my best to be healthy and energetic. I can be a crazy freak without any fear and a mature person at the same time
@pranjalmeena4923
@pranjalmeena4923 3 года назад
its a real fact being ugly is like a curse because everyone judge you with your looks ( money and looks all every other person wants) but its oki being ugly have also fun you don't get anyone attention you don't get live at first sight you no one will date you and you never be cheated and you can work on yourself and start doing something different and progressive that make ypu diffrent from others and in the end if you loved by someone you are turely blessed because that person will love you with his/ her heart not just by looks because attraction stay for some time but love stays forever ♾
@Quacks5303
@Quacks5303 3 года назад
Life won't get easier. Stop holding others hands and hold your own, don't stop and care what others think of you, sure it'll be sad for a little bit but just think that those few people are just nothing In the world they literally don't exist. And out of the whole world there are more people who will love you and make you happy for being you then there are those few insecure people who you'll probably forget in a few years because you're gonna be to happy in the present and future then dwelling in the past
@manyamanhas5938
@manyamanhas5938 3 года назад
The fact that I'm still scared to talk to ppl and sometimes am just straight up mean because I'm scared they'll make fun of me, when in reality they most probably won't is crazy... I do feel ugly TBH but I don't know what to do about it. Ppl keep saying that u should not think like that and that I'm also pretty, but that's just a lie, I have a mirror u see? Seriously IDK what to do with this whole cycle of thought... So, just know we all feel a little ugly sometimes and it's Ok.
@vaishnavi7944
@vaishnavi7944 3 года назад
Sometimes I also feel like I am ugly. No one is perfect I'm also little fat I'm trying to loss my weight. And also I sounds like a 6 year old kid but I am 14 If someone make fun of me I will just smile like I'm not talking it seriously but inside it hurts Mean people don't know how much it hurts. I have a cousin sister she is also fat Her ex always used to make fun of her and ask her to loss some weight. She told me that when he said like that it hurts so bad . But now she found a nice guy who loves her He love her even though she is fat And he said to her ( you no need to loss your weight , you are beautiful ) Like this there are many people who loves us no matter what If we are ugly or beautiful Chubby or skinny It doesn't matter. But there are some mean people who have no idea how much it hurts when they make fun of us. But just love yourself If you are fat then try to loss weight It's not for someone else but for yourself I'm also trying to loss weight and I won't give up I will try hard And I'm also trying to change my voice If you are sad just think about others who don't have hair , who is fat or thin , who have acne on their faces etc After thinking about that you will feel relieved That it's not only you who don't like the way they look Everyone is trying to change their flaws Just be happy 😊💜
@queenofjokes4248
@queenofjokes4248 3 года назад
People don't see their precious heart 💜 they only see how they look 😔 cuz true ones are always lonely .no one born ugly we're just born in judgemental society-RM (BTS)💜
@candace_tembe2
@candace_tembe2 3 года назад
I constantly live like that, but in my case my neighbors and my family constantly tell me "you would be more beautiful if you loosed weight" to make it stop quickly I joke about it with them so that they don't keep talking about my weight ,but the truth is I feel like crying inside.
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
Felt that:(
@phenomenalphysics3548
@phenomenalphysics3548 3 года назад
I'm not saying you should be skinny af but being obese would not do good for their health either. You should learn to love your body, but you'll harm yourself by eating too much fast food. Sorry for being honest
@mochiarmy3418
@mochiarmy3418 3 года назад
we are all beautiful, and i pray that we realize that. We do not need to fit into society's beauty standards. We need to make our own. Even if you are not confident, look into the mirror everyday and say "I am so beautiful" and eventually, you will think and know you are beautiful. God bless you, and i love/purple you. 💜💜💜
@sooahli1992
@sooahli1992 3 года назад
I 💜 you
@mochiarmy3418
@mochiarmy3418 3 года назад
@@sooahli1992 💜
@mediterraneanchicken1141
@mediterraneanchicken1141 3 года назад
I’m glad they included the male versions !! Males get insecure too not just women
@sulekhasharma6668
@sulekhasharma6668 3 года назад
0:17 I actually loved this drama. The way the male lead tried to accept her the way she looks even after she got the whole body surgery. Drama name : the birth of the beauty
@amako6837
@amako6837 3 года назад
What's thé name please?
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