i don't care anymore 

my apologies for the audio being weird! i've figured out the problem so will make sure it doesn't happen again! love y'all & hope you're having an amazing week❤

you’re NOT alone! i hear you 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

girl you're not being pessimistic. society is objectively collectively getting worse in massive proportions and you and me both are tired of it . dont worry about how you come across ! just deliver the message thats been put in your heart. you are welcome to express yourself and your audience will listen

Nooo because I feel the same! I'm tired of caring so much & I have10 yrs on you. I'm so sensitive & empathetic, yet fiery. I've had to unfollow so many platforms/ppl & dissociate.

"girl i'm not gonna go sit here and sell you a journal." see, this is why i LOVE YOU. i am LITERALLY in the exact same mindset, i just turned 23 and i've been feeling this way for quite some time. i just wanna read my books, stay out the way and chill the fuck out. i don't have any energy to overexert myself for this stupid system. i already don't fit so many of the boxes they set up; i'm a black and brown mixed person, i'm nonbinary, i don't want kids, i don't want a relationship/to get married, i'm not on social media (besides youtube and pinterest lol) etc. i just want some damn peace. and i'm also heavily empathetic, so i have to limit my news intake, so i get what you were saying about that as well. you literally have a subscriber for lifeeee

I’ve written and deleted a comment so many times cause i resonate so much with this (especially being the same age as you) and I can’t even articulate just how much I agree with you Lynette but I’ll just leave this: my dad passed away in March. While my siblings and I were cleaning out his apartment, we came across so many precious things that he had held onto for decades - newspaper clippings, beloved ties and t-shirts, Father’s Day cards we had given him as kids. And as we sat there and debated with each other and ourselves about what to keep and what to donate or throw away, I realized that my dad’s life ~materially~ boiled down to just the things in that apartment. But my dad himself was SO FAR BEYOND that apartment. At the end of the day his physical belongings meant nothing. They were precious to us just because of who he was and how amazing of a person he was. Losing my dad has completely changed my outlook on life about what’s important, what to cultivate, what I’ll be remembered for. One day all the clothes I buy, the decor I put up in my house, my car will just be things I’ve left behind. And that’s not to say they don’t matter (my dad LOVED his car haha) but it means I can’t lose sight of what really makes me, me.

I turned 25 last month and share the same sentiments. I take none of this seriously anymore. I’m not going to lose my mind and become depressed about what’s happening in the world. I hate that people try to make you feel bad for not jumping behind every social issue or social media trend. Over it. I’m not interested in anyone’s self help journal when a $1 notebook serves the exact same purpose. I’m in the process of curating my social media feeds to more positivity and less about the matrix. I don’t care about politics or anything else outside of pouring into myself and other people who are like minded.

we’re black and we’re women. we did not fuck up this country or this system. so if we wanna mentally check out for the sake of our wellbeing, we should absolutely be allowed to. i’m with you

I used to feel like this around your age. What has helped me is focusing on my inner world. The more we focus on our inner world the more we can impact our outer world. It starts with you. Then your personal relationships, your community and so forth. We’ve been taught backwards to keep us in a state of worry, panic and exhaustion. The more we take care of ourselves and give away our overflow the bigger impact we can make in this world. My daughter helped me realize this. I’ll be 30 in January and 4 years of practicing this mindset has greatly impacted myself, my family and my community. Your heart is in the right place. Don’t let this 3d reality disturb your peace. - Kweeni ✨

I feel this vlog! I had to chill on the self-help advice, books…It’s such an over saturated industry, and it actually became overwhelming for me. I do what’s best for me. I aim to live a much simpler lifestyle. I’ve learned to focus on what really matters to me, and not what’s being propagated.

FINALLYYY someone speaks on this omfgggg ive felt this way for so long

When she said "the capitalism thing and the religion thing go very well together" I got chills. Never really made that connection before. 🤯

There is nothing new happening. You could have made this video 100 years ago, and all would be true. We just pass through. ❤

Omg this is exactly where I am. The things I always wanted or dreamt about as a kid I no longer care about. Idc about being super rich etc. I just want to be at peace with whatever I do. I now crave the simple things in life.

It gets really crazy when you take some time to live outside of America (specifically the United States) and realize it's not that different in other countries. Same clown, different makeup. I learned to focus on what's most important to me, and filter out the rest, as much as possible. Life has gone so much smoother since I stopped trying to stay informed with what society says I should maintain awareness to, and being okay with when that changes with time. 💯

We are changing spiritually. I'm glad that the most high is giving disclosure.

you basically summed up how i've been living for some time now ❤😌 im currently trying to declutter my social media because i want it to be a space where i can connect, be inspired and enjoy my time. i want it to add to my life instead of take away from it. i feel like when yoy realize that things don't need to be so black and white, it opens up a lot of possibilities

Ah, life. A disease inflicted upon us by our parents. I always think upon how I’d have nothing to worry about if I had never been. The cycle has continued for centuries. Just gotta remember we’re experiencing a speck of time in a never ending universe. What seems important now means nothing in the grand scheme of things. I am sensitive but I try not to care so much, as it won’t matter in the end. Seek peace and spread kindness. Don’t take life too seriously. Enjoy the little moments and spend your time doing what you like as much as possible :) loved the video, Lynette!

YT niece you should see your YT auntie over here enjoying all the simple things that bring me peace. I turned my, I’m done caring button to on at the start of 2024. No news, no politics, etc. I’m decorating my home, decluttering, deep cleaning, reading, enjoying “my shows”, sitting in the sun, and simply all the things that bring me happiness. It is a freak show circus out there!!! Protect your peace ✌🏽❤

Love this for you! I’m 38 & the older I get. The less I care & it’s actually really empowering. Living in this time is a joke at this point. Keep ur peace ❤️☮️

I know you touched on it very lightly but I'd like to add, continuing self help or self improvement when you've already achieved those goals, just perpetuates the idea that you or your life is a problem that needs to be solved. I'd rather believe everything is unserious, and nothing matters ♡ I don't care !!

I was struck by your comment about finding something to enjoy every day. These very words were my mother's last advice to me before she passed away at 96: "Find something to enjoy everyday." You figured this out 70 years earlier ❤. My Dad told me on his deathbed that his one regret was that he hadn't taken enough time to "stop and smell the roses" 🎉. He told me to take time in life to smell the roses that he couldn't....so I hope you do the same ❤❤🎉❤❤.

I’m 56, feel so lucky I made it this far but you are 💯 right now! It’s not negative, it’s truth!

Im 27, I was just feeling this way!. I'm withdrawn from alot of things because I don't care anymore It gets exhausting like theres never a state of peace in society,

This really shows me that money and stability doesn’t mean you’ll be happy… like there’s always gonna be something to be unsatisfied with and complain about in this world. You’re channel encourages me to not wait till im successful to allow myself to be a joyful person.

I’m at a point where I’m just doing me the best I can, surrounding myself with those who love me and support me, and praying. It’s wild out here, and all we can do is our best. Thanks for sharing 💕 much love 🦋

Speak on it!!! You had me at the title alone. Definitely feel you on the selling products or starting a business outlook. So very over the overconsumption of it all.

This is literally perfect timing Lynette

OMGGGGGG GIRL THANK YOU FOR POINTING OUT THAT CHRISTANITY IS THE HIGHEST PROPONET OF CAPITALISM. I talked about this so much in college & wrote papers on this and I used to get SO MUCH hate for bringing this up.

Girl you’re so relatable and down to earth. I used to care so much but the older I get, the more I realize how much of life is just destiny. So I’m just enjoying the ride at this point

Maybe consider volunteering or getting involved in local politics. It might make you feel better to see the direct positive effects of your efforts within your community. You have so many skills and experiences that I’m sure would be an asset to many organizations. Either way, I understand. I feel like there’s a time in our mid twenties when we all deal with these feelings.

When you speak the truth, there will be people who become triggered. It just shows how you are vibrating at a higher frequency than they are. You always manage to post a video about the right topic at the right time.❤

Yes. We are currently the same age & I feel the exact same way. I completely stopped worrying about politics, lifestyles and I’m honestly just a boat ride of living! Like I have no energy to force my self to do things anymore. I get the most comfort from freedom

I felt this. I like to just be and that does wonders for my nervous system. I believe just being will lead you to the path you’re actually meant to take, and not the one your ego created. You then start to realize your purpose was never far out of reach but that your mind was.

This is exactly what I’ve been saying and feeling, esp the point we don’t need more products sold at us and at the end of the day WE ALL WANT LOVE

My apathy is toward these systems and the fake notion of what success is in regards to societal expectations. I have to thank you for making this video, because I 100% feel this as well. I'm taking my power back and living on my terms now. I will be OK, I have done everything I was expected to do and there was no reward other than layoffs, my future being taken away from me, and people dying as a result of sociopaths sitting in empty offices. Its time for us to simply just live, Lynette. We deserve to live.

This video expresses my thoughts exactly. I’ve stopped watching the news, and I’m trying to reduce my Internet/social media consomption. I’m so fucking tired of this world, but also super grateful for my current life as I live a comfortable life uncomfortably.

It's not pessimistic or negative. People are programmed to keep society afloat and honestly, thats as damning as having a dead end job. More need to focus on happiness to avoid depression and you doing this is keeping you sane and grounded. Appreciate your authenticity

So real. I went through this motion a while ago. I don’t care,I don’t want to be ‘rich’ I don’t want to be ‘successful’ I just want to love and enjoy the things that keep me alive. As long as I can enjoy food, people water and shelter, I am happy. Life is pretty peaceful now. All I try to focus on the the things that keep me ALIVE and keeping so much gratitude for them - then I thrive 1. Food ( making delicious foods cause I will die without it) 2. Clean water 3. Sleep (sleeping enough or you die) 4. Movement (can’t live without it) 5. Knowledge and wisdom (humans only evolved to this point by digesting it, history philosophy theology) 6. Breathing (can’t survive without just breathing) 7. Connecting & socialising (humans also only evolved to this point of intelligence because of our ability to communicate with eachother , funny that the lack of it will cause our downfall like it is now) this is all I do. No I’m not wildly successful in my career but I’m wildly successful in just existing: I am grateful for that cause I’m happy and have a loving partner to do it with me

I agree with you. I don’t like how social media has become an echo chamber of aspirations. I had to get off of it too because I don’t care. I don’t want to live the life everyone else is living. But I do care about the impact that I will leave on the world. I want to work to changes that will better the lives of future generations. That I do care about. I care about being strong enough to make a difference just like Martin L King did even if it does cost me my life, it will be worth it for me to stand up for what matters.

I truly love watching you. There’s something very comforting in watching you explain my feelings out loud

Me enjoying the game of life blowing bubbles in my backyard with my husband, knowing that I see the Creator every time I look in the mirror 👑 You're not alone, I feel this 100%. Keep having fun bird watching & enjoying your life guilt-free ❤

Totally resonated and I feel you. It's not like you don't care about humanity or whatever, you're just over getting swept up in the emotions and fear mongering and anxiety producing stuff they throw at us everyday and then tell us to work harder, do more go faster. So I feel you and I think it takes courage to be honest and be you're authentic self and speak genuinely so I appreciate you and your content. Keep up the great work and cheers to not giving a fuck 🥂

This is why I fwu for all these years bc you just get it👏🏾 watching this video was literally a breath of fresh air, from all the gimmicky unrealistic life that we’re surrounded by.

she ain’t tell one lie!! I feel this heavy, appreciate your vulnerability 🖤

I don’t have any solutions to this besides saying I have felt similar to this at many points in my life - and reading philosophy - mostly Kierkegaard - (Ik he’s a Christian thinker, but great applications for general spirituality or existential thinking too! & there are many other women philosophers that have given me relief as well such as Simone De Beauvoir) - has helped. Sending good energy as you figure out things 💫

Your transparency is peace giving!! Thank you for putting your authenticity into these videos 🩵🩵

your videos always come at the right time. literally.

I think that you are at a new level, you read the information needed now it's time to utilize it and enjoy life. You can win some, you can lose some, just do your best and have a pleasurable life. This is why I take breaks off social media because it's soooo overwhelming. I just want to hear myself. 17:45 Facts!

this is why I have been following you for so long now. I am so grateful that people like you exist in the influencer space and in the wellness/spirituality space. thank you for sharing your perspective and making so many of us feel grounded in this world with it.

I am so grateful for you and your content ❤ this video is everything I needed and more right now ❤

i been crying the past few days because everything feels purposeless…

Ahh thank you for all of this! Being feeling a big shift in the way I relate to the world and what you shared resonated a lot.

I’m loving your mindset more and more. Keep going in THAT direction. In the direction of alignment with your truth, your higher self, and free of conditioning. And ppl who are offended by not wanting kids, they are not your ppl.❤ It is beautiful to witness your awakening, and remember… it is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a sick environment.

I’ve literally been thinking about all of this recently too! I’m just so tired of chasing all of these little things 😭 your videos are always so comforting because then I don’t feel so alone 🥹💕

I love this lynette!

I felt this in my SOUL! Thank you for this video ❤

This was one of your realest videos!! Love this one. ✨

i appreciate you so much for being so real and honest with everything from your position as an influencer. it´s nice seeing others that are also in touch with reality on daily basis

I 100% agreee!!! It’s time to get back to ourselves and then choose what we want that’s best for me.

girl. i feel the EXACT. SAME. WAY. i'm 26 and my worldview has shifted so much over the last few years. i used to not be friends with people based on who they voted for etc and get all riled up for nothing. i've been off social media a ton & just focusing on myself. i do still wonder how to balance this idea of maintaining my sanity all while still being aware of what's going on// knowing how to help various social causes..

I love how you’re talking about both perspectives. It’s so many influencers that aren’t commenting on what’s going on in the world at all. I completely understand your pov of working/getting stuff done and using your platform to inform.

I really appreciate your content. Thanks for helping me not feel alone ❤

I related to what you said about keeping up to date with the world news messing up your mental health but also not wanting to be super disconnected and unaware. I think being hyper aware about what is going on in the world can lead to anger and depression but then you are right, you can choose how you want to navigate your life if is not benefitting yourself personally to play the game in the system that is set up.

This is one of my favorite sit down videos.

Lynette I just want to thank you so much for always speaking your truth and sharing it ❤ your video topics always resonate and your journey continues to inspire so many others. love the youtube community 🥲

I related so much with this. I went through all the stages of hyper focus on everything in this world and I’m still working my way out of the mental and spiritual and physical strain it caused me over the years. Im currently 30 yrs of age & in my era of not caring but also caring at the same time…it’s so weird. You’re awesome for being this bold to speak the truth that many of us probably feel and are too afraid to admit. xoxo

You’re TOO real Lynnette, and we love you ❤

this is the first time i've felt like someone has word for word, spoken about what I've been feeling these past few years/months. i see people around me caring and taking things so seriously and I'm just here like ????

i had a dream that we met and then i see that you posted a video today. needed this! tysm 🫶🏼

I love your channel. Pls keep making vids even if it’s just 5 mins. I love your inputs and outlook on various topics

I have so much respect for you for talking about this. I imagine it can be difficult to do so but you’re saying what a lot of us are thinking. Sad to me how hopeless our generation feels. The odds are against us but I still hold out hope that one day things will improve ❤

This is EXACTLY how I feel. I literally feel the depths of everything around me being so temporary and it's really hard to engage into such pointless things. I genuinely feel like this world is a huge insane asylum! Everything is so mental and I just want to fucking be.

I’m so happy u posted :)

This is so refreshing and honest and I resonate so hard with all of this. Thank you for sharing this video

I like how real u are and self aware u are, keep speaking ur truth and I enjoy these little chats❤

thank you for this real take. it has reassured a lot of my recent feelings and now i feel motivated to pick myself back up and find those things that bring me joy again. i have been totally disconnected and apathetic recently yet feeling super guilty about it. but just hearing your thoughts has uplifted me and has kicked back the life into me. so i wanted to say thanks for sharing.

I never comment on videos but I’ve been extremely emotional the past few weeks as an empath seeing the state of the world, and have been trying to find a balance between staying informed while not burning out watching the news. In addition been waking up to the fact that we get fixated on such superficial things and trying to break the cycle of toxic productivity or the belief that we have to monetize our side hustles. You perfectly expressed everything I was feeling and didn’t know how to put into words in this video ❤️ this was very comforting

Truth word for word. Thank you for talking about this

My heart posture is the same as yours. I enjoy your videos and this one in particular. Please KEEP GOING with your content..

Recently got a library card and checked out all the books i used to looovee reading. Trying to interact with my environment instead of drowning in my wishes to leave the city im in. Life is in the everyday, not the longing or imagined future.

i feel u on not caring so much. it's exhausting. we can't fight every fight. the world is falling apart. the best we can do is cultivate like-minded communities and live in our version of peace. at least healing ourselves helps to inspire and heal others. that's all i really hope for.

I feel you girl and I can definitely relate to everything you've mentioned. Thanks for speaking out your truth & being real! Also love your chilled vibe♥

I love your outlook on thing's you're very transparent and I love your energy! You always give good advice and nothing wrong about feeling how you feel. I definitely can relate to your content hunn❤✨💋

Whew I absolutely feel this, love to see your evolution & I will absolutely join your patreon 🥰

I think that is very difficult to be a young person in this world right now, for real. and from my personal experience, the other generations do not understand that we are young in a totally different world than them occupied when they were young as well. now they think that we are dramatic or something?? I don't know, but I really agree with everything you had said. I am so glad we have a lot of people expanding their consciousness. we really need that. thank you for speaking your mind, you are def not alone. 💟

Yep. THIS is the video. I legit don’t care. Loved this!! ❤

This is by far my favorite video from you. Bc wtf r we even doing? a truly authentic and happy life is a deprogrammed 1

Me and you both it’s a joke. And we were really built off the backs of violence

I just wanna say I really respect you as someone w a platform for actually speaking on all the crazy stuff happening in our count try rn instead of being dell and only doing gram kinds stuff. ty for being real

It's so hard to care sometimes. Thank you for being honest! 😊

I love your videos because you’re honest ❤ you help me come to terms with my own inner turmoil

I understand you wanna care and you want to survive happily and it feels tough to juggle both things. Thanks for Your transparency ❤

it feels like such a luxury to not care. i want to not care but i need to grow up a little bit and find a real job first😭 i aspire to get to this level though- navigating "not caring" while simultaneously navigating stability is such an interesting thing to think about- idk if any of that made sense- love watching your video as always lynette!

No literally I feel the SAME exact way rn. Like someone else commented this would be the same 100 years ago. I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that life is basically a loop but somehow each go around things get worse??? (Maybe not life but American culture) It has made me super content with my life. Like I’m really taking it day by day. One of your videos really made me so aware of my privilege and it’s really a blessing to be able to sit and contemplate. My income is really not where I’d like it to be but I’m still able to take care of myself, and enjoy myself daily so for that I’m grateful. I’m literally in the same headspace I’m like lemme go outside. Let me read a book. Let me hangout with my mom etc. Im realizing a lot of the things “sold” to us was kinda just how they advertised America to other countries “cities paved with gold.” The shadow to a lot of the “accolades” we are supposed to chase come with a lot of responsibilities that I kinda don’t want. It’s almost giving “suffer with me or suffer from the shame and judgment of not living like me” ALSO ppl on RU-vid shorts seem to be EXTRA triggered.

This is such a valid and relevant conversation thank you for sharing these thoughts and sending you love ❤

this resonated w/ me. the deep & complex issues i'm aware of within my family depresses me so bad. on top of what is going on in other countries such as palestine... it's so depressing. but also, personally, i can't look away bc i want to be aware. being so aware of everything is so tiring & then i'm unmotivated to think about myself LMAO ugh. all in all, like someone else said, these cycles are rinse & repeat. we're just passing through... live your life for you. all of our paths are different

The realest video I’ve seen this year

I've been there so many times. For me, connecting with the things I truly enjoy and learning to actually have fun in my day to day has been really helpful. I mean like laughing out loud, consuming or making art forms that make you connect with something more beautiful in any way. It's about finding that child-like feeling of opening one self to see what's fun and what I can enjoy the most right now. Of course the world is a mess and that affects us, even more if you pay attention to being connected. But at the end of the day, you have a right and an obligation to *enjoy* what you enjoy. Claim your right to be happy!

Total resonating with me. Spot on throughout the whole video and I encourage you to keep on keeping on