I don't have a dream job (and I don't think I ever will) 

I honestly never understood how people were able to stick to one path their whole lives.

Tbh I feel like We don’t have a dream job because we are here to experience all sorts of things. Multitalented and open minded and open to explore every element of who we are

Love how RU-vid algorithm is pushing new channels to the feed. Great content

I’ve felt the same my whole life and I’m 50 now. My resume has all kinds of random jobs, some that have paid very well and some not. I have no regrets and feel one should experience as much as possible in this lifetime.

I want to be a chef but I don’t wanna work

This is why I struggle with work because I’ve hated all jobs I had and have I just hate how they just make you figure out a passion and get a job . There’s just too many things to explore I can’t settle

Same. I don’t dream of labor !

There is no ONE passion. There is passion. And passion is whatever drives you to want to enjoy life. We are not human DOINGS; we are human BEINGS. It's not about finding the ONE thing to DO; it's about finding the things you enjoy through this existence as this specific human BEING. The meaning of life is non other than life itself. I believe we are here to experience what it means to be a human and we are all doing that in our own individual unique way. There is no purpose to life other than life itself. Experience life and express yourself. ❤️

My passion is freedom. I can't pick just one passion and that's it. This is so limiting.

You have no idea how much I needed this. I’ve been the exact same way my whole life too! I’m going to be 34 soon with a young son and I still feel like I don’t know what the hell im doing or going to do with my life. Your definitely not alone. I think people put so much pressure on careers and money that even if we had all of that would we really be living happily? Life is short do what makes you happy, and if you’re not happy try to find what does even if it’s just a hobby on the side of a bull shit job. My dad once told me “Nobody really has it all figured out .”

I'm going to be 40 in September and I have no real purpose either. I figured out the degree I should have gotten years ago, but that's about it. I wanted to go to Hollyweird and be an actress, I wanted to be a lawyer, a tennis coach, drama teacher, all sorts of things. So don't feel too bad, anyone else that's experiencing this and comes across this comment.

I feel like capitalism kills our dreams lol like damn it’s hard to find a job that will make u happy :\

I love when I find these gems on youtube. Thank you for this video.

I agree, When I was younger I had so many dream jobs and knew what I wanted to do. Now that I am an “adult” all of that just went out the window.

Sometimes it's not natural to do one thing the rest of your life.

This makes so much sense to me, I've been beating myself up about getting bored of jobs easily and always wanting to try new things but if that is what makes me happy I should just do it! Thank you for sharing your experience 😊

I’m the same way, I like multiple things and I don’t want to conform to one set path specifically. I’m still in college in my last year trying to figure out what I’m going to do next. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! :)

Girl everything you said, I resonated so hard. My boyfriend is always saying, "dude give me a moment to catch up, you are always switching it up on me". And thats just like the story of my life I am never consistent but I love my mind and I love how interesting everything is to me. I have been really struggling in my first year of college even though I got a full ride. I am currently failing all of my classes and struggling to figure out what to do next. I'm just feeling like school is ruining the things I'm interested in. I love to learn but I have been so hard on myself for not wanting to go to college even though I'm basically getting paid to do it. Its just been hard and the system can really suck you in and make you feel like you have to stick to one thing. But I am trying to read about everything I love and figure shit out at my pace and do it the way I want to. I just cant focus if its not what I'm into or at my own speed. Anyways It was great hearing your perspective girl. Trust your intuition

There’s so many fun things to do here lol why do we have to choose just one?

I don't even have a dream, never mind a dream job, my life goal was to make a lot of money around one million dollar adopt a girl and educated her and just be with her , being a mom is something I always looked forward too, but I now I am unemployed

Its all about not being stagnant I feel. If you've gained knowledge and skills down the line and havent yet found out who you are, atleast youre in motion. Believe it or not, there are people with enough money to not have to work but still have levels of depression/ identity crisis. We're just designed to be active and adaptive as humans, but I understand your angle completely. Just about every job can become repetitive and mundane, but you can use those dollars to fuel the things you appreciate the most. If you're in central FL by chance, let me know. Good video

I came to the conclusion that no job will be fulfilling (edit: for me, personally) a long time ago... So getting an education is about figuring out what will make you the least miserable, and living through college for years just to get it over with (for those with similar prospects). Also knowing that every minute I give to the system is time that I'm not getting back, and that my growth as a person is limited by that.

I needed to hear this

wow this video is so relatable especially cuz i'm studying spanish in school too! I feel like people still harshly judge those who don't have a dream job but they just don't understand that not everyone has to have one. i'm all about doing what makes you happy in the moment! love the video!

Hi Nyla, love the way you put it. That’s exactly it... don’t worry be happy!

I'm glad I wasn't the only one lost. Changed my major 3-4 times before completely dropping out altogether. Been out of school for 2 years now and I think I may have found my passion. Hopefully. I'm almost 23 and I feel like it's too late for me. but I know it's not.

Yesssssss!!! I love this video! Well maybe your “dream job” will be RU-vid one day 🥰 but I agree with you…our interests change all the time. I hope you stick with RU-vid though bc you got good videos! I’m also passionate about making RU-vid videos. But it’s not the only thing I love doing. Gotta support the small creators ❤️❤️

Nice recommendation from RU-vid 👌 really good video! Makes me really think about my father, slaving away at his trade from 17 years old to now 50+ and still working hard as hell. I wish I could put him in his dream job. Or out of work.

I feel the same way, I get bored after 6 months-year in a role. I’m just gonna keep with contract and seasonal work until I don’t want to anymore :)

This video really spoke to me! I can't wait to watch all your videos. Literally yesterday I had a heart to heart with my husband saying this exact thing. I needed this relief that it is ok to not know what I want to do. Thank you so much for this video!!

This video is so relatable to where I’m at in my life, and I see that I’m not the only one. Thank you for sharing your experiences :)

I was so confused when I saw this in my recommended. But I clicked on it and really enjoyed your insight! I found out what I wanted to do at 19 and started working towards it. You gained a subscriber, and I'm curious to see what you'll talk about next.

this is a great way to put it, every day i have a new interest and then its always changing and i get so confused with myself!

I've always changed my mind about what I want to do with my time. But I was worried about being weird and afraid of commitment or something! It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one

Most relatable video I’ve seen in a long time. Thanks for sharing girl ❤️

This is great. Keep it up 💕 hopefully lady algorithm keeps pushing our small channels.

I’m a junior in high school and I literally don’t know what I want to do. I change it all the time and it was stressing me out already 😭.

Love this video and relate so much. I find myself feeling so down sometimes because so many of my friends have set plans in life whilst I have no idea what I want to do or if my degree (Politics) is even worth it. It's so scary because I want to do well in life but I feel like all careers and jobs which are high earning are so time consuming and depressing.

There's nothing like feeling super useful like your uniqueness is being put up to your fullest potential and you contribute to society in the best way you can.

Hi Nyla, the Japanese Ikigai is a very useful guideline to find out what makes you happy in life, what you love to do, what the world needs, what you can be paid for and what you are good at. I'm in my 50's and never had any specific dream either about what I wanted to be. But now after being made redundant recently I am all into exploring what gives me fulfillment in what I do. One thing I know, time flies and never returns. Make use of the time you have to enjoy the simple things in life. This joy has all to do with your personal values. A fun journey to find out all of that and to live each day accordingly. I enjoyed your video and your personal story. Be good for yourself, I love your energy.

thank you for this advice, it's exactly what i needed to hear. i feel like i'll never be successful or happy sometimes.. i need to stop being so hard on myself...

Me too !!! ☹️🥰😻💭🙄☀️thanks so much for making me feel less alone with these thought 😘😘😘

boy am I glad I found your channel!! I love your type of content and I've come to these realizations about capitalism, work, passions etc over the 4 years I've been in college. I appreciated your insights and I very much agree with being multifaceted and multipassionate people. All the best w your future work x

I love this and I too like many things :) I also studied communication arts but I wanted to be a video editor, but the job field is super competitive. Internships are good, but it felt so straining seeing people work in cubicles. I’m like do I really want this to be life? So I decided to make RU-vid channel and just do dabble on interests and edit. I’m 31 and still learning more about how I would like to contribute my service to the world. I feel like this platform is meaningful and you can help many people out collectively here.

This was incredibly helpful. 😭 Thank you for sharing 🖤🖖🏻

I feel the same way and it's very scary, english isn't my first language and when I didn't know what else to do I started to study it more, I can also be a teacher or translate and things like that, but I'm scared I won't feel good about those things when I'm done with the course! Thanks for this video!!

I can relate to what you are saying. You should read a book “Refuse to choose”. It helped me a lot to accept myself, and liking many things and constantly learning.

you said everything i had in my mind and validated it :')

Loved this ❤️❤️❤️

hey, thank you for this very thoughtful video, you are so sweet :) Here's an idea for you to explore: I think kids would be lucky to have you as a career counsellor (I realise how ironic this sounds ahaha) by the way I came from Katherout's latest video where she mentioned you :) subbed

my name is nyla too and i love your content i hope you continue to grow 💗

I am 25 and still unsure about my life or what is a perfect life or dream job... I lost both of my parents and I am all by myself in this world. But after all living life in a simple way and without any pressure of work is not bad either..

i know im late but i honestly love this video so much. I too never have a dream job and i never had the desire to stick with one job for 40 years.

Amen 💯 you just gained another subscriber

Damn I feel you, I agree with pretty much everything you said.. at least there is many of us like this haha 🙂

I get the "everything catches my attention" I get bored with most things after 2-3 years. Here is a cool concept though: every skill you learn adds to your "skill stack". you can find areas of overlap between all the skills you have and maybe good skills to add the stack. that way you are not bound to one field or career, but you can also find the best areas for you to be in or directions in which to grow. Not sure if that made any sense at all, but it is well explained in the book "How to fail at almost everything and still win big"

thank you Nyla cause i thought i was alone...I dont know what to do, i mean I have a job before. I want to learn everything too

you don’t even realize how much this video has helped me. i’ve always been interested in multiple careers as well like marine biology and astronomy like you. but i’ve never been good at math or science so that discouraged me from it. there is just too many careers i’m interested in to ever just settle and do one thing forever. it’s so freeing when you realize that the whole idea of having a “dream job” is a scam

I love this!

Love this!

I am the same ..i finally figure out that I not meant working for someone else thats why i can stay interesting in my college majors!

That "No sé qué chingados hacer" killed me! 🤣 This is the channel for me.

older person here.... I've worked in many areas throughout my life.... most of which I didn't enjoy. I wanted to learn everything too and STILL do. I just wish I had done more to invest in myself.

Thanks for making this video. I’ve always been the same way.

I just filmed something just like this!! Omg I agree with this so much! Like I don’t think anyone knows exactly what they want other than to be happy and feel fulfilled!! ❤️😚

Great video sis

This really resonated *sigh*

Honestly, I also don't have a dream job. I conditioned my own self to believe that I do have some sort of dream job in mind when in reality I don't have everything mapped out. And that's okay, is what they would tell me. I enjoy writing a lot and yet I'm also aware that I won't be making a lot of income just by writing maybe a full-length novel or book or whatever, and so I'm left to overthink yet again and fully reflect on what I should be actually doing after college. My life's messy right now, but hopefully, I'll get everything aligned somehow...maybe...

when you truly have a plan and you truly focus and believe in your self you would land your dream goals and aspiration good luck

I convinced myself that I wanted a dream job so that I could be of purpose to myself and so I could take up space in this vast world but after finishing school I realized I waste 4 years on a degree that may get me a decent paying job but that job won’t bring me as much happiness as pursuing my own interests

i mean the goal for me is just experience several industries, master the ones i really enjoy and hopefully get paid ? idk but yeah at the end of the day although i "love" my job i still resent it at times..

I love this video because its very relatable. May I ask what your parents think about this and if they have had any influence on your career choices?

Hey beautiful 1. U should not be so hard on ur self. We all go through life having this expectations believeing that society having u to believe u should work 15 yrs or more at 1 career and that definitely not the case honestly we all fantazie About having a big house nice cars great career .there nothing wrong 4 being normal at least ur not putting alot of expectations on ur self. I would like to say u seem to no were ur going in life .and career wise as well .look u did set some goals 4 ur self u have ur owned u .tube channel. Maybe that something u might make it out of a career or maybe not .as long as ur determined in life there nothing u can't accomplish . keep up the hard work ur doing awersome job on ur channel .reaching out to people on topics that matter.🌺😜

maybe you don't want to trade time for money but you wanna get paid somehow lol.. follow what makes you happy, if making videos make you happy then do it.. if you stay consistent.

Si, me gusta ! Tu boca! 🤣 If you're that type of person than do all the dreams on your bucket list. Right now I'm doing flight attendantimg, modeling, and acting . It's something I've always wanted to do and society says pick one and stick with it. Nope. Not ever . Right now my youtube channel (which I talk about modeling and flight attendanting and traveling) is on my list of things I want to be big and successful. Live your life. Best of luck!

Great video! Interesting how this video has 5k views compared to your other videos which only have hundreds of views. Have you taken the 16 personalities test which would show you possible careers you could do based on your personality? And at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="302">5:02</a> your f-bomb startled me lol!

This is crazy because I am about graduate with a Spanish degree and I am very much so struggling with what I am going to do, or what am I doing. Also spanish is definitely not my first language. I didn't start learning it until I was 19/20 years old. ENTONCES... mi español no es tan fuerte perooooooo... and Yea idk I am just at that phase where I am just going to try anything and everything because I definitely feel like I wedded myself to strongly to doing only one thing and like I think I am seeing the negative results of that thinking. But yea great video and appreciate that there are other people out there that are willing to express the same feeling.

This is exactly on point how I feel

You have chosen good background music. What song is it?

I’m rocking with her

Honestly, I never related to a RU-vid video on this level!

Your video reminds me of another YT video called “I don’t have a dream job”, by Lynette Adkins. Her video and message is so wonderful, that finding your video, one like her's is quite nice! I highly suggest u check out her video if u haven’t already, tho I'd b glad to assume u already have, as it's so inspiring!

Inspired

You are so cute. thanks so much for this video💗💗💗💗💗

I love the coffee cup in the video

I am in the same boat right now I have changed my college major six times and feel like I've wasted so much time and money because I can't just pick one thing to do for the rest of my life. Im currently going to school to get a computer science degree but I am ready to change it again.

Girl me too!! And I’m old

Me pasa lo mismo, terminé mis estudios y tengo un trabajo but no the f*ckin dream job y esta bien, esta bien no tener claridad con que hacer con nuestra vida, esta bien no tener un gran propósito

Years ago, my friend earned a degree in Spanish and she ended up working at the US Embassy in Mexico City; I'm not sure if she had to pass the FSOT before being selected.

I Feel the same way, I Don't even want a Job as I Considered RU-vid (Even If I am One already) more of My Job

Right... Like what if I never find my passion or purpose?...

very relatable

“I was the everything bitch” lmao Me too girl, still trying to figure it out

The same is here, but is it really bad? I do not think so.

I literally don’t care about work anymore I earn pretty good money but I hate the job. I’ve stopped worrying about work and caring about it and I feel so much happier and better. No longer do I work past five

Fortunately people started to talk about that🤩

I feel like you have found your dreams already in this RU-vid channel

Great channel

Dude i feel you. I also make videos and even though i only have 35 subscribers im like omg people wanna hear what i have to say??🥺

twinsssssssssss!!!!!! i literally have said these same exact words to myself before. i love this. new sub alert! and pls kill me she evn uploaded on my birthday. kill me. i beg you