"I Don't Use SHE/HER Pronouns!!" 

Happy Friday! What are your plans for the weekend? :D

I went out yesterday and I don’t think I used a single pronoun to address a stranger. These people just need to leave the house for a while and get offline.

“Guess my pronouns” but if you get it wrong, you’re getting screamed at.

Ah yes, the septum strikes again…

How did we fall backwards in thinking short hair= man long hair=woman? It's like the 80s and 90s never happened!? This is ridiculous!

Full breasts on a hairy male chest...evokes a primal feeling of horror and confusion for me. If a person needs to do that, fine, but calm the f down and stop trampling over the gay community, children and soociety in general. We need to make space for everyone, that means not trampling upon women or other people or groups. Respect. This is a big mess. Remember that social engineering is the mechanism here.

They say don't assume pronouns but then when we ask instead of calling a man in a dress with makeup on "she/her/ma'am/miss" automatically they get offended and freak out

This whole fixation on gender/ sexuality is drawing us away from issues that really matter ! I have never felt compelled to be overt or verbal about my sexuality bc there's more to me than that.

I have eyes, these ppl have eyes, they know whether they look like a female or male and yet they act as if we’re purposely offending them by using those eyes to determine their gender! I feel like the world has gone crazy I really do.

Gotta love the tiktok trend of people having conversations with themselves. It’s clearly the only way they could “win” such arguments

Thank you for exposing the rampant sexism among these people. If identifying as "nonbinary" is freeing, it's only because the person holds deeply sexist, archaic beliefs about what it means to be male and female. Love your content so so much 💖

I love how people just fight with themselves in these short videos like, they make things up and they get angry.

Hair/her

Single mom traveling with a 2yo was kicked off of a plane (united airlines) because frustrated mom accidentally misgendered flight attendant while trying to subdue her child. The flight attendant felt that it's feelings were more important than trying to help mom with child. They can't be and shouldn't be in high position jobs because they can't do thier jobs properly, it will ALWAYS be about them.

“What would you say my pronouns are?” “I don’t know. Ugly/uglyself?”

Marcus, this stuff isn't conservative, democrats and moderates hate it too.

It’s not our job to make other people happy. I choose to make myself happy.

I guess minotaurs are not myths anymore.

I refuse to be an enabler to just make someone happy. Reality is the anchor we all have. The bench mark , if you will. This will run its course if we all stay in reality and don’t humor folks.

My grandpa used to say, the difference between a bad haircut and a good haircut is 3 weeks. I love your hair everyday, but it looks fantastic at this length!

“Guess my pronouns!” “I won’t, if it’s all the same to you.” 😐

Sorry but that is a horrible sight.

I kinda a tom boy. I dont wear makeup, or cute clothes. I mosty wear baggy guy clothes. You kniw hoooow many time i been as "sir" or "dude". I laugh it off and go on with my life like it never happen .

I despise being asked "why does it matter". If it doesn't matter then they/them should stop policing my speech based on their own unpopular constructs. That gaslighting sentence is more common that it should be and only is directed in one direction only. It mattered the moment I became a villain because of it.

SHE has more chest hair than I do.

At this point, I will just not talk to anyone. Because we can't assume someone's gender, but demand we use the right pronouns. Then, they are also offended if we ask what their pronoun is, because it should be obvious. Then... what are we supposed to do?

When you are comfortable with who you are, how you look like, sound like....... you don't care too much of what other people see, hear or assume about you. Those people must not like themselves much if they are constantly offended by others just voicing what's in front of them. Accepting and loving yourself is a superpower.

4:20 What. No. Literally no normal person would be angry if someone clearly used the wrong pronouns for them. They would just be like ?

If you called me a she, I would think it was weird, but then ask you what you wanted to order because this is a Wendy's and it ain't that deep for anyone.

Hairy / scary

"Respect my pronouns" is a shield to not engage with their deep seated insecurity about themselves. They project that insecurity on everyone else. They are classic narcassists.

If someone came up to me and asked me what my pronous are, I know I wouldn't want to talk to them. I do not have the energy or the patience for it. I would leave as fast as humanly possible. Thankfully it has only happened through text... twice. It always ended up being so incredibly awkward.

As someone with a septum piercing I’m really really starting to consider removing it. But it looks so cute on me! I’ve already had to give up my coloured hair

Why do I get an increasing desire to live alone & never deal with anyone again?

"it doesnt matter about grammer" that's entirely wrong.

“Ew I sound like Candace Owens” - Marcus

In THE HOLY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, ✝️, I rebuke that demon!!

In my misbegotten youth, I work in call center. Dumb terminal, main frame in the hermetically sealed room. Of course, land lines with wire. In short, I'm a dinosaur. I was a fairly well endowed female, strawberry blonde with green gold eyes...and a fairly low voice. It was a 50/50 bet if I would be a yes ma'am or a yes sir. I never corrected the caller. Why, you might ask. Because I didn't define myself by my job, it had absolutely nothing to do with the call, and it just wasted time for nothing. It just wasted my time and the callers. I know it's trite, but these hot house flowers need to drop a set and grow up.

I used to be ‘trans’. Blaire made a good point about trauma being related to transitions. It was after I had been molested. Now, I wear dresses, love pink and makeup and anything girlie and have my hair long again. Not related to this video really, but just soemthing I wanted to share. Some people aren’t trans but think they are. And it’s stupid that they’ll push these beliefs on others

are nose rings a REQUIREMENT for these people???

Before all this pronoun malarkey sex and gender were more or less interchangeable as the same thing and the choice was male or female.

The Mid life crisis epidemic is crazy

My 1 year old is going through a phase where he asks "What's that?" ALL THE TIME. Even at the store, he points people and asks me "What's that?" If he pointed at one of these people, I'd be like "What is that?? I don't even know. They might not even know." At least people probably assume I'm not teaching him pronouns, but I am, I just don't have time for outside noise AT ALL. 😂

I got my septum piercing 15 years ago before it was super popular. I hate that I have a chance to be lumped in with people like this. The reason I got it was because I could flip it up into my nose and its a facial piercing that won't leave scaring.

The only thing that comes to mind is GROSS!

1:12-“I love my hair today.” Sorry that caught me off guard and I laughed. But yes, your hair is fabulous. 😂

Every day, every damn day, I relate more and more with the "what the hell is even that?!?" guy. Now get off my lawn...

Sad, sadder, saddest

Miriam Margolyes is a truly unique personality. And, generally, I agree with her that if it makes someone happy..... Like many people I dislike the full version of my first name and use a diminutive. I might correct someone who saw the full name (on a credit card or medical record or something) by saying "Actually I prefer Jaye...." but if they forgot I wouldn't berate them and in a one-off situation it's not worth the effort. The chances are I am NEVER going to encounter them again and people who know and care about me know what I prefer to be called. However, it's the people who DEMAND I know their pronouns through some sort of telepathy I find insufferable. If it upsets you that much, feel free to enlighten me but also please be aware that I DON'T CARE. If I cared about you because you are friend or family, then that's different but if you are a random person I have happened to encounter, I don't care. I don't care to play your ridiculous "Guess my pronouns" game. I'll take my best guess although if I am talking to YOU I will say "You....." One doesn't say "He....." or "She....." directly to the subject. In short, I don't care to feed your delusion. If you're emotionally traumatised because I won't feed your insatiable need for validation, I can recommend a good therapist.

Those people: people keep on asking me my prounons everywhere I go 😡 Also them: did you just assume my gender I’m going to cancel you on TikTok 🤬

What a terrible day to have eyes.

I support trans/nonbinary people, however, if you want to be addressed as the gender you want, you need to dress/look the part, like y'all don't need to get angry at me just because I assumed your gender 😒

Can some cool conservative take back septum piercings please? I love mine so much and these stupid people make me want to take it out lol

It/its

What I find is the most straightforward argument you use in this presentation: If someone feels the need to create new gender descriptors, they are dismissing the reality that both males and females do not *have* to restrict themselves to gender/sexual constructs/stereotypes. As a much older gay man, I lived through decades when gay liberation fostered the view that one did not have to 'fit' into heterosexual norms for how a male or female should look and behave. They were also times when transexuals were individuals who felt that they would be happiest and most fulfilled if they altered bodies/behavior/dress/presentation/etc. It was simple, realistic and, most importantly, it worked. There was minimal in-fighting within our community and our joint focus as L, G and T was on civil rights for ourselves. Keep up the good work.

I had to smirk at “doll” as I used to work with someone from the US who always called me Doll 😂😂

I was at Trader Joe’s yesterday and a worker who was very female presenting had a button by their name saying, “my pronouns are they/them.” Like how is that inviting to your customers? I’m only in there to buy groceries I don’t need to even think about your ideology. It’s like saying, “hi I’m a Christian” on your shirt. I don’t care! lol I’m just not going to ask that that person for help because I’m afraid I’ll mess up and cause an awkward situation.

The random "I love my hair today" love it

As I am an old lady now, with increasing memory problems, most people (lgbt/whatever/straight etc) are 'thingy' now, or I pretend that I cannot hear, as I find even family names hard work now.

I'm feeling so blessed- I born and live here in Finland. We don't have to handle this part of all that shit. Because we have only one pronouns in Finnish language HÄN=she/he (HÄNEN=her/his)

I would guess that you're going to bring too much drama to my life and not interact with you at all

I really wanted to fly in America when I was a child. Now I look at it all and I’m afraid of America, thank you for those people :/

I refuse to believe someone who has posters of two of the best manga/anime thinks that way 😢

"apparently you can't assume someone's gender no matter how obvious it is." That's the most realest thing ive ever heard for years.

As an elder millennial gay this is a new thing, we didn’t give af back in the day.

People now a days act like being misgendered is as bad as being called the N word

I'm all for self identification and self-expression, but the moment someone starts belittling others unjustified... no. Treat others how YOU want to be treated.

My puppy has a more informed opinion. That's an insult to my puppy. Actual, an inanimate object

I found your channel randomly and really like it. I feel bad for people like yourself, Blair, and Brad Polumbo who have known who you are for a very long time, but these activists have barged on in and are attempting to take that from you. You guys see reality and are rational human beings, unlike these lunatics who are trying to make a joke of your group. I don't blame you for not wanting to be part of their bullshit.

Guess the pronouns? I'd rather use adjectives for that one! 😄😄

I don't care what their pronouns are.

You are 1 of the most calm, intelligent, well spoken creators on RU-vid. Great vid!

Honestly at this point I'm guessing they want to make something up so people can just ignore each other. And I am most certainly just ignoring these units.

Marcus, your empathy for others is your strength. Obviously, gour transition was about being healthy and well and living your best life. Some of these folks seem more interested in subversion and conflict than personal wellbeing.

Yes. Let them fly...

That "Ew I'm starting to sound like Candace Owens" made me choke on my Cola cola. You're so funny Markus! ❤ 😂

Marcus, you've been on a roll! I have been loving your content lately. Have a blessed day, handsome!❤

I find it disrepectful as well, that some of these goons dont even BOTHER trying to portray their "preferred pronoun" they just straight up change their crap daily in hopes of targeting unsuspecting victims to cry about online

I have no intention of writting a letter to any of those people, why do i have to guess pronoums if they are defined in grammar... but if i had to choose it would be "it"...

My Mum told me that when I was about 4, I asked her “why does that Boy have long hair”. In fact, it was a girl with long hair wearing blue. We laugh about this today but the truth is that I came into this world wanting to know typical gender roles and I enjoyed knowing I belonged. There’s nothing wrong with with me for feeling that way just as there’s nothing wrong for people who don’t feel that way at all ❤

The need to label everything is a problem....when we label things we in a way lock it into place, limit the potential of said thing, person, situation....it is also a problem because we are none of the labels we give ourselves or others as these are just different experiences people are having....your whole being and identity is much more than any label and so in a way we reduce ourselves and others w all the labels and apparently drive ourselves crazy while we're at it......

I remember the days when having a conversation with yourself use to get a free padded room.

Yay! A new video!

She asks questions and expects her phone to answer.

I don't believe the subject of a conversation gets to dictate how she/he/it is referred to. That is the job of the speaker.

I have explained to a few people that they have probably used the they/them pronoun many times without realizing it because it’s actually a normal part of English You’re husbands coworker is coming for dinner and he’s bringing a guest with him. Nothing else has been said except another person will be arriving. You ask your hubs “do you know anything about them or what food preferences they have?” You used they/them because you weren’t told their gender. It is a natural usage of English that is so common most people don’t even acknowledge it. You have e to point it out when they say referring to a single person as they/them doesn’t make sense. This is when feelings interrupt logic.

zhim/zhair

So many activists don’t understand that communication is build on a common code agreed by both sides, and want to rewrite dictionaries and grammars unilaterally.

If anyone wanted me to play "guess my pronouns," my answer would always be the same. Who/gives/a-crap?

"It doesn't matter about grammar." Actually, yes it does. If everyone can make up their own rules, everyone becomes an island, and there is no society. At that point no one is calling you anything because this thing called society no longer exists.

"If it makes them happy, why not?" Would they just go along with someone's religious belief if they didn't agree or knew it was wrong because it would make them happy? We all know the answer. That's one of the stupidest arguments. I also don't have to justify why I won't do it. You see, they try to turn it around on you to make you go on the defensive, making themselves into a victim and you out to be the bad guy. Good ole gaslighting.

My fiance is always asking me why i watch this stuff all the time. Simple answer, because no one else wants to talk about it, they want to hide away or not say anything. These are current events and the things that are happening all around us. I want to be aware of these things so i can protect our kids.

You are so spot on about this. Until we understand all the faces of Male & Female, we need to wait on new terms.

They're trying to force us to drop being politeness with ma'am and sir. Now it's only safe to say "HEY"

😅 my battery died 😂 oh dear

Remember in the 90's, calling someone an 'it' was the mosts offensive thing you could do.

In the Turkish language there are NO PRONOUNS

I still remember growing up and being told its rude to ask and we should just know due to how they look.

I can’t imagine letting the world “determine” who I am. Or care about ppls opinions of me that much. It would be comical if it wasn’t so popular these days.

Either the people don’t want you to assume their gender or they expect you to know. I don’t get it and at this point I don’t even care about offending these people anymore