I am telling you, makes me wonder how he aimlessly roamed about to meek that kind woman. She could even barely construct a simple sentence correctly (Perhaps when she had the opportunity to go to school, she was busy with other things 😂)
exactly!!! He knows the woman well that's the reason it's hard for him to agree with the verdict . She's vindictive and not remorseful and has maybe succeeded in transferring her hatred to the kids. The man let his feelings or emotions towards the woman control his actions in respect to the children. He should have done better for them considering the type of woman he married. i neva watch finish but i don dey vex
I feel sorry for the man too,he was running from his wife's troubles without realizing the damage it was doing on his kids,I feel immediately he saw his kids at the court he realized his mistakes and wanted them with him even if he had to make up with his wife
This woman will definitely meet a man that you treat her worst than she treated this man. She is just something else. May God bless this man with someone that he will find lasting joy with.
May we never enter marriage unprepared. May we never enter marriage without first building our relationship with God. We are experiencing this because the faith is completely lost among christians. The lady will live to regret her decision. God help us all
She claimed she recently begged him for them to be together again but immediately said No without a second thought when she was asled if she would like to be together with him again. You can easily tell she is a dubious person.
Everything about this woman is scary...signs of danger. Her facial expressions, her scary eyes and finally, worse off her earthquake, tremor, trembling voice...even if men were "born to suffer", this isn't worth it
I understood your point of view.. This man would have seen the bad character when he had a first child with her, he kept on managing her bad character, until the whole issue escalated.
Why would a married woman be clubbing without the permission of his husband?...Infact there are lots of red flag in this married, but the man keep managing her, hoping she would change...Last Last Last the matter come cast...
This is not fair honestly. This woman knows what she is doing. I feel for this man after hearing all the stories. The woman should be included in the upkeep of the children too.
The are other tangible and intangible expenses that were not allocated that the woman will be generally bear. Clothing for instance, now cost more and was never mentioned. It’s just unfortunate that the two couldn’t work out the marriage.
Bro he is lucky because it’s in Nigeria court In abroad the judge will determine the child support according to your income. I am paying over four hundred thousand per month for a child.
Both parties are to blame. Eventhough the woman is problematic, for the man to be mute over the upkeep of their children for 3years, it doesn't tell well. Here, we learn to be in-depth and deliberate about the persons we chose as partners.
Never judge until you hear from the other side, I remembered last when I was listening to this woman I felt like I had nothing until I hear from the man himself. And Boom, I don't know what this woman really want but I hope this man moves on. That's I can say
I think the woman had size up the man and found him belittled. If the man earns something around 7figures a month, she will gladly find a way to get the lacuna within them fix up. This is a big lesson for the unmarried.
Yeah you are correct but the man should pay at least 20 k for their up keep. We know 20 k cant be enough for 3-4 kids a month so she will still contribute more thsn 20k too. He is gentle physically but heartless inside. 3 years no upkeep for your children?
This is a very good judgement. This case is about the CHILDREN's welfare. They are the ones suffering from the problems of the parents. Irrespective of their differences, a father should not harden his heart towards his children. When they were living with him, did he feed them, when he was living alone and eating didn't he feel in his heart oh what are my children eating?. Oh are their school fees paid?, how are they doing when they are sick? Its not about whether the woman is crazy or not it's about the children. You don't need to be with the woman but you need to be a good father because the children are watching. So if this crazy woman didn't drag him to court ,he wouldn't have thought of feeding his children, for 3 years he has not fed his children, 3 years because of anger, he neglects his children who are bearing his name ,who will be counted towards his family. For those saying he doesn't have custody , listen to the judgment again, during holidays and weekends he has custody of the children. I agree the lady is crazy but the man is wicked. Don't let his gentle talk fool you. A father that would not provide for his children deliberately because he is angry with their mother is wicked.
I really feel for this gentle man. Nevertheless, it's a good lesson for young men. She left her first marriage and you decided to marry her without doing your own finding. You learnt your lesson in a hard way
Well said, i remember when i left my ex wife because i was tired of having disputes with her almost every week along with insults and then she relocate to swizz with my two daughters to meet a pastor who she ment on Facebook because we both use to live in Madrid. Then the pastor eventually got married to her and they had a daughter but unfortunately again the pastor had to divorce her after 3 to 4yrs and nw she's finally living as a single mum, so i would say it's very important for men and women to do their findings b4 going into marriage with a divorce person. Thanks be to God that i found the right woman after some yrs i divorced my ex - wife and we both have been together for the past 12yrs with two kids, a girl and a boy and i could tell that marriage is a joy and a blessing if you find the right partner.
@@Sloliom congratulations sir, what about your two daughters, hope you kept in touch with them. Hope you helped raise them so they don't grow up like their mother?
@@adebisilizaxta8033 Seriously! the fact that you don't see anything wrong in a man not providing for his kids for 3yrs! shows you are an irresponsible person.
Counselling is important 6months before marriage. Every 18 year old and above should attend marriage and relationship counselling in their faith or local community even when they are not in a relationship Families should come together often several before and after any marriage. Communication is key
The woman is not wrong to ask him to assist in taking care of his children. How can you call yourself a responsible man and neglect responsibilities of your children for 3 years and ongoing. Nonsense
For me the woman is the issue, trying to paint the man as evil before the kids, deep down the man too he doesn't want the marriage anymore but wants his kids back home. He's such a gentle man
Out of 112k he will save 40k for rent, 20k for his children and he’ll still pay school fees 360k. How is he going to eat and take care of himself. It’s women’s world!
@@taracarson9466 but the woman has been paying the money for 3 years, what is wrong with you people? If a man can deny one child because his having misunderstanding with his wife means he is not a real man
She broke up with her first marriage, now second and she will be hoping for the third marriage, the circle will continue if she's not careful and might even affect her children when they grow up. She's looking for Love. Is there still Love in this social media era? She's dreaming of social media love and forgetting about her children at this stage. The man is very peaceful in nature. God help him to find someone who will build a good home with him.
You're reasoning in the same state with me, that lady has issues in her life, and I pity those children under her care, she's not even good for that kind of man. May God bless that kind hearted man.
For a man or woman to say they don't have an atom of love for you it means you haven't *"deposited any spousal benefits in your partners life"* so they wouldn't miss you when they leave you.
I refused to agree with you, the woman is an ungrateful woman, if a man pays for the roof over your head take care of your kids even adopted the previous one you had and pays for there school fees and you now tells me he had not deposit love. No now, that's ungreatfulness. You should have asked her about the whereabouts of the father of her first daughter. A woman that's lacking in character, for the guy to endure her up to 4kids the guy is just a peaceful and gentle man. If na me she don go tete after one kid. Shameful olosho woman
@@woleakinyemi9452 we are saying the same thing. The woman hasn't made any positive contribution to the man's life for him to utter the statement " I don't have an atom of love for you". He is happy to split from her, I believe the reason why reconciliation was on the cards for him was because of the children.
You no hear when he say he already paid 100k for them for their school before the woman withdraw them from that school, probably she was denying him access to the kids too that’s why he’s saying he wants them in his roof.
You are reasoning well. He doesn't want to pay anything, just wanted to leave all the responsibilities for the woman and enjoy himself. Don't be surprised he might have gotten another lady pregnant during this three years and that's where all his money is going to. Useless man
This is not a wife material at all. She think the judgement will be in her favour when she brings the man to the court. It is a very big problem to a man when his wife starts having extra marital affairs outside their marriage. I can't even pray for my enemy to have this kind of a woman as a wife. Her eyes 👀 go clear when those guys out there don chop her finish. She is not remorse. No atom of respect at all. Yeye dey smell
The woman was already having an affair with another man before she moved out from the house, that's why she didn't want the marriage to work or go for marriage canceling
It's people like you that opened mouth to blame Osinachi for not leaving an abusive marriage... Now you're still wondering why a woman has decided to move on after her husband said he no longer has an atom of love for her... Hear what he said @14:20 under his breath, he's just pretending.
@@the_deola_fash what do you mean .. saying is been caged? i always tell men that as never married before to go far away from baby/divorce woman... they're all bitter and sadist human they're full ot toxic human
@@the_deola_fash between the man and that woman who is being toxic and evil? She took knife to kill the man because of his gentility. I wish that man to press further and even charge her for attempted murder if he can prove it in a regular court. That woman is evil, watching her expression says a lot about her.
Unfortunately, divorce creates double expenses... when the man pays the bills year after year nobody hears anything.. but she pays for just 1 year (and no available change for frivolous spending) and there is commotion everywhere.
For sure, that's how God works. God will give her what will make her regret the opportunity she had lost. Trust me, in 5 years time at most, she will be begging him.
It's obvious the woman is wayward and it's even cheating on the husband before moving out..I pity her daughters.i pray they don't take after her..this type of woman can never settle down and that's why her first marriage also failed..I blamed the man for not investigating who she is before he married her
This woman is a good example of a bad woman I'm sorry to say! 😔 I'm also married to a salary earner, I can tell you it's not easy, she's not being considerate at all, she planned the whole thing and she must surely reap what she sowed
She is a wicked soul,she moved everything out the house.As for the man he is too gentle and calm that’s why the woman is using his weakness against him
Her type gets killed in the US after frustrating the man who brought them in and sponsored their nursing school till graduation and pick up a job,then boom the husband suddenly becomes lazy n useless
Wait a minute, No one is talking about him not making effort to see his 4 children Since 4 years ! He didn't try to make sure they are fine or not.. Left the responsibilities for the lady alone . Kids are expensive to care for man!
I think the man probably married her out of pity as a single mum but I think the woman married him out of no option. I think they are not good for each other. I hope they both work on themselves to be kind humans. Sad
😂😂 @14:20 judge asked how much he will be giving for his children’s upkeep, and under his breath, he says “e no concern you” so rude! since 2019…you’re in court, so you have to be ready so answer the judge’s questions.
@Patrick Agori it’s so interesting how everyone in the comments seems to see him as a responsible and calm gentleman all because of his demeanour. Someone being quiet in public doesn’t make them a saint.
The wife sef resembles Iyabo Ojo who is notorious for acting “alara gbigbona” (hot tempered) roles. Maybe someone told her she looks like Iyabo Ojo and she decided to act the role! Lol! 😅😅😅. I do feel sorry for the guy. It’s obvious she has moved on. Her response to the question of whether she wanted to stay in the marriage and she saying he has never loved her makes it clear. That’s probably why she stepped out on the marriage. He may have been treated bad in the marriage, but that doesn’t absolve him of his duties towards his children’s education and upkeep. He gave some pretty flimsy excuses. Once children don enter, that’s it!
Wickedness she used hot pepper on her maid, held a knife against her husband, fought her own sis pls pls where is social services, this woman shouldn't be with her children very angry person.
When you got married to a manipulator as time goes by you will begin to realize that you are being taken advantage of your genuine and sincere heart for this person it is this realization of self that usually bring about the conflict in this situation this man is a good man and still want the best for is family
"A man that doesn't even have a single atom of love like this for me" If he's is the last man on earth I wouldn't want him....lessons learnt here. To all genlemen and ladies in Africa and beyond please make a proper findings before marrying a divorce person. And to the great woman honourable judge funmi Asaolu thanks ma for listening to both sides but da burden is just too too much on my gentleman please I urge the honourable court to reconsider this gentleman... thanks
African courts seem very different from American ones. They actually still respect the rights of men. In America a black man has no chance in court against a woman. If he just leaves with the the shirt on his back and his life he should consider himself lucky.
Do you agree that a man should be responsible and support his children?? African courts have no regards, no respect for women. Men are allowed to beat their wives , and treat them anyhow. Why some men in Africa don't want to support their children, the women didn't make the children on her own.
To all single men here, please learn and make necessary findings before setting down with someone who already had a previous marriage. It's so sad the man went for this type of woman knowing fully well that she already had a previous marriage.
