I Found My Birth Mother in El Salvador | La Reina - Chalatenango 

Maybe it was surreal or to much for her to take in

My step mother is Mexican American when I visited the family she just hugs me not emotional she cares..

@@saz9102 yea my inlaws are peruvians and they are not expressive with feelings just one hug here and there.

It depends, I had a nana in Mexico that would cry and hug me and kiss me non stop everytime she saw me. She was super affectionate and emotional. My other Hispanic grandmother, is so different I've probably seen her cry maybe twice in my whole life.

She gave him up during the operation condor time when Myans were being brutally torched & slaughtered in central America, alot of them became desensitized after that.

Gracias por hablar lindo de mi bello país ,God bless you and thank you for saying very good things about my country

If you're planning to come visit our country, let me know, I can show you many beautiful places around.

Thanks Liseth.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🙏🙏

Lizeth C it's the most dangerous countries in the world. I wouldn't risk my life.

But isn't safe it all. My friend is from there. She said don't do it. Maybe with the new President will be better🙏🏽

Thank you !!!❤ Truth!! 👍✌🙋‍♀️🙏

As someone who comes from a huge Salvadoran family I can confirm your comment as true. Salvadorans don’t show much emotion, in fact I remember asking my father constantly why he was yelling at me while we had normal conversation. It’s not that they’re angry or cold hearted, and even educated people (my father attended and graduated from a university in San Salvador) have a hard time showing emotion because they’re raised on “tough love”. His pet names for me included Mona Cerota (little shit) and cabrona but I knew those were just terms of endearment. The “I love you’s” don’t come often and if they do they are followed by an offensive name but that’s what toughens us up.

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Cyann Arevalo same here... my grandma used to call me sipota tísica and then give me cookies 🤣🤣🤣

Yes yes and yes you are so right 😊

Yes, and now he has one foot into the door of the US

@@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 that means Ann is a stupid ass..

If you ever want to go back I can help you. I was born in El Salvador. Chalatenango was one of the cities that suffered the most during war. Your mother looks like the typical humble people from town. If there is anything I can help you with to keep in contact with them please let me know. I got to El Salvador mostly 3 or 4 times a year.

@@mirnacansino1642 Ms. Cansino: GOD BLESS YOU ETERNALLY!!!...

Si!! Gracias a Dios que encontró buenos padres adoptivos.♥️

Awww, so happy for you! Maybe you could vlogs some of the reunion. Wishing you the best!!!

Keep us updated

It is Javi you should post your story as well!

It is Javi me subscribe a tu canal esperare tu video!

@@zoeya5668 yea, I'm just waiting for my sister in France to let me know the exact date that she's comming. I will make sure that I film it.

homework? he does not owe them nothing but respect and friendship.

Being bilingual triples your earning power!

hahaha

@@anamariagutierrez2019 porque dices eso o no puedes tu ablarlo el español con tu nombre de India que tienes😂

Chris Arias El nombre de ella no es de “india” es de origen Hebreo.

Wow cool story! Im Colombian living in TX it is always good to connect to our roots :)

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Mario Garcia Wow, that’s a lot of siblings and never lonely. You are surrounded with lots of love 💕

Mario Garcia you should post your story! It sounds amazing!

I seen a video where lots of babies were taken from south America during dictatorships and the mothers told they died or their parents disappeared and many are still searching for those babies.

Have a blessed life

Thank you for sharing! Have a blessed life💕

F...k f...k f..k Hate why Nasty whites Separate Family, Without brain, without heart. Without soul. The have to be punished all of them.

Damn son, we literally almost have the same story. I grew up in foster. My mom is schizophrenic and bipolar.

Yes and not just lucky but very blessed too.

It reminds me of my real parents....I met myvreal fathwr when I was 46 yrs old and never seen my birth mother....it was a touching story for me tooo.....God blesss..

Le pudo mas..

Francho Prada a mi también 😢

Chillar? Querrás decir llorar...

Yo tambien estoy llorando. El hermano es mas noble . La gente de el salvador no es sentimental. Yo tengo vecinos y son amigos cercanos pero no lloran no tienen sentimientos. Las mujeres abandonan a sus hijos y los regalan. Yo tengo mi cecina ke tiene seis y abandono 4 y los hijos no la kieren ni respetan

Glad you liked it. Yeah it’s rough from what I saw. I feel very lucky.

Etheridge Queen Why don't they show any emotions? I'm asking you this because most of the people from central american don't show any feelings toward their family

only we that grew in those conditions could understand a mother why she would give her son to adoption, for better opportunities in life, education, health, and wealth, Im so happy for you that you now have a the knowledge and get to know both families biological and adoptive. you familia just got bigger.

I totally agree with you, salvadorian women are so strong, my dad is Salvadoran and I have only seen him cry once. My aunts from my dads side are so emotionally strong, never have I seen them cry, I think its their upbringing. Alot of their childhood was during really hard time and now in their old age their facing the violence. They have withstood so much, I don't blame them.

We have a saying. “Con chillar no vas a reglar nada” and this is how women and men we learn to get over our emotions or el cincho o el chilillo. 😂😂😂There is no visiting the psicology

Awwwee❤💜❤💜👍✌🙋‍♀️

aww! im salvadoran and my husband is Dominican, and we have two daughters together 😊

Jennifer Heredia totally agree, there was a lot of emotion going on just a little beneath the skin. How beautiful this story is!

Jennifer, it would be great that you go visit. There's a Dominican living in San Salvador who makes videos about his experiences. Domiic.

How’s the reunion go?

I think his intelligence is good. Jesus had nothing to do with it. His money and his persistence. Where was Jesus when he was a child that was given up? He was busy I bet.

Piri Gonzalez you’re a dumbass you know that right?

What a stupid soppy sentiment. May they all be a family again?? Where, in El Salvador? ?😂😂

Annelies Wallace you don’t need to be a family in the same country. You just need the feeling.

Robert Gardea Sure buddy

Niraarin you single

Proverly they preffer to give a kid and not let him die from hunger

True on the emocional thing, and also giving him up. I guess her excuse was she was poor and single , to be honest a very stupid one (MY OPINION). 🙄 My mom was in the same position as that lady and still managed to feed and dress her 3 kids

She was being recorded and she is a poor women that is why she was acting like that people dont know the poberty in our countries is not excuse for giving away a child but just God knows the reasons

@@paulinag2055 did she lived in a latin country is not the same in ysa

Dude, you gotta go explore!!! Hook up with a tour group if you want some guidance. These guys were pretty good: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4ShHv4OM0s8.html

yadi13rosa think its just you crying lol. Jk a very emotional story.

It hard to watch it!!😔😔

Feel SO blessed. Great emotions all around. Thanks for watching. Hope it made you smile :).

Richard.. Finally another one who understands his mother wanted a better life for her first born. Breaks my heart reading some of the rude comments of those against his mother's hard heartbreaking decision. The photo of his mother as she held him with love and much care touched my heart. I'm happy the reunited I'm happy for them all. Hope we all get to see their next reunion 😊

Richard Burnett one of the best comments.

Felise songs

Mrs. B B. X O'n

Sandra Ibarra verdad!!

@@christinaheuer7169 si. Pero porvk lo daria en adopsión?

DE ACUERDO CONTIGO, QUE MAMA PARA FRÍA SIN NADA DE AFECTO DICE QUE REZABA PARA QUE REGRESE Y CUANDO REGRESO ESA MADRE TODA FRIA Y FEA EN SUS MODALES SIN CARIÑO SIN EMOCIÓN SIN SENTIMIENTOS SIN AFECTO SE LE VE QUE NO LE DA IMPORTANCIA NI AGRADECIMIENTO DE VER QUE SU HIJO LA LOCALIZO. SU HERMANO CON MAS EMOCIÓN Y QUE ESA MADRE! HASTA LA ANIMALITOS SE EMOCIONAN AL VER A SUS DUEÑOS AL MUCHO TIEMPO Y ESA MADRE PEOR QUE UN ANIMAL. ...QUE BUENO QUE LO DIO EN ADOPCION Y HOY EL SIGA SU VIDA DE DIFERENTE MANERA. ...NO LA JUSGO PERO QUE FEA MUJER. ...YO ESPERABA ESA EMOCIÓN TERRIBLE DE LLANTO, ABRAZOS Y BESOS AL HIJO PERO ESA MUJER COMO NO TIENE SENTIMIENTOS NO TIENE NADA QUE OFRECER NI SENTIMENTALMENTE NADA A SU HIJO. DIOS LA PERDONE Y SI HIJO TAMBIÉN LA PERDONE. YO ENTIENDO QUE ESTUVIERON MUCHO TIEMPO SIN VERSE PERO ESA OPORTUNIDAD QUE TUVO CON SU HIJO AL TENERLE FRENTE A ELLA ERA PARA QUE ROMPA DE AMOR Y BESOS A SU HIJO. QUE PENA!

Esa senora no save demostrar sus emociones. No es su culpa se ve con mucha falta de educacion

Pues tienen que entender que laa personas en el campo son criadas de una manera diferente una de ellas es de mo demostrar sus emociones. No juzguen por favor.

Yessss

I talk a bit about it in my other video, but my brother had been searching for me his entire life. He had a dream that I would one day come and see the family.

Life of Freedom wow dream come true!!! He seems so excited and overwhelmed with joy... I wish you well...

Not everyone is emotional plus she didn't get hyped up bc he showed up by luck unknowingly even he didn't know if he could find her. Plus the language barrier and the uncertainty of things maybe put up her guard a bit. She's just glad he turned up and turned out to be doing fine. it's a beautiful real life story idk if you expected some Hollywood wood acting or something.

He look mix with white my be the mother holding some information back

Point blank? It's because they couldn't feed me. The opportunity came about and they took it. Haha, I'm pretty okay with that decision. I've always felt like I won the lottery and my parents always told me I was adopted. Unfortunately... not everyone's story is that positive.

:) :). Thank you for following the story. I have a longer explanation coming out next week (if you haven't subscribed already).

If u want help tell me

disco bunnie🤔

I'm blessed with the good looks. Ha. Ha.

that's his older brother !!!!

Jason Belami in the pictures at the end it shows an older guy and him.

How could you handle it so well, I’d have been devasted☹️

XI JINPING haha

Matt Mason I found a lot of people were touched by the story in person so I made more effort to film it when I was there.

Hanna Cañas you’re cute hmu @cesxralexander

Goodluck! hope you can make it happen soon i couldn't imagine myself having to go through that.

If you plan to find your father, you might like this new update: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Bb1iyOuBSws.html

Yes. Very emotional.

Animals dont give up their young. Wrap your brain around that.

@@pitdawg6418 I hope you can cope with your own trauma.

You are blessed that your mom got you adopted. You were taken good care of in the U.S.

@@pitdawg6418 That was harsh dude. There are many reasons people do things. It seems that this kid didn't do bad at all. Sometimes decisions have to be made. This was a good one. This young man is well educated and appears to be a man of means. Please do not hate. It is what it is.

Imo he hit the lotto

Salvador Hernandez thank you!!

Wow. Crazy similarity! You might relate with some of the feelings I'm sharing here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Bb1iyOuBSws.html

Darvin Ramirez :-D

badmonkeyart :) thank you.

I dont think that they don't care. The mom might feel embarresed about her humble life style or something. But I did see that she cares. Hope they continue working on their relationship.

Wow!

During the war kids were kidnapped and given for adoptions knowingly the they had family, or their family were murdered my the military.

also their adoptive parents knew the adoption process wasn't legal, and still did it.

Lies

Rudy Salas good question, money probably

Rudy Salas I am sure this happened in the civil war. A lot of poverty and Violence. He is a man for sure hw would ended up in the guerrilla at 12 years old. She knew life was better with other family.

Gran sorpresa la que mi brother me dio

Dios la premiara por dar vida, y haber criado sus hijos, pero no es nada de nuevo, siempre existirá algunos hijos mal agradecidos, que no ven el amor de una madre. simplemente el milagro de dar vida desde las entranas y dar de comer de su sangre al bebe, eso es vastante.

Kendra vlogs and more! Woo hoo! Y si yo los crie Ami lado

Juan C. Lopez gracias asi será Amen

Tu quedate tranquila si estas dando lo mejor de ti como mama los hijos siempre seran tus hijos y eso nadie te lo quitara y ellos lo saben tambien!!. Vive tu vida dando amor pero a ti tambien date amor porque tambien lo mereces

Lia Murphy. Que hijos tan mal agradesidos. Lastima. Entonses dece a querer con otros. Chicos. Ya vera que la querran como madre i sus hijos. Veran lo linda que es

E.R. Dragonleaf thanksssss. :).

Agreedd!!!

Indeed

It's soo beautiful 🌴 I go back to visit at least once a year, my favorite spot is El Boqueron ⛰ Its a volcano! Back in da day you had to hike up to it but know there is a road that takes you there 🚙

Wow! Cool!

Bejeezus Lainez hope you’ve been enjoying the vlogs. Have a few more coming out next week. I love the country.

Life of Freedom Looking forward to them

+Life of Freedom Your mother seem cold and your sisters as well.Your brother was more friendly than them. But maybe you caught them of guard as too as to why they acted that way.

margesplace in general our salvadorian women are not the type to show emotions. I can tell they are shy and embarrassed to be found like this. Trust me, if the cousin at least announced someone was coming to visit the whole community will be there

Salvatruchas

Tienes un hermano con un corazón noble.

Ever Bustos Sometimes we have to forgive for ourselves. For us to move past it, not them.

Russell Hall :)

:)

Jeffrey Bays thanks!!

TheMarvC yessss I loved the country. Definitely going back. Thank you for your support. It was an amazing experience.