Well I was convinced she was just mistaken, and I still am, but when he admitted to raping her with his fingers, at that point I was like "Go to jail."
What the f-- OP deserves better. Dump the husband. How can he act like it was nothing and then admitting to what he did? While she was asleep?! And the fact he wanted to be with her every time she goes to appointments by herself. She should press charges
That was horrifying. He admitted to attempts to make it so he could penetrate her. He admitted to touching her invasively and sexually. That all falls under the category of sexual assault. And being married does not give you the right to do whatever you want to your partner's body. She isn't safe with him, and she doesn't want that kind of influence anywhere near her baby.
Any form of penetration with any body part or object is considered SA, at least second degree, and first degree could be argued due to the penetration part. Touching someone inappropriately is ALSO SA, even if we take the penetration half out of it. It just is going to be a lower degree in that case. Edit: This also feels very trickle-truth, the way he's is admitting to bits but "I never did that!" type. Gross.
