Bro she just asked for it she didnt cry or dint tell her mom or sahar mom People needs to understand kids just say what the want she just asked for becuz she liked it i mean look at it it is soo cute how was she spoiled brat
@@AnfalAyub bro I totally understand your opinion, but I just feel like the parents should raise their kids better.. you know? Like they need to earn things instead of thinking they simply deserve everything
@@opalrahamim3366 okay but shes 5 and the girl kept giving her stuff, so shes just testing her limits and where the line is drawn its what KIDS do. Its now on how the ADULTS react.
My mom is the opposite. She sometimes hides some of my favorite things before the guests come just in case the children ask for it. 🤣 It’s ridiculous but kind of cute.
GIRL TAKE THOSE PLUSHIES HOME or take them somewhere other than ur parents house before it fr fr happens just cause it didn’t happen today doesn’t mean it won’t next time
@Anonymous especially if Sahar isn't there. Cause if her mom has that mentality then she will probably give it away without her knowing. - coming from someone who had experienced thus 🫠
Right?? I have no idea where mine went. My parents claim they went into storage but girl they have cleaned out the storage and where tf are my plushies?!
Spoiled, spoiled kids are the worst. Especially when they “hint” at something, like “well…recently, I really have needed a new stuffy..” like ok? Ask your mom or dad to go buy one for u, or get chore money and buy one.
When my cousin was 6, she always wanted one of my trophies I won in school. 😂 Being 17 that time, I really considered that because she was asking so politely and decided to give her a small one, which was just a consolation prize but her mother strictly told us no. She calmly explained her how trophies are earned not taken. Years later, my cousin is now excelling in her school and winning more trophies than I did. Sometimes we need to say no for their own betterment.
My 4 year old aunt does that, I this squeeze candy juice and she wanted them she tryed non stop for them told my grandma on me but she still didn’t get them, she did the same this this pointer I have on a finger and played around like she was gunna keep it. She never even asked she just said I wanna keep it. It’s annoying
Nop, my sister has a bunch of stuffed animals, she’s 21. My 1 year old plays with them and has to give them back once we leave. If we give her everything she wants she’ll expect it from everyone all the time and that’s not how it works 🤷🏻♀️
For anyone wondering what happened: The 5-year-old actually was talking about the little yellow one in front of it but Sahar said she like that one too because it was super cute and so they agreed on a different one and everyone was happy.
I just got some new Sanrio items and I’m like obsessed lol so I plan to hide them when they come over cause I don’t need any bratty child ruining what I bought
Nah bc we had guests one night that stayed over and they had a kid and the kid was in the room next to me and she woke up in the middle of the night and grabbed my phone and started watching frozen and I woke up to grab some water and I saw her and asked if I could have my phone back and she said no so I just snatched it out her hand. Kindly teach ur kids boundaries
Definitely wouldn't have asked. Straight up stole something from your room while you were sleeping. That deserved a butt whooping. Especially after telling you no.
If you show a small child things, they will want them. She’s not spoiled by wanting your cute stuff- she’s spoiled if she throws a tantrum after you say no.
I agree. From this story I wouldn’t really say this kid is spoiled. She might be but it sounds like the person in the video just offered the kid a bunch of things and then the kid asked to have large stuffed animal but OP said no and that was the end of the story.
I had a really spoilt cousin too. We'll call her M. (She was probably 6 or 7 when this happened btw) We were at a family function and everyone was having fun and hanging out and everything. And then we started playing a game called Musical Chairs. (I know it sounds weird but I'll explain if anyone asks. It's a pretty fun game tho.) And me, my other cousin and M made it to the last round, mostly because all the others almost made sure that she did not lose. However. Me and my cousin, we play to win. We weren't gonna let M win just because she's a little kid. So presumably M loses. But she goes crying to her parents and she cries in the most high pitched, annoying voice you could imagine. Her parents ask me and my cousin to just tweak it and give her another chance. This happens THREE TIMES!!! At this point me and my cousin are fed up and we just let M "win". And kids like M are the reason condom companies don't need advertising...
I sympathize with both. Like i feel you i hate bratty kids who expect everyone to cater to them but also when i was little i remember feeling so destroyed when i couldn't win or do well in party games with my cousins (although they were my age and the party games were all chance and luck). But that high pitched little kid scream cry makes me violent lol.
@@ellamalone1086 same here, I remember still being young (like 7 im pretty sure) and having a mental breakdown because my cousins wouldn't let me win in call of duty lol So although I still get annoyed when kids cry like that, I can understand how they feel
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Same! My mom made me give a stuffed animal I loved to a guest's kid and idk how but he tore it😢 Ever since then I don't listen to my mom when she tells me to give the brats any of MY things.
When I was 5 and went to my sister's house who was 18 and I did play with the stuffed animals she owned but bro everytime I touched those soft toys my brain went like: ''don't stain it don't ruin it'' Realising the fact that I cared about stuffed stuffs from that age shows that I'm not spoiled and I'm proud of it 😅
This is my little half brothers (2 and 3) they took my 100 year old doll (I jus collect them) and they RIPPED ITS HEAD OFF. WHEN I TELL YOU I WAS MAD, I WAS MAD. I had just gotten it and my step mom said "Oh jUSt lEt thEm uSe iT itLL be fINe". They ripped its head off bru. Then my dad fixed it, but they kept dragging it. They do this with everything. Im. Literally. So. Done. Im finna put them up for adoption 😭 Edit: my stepmom and dad are getting a divorce
Exactly! She is 5, she doesn't understand. She just sees cool stuffed animal. This lady is acting rude and spoiled over something that didn't even happen. No one is making you get rid of your stuff, calm down lady.
That was always my rule too, kids that were visiting didn't even need to be in my room to begin with. That's my personal space, the living room and kitchen are for guests. Some of the kids would go find my room even when I left the door closed and told them we weren't going in there. You have to stay firm in your boundaries with these spoiled kids.
@@nicolekerry4041There's nothing wrong with not allowing guests in your room, but it's also not wrong for this woman to make a child moderately happy by giving them gifts! Adults whom you have no relation to probably gave you gifts as a kid, whether if it was a school, picnic, cookout, fair/carnival, amusement park, or store. As long as kids are respectful about it, it's okay for others to give them nice things.
That’s relatable once my cousin came over she asked for one of my shopkins and I was OBSESSED with them at the time so I said no. And she told everyone and started crying so my relatives and family members kept calling me rude and selfish
Sorry u had to go through this and for growing up in a household of adults who didnt know how to stand up for you. If i was the parent of that spoiled cousin iwould teach her how crying and whining about it wont result in her getting her way. Wish adults actually knew how to parent!
No bc why are people called selfish for not wanting to share every single one of their belongings Sure don’t be that person to never share or give anything to anyone but wanting a few things to yourself isn’t being selfish, it’s being an average human
@@lisarae7823 it’s honestly rude to ask for multiple things from some else’s room regardless of age. If they’re They’re kind enough to gift you one thing fine, but asking for multiple is simply crossing the line.
@@Bliss.228 If you want to talk about crossing lines, how about the fact this lady gave a 5 year old a bunch of random small items (including lipstick that could be used/expired) without asking the 5 year old's mother first. Some kids that age will still put things in their mouth and choke. Some people have allergies. Also. The girl was FIVE. How is she supposed to know what the line is after being gifted a bunch of free stuff? She is supposed to magically understand the sentimental attachment and know to not ask for it? Sorry but no. That is not how children that age work.
I agree. Spoiled kids are annoying. I feel that way. I have a brother that gets multiple days off from school than me. Whenever he asks for something, he gets it without having to use his allowance. That really stinks. I’m so sorry that this has happened.
My niece has always been this way, but it’s because my sister and my mom both allow it, my youngest sister is only 4 years older than my niece and that poor kid was always forced to give her stuff to my niece whenever she wanted it, my grandma started buying her stuff she wanted and she would keep it at her house so it was safe
I swear …. My mom is the same …. She will be willing to give away EVERYTHING I own to guests if they wanted it … I’m Indian…. Hospitality is more important than anything …. I have no other choice than to comply with their wants 🙄
Ugh I know right! Mine made me give away the first ever dress I bought with my saved up money in 10th because she thought it was too slutty for me. I ended up stealing it back from my cousin whom she gave it away to, 3 years later. No regrets. I just wish I had gotten the chance to wear it before having to give it away
Y’all need to start standing up for yourselves because every Indian person I come across has some shitty thing to say about how their parents treat them. I was raised to love and honor thy mother and thy father,HOWEVER I was also raised to have boundaries and privacy. Sometimes our culture is toxic and then sometimes it’s literally just our parents who are toxic. I don’t know you so I don’t know how bad or great your parents are but I have heard fucked up stories from other Indians and I’m telling you it’s NOT okay. You do have choice! Tell them to fuck off when they cross your boundaries. I’ve literally cut family off because I was not about to put up with disrespect and in my case a bunch of addicts. I’m just saying don’t let your family walk all over you just because you share blood ties.
@@thefreakyflamingo5215”no that’s too slutty for you. Give it to your cousin.” *What?!* Is your cousin an old teen/young adult cuz it seems your mother might have a specific view of said cousin
Haha girl I am the same way as you. I don’t care how old I am, if something has sentimental value to me I will keep it no matter what. My mom is also the same as your mom, she’s very much someone who is very giving (even if it’s not her stuff) she will be like “oh you want that, you can have that” if a little kid would ask for something. My mom was taught a lesson though cause when I was like 11 years old I had a razor scooter that I loved and had forever and shared with my older sister. I had so many great memories riding the scooter and playing with my sister on it. I would ride it up and down the driveway at home. But one day my little cousin came over and she was riding my scooter and my mom was like “do you like the scooter? You can have it.” And I went out there and was arguing and then crying telling her that I don’t want her to give away my scooter, I ride it on the driveway all the time. But despite the tears she still gave away my scooter. Sure enough when we would go over to my little cousin’s house I saw the scooter that I loved just sitting on the sidelines getting rusted from the rain because she didn’t take care of it and didn’t play with it anymore. I’m now 27 years old and I still bring up that scooter story every time my mom tries to give away something that isn’t hers or if she tries to give away any of my things.
In our family, “I wish I could have” is an automatic no. It’s just essentially expecting everyone around you to cater to your needs/wants and we’re not interested in teaching the kids that. “Can I please have” is expected. And they know that they don’t always get what they want.
Omg this is true one of my neighbours kid just came to my home and asked for my white rabbit stuffed animal and my dad just gave it to her when I wasn’t at home. These kids need to learn some manners jeez
The adult in the situation should have explained to the extremely new human in the situation why that's not going to happen in a understanding way. Just because a child asks for something doesn't mean that they're spoiled it just means that they didn't realize they were not allowed to ask for it it is okay to explain to a child the Rights and wrongs of how the world works.
My niece is a brat, threw a temper tantrum in two Disney stores, including times quare. Because she can't hear the word no. 🤦🏻♀️ Kids shouldn't be given free reign to take whatever they want because they are tiny. 🤷🏻♀️
I remember when I asked my mom where my Barbie dolls were (b-day gift) and she had told me “well since you’re too old I gave it to (insert another moms kids name)”. I wasn’t even ‘that old’ tbf and still she should’ve asked me, because she also gave MY bag that the Barbie’s were in. It was Minnie Mouse. I LOVED that bad. Rather would’ve given it to my lil niece. Sometimes ASK before randomly giving away other people’s stuff
Honestly I find it totally unnecessary to give someone more than 2 things or 3 at most. I mean you don’t have to give them your stuff but you chose to be generous so 1 thing should be enough. Well In my case, my mom likes to give away my stuff because I live at college and I occasionally visit home when I have time so it’s so annoying that my mom can give away my things without my permission. I would not have bought those things if I didn’t love them or need then .
@@louisnotonfire4243 MY MOM THREW AWAY all my barbies , well was bt then was gon save it bt then my dad "accidentally" threw away the bag, luckily there was barbie , barbie pool left only thing left smh :/
I knew this girl once when I was younger and staying at my grandmother’s. She was super spoiled (it was very obvious), and she went into my room and started looking through my stuff. She plucked a blue stuffed animal out of MY suitcase, starting swinging it around and saying she was going to keep it. It was very important to me so I snatched it away after multiple polite approaches to getting her to stop. Eventually she went and cried to the adults and luckily my grandma defended me but I will never forget her istg.
My mom did that to me when I was 8. My cousin was maybe a year old & she decided to give him my ET doll cause it made him stop crying. It wasn’t hers to give but she did it anyway. Instead of just letting him use it while at our house she gave it to him to take home. Never saw it again. 😢
Exactly. I have this 7 year old cousin and she is an only child and super spoiled. Like everytime I go to her house she has like 10 new toys and I go every week. And she alway want to take my stuff!! Like all my toys are pretty sentimental and they are not a lot, while herroom is overfield with toys and she doesn't play with them...
Currently staying with family and their eight year old is exactly like this. She takes everything from everyone, even the adults. And if you don't give it to her, your the bad guy cause your the adult and she's, "Just a kid." She will literally make her parents stay up until 2am on a school night kicking, screaming, hitting them, punch holes in the wall, threatening to cut off everyone's heads if she doesn't get her way...all cause she doesn't want to go to bed. She will tear everything up whether it's her's or an adult's. I know I'm a guest, but visiting them is a choice and I'm thinking of just not coming back until she's grown.
I mean that's a valid point, you know how much more expensive those merch can be, I don't even have the courage to buy a single keychain of my favorite bands, and if I am successfully purchasing something then it would definitely not be for some free give away.
I had a spoiled friend was (we were both kids, like 6/7 years old, she might have grown since then but back then I hated it). Her philosophy was when she was at my place, SHE got to decide what we would play, because she was the guest. Okay, fine. But then, when I'd hang out at her place, the rule was she gets to decide what we play CAUSE ITS HER ROOM. And she always got away with it too
My parents are like that too, when I was 5, I got a really cute stuffed animal that I loved, and I took it to my friends house to show her and she started crying because she really wanted it and my dad told me to give it to her. I feel like kids raised like this always turn out to be people pleasers, at least that was true in my case.
Children need to be told no. I rarely allow anyone we visit to give something to my children they weren't already planning on giving them. The reason being that they shouldnt feel pressured to give their things away to my child. My child should understand they cannot just have whatever they want, when it belongs to somebody else. Lessons that need to be learned at a younger age. My children shouldnt go visit someone expecting to get something.
Broo fr i can relate, my mom is the same She'll be ready to ship my belongings to anyone who show interest, bro they are there for a reason... I wasnt collecting junk all these years
I swear whenever the neighbours or family or ANYONE comes over with a small child I hide all my important belonging lay out things I don’t need that might distract them from wanting to open drawers
Absolutely...the ONLY reason that I have a pile of stuffed animals is because each one has a sentimental meaning attached and NOT the fact that I cry into their furry tummys at night while sucking my thumb.x
People here think all kids act that way. I would never have been so bold and said to a stranger that I would want their toy. I would ask my mom if I could get an identical for my birthday. I don’t understand kids who are this bold I had a LOT of respect for teens and adults who might only have been 11.
She’s a kid learning boundaries, rules of society and relationships to others. You had given her a lot of cool things, so she was continuing the theme of you giving her things and was honest about what she wanted. Then you told her no, that was your boundary she had to learn. She didn’t really come across spoiled, just a kid who wants things like most kids. The trick is if the adults in her life encourage her to navigate rules, boundaries and being grateful well enough. That’s how a child becomes “spoiled”. It’s when they cross all the boundaries without care and show no gratitude for the things in their lives’.
I would absolutely not care if my mom said that, that little spoiled brat get's what she wants and not what she needs and in the real world that does not happen easily. Spoiled children will never survive the adult world unless the learn...the hard way.
i agree but there’s a different between being spoiled and being a spoiled brat bc i get a lot of stuff i want but i’m also very grateful and don’t even ask for a lot of stuff and don’t expect everyone to work around me
I despise some kids. Although, there are some good ones. One of my younger brother's friends has an older sister, and at first I thought she was annoying, until I realized she acted exactly like I did when I was her age, and she just wanted someone to hang out with her. Little me didn't have a ton of friends, so she helped me mow the lawn and she seemed so happy to help❤
Every time someone comes into my house my room ends in chaos. I try all to stop it, but I'm not allowed to lock it, kick them out... it led me to never inviting friends over and my parents being worried.
I put my things away. I don’t care who the person is, don’t touch my things. I would get glares and be called mean cuz I was the older one and every time I always said, well it’s my things and if she/he wants one, the parents can buy it. Most of my family doesn’t like that I do that.
Nope, just no. Your things are YOUR THINGS, no matter who thinks/feels you've out grown them, as long as you still want to keep them. Not your mom nor anybody else should tell you to give away something you DO NOT want to give away. It is as simple as respect.
my nephew acts like this. i cannot STAND watching him for extended periods of time. cause everything revolves around him. he basically gets the whole house and even tries to make my boyfriend get off his own computer so my nephew can play on it. and my bf is great let’s him use it, but as soon as my bf uses it he wants to use it
