"I keep thinking it's all our fault." - Report on K-pop Star Sulli (설리) [Entertainment Weekly / ENG] 

sulli has been getting hate before jonghyun's suicide, even more when she left f(x)

controlla. We know but they were saying like after Jonghyuns incident everyone was like we’re gonna start being nicer, care for, and be less harsh on idols. Yet we seen none of tht happen.

yes. What a big lie that was

ALL OF IT WAS BULLSHIT

Well obviously not everyone claimed that. There will always be people like that in the world...

water u doing Unfortunately, it's not true in this case. Some sick-minded people still found it appropriate to write crude comments even after Sulli's death.

And unfortunately not. There some comments still bashing her. Some even said she should died faster. They dont feel the heart break as us because they basically dont have one.

many lives have been lost. but people still continuous to hate.

Keisho, because that is how the society works nowadays.

Poor Sulli is afraid to be happy because whenever she gets too happy, people will always have something to say.

Gabriela Bernal True..

You are so right Going back, I’m still thinking how can people be so fake, talking smack and when something wrong happens like death they all come back being nice and stuff We humans are indeed missed up and should be ashamed of our wrong doing 😤 Shame on all the people that hated and commented stuff about her (I didn’t really know her much but she seamed like a very good person)

quote from a man who beat his wives and children, as well as beat a man almost to death for being gay. we can pick better quotes from people who arent abusers. but i get your point, i just hate seeing this guy being mentioned all the about people who were vicitims of abuse

silkyeoja yes them things aren’t right and no one should go through any of them things but it’s a quote which is actually very true for Sulli’s case.

@@MochiPuff58 it's interesting what you point out here, for instance Isaac Newton was also believed to be a jerk but I don't see people denying Law of Gravity, so the question is: can we really separate the art from the artist?

"Dear reporters, please be nice to me". I am crying, seems she suffered a lot.😢

She report so many time her hate comments and they didn't lister her, the authority wakes up just when someone dies. It sucks! 😑

@nmm uy so what if she changed a lot. change is constant.

@nmm uy even if she changed what is that to do with you Are you her mother Get out

@@vanyar.3921 she still did although it is constant

oh my god i'm crying she didn't deserve that 😭😭😭

God... No! It's so sad 😥

I'm crying ...

It sounds so simple yet it is not. It is sad that she couldnt accomplish it

She had a lot of love to give

TRUE .. I feel so sorry for her ☹

But kind words can't seems to heal her broken heart because in the end she still chose to gave up despite the fans is there for her😭😭 i miss sulliii

@Uncle Ho but harsh words do cause a lot of damage to people suffering of mental illness, saying that words have no affect doesn't address the problem either. It makes it worse.

Words can't hurt you

@Uncle Ho so I guess mental illness is not a thing in your perfect world. People will say whatever they want, but there are also people who are vulnerable.

You can see the laughter was forced and she was holding back tears it’s hurts a lot 😣😭😭

That’s all she asked for 😭

when this is not even something that she should have to beg for, she didn't deserve all these hatred she was a kind hearted, humble, caring person and no one should suffer from all the pain she was going through

Miku-chan they’re probably writing shit about some one else now. Those buggers have no soul.

There are all kinds of people in all professions

While watching this video cant stop crying....why are some people so cruel.....sad....

Her eyes are screaming for help ;;;;

The time she used those words I literally got tears in my eyes littearly how curel this world is they doesn't have mercy towards her

Choi is the new hyunsuk she was telling people but no ones pays any attention and now beautiful Sulli is gone ....so truely sad 😞 Rest In Peace

And she looked like she teared up a bit it was such a sad smile on her face it broke my heart

That's the problem with how people treat depressed, suicidal or mentally ill people. You only matter once you're dead. Before, you gotta "suck it up" and "deal with it" alone.

I know right? They should've notice how sad she was. She's very vocal about her feelings. She always show people, how sad and depressed she was. Especially in her Instagram account. If only i have a lot of money to go to korea just to cheer her up :(

Ari Rang you are blaming the WRONG PEOPLE they didn’t notice because she never said.the responsible ones are those behind a keyboard the “cowardly faceless murderers”

@@1nn3r3V1L i'm not blaming them. I mean, if they truly care for her tho, they should've AT LEAST give her a comforting message or something that'll cheer her up. I'm not blaming her "friends" but of course I wanna ask why did they not do something since they are a little close to her. She's been very open about her mental health in social media. Also anywhere broadcasting she's ever guested. Also, if they did something but she still chose to do it, it's her life and choices. What we can do is to pay respect to her and remember her always. I will not forget all those mean comments about her but Sulli wants to forgive them in the end. That's Sulli for sure.

Ari Rang how do you know they didn’t? There are times when the words of even those closest will still fall on def ears. Remember aoa’s choA? She was probably close to that point and she was still living in the dorm with others but it didn’t help much she still needed sleeping pills just to get some rest if she hadn’t left when she did there is no telling what could have happened.

@@thenicoledantas She wasn't pregnant, but she made it very well known that her dream was to become a mother before she died.

Damn....😭

The way people are I don't think it's a good idea to have children

Damn you make me cry again😭

@@lanfanslostarm9784 that's so sad nooo 😔😔🥺🥺

Denisse Lee When people go against societal norms they tend to get punished. Sulli must have felt so tired of the negativity that she rationalized death to be the best answer for her. She most likely thought that if she died she wouldn’t be a bother to her friends and family.

jennie from blackpink too, would like to punch those toxic fan in the face..

nsm151 nsm151 i knew her as a singer and yes was very shocking she was young and very talented. They need to do something quickly, all this artists have depression and nobody says or try to do something about!!!!! I hope her dead change things and news like this never happens again

nsm151 - she was a feminist and would go against society norms in Korea. Just a simple thing like posting a pic without a bra on under her shirt would make the citizens of Korea hate on her. All she really wanted was equality and love on earth and they had a problem with that ... she was very outspoken and I loved her for that

@@woof4428 Sulli wasn't wearing a bra just to not wear a bra, she'd been supporting the medical side of the movement and had herself been suffering from medical side effects from wearing bras. A big issue is that the metal in bras are so constricting that it would cause digestive problems, which she had been suffering from. Once she stopped wearing a bra, her digestive issues went away. That's why she was supporting the no bra movement and had been consistently been doing so until her death.

yeah. where were they?

@@monicapetitebonita218 dont blame people who knew her, they really couldnt do anything and they felt horrible, you have hara as an example to this, another angel is gone

They tried. It was the evil public and media

sulli' passing makes me wanna hate this industry. its toxic and cruel

Makeda Rose * i wonder why people chose to hate in the first place, my own conclusion is something like: jealous, has no close friend, the person they hate successful, well known and pretty have many celebreties as a friend, or the person the haters love or like is not popular as it is. came from broken family have no love what so ever, or worst an outcast of society and many more possibility that only the haters themself know better than what was written here. My take is if you don't like someone just ignore it. simple as that. Well haters whoever you are, hating people does not make you better than the person you hate.

Yeah, there are a lot of people who think that mean words aren’t violence, just because you can’t the wounds in the body. But verbal abuse can leave inside wounds that you’ll carry for the rest of your life

Exactly!!! 💯 I strongly believe that people who bully others and constantly criticize and put others down are sad and miserable deep down inside. They clearly don’t love themselves In this life what you reap, you will sow I hope these individuals become better human beings Stop bringing other people down just because that’s how you feel about yourself Love yourself!! Stop hurting others ‼️

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Hi I found you here too 😭😭😭

Hi I found you again 😭😭😭

i still dont believe she is gone its like some commedy these people living i doubt these people suicide they get killed or some shit like that but suicide whylll there ritch and dont believe in a hereafter dont think so

I thought she was going to burst out into tears when she said that.... But no... She smiled instead..... 😢😢

Korean people

@@Chocolatechip758 is all koreans

So everyone who's Korean killed her? All the ones who are not even interested in the hallyu wave. Every single korean baby, Korean elder people, Koreans who didn't even know her?

@@MusicGenerationJ anyone and everyone who knew of her and choose not to speak up for her, yes. Silence is just as bad as bullying in this situation.

Huh... That's strange. What about the foreign kpop fans who knew better about her and didn't write anything? And also if we heard of her do we have to write something positive in the comments? It's like many black people were shot and everyone around the world knew about this. What did you all do? In Syria many kurds were killed by Turkish soldiers. It's all in the news. What are you doing? Global warming gets worse. What are you all doing right now? Let that sink in. Hope I could help you opening your eyes. I won't answer anymore since it's ridiculous in the first place to discuss with people like you all. But remind that the cyber bullies are the problems and bullies in general since they cause suicides in diverse places. Focus on bullying instead of focusing ridiculously on innocent people.

I thought of that scene where that man k*lled himself. The scene was so sad (also from three idiots"

I absolutely love that movie & the few lessons they teach ❤️ ppl need to see that movie

Dewi Pamekas ah i remember how shocked my class was when my teacher showed us the scene in the movie

(T_T)

thats the price you pay for fame and money. You can't have it all.

ally31098 and they all wake up the next day looking for new victims.

@@nananona5491 I agree. She was basically begging (for her life)

Kim JongBros Paradise 😢😢

What misunderstanding does she meant actually? I don't get this

@@L0veAn1me Because for every little innocent thing Sulli did people in the media misunderstood her, made rumors, accused her of things, criticized every single thing about her. They didn't bother to find out about the real person behind the famous pretty face.

That's what often happens with celebrities. They are isolated in many ways, even if they are famous.

I guess I should say they are isolated by their fame

This didn't have to Happened! I totally Agree!!

Me too... I'm experiencing this till now.

me too til now :(((((

I'm honestly frustrated right now. I didn't exactly know her but the fact that she felt a burden is not ok

WELL IT DID

They never seem to learn.... Rip baby Sulli 💜

Let's knetz and all netizen learn

I hope she's in heaven with her and jonghyun, may they enjoy a life without suffering in heaven with no hate and no depression.

@@nadiapro_3452 Jonghyun isn't Christian, he has no belief in Heaven

@@miyounghan1141 and how do u know that? Any proof? ;) Anyways people always say these things even if they're not Christian

@@nadiapro_3452 About 1/2 of Koreans are atheist. He has never explicitly stated he was Christian, in fact he has stated he is not religious (agnostic/atheist). But his song Blue Night seems to state he is agnostic. And yeah, I know they do.

@Rafeeq it's hard because a lot of people don't have time to care about how celebrities feels, because there are already so many things going on in our own life.

krystal and victoria both

It's not if they don't change..I don't think it changed at all. How scary the world is sometimes

@@akaririn7219 exactly, and i notice many weird controversy involve girlgroup member. Like nancy joe jennie yeri irene nayeon and krystal's rude controversy, hyuna's pregnant gossip, irene's feminist controversy etc

@@rvhmvli and IU too

Immature bashers and trolls...there must be a cyber crime bullying prevention law

But it's too late.....😭😭😭😭

No she is in hell

@doctorjohn no I'm Christian I just stated a fact

@@catsbyondrepair why you like this?

This. It's the media that puts a spotlight on the comments and creates the stories that cause the mean comments in the first place. Over the past few years I've realised just how evil most journalists are. It's the same all over the world as well. They destroy people's lives for clicks and it doesn't matter if you're a celebrity or a nobody they target you just the same. Celebrities just happen to get more clicks so it happens to them so much more often. I'm genuinely worried about some other kpop stars who seem to be constantly slandered in the media every single day.

to live as a celebrity is very hard specially in korea cuz they have so much standerds & molds that every celebrity should fit in & not to break it & live normally .. as if they are saying "its your choice to be a celebrity & you should endure what you will have" !! .. they are human beings with feelings like anyone it this world please let them live without judging ..

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She could just become mad and hateful to everyone back and she would be alright. Not very happy but still alright. Too bad she couldn't do it.

Agree....

Deep

Yeah, me too. You could see the pain in her eyes and smile.

PandaKathe Life There is a big problem.. too much suicide in few month..

The controversies often come from reporters and fans, not from the entertainment. Also Jonghyuns death was caused by himself wanting to be a woman, but Transgender is not really accepted in the Korean society. So in both cases Sm wasn't really directly linked to the suicide

@@leishin5180 where did it say he was transgender ?

sorry i mean wanted to transition*

Lei Shin I can’t find anything online that says anything about Jonghyun being trans other than that he was an LGBTQ activist

Jonghyun's and Sulli's cases are drastically different. You can't lump them together just because they're from the same agency. It's taking away from more important discussions regarding the issue.

jeanne rove marie agustin my opinion that hurtful words are more painful than knifes

@@doubfluffy7336yes it is~ "words are sharpest knife" im referring to word as a invisible knife . meaning it is "sharpest" among literal knife .. this is based on my experience .. the feeling of sharp obj. Inside you that the pain suffocate you and that you cant stop your tears.. ...~~

jeanne rove marie agustin not only that but hurtful replay in your head over and over again. They truly are the worst weapon out there.

@@Lisa-pq4id indeed the worst .

That's so true😭 We don't know how hard someone's been going through. That's why everyone can't judge someone's life based on what they believed yet what they believed is just their assumptions. This can be happened when they haven't tolerance or respect to others as human being

Dady buncit she 1994 _2019🌹 ...그곳에선 행복하길..

She was born 50 years after 1944. It was 1994

😟😟

@@seeujin sory

@@gigit8234 ok sory

They are haters.. Also pretend to be "fans" if they really a fans, they reply/advice her with good word.. People can't accept advice if it include with negative & hate reply

People are just miserable and unhappy with themselves...that’s why people bully, and hate. People who do stuff like this even after death are truly the sad ones here...they hate themselves so much.

꿀셰이 can you tell me her ig if it’s still there

RealNameNeverUsed jelly_jilli

Those evil hateful people will face their own Karma one day. I hope that they live with guilt for the rest of their lives.

All the love showered after death idiot

@@AS-py2ki it's funny that people like you can be unnecessarily rude behind the screens of your computer or cellphone. You're the the exact same type of person who bullied Sulli for years. The irony.

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@Susie X excuse me but people commenting now aren't the haters, we only found out about her and her hardships after her death. Your anger and insults are aimed at the wrong people.

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Can u plz tell me where she said or plz share me video link

ikr 😭😭😭😭

Yes.her eyes look very sad, althought she is smiling 😭

@@Pamledger478 she's a celebrity how do you expect her to ignore social medias, think before writing

@@Pamledger478 Social Media effected her entire livelihood. Plus, that was her main source of income, online.

Can u plz tell me where she said or plz share me video link

Can u plz tell me where she said or plz share me video link

When she live no one believe but after her death everyone believe she's not bad person.... it's too painful for me..

ElementalHeroJoe krystal has always been bullied for having a “cold” face. She’s accused of being bad mannered or rude all the time when she’s obviously an introvert.

@@WokOverEasy The only people who understood her were f(x) and Jessica. I get the same thing about me looking mad but that's just my normal face and I distance myself from immature people so I come off as cold

Me too , she was my fav member of fx :( 😭😭

They aren't, and I hope they suffer for eternity.

Akshaya Devendhiran These haters tho🤦‍♀️ they’re so good at minding other people’s lives that they forgot to mind theirs..Pathetic..I feel sorry for this young and innocent woman 🙅‍♀️

@@1211jinx I agree

A bad person never thinks their a bad person she was no saint she overdosed on drugs.