She probably kept a lot of stuff from the kids while you were married to protect your relationship with them, once you started divorcing she told them everything she was pissed at you about for most of the marriage and that’s what the kids are having a hard time w the betrayal you may have been there but moms was there 24/7 their whole lives
Maybe laughing about the cheating as if it’s no big deal is why they are keeping distance. You can’t say to world you only care about your kids f the ex. They are 50% her so they will feel 50% rejected . You can’t separate the kids from the mother when you speak because they are part of their mother and when you were gone cheating they were having close relationship with mother
Narcissists undervalue the people that love and care for them. In the process they begin to see that person as being dumb and not worth their time. Thankfully for his ex wife, he clearly overestimated his value and worth in her life. She is clearly smart and getting decent advice for her and the kids... They are better off... Gary is trying to appear unbothered but slowly unravelling. Listen intently and long enough narcissists always tell on themselves
I could’ve been happy not knowing this, but now I need to associate these actions and this denial to you 😢 I’ve been on the opposite side of you Gary and I need to say those moves are not swift, I’m glad you feel like a big man telling the world your personal business and making sure your audience knows that you cheated before you left your wife. There should’ve been some space for you to think between all of those decisions, but clearly that didn’t happen. She deserves more and I’m glad you set her free. ❤
People keep commenting about how he should keep this to himself and shouldn't be talking about it on his platforms but is he not allowed to State his side? If he was on here denying things and on here talking bad about his ex then people would be all over him about that too so the man can't can't win for losing!! It doesn't matter what he does he'll never be able to make everyone happy. If he chooses to tell his business then that's his business to tell and if you don't like it don't watch it. It's always amazed me how people talk about what they don't want to see or hear but they still watch and listen then take the time out of their lives to make a comment. When, guess what? If you don't like it all you have to do is turn around, you know why? There is an entire world behind you with things you will like and that you are interested in. So, turn TF around and find something you do like and stop watching, listening and commenting on the $hit you don't like and go look in this great big world for the things you do like, want to watch and want to comment on and stop acting like high school teens with acne, drama and clicks!! Bye Falecia!!
I agree with you. He needs to deal with this in therapy or behind closed doors. I know comics use the stage a therapy, but it seems like he’s also trying to do some damage control on why his kids don’t talk to him or get validation from the public that he did nothing wrong to the kids. They feel a way about how he treated their mom. He needs to allow them their space. Be available, but also back up. It hurts, I’m sure, but you can’t force someone (his kids) to see your side or do what you want them to do.
He’s allowed to talk about his life, and he doesn’t bad mouth his ex or his children, he’s just being honest about it. Most comedians have a bit about their lives being chaotic in private and some even have legal gags on what they can say during their shows. He is allowing his children to heal by not trying to force the relationship and acknowledging they don’t want to see him even though he’s waiting for them to reach out to him. People don’t all handle divorce the same way especially when one person is a public figure with millions of fans
As long as you keep talking about your children on social platforms they will never heal. It is constantly being talked about. You are the public figure not the children. They are grown now, they have their boundaries you gave to respect that. As long as you keep talking your relationship with your children will never be repaired. Its all on you. Everytime, you pop up on my feed you are talking about your children. Stop.
She didn’t brainwash the kids… dude was cheating after making a vow to remain faithful. That’s not “no big deal” that’s “I’m a liar and a man who only cares about my own happiness, not that of my family.” I too enjoy his comedy, but cheating and divorcing a woman you made a vow to is not okay.
@@mr.doctorcaptain1124 You ar3 absolutely right. Brainwashed wasn't a good term to use. However she was a pretty big influence on how they began to treat him after the divorce became public. They both admitted he wanted a divorce but she wanted to continue putting up the United front as if everything was peaches and cream with whip cream, caramel, pralines and sprinkle of powdered sugar on top. I 100% believe he should have left. I think they would have been in a better space and the kids would hav3 respected him more. We in the 2000's not the early and mid 1900's where people stayed together to assure the kids graduated college. That's exactly what she requested even though he wanted a different lifestyle...... he stayed and the daughter didn't want him near the graduation. They are both at fault.
How did she brainwash their grown children? They probably saw a lot of the BS. It says something that both of his children and the step son he practically raised don't talke to him. Usually one of the kids would keep communication open. Let that sink in to think about.
I’m rooting for you to get close with you’re kids again OG 💯🤞🏼 no matter what you’re a better dad than many and kids gotta learn that there’s more to life than staying mad at family
