I left my husband for a wealthier man only to find out he was married after two years | Lynn Ngugi 

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wow munene my university collegue

So so true

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You can say that again 😂

Very True

Life is so unfair...

I love yr story , it is so interesting dear

wow ❤ congratulations

I wish the young ladies would really understand that a good marriage takes hard work from both the husband and wife, it is not all rosy, the hard times will come and also the good times, but you have to build the memories together and God finds you half way thru the storms and helps you.

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Which year please!

@@shikungugichannel5651 I can't really remember but it must have been between 2009-11 or there about

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U r so right I agree with u

We get to know people better in time.the way i knew my husband before kuanza kukatiana ,and when we started dating,and the way i know him now,its all on a different level. I didn't know him well when we were friends so kumkataa would have been very easy,in fact nlikua nmekataa kuenda date ya kwanza n here we're😊 Life is not 1+1 hunny

I say her interview kwa Wambui wa Mwangi but she never mentioned this

​@@magdalinewacera1943when u say that man is weak & has failed, they will cancel you. Yet everybody can see it clearly

Thts true 💯

😂So si mi pekee yangu nimeona ako. Good looking

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She was young and still exploring. Am sure most of us went through the same. We develop true values as we grow. She is now a wife and mom. Am sure she even laughs at her younger self. Seriously who cares abt whether a guy has a limp or not? She was just young that is all.

You haven't healed,ukiheal utamwendea if there's love.

@@meggiesen5505 That ended the moment she walked out.

@@meggiesen5505 Wee huoni this guy is a kafukuswi

That's it.

Yeah,sadly

Very true

True.... Lkn sometimes wueh

Not all... there's a drunkard who treats me like a gem ....i donno how to handle his issues..i donno how to comfort people... I feel like it's not my space....i just chose to avoid him coz he may drain me...i did that in the most respectful way possible....

@manuel .,. you've understood the topic well

This the only comment that went to school

No, it's not. Most women with good values will stay true no matter what.

So we should normalise immorality?

The title is so misleading. Probably it was done intentionally to bring people here! Her story is one of many young girls and men just starting to date. They are just brave enough to discuss their journey

Woiye I feel you mama.mine too passed away August this year..how are you coping?it's hard for me.May I have your number please?

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I think they were able to get back together because they hadn't really related much. They hadn't developed an attachment so there wasn't a feeling of betrayal. That's why they can laugh about it😅

Munene is very handsome God ! Ungepoteza dada

Wow that was awesome

Tell them,Men never forget disrepect and betrayal when they have nothing. They will always revenge. Hakuna kitu kama ati alisahau,hiyo ni kujifanya tu.

Love covers a multitude of sins and being created in Gods likeness ...we should act like God

I am wondering these people saying that this is a couple to emulate . Sad scenes.

Then you lost your person with the keys

Infact that's why you will never settle

​@@njokimunene588act alone plz. Don't drag us into that acting!!

This one is passed by time... Physique goes a long way trust me

​@@redih6247ok one day you will tell a story

That is a real book

Then be embarrassed in public

T r ue but you forgot emotional abuse

​@@marywakariuki3492ooh yes

I love this🙏

@@LynnNgugi emotional abuse can take someone into an early grave and children will be left motheress,i saw one woman when i was young and the husband alikuwa anakunja matanga yake na the other woman,watoto waliteseka aki

Between i love you shows

What's their need?

It depends how the two of you take it .. when you become friends with your spouse you know what to say about him/her without hurting.

😅🤣 me too it will be a secret

I agree 100%

This is one person mature enough to say the truth

If it was a man who left for another lady then came back,the story would be different.fear this gender

I absolutely agree.

I don't think he views it as betrayal. They hadn't developed a bond. That's why they are able to laugh at it😅. At times it is just best to let people be.

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They have love. What do you have ? 😂

She was single.. they weren't in a relationship. Dudes do that all the time. I'd say she was pretty immature at that time. Plus its good he let her go at the time because she would have hurt him. The older guy was the boyfie.. hence the character development process

Yeah sure ....a true definition of a lot more positivity 😊

True but she has already learned her lessons

Yes Dear 💯💯💯 Facts on point. This is the lie that modern women are led to belive. Socia Media promoting this as well. Here in the USA baby mama's for NFL, NBA players as well as Celiberty are the big thing. Bag one you have 18yrs of a big check monthly to live the life. 😂😂✌️♥️♥️♥️♥️

​@@WILMA_Silly question. She is the states. Wasn't born or raised there. So spelling can be a challenge wherever you are at that moment.

@@WILMA_Your comment is not coming from a good place. You need a little bit of exposure. The worst spellers of the Queen’s language are Americans.

The man didn't reject her. She's the one who ghosted him.

​@@elizabethgithatu9863 jeez! Shida yako ni gani? Why is understanding so hard for you? Yaani such r simple comment huwezi elewa so you decide to twist and make it difficult 😮😮

Me too 💖

I totally agree...or sometimes it's mere desperation and a hope that things will work out while it's honestly a gamble!!!.the lady "married" herself to this man, a mistake many of us live to regret...

Such a story only encourages cohabiting as one of the "gateway to happy marriage"..

@@carolkami.671 Her position in that man life is clearly temporary,what if he goes bankrupt again koz life is unpredictable we can't tell,or the guy decides to be with sidechick and she won't be able to have a say over it.Realistically, cheating is never forgetable,deep down the man still holds it.

@@manziwakisumu7887 indeed! We can only wish them well and appreciate Lynn for showing us diversity in the marriage situations...

This lady is ok in her path....inaitwa kupotea ndio kujua njia.😂

Yes yes we used to look for foolish things 😂😂. Nonsensical things

Some are too selfish.

Women value security, stability and good leadership. Sometimes security can be mistaken for materialistic. A man is the provider, protector and a leader❤

❤❤Thank you You have always been mature. Thats why you we a prefect

Exactly. These judgmental people are the ones who hide their past from their partners.

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What if it worked with your wife and her previous lover? you are just overthinking, this woman is just honest otherwise some stories are even worse

@@ciruAgneskamande9011 we would not have met but i would have met someone else..

@@johnmaelfu1360 it's the same case with this man,if the lady didn't come back, he'd have moved in with another woman too

U ur feelings are valid

Exactly, it's only God who forgives. Me, no way.

Sure

Feminism is real😅

Facts

you are the people that are the problem. stories exist of men coming back and women accepting them. Can we stop making everything a war on genders??!! Nobody forced the man to accept her. He could have refused like many others have refused. Furthermore they were not married. It was in their young age. He chose to forgive her and build a life with her and that is a testament of his character and big heart...nothing to do with the gender here.

don't shout...love is mysterious

We mzee🧐

The problem is capitalism!!!

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I'm so sorry mummy, how's your marriage now ?

@@nahambohilma8598 we separated 2020, he left me with two kids, with unpaid bills and he has never helped us. And the only message I found in my FB acc is that nisiringe nani sione kama nimefika just because I'm doing better than he expected

Ruuuun

@@nikohapa3778 I'm running more than kipchoge

Hello. Just wanted to let you know that Jesus loves you very much. He is coming back very soon and He wants you to be ready. Just go to Him as you are. You don’t have to be perfect. The only thing He requires is a full surrender of your life. Go to Him and give Him your life and everything. Once you surrender everything (from the heart). He will give you The Holy Spirit in His fullness. The Holy Spirit will then give you faith, the power to overcome sin, peace, fulfillment and above all, eternal life. You cannot do it on your own strength. It’s only by the Holy Spirit. And you get The Holy Spirit once you lay everything down, including your life at The Lord’s feet. He says in His Word “Not by might, not by power but by my Spirit”. People think Christianity is boring. That’s because they see it as a religion. Christianity is not a religion, but a personal relationship with Jesus Christ who loves you and gave Himself for you. Having a relationship with Christ is the most joyful fulfilling thing you can ever have. Jesus changed my life and He wants to change yours as well. The reason we are all here is to fellowship with and have a relationship with God.

You learn how they speak, and you can already tell.

It doesn't matter as long as you left me for another guy thats over .......the problem with modern women is that they think they have it all figured out while the real deal is that they are messing this kids phycology

Weeeeeu.... Water tasting lazima. Even you men work around your list of girls before settling down. This lady did exactly the same. The procedure may be different though

May God bless this couple with His richest blessings. No one is perfect. She was very transparent, which is a reflection of her sincerity. I hope her situation works in their favour so they can be together as a family. Much respect.

You are right..and they hadn't even dated as such. I don't think people should judge her.

@@Gladysnjoki you women think through your emotions us men is logical thinking and that's why we see the wrong

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How

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True, but personally am too principled and I don't believe in second chances on infidelity matters is a NO for me, I just can't take someone back. But people are different.

​@@cikuciku4345Am sure you not married

@@CHD1718 Not being married doesn't mean that one should tolerate such...A woman with self respect, self awareness, have fully done self discovery, have high self esteem, can read or sense manipulation quickly etc have zero tolerance to infidelity koz such a woman value her inner peace more and prioritize herself too, can't trade it for such nonsense. One no not need to be married, some things just don't make sense especially to those of have high integrity.

Not even in a relationship yet but binadamu tu

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The only reason she came crawling back was because the other guy was married.