I left my marriage for two years but I went back to my husband and had to apologize and own up | LNN 

How many of such women can swallow their pride, own up and be that courageous to tell such "FORBIDDEN " subject to the world? You can count. Lynn, this is a unique case told by an intentional, beautiful soul for many to learn and review their life. Disclaimer!!, my wife did exactly that albeit minus our kids and after two weeks, she realised her error of judgement. These things are in vogue in our society today but is never told. Leah is one of a kind. Leah, allow me to commend you for that move and remind you that you are so beautiful and authentic. You have taught many women out there that marriage indeed works if both parties put their efforts, purpose and intention to it. Marriage is so good guys, but its success must come from you not the other party. Leah came to her realisation that she had something to give in her marriage, interrogated her conscience and God revealed to her that this was the man that He purposed to her. A marriage with God's blessings can't fold. Guys, there is no pride or ego when it comes to marriage. Marriage brings in values and purpose then the rest falls into place. I also wish to remind us that the best and most successful marriage can manifest where and when both of you places your past aside and place your values to the table then agree on how, as a unit you can navigate and model life in the way you think best. What I am saying in simple terms is, outsiders will never help you build your marriage but destroy it. They weren't there when you met or when discussing and agreed on your trajectory. To that extent then, they are strangers to your marriage just as they are not part of your life journey or painful experiences. Leave 3rd parties out of your relationship and be nil or scanty in sharing anything about your partner and marriage in social media groups. Leah's story in respect of her father, is indeed sad and unfortunate. Leah, sorry for the childhood trauma you endured but God has it all positioned for you to your destiny. It is well. Men, when a relationship has failed, bringing another woman to your matrimonial bed is a big NO. There are several ways you can approach or handle your relationship without causing unnecessary bitterness or subjecting your children to such experience that Leah and many more go through. With the advent of alternative means of resolving differences like counseling, church etc, you can do it guys. AIDS, STDs, Traumas you inflict on the innocent children like Leah, and the shame that you alone go through among men, all these is unwarranted. It doesn't matter what anyone can say about women, but our mothers are awesome. Majority of women do a lot in terms of shaping humanity. Many women out there including my own mother are transformative to matters children welfare, albeit, away from public glare. Social media is exposing some stories of women power and how much they impact society at large. But the truth is, there are so many silent mothers like Leah's that have done wonders that never come to public gallery. We see other great women even here on Lynn's show. As we celebrate international women's day on Friday 8, 2024, I request all of Lynn's loyal fans to join me in Celebrating Leah's mother, Lynn the icon herself, and all women in the world for being wonderful mothers to all of us. I postmously celebrate my own mother for single handedly taking me to university through Busaa brewing, my wife for giving me 4 great men and women and my two daughters for making me feel the proudest and fulfilled father in the world. Happy international women's day to all.

Lynn please bring her husband, we need to hear his story too. Who else wishes the same?

I want to see Lynn's biological mother on that coach, she'd brought a gift to the world how she struggled to bring up this icon Lynn Ngugi.

Lynn it's 22.50 as I write this. I didn't realize it was two hours and a half long. I'm an introvert and clearly resonate with her story. To be sincere, I was feeling like I was in a bottomless pit. I felt no one understood me and that my feelings were awkward. I held pain and confusion for as long as I can remember. I'm was very good at building blocks to prevent communication. I always related on the surface even with my own spouse,I always felt we were too close yet too far....I can write a book . But come the mid of Feb this year,I sought help. You have no idea how I felt when I was able to realize and analyze those patterns. I'm still walking this journey. And the most amazing thing has been self awareness and introspection. If you don't mind, I would love the April masterclass to continue learning more. Thank you for this authentic guest,Leah; for being vulnerable and sharing her story. Aki thanks Lynn.

Leah, wow, so good to see you here. Leah and her family were our next-door neighbours in Tudor Mombasa, and I saw her parents get married and how their family started. Leah was an outgoing, lovely inquisitive child, and she loved coming to our house next door, and we'd carry her. Her Mom was a gem, and her father was a brilliant Accountant. He worked in KPA with my Dad, in different sections (our Dad was in Operations). We were sad to see how their family went. My Dad and all our siblings loved them. We remember when Leah's Mom came as a newlywed, after their wedding, from Nanyuki if I recall, with pomp and extended family. They were three sweet girls. Hugs and proud of you! Alice M. South Africa

Am a stay home mother of 3. Already separated and praying for restoration. Kindly vote for me to join the master class mentorship class in April. This story is an encouragement to me

cecily mbarire is so kind and calm.she pick people's phones ata saa vile yeye ni governor.if you can one day invite her to this show. we need to appreciate her .me included.

Wow Lynn this interview is a blessing to me and I would really appreciate the coaching masterclass in this season in my life. Am literally stuck. I have been a stay at home mum for 12 years, learnt afew skills while at it and I now feel its time for a paradigm shift in my life. Kindly Lnn fans vote for me. Am Pauline ❤

As a young person looking forward to marriage in the near future, there's a lot to learn. Insights from Leah: * Marriage works when both parties work towards it's betterment * Accept there's something wrong and then Work on yourself, focusing on your future, not stagnating in the past. *Conquer your fears. *The most that a person can tell you is a NO, you'll have done your part. * It's okay to make mistakes and move beyond them. * Apologize and mend the broken 💔 bridges even with no tied favours in return.

Thanks so much to this woman... very strong to have delt with everything,,at some point I cried for her , especially the Way she explained about losing a mom and going through some things hardest way because of the same... about the hardship of persuing her degree ...but what broke me most is how she was all alone on her graduation 🎓 I really felt it ,,the marriage break up 😢was not good but how you connected to your failures makes me think that I also need to go back from my childhood and know what always makes me have anger issues ...I have really learnt alot ... thanks Leah ,,,thanks to Lynn for this show

Depression is real. I can reasonate with this lady. It's such a dark place to be. I agree with her that if you see your family or loved one taking seclusion, please reach out. For me, God got me out of depression through tears. To date, I grolify God. He is a healer.

Finally a story where the woman is accountable. @LynnNgugi share more of these stories and see if you can fix our country.

Wooow this lady has changed my life completely so I was also depressed some months back yet no one noticed 😢

When one leaves a marriage, even if there is a reconciliation later, there're things that can never be the same. The partner will never forget that you can just switch off and on the marriage at wish. To avoid getting hurt in an eventuality of a relapse, they can never give you their 'heart' again. They can still reinstate the physical commitment for the sake of the kids, but they'll still never regain from the emotional ambush. Sometimes, they'll be emotionally preparing for how to live without you, just in case you leave again. Sorry, this is not the perspective that many would wish to look at it from, but I could be speaking on behalf of many. In my opinion, I won't advocate for the gentleman to be pulled onto the podium. Don't pressure him to speak at this point. Healing from such a turmoil would be a journey. Just when he thought that his family was together, it broke. Just when he was trying to get to terms with the unpleasant outcome, reconciliation. I know sometimes he's not even sure whether he'll find her when he returns from work. There're fears and mistrusts that were unlocked, which he might never speak about, for fear of being seen or blamed as an impediment to reconciliation. The same fear would compel him to join in to an interview and state how he's happy with the progress. At some point, the lady felt ready to leave marriage, but was he ready? At some point, she felt ready for a reconciliation. Was he ready? At a stage, she felt ready to speak it out and share the lessons learnt. Is he ready, and what has he learnt? Maybe he's still trying to understand the breakup😅. I speak from a man's perspective. Please don't rush him. You might leave him emotionally confused and stranded; a passive audience in a theatre of marriage.

Hey team Lynn, This has been an awesome conversion. The title doesn't quite express the gem that this guest is. Please bring her back because she's presented a lot in 2 hours. I believe that she covers topics across generations. 1. For the younger and generation that's growing up very entitled, she brings a beautiful story of resilience, determination and hard work. 2. To anyone who may have emotional issues, recognizing that mental health is key, depression is real, she can also talk on postpartum depression. 3. Transformational coaching!! I broke it down like that but will also reach out to the guest as well.

Dear Lynn, the guest is right that you are a very authentic person even for us that have only met you on screen. These stories on marriage/relationships and womanhood are very eye opening. If only there was a subject at school on how to relate in society, family, marriage etc. I bet we would be very far as a society. My take home from Leah is, "when you see an opportunity, take it. God will bring you chances but it's upto you to go for it." Lynn, as you head to 1 million, which is around the corner, you have inspired us over and over to just get started on our dreams and keep showing up. I recently started out on RU-vid, one day I will host you when you visit France 😊.

I love this new breed of women. ❤ Marriage is God ordained and can only function within those boundaries ❤

Am interested in the mentorship. Such a great authentic woman narrating her story.

A kind request vote for me guys🙏 Sasa Lynn, I am absolutely interested in attending the mentorship class in April. Guys just briefly, I am a first born from a family not very far from what Gathigia has shared. Mine is even extreme to poverty and separation. I don't know the meaning of a family structure. I fear marriages.Servere traumas. I don't know myself yet. There is no day that has passed without me crying. I have developed something like a big stone inside my throat(heavy and painful).I have a routine I rush home to cry. Yes on a daily basis.Just caught the interview late due to being out of town in an area with shaky network. But i can't wait to join in and learn from her expertise. Please help.Thanks my people.

Here is me sincerely looking forward for the sponsorship, guys kindly votes for me and save a soul, my story is exactly like her story, God bless you abundantly,,,,,,

Leah is wise beyond her years. This was one of the loveliest shows iv ever seen in a long time. She is brutally honest and the world needs more like her. Kudos to her and her family.

Lynn thank you for this guest. I was at the verge of quiting my marriage and this has opened a whole new chapter. I would really wish to be in her master class

Being a life coach is my calling. Please send me to this master class. What an amazing interview! ❤

God bless Leah and Lnn show team.Leah is such a blessed gem full of wisdom.She talks like a 45 year old,amazing vessel. I truly need a master class .

I love that our guest realized the cycle of wanting her to live a single life and decided to change the story💪💪👏👏

Am so so so happy to listen- in to Ms. Leah Gathigia......Lynne you have blest us in this episode..........Thanks for bringing in Ms. Leah Gathigia........She has blest me............and I would be glad to sit in her class and be transformed........She is beautiful in and out.....

This is inspiring. An amazing show. I'm trusting God for master class. I need to have a testimony soonest.

Very inspiring show today. The moment both parties in a relationship realise that apology and / or forgiveness is a virtue, the better. I believe that if 75% of women listening to this girl can take time to process the message deep down, many marriages at the verge of failure will make a complete turnaround paradigm shift. When stories are told by women who decide to be vulnerable like Leah, serious individuals listen using ears and hearts for the information to sink in for a better self. Each of Lynn's guests has a message that may impact each one of us differently. Let us not listen for the sake of it. I implore upon each of us to be taking these stories with the seriousness they deserve. Lynn spends so much time and financial resources to bring guests to this global platform. Its upto us to individually decide what to do with the message. Lynn, continue doing us proud.Someone somewhere is watching unknown to you. One day, you will get another global award on merit. We love you. I keep praying for you, for I know the sky is the limit for you.

Leah I'm glad I call you my friend. Proud of you girlie...

Overwhelmed . I understand you too well. I almost did a gravious mistake but I thank God i came back to my senses soonest

Finally I've heard someone talking of patterns which i realised recently was happening to me ...most of the things I've gone through sometimes silently, my mum also went through the same..from the choice of a husband and so much more but I'm glad that still subconsciously i was able to take myself out of a situation that crippled her life to a point she was not able to bounce back until date ...since then I'm taking everything in life very intentionally and making sure i have life conversations with my mum frequently to be able to make the right choices in face of adversity

Wow, what a story. I love how authentic humans speak to us and we hget to learn from their experiences so that we even discover of issues we could be dealing with subconsciously. I would appreciate that master class to work on issues, not to vent.

This is awesome Lynn Marriage is sacred. I thank her for listening to the inner voice of God

Aki kaschana unaniongelesha...you are younger than me ,but full of wisdom..keep imparting Us

I've really Loved Today's show and deeply connected with it. I have a series of childhood traumas, and as I was listening to todays guest I realized that there are cycles in my life that keep repeating themselves. She has really affirmed me to start working on my self and that masterclass would be a great place to start. Thank you Lynn for the good work!

Thank you dear Lynn for that wonderful host...the guest is so wise and authentic...Thank you to her lovely husband for allowing the transformation to happen...he allowed the story to make more impact....I'm on a journey to transform myself...wish I can connect to her to hold my hand...may this show keep growing

I know Leah at a personal level, such a strong, intelligent and beautiful lady. I'm so glad you chose your marriage. Thank you for inspiring us with your story. I came out with something.

Last year i had panic attacks, i could not even breath i had to remind myself so many time's that i have to breath and no one understood me i tell you depression is real but God is faithful

Leah your experience at campus your education journey speaks to what most of us went through and what students go through. Thank you for accepting to be vulnerable with us. You need to mentor first year university students. I used to run a Get on Board with Campus Life Initiative, im going to revisit it snd revamp it with some tips from your story. Thank you for giving marriage a second chance, for accepting responsibility for wrong doing. Be blessed.

Thanks so much Lynn. I had watched Leah on onother show. I admire her growth. That was a really therapy for me!!!

Awesome lady. Respect to you Leah. I'm learning a lot from you coach Leah. God bless you.

This girl is me… confidence opens doors

My 1st wife left with two of our children when she had a high flying job. She later realised (and was told by many that) her reasons for leaving her marriage were trivial. Hiyo tu???? She later brought back the children. After three years she gathered courage to ask me that we get back together. I was bitter about the things she had talked about me. I also was cowardly to say yes for the sake of my children. She had a hard time as a single lady and could not hold jobs. She later died and I have always regretted not being man enough to protect her from her own emotions and the world.

Morning Lynn your grooming the singles for marriage am learning alot much ❤❤ macha represented

She is very intelligent woman and Lynn keep up the good work

Thank you for this great talk. I would love to attend the master class.

waoh this soo beautiful lynn i have learnt alot wueh am one of those who behave like windowed woman.childhood trauma take a toll in our lives and patterns keep on repeating in our lives am gland to know something can be done........this came at such time am broken and hurt the blame game mmmmhhh!!! Thankyou lynn and leah may God bless you. Give me a chance for this master class

This is probably one of the best conversations in this show. You touched my heart! God continue to bless ya'll

Lynn is veeery authentic and the way her conversations flow aaaahh, brilliant 💕💕

I would love to have a chance.The story is so encouraging.Thanks Lynn for the great job

Wow Hon Cecily Mutitu Mbarire is a blessing to so many people, this is one of the many tributes from people she's helped! May God continue to bless her and the work of her hands

For two days am on the same page relistening, thanks Lynn, I believe the show has spoken alot to me and I can relate alot with Leah. Thank you.

This interview got me right right.....I would wish to join the Masterclass

We should learn to own up our mistakes and the consequences that come with it because choices have consequences.

Powerful show! A great speaker and couch. Thx Lynn

This has opened my eyes in ways i didn't imagine. Thank you LNN for this series. More grace.

Abel Mutual,here again i have watched this episode with emotions, hajaanza jana the story started years ago.God is great Wamoyo, Mbarire and the rest

This show is always ordained. In every guest you can never miss an insight. I need to find myself. Interested in the master class

Let me follow this coach now. She is just a nice lady

Governor, wamuyu, Abel may the lord God increase yu guys

Thank you for sharing your story. I nominate myself for a master class. Thank you Lynn for the platform

I love how Lynn's guest understand the cycles in our lives. Jimmy gait talked about genealogical constitution and community constitution. Then Leah explains in detail how things keep on recurring in our lives because we don't deal with the root cause.

Change is painful but change is necessary. can't believe that when Lynn asked Leah who she wanted seated on that seat next, I was whispering in my spirit Caroline Mutoko and when she said her name my heart skipped with joy. Thank you for this story Leah, you are truly favored by God since childhood. His presence has always been with you till now that you are transforming lives. God knows I want to connect with you so much because Iam also in the process of transformation, been going strong and solo for a year now and I feel like I want a circle that really understands this process. Been through those days of locking myself in the room for days with no light, switching off my phone and not talking to people, but I am grateful that God lifted me and brought me to His light. I have found myself and I know where I am going but I really need to connect with you, and I would love the April masterclass to continue learning more.

Lynn,this is a conversation that I have taken my pen and note book.I am happy to have this clip.Thank you so much.

This is eye opening. ❤❤❤. Thank you Lynn for bringing her to your show. I really need coaching, she spoke in a way that I really understood.

Am transformed by this conversation lynn thanks for bringing us this one..as a married woman I was writing notes...soo much to learn in one sitting...kindly vote for me...I badly need the master class.

Our all time galfriend. Happy for you. I believe God is taking you to places,no limits for you.

This is a real eye-opener. One of the best lessons learnt through your shows Lynn. Keep bringing us such. You save lives and situations/relationships with such shows. Be blessed.

Cycles that keep repeating am the worst victim for this , am Soo inspired by this show today , have watched her content on Instagram it's awesome, I would also like to nominate myself... Am ready.

Self healing is such an important part in our lives, we need to heal first so as we can help others heal too, an hurting soul is an hurting soul.

The story is encouraging and i would say your mother died before going in all those offices with prayers. May God bless all the prayerful mothers. Lynn gid bless you

Here I am Lynn...I need the mentorship much

At the very least this story preaches the right gospel. Wonderful

Lynn you are helping to heal a nation- keep this content up

Very encouraging and a lesson to tame our pride& ego..Kindly Lynn can we hear the Man's story...it could be a game charger to the male side too..much love❤❤❤💐💐💐🌹

That was nice...I really need to sit down with you one day and share my story as well...

Leah is an intelligent woman, i first heard her story from Cele's channel. Here she is.

Thanks for opening up and being venerable. You have helped many of us!

Wow, glad that Leah was here today to encourage and attest that indeed marriage works. Thanks Lynn for bringing her here. Am interested in the masters classes being offered by Leah. Please choose me.

Its always right to own our own mistakes... Thanks lynn for the beautiful guest. Please if possible unaweza tuletea JJ Titus and the wife. Thanks in advance ❤

God i really pray that i would attend that master class and polish up on what the school of the holy spirit is doing in me.

This woman's wisdom is on another level🎉

Wow, what a conversation. "Create an identity out of a season"

I have learned so much from this piece. Thank you so much Lynn and team..and Leah

I love this one. She's got a cool head....and she's a go getter.

Hi Lynn,This was such a timely interview,I would love to join the April cohort class.

Thank you Leah for being vulnerable with us and sharing your story. Beautiful story! Thank you Lynn, good job!

Childhood traumas are very real.. i am praying that I will overcome it very soon.. very inspiring story.. I come from a very dusfunction family too, unloving, dramatic family, i understand her very well.

That moment after burying your mother and you find yourselves alone in the house with your siblings,young ,confused, everybody has gone away........I remember that moment vividly clear after 20yrs as if it was yesterday.I feel you sis,I know that terrible feeling. Thanks to God who heals us from childhood traumas! You are a courageous woman may God continue blessing you. Thank you Lynn for such conversations they teach us alot.

This is the best person i have listened to.she has educated me alot

Thank you Lynn and Leah,haki leo,Waa! Lessons I would have spent millions of shillings to learn which I would not even afford ,you have sacrificed to bring me just like that? Haki,am just lifting you up to God to enable you open the eyes of the world and set God's people loose from captivity.

Waaauh Leah's story has changed my thinking as i have always played the good one and seeing mistakes even when there'nt.

Its a second born thing i tell you. We are very strategic and goal oriented. May God bless all first borns. I love the guest she is very eloquent and a good story teller too.

Wao its a great interview leah has really encouraged me,will contact to join the masterclass

Am looking forward for that mentorship program that Leah has mentioned personally I feel important for my mental health development am looking forward

Therapists may not have gone through your experience but they're professional to handle different issues thanks for your openness

Its humanly so hard to own up. This is such a beautiful love story. Keep them coming Lynn❤

first heard her story on celes reflection and now here...she is so inspiring and i relate to her in so many ways ....thanks leah for awareness ❤

Wow learning and rebuilding Alsme take home there what a show 👏 strong women she is and wise.❤

I know leah and Steve for a long time ...we used to worship together...I love leah so much ....