I'm 100% Korean [Hello Counselor / 2017.05.15] 

Wtf

It depends on where u live in korea

Chinese are complete racists. Chinese hates blacks and are blatantly racist.

Those three races are actually racist in some different ways.

Salty boi from Philippines true, the Japanese just don’t show it so tbh it’s chill 😂 but I agree Chinese and korean can’t be blatant

PastelKpop Dreams Yea !! just like a lot of idols get edited on magazines to appear more pale than they actually are .... sad

Gavin Gallagher Because unfortunately they would be wasting their breath. Koreans' racism and discrimination stems from deeeeeeepppp rooted self hate. Why do you think they have so much plastic surgery and skin lightener to "look white" or western (even though there's still a lot of cases of koreans discriminating against white people which shocked me). The close minded Koreans aren't gonna listen to someone on a screen telling them to change their mindset. They're gonna have to do that themselves, and put themselves in a position where they are seen as a foreigner, and think about how they would want to be treated. I'm sure the hosts know this which is why they try to give the boy advice instead. Alot of people misunderstand the hosts but realistically they're just tryna help. But there's not much you can do in these situations. Trying to talk to a racist or ignorant person in general is like talking to a brick wall, basically a waste of time.

Gavin Gallagher white washing most korean idols isn’t even a thing tho. 99.8% of koreans are just as white as the whites people are. they may have a more yellowish tone to them, but they have the same color skin as white people and it’s even been proven. there are some darker skinned koreans don’t get me wrong and the white washing on them is wrong, but for most idols not the case

hayun even though i haven’t been to Korea; i don’t believe 99.8% have a ‘white’ skin. I know what you are trying to say. Not tanned is the word you are looking for. Only the people who are on tv are pale or made pale. Most of the people are more yellow-beige. Just like in India; allot of celebrities are chosen because of their light skinned skin. The people you see on Korean tv hardly represent the masses. Koreans also have big/bulky noses and round faces.

2019 and still the same. :) It's hard to please everyone or tell them not to disrespect people since they're like that since forever.

Good

I love this energy

Because of that I love you😍😘

the message is good but lol how many of y'all are going to copy this phrase?

Hell yea

Moni Mochi Z where are you from

same!

@@thelorax2908 Woahh! you're correct! I'm from Philippines. Haha!

@@imlikett5293 I'm from Philippines. 😊

@@potato7171 Where are you from?

Indigo Osmanthus but why mixed people like somi said she also was bullied because she looks different? i think she is half white...and i watched some kshows about these mixed kids (most are half white), they dont have many friends and others keep calling them foreiners?? hmm

Because jealousy exists?

Indigo Osmanthus ppl always jealous af 😑😑smh

uh sorry my lil sis in korea actually, we're both french and white as fuck and she still faces a lot of racism in korea! don't talk if you don't know!

Indigo Osmanthus that is so righr

Panny V 9

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Panny V I admire her more....

unfortunately that's the mentality of many, not just koreans, as if saying love yourself will change anything. Like in another video where they where talking about plastic surgery and 90% of the comments where saying that they should just love themself instead of getting plastic surgery, like is their life if they want ps then let them, why do they have to be discriminated aginst because of getting plastic surgery what matter is their personality.(sorry, i change the topic)

Ironic how you’re an army and BTS’s message is to love yourself.

They also should know how Filipino Soldiers fight for their country againts china before. The sad thing is it was forgetten to add on our history. Those dark Filipinos once fight for their independence.

All Filipino celebrities are white and all plastic too, what do you expect. A lot of Filipino stars are of mixed background as well. It's generally an Asian thing to be fair skinned, even south-east Asian royals are fair skinned or half French.

@@triggahappyyt5420 filipino celebs dont get plastic syrgery. only a few of them get it.

I thought Filipinos are quite advanced

@@farzanayesmen5337 advance in what?

Bella Domer his nose is cute....it’s like a boopable nose 🥺💖

Agree

That what i've notice too his eyes

true 🖒

Too bad people focused too much on his skin color 😥 i am southeast asian and i got pointed out a lot by koreans when i was on vacation.

yo

Alyia Bubbles 아리아 really as a malay i see his feature is prominent among South part of Malaysia, Northern are usually a bit lighter skin.

I agree

He does look nice! But the issue is the treatment he receives for these features such as the bullying and the prejudice against him both in everyday life and when applying for jobs.

Also look so Indonesian

RebeccaBlackVirus she's just stating her opinion. Why are u attacking her?

Yeah but you still need to wear sunscreen

Brendons Forehead ya

Darker skin also means lack of Vitamin D

so that's why i never got a sunburn

@@zoralewis4357 I had a lack of vitamin d and I was as pale as a ghost even though I'm Mexican.

have to agree, Eli grew up in america he even said how he was discriminated against there i was expecting him to relate to the boy here and say its a concern and give him some support :/

That's exactly what I thought too, it's so strange that he didn't say how discrimination is a problem...

This show is about bringing social awareness and speaking about it's problems. People understands the problem and now there's a voice about it.

Yeah they think that all Filipino have darkskin

@@kpopdrama9025 It's an inevitable fact though. Why did you have to assume thbat way?

@@Your_Beautiful_Sister_Is_Mine I don't but many people in Korea they are not open minded and they believe what Media show you

Same

Ikr how dare they

Totally agree with you

Much handsome than the hosts

Fucking Korea

Yeah right 😂

with that... idunno. filipinos are becoming more and more... err.

They seem to forget that

@@ameilioracryptos5298 Can't forget it if they never knew it to begin with

They live in the 21st century but their behavior and comportment is from 1000000 bc hahahahaha

Ally Dale yea there’s this Filipino girl in my class who most people think is Caucasian

Dont say we! Kayo lng nmn mga mahilig s kpoop lol

@@jimangelogregorio452 nagpapakaracist ka, anong kinalaman ng pagiging kpop fan? may mga pilipinong hindi kpop fan pero marunong rumespeto sa ibang bansa at ibang lahi pinapakita mo lang na napakaracist mo, tandaan mo isa ang korea sa tumutulong satin ngayon

@@jimangelogregorio452 sis. that's not relevant to this video.

@@neocity8356 ikr mai hypocrisy eh

Skycasthe true, they need "real" counsellor instead

Some or most?

some 🤧✊🏻

They are not even pretty or handsome, but they are best in bad mouting to people lol.

@@weeyetoeye6773 some or all

Just look at the audience. haha.

Tapi emang ganteng lho kak dia ini😭 gak ngerti aku sama orang korea, rasis banget.

No.. Arabian really different..

Not an Arabian we are all different (white ,tan ,mixed some are black)

I heard there is also discrimination in Indonesia though? My mom is Indonesian and she said she was bullied for having dark skin and small eyes, and that a lot of Indonesians hated Chinese-Indonesians (which my mom is)

@@deobitiny6884 There has been a long history of violence against Chinese Indonesians over there, I think the latest occurrence happened in the late 90s.

Eomma Jin and Appa Monie daughter are you just realising that? ofc they only care about looks. plastic surgeries are at its peak in SK. but its ironic how fast they are to criticize the ones who do have them. fucking hypocrites.

:/ In a homogenous country you expect there to not be confusion and discrimination against those who look different? Hell there's discrimination in countries where it's heterogenous and a melting pot.

half of them are for foreigners

Bts proud Mommy - And intelligence

Random Me okay, so you've equipped yourself from what you gathered from the internet. And you've filled in the holes of what you don't know and haven't actually experienced in Korea with your own assumptions. Congratulations.

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it depends wich part you are every country has racism and can't accept everyone and some places in Korea might even treat you better than their kind..they aren't really use to forieghners so they wouldn't know how to act maby in cities like seoul they wouldnt treat you badly because there's usually alot of forieghners that visit they are slowly being open minded especially this generation

No just keep learning..so they can understand when you roast them😂😂👍👍👍👌😅

I was there for three months and was the best time of my life was complimented allllll the time by the locals. even had a lot of them ask for my number 😅 they’re all so friendly I didn’t run into any racism only once when I went to a bar but like 🤷🏼‍♀️ ehh

@@tyleahvon5442 I guess you're white ....am I right???

Junkookie Taehyung that’s not entirely true though. It’s true that some of them are racist, but it doesn’t mean that the whole country is racist. Plus there are like lots of korean students studying here in the philippine, some of them are nice and down to earth. And also some Filipinos are also racist to others foreigner you know.

I feel you beh

Almost 100 percent are racist there. I am gyopo and i was never treated so badly except there in korea.

@@drea2578 actually, no matter where you go. There will be always racist people

the only thing i like about korea is kpop at this point, i really wanted to go there but now that i see the problems there i'm not going anytime soon

Nanda ... which country is it? 😂😂😂

Nanda in my country too 😁

yeah..only if they are white

Same here

same here too.. in my country that is Malaysia.. xD

stfu u racist shit its funny that a anime fan says it

@@Apetitegirly aren't the Koreans are racist too?

For Koreans plastic face is better 🤣

What

The alien in your backyard mexicans are hispanic not north american ...

@@contourbae Mexicans are ethnically Hispanic because we are of Spanish descent and we are North American because Mexico is in North America like Canada and the U.S.

xiao mili

I'm an ESL teacher at a community college, and I actually had a Russian bitch come to my office and tell me she was going to drop the class if I ever made her do a conversation dialogue w/ the Vietnamese guy who sat next to her in class again... b/c he "had been a fisherman in his country! (so what could she possibly learn from him?)" It was all I could do not to knock her into next week. Worse, she was like 25 yrs old and the 'mere' fisherman was like 60 and had spent his life busting his ass to get ahead. The whole situation was horrible.

KPopBreakdown Its almost saying that your better than her or him, can you NOT.

Jewels Lightbourne It only makes sense that it would be more uptight in Korea, if you only look at the history of a few decades back. Not to mention, tourism didn't even start there until 2010. And I'm getting tired of all these foreigners talking about Korea from getting info off the internet and generalizing and assuming to fill in the holes. Yall can't talk unless you've at least lived in Korea for a year, can understand a little bit of the language and have at least done some research about the geography, history. And educate yourselves on basic levels of psychology and sociology. Otherwise, these international "fans" just sound like ignorant bigots.

Sara H. I can agree with that, I, myself is a international fan but that man or woman was just straight up rude. I do agree that Korea is uptight no doubt but it's still weird to see it still in 2018, I mean there must not be enough foreigners In Korea because of their reaction to this guy and how they treated him different.

Jewels Lightbourne Here's my advice. Never assume anything if you haven't been there to experience what it's actually like yourself. You don't know how many foreigners Koreans see in their daily lives, if it's a lot or if it's barely any at all. I went to Korea a few summers ago, and I didn't see any foreigners in the month I was there unless I visited a university or a tourist place. It's still not a normal occurrence. I'm tired of everyone assuming every country to be the same, pulling up the "it's 2017/2018, it should be like this," No country is going to be the same. Stop being ignorant, (and I'm not saying this to you, I'm just saying for everyone in general)

X2 😂

_Honestly big mood rn_

Can you imagine people are praying to become Korean over night and I understand why but with how a lot of these people think, I think I'll pass.

Ikr *amen*

They live like if they were in the 17th century

Ingrid Catherine every host is like that. they like to ask personal stories. host work is gossip.

Ingrid Catherine Why? 😮

all of them to be exact.

which one? the one readin or

Chaengs lion The chubby old women with glasses and the one who looked like they should be in K drama with a grey sweater on

True! Theres a lot of discrimination and bullying going on, like whyd they tease em like hes look south east asian and stuff.

He's korean period.

Even South Korean are often bullying their same race like North Korean. They are same, Korean people. But South Korean are too arrogant

Trueeeeee SOOOOO TRUUEEEE

Show me a happy country and I'll show you what troubles lie within it.

Maybe because you went to seoul which most of them already accept foreigners. But outside seoul there still got the prejudice since they are not exposed to foreigners

Gaby Noska maybe bc your fair skin and pretty

Gaby Noska they don't treat people based on the features. They treat people based on skin color to be exact.

Gaby Noska l think there is a difference with just visiting a country and actually living there for a longer period of time. tourists normally don't face this kind of racism but if you stay longer the chance will be higher to experience not only good but also bad things.

Gaby Noska uhmm its because you looked like lisa Lol you really looked like lisa on your profile pic Especially when lisa was a trainee

i’ve visited Korea recently and i can say that not all koreans are like that. most koreans that i’ve encountered were welcoming. I have a little sister and everywhere she goes, locals always compliment her looks and always greet us with a smile. Sure some may not be that welcoming to foreigners (although i haven’t really encountered specific events of being discriminated) but every country has their own down side, right? But of course I don’t know a lot because i’ve only visited one part of korea which is seoul so i cant really say that it applies to everywhere in korea because i haven’t roam around much yet hehe. Anyway, i hope those racist people will mature up though and just spread love bc 2018 yo

Its make me things i will never wisited in korean

Margie Stanley maybe your sister has fair skin? And you're not brown?

But when it comes to dark/brown skin people theyre legit racists. Some are hypocrite af. Yeah in other countries too have racist people but for me, Korea is too much. Not all

I agree

Dark skin is beautiful btw💕

Even if i'm a kpop fan i'd rather go to japan cause 1. what you mentioned 2. i have a close relative thats speaks and is married to a japenese (ive also met her son)

Kp

If she’s white and experiences that then imagine what someone black would face

Zhēng Jiǎo Jesus OP was infuriating and stupid but I’ve never felt this much anger radiating off a RU-vid comment in my life 💀

emi no Koreans are just racist & colorist. There's a difference between protecting your culture & race & flat out being a racist. & Alot of Koreans are extremely ignorant / racist Just say it Koreans don't like black people & darkskin,( which is insane to me cause darkskin is beautiful) but y'all seem to love white people & think they're the best looking people in life due to the fact that the standard of beauty in Korea is more European looking.it is what it is. Which is stupid, if you're pretty, you're pretty skintone & ethnicity has NOTHING to do with being attractive..

Jordan Williams lol keep talking low life

Sly Cooper I got a master's degree , living good making hella money at a young age...there's nothing low life about me dear so yes I will keep talking while I get this money =)

IKR? He looked half, then as I studied his face more, he's just a swarthy Korean teen. It's easy to forget there's variety in one homogeneous country when on image is mainly shown.

Thats what I thought too, he looks Korean, just darker. He looked like the host sitting next to him and I see a little Jungkook in his face too.

@@sunnygirly2k4 swarthy?

No lol, he just look typical Malaysian, Indonesian, Filipino

no such thing as a "South Asian"?

so true

koreans have thick skins

Because we're a country built on right winged politics???

they are so judgemental but some of them do some plastic surgery to have westerners feature , that funny i'm no here to criticize but i'm always defend the difference . We're all different and genuine

Gracia Mokemba for fuck sake with this occidentalism. Plastic surgery in Korea is based on Asian beauty standards not Western. Please at least get out of your bubble.

okeii okeii it was my point of view , i have a right to think like that , the same way a korean or any asian has the right to have a different point of view about an western countries so chill and peace !!

akmal hamzah that was horrible :(

Yeah 👍

no

Which part did they judge our skin color? can you give the time stamp? if you do thank you so much❣️

What do you mean?I am also from the Philippines 😊

not true, chinese country like singapore all are fair skin too

saya rasa dia duduk dekat area kampung, jauh dari bandar or jauh dari tempat tumpuan pelancong so thats why ramai rasict , mybe tempat dia duduk tu tk biasa tgk foreigner or still pemikiran tk open lagi

immabigfanofyou Kt seoul org lebih open minded sebab dh byk foreign kt sana. Cer try gi kampung2 dan tempat2 luar seoul

Saya pergi Seoul a few days je. Lepastu, banyak pegi luar seoul tapi nasib baik tak jumpa sesiapa yang racist. Saya pergi hiking semua pun, jumpa orang dekat sana, okay jugak. Tapi maybe nasib saua baik ke apa, tak tahulah kan. :)

Betul. pernah tengok my neighbour charles? Show tu siap ada tunjuk orang korean yang marah foreigner yang stay situ and dalam seoul tak silap. Kesian.

Its must in seol right? If you go to rural place, its must be different.

Thats one way to describe your type lmao

Shut up you brown skinned bitch

Catfish sensei Oooo I bet your ass wouldn’t say that to a person of color because you’re too much of a p ussy to say it. And if you thought you did something, damn you got the whole squad laughing buddy 😐

@@pooptard242 tf does that even mean

Catfish sensei Guess I’m talking to a 7 year old

Nick R. T. the k wave just promotes plastic surgery and colorism. people need to drop em honestly

It's honestly tragic really. Tho I won't generalize all the koreans like this, because they are some that are not like this.

koreans insult their friends, not strangers. If you are insulted, that means they consider you a friend. If they act only nice, then you're a nobody in their eyes. If you're a malay student from a normal household (not migrant worker doing 3D jobs) then i dont see why not you cant be friends with people in ur exchange program.

Ant Man Are you Korean? Maybe you can explain me a couple of things. Cause I have met lots of Koreans in my university during their exchange semesters and they avoid talking to foreigners... they stick with their own people. It is impossible to have conversations for more than 5 minutes, let alone being friends. And I do want to specify that they speak good English and they are not shy at all. They can be pretty racists with their comments against Chinese people... I asked one of them and he said "we do not trust foreigners", and "they are too different from us, we do not want to be friends with non-Koreans". How can you be friends with people like these?

please don't generalize.. it is true that a lot of koreans seem to be close-minded in that way, but i think in recent generations, (forgive me if my wording is wrong or doesn't really make sense. i will try to explain myself again if so) younger koreans are more open-minded and accepting. just like any other kid, they don't really care about ethnicity and such. my school has many exchange students from korea, japan and such and a lot of them are very friendly and easy to befriend! some of them may be shy at first but they get talkative once you approach them, and some even approach first also~ in fact, there is an indian boy at my school who is best friends with almost all of the koreans in my year, we call him like an 'ambassador', it's quite funny hahhaha because when the koreans all go out in a gang, there's always one random indian guy in that photo which is him hehe but anyway, my point is, korea may still have a long way to go when it comes to this subject but i think they are slowly improving nonetheless

i agree with you !!!!!!!!!!

Shara Ran Exactly! I do not understand why you would stick with you own people when you are going abroad... oh well

Ha nun ha. i really love japan. this is true

this just gives me another reason to love japan more than korea. i know that they're more open-minded in this kind of situation. though i love korea too because of the places and foods, it's better to travel being surrounded by mostly good people which is japan. i didn't mean that koreans are not trust worthy but maybe just some of them. the one's with attitude problem lol.

Snessonic exactly my thought!

also this boy is extremely cute looking in my opinion, and seems like a gentle person

Jasmine Johnson I can understand that the UK has more diverse and multicultural people. However, as an asian and as a Korean, I did experience discrimination and prejudice. Some people literally shouted Chinese!! and some shouted nihao to our family and laughed as they went. (and ofc they didn't say it in a friendly way, it would've been fine if they were trying to ne nice and communicate with us but that was not the case) Since I lived here for over 3 years now I have friends and I'm alright with school. BUT the first year was very hard for me. I was put into a group of girls who were friends and at first they showed me around the school and were quite nice to me. But after that, there were times when they ran away from me while I tried to catch up which I eventually didn't as I thought I'd look stupid to follow people who wants to get rid of me lol. Also, some guys threw paper balls at me in a cover lesson where teachers didn't rlly care about us. There was this guy who shouted at me when I was walking so I didn't rlly pay attention, and he laughed with his friends and said ahahah she can't even understand. I don't even go to a rough school. I go to a private catholic school. Maybe it's because there's only 2 asians in our year. Maybe. But then my friend went to NewYork and apparently there were loads of asians in her school. What happened there was even more terrifying. She changed school after a year since she couldn't stand it. That's what happened to my younger brother too. He went to the same school as me but since no one wanted to be friends with him his 1 year of this school is a horrible memory to him. Especially after moving from your hometown in Korea where you have friends and everything, your self esteem gets fucked and your life gets depressing.

Jasmine Johnson I cried everyday wishing I hadn't come to England. I still go to the same school. I tried my best to fit in and now I'm yr 12 and my school life isn't as bad as before. If you meet the people from our school they will be nice and lovely.However, they were horrible and racist towards me and my brother. This Korean girl I know who's the same age as my brother had the worst time of her life at the state school she goes to in the first 2 years. It's not just my school. Now I'm perfectly fine with english people but I want to say it's not a non racist country. What I learned in England is that, most asians who experience being bullied and discriminated don't usually make a video like other people on youtube saying sth like 'I got discriminated by....' which probably makes it seem less in the Uk. I'm sorry to say this but when I read your comment I felt like you think the Uk is such a beautiful country compared to other countries. I lived in Korea too and I think the amount of racism is the same if not less in Korea. I do like to say that I don't hate the Uk. It is like my second home now but I have some horrible memories here which doesn't go away easily.

idk every country has there bad parts, as a korean i went to England and been yelled really racist comments and a bunch of another asians i know experiences the same. it just depends the time and place ur at and the people around you

@@soph9501 You know that UK is the roots of almost all ongoing conflicts in the world including racial conflicts.

J-baePop I experienced this. I got scolded by an ahjumma in church, in Korean because she thought I was but went to speak with others in English. I mean, yow. Why?

Well, the irony😏

Not really

who are you talking to?. After all, Koreans do more plastic surgery than other countries. (where's the racist?). you guys are racist because of your "pure korean" idealism. in the video it is clear that everything is racist, even when reacting to the child of this person (who "looks like" Southeast Asia), looks the child not the same as his father. they don't realize they are racist, you korean people are so pathetic.

@@Prabu_Noir 성형수술 1위 미국 그리고 2위 멕시코..애초에 한국은 인구수가 적어서,,

Cecelia Thurston you said exactly what I wanted to say. And an episode that really upset me was one of the recent ones with the guy that was from North Korea. The things he went through were so horrible. It's sad that after escaping North Korea he had more sufferings waiting from ignorant evil-minded people. In the end I felt like there was no true understanding or empathy from the panel about what he went and goes through. It's never really telling the viewers, hey stop doing this to people. It's usually telling the victim, "well maybe you can change your clothes or hair or the way you act or speak so people will accept you. You must be the one doing something to always get this type of negative attention". I think things will change sooner than later since Korea is being more exposed to the world. They're going to get more outside pressure not to discriminate, and get really called out for it like what's happening now. Since Korea is so image focused, they may conform quicker to look good to the outside, even if they don't really want to do it. Discrimination will never fully go away in any country, but at least a big dent can be eventually made. I'm glad there are people like Sam Okeyere working to change the negative stereotypes.

vonzilla you really pointed out some good stuff. the thing that I've noticed a lot about Korea. It's always about looks which I understand but does that mean throw away the insides too? The thing that I've noticed with this show and I'm not sure if it's just me but when they show someone who experiencing these problems they do it in "zoo" type way. what I mean by that is that they showcase the problem never address it. always saying that if only you did this or if only you did that which you pointed out. problems like these can't be fixed by one but by the many. I too am glad Sam okeyre is doing good.

Cecelia Thurston I understand what you mean about the "zoo" thing. That's why I don't watch this show much any more. It seems the serious cases never get any real help which is upsetting. That feeling when seeing people in desperate conditions walking away with what seems like no true or further help made me not want to watch much any more. It gave me a bad feeling on the inside and I realized I was starting to feel that almost every episode, which I felt probably wasn't healthy. So I stopped watching except for a show here and there. Hopefully behind the scenes they give people resources where they can get help if they choose to do so. The one good thing about the show is that it can get the person's face out there to help stop people from wrongly judging them. It shouldn't have to be to the point where you have to go on tv and literally say "hey I'm not this or that, so please leave me alone." But at least it seems to work for a lot of the people who have come on the show.

vonzilla wow what you said really struck home. I got that bad taste inside my mouth too. very icky. I watch abnormal summit now and it's much better compared this show in regards that I think most problems are actually being solved. or at least they attempt much more than this show. also is it just me but don't you think they make the lady who's a bit bigger than the average Korean feel ugly like in every episode?

Cecelia Thurston yea, if you're not really skinny, you're fat, even if the person is not big. There's never much in between area. Big is automatically considered unattractive, and fat is funny. I don't understand it. In the comedy shows like on Gag concert, I noticed pretty much every skit with one of the bigger comedians always has to do with their weight. And some of them I wouldn't consider that big. It kind of annoys me when let's say they have on an outfit that would be considered sexy, but simply because they are bigger it is automatically gross or funny and shouldn't be wearing it. And I'm not talking about an outrageous outfit, it could be something simple. And yes, on this show they are always making fun of Yeongja'a weight and she's not even that big. To me she's mostly just muscular and thick waisted. Sure, she's not an idol star, but she's not ugly. Her hairstyles are a bit questionable at times lol, but she's not ugly so I get tired of them making fun of her looks. I notice too that there seems to be a narrow definition of what's considered pretty. For instance, there are some female comedians over there that are pretty, but I've noticed that they are always bashing them and saying they are ugly or unattractive. Or their character is always the ugly unwanted person even though their face is the same and not changed to character makeup. Actually that annoys me here in the U.S. as well when there are TV shows where someone is playing the "unattractive friend" when the person is clearly attractive. Over the years, I've seen this a lot on shows for teenagers and younger children, and unfortunately they can absorb this while they're being taught what is considered cool or attractive. I try to remember it's just like how it is with Hollywood over here. If you're in the media, you are held to abnormal unhealthy standards of beauty and there is a lot of pressure to look a certain way. Even here in the US we are only just now at the beginning of getting people to accept different shapes and sizes. I will never understand the global viciousness towards bigger people. If someone is not attracted to it, fine, but why the attacks and anger and lashing out that I've seen? Why is it necessary to go out of ones way to give a mean comment to someone simply because of their size? I don't understand the violent nature of it. I know this is getting super long, but I just remembered something. You know the female comedian Gukju(not sure if I spelled that right) the one that was recently on We Got Married with Sleepy. Well I remember seeing her on Happy together once and they were asking her about the relationship with one of her really close actor guy friends who's considered really attractive, the whole "are you guys dating" thing. I think he is her best friend or something like that. And she was like she wouldn't even dare think she could be with him, and she was saying this because of her weight. And I was so sad for her and how she was putting herself down. I wanted so bad for her to know that just because she was bigger doesn't mean she can't get a good looking guy. Because of how society seems to be over there, she automatically excluded herself from getting an awesome guy simply because of what other people would say. I'm pretty sure she would get completely bashed by people if they thought someone was too attractive for her to be with simply because she's bigger. Actually, I heard that they bashed her at one point while she was on the we got married show and she went through a tough period. She seems to be an awesome person all the way around. I love how she continues to do her own thing even though she goes through a lot. I wonder too if some of her hot guy friends were interested in dating her, but didn't act on it because of what other people would say.

if happened to me, i will never go to that country again...never....

Yea i was traumatized, i refused to go anywhere that is not a muslim country. But after some time, i kinda recovered. That salty ahjussi incident was in 2012 so yeah, i went again after 4 years (after being persuaded by my friends lol)

i understand u..many of my friends and even my brother suggest me to visit Japan instead (talking about similar culture). and also Japan has more attractive places. i used wanting to go korea back then but not anymore..not even slight interest. i still remember read about one Malay guy shared his experience in Malaysia talking about korean visitor coming here and what happened was these idiots called our Malay men as dogs....this guy sadly understand hangul but he pretended like nothing happened. after reading that, i hate korean very much...but yet i have to believe not everyone has that kinda manner but most of them have...

orang melayu ni hodoh sangat ke sampai kena panggil anjing 😭😭

I personally didn’t experience getting racist innuendos but they called us fat while we were there. Yes, fat. I wanted to slap my BMI at them.

Its ok just be u they gonn be ignorant for life smh ,, first world country third world mentality

I feel like they meant to say Latin America but didn't know the right term lol

Kaylah 케일라 H o

Yeah but they have as much access to the internet as we do, that was a dumb mistake.

siempre se refieren a méxico como latinoamérica (y piensan que está en el sur) es como si américa del norte fuera solo estados unidos 😤

I don't think he is unhappy with his looks, I think he is unhappy about people mistreating him because of his looks.

Got7 Jackson "I wish people wouldn't look down on foreigners." he doesn't dislike the the way he looks, just how he's treated

Got7 Jackson Accurately. Why he should embrace how he looks? Malaysian are very handsome

He looks like Nazim Othman to me haha

Fatin Suhailah Nazim Othman look a like korean... haha