My husband swears at 6-year-old triplets [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.11] 

FR LIKE WTF

Right he wanted kids so much too, and now he's acting like this!!!? Sometimes I wish I was there to just scream at some of these guests smh

Not just after birth, imagine how much she must have gone thru before she got them. As a woman, how much the society mocks and backbites about her for not being able to get a child. How many questions she'd have heard all those 4 years! I wonder how much helpful he was during those hard times?

She's not raising 3 kids but 4 . Honestly I can't even imagine how hard it is just one kid is hard to raise but this father ..... Wow idk wat to say 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

She should divorce him ,so that the kids have a good life , if dey continue with him dere r chances for them to get derailed.

cherry bomb And that’s by Korean age. They were actually 4-5 here by international age.

Yess, It is not them who should understand him but he who should try to understand them.

He is just shameless person. How can he swear his sons. I can understand even if he tired or angry cause not easy to care triplet at the same time. But be patient and kind cause they are still kids. Really I want to hit him how he selfish person, why he live alone unmarried. He married a precious daughter of other parent. But he did not responsible on wife and sons. Shame on you. How dare he say they. need to understand on me.

Right, a lot of parents fail to recognize that kids aren’t mature enough to understand things and that patience is important smh.

Yeah they will never understand the father if he continues to act this way.

This happen to every women who's raised right my dad treat my mom as she came to my dad house just to cook and raise kids

Ruby Xynex Same. I really pity my mom and I.

@@_nour.m.2517 Same here

@@uxiah true

@@_nour.m.2517 Same

I know probably he didn't want to be a father in the first place, you can see how inmature he is still

Yaa, im a mom of 6 childs & i have one Triplets of 6 childs, im really happy cause my husband smile even when he get a Triplets cause my husband is a great photographer this moments is so wishlyy hope u guys get a Triplets with a Handsome/Pretty Triplets i got a Pretty Triplets 🦄💖💕😇😘!

@@akuaik.100 she said that they were trying to have a baby 4 years before they had her kids

@@eliciayazzie7706 well he’s probably one of those people who thinks women should look after their children or one of those people who thinks raising child is easy

Guys i just think this guy wasnt ready for triplets and wanted only one child

Same

Youre right

Same he only make things harder for her

Right?! Useless.

Ah, its better to not have her husband. She lives and does everything alone anyway

But some of them are thingking to having someone to takecare of there needs only.having kids are not a joke. Its a roller coaster😂😂

Kar Dengl Thank you so much. Finally someone points this out. I’ve only seen a handful of these videos and the majority of them involved these so called parents who don’t even think their children are children, much less their hopes and dreams in life matter. They selfishly put their interests first without a second thought probably because they feel like they are entitled to their behavior since they brought a child into the world. Seriously, that was your choice. The child didn’t ask to be here. Take some actual responsibility for your actions.

Snow Tigress PREACH!!!! And I love your name lololololol I don’t think I could have agreed anymore!!!

True..

Ik even though I don’t have kids people leave their kids with me sometimes and it actually feels like I have kids like I cook, change diapers, play with them and i understand how that mother feels. One time I had to take care of 5 kids at the park while the parents were sitting chitchating. I mean I don’t mind being with the kids but sometimes the mother needs to understand that I can’t just keep watching their children and two kids end up calling ME mom and they called their mother by her name.

They look exactly like the dad though

Yea but they were quite naughty but theres a chance tho😁they were cute😍

was thinking of imagining them in that one reality show, Superman. but then again their dad isn't likely to be a superdad.

They look like that little kid that fell in the runway in China.

@@ericacolin8463 omg you're right, they do haha.

Ikr!😍🥰 so cute

Aw

@@ZenitsuKunn you are being sarcastic right lmao ?

@@dimlumiere5659 lmfao I don't even remember why I even comment that ahsha

@@ZenitsuKunn hahaha i thought my sense of humour was completely gone TT

@@ZenitsuKunn cute xd

me in quiz after having a mental breakdown the night before

Trinity Tran lol so cute

@@dallysa5409 bitchhh I felt that. One time on a test I deadass got the question "how long did you study for this test?" And I answered "I studied 6 hours last night" the day she gave it back she said "Should've studied 10 hours" and I had a mental breakdown in the bathroom

@@dallysa5409 i laughed so hard!

I'm bouta think that Jin was the one who raised them🤔

thats so cute

Mom: *Please get off me children*

Ikr

Fr

표현 하시는게 너무 이뻐요.

I see what you did there. lol Cause the dad is a big child too.

I was totally about to leave a comment saying that the dad and kids can't get along because the dad behaves just like them. I don't mean that in a bad way. I just found it funny. Especially his reaction to the skull ring accusation. 😂 On another note, those kids are adorable. They act like my brother's 4-year-old set of twins. There's never a dull moment with those two. 😂

FACTS

No, he is not a kid. Because no kid can spend this much amount. And if he is a kid, then either she is a widow or a single mother. Then we have to look it from that perspective and no matter in what way you see, her suffering is unbearable

Lol that's trueee

30s isn't old, and I don't know why people make that out to be old.

Sora Gen Next frfr 😤

You must be a teenager to think that someone in their 30s is old.

Asiya Dahir she didn’t say they were old 💀

Sora Gen Next she didn’t even say that she’s old but sure

She

It's she

nah, he as in the husband....

Lmao

😂😂

Sehun Min lmao 😂

What is the ring number?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA they are going to look alike and gonna be hard to see on who is who, except when there is a name on the back of the uniform AHHAHA

Yasmin Mann then who is this show/episode appealing to?

Yasmin Mann lmao what does this even mean??

Thats so beautiful ~ u go !

YONG Same for me she always tells me to use a beautifying app when i take picture of her and to take a certain shoes so her tummy doesn't show but i really don't care about how she looks, i mean honestly she looks beautiful in and out to me, but i can never get it across to her...

You're so sweet

kema zaidon DAMN I WANT TWINS BUT AFTER SEEING THIS....I WANT 10 LOL JK BUT I DO FEEL SORRY FOR HER I HOPE SHE HAS A FRIEND SHE CAN LEAN ON!!!

That's how most Korean men are when they come on the show with their families. They want to get married and have kids but do absolute nothing to contribute. Still remember an episode where a Father kept wanting to get his wife pregnant (she already had 3 children and was pregnant) even tho she said she doesn't want to go through the hardships over and over because it's too hard to take care of all the kids while the Father is out there clubbing and drinking all the time. It's really sad hear.

*got her pregnant but refused to take care of his kids. irresponsible.

@@Ghost-qd8uj i remember that one too he was so selfish

@@Ghost-qd8uj was that the episode where the father is always out of town in parties and if not on parties, going fishing? And made his wife deliver the fishing pole while she holds all 3 children when crossing the street.

its Soha This is wht actually i want to write down here!!

Yess !!!!

Hahaha! You are right! He's an expert regarding this matter. 😂

i knew i will found their name in the comment 😂 Daehan Minguk Manse 💕

I was literally thinking about song appa 😂😂😂😂♥️

Dang that's what came into my mind TROS super dad

same!! daehan minguk mansae ... i miss them!!😭

Ikr

since their mom is pretty.

Dowoon & IN is the cutest maknae i mean their parents are also good looking

Bc that’s totally not creepy to say about children

The youngest is very cute

I think what her mom meant was that she thinks her daughter looks exhausted. (She still thinks her daughter is beautiful, and loves her unconditionally.) What she said, was her way of expressing how upset she is, that her precious daughter is having a hard time and the husband isn't helping.

Anna Jang Exactly! I don't know why people takes everything literally.

She is a great mom. She wants to get her daughter back who was always full of smiles and laughter. She wants her to have a happy life not like the current her that is aging from exhaustion and stressed out because of her husband.

@@anshd1306 it also just might be the way they translated it to English. When certain things are used in Korean it might be easier for them to translate it that way, so I agree with you. you can't take these translations too seriously.

actually in korean language her mom said her daughter is really beautiful (as shown in picture), not like as in translation u read but they make it like that they twist it to emphasize her upsetness at how her daughter went thru hell times and looks so worn out

but the difference is that Seungjae said that as a joke but this kid literally don't like his dad.

@@hahahappy7820 yup,so true

@@hahahappy7820 yes! Also, his dad truly made sure to put in effort to be there for his son. This is quite the opposite.

Yes, but that's a joke....he was so worried when he thought his father was eaten by a polar bear.

It also reminded me of Seungjae 🤣

Korean? Just Korean?

@@Amaranthyne its just men in general

真冬 Women stop loving their husbands, too. Just look how much this woman hates her husband (totally justified). I bet she went on this show to get full custody when she divorces him. I hope he pays tons alimony of and child support.

@@Amaranthyne No, women get really busy with raising children and work and other things they don't get as much time as before but men want to keep their normal life as it is, eating, sleeping, and working without feeling pressurized cause when they do they break they can't take anything.

@@Amaranthyne maybe if men also helped they both were more energized and had more time to spent together and were less tired.

Yes that's what i thought

Agree. Papa Song is a God!

IKR LMAO he needs to learn a tons from ilgook, the best dad.

EXACTLY!!! I even though that it would be better if Song Ilkook with DaehanMinguk and Manse visited! So Ilkook himself will give advice to the father

Financial difference

He is selfish

@@xinyixinisterx sigh~ he really is selfish. When his kids grow up imagine his children being afraid of him. He'd rather satisfy himself than help his poor wife🤦‍♀️ his obligations as a father is not just about financial help but being there as a father. Tsk i hope he learned his lesson, isn't he jealous when his kids hugged their mom and told the hosts they doesn't love him? Sigh~

Those children will grow to resent their dad, not respect him. And sadly, I don't think it's easy to raise children alone in Korea as a single mom. There is a stigma. But I definitely think the poor woman is trapped. This isn't ok. He is selfish and childish.

sandubu she’s such an awesome mom and understanding gentle wife I really hope that he changes his ways and starts valuing and treasuring his lovely wife and beautiful boys. It must really be exhausting for her 😔

my 4 kid life

Ikr. I think the little boy just wanted the mic lol

Yeah he seemed like he wanted to check the smaller mic since the bigger mic (that his sibling touch) had the soft foam

Im watching this at 4 an and laughing out loud

I dont know how this concern didn't get 200 votes...

OMG SAME HERE

Bruh

hi mom i love over 40 boys ah yes i miss the triplets 🥺

I was waiting for someone to say that.

Yas! Exactly 👌 i miss daehanie, Mingukie, and Manse 😍

@WANNABE Song IIkook a actor, and appeared on kbs superman with his cutie triplets 🙂

It took you this long to get it

Hanna _shii definately.. marriage required a lot of u both..

@@nuages8915 yes because i was to much in love now i being scare to get married

@@hannafrhn8278 Everyone knows marriage isn't easy, because it involves sacrifices and keeping the love going and still loving the other person even through their flaws. There are people who get married without testing everything out and then they find out they're not as compatible as they thought, and then they spend years and years together and miserable. If you really know who you love and are going to marry, then that's fine and there's nothing to be afraid of. Just sit down and ask questions to your partner to know if they're really who you want to be with and they can ask as well. Anything goes. No big secrets. If you know who you're going to spend time with, you won't be scared.

Mutual effort is a must or it will not work

Madison Rachel hahaha me too its too funny to handle

@ARMY/ ReVeluv Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜

alexa play BTS not here , stop it

"Why are you touching my breasts" IS WHEN I COMPLETELY LOST IT AND COULDNT BREATHE

When that one wanted to grab the Mic that was on her shirt and grabbed her boobs I lost it I started crying and wheezing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

extremely true

Happy wife is a happy life.

touched.

100% true

Theodore was 100% right.

yes when grown up later it will difficult to amend the relationship......been through it too.....very sad thing. just unlucky to be born in this type of family.

my dad is like this too. he curses at my 3 siblings (aged 5 to 14) and i. he doesn't help in housework and always demand us to do things. he rarely give us money to spend even though he work alot. my siblings are always scared of him (including me) especially when he comes home from work. and the irony is that he watches TROS, naeun and gunhoo. and he questioned me why wasn't i like naeun. i'm so puzzled... if he doesn't do his part to become a proper dad, how are we supposed to be close to him 😞

Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜

alexa play BTS LEAVE, this has nothing to do with bts.

@@alexaplaybtsbts463 stfu this is a serious topic

Watch them be K-pop idols when their older and then the dad wants to be nice to them

alexa play BTS this isn’t even related to the topic 🤦🏻‍♀️

Yeah, i feel the same🤦‍♀️

U can see from his face haha

It's pity.... That's why I don't like that kind of husband. No manners and irresponsible.

Ditto

its him who needs to grow up not them

@@yuriflowers4774agreed

when i heard him say that i was like, 🤬🤬

lol yaaas but cuter

Goo jun pyo😎

katy k 3 Goo Jun Pyos. That’s such a handful. 😩😩😩

You mean jung chanwoo??? HAHAHAHA

They look more like Mark of NCT. Hahaha!

Yes, and it's kind of sad to say but their speech seems a little slow for being 5 years old since the dad probaly doesnt communicate with them :(

@@joc-asmrtingles9860 actually they only 4 years old, korean age 5.

@@kulotjoy They are Korean so they are 5 in their country.

Swearing infornt of children is fine as swearing could be use to verbally convey emotions, but verbal abuse directed at them on the other hand is not okay.

He's saying that he will change if the kids grow up and be able to understand him but in reality, he's just making his kids hate him even more. What kind of mindset is this, smh.

carla marsha I like the fact that this has 69 likes 😁

Oh yeah, that's how a lot of men are.

Not even that, she got pregnant by in vitro.

so true.....they will regret it when they old later...

😂😂😂Really cute

*whispers* JYP

Omooo......mad respect for you...😄✌

WORD

@@pinklamborghini4787 20, turning 21 this year. Got pregnant a little early hehe

You are a strong woman. Hope you live happily with your daughter 😊

@@konnichiwa8762 Yes, I am living happily with my daughter. A woman becomes really beautiful when a toxic man is lessened from her life :)

Indeed. The part where he spent the money that was supposed to go to his sons had me boiled up -_- And Youngmi was right to call her a hero. He should be ashamed for not appreciating her.

I feel like this woman needs out. This man is not going to get better and is not willing to work at anything to become better. He is a child and she deserves better. Why work so hard and pay so much to have kids when you won't do anything for them beyond working? She works, too, and not just as a mom! Being the "man" of the house is no excuse for being an uninvolved, misogynistic, childish asshole.

He even said "I can't get any better than now" like please, your wife is becoming a better mother, wife and woman each passing day. Most of the time the mother would still settle with the father because they're afraid the society will bully her kids for having no father around. Yet having a father like this do more damage in their young age. I mean like on top of having expensive hobbies he smokes and drink heavily too. I'm gonna barf.

I don't know who the one freaking set the rules that every female needs to know/handle every single chores in the house and the one who said that male shouldn't lift a finger in the house. It can't come from a single person. It should be both to know to do things around house. I know some men will protest and say 'do women knows about theirs cars bla bla bla so don't expect men to know about chores' Lol it's 2019, males can do/learn to do chores and females can learn/do outside things too. It's never genetic to like to do chores. NEVER!

Can't believe the woman got stuck with someone so useless when it comes to taking care of *three* kids and helping out around the house.

Which is why he is a saint. 😂😂

Oh I miss them 😫

Sometimes it's hard to let people go even when they are wrong Lol it's a line from a song but it suits for this comment

@@NehaPesaramelli-q3c attempting? it was 6 years, he wont change suddenly because he was on a TV show

사랑Sharon's Channel lol. Future NCT Dream.

THEY ARE THE FUTURE NCT DREAM

Yay! First time ever get so many likes!!!! Thx!!!!!!

trueeeee

Yay! Someone also noticed

Their moms probably did all the housework+child raising so they grew up thinking their wives should do the same. My husband who spent 5 yeara in boarding school where he had to wash his clothes by hand still doesn't put his laundry away because he has a wife and two kids who help their mom with chores. I make it a point to rub it in that his son is the one that helps me the most with housework.

@@nomad82912 that's kind of my assumption as well; I feel like it's more of a reflection of his upbringing than anything. I'm just glad that the male hosts were just as disgusted with him like everyone else. As a previous comment said, it's like these guys don't understand the concept of sacrifice when you have kids or get married. You can't just do whatever you want and make decisions on your own. I can't even imagine having a husband who would spend money on these unnecessary things and not do anything to take care of the kids, it legit boggles my mind

Inhumane as well in my opinion. Have kids but put the responsibilities only on wife's shoulders. What a shame.

Honestly I think all guys who think like this should go through labor simulators

@MidnightFlower13 tell that bs excuse to Ko Jiyong.

*strong power thank u*

Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜

ikr,, i immediately remembered the song triplets' father when i was watching this

He seems like a nice man. I heard he also cooks at his home.

flawless_ 94 100% agree

This show isn't supposed to be actual counseling. it's just advice from famous people.

@@red-pu1jp No this show is supossed to bring awareness is not a treatment. The famous people are there to increase the views since teenagers and fans will watch and they promote their new albums, movies, songs etc

They tried , they had a psychologist before few years ago but is not like every psychologist will be comfortable to appear on TV or will know how to act in front of an audience. Sometimes he was a bit nervous and they just advise people to seek professional help after but I also think they should have a psychologist with them .

Yes I am totally agree with this comment.

Actually don't scream and yell at all. That's never a good solution. Family should have talk in calming manner without being passive aggressive, but if the parents already like that or even worse..most kids wouldn't bother to actually be nice to them.

I'm taking myself as an example, i don't feel a thing knowing they're sick. Like oh okay they're sick, so? And i always said "everyone in the world will die sooner or later anyway..so?". These traits has been developed since i was a kid. The environment i was in was like people don't give a two cent if you're sick or struggle, you have to do a LOT of thing, get society "standard success" and if you can't, you're an entitled bitch that deserve to be beat up. So imagine that! I was not being entitled, i was struggle emotionally and got sick but i got denied. One time i was very very very sick (6-7yrs old) and the hospital doesn't know/have the actual medical cure to treat me and instead give something lotion-eish to ease the pain from physically. And then just ate panadol. The family, the relatives, and even the people from the village even suggested traditional treatment which i had to endure it a lot. Took me 3months to actually ease the pain and slowly healing after..and in the midst of that, i took over a month of homeschool because i wasn't allowed to go school except during exam day and specific time. I passed them though because i got beaten if i don't. Lol.

Then i got that same kind of sickness again when I'm about 16, but not as severe as when i was a kid. The hospital just gave the same shit but with injection to "kill" the disease from within. I just said disease because idk what it was. At that time because i was a teenager, i still need to keep going to school and do other work whilebenduring the pain of over a month. I got beaten a lot too during that year. Then at 18yrs old, i got a some kind of poison from bugs/plants on Christmas Day, and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM family and relatives told me to toughen up and stop being self-entitled because to them that shit doesn't hurt. LOL ironically at that time, no one knew what it was. They just thought its just a mosquito bite and i might had diabetes that's why it was swollen. I totally lose all hope during that time. I finally realized that ahh even if im gone, no one's gonna care. They probably cry a day or two just to show their plastic fakeass self, but soon they'll be happy i'm gone. I had to wait almost 24hrs before my own mom brought me to hospital with my two younger brothers, and the female doctor (a foreigner) scolded me for not going to hospital asap. I had to tell her all the truth like i haven't got any car license, people still in celebrating mood and a bit of domestic abuse. She called my mother and she scolded her good while also stating the facts that i actually had less than one hour left to live as the poison almost reached my heart and that's why i can't moved my right hand to shoulder and even neck part. It was soo swollen about thrice bigger than my normal hand. People can even feel the heat whenever they touched it. I got admitted right then for 3 days. Here's a secret story: they have to use certain things that was actually allowed in medical standard but because i was in dire situation, they had too use and so i was survived. Thank you doctors😁

After that, whenever i got a series of illness, i didn't think of calling them first. I either go straight to clinic/hospital myself or get help from my besties or lover. Other people cannot understand me as to why i sometimes act indifferent, and always quick to blame me for whatever happened in life even if that's their life and I'm not involved in any way at all. During my oh-my-single years where i live by myself, i was especially lonely but i knew it was for the best because i can see who actually are the good people and who aren't. I'm actually old enough to get 2 to 7 kids at least like my friends, but marriage was never in my mind. Lol. Oh and I even got another sickness where i bleed a lot from my mouth twice (end of 2017 and mid last year), and only the female private doctor care about. The so called male specialist from the big hospital (unlucky me because the recommended pro specialist was on holiday) doesn't even know what it was and even had the nerve to say "So you're sick and bleed. What do you want me to do?". TF!? I was only give a penadol AGAIN. I complained that to the private doctor and she did all her best to help. I paid for all the treatments and medicine. My family and relatives? Oh heyy they just loved hearing the story. Not that i need their attention much because they're always like that. And now, I'm actually waiting to get meet another specialist to check my body because the last X-ray wasn't reliable enough to see what's the problem with things in my body. But the doctor did suggested to remove it surgically. The thing is i need to know what it is first before doing any surgically oepration. And as expected it's like a boring news to the family. Well, i'm used to it. I got things plan for this myself. Sooooooo umm im sorry, it got so long. A lot of things playing in my mind after watching this vid. I've been very indifferent since i was just a kid because of what I've mostly been shown to..along with living in a fuckedup environment and being different than the "woman" of Society's Standard. Even someone in the family, relatives or just in general passed away..i can't actually feel like i lose something like anyone normal. I do admit i can feel the sadness a bit for certain good people who lose their good someone, but that happened only a few times. I can feel sorry to anyone even strangers when they lose someone, but that's it. Idk what to do to comfort them after that. In conclusion of me telling all of this is..i do wish other kids wouldn't grow up to be emotionally indifferent like me or worse emotionally dead. Parents should care more about the kids rather than about themselves or other people just to save their face/pride. The "other people" shouldn't butt in and say meanest things, being passive aggressive or throw sarcasm remarks to a kid, a family or just about anyone. Like stop getting yourself imvolved, and just focus of taking care of your own family. Done😁

yea that is true, my father was so abusive and would yell a lot. Now, my older brother has a bad relationship with him and I don't really like talking to my father either. My older sister also has a hard time with him and now I don't even try because I know that's his personality. I really hate him.

He has a great wife too

@@nadnada5436 agree agree

you can't and you shouldn't

how old are you

Its OK cheer up~

@@ellie7646 I know but I'm trying my best

@@keerthana5691 I'm already 21 and my Son is turning 5 in July

Shruti Guna well Said. Kids 0-6 Yo is absorbing anything like a sponge. Anything, good and bad.

I don’t think he’ll ever truly change but rather adapt and become perhaps a tad more civil and less selfish. Talent or career should not legitimatize any such behavior he shows in my opinion. For experience I can honestly say that forgiveness and acceptance is still possible for him if he does stop his abuse, but love and longing from his kids he’ll probably never get again.

People like that don't change. My dad was like that and even cheated on my mum TWICE and did some other pretty awful things. On top of that my mum has had M.S (Multiple Sclerosis) for at almost 30 or more years now and stopped being able to walk and stand 15-16 years ago. I'm now 24 years old. They divorced when I was 7. Anyway, he still rarely ever visits and cares more about his current wife's daughter's kid more than he ever did with us. Sure, he'll drive me places, but I still give him £5 for petrol. He also took money out of my older brother's savings account when he was still a baby. Money that my grandmother put in for him. Only to have it taken by our dad. Plus, all he ever cared about was airplane models, boat and car models. Whenever WE needed something, he couldn't care less and only cared about his own hobbies. My mum had to pay for most of our things and thanks to dad, we almost ended up broke. Oh and to top it off and pout the icing on the cake, my dad is thousands of pounds in debt and STILL owes money to people. I don't know if you've had a crappy dad or not and I don't know what kind of life you've had, but it sounds to me as if you haven't experienced that. You wouldn't be saying what you've said if you had.

@@ReptilianTeaDrinker I am really sorry for what happened.... you are right I might have not experienced the worst. But it's not bad to give the person (in this case the triplets dad) a chance to change right? 😊 it is just my opinion and I really do respect your view too! Hope you are well now😊😊 and I am really sorry for what happened 😢

@@ShrutiGuna Thank you. :) I respect your opinion and views. Sorry if I sounded harsh. I didn't mean to seem like that. Hope you have a great day! :)

so true.....

Im sure they will tbh

He's just lazy