I'm 26 years old, I have no boyfriend, have no friends but I am the happiest I have ever been??? 

I agree!!! ❤

I’m your friend. We friends now.

I totally agree! And you have friends here. You’ve brought me joy and peace during a scary time in my life with cancer. I can’t thank you enough for that!❤

Julie! I love your videos! I too love and enjoy being alone and you're right the less people you have in your life the less drama it's pretty darn peaceful and I love it here 😊🙏❤️ P.S Mochi is the cutest!! 😍🐶❤️

@@MiSSKBG88 be my friend

Life doesn’t stop at a certain age lol that’s a misperception that people have. Age is literally a number.

Needed to hear that Thank you

I thought 23 was old at 18. 😂 Here I am at 23 realizing how young it is and how my expectations were way too high

@@agees924 when I was 12 we all all thought 30 was old loool x

but if we don't hurry and achieve things we want then we will be falling behind

I'm sorry for your loss 😢

@@kawhite33 Thank you so much ♥

@@DesireandLoss92it feels like my life is over and I’m only 20. I lost my mom at 15 so I know how you feel. Best of luck to you❤

@@jariaturner2618 I am so sorry for your loss. Losing your parent young is devastating, I was 21 when I lost my mom. Your life is definitely not over and you're so young still, you really do have so much to look forward to. Get through the rough years so you can enjoy the golden ones. Sending love to you ❤

hi and gm to you 💕💓

Loll

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i dont know you but i am so happy for you. i'm 25 and totally feeling the same way about holding onto childhood trauma etc. working on it! congratulations on your wedding!

Thank you ❤ it’s a process but it gets better. Keep doing what you’re doing - you’ve got this!

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💞 This is what we girlies love to hear! You’re giving so much of us hope for the present and the future 🤗✨

so happy for you❤️ congratulations for your wedding!!

Your comment is so full of positivity that it actually makes me feel better about my situation. 😅 congratulations on your wedding btw! ❤

@@atjuliebe your friend my name is Jayden

@@atjulie be your friend

She said she was 31 in a different vlog so idk what’s true 😭

@@slackjaw2643where did she say that?

Same girl same 💓

But at 26 you’re not even a “young” women anymore let along a girl lol. “Young” adulthood is defined as 18-25 at max and when you’re 26 you’re past that lol your literally just a mid twenties adult lol

@@louish2037What an idiotic comment. Get help.

@@louish2037uh obviously she’s not talking about physically being 26, its about how she feels inside

Same 🥰

Those noodles she's eating are VERY hot. How she eats them without breaking a sweat is beyond me. They also make a 2x spicy and 3x spicy version. I couldn't begin to imagine how excruciating it would be to eat the hotter ones.

If you want to feel better, I am 33 years old single woman, no boyfriend and still strugling with my career. Most of my friends already got family n stable n dream job and here me still strugling and no future or goals of what to do in my life. But still finding and finding. Anxiety and worry getting higher and higher. Hope it will end soon.

@@nurhashimahzaba8723 Who's says that you're meant to have those things? Who's says your meant to have them soon? What if you don't ever get them? What if you'll get them, but later? What if you get them and they're not satisfactory to you? Pictures of how you or others think should be or ought to be as well as expectations aren't reality. Take your time. A tree grows in the timing it's meant to. Worrying doesn't add a day to your life as Christ said. The more you worry, ironically the less likely you'll probably find your answers because your mind will be too scrambled to think straight. You need to do the opposite and be still. Stop trying so hard to figure it all out, you'll just spoil the present moment and rob yourself of peace. Hope this helps.

Jesus makes every situation ok..

​@@pamelamorrisonnAmen Jesus Christ is the ONLY way to salvation 🙏🏾❤️

what the fuck, I'm trying to put myself in the shoes of your friends and i don't think id ever tell my friend to get over the death of their parents like that, let alone show no support. I'm sorry that's been your situation. I hope you're doing well and sending you hugs

I hope you feel better soon ❤

girl same thing here, I guess my brain is still developing at 25 lol hope we both feel better soon

im 22 turning 23 this year and i literally feel like i'm behind by like 4 years. doesn't feel nice. i feel like at this age i should have a stable job or at least one waiting for me but that is far from the case. i'm still rotting in school, working part time and barely getting hours. cultural expectations are just so sad to be in. all the best wishes to all of us :(

@@notoriousalien hey I actually got my first job at 23, so don't worry, everything will come at the right time for you

Everything will be better.. it is in your hands…👍🌻🌻🌻🌻🥰🥰🥰🥰

Interesting ur 😊same as my mum 😅

i will be you’re freind.

well honestly ur living THE life

@@aestheticpeoplelikeme5118 I find romanticizing and appreciating the journey helps !

Same ❤

@burgerkang3249 imagine having such a low life you resort to mass replying on comment threads on RU-vid to get a thrill out of insulting strangers. Yikes...hope u get the attention you crave.

lmaoo@burgerkang3249

I never had it and I wish I did. Someone was always in my life and I hated it. I was surrounded by people but the loneliest I ever been. I moved away from them and now I'm back and I once again dislike it. I think I was made to be with someone alone together. (Like the Steven Universe episode)

Peace is priceless ❤

I’m so glad for you, I have to admit I’m struggling but there are days where I’m okay.

you cannot be happy like that no one is I’m in the same position as you but i want friend’s i don’t wanna lonely you will regret saying that in years to come please don’t live life that that you should enjoy you life not be alone you may feel happy about it but it doesn’t have to be like that.

@@raquelt1250don’t think like that you just need good people in you’re life no is meant to be alone.

im 22, likewise

you are still young when you get older you will feel different you have you’re whole life ahead of you to find a boyfriend.

I'm married moved to a diff country, and i have 0 friends.😢

@@littlebean7764 Your spouse is your best friend. Before that person was married to you, that person had a background of being your friend. You 2 ended up building a bond, then you 2 dated and got married. You have 1 friend and that 1 friend is your spouse. Not a good time to trade your spouse for fake friends. If you see value in your partner, then you realize you have a best friend. A good friendship is not about numbers and it is not about whether it is platonic or romantic. A friend is still a friend. Like it or not, your spouse is the only who had been there for you which means you nobody else is a better friend than your spouse. Only way you have 0 friends now is if you and your spouse are divorced.

@@littlebean7764 how old are i will be you’re freind.

you had negative people in you’re life thats why you need good people around you.

your "journey of solitude" for a year or two. so strong... NOT

your comment really inspires me. i am turning 25 this year and i always planned to live my 20s slowly and enjoy myself, but ive been caught up with all the social pressure around me to be in a relationship. hope i can take my time and later become a happy mom just like you one day :)

@@hoseokimchi7605 love this! Enjoy your 20s you deserve it :) you’ll look back one day and thank yourself 💕

starting off with what I eat in weekend tho 🤓

Yees please 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤

Yes please! And ENJOY THIS TIME IN YOUR LIFE. I look back now at how I couldve appreciated my 20’s more. Wish I would e been single for more of it. I wasted alot of years dating jerks and losers

@@deecohen1383do u remember any of ur teen yrs cause im 14 and feel super old☹️

Thats a big lesson and good for you to learn at your age :) it took me waaay too long to figure it out. Good luck on your journey, we all start somewhere!

@@PantsOnTheCeiling thank you :] I guess my parents not being apart of my life just made me more mature in a way, mentally and physically, it's hard everyday but I'm learning a lot of things even tho life is throwing a lot of stuff at me

Amen to that hun

Say it louder for the people in the back

💜

enjoy the peace and solitude 🥰

Thats what I wanted until I got pregnant. I thought I was doing the right thing by keeping her, but if I told the story, I should've had an abortion

@@ExtraStuff-es3fw Since you went dark with your comment, I'm going to go a bit darker with mine, lol. I'm a 44 year old man and my mom had me when she was 17 and she was thinking about aborting me (I believe in abortion btw) and honestly, and it would have made complete sense at the time. However, she was a party girl at the time and would have gotten pregnant again anyway. Its taken me 15 years too long than I originally planned (I was hoping for her to enjoy life a bit more in her late 40s), but I managed to build my stocks back up after 10 years of grinding my $3M worth of screw ups. I'm still a lonely recluse (and I prefer it that way, its the reason why I was able to cheat things a bit), but my mom will get to enjoy her remaining years as a result of me being an extremely resourceful loner and putting up with 15 years of pain and stress, May your daughter bring you happiness and fortune in many different ways.

Hi 👋 I know how you feel. I lived like this for a few years.

@OmiPre it's not nice at first is it. But you adapt to life I guess

i'm exactly in the same position and i feel u

Friends are hard work. Just do family hangs ❤

​@@mary5528 I definitely agree with that ❤

@@mary5528 compared to a boyfriend? no they arent lol

@@citrusangel9488 once your married , family and husband are heaven. Get a husband

But she hasn't achieved anything though

@@Jake_808she doesn't have to that isn't her worth, loving yourself is enough everything else a choice

Yes me too. I'm 26 right now and very happy, but if I think of 40,50,... I'm getting scared. Being young and alone is something completely different than being old and alone

@@blablablablabablubbi You are gonna be just fine! Ofc things get lonely, but you are creating yourself, enjoying yourself, all that makes you feel great; and then you’ll be able to share your wisdom with others, there is nothing more attractive than experience of life and you’re still so so young, both combined will definitely make people want to be around you :)

@@nep3080 oh that's such a nice comment :) very rare for youtube! Thank you for your uplifting words :) I could say the same to you

keep coping

thats sad you rather be alone at 36 .

Im wishing you all the best ❤

fr. I'm tryna live life just like that.

same here i just broek my engagement and cut off a few toxic friends. felt pathetic until i saw her video@@pastel_bear_3876

Exactly 💯💯 I've been craving this peace my whole life, I'm 19 now and I want to live like this forever 😊

It’s your golden birthday!🥂🥳🥳!! I hope you really enjoy it and your doing great 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫂🫂

@@Mahkhumalothank you so much! I’ll definitely celebrate it to the fullest🤗 hope you have a good day as well

Did you make any friends? And damn that's a lot of exercise...Did you changed ur diet too

@@Geoghegan-gu9bs yes, I changed my diet slowly so I could adapt to it. The diet had been getting better month by month since I hit the gym. My friends circle stays the same but i broaden up my social relationship after 3 months of hitting the gym as i was getting more confident irl. I hang out a lot with people but it is hard to be real friends tho.

this isnt far off from my life. I swear I see her eating and I knew immediately she doesn't actually feel good because I see my old self in her. I would binge the same way. Now I have a diet that takes care of my body and go to the gym often. These have been the biggest actions of self love i coould do and i encourage everyone to try it. That and therapy of course! Good on you for hitting the gym and making moves in your life btw. I love seeing it

Dam that’s sooo good keep it up😊👍🏽 her eating concerns me like she might be fine with herself cuz she could filling an empty hole with food. Idk I don’t want to say too much cuz we never know all the details. But there’s gotta be more than what’s she’s doing rn 🤷🏽‍♀️🫠

I'm 24 it's only now I'm starting to try to take better care of myself It's hard sometimes but we'll figure it out 😂

same

Church Is a great way to meet new people. But remember Christianity is about being forgiven by Jesus for your sins and going to heaven.

i'd say try to socialize in different places besides church, maybe if your kid is old enough to go to school or nursery- like places, you can socialize with other parents, or try some hobby/sport if you have the time! nothing against church, but i feel like it can be a community too closed sometimes, and having other options and a broader view is always better :) good luck!!

​@@MBltotry volunteering! U meet all sorts of people of all ages races and religions. And since they're doing work for free, they're usually the kindest people ever!

Never, ever assume that anyone is a good person just bc they call themselves a Christian. There are wolves in sheep's clothing everywhere. Likewise, there are some really good people who are not Christian, they may be Jewish or Hindu or any number of religions or they may not be religious at all but still have high moral standards.

As someone who grew up christian all I can say is be careful because they can be some of the most judgemental and fake people you will ever meet. They can also be the biggest killjoys. Can't do anything without them calling it a sin or mentioning god in every single conversation. That being said. I do have one Christian friend and she's one of the best people in my life. Just be aware of people and their intentions if you can

im in the same position too

don't substract. add :) so add healthy things like a fruit a day. i'm also trying to stop my intake of junk food.

shes literally k*lling herself with the food she eats but ok

i heard that they add addictive stuff to their food. You can eat MacDonalds every day, but you need to learn when to stop n how much your body can take with daily exercises added. Although not healthy can be done of course.

This is truth. The addiction comes from the “golden ratio” of salt, fats, and sugar. These giant food corporations literally hire scientists and researchers and put a lot of money into developing the best taste, best texture, and they also do a lot of marketing as well. The app is also specifically created to make you use it more. Your money is their priority, not health. Glad you stopped!

i am currently going through what you had went through right now. its so hard to stop going back to mcdonalds especially with the app deals (ive collected so many points due to how much i go there every week), how near it is to my home and i am not a great cook either so mcd just fills up my tummy so conveniently. but unfortunately ive gained so much weight from that.. im going to try and stop going to mcd after my birthday which is coming soon. hopefully i can suppress my urges :")

I was literally searching for a comment about this. Most of the foods in this video have loads of engineered chemicals that make your brain light up and literally want more...not far off from taking drugs really. These chemicals and ingredients are cheap and addictive to make you want more. They mess with overall health and hormones, weight gain, mood, pretty much everything. McDonalds is probably the worst of the worst. I would know having been a food addict at one point. I hope she doesn't go too overboard because it's tough going back up the slope

I know right, but I can’t help but feel sorry for her. No one should be eating this much junk food :( I’m not trying to judge but I used to binge a ton and I definitely wasn’t happy.

@@nggapraying4392 i agree, she seems like such a sweet person but i can't help but feel a little concerned. she did mention she was working towards a healthier lifestyle though, so let's just hope it's temporary!

It’s going to cause so much problems for her in the future, everything in moderation

She is eating way too much junk food… you can already start to see the effects…

@@jasxteo i was thinking I was the only one in the comments that noticed this. I only say this because i was once in a place of binging foods like this and I did nooooot feel or look good.

Amazing to retire so young. Indeed use this time and have fun …. I just envy you as I feel I am postponing my life day after day and never have fun nor fulfilling any of my dreams … like I am loosing the time I have 😢😮

How did you retire so young? 😢 Most of the people foraged to work till death

Just so you know, you can live your life to the fullest with a partner too 😅. Find one with the same or similar values; it can only get better from there.

@@eatnplaytoday it's kinda sad this has become the new norm. Individualism has really hit it's peak these days. No one really needs anyone anymore like we used to. I have to agree that a full life can be lived with the right partner

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We all struggle to eat something. But just know about the appetite that suits which food you want to eat. ,No matter how much you eat, like a lot of junk food and fatty foods for example, the appetite will naturally change overtime.

@@bbtund81 lmao the appetite will never naturally change to prefer healthy nutritious un-processed food by binge eating fatty simple carbs with addictive chemical additives. it will just make you obese like nearly half of americans already are.

noelle is right, I was beginning to think i was the only one noticing this. I would know as I used to binge out myself and i definitely was not in a good mental state. Finding a diet that nourished my body with nutrients helped me stabilize my mood and was a major form of self love.

literally I was about to get emotional for some reason but then I see the dog😭

​@@meowmraowyou should get emotional Iver the dog to

Exactly!! Mochi and mom is all she needs

Your life sounds great dude, you have two little blessings :) you're right about the romance thing to. I only realised that as I got older and gained some space and peace.

Girl I’m 20, single and friendless too🤧 we gon be ok tho😭

@@HoneyBaby3369✊🏽😣