Yes she is good. She knows how to follow up on questions and how to pin you aganist the wall whete you cant get away...not with hostility but fencese...
Relebogile's interviewing skill are on another level. She can ask without breaking the train of thought. She goes deep in a subtle way that's not heavy. Great interview
This is a man who have told himself the truth. I think other divorced men should take counseling from him. I have respect for this man because he admitted his mistakes and he is definitely coming to terms with them. I understand his position. He comes across as still in love with his ex-wife but as he said, a lot has happened.
1.A fool 2. A child 3. A king Enlightening indeed... Total honesty throughout the whole interview... He real didn't try to be smart... You can tell he was himself
Best episode by far 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾So candid and honest. Getting a man's opinion about divorce was quite refreshing. Thank you to the Pastor for allowing himself to open up to us. I learned so much from the interview
As a twice-ordained female minister, (in the US) let me just say this man is speaking so much truth. The pressure on male preachers to get married is fierce! I can see that he has been hurt and scarred deeply by looking his family and by "the church" its rules and expectations. Men who watch this please note...when your woman/wife says she needs or wants something twice, STOP and attend to it before she says it a 3rd time!!! I would like to know where he is and how he feels about ministry now. I'm praying for him and his family.
I now have great respect for Ps Phiri. You really became vulnerable in this interview and I can see your genuineness. I am a Pastor myself and I can relate
Are you dating ? Yes or No I'm dead.........😂😂😂😂😂😂 Relebogile you are one of a kind, what I like more about you is that , when you ask the questions you are so calm and collected you don't dominate the interview but you give an interviewee a chance to speak his mind out Well done you! You are the best ! ❤ all the way from..🇬🇧
God want us including the Pastors to be holy as he is holy, not sinners as the devil, we don't have to be half holy and half evil. We must have the mind of Christ not mixed with the mind of the devil.
Relebogile you hit it straight.He loves his exwife but didnt know how to love. He needed time with his wife. Thats all she wanted.Pastor Phiri may God guide you.I listened to your sermons and they were powerful.May God bring you back together in love.At least you have really searched and now you know people, know yourself and now live your life.
After how much damage because he see himself as a pastor? He was supposed to find himself first before he went anywhere near a pulpit. Part of the interpretation was supposed to reveal his true identity so that he can function effectively as a pastor but for some reason his professor missed that important part of scripture.
It's unfortunate that we are quick to see right and wrong (being judgemental). God is not judgemental, and he advised us all against being judgemental. But he teaches us to truthful all the times. Your truth is forever changing whether you like it or not (pastor or not). When you understand this truth, you will know that we are forever creating ourselves with the new truth. All human beings recreate themselves daily with the new truth, and creation is never ending. In this process we find ourselves
I think the greatest issue here is the inability to balance priorities in family life.every family needs at least enough money to fulfill needs and want of the modern life.but the quest for money to save us from poverty should not destroy our priorities in life and family life.while I admire the honesty of this pastor at the same time I think he fell into the trap of darkness by not balancing his priorities as a family man,pastor and businessman and going over board into the valley of no time for wife and kids.
I love his honesty, and him not being spiritual about the whole process. As sad as it may be to see someone like him divorce, it is our responsibility to learn from the mistakes of others.
This is by far the best episode ever and i was dreading it Relebogile. Yhe most authentic interview ever. I must commend you for your interviewing skills where people do not feel the need to defend themselves as they do not feel attacked. They freely express themselves. Thanks Mr Phiri for your authenticity, it felt real
I agree with you. I could tell that the Pastor was convicted by the proper questions she asked and I am sure he will work harder to improve himself. Relebogile is the best.
I always loved Ps Piri becaI feel his genuine only Ps that I used to watch on TV when I did not attend church now his honesty about his life just put a stamp of my AGEPE love for him.... My God keep on do miracles in your life and you find your feet again.... As for Relebogile well done gal that was a fruitful beautiful interview 😍😍😍😍
I love His heart..but is seems like he is a theologian pastor..took pastoral because he studied..there is a difference between being called and being theologian..is very good and powerful to study..but the calling of God is not based on where you studied or what you studied..is a covenant based relationship between God and man..many in the bible they didn't have to study first before taking up the call..and then God Himself qualifies you..and take you through the process..spiritual things can't be only studies,have to be revealed..and even people who studied like him also do shenanigans..and mislead people..is not about studying..is about being faithful to your God..and pray that oneday they get back together. Because life can come with some serious temptations..and the grace of jesus is sufficient for him too..i hope the wife heals too.💓
The proper thing is not to be under all these people and say I am a pastor.That’s why they were asking Jesus who gave you permission to do what you are doing because Jesus never attended their colleges.
You are a good man though May God bless you and forgive you.All you said is very true .As a pastor’s wife sometimes you have to suffer for the sack of protecting the church.Because you don’t want to destroy the church
It is important to ask God to give you a woman who love God first at times she can be in the church and be possessed or have a spiritual husband and the devil will use her to destroy the church
I've been watching your show for a few weeks now, but it was this episode that made me click the subscribe button. I absolutely love your style of questioning, your compassionate spirit, and the authenticity that shines through your conversations with your guests. He was so real, I felt his experience. Maybe because I too am divorced and remarried and want to get divorced again, idk. You have a new subscriber, all the way from Nassau, Bahamas. Great show! Nah, great shows!
Thank you Pastor for being real and vulnerable. I love how you spoke about healing as a man cause mostly we think healing is only for women. Relebogile I think this particular one needs a part 2. Pastor Phiri has a lot to share and we can also send questions prior to Part 2 . You are doing an amazing job Sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Relebogile Mabotja this show is an institution every show has lessons. I literally learn something new instead of being stereotypical. As a man and not being able to provide can really shift a lot of focus. This pastor is REAL and that's what we want REALNESS! May your show and yourself grow strength to strength
I liked his honesty but I can see where things went wrong. 1. None of them were ready for marriage. 2. She should have gotten a job and try to find her way. 3.They weren't ready for children. They didn't have a plan. Christians are humans but we need to be very careful.
I CAN NOT imagine the labor for women trying to bring "kings" out of "fools", I hope at the very least they are financially compensated for those projects.
So embarrassing , you should not even publish this to the world that you are a divorced pastor .What did you teach the flock? Don't be proud of your theology be proud of God's word. I believe there's something fishy here what did you do to your wife that you dirvorced ? You seem to be very happy even when you relate.How did you speak or fight for those who can't mmmm ....fishy again.
@@daisyngwenya9082 Who are you? So in all that was said in the interview…….you come up with a judgemental rant…..pls sit down. You obviously can not discern honesty.
I know a very powerful man of God who did not go to Bible school. He doesn’t rely on a human being to teach him the mysteries of God. No single human being can do that. How are you taught God mysteries? It’s God himself who reveals. Holly Spirit is our teacher, our advocate. I have learnt very little from most pastors. Their teachings are not motivated my the holly spirit.
The church still needs a way to deal with divorce, I went through it, and I was literally treated as an outcast, I still dread the moment! Church can destroy you, ba tla o hurda!!
"The church folks are very judgemental " That hit so deep, having been raised in church was I know exactly what you talking about. I don't think I was judged by society the way I was judged in church. I fully understand why when people say they don't wanna go to church coz church people are so messed up, they forget that we are all human, we make mistakes and we have to learn from them
Absolutely. One's truth will have to be told regardless. I usually emphasize that marriage is a dual-faced venture. It can offer pain or sweetness, depending on the parties involved. It therefore should be approached with maximum caution when aiming to get into it,
I am glad the pastor is not blaming anyone but himself,for neglecting the family.many divorce cases are from being neglected if its not abondonment. Thankyou so much ,I wish many men can learn from this episode. 💯
Your comment is honest. He might have been pressurised to marry but the choice of a partner was absolutely his. They didn't bring that specific woman by force to him, he chose her. Blame shifting is not acknowledgement of your failure. Ignorance of what type of personality temperament was suitable for him led him to his choice and misunderstanding of the needs such a personality led to marriage failure. Let's learn not to blame others for our choices. 💜
If we were to believe in this pressure angle of matters, then we should also acknowledge that the real reason for the breakup was the realization that he actually did not love her hence his refusal to give her his time/love. The second thing here is that he discovered that he was a business man and did not like being a pastor anyway. I think he alluded to that in this interview. He sounded very honest here but some of the things he said makes one to think there are more things than meets the eye here.
Wow what an interview, just praying for the King to re unite with the Queen who made him to be this full with wisdom, just loved this show mam keep them coming you are a 🌟
Relebogile ngwanešu, you are perfectly poised hle. I'm really taking notes from you. You are a well of knowledge - you come on the job with so much research and you come correct.🔥 I'm binging on this channel as we speak, just for you. 🥰
Thank you Pastor for being transparent…it takes a lot to admit your mistakes as a pastor and be so open about your personal life. There’s so much for us to learn as Christians l guess, we need to walk in true love…
what a very interesting interview, I hope God restores everything he lost. I have the same problem as him, I focus more on myself and what I am doing more than people who're closer to me.
I can relate to some of the things here, I was an evangelist, and recused myself from the pulpit when my marriage collapsed, this was the best desiscion I took. It removed me from the lime light, and gave me the time to fix me.
I know Pastors that did not go study theology. I mean people that had been taught by the Holy Spirit and live as such. They have planted churches, evangelise and conduct discipleship.
Thanks Pastor, I am a Young Divorced Pastor like u n honesty I really relate to ur story. I only wish My X Wife will allow me to talk to her, not to make up bt to go separate ways in good terms.
No, I think you should be talking to a counselor, especially a trained professional marriage counselor. Not a fellow pastor because pastors (who are mostly men) will only tell the women to stay and endure all the problems in their bad marriage. Seek advice from a trained marriage therapist to get unbiased opinion and protect your privacy from your church elders. Remember this in your next marriage. Good luck
The fact that he doesn't point fingers at his ex wife and actually acknowledging his mistakes says alot about him ...Pastor recollect yourself and remarry your wife now you know a way better to make your marriage work ...God bless you Pastor ....nna tota ke maketse it's a first to hear monna a ipona phoso and a amogela gore o phoso this gender ena le pride kkana😂😂😂
@@patrickcannell2258 I have heard alot of preachers with degrees and PhDs wrongly interpret scripture. I do not have a degree or diploma in theology but interpretation of scripture is good. I attended a theology college but deregistered because I did not agree with certain interpretation of scripture.
Relebogile is so smart, she's so spontaneous with the questions n she ask things we really want to know.... Just subcribed n set on the notification bell💃💃💃💃
Wise words. WE need to change the way we train Pastors. We need to include other courses in the curriculum. When i returned to South Africa in 2004 after many years doing ministry in other nations, i realised the importance of having other qualifications. I studied IT Engineering. Apart from Ministerial and Pastoral qualifications, I am Internationally certified as a Network and IT Security Engineer and a Data Recovery Professional. Bible Colleges need to add a component of other courses into the curriculum. It is imperative.
