Castillo sits down with his first love, ex girl friend Riette because he feels he owe's her a big explanation. INSTAGRAM: @trendcentrl TIK TOK: @trendcentrl.com For sponsorships and collaborations visit: www.TrendCentrl.com
Despite people's feelings of Castillo this poor woman didn't want this video going out and should not have she didn't choose this to happen to her just more black people tearing each other down for a little fame and money
@@lilithrosa9309 men can love women, most men are just brought up to believe they can get away with stuff like cheating. Don’t use anyone I don’t agree with that. The problem is how we raise men and women right from childhood. Women are always told there virginity is precious, men aren’t told that. Women are told not to have sex with people because they can get pregnant, and they’re even told men can get away with it because they’re not the ones that’ll be pregnant. So most men think it’s okay to cheat. Personally I think it’s stupid to think it’s okay to do something you know will hurt your partner
In a weird kind of way Joseph actually comes across as a nice guy. If most of you can get pass your outrage at his historical behaviour with regards to cheating and his seemingly cold and unempathetic feelings towards his family and child. It actually becomes very very clear given the trauma he experienced throughout his formative years as to why he felt/feels this way. The situation is a tragic one, hopefully he'll continue to heal and gain some type of closure and liberation going forward.
@@savagejama6501 He didn't HAVE to say it. He is gaslighting her with what he is saying and the moment he mistook what she said his reaction wasnt pleasant, yet she has to sit there and be triggered!
@@CC-mms how is that gaslighting?? U idiots think because you use certain words your automatically intelligent and correct?? He knew she didn't cheat because he knows the type of woman she is.
As a man, I think Castillo tried his best to explain himself. I don’t I have even heard a man ever admit that getting girls is an manhood accomplishment. Or a man brave enough to admit it was a coping mechanism for all his failures. But now when I look back. A lot of players use “getting women” to rub it in other men’s faces. This is why a lot of players will get tired of sleeping with single women and purposely go to sleep with other men’s girls and girlfriends, or even talk to the girlfriend’s guy behind his back. It’s a sick way of trying to feel you are “better” than other men and a coping mechanism of “if I am not good enough as a man, I can still screw your chick, and I will know and you won’t know, and that makes me feel good” it’s that sense of thinking that drives men to sleep with other men’s wives and girlfriends. I was never able to pick two and two together, but now, I am able to see it. Also, when Castillo was saying it’s not the same thing. I think what he meant is that, men can cheat and not be emotionally attached. Women usually, when they cheat, the relationship is over, since usually women tend to be emotionally involved. So the problem is he called it “love”, she is right, you can’t love a woman and cheat on her. Castillo is maturing but I don’t think he is still there yet to understand, having an emotional affection towards a woman does not mean you love her. He had feelings for her, but he did not love her. A man can have feelings for a woman and still screw around because we can seperate feelings and sex more easily than women. I think that’s what he was trying to say. That’s probably why he didn’t want to explain it because he did not even understand that it’s not love you have for her. It’s feelings. Kudos to being open and honesty, and kudos to giving her the cold harsh clarity that she needed. Hopefully she can heal and I actually hope she finds someone who will treat her better. Personally these two should not be together, he has put a really huge scar in her, she will heal but the scar will remain. And it’s never a good thing to be around someone who left you with permanent marks. The disgust in her face tells me, even the sideways looking and talking to him in such a condescending way like, “so you think now you can support a child”, that tells me she is completely done and absolutely has no respect for him ever. Fellas, if a woman reaches this point. Just apologize to her, make the things you have to make right, pay every thing you didn’t pay her, then leave. It’s over. Done!
@@JAY-jk6dh bro. you cant move past shit like this unless you’re genuinely remorseful, it’s not in the past if you’re still making excuses for it instead of making up for it
Not condoning his actions. But how can he be ‘finished’ when he’s been telling everyone from day 1 what he’s like & that he’s a player… and girls still run after him full well knowing that cos they love their bad boys, Regardless. Sounds to me like its more the girls who are ‘finished’ for *knowingly* making poor choices in men. But hey. Dont shoot the messenger 🤷🏽♂️
Speaking as a man, I can see that he's ultimately a toxic person and a narcissist, regardless of how nicety and calmly he presents himself to people. He compartmentalises and justifies in quite a sociopathic, detached way. Do not get into a relationship with this charming, manipulative sociopath.
@@themarathoncontinues4211 No, but I think it's important for other men to acknowledge it. Anybody can be fooled by a manipulative, sociopathic person, man or woman.
@@dylanblue2271 100%. I agreed with most of what you’ve said, but the last sentence telling women not to get into a relationship with him was interesting - I don’t think any women are planning to/want to be in a relationship with this guy logically. Unfortunately, some will fall trap to his games due to a combo of factors
@@themarathoncontinues4211 Fair point. I agree. I think we all need to be better at understanding ourselves and other people, and avoiding negative patterns and behaviours.
Men rarely stay with women who were with them at their lowest. Why? Because when she look at him willnot be the same as a woman who met him at his peak. It is all ego for men.
They both are heroic in sitting down to have this conversation one and second in front of a camera for others to see. My hope is for those who see to learn from it for future generations sake. The reality is both of them played a role in the destruction that transpired. Yes ol boy is wrong for lying. Yes ol girl is wrong for ignoring what she obviously felt was there if she had to leave him. The most beautiful part of this ugly truth is that WE ALL get a chance to see how the turmoil that we as individuals bring into relationships when we don’t take the time, don’t acknowledge, and or sometimes don’t even know we need to deal with and heal through before any building of romantic relationships. Great content 👌🏽
I admire this woman so much. Throughout the whole thing she maintained her composure so well, got straight to the point and handled herself well despite all the hard things she was hearing. That main ain’t shit and she deserves so so so much more. Hope she gets what she truly deserves which is a faithful man that’ll take care of her and stop with these lies and excuses.
A man shows loyalty through taking care and supporting his women in every way possible not through his sexual exclusivity, but a women shows her loyalty through sexual exclusivity. get it through your head people, A high value man shouldn't have to exclude his sexuality for one women, but he have to take care and support his women.
@@savagejama6501 I hear that but when he talks he sounds like a child changing the subject. He went from talking about the hierarchy of the women he slept with to a 20p fight, making everything about himself without actually acknowledging his ex’s pain around the cheating. He needs a therapist.
Ladies, it’s ok to be the one who got away. Learn to leave without closure. When you don’t they will dangle it in your face as a means to bring you back. A truly healed woman wouldn’t have even showed up. He’s still playing her.
@@inthahous87 I’m pretty sure it’s not. Even it is, it’s certainly not worth putting yourself through emotional and mental turmoil. Like I said a truly healed woman isn’t showing up to be gaslighted. Paid or not.
I hope this lady heals emotionally and mentally, I hope she continues to glow as the beautiful woman she is. I hope after Castillo she raises her standards in terms of men
The point is to give her the honesty she always deserves even if it hurt her she’s bitter but you gotta forgive yourself an ppl look at her hate she has in her heart
Castillo is an energy vampire, a dangerous one and women are soul tied to him. Castillo your grandma discouraged you from having children doesn't mean you should not have them and now you do, oh well get involved or stay gone.
This whole conversation was for him. She sounds like a wonderful girlfriend but he didn’t like himself. It sounds like he has done alot of growing or atleast reflecting from those times. This is actually a great conversation to have if she was healed from it, since she isn’t this was just further traumatizing her.
He continues to be selfish. He now wants to bear it all cause he now has began his healing process and is coming to himself (his true self) but isn't caring for the woman he claims to love Madddd
Then it ain’t no conversation he was the one who did her wrong a lot which he admitted it’s to “grow” his audience and explain his offenses away it’s good to know but then to act like that’s enough when he can’t even apologize just justify without truly understanding why she feels the way she feels isn’t good for either party she’s not a therapist
He’s speaking from GROWTH. She’s a beautiful woman! SHE was NEVER the problem. He’s finally giving her closure. He needed to get that off. She needed that to continue to heal as well. Blessings to both! 🙏🏽
I feel for this chap, I can so relate to him as I was when younger. Needs to just focus on himself, in terms of self development, and loving and accepting yourself, for the good, bad and in between
Castillo should write a book called “How to Emotionally Manipulate Women.” Ladies never lose yourself loving a man. When a man is going through trauma, it’s not your job to heal him.
Kept her around for his own selfish satisfaction, typical! Men do this all the time. They’ll keep you around for as long as you’re willing to put up with their shit. It’s really down to the women to be strong enough to walk away, as soon as he shows you the first red flag. She obviously knew what he was getting up to and decided to stay.
All u girls commenting men, men, men. This is just bad ppl, enough girls do this and do worst. Do u know how many married woman move like this and get their husbands to finance it, I’ve seen it 😂😂😂😂,
“Never wanted to let you go because you was keeping me ALIVE….”this man is so broken he used her as a power source. These men be attracted to strong women only to break them!!!
You got it twisted, he loved her but he’s a fucked up guy. He’s a player always has been, she knew that about him. If you look at his life story you’ll understand why he is the way he is
Why,he was actually nice and opened himself here ,he gave her compliments ,she on the other hand was uptight, ignorant and closed..she makes black women look bad.
But she chooses to date a bad boy like so many and when they’re older and no longer youthful and know they don’t deserve a good man that’s when they want a good man. Beautiful girl like her probably rejects a lot of good men non the daily. It’s that simple. Unlike men being single for them is a choice.
@@checharles5224 she was young and had no idea. She was being lied to. You really underestimate the power of feelings, age, inexperience and low self esteem. You make it sound like a girl chooses to suffer and wants a heartbreaker. Obviously now if she made this mistake to find another man like this then we cannot feel bad for her but this was her first love and she was a teenager
@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE okay I’m willing to concede given that you’ve provided a strong rationale. Yes maybe she was young. But we see a lot of girls going down the path I stated. Men and women live completely different lives. In the context of long term relationship Men want a woman who can bring her sexual exclusivity to the table. Her full pair bonding capacity, minimal emotional baggage and trauma, compliance. This type is ideal for long term goals such as marriage and children. When you put yourself through the grinder of hook ups and dating fkboys you come out the other end a different person. This woman was damaged by this man. You can see it in her face, hear it in her voice. She’s going to carry that in to the next relationship and the one after. Part of the reason this is happening is lack of guidance. Women are having children out of wedlock to unsuitable fathers and raising girls who have no understanding of their true worth and the constraints and limits of that worth. A lot of them have no understanding or concept that men have their standards too and that attraction and relationship value will diminish as you age and are nolonger young. You don’t want to be a 30 year old woman 👵 in a situation where you’re competing with 22 year olds for the same 30 year old man. Women are born rich and sue poor. Men are born poor and die rich.
I know right, she hasn’t healed then he’s telling her he wanted to have kids then cheated on her with multiple women. I feel bad for her it’s actually sad to watch, you can see she’s such a caring woman and didn’t/doesn’t deserve this. She’s crying and he’s kicking back nah man it’s not it
I don't think she wasn't ready, I think she was over it because it was supposed to happen a long time ago. As she rightfully said his thinking is backwards, it may make sense but is it right? Plus it's on camera on his terms because he's able, was she able?
Ladies, this is not love. Love is about respect, honesty, transparency, consistent with his actions, nurturing each other, communication, being supportive. He’s gaslighting her, he’s insecure, lacks self respect, community dick and misogynistic. Run for the hills, never ignore red flags and always listen to your gut instinct.
Actually they can feel in love, but love alone is not enough for a relationship hence why you listed those other attributes. And love definitely doesn’t come collectively with those other things you need to work for them, and for people who are broken and live a certain way it’s even more harder to do those things.
Nobody’s perfect he was obviously young and stupid at the time, he’s obviously matured and learned in life, and she obviously didn’t deserve the pain but you both need to get over yourselves.
He didn't love her. He loved the benefits he was getting out of her. He also knew he didn't have the tools to ensure she'd stick around so instead of being honest and freeing her from a bad situation, he just played along until she took the rose tinted glasses off. 😕 You wouldn't jeopardise a good situation just because you thought you could get away with it, if you truly cared for your situation.
Wow this is so deep man. Castillo you’re fully on the path of self awareness. I actually fully understand your reasoning. I think it’s quite deep and people will struggle to understand unless they’ve embarked on a journey of self discovery!
She hasn’t healed from the situation nor is she ready to talk about it! He didn’t love her, he saw a woman who genuine cared & loved for him. He wanted to keep her there for that, love is pure and genuine.. I hope she gets closure fr
Women usually do this too. Stringing on. It’s just that now guys are using the same tactic. This guy is obviously a bad boy as well. Women will be drawn to his nature
My ex basically strung me along while I was grieving and vulnerable and told me he did It because he didn’t want to be alone and I was pretty. A big whole grown man, that’s his reasons and the hell he put me through he doesn’t understand why I don’t want him back 🥴
It's her fault lol. Everyone knows how he is. There is so many men out there, if she wanted a nice guy she would get one. She know what she was getting herself into. No sympathy here
@@cutieluxs247 that response right there is why so many women get taken for idiots. You don’t just fall in love, she chose to spend extensive time with him, sleep with him and do all the other things that led to her developing feelings for him. And she chose to do all that knowing full well what kind of man he is. That’s a dumb choice that she’s entirely responsible for.
@@kemal3599 tell that to every woman who’s fallen in love with an idiot. She deffo should’ve left him, but it’s easy to say outside a relationship. All I’m saying is don’t judge people, you have no facts to have opinions lol
The difference between this man and many men, he has the backbone to bare it all and come 100% clean. Right or wrong, weak or strong, he speaks a level of facts and accuracy that most men don't have the courage to stand on. Best of luck to this bruv!
“It was still an income people do worser things than you” she appreciated the little job you had and still cared for you. Damn bruh. 🤦🏾♂️ women don’t come like that often in these treacherous times!
@@pegobrown9204 if you follow Castillo, you'd know this is actually real. Plus he's talked about/is pretty open about the madness he used to get into. Idk if the other couples they'll show are real, but this one definitely is. This footage wasn't even meant to be used for this show, it was meant to be used for a different one that Castillo pitched.
We actually need to deep what Castillo is saying. This guy is A BROKEN MAN. I hope he’s healing. Its not an excuse for his bullshit behavior but this guy is bruised on the inside. His spirit is broken into pieces
We can’t keep playing victims with our past experiences. Using them as a excuse to be a not so nice person. Like I always say to friends who have experienced trauma, your past doesn’t define you! Neither should it scare you. You can choose to either hold on to the past or rebuild and create a better and stronger you. I.e self love/self worth. With the right help and support , I’m certain he will be able to identify his behaviours, patterns and own emotions pertaining relationships with women, friends and society.
Hes not playing victim, his younger life has shaped him in the man he is today, so it all plays a part, they say it takes a village, he needs a country. I can hear his cry for help...
@@iamqueencandace if you listen to his explanations on his behaviour then and now…. He refers to his past upbringing. I’m not bashing him or anything as such.. because I too have experienced a traumatic past, that I held onto for years and I can honestly say just by not seeking the right help, support and doing silly things at the time. Made me into someone I didn’t like, and affected my personal relationships and my mental well-being. Took a lot of work to change that but I tell you now! I’m comfortable with who I am today and things have been amazing than Before those Times.
@@tc644 kudos to you first of all for bettering yourself! I agree that I don’t think he’s using his past as an excuse but people need to realise that it’s okay to sit down now years later and explain WHY he was the way he was while taking accountability for why it was wrong. Through trauma a lot of peoples distorted views and behaviours become okay and very normal to them at the time until you get the help and unlearn the toxic behaviours
It’s strange. I find castillo so funny, and this whole thing makes me laugh. But I can tell that this woman is actually a good person who doesn’t deserve that treatment. Equally as flawed and damaged as Castillo is, he’s very likeable due to his honesty at this point.
Nothing worst than being with someone this emotionally handicapped. They will do selfish, heartless , irresponsible things and still confuse it will love, still find a way to make it about them or still try to make you feel like you should be somehow grateful they “choose you” . RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! sorry for this lady, maybe scarred for a long time
I don’t know. I see a man who thinks with raw emotion. For him it’s not about who’s right and who’s wrong, but what’s right and what’s wrong. Life isn’t black and white and he’s giving his reasoning for his decisions. His decision were clearly dishonest but he’s allowing her to understand the layers of his decisions.
A true definition of, "no matter how much you do for a man, it can never be enough". Even to this day and time he's still making excuses. Sir acknowledge your nonsense, apologies and keep it moving. Please and thanks
He’s a fuckboy, she’s a good girl. Sad to see trashy men take advantage and suck good people into relationships when they’re doing them so wrong like he was. Hope she finds someone who deserves all the effort she was putting in the relationship 🤍 strong woman x
And she's a eediat for staying wid w man that only had 20p to his name. Nuff of you girls like being with these bummy guys because you think it puts you in a position of power and control. You don't wanna be with a real man who's lead you will have to follow and dictate how the relationship is ran. Furthermore most man aint getting gyal like that to even have the opportunity to cheat
@@anubis8918 Lol this is why I say you men are confused breads when a women stays with a man that is financially well off they are gold diggers only with a man for money, they are opportunists never want to help build a man only want to take blah blah. Now we have a perfect example of a woman being with a man for who he is as a person, supporting a man financially, mentally and emotionally. Investing and building up a man and she is a dickhead for staying with him because he had 20p to his name?? There is no winning I swear
This needed structure, they needed a therapist or somebody there to steer the conversation properly..felt like castillo was repeating himself about the same thing too much
It’s actually scary a man would go as far as meeting your family all the while knowing he don’t give a fuck. Streetz is COLD no wonder no one wants to be vulnerable anymore.
His closure was for himself, all it did to her was bring the pain that she never healed from back up. I hope she finally mentally, physically and emotionally heals from his toxicity
@@jayreidy5317 No i agree. Atleast he apologized and explained himself why he done it. I don’t necessarily think that hes a narcissist cause he actually felt bad for what he did but just cause he apologized and owned up to his mistakes doesnt mean its a good thing either cause people will apologize to you but you wont forget what they have done to you .
@@ashfoyowa6689 both people in this scenario were in a relationship. Doesn’t matter the gender. One used the other’s trust and love to feel better about themselves, expecting them to fully commit to them whilst sleeping around within the relationship. If a man wants to cheat on his committed girlfriend, how is it any different for a girlfriend to cheat on her committed boyfriend? They’re both shit people, doesn’t matter the biology behind it. If a man can’t commit because “ooo my penis needs variety i have biological needs and i wanna spread my seed!!” then go date a cave woman who’s gonna be fine with it - don’t find someone willing to commit to just betray them behind their back. It’s 2022, women choose not to have children or care for a man their whole lives. Men can choose not to be cheating horn-dogs.
This just broke me I feel sooo bad for her frfr but I love that he is able to really break down everything cause a lot of men have this mentality and they don’t see it as wrong until they hurt that special person. He really care about her and I believe he does love her. I think he just didn’t know how to love on her and maintain a monogamous relationship.
Sadly Castillo is a narcissist blaming his trauma for his inability to feel or have emotion only through selection. He is a sociopathic narcissist and chooses to stay uneducated. A child definitely doesn't need a parent around who does not love THEM. As for the young lady, wow she is so classy and smart and I am really proud of her, loved the way she ended the chat and moved on.
i hope riette is able to move on from this man. he has shown he ain’t shit when it comes to being in a relationship. she kept her cool the entire interview. attitude was much more composed then it could have been. she’s a strong woman who deserves way better than whatever he was offering. he needs help and hopefully he gets therapy so he can heal from his own childhood trauma
The problem with men is that the ones that are truly confident and not intimidated by women are usually players. It’s an ego/power thing but some also use sex and female attention to mend trauma. It’s sad
@@anubis8918 I've had the privilege of being raised by men with multiple wives/baby mothers and experiencing a player phase myself. Variety is the spice of life but there truly are always roots behind everything. You will come to understand once you decide to
