I Maced My Dad...Can Our Relationship Be Repaired? | KARAMO 

So this father has protected this son from bullies, stood by him, accepted him. And just because he is late with a key, no matter the time frame, there was no reason to mace your father who has been there for you for just being locked out the house. This father does not reject his son, the son feels entitled and justified by his disrespectful behavior. Karamo missed on this one. I'm not homophobic but Karamo sided with the son because common path.

Karamo heard that the father called him the F word and he blanked out to what really happened. The son said he sprayed his father because the father called him the F word. When the father came out he said "No... I called him the F word after he sprayed me in the face and slammed and locked the door." Not one time did the son say that wasn't true. Remember the son also said he was very drunk. Normally Karamo does a great job bring families together but this time he completely failed.

He literally disrespected his dad first by cussing him out for being late. Hes your father NOT your friend, period. Of course dad was wrong for calling him that but Teon was literally on 10 cuse he was drunk and pissed off 🤦🏽‍♀️he was even disrespectful on the show!

You have to give respect to get it back. Calling him the f word is disrespectful but also calling a grown black man "boy" is disrespectful as well. Son does more talking than listening.

Also, it was clear that the host "KARAMO, was also thinking about his own experience which is a lack of professionalism. Extremely glad his father did not bow to the host or the son. We bring our children up to respect our period, I will never accept my children disrespecting me, we have worked our hardest to bring them up to where they are today. So no way.

It feels like Karamo is trying to make Teon feel like he was rejected but i don’t think that was really the case

Being gay doesn't give you the right to be DISRESPECTFUL. Karamo missed the mark.

Karamo keeps saying he was rejected but he said his father supports him. The fact is he was drunk, snapped at his Dad, and assaulted him. His father responded with insults and now the son is playing the victim. He was the wrong one NOT the Father.

I guess times have changed because if I had maced my dad back in the day, I would be 6 feet under.

When Karamo saw that it wasn’t working to get the dad to acknowledge the son’s feelings, he could have let the dad speak and be heard first. Maybe it would have calmed the dad down. The dad wanted to be heard. And then the dad may have heard the son.

Dad just gave us all a master class in setting boundaries. His son is violent and he is no longer safe around him

To me, the son was sounding a little entitled, spoiled. He has issues if he seriously got that upset about someone being "late" bringing some dang keys to him. I understood the Dad feeling the way he did...if my kids ever did something so drastic as macing me, I'd definitely be feeling some type of way🤷🏽‍♀️ I hope they both work it out though.

He has a disrespectful tone in the way he talks to his father.

They look and act like brothers instead of father/son

As a gay man and a father to an adult son, I would never tolerate my son speaking to me the way this young man did. The father did not reject him......HE SET HIS BOUNDARY.

His father didn’t reject him, he admitted that on the show so he can’t play victim with his father

I think if the son would have acknowledged he was wrong for maceing and fighting him first, it would’ve gotten a lot farther

Karamo never asked the son to apologise to his father

Karamo was bias on this one, that boy definitely maced him first , he already said he was lit…Karamo took too long to acknowledge the disrespect from the son and was too focused on the F word. The boy biggest problem was waiting outside for his dad, which is a major inconvenience and I would pissed too but it doesn’t warrant physically harming your parent.

Karamo should be ashamed of himself. If he would do that to his father there is nothing else he won't do.

I absolutely agree with the dad. His son was spoiled as a child and he is a spioled grown man. You don't mace your dad because he is late with the key to your apartment. Or because you get called the F word. That man did not lay one hand on him to have to defend himself in that way. He is a self righteous spoiled brat drama queen. Disgusting that anyone would agree with him. Good for his dad for standing his ground!

I don’t like how Teon called his dad “boy” so many times and no one addressed it.

Karamo has a bias to the gay community. This son took no responsibility for his actions and is bluntly okay with the level of disrespect he continues to show to his father being 10 mins late providing a key is no way acceptable to mase and curse out his father just as he was hurt with the choice words his father said to him his father would be just as hurt heaing that from his son...... like I tell my kids your actions can carry consequences and you have no control over the reactions you may receive

They are both wrong in this situation and both head strong in defending their points of view . I can’t imagine ever masing my dad .. even if I was upset by what he said I’d walk away and let him know he can’t be in my life and continue to disrespect me. It seems they have a pattern Of speaking out of anger . The dad was wrong for not respecting his sons boundaries in his home .. and he was out of bounds for calling his son out his name . Someone asks you to leave their house, you leave. They are both wrong. The dad is too stubborn to listen. He’s set in that old school mind set thta I’m your parent .. respect me . But he broke that respect when he called his son out his name and broke his door. He grown, dad has to respect boundaries too. They are both very similar in attitudes

I’m with the Dad on this one. We can’t talk about anything until we address the disrespect with his dad.

The father is what you call it old school, never disrespect your parents. His father loves him but he's not going to let him talk any way he want to.

I'm still waiting for Karamo to call his guest accountability, this one boy was wrong but Karamo looked away and focused on the wrong the father did. It goes both way like they sayed themselves. The boy could have just said to his father calmly that it was not cool to make him wait but he started to fight and maced him. The father reacted. The son should have apologized that was the only way it could have gotten the father to apologize since the boy started it. I totally understand him, if you get to me first and I get back at you, you apologize first or we split.

Karamo you are the host of the show- how do you loose control and get into an argument with your guest!!

I totally agree with the father.. When your child disrespects you it puts you in an whole different head space!! Maybe if the son had apologized for his actions this situation could have been resolved!!!! When you have the nerve to Disrespect your parents you deserve to be dealt with !!PERIOD!!!

I’m with the dad on this one! I can only imagine the things the son was saying to his father that led up to the fight😏 remember he was mad cause he waited 45 mins to get in his own place. Besides that , the nerve of their son to throw his dad out at 3 am because his dad was late then MACE HIM ! Yes son imma call you things far worse than the F word after you throw me out AND mace me🤷🏽‍♀️. Karamo can’t see clearly on this one cause he is LGBT and he’s so quick to educate on that matter, but what about education in respect in our parents? The father said he has been disrespectful for years so the son couldn’t wait to have his “own” so he can dish out the same disrespect he’s been given from others .

Parents aren’t always right, and just because you’re a parent, does not mean that you are entitled to unrestricted respect

Look how disrespectful the son was in the show by saying boy to his dad a couple times

He is right though you can’t be cursing your dad out like that. He doesn’t deserve to be called the F word but still dad doesn’t deserve to be cursed out. He was late with your keys so you mase your dad ?? He’s dad is Old school I don’t feel the dad rejected him!

I don't give a damn what the Hell ya Parents or Parent might call you!!!! You do NOT have the right to put ya hands on ur Parents or mace them!! Like WTF!! This world is really twisted!!! Well now he done messed up with the only one that did have his back. One day he is gonna wish that he wouldn't have done that to his Dad!! He is gonna need him and he won't be able to call on him for help. SMDH 😐

Am i missing something? Koramo, with all due respect, you are wrong on this one. This kid disrespected his father by macing him and all you care about is his retaliation? Which is actually a reaction to the son's action? When did it become ok for children to disrespect their parents? You can start off by letting that boy apologize to his father before asking his father to take accountability

So I’m the only one that thinks that was WRONG for him to think he could disrespect his father because he was “late”.. oh okay, I’ll stand alone!

I’m with the dad. And I have a weird relationship with mine also, but Karamo put too much the parent the kid was the one playing victim. Karamo deserved what he got from the Dad.

He shouldn’t have disrespected his father.

Smh the son is dead wrong, the father said he respected his son up until he maced him , how can you do that because someone is late and to your own father. That is bratt-ish behavior if you ask me. Karamo couldn’t tell the son that he is wrong smh. Let’s be real.

Big up the father

You can’t disrespect your parents like this. I’m so tired of these young people.

Damn! That was hard to watch. I wish them both healing.

I see a few wrongs....but the son shouldn't have maced his dad. Control yourself and handle it accordingly

He disrespected his dad first because he was drunk . Late or not you don’t disrespect your parents that’s where it started. The father was wrong for calling him a *f*ttt slur. But overall you can see the son is an over the top handful with anger issues when he called his daddy boy. I wish my son would call me boy . The father accepted his sexuality along time ago. He’s not homephobic because if he was he wouldn’t claim him come around him or wouldn’t want nothing to do with him. The son was wrong from the jump

If something that came out my womb mace me……. Baby he would’ve wished he hadn’t!!! This is definitely a time I disagree with karamo. The son was popping off from the moment he asked for the key. And let’s not forget about the alcohol 😒

I like this show and I’m a faithful watcher. I also am a gay BLACK male, and this is the only time that I completely disagree with Karamo. I would never mace my father just because he was late with my keys, and the fact that Karamo did not tell the young man at all that he was wrong It’s just baffling to me. Once he maced his dad all bets are off. Everything was fair game and his dad can say whatever he wants to say because he was maced for the pettiest reason. This has me raising my eyebrow to karamo. It was almost like gaslighting. I really dislike this episode.

Karamo being biased on this one .. sorry

A lot of gay people that come out after holding it in so long don’t understand that most of us already know. Some of them spin this tale like they aren’t accepted but they’ve always been accepted the whole time by family, since we’ve known and treated you the same the whole time. All that stuff that they are feeling has to do with them and not us. That daddy did nothing wrong. If I get maced, I’m calling you every name in the book. Clearly, the son was wilin out because he was mad and drunk. This had nothing to do with his sexuality. I love Karamo but he was trying to push that narrative on the son. It seems like the son was saying he wasn’t rejected and couldn’t give any examples of how his dad rejected. Karamo was fishing and the son started to conform to keep going with his Karamo’s point. That whack. It reminded me of an adult coercing a kid into saying something they don’t want to say.

I’m with the father on this one

If in life waiting 20 minutes for your dad is too much, then you are in trouble!

Karamo in this instance made it worse.

It's like Karamo always sides with people who are gay no matter what. If a child wants to be respected then he or she needs to respect his or her parents first.

Karamo always takes the side of the person who calls the show no matter how wrong they are. The son was wrong on so many levels. We get angry and say things we don't mean but to mace your father for being late is unacceptable.

That son is absurd. Don't mace your dad! He is clearly disrespectful....Karmo you dead wrong on this one.

Karamo you handled this alllll the way wrong. Let's start from the beginning which is where the son disrespected the father FIRST and maced him which caused a reaction from the father. Then continued to disrespect him by calling him boy and still carrying on as if he was right for what he did. Absolutely no accountability. This story had nothing to do with the son's sexual orientation. That narrative was really pushed. The father obviously accepts him. I would keep my distance from any child who would do that to me and can't even say sorry. Stewps!!!

No is not an option? His Daddy said NO and stood on it. It threw Karamo off of his script. I respect the Father’s decision. That young man has no self control. He better find himself quick fast and in a hurry!

Wow. SMH. Sigh. So heartbreaking. I’m at a loss for words. I’m a father my and this touches my soul 😢

Wait a darn minute...the son cuss his dad out for being late, tells him and his girlfriend to get out, throws their bags out the house, pushed his dad out the house then slams the door shut cause he knew his dad was about to handle him for putting his hands on him. Dad kicks in door because his drunk son disrespected him by pushing him, son maced the dad....but somehow dad is in the wrong???? Get tf outta here. I'm with dad.... .Karamo I'm starting to think you are a gaslighter! Ooooh how many times did the son call his dad "boy" so disrespectful

Hoping the best for both of them

My son tried to fight me when he was 17 and laid him down on the floor by his throat. I was so angry with him that I left my house with him and his mother for 5 days because if I saw him, I was really going to hurt him. I stayed with my brother because my son had school and other activities that I didn't want to disrupt. I thought about all the sacrifices I made to give him the best life, clothes and good education and this spoiled brat wanted to show his behind! I went back home after the 5 days and he apologized and cried. I forgave him but I told him if he ever did anything like that again to me as his father, I was going to prison. Today we are great and he's in school about to graduate from college.

The son was upset that his dad wasn’t there so he was definitely being disrespectful from the moment his dad showed up

Yeah, when the dad said he didn’t want a relationship if his son couldn’t respect him, I understood that. Why be around someone who would cuss me out for being late. Why be around someone who maced you. And talks down to you. I see the dad has communication issues but he’s not the only one.

The father speaking fact...."where I grew up in...was taught to respect"!!!

The SON is wrong in this instance. 1. Should have never verbally disrespected his Father. 2. He Maced him. Imagine your child cursing you out, and turning around Macing you because you were late bringing there Keys. I don't blame the Father. I wouldn't want to be bothered with him either. Karamo, with all due respect, you wrong on this one bruh!

I'm starting to have mixed feelings about Karomo. I'm 45 and when I came up you didn't disrespect your parents 💯! Karomo is wrong again like he was with the pink sauce show. The son was wrong as hell, disrespectful and curse 🤬at his father. My mom has said hurtful things in the past but never would I even think to mace her. Karomo didn't listen to the father, it's like because the dad called him a f-*-g, he was going to be biased and side with the son! You want the dad to acknowledge his wrong but not the spoil son! Karomo you took a big L on this one!

This one I’m going to have to disagree with the way you handled this situation karamo. Mace me and I’ll call you whatever y’all always trying to flip a situation and make it look like slander or whatever 🤦🏾‍♀️

I agree with Charleston White when he said, "Sometimes you gotta say "f" dem kids". 🤣Str8-up. I have a nephew, and a niece, that are both very disrespectful. Both are in their early twenties. As long as you are giving them what they want, when they want it, they are happy. Then they love you. As soon as you don't,... Or you try to discipline them simply by telling them that what they are doing, or saying is wrong,... They become very upset, and talk very disrespectful. They flip the table on you, and say, "I don't care if you are my parent, aunt, or grandparent. If I feel like you're talking/treating me in a disrespectful manner. I'm going to disrespect you right back". 😳 Oh helllll no!! I was raised to honor my parents, my elders, or etc. So I do not accept, or condone, this type of treatment from young people. At one point I was helping my niece with her rent, and buying her food. Once she began acting this way I put an end to it. I love her. Yet, from a distance. With a smart mouth like that,... She needs to learn how to make her own way in life. I also love my oldest nephew from a distance. He also talks to me very badly at times. So he too, must make his own way. He asked me to help him with his rent, and I told him no, as well. He made a very disgusting comment about my not working during my treatments for breast cancer 3 years ago. He was aware that I have a mental illness diagnosis, and had an open SSDI case. Well, since he talks to much,... He's on his own. "Sometimes you gotta say "f" dem kids". 🤣 And stick by it. Until they completely change their ways. 💯

I’m with dad on this one.. Don’t disrespect me and lash out unwarranted anger at me because of your hurt , especially when I wasn’t the one who rejected you.. These younger generations sense of entitlement is gettin worse and worse, especially amongst the rainbow community.. Until he realizes he is in fact a spoiled brat with anger issues, then he won’t have healthy relationships with anyone.. These younger generations are gettin way too soft as well which is why mental illness is at an all time high..

Sounds like the son has an anger issue bc mace is a weapon! You gon mace your own parent over and argument? Should have got him arrested!

The dad may not have responded the way others thought he should have. Karamo was saying wait i will hear or address the situation but FIRST I need you to say J want to repair my relationship with son while the Dad wanted the disrespect from son to be addressed first. The F word being told to son seem to take priority over the fact son disrespected his father and the father wasn't having it. The son had a right to be upset about waiting but not to disrespect his father.

If you notice, a lot of these spoiled kids talk and act alike. It's a spirit. The Bible said we would be in this time. But Karomo always only thinks from a place of hurt from a vhild's perspective. He's always gonna side with the child. Most times it's only brat behavior.

Karamo is gay biased... Cause and effect.

He says ‘boy ‘ to his father ,how disrespectful is that and Karamo sits there and overlooks it 😊😮

I actually seen this in person. This was so hard to watch because they really did not come to a resolution. They are the same.. Loved how Karamo tried to help. He was so patient.

Being maced (spell check) by your son is crazy!! I’m usually hear for Karamos word but he got lost in the f word and wouldn’t let the dad get much out he was wrong but that man was cussed out and maced by his son and even after the dad left which was unfortunate he never made the son accountable for macing him and cussing him out or acknowledged that he was disrespectful still on the show his whole demeanor, I can see the love there between he and his dad I hope they figure it out truly

People are saying Karamo was wrong, but he told him at the end "You gotta find a better way than anger". I am pretty sure he would have acknowledged the son's angry reaction about the father being late and his disrespect, if the session wasn't cut short - which is why he kept telling the dad that he'd get to his hurt next. Many parents do not want to listen for real, they think they can say/do anything and their child still have to give them respect, and this was one. If he'd worked through the process I am almost sure he would have gotten the apology that he obviously needed.

Karamo was about to get to holding the son accountable for his intoxication and macing but the father was too narcissistic and arrogant to let him get there. The parents have to model the respect first. The father is visiting at his adult sons apartment and his request was to be there when he gets home from a party. His frustration is valid because he’s a young man who was intoxicated and just wanted to have a safe place to sleep in his own place. Parents can’t be surprised when their kids act a certain way as adults. It’s a reflection of how adults treated them when they were younger and defenseless. Now that they are adults and can speak up for themselves all of a sudden “they are disrespectful”. Clearly, the son needs to manage his anger better and work on respect but so does the father. Sometimes you need to learn when to let someone go if they are unwilling to do the work. 6:10

This son is ungrateful.......its all about him....where's his accountability for his behavior for his dad.

Relationships are a two way business ... Most important is respect for each other .

They both showed disrespect n hope they can work on everything. It hurts watching this cause I'm close to my dad.

I understand exactly why the dad feels the way he does. Disrespectful children will make you not gaf and that son is disrespectful AF. He lucky his dad only kicked the door in and not his face after he maced him smh.

He was trying to make it about rejection when that wasn’t how he actually felt

This is sad seriously. People miss out on having loving relationships just because they'd rather dwell in their ego.

I believe the father ! Rather he was late or not … he still started it (which most of us would have done as well) And the host was extremely bias!

Old school parents do not tolerate the disrespectful behavior. You can be right, or whatever-but you absolutely cannot disrespect me. It puts me in another space.

You shorten your days when you disrespect your parents

I COULD NOT AS A CHILD AND WILL NOT NOW DISRESPECT MY PARENTS SORRY NOT SORRY MACING IS ON A WHOLE OTHER LEVEL OF DISRESPECT HES LUCKY HIS DAD DIDNT KICK HIM LIKE HE DID THAT DOOR KARAMO ARE YOU OK???

the son shouldn't have done that. if you disrespect your parents you got to deal with the consequence

I hate when parents expect respect while being disrespectful to their children. No wonder he doesn't have a relationship with his other kids, he's a bully and immature!

Watch Karamo look back and react to this episode in our series, Karamo Connects: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cwwpL2m-s_M.html

Did y’all forget that was the SON’S house. Dad was couch surfing. And none of kids talk to him. He almost got an apology but he wanted to be stubborn.

Let the father talk this show was really getting under my skin.. I felt like Karamo was really talking to much and wasn't letting the father talk, as soon as the F word came out I felt like Karamo took sides.....

Teon should never, dishonor his Father.

He shouldnt have disrespected his father . I'm disappointed by Karamo on this one

Good Dad stand strong on your principle ...

Karamo was correct. He did not take sides. He took a therapeutic approach to the discussion. Acknowledgment of “the hurt” is the first step to healing. He told the father SEVERAL times he would address his pain. The father justified his actions and would only focus on his pain. You can make progress without this step.

This is why it's important to not just give your kids the world but prepare them for it. I can read deeper into the situation...I hear how he was making himself bigger than his dad financially talking about "He's living with me & he doesn't have a phone" Now I see exactly what's going on. He's one of those big me little you people, he knows his dad has a good heart that's why he wants to repair the relationship but he's to full of himself. I wouldn't ever talk to my dad like that if he took forever with my key I would've never given it to him again he'll just have to wait on me to get there next time & he did all of that in front of his dad's girlfriend ..SMH this new generation of kids get so much handed to them and they're still ungrateful

Karamo has a calming voice 🫠

His daddy fine

The DAD is IMMATURE!!! PERIOD!!!!!!