As a middle Eastern if my parents saw that they would offer you to live with them.....this is insane it explains the cultural problems that going on there
I feel u. My situation isn’t exactly the same, but I’m also middle eastern, and I have an aunt + uncle coming here soon (inshallah) and my mom literally offered they live with us for 2 years.
I moved out at 16. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made. My parents just got divorced and mom was figuring out a new family with her new husband, there was no place for me in that home. Nobody pushed me into it, I just wanted to leave. Made me learn a lot about being responsible and independent, and helped me improve the relationship with my mom. Sometimes distance does make the heart grow fonder.
This is good to hear. My 15 year old son just moved out to live with his dad. He was always welcome and wanted and had a place here. It rips my heart out every day, but I’m praying it strengthens our relationship in the long run.
In the Middle East we live in our house until we are married then if ur a woman u move in with the man in either his family house or a apartment or a house he bought for the two of you
@@karbs4kids740If you really need to leave your family there are sometimes social programs which helps teenage girls or teenage boys until they are 18ish, they make sure you have therapy and a job/apprentice at the end or the financial support to graduate and not live at home. They also usually know where the affordable apartments are. Here in the EU where I live it's free and they did help me. But in the US I think it might depend on the state if you have this type of thing and if it still costs something. As long as it's not sketchy and actually social workers work there you should be fine. I was in a house with some other girls. It was actually so beautiful and helped me a lot. If you have a social worker they might help you, or better said you have to get in contact with social workers or search for your possibilities where you live. You can also try living with your friends but please don't make yourself financially depended on a partner, since it you endure ab_se you might have nowhere to go. So friends, grandma and grandpa or something like the thing I described. Side information: Here in the EU I was also financially and emotionally supported by social workers for free until I was like 21. But most get this help until around 18. After I moved out of this "social work - house" I was still supported 6 months in my very own first apartment. They helped me with documents and everything. I did not regret running away, I am actually so proud of me and it was the best decision of my life. But it could have gone wrong if I hadn't had the possibilities and structure of my country. So if you are in the US or don't already have a social worker, you might look up the internet if theres some kind of programm similar to this in your state or surrounding. Keep in mind that IT HAS TO BE REGULATED and controlled. You don't want to run into the hands of (other) ab_sers. But actual social workers with degrees who know what they are doing and really helping you. Do not let this discourage you, it's just how life is, stranger who are evil prey mostly on the already vulnerable and you should be careful. Good people will always understand your carefulness. But as i said where I live it's highly regulated highly controlled and children's rights are very important. So I got the help VERY easily. You might have to search for the right thing. Then contact the people or show up and ask there for help.
I'm so glad my Asian parents doesn't pressure me doing this. they're be like "it's okay if you want to move out and it's okay if you want to stay" living in Malaysia is a blessing honestly because many families here are so friendly and nice towards their childrens and others' children 🥺
In Mexico there’s also no pressure on moving out, sometimes there’s even families that have their grandkids and everything and they still live together because that’s how strong families normally are here
Ive lived in malaysia for my whole life and moved to canada two years ago. I just feel like a sore thumb, not just with my family, but the community as a whole. I feel like im so wrong for just being myself.
I'm malaysian and I moved out of my abusive 'home' at 17 and had to move in back after I failed to get a job and had no money left and they lured me back anyway. Finally left again at 19. More than a year far away from them. I won't go back
Friendly reminder to always lock your door immediately even if you'll be back in five minutes, it'll only take one for someone to break in. Carry defense items such as: pocket knife, portable alarm, a lighter, pins, tasers, and pepper spray. Always make sure you buy pepper spray and tasers that actually pack a punch, some brands are *very* cheap. When out, please make sure your not alone at all costs. Bring a friend or family with you. Just make sure you know most of what could happen and they can, don't think they won't happen to you cause that's where you become an easy target. *Always Be Aware of Your Surroundings.*
I'm 24 and still live with my parents. It's a huge emotional battle between wanting to move out and make my own life but what I hate is the idea of not hearing their voices everyday, waking up to them making one of my favorite dishes, the I love yous, even just the comfort of knowing that they're just a hallway away is something I fear losing. They're getting older and I fear not being by their side through possible hardships. They need to be told they're loved and helped when they need it. When you truly love something it tears you apart to be away from them.
Same here I’m 20 years old if I wanted to move right now I could but you are so right about the getting old part I could never spend my time knowing that ther life is getting wasted without seeing me in their home safe
I know my comment is a little late but this hits me straight in my feelings. I am pretty much in the same situation as you. If you happen to see this comment, you think we can have a full conversation expanding on this? I don’t have anyone my age in my own life who understands what i’m feeling and im getting more worried as my entire family continues to age every day. Seeing the white hair forming on their heads has often brought me to tears
This is such a nice thing, I want to move out because my mother makes me crazy and I'm pretty sure that she is mentally ill. But I haven't finished university yet and my boyfriend doesn't want us to throw money out of the window and would rather save up for a house (obviously with a mortgage, there's no way we could just buy a house from savings)
Hey um... It's so unexpectedly amazing that you are experiencing non-abusive parents, they seem to be your true loved ones so I see that is something that's hard to live without. What I want to share with you is : use your time with them the fullest and enjoy time with them, but be aware though there's still that time you will have to move out, since you probably wouldn't want to stay on their backs for forever. I think it would be great for you to move somewhere close so you can meet them many times in just a week, don't forget to keep this in your head (it'll help to carry on) that you won't be loosing them, you'll see them not as often, but that doesn't mean they disappear from your life, that the things you do together would not exist anymore, so with that thought you still need to move on and carry on as your adulthood already has started, it's the most important time of your life, so really use it most. It's going to be hard, but worth it - becoming independent and using your adulthood wisely from the start is providing for your best future, it's feeling the best in reward when you already have made your own life (not excluding them, but as an independent individual that can keep relationships close in their life or as a new family holding to connections with other family members). You may not need my advice, but if I were to, I'd advise you to use the time your best and embrace their existence too (as they matter to you and your relationships are on good terms), but obviously to think about yourself and the future of yours too the most. I need to mention that if you will move out it isn't going to mean that you won't meet them again or that it will be rare, because it's you who makes your story (meaning: so you can visit them as much as you'd like) and of course if you visit them the love yous they'll give will be even bigger and more felt.. It won't be the end of the story for your relationships, it will be more like a whole new chapter in the book, so feel motivated do something about it as additionally it's not good at all to be relying on someone for this long. Also, again - embrace them! Well this comes from this, that my story is not so "shine bright" like yours with relatives.. and many others that are in similar situations don't experience healthy relationships with "loved ones" so what I'm saying is our stores are that different that you try to enjoy the most with them.. when I try to survive the least so I can legally move out (escape, and legally, because I'm not 18 yet, sucks.)... I don't mean for you to feel bad or anything, it's just I understand your situation, but the facts you've told can't hold you back from going forward pure stranger. Cheers, keep going!
@@simpwly For me it's also hard bc I already have really chill parents. I am not really looking for freedom I already have. I will move out when I have a good job but it will be rough, and I already know it.
@pixy you can technically get a credit card at 14 in America (aka you can get a job), I’m gonna get a job next year even though I’m not turning 17, so I’m pretty sure they could get a job at a fast food place or a cafe or something like that
Bro you’re good I’m 20 too, I tried living alone and it’s hard, try it out for a few months if you want to experience it but the luxury is taken by granted. School and work and cooking and choirs is crazy. There’s no shame in living with your parents until you’re financially stable and possibly have someone, loneliness is another big issue. Take care of yourself G
Nah bro- I thought this would be wholesome because of the title like a nice big family dinner and parents hugging you and stuff 😭 I wish I could hug you. Bro I feel sad now
It's such an insane feeling moving out. I remember being 18 in a college dorm and hugging my family goodbye. We're not physical and we dont say I love you but the love is there. It's in the things we say and do. It was both emotional and dreadful. The sense of panic and deep loss was real. It was like "well....what now?" Type of moment. I just unpacked walked around campus and then slept from 4pm. I moved to a pretty far campus so nobody I knew. I woke up and it was still dark. I watched the sunrise and for the first time in my life I was truly alone. My mom would call and she said "it was frustrating raising you guys and then I blinked and all of a sudden i didn't want any of you to leave. I just assumed youd be with us forever. " living alone provides growth but it enhances your gratitude. You begin to understand why family is so important. They are the only people who you can turn your back to. And I mean family not in the genetic sense but in the spiritual sense.
i’m 18 and can’t go out to get the mail and my almost 20 year old sister still has to be here before bedtime… mexican household edit: parents are loving so don’t worry, overprotective which is also a good thing in the way things are cause people be wildin i wouldn’t want my own kids to have too much freedom but atleast breathe 😀 but it sucks sometimes to be behind compared to everyone else in your generation and feel like things are really slow right now. Love a parents who loves me back for being a little rascal most the time edit: i’ve been raised in a way that i can survive and independently😂 they never babied me and my siblings, aren’t the kind to baby really and them protecting us is their way of showing love most of the time. I’d say we did have to learn a lot on our own without parent help, but we love our parents back the same way they do us. Me and the siblings didn’t turn out like most of the kids we grew up with. don’t smoke, curse, and aren’t brats, again loved :)
y’all should save up and maybe move together if u and ya sis close bc they don’t rlly have the rights to tell y’all what to do now y’all are considered grown . If they was to call the cops they wouldn’t be able to do anything cause y’all grown Yk
This reminds me of my dad. He moved out of his abusive household at 15 and lived on his own and met my mother. Then they moved down to Florida together. And came back to New York to start a family
i was happy to go another city for university to live in dormatory, i just wanted to break out of family home, it was so stressing and depressing with my stepdad.
@@TenshiAngel23 do you feel nervous or scared in a way? im in the same situation. its just that i don't rlly get a choice and i want to know that im not the only one having to experience this
I’m so grateful that in our country, it’s not really common for people to move out so early. Either you get married and move out or you get a job and become financially stable enough to move out.
That’s how it should be, why would you have a kid if you’re just waiting for him or her to turn 18 and kick him or her out of the house without knowledge of how the world works or being financially stable, that’s just straight fucked up
@@bigga8128 they person in the video never said they were kicked out. But yeah I do agree don’t have kids if you’re just going to end up waiting for them to move out
@@rosiv9617 my parents are literally doing the same thing to me and ask why I'm not "acting like an adult" already when I've had 0 help from them on how so I have to figure everything out by myself so it's taking me longer to adjust. It's already embarrassing being developmentally behind than my adult peers
I feel you, I might be only 13, but I'm hoping to get out of my dad's house early. Although, there is a lot of memories that I'll have to give up. Also, I love this song, it's what I listen to sleep.
I moved out when I was 14, I chose to and went into care been so much drama since then but in recent years it's a process to heal.. and now I'm engaged and have a son.
@@lov4lxycloud108 Oh it is, I cannot vouch for everyone but I have definitely heard from my parents experiencing unpleasant situations just like myself (telling me this before I put myself in care) And Thankyou 🫶 I was moved around a lot into different care settings nightmare that was.
@@Polymerata that’s okay we all have to move out eventually, and it’s gonna be scary but trust me theres so many people that care and will help, and move out when your ready if your parents don’t allow that try to find someone else that will help you. I’m also scared, terrified actually but my parents tell me that they will support me all the way and help when they can
Personally, as a 16 year old that worked a summer job at 15- which was 40 days away from home- I feel like I'd be happy like this. There's something comforting about being able to live your own life without your parents getting mad at you about every inconvenience. You can have a bit of a mess if you're struggling. Can't wait until I can.
In Asian country its like you will never move out even after your married if your a boy you can be with your parents or alone and a girl can stay with their in laws if they need to i think of having your culture but i thank for our own culture too
And thats why there are so many problems in most of marriages of Asia too. That is another different extremism and it ain’t good either. Idk how people r so st...id just find a middle point dude
Yeah my sister is married, she her husband and her son live with us I Kinda hate it tbh having to take care of my nephew all the time and her husband is fuckin annoying
@@RU-vidaccount50512 well if you look at stats, then west has more marital issues than Asian countries... Also it's not necessary that a girl *has* to leave her home, a boy can live with in laws too, or they can move out from both their houses.. The thing is that mostly a girl living with in laws is common in Asia... But that's *not* *a* *rule*
@MrsMars no I am not talking about divorce stats have whole another argument.. I am talking about marital issues which couples go through being in a marriage! Well I know that these stats are not 100% reliable, but still there's a difference Also never said that Asians don't face marital issues But also, Asia is most populated continent, so if we go by ratio.. Then west tops, especially North America alone
Moving out as a teenager seems to be absolutely scary. I mean, with 16yo I couldn't even realize who I was. It wouldn't be possible to take care of myself. I wish you the best
Moving out is a dream we always have but once it happens it’s the most bitter sweet thing. After moving out and going to college I cried every night thinking about my family for like two weeks. The smallest thing being changed triggered an emotional breakdown. Hope you adjust well; it’s strange but you’ll get used to it eventually. Stay strong
I’m 19 and the thought of leaving my mom is just awful to me. Not because I feel like I need to be taken care of all the time, but I genuinely don’t know how I’d cope with not being to see her every day, hear her voice, spend time in the yard with her, cook meals with her, all the little things. Even just hearing her move around the house knowing she’s around. I can’t imagine living without that. I love my mom so much. I want to spend every moment with her that I can because they won’t last forever.
Same i was talking about this with my dad, he supports those childrens for doing that but sure as hell would never even let me do a night stay at my friend's place lol
I am Asian, whenever i talk about my future and thinking if i can live alobe now.. My mom will dramatically emotional.. I feel bad for her and i planned to stay at my parent house until the world end.. Bcs i never want to spend a min/ day/ hrs without them... Even they are kinda like toxic but no! I never move out from our own house.. Bcs i still love them even if they are sometime violent due too stress but i still care for them,, the reason i won't move out bcs: 1. My daddy work hard to pay all bills in the house.. 2. My daddy always buy anything i wish for.. 3. If i left them alone i feel like im the worst daughter who forget her own parents.. 4. If i left them alone i afraid of what happen to them ( bcs we don't know what is happening to them) 5. If they die, i dont want them to die alone... I will sit next to them even they already gone. 6. If i moved out i feel lonely.. And when i grow up it my turn to take care everything in the house and paybck to my daddy.. 10. I still cry like kids if i were apart from them( if i moved out and sleep alone i will cry nonstop and feel want to come bck).. That the reason.. I love you momy dady..✨✨🥺🥺❤❤❤❤
@@_BMJ_ if you do love them and want to stay w them despite their toxicity and violence you need to speak up about it and see if it changes. i hope things get better for you.
I was kicked out at 10, literally just left in an unfamiliar place in another country. I found them with what little I had on me only to be told I wasn't welcome anymore. I wish I at least had enough street smarts to know who to trust when I first moved out, but I was just worried everyone was out to get me back then. If I did, maybe I could've found a new family, but I'm in a pretty good place at the moment. Not great, but leagues better.
Me scrolling through RU-vid shorts be like: Wholesome Sad Wholesome Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Heartbreaking Depressing Sad Sad Sad Edit:Can someone tell me what the guy did to have so many "💀"
I'm south east asian but I've heard a lot of my friend's parents say, “Pack your things and get out of my house!” Maybe it's out of frustration since they literally don't help in the household and runs away from home frequently. 💀
@@nowlomme my parents r opposite- they dont want me moving out anytime soon n im not even allowed to go to a university thats like 2 hrs away or even dorm💀 im 18😭🤣💀
⚠️VENT WARNING ⚠️ My sister moved out last week and it has honestly been so hard on me, she used to live with her dad in a different state and moved here about 4 years ago, I barely had her. I’ll walk in her empty room and break down in tears. But honestly it made us closer in a way, we talk a lot more and we FaceTime every night. but my mom and I will start talking about her and our relationship, and I can’t help but cry..
Aw, I’m so sorry :( from a big sister, sincerely we don’t mean to move to hurt you, it’s to set up our own bearings for our future adult life, but you can always visit, and tell her everything she’s probably missing you as much as you’re missing her, no matter how far it seems they’re only a few trains away. Maybe arrange to see each other once in a while n invest in a large plushie to hold and engage in your favourite hobbies before bed
Happy to see other people who haven’t moved out lol. My Latino parents want me to stay with them until I get married and even then I plan to live super close to them (maybe even in the same house) so I can take care of them :]
Omg I’m Latina and is the same with me, although I have fight with them, they always want to be closer to me and wants to live with them until I have my own house with family
My mother kicked me out for something I never did. I was 18, and she had always said she would be happy to support me and house me until I was ready, whenever that was. Then she took my phone to dig through private conversations, took away every device so I couldn't contact anyone, and begrudgingly let me call my therapist during my 5th crisis. She controlled everything I did for three days at the beginning of the lock down. Chores all day, gave me the silent treatment, called a whore. She controlled what I wore so that I wouldn't be 'tempting' anyone and to stay humble in my rags. She dropped me off at my grandparents' house (my dad's parents, not hers, her family is in another country) and didn't come back. She told me that I wasn't allowed back. I didn't get a chance to pack, to say goodbye to my beloved cat, my home. I know I was legally an adult but I was unprepared, and she threw me out with what I had on me. She refused to send me my things for months. She cut contact with me. She never asked my grandparents how long they'd be ok with housing me and didn't give them a heads up or me. I was so hurt. It makes me sad that others experienced this, by choice or by force. That abrupt change is so world shattering.
I’d be really sad when I move out. Just remembering me and my siblings fighting and playing around and going outside to walk somewhere. I’m gonna miss those memories
As much as it pains me to see so many people going through similar things we aren't alone. You'll find a family of your own someday and they don't have to share your blood.
Moved out at 19, the last day I said goodbye to friends and family. That night I hugged my siblings and gave a last kiss to my mom. The nearest airport was 6 hours away so i had to take a bus. I couldn’t sleep, I just looked out the window taking in the landscapes one last time. Its been 4 years of struggle but Im doing more where Im at than I could ever back home.
I moved out when I turned 21 and ended up pregnant with my first born..I was never able to live my own life because my mother would end up needing me to stay up and babysit my disabled sister and my grandmother (who treated me like a slave until I turned 18) I didn't go out and party, I grow up being a mother figure, a nurse, a therapist, a friend, a care taker, a maid and more at the age of 5.. moving in with my soon to be husband I realized i ask him for permission to do things, scared to ask him for help, scared to do anything that would upset him yet since moving here..I learn more that I'm a child at heart and we play around, game together and we plan small walks and movie nights before we fall asleep together..we both just fell into place and even being far from home, I learned to let go when my mother told everyone I got pregnant to get away from her..she still tries to guilt trip me on everything happening and she hardly calls or texts me unless it's something to nag about back at home.. Sometimes it's better to move away and figure yourself out then remain and let loved ones ruin your chances of exploring and understanding life on your own..
In one year I need to move out because of college and honestly I am scared of living alone. Especially because I don't trust myself and my own decisions. Time just moves so fast.
I hope nobody else ever has to feel what it's like to look around at this semi-familiar home that's your childhood home, but it's empty and cold... and it's not familiar anymore. Having to look around and just look at all your happy and even sad memories and know that by this time tomorrow, you'll be gone. Never to be able to come back ever again. Not being able to do anything about it. Sitting in your empty room, breaking down, and feeling yourself fade away. I'll never be the same. I ledlft the old me behind when I was younger, then I should have been. It's supposed to be when you're 16 or 18, but I was 10. I was still a minor. I had to go to Chicago from Maryville. im closer to 18 now.
@@LoverIsaDayyoh wow I never knew ppl saw this edgy shit lol. um my family has always owned a bit of ranch land unfortunately after my grandfather passed and later corona was hittin so we were in mega debt sold our suburban home in town and moved to the middle of nowhere where I did online school alone on a farm for two years 😅😅 lol now I’m bouta graduate high school w no aspirations or hope tbh lol
I feel you, I got kicked out at 15 :/ not saying you got kicked out cause I just came across this but I know how hard it is to leave your childhood home 😞
You do great gurl, even if you might feel lonely at some times, just know that, there are always people you can visit or maybe talk to. I'm 13 and I live alone as well, it gets lonely but I can talk to my mom or friends online. You're not alone gurl, I understand.
I want to move out too but I cant cuz I have to take care of my grandparents. My siblings doesn't really care about them. I'm 21 years old and still can't drive a vehicle lol.
Dishwasher is pretty decent job for me cuz I don't need to spend money to buy food cuz I get food from the restuarant for free and bring it at home for tomorrow.
I moved out at 19 and even that was a struggle. I’ve only been moved out for a few months, but it gets better. Get a pet it feels a lot less lonely and find good roommates. My apartment neighbors are fairly friendly a little nosy sometimes but they helped me out and I helped them out when the building caught fire. I live alone because I’m lucky that I can afford it, but choose roommates wisely if you’re looking for some.
You have tonnes of support from me and I just know you are going to move on to do amazing things, remember that every year gives 365 opportunities to try again.
When I was a kid my mum said I could move out whenever I wanted, so since then I saved up my money and the first chance I got I moved out because of my Dad treated everyone. He worked 4 days and then was off for 4 days and I used to celebrate when he worked because when he was home he would shout and yell and punish us when we sat down, most people call it parenting but it was a lot more than just parenting from the way he acted. Sometimes moving out young is better than moving out when your older.
Bro, I am emotionally attached to like everything, so if I even lose my own pen that I always write with I would cry or it would ruin my mood for 2-3 days. But a HOUSE, I can’t take that. Especially my heart.
It’s insane to expect anybody to leave home at 18. Even people with 6 figure salaries struggle to get an acceptable place to live, and as an 18 yr old you’re not gonna be making anything close to even 50k to start. Just tell your parents no very directly and that you also aren’t paying rent to live with your own family, they should be helping you live and not making your entire life more difficult. Unless, of course, they provide the money for you to move out and you get a say in where you live.
@@MrCrunch808 learn responsibility then you'll understand. I live with my family still and pay rent, my own bills, my own groceries and etc. Even though we live and sometimes eat together we have separate lives from each other so I don't understand why moving would exactly be necessary especially since we all chip in for rent in the house we live in though I do hope to get my own place eventually.
I ran away at 13. I am 16 now. I had to do it,I couldn't stand the torture and abuse anymore. If I didn't ran away,I wouldn't have get to be 16..or at least 14.
I really wish I can move out, life just so tiresome living with my mother. Girlie threaten to poison me to death with the bug spray and would then be so kind to me like nothing happen. Am 16 right now so am trying to finish high school early in order to go to the same college as my older brother and live a decent life.
I started to live by myself on 17 and im asian, its not really about culture its about family and life tbh... I pick a college quite far from home and forced to live away from my parents, living alone for the first time is lonely as it seems considering im close to my siblings all of my life and now theres no one here except me 😢
Honestly I never want to move out. I want to live with my parents until everything ends. Once I move out I'll be all alone drowning in my own thoughts and feelings and not knowing what to do. But when I'm with family I can feel loved and supported. Stay safe everyone 💗
I wish I could do that, but here at Brazil it's illegal for a minor (someone less than 18 years old) live alone so yeah- I have to deal with it for a while💀
I've lived completely alone for months as a 15-17 year old (17 rn), and only with my older brother for longer sometimes. I like it, but it gets really difficult. I recently returned home to my mom, and while it's sometimes a pain with her, she cooks me food and reminds me to do stuff, which is just so helpful, cuz I never learned that as a kid. Because, you know, my parents were busy all the time. And also I was a brat.
This video is a huge inspiration since I have to move out at 17 due to toxic household and can finally get out this place since it's been my dream for a very long time 😊
I'm turning 20 next month and still live with my mother. Not because I don't want to leave, but because Holland is wayy overcrowded and the house prices are skyrocketing sadly. Currently looking for a house abroad but that isn't easy either
Im glad my parents accept us living with them Moving will be the hardest thing😭 Also, i am now in love with this song and artist The song is rises the moon By Liana Flores
I feel the same mam' Im actually watching this while im moving to my new house that my Aunt(who lives with us)bought. We moved to the house(the one im packing for the new one) when i was 9, so it was 4 years ago. I will miss the good ol' memeories🥲
I was being abused physically and mentally by my family, planning to run away when i was 14(i'm 13 now). I'm gonna live with my bestfriend house, wish me luck❤
I didn't run away at 16, but both my parents left. They didn't like the country they brought me to grow up in and went back believing I'll be just fine. Although it's a different experience, some days it was hard to accept that it was a decision I didn't choose but was chosen for me, and made me feel unwanted. It made me grow up really fast, which looking back 15yrs later I'm actually thankful for. All I can say is: hang in there, life does get better. Just take it one day at a time and keep doing your best. Make choices that show that you're worth it, and just keep showing up. Everyday you're alive is a good day.
I was living on my own abroad for 7 years, in the beginning it was really difficult. But later I got addicted to the lifestyle I was living. Now I am back in my country for a while living with my parents, regretting every minute of leaving the times I was in my home. Waiting for the time to move out again❤
It’s a crazy feeling realizing your life will never be the same you never have the same kind of stress-free mind there’s always something to worry about bills car payments etc. it almost feels like after a couple months you can’t even imagine how your life was before
I just moved out too I’m 46 , my parents needed to go into assisted living and can’t afford rent. I’ll be homeless next week. Hoping I can find a shelter …
It's different for everyone but one thing stays the same. Its absolutely terrifying, you are now the man or woman of the house, but it's not your parents house. It's your house, with things under your name. Depending on if it's something you rent or own you could be responsible for repairs. And even if mom and dad are there for you, they wont always be there to help. The freedom you expect is still there and it's great. But personally, it made me angry for taking my youth for granted. I wanted so badly to be where I am now and now sometimes I'd do anything to go back.
