I need to clear my name... (Luis explains why he made toxic decisions) 

I would like to see Luis interview Bramty about her side of the family, the dinamic with her mom, how her brother getting arrested affected her and what happened with her other brother and not having communication!

i NEVER thought luis was the bad guy for saving money for them and limiting bramtys money… that’s literally THE SMARTEST thing a man can do for his family and he got them a house within a year! if i was bramty i would’ve been so grateful for his mentality not bitter 😭

Bramty deserves an apology from his mom. No one has the right to sent pictures of someone giving birth without their permission. Don’t matter the culture etc.

I feel like bramty always wants to make Luis the bad one and expose his flaws but when it comes to her she’s so defensive 😂

We need an episode of Bramty’s flaws/mistakes from the past lol

Bramty holds so much resentment towards luis for penelopes birth.. it wasnt 100% his fault. he was young and his mom took advantage of him, she should've known better as a mom and as another woman.

Not only the delivery but the whole pregnancy. We will NEVER forget who hurt us or neglected us while we were pregnant

Ughhh LUIS stop feeling so bad. It wasn’t that bad… you are a GREAT man and I hope you know that.

Leaving him at the restaurant is crazy

Ohhh Bramty… that’s annoying so we cook, we clean, take care of our kids, laundry etc I’ve never left a comment like that cause idc but you can’t say stuff like “they’ve let themselves go and have nothing too offer” believe me not all of us have it like you do and we don’t need RU-vid money. Another thing, is your family perfect? Because it seems it’s always about Luis family or Luis mom never nothing about your brothers, your mom your ex sister in law your nephew you never met 🤷🏻‍♀️

Everything is meant to happen though. If Louis didn’t restrict you and give u a small allowance, you wouldn’t have made that haul and you probably wouldn’t be where you’re at right now. Luis played a big factor & you don’t see that at all😂

Tea the people want to know…why did you guys separate the two times we know about in the past?

Let’s talk about bramty’s family !!!

It’s not the fact that you interrupt. It’s that you blame him for everything and have this attitude that you haven’t made any mistakes and that you taught him everything and he’s only better because of you. You have many faults too Bramty. AND that only his family is talked about even when he was uncomfortable. Let’s talk about your brother that’s in jail again…or your ex sister in law.

Because you guys married so young. You both grasped grown adult responsibilities so fast at an immature minded time. I totally understand all the toxic things you guys went through because my husband and i went through the same thing we got married at 18 while I was pregnant I had to learn to be a wife and him provide for me and then eventually a household. We were both immature at the time so there were soooo many fights and crying. But we’re finally at a point in our marriage where we got the hand of everything. There’s respect love and equality We’re 6 years together now and everything is great now it took a longggg time but we did it

Bramty, you cannot pick and choose when you have ADHD

2:30 - I feel like she still keeps pinpointing his past flaws when she has plenty of them herself. Bramty, you have some growing up and healing to do yourself. I have ADHD but would never disrespect and be inconsiderate to my husband at a restaurant like that because you’re “adhd” and impatient? Nahh, you’re just controlling and think you’re superior cause he aint going nowhere.

Since Luis’ mindset has changed so much over the years, I would love to know how he felt when they first started living together and Bramty didn’t cook and he had to work and stuff

Been watching every Thursday since the first pod came out, you guys are killing it I’m obsessed w u bramty

The way y’all both say “decision” made me giggle😂

When are we gonna hear the story of bramTEA and her side of the family ?

I feel like this podcast just turned to therapy sessions for them. lol I was expecting tea and all i felt like i was there with you guys just hearing you guys talk together.

I love how bramty has no problem with constructive criticism this is how you grow. You can tell she is a loving person deep down.

Y’all went through so many things but they only made y’all stronger as a couple and that’s what inspires me so much about you two 💗

Unless a doctor says you have ADHD I don't think you have it, I just think after years of doing RU-vid, you're just very time conscious and a little impatient with hearing others thoughts like you said, because you already know the answers, so it's part of being selfless and patient with others. I notice it with a lot of female RU-vidrs in their videos, as soon as someone else speaks they sorta force themselves to be patient and to listen, but you'll see them get aggravated a little bit. It's very common for women to feel this way, especially with men/women who have shown signs of immaturity or have hurt us in the past. We kinda don't want to "deal" with them subconsciously and it manifests in our actions/behaviour. It happens a lot in leadership positions. Like an ego thing. For some people it's a sign of narcissism of always wanting to be centre of attention or have all the wisdom to share. Or people who have no peace within them and are almost like a ticking time bomb. I've noticed that kind of selfishness manifest in people too. The best thing is embracing the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ which has the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control and just having a caring, compassionate and considerate heart.

I have a lot of respect for Luis for this episode. He so obviously loves his family & only has seemed to move with good intentions. But I wanna see an episode of bramtys mistakes & her taking it as gravely as he is.

lol bramty said she smart, good vocabulary and doesn’t stutter but says “dezzzision” also we get the same old news about Luis’s family let’s get some other hot tea 😩

I don’t mind Bramtys personality I like the way she is! I saw the comments of people not liking how she’s hosting but loving the podcasts. So I like the beginning how bramty addressed the comments in the beginning! Goes to show she’s taking this serious - this podcast is great! ❤

“You just said “like” after saying that” I DIED🤣🤣

Luis is definitely a keeper 😊

Let’s talk about Bramtys family now ! All about luis, can’t wait for bramty side

Bramty, thank you for speaking up about labor !!! For some odd reason, my husband doesnt see my point of view about who is allowed in the labor room but you literally took the right words out my mouth! I legit explained and expressed my feelings to him regarding this topic and he understood clearly when you talked about it !

Why are all the topics targeting Luis and his family ??

Why does Bramty blame Louis “100%” she said it herself it’s YOUR day of giving birth. Speak up and say something if you don’t feel comfortable which she’s good at doing clearly

I appreciate your honesty and sharing your experiences because you never know who could be helping or even helping them to understand how they can do things differently. I love your guys podcasts!

Will you guys talk about the break you and Luis had ?

Why don’t you guys make a separate channel for your podcast??

The topic about not cooking for your man is a Hispanic/ all around thing in general. It goes way back in the days where that was the main thing woman are meant to do “cook for their man” after a long day of work. Things are definitely different in this generation where it still becomes controversial! The topic should be equal now and days, why can’t men cook for their wives? It shouldn’t be a big deal as what people make it 🙏

Out of all the podcast their is I'm so obsessed with this one! I'm always ready for the next one.

So many young dads can relate to what Luis talked about in this one, so awesome and mature of you guys to talk about these things and open up about them 🙌🏼

“Desigen” 😂😂❤️

Love the fact that you both are always clothes matching every podcast!!! So cute

Nah girl get into the second labor lol we’re here for it 😂😂

I’m gonna correct you Bramty! The man is the head and the woman is the crown!!🙌🏼 proverbs 12:4 says “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband”. I like that so much more than being a neck you literally make your husband a king!!

Love how genuine you guys are, that’s the reason why I will always support you guys. You guys have gone thru some thick thick problems but have come out stronger. I’ve gone thru a couple thing bramty has gone thru so I know where she’s coming from. But my question is, how do you keep from becoming a cold hearted person after going thru all that? I feel like I’ve become cold and over protective of my relationship because of past issues.

Tbh I feel like I’m learning so much from watching your guys podcasts and I admire you both for being so transparent and completely honest. You tell it straight up and now I know how to approach those certain things better. Love you both, love your family and pls keep blessing us with amazing content 🩵🩵🩵

I’ve been with my husband for almost 9 years (married for 6) we have 1 daughter and are currently expecting another girl. My husband will be 32 & I will be 27. He’s in the military, we are stationed in Hawaii. I relate to you guys so much, and I genuinely admire the length of your relationship because there’s no many people who know how to stick it out with each other these days. Love that about you guys 🩷

you guys should talk next about the businesses you guys had and what had happened to them and how the Airbnb is going

He said you taught me how to be a man in certain ways. An amazing display of humility and courage in one statement. Amazing conversation and display of maturity from you both. Thank you for sharing

Honestly appreciate how you guys admit mistakes. Marriage is hard. But you learn from certain things & keep pushing forward. Can relate as I’ve been with my partner since we were 17-18 as well, now married as well.

I enjoy the podcast more when it’s just you two. ❤

😮 I would love the PODCAST be able BRAMTYS STEP FAMILY....and what happened about her brothers JEFF and her DAD. We always talk about Luis dad and mom. But I would love talk about what happened after meeting her family.

Girllll.. i had an emergency C-section and it happened so fast I wasn’t numb and I felt everything!!! So as soon as they pulled my daughter out they immediately put me to sleep. I was asleep for hours, my husband FaceTimed both of our parents to show them the baby and my mother in law took screenshots and posted all over Facebook tagging us both… there was 200+ comments from our family/friends BEFORE I even met my daughter!!!!!

I appreciate y’all being real and not a cookie cutter family! ❤

I 100% feel you. I always interrupt and I can’t stop!! It’s true like you said, my brain just hops forward and I’m already thinking of the next thing. I have to work and to consciously look at the other person and do nothing but listen to their words and make sure I think them through

Honelsty feel like this was the biggest improvement in the podcast, less interruptions less degrading more accountability and more honestly! Thank u bramty for taking advice! Keep growing y’all ❤

i’ve been watching since this has started, i absolutely love it 💖💖. i love how you guys are matching in the episodes!!

Yall have grown so much and shows that if you really want a relationship to work . It's possible.

“Hey guys! It’s a brand new day!!” “Hey heyyyyy!!” OG Bramfam here and loving the podcasts!!!❤

I really like this podcast episode ! Sharing your obstacles in your marriage and how you overcame it is so helpful to other couples! Love you guys ❤

This episode was so good! Proud of you guys for listening to and implementing the criticism 😊

I’m obsessed with y’all’s podcast y’all are doing amazing and the tea is so good!!

How is Luis fully to blame. If it’s his mom that was invasive?

girl the way you keep pronouncing decision 😂

Love these podcasts I listen when I’m at work and I’m always laughing keep it up guys 🎉😂

Those are exactly the women coming after you for not cooking: the ones that only have THAT to offer but absolutely nothing else. It stems from insecurity. I can promise you 99% are not business women or making good money.

honestly i love the podcast & i’m not one to comment at all but i notice how everything is just luis luis luis.. like i don’t think he gets appreciated enough for his positive traits but it’s definitely just an observation 😅

Love watching your videos!!! Hopefully they can be a little longer like the first few videos. Besides that the videos are amazing and maybe have bramtys mom be a next guest!!!!

I love how You guys speak well educated and actually make sense! 🙌🏻

Super excited for this episode. Love y’all ❤️

// I love how you guys coordinate your outfits to match each other

It’s 2023 men can cook for themselves we are working wives we can cook or not..we both working adults. men can cook too. We are not their moms to cook for them and do everything for them.

Love the podcast!!! I’d love to hear what Bramty has learned from Luis!!💗I think that’ll be a good segment😊

I’m obsessed with your show! Love how you guys are matching btw

Can we talk abt your family and not just abt Luis.

Dude Bramty needs to realize she should have spoken up for herself. At the end of the day if your man didn’t do what you wanted you still had the right to not allow them into the room at the end of the day… after the first ruined birth why would you allow that to happen again. It’s not all of Luis’s fault when you also allowed it.

When I first watched Bramty’s RU-vid videos I liked her instantly bc she was so real. She has never changed! 😵

I LOVE THE BRAMFAM! & i loved your podcast with talk that talk! keep pushing!

Bramty you can be all you are and still cook sis lol Cooking is essential, at least learn even if u don't do it every day Specially since u have kids

I absolutely love these! Keep it up Bramtea!!!!❤❤❤

I appreciate the honesty & respect y’all so much!! I can relate to a degree. Again… Love is not enough for a marriage!! Marriage is hard and it will never be perfect but all that matters is that you guys grow together

Love y’all’s prodcast❤️❤️I always wait for that notification 😂

Omg I loved this one so much !! Such great advice 🔥

The way Ik bramty was ITCHING TO INTERRUPT lolllll I’m the same bc my mind works too fast

i love that she interrupted him again bringing in the dogs and introducing them LMAOOO

I don’t think Luis made toxic decisions… as a partner you have to work together to achieve those goals together.

I appreciate the flaws you guys show in your relationship. It shows growth and how long you’ve come and you still are dedicated to each other. So many RU-vid couples pretend to be picture perfect and then suddenly divorce . Y’all are so real for that

I still wanna know why Luis moved out that one time lol

My husband and i make 10 years in october, we’ve been together since 17/18 and we are literally just like you guys 😂 the mommas boy things back in the day, teaching him how to be a man, him limiting my spending (i was and still am financially irresponsible 🤪) its so refreshing seeing a couple BE REAL!!!

I’m obsessed with these podcasts best idea you guys have had in a while 😍🤪 i’ve been here since the beginning you both have grown so much I’m proud of the both of you

It’s immature to not over consume? I use 100$ and I’m happy and healthy? Not all of us are over consumers 😂 I love my husband for his budgeting skills:) Another episode where bramty is perfect and no one else is😂

You have every right to speak how you feel Bramty. You’re a very strong person and I admire that.

I love the podcast! I’ve been watching you since the thrifting days and seeing y’all get to this point is so great bc y’all always needed a podcast!

I love y’all so much IM LIVINGGGG FOR THIS PODCAST

U better get into the 2nd pregnancy!! We want the tea bram"tea" lol

The pettiness 😂😂😂 that'd be me as well not gonna lie. Sometimes our partners can be selfish and not think about having a clean home and not accumulating mess. But for reals though, thank you both for talking about your problems and how a couple can truly work as a team to become better for each other and individually. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!! real talk! Love y'all bramfam stay blessed 💕

I recently started watching your podcast. Love to see you guys. Love how real you guys are. keep them coming love you bramty & Luis

We need a raw video of what went down with bramty and her older brother and now the stuff that went down with her younger brother. Now thats the tea i want to know about

Does Bramty not know that she can tell her nurses if she doesn’t want someone in the room and they will kick them out for her? Lol why is she not taking accountability for that?

The way you guys say decision Aw 🥺