I'm just so fucking sad, how can someone easily walk out of your life after all the times you've spent? how can they not fucking care about how you obviously love them and leave without a reason like what the fuck.
You know, I’ve been through these two situations. One day, my favorite person in the world, my best friend, just stopped talking to me, she started to avoid me, and I didn’t realize why. Finally I convinced her to talk to me, after weeks of panic attacks, and crying hysterically every single day. She told me that she just can’t keep up with our relationship, and just like that, she broke it apart . A couple really bad months passed by, and I’ve got amazing support from my boyfriend at the time, one of the most amazing people I’ve ever met. We were together for a year and three months, he was my first boyfriend ever, so we had a very deep emotional connection, I loved him very deeply. But then, I started falling out of love, he haven’t done anything bad, but from some reason, my heart started falling for somebody else, my very good friend at the time. And I ignored my feelings because I was too afraid to confront them. I didn’t want to hurt my boyfriend like my bestfriend had hurt me. So, obviously it started to effect me, And I didn’t have anyone to talk to, I was completely lost. And one day, I took a very deep decision and chose to break up with him. My favorite person in the whole world, who helped me through so much shit, and to overcome everything, my eating disorder, and my anxiety, I broke up with him. And me being in these two situations, I can tell you that they’re both were equally hard and devastating. After about a month, I was starting to fall so hard for my friend at the time, and we became closer and closer, until one day, he kissed me, It felt like magic, feeling this much love and excitement that I didn’t feel for so long. So we started dating, and soon after, my ex boyfriend found out. I felt horrible knowing that he was going through so much shit, and that I was the reason for it. I was treating myself horribly, blaming myself for everything, and my anxiety came back, and this time it was really bad. But you know, from his perspective it looked like I didn’t care, like our relationship was nothing to me, and it cannot be farther from the truth. It took me so long to realize that it was no ones fault, even not mines. love is complicated, and no matter what you’ll do, you’re going to get hurt from it, But at the same time, love is one of the most wonderful things in the world. Love and support everybody, I hope you’ll soon feel better💗
Pleasedontgo Iloveyouso after months of break downs and suddenly feeling down without any reasons, I can finally say I’m on my way to happiness, I found someone who truly makes me happy, makes me wanna live, have fun and be myself. Love can really do so much to you it’s amazing.
Honestly I have never been in a relationship so I don't know how it feels to have someone break my heart other than the fictional characters I relate to and make me want to yell at the sky.
I got sent to the friend zone by someone who said they liked me as more than just a friend, it hurts but i realised that you don't need to be with someone to be happy! The worst part is seeing her flirt with my best friend every day, it's more pain than happiness from my experience but it's not always that way, idk why i'm saying all of this but it's been bottled up inside me for a while!!! Hopefully this doesn't get read!
Damn I wrote this comment so far ago and I am still hurted from the same woman... but everyday I get stronger and try to move on. One day I will leave her as a good memory
one year ago .. and ii see ur comment today , on March 27, 2020 ... corona virus , Australia burning koalas from wildfires , world war 3 , so much has happened..
I shouldn't have stopped texting. I shouldn't have stopped calling. I shouldn't have stopped holding your hand or running my hand through your hair. I shouldn't have done what I always do to the people who love me, genuinely and unconditionally. But I do. And now I'm stuck. I pray you never experience having to constantly wonder, everyday, what might've been.
i came here to vent in a way. i listen to this audio and it just reminds me of him. everything of him. i can remember everything little detail. the scar on his cheek, the way his lips are shaped, how his hands fit around mine, everything. i miss him. but as he was everything to me, i was another girl he had messed with. another girl to throw away. another girl to say he had. here it's been, a month, and he's already moved on to so many girls. i was just another one of his victims in a way. he uses girls as toys and i know that but a part of me still remembers the good times and what i thought was love. it wasn't love. it was a game.
Haylee Wright I'm really sorry to here that I know the feeling I loved a girl for many years and after all the time we had together she moved on while I was crying for her we known each other for years and now it's like I dnt exist to her and that's what hurts the most we have a kid together and she treats me like if we never had a baby together this pain is unbearable and she knows but she dnt care
Haylee Wright i fill your pain there is this girl and we had a thing this break comes and she just forgets about me them later on she comes and grabs my hand ask me for$ and tells me she loves me silly me i fell for her lie and tricks and her gold digging ways , it was just yesterday she grabbed my hand and then today she is with a new man😷💔
I know that’s what’s happens to me several times cause the were fed up with me and told me I was no longer good enough for them and stuff like that’s and saying I should stop riding cause I can’t ride
These types of things don't happen from one second to the next, people don't immediately change their mind about something this serious. Think of it as a seed, the thought is planted and over time it will grow and blossom if not dealt with immediately. Once it's fully grown, it's almost impossible to change their mind because it's already set.
Getting over someone you still love is hard but it’s worse to be trapped in a relationship or be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you anymore
I see the way u look at her. I know. Because u used to look at me that way. It used to be me. And now. U hold her like uve never held someone the same way u did to me. U take her on dates, give her hugs, everything that we did. U two go for it. But the only difference is. Youre happier with her. While I was happier when Im the only one with you. And u smile twice as wide with her than when u were with me. So. Yeah. Glad youre happier
All the way back in third grade I had this friend, and we were super close. Then the day came and he had to leave, he drew on a bottle cap and it sounds stupid but I kept it. The only way we could communicate was through email but he barely had time to talk. I lived off of 3 emails a year from him. And as I grew I never forgot him, as soon as he left I felt so empty. He tried to visit up until 5th grade then the visits stopped. I remember memories of us as kids and how I felt when I used to hug him. He will always be my friend but now that I'm in highschool and he finally got a phone we can text. And I know that I liked other boys and dated it never felt right, because I never stopped thinking about him even when I had a bf. Now I know that I fell in love with that boy years ago, and I can't shake this feeling I still have. I still have that bottle cap and the other stuff he gave me. I saved every single email even all those years back. I know I still care but I don't know if he ever did. Which hurts because I've had do go through each and every day without him. He fell for a girl where he lives for a while now and.... there comes a time in people's lives where you just gotta let go, but I never could..... and I worry I never will.
Its like when i look into her eyes our connection is just unbreakable and i know she feels it too but she's with him and she's happy and i will never try to take her happiness away even if its at the cost of my own
Why is that I feel in love with some one....who always pushes me away. She has a tendency to hurt herself, watching her like that...i do the same...i cut myself, i burn my self. Still... She comes in my life for a while...and she again goes again. I still can't get over her. Even whn she destroys me ever time I'm with her. A get a sweet kinda squeeze feel on my chest... everytime I'm with her, but whn she is not around...tht same feeling stays...bt when she is not around...that feeling is unbearable. Still....why can't I move on? How do I prove to her, that she is my everything and my entire life revolves around her. Still...why does she chase something that's not even there!? Am I not enough? Is my love not enough? Me getting destroyed by her, just to gain a little bit of her presence...is that not enough?
The Connection The Love The Respect The Attachment that ME and My Husband share is endless THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS CHOOSING ME IN ANY SITUATION I LOVE YOU MY BABY💍🔐♾💜💚🌎
I dont know What it feels like to be loved or be in a relationship. But i do know what it feels to not have someone to love or protect. I wont know what it feels like to be heart broken because I.. I dont have anything I dont even have a heart worth anything. When you think you find that one person and they just leave you behind like your worthless and replacable. I dont know what its like to be heartbroken but i do know its like to never have experienced the feelin of someone that cares
I keep telling myself that i need to concentrate on my career first but then i see people my age falling in love and I'm just there, present but only looking at people be happy from afar. I wish i was that lucky too
It's gut wrenching to agree with you, I was in love with him for nearly nine years, and to have fallen out of that love and tried so hard to get back to it and fix it. In the end I had to hurt him, because I couldn't make him feel the same emptiness I felt. Sadly it's something you wish you weren't on the end of this spectrum. I certainly wish I wasn't.
my heart is breaking.. slowly.. and i couldnt do anything to relieve this ache i feel deep in my heart.. i still miss him.. i miss him a lot, he said he wouldnt go. why would he lie, he out of all people. babi lahhh
You know I had a best friend and I wasn’t in love with her but I loved her like family and when we stopped being friends it broke my heart, like a peice of me died
Sharmane W yes i had a best friend and it’s been a year since they left, and since it’s past emotions i don’t know whether i just miss the guy or i fell
Sad but true. These words have touched my heart. Nowadays, it's really hard to even find a decent person who isn't going to fuck you up. People were made for God's glory. Now look at this. People aren't exactly showing great examples of that... No matter what we do now, there's no going back. There's no fixing it. The human population is now permanently damaged, and we can't fix that. I'm really sorry that she treated you like shit. I know the feeling... you deserve better though, anyways, if she doesn't care.
The friendship me and him had was special... I thought it was more it felt like more.. we used to just be able to hold each others hand looking into each others eyes and it wasn’t weird it was like we were dating but we weren’t the way he would wink and smile killed me, it made me fall for him more... the way his blue eyes would shimmer in the sunlight the, way he would smile, the way he would laugh everything he did made me fall for him more and more... and then one day I asked him out hoping he would say yes... praying and wishing he would.. he said no and that he wanted to stay friends... now we don’t talk.. we don’t laugh.. we don’t smile.. we don’t hold each others hands... all of that gone in a heartbeat... a broken heartbeat... the past few months have been hard but he recently started looking at me and I’m failing for him again... I know I shouldn’t.. I know I should stop but he’s taking over everything of mine... he’s taking over my life and it hurts I wanna be able to stop him but then again I want him to be mine..
this reminds me of someone that i love so much and i thought he loved me that way and then one day it just all ended like that and he just walked away with such ease and t hurt like hell to know he lost interest in me so fast and just moved on...
When my ex left me she said I hope someone loves you the way you love me with tears in her eyes. She meant it, and she meant it in the kindest way possible. Those words haunt me to this day it’s been so long.
@@xaeaxii7777 I’ve loved someone again but it’s been unrequited. I’ve accepted that no one will ever love me the way I loved her. While it’s not the happiest outcome I’m at peace with it.
@@xaeaxii7777 if the opportunity presents itself you should go after it don’t run away. There’s a thin line between love and hate and it’s always a gamble but I think love is worth it.
This reminds me of someone I Love with almost most of my heart and just can't live because it would damage a friendship with someone since nursery. But I just love him
Ok I need help, you can choose to scroll by and ignore me I don’t care but if you would like to listen to my irrelevant problems then...... I’ve know this boy for a while. We were friends since before we were born. We grew up together and I loved him so much. But then I moved away and it’s been almost 5 years without him in my life, I can’t remember the last time I talked to him. But, I still love him, maybe more than a friend. I’m pretty sure that he’s moved on by now and has a crush on someone else but I wouldn’t know, cause we don’t talk anymore. But for reasons I can’t explain, I think of him everyday. I think I might like him a little more than I should and I’m so confused and don’t know what to do. Help me maybe?
almost always we continue to love person because we think that 'maybe' he loves us. you should get over 'maybe' and then you get some options. you can start simple coversation with him and talk 'bout it, cause most of the time people make easy things seem hard, but then again it's all 'bout your own situation, you know better. or you should remember social science lessons about conscious and unconscious. after your thoughts about him will get in conscious at least three times, it will get to unconscious and cause of that you think of him every day. so delete all you have bout him, like photos, messages, everything that reminds you. take up new hobby, even if it sounds like cliche it really works or study more. make sure you won't have a lot of free time. and of course talk about it with your friends (family if you like)
The way I look at him scares me... I genuinely like this boy..... but I’m scared of being hurt again... so scared to the point I can’t even talk to this new boy... but god I know how I look at him... how I talk about him... and he doesn’t even know I exist or how scared I am...
I feel like I'm standing in a dark room, the only source of light is a candle I'm holding. I can see all these eyes staring at me. The candle starts to flicker and I think, "Should I let it go out, I wouldn't be able to see them staring.." But I don't let it go out because I have hope. Hope that one day they'll all stop staring.
I love someone and he just stopped talking to me after being there... I miss him and I wish he could see how often I look at him and I wish he knew that he's the one person who's always on my mind
Me and my ex of 11 years broke up earlier on this year. It’s been 8 months and she’s moved on now and I try to pretend I’m over it but I’m not. I think apart of me will always love her. And the beginning resonates me with me because I see pictures of her and her new partner online and the way act around each other and it just reminds me of how she used to act with me when we first started dating. The reality of one sided sucks, it hurts and nothing seems to help. But I had my time and chance with her, it didn’t work. She deserves to be happy.
We all find pain..but suffering is a choice..I want you to manipulate the pain this crisis has given to you instead of it manipulating you ...take it and use it as fuel..use this experience so you forge a future..everything ahead of time is always and will always be a better experience than the past..we just have to choose to fight it or accept it..giving up and failing isn’t getting knocked down..it’s when you don’t get back up.
This is what I wish I could say to him: When I met you, I loved the way you made me laugh. I had really met my match for sure. I knew that if I let you walk away, I would never see you again. So I gave you my number. This turned into friendship. Doing everything together. I didn’t even realize I was falling in love. I felt like I had known you my whole life. You knew how to make me mad. How to make me happy. You’re stubbornness just made you even more cute to me. I watched you go through girls. Just waiting until you would realize I was the one. You finally did. But I think we both don’t want to lose our friendship. We’re afraid we won’t work. We’re afraid this will end like all you’re other relationships. But at night when I’m talking to you. It kills me. Because in the back of my mind I’m thinking “What if you’re the one?” “What if we will never be apart. If we just give it a shot?” Because I go to sleep...thinking of you. I wake up thinking of you. Please tell me what to do.
*gets this recommended 2 years later I wasn’t even in a sad mood I was straight chilling till this popped up, now I feel heartbroken for no reason😐#thanksrecommendations
Wow this put me in tears because this is exactly what I went/going through I'll tell u the story so yes I'm 14 but that doesn't mean I can't fall in love so anyway me and my class went on a school camp and I started to hang out with this boy and we developed feelings for eachother on that camp but little did I know one of his best friends liked me a lot and when we got back from camp the boy I was hanging with asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I was happy being with him for like a week but I realised I didn't love him the way he loved me because u can't just fall in love with someone in 5 days (that's how long the camp was) I still stayed with him tho but I built a strong friendship with that best friend of his and he made me so happy, he made me laugh all the time and I was in love with him and my boyfriend could tell so he confronted me about it and I didn't know what to say because his best friend turned into my best friend and me and him were so in love and I felt like such a bitch loving someone else behind my boyfriends back but I couldn't break up with him because I didn't want to break his heart, I know what a broken heart feels like and I didn't want to put him through that but I realised I wasnt doing the right thing and now my life has fallen apart again just as it was built back up. Now me and that boy aren't friends anymore but I still love him and it sucks and my "boyfriend" loves me still but I don't think I will ever love him like that 💔😭
Not even in love, your a kid still kids get in flings and throw the word love around like it has no meaning, sorry for sounding like a dick but I was there once in your shoes, we all thought the same crap and we all had big wake up calls when we got to the real world
Nam Nam, you, only you are in my heart. He is not in my life for the some time. I lied to myself for so long but is nothing to do. I fought for him but I understood he wouldn't do much for save ourself! I love you Nam Nam! 💜
when I was in about 3rd grade I was so happy. Happy all the time. Everything. Beautiful girl. then one day I was standing outside, laughing and smiling with all my friends and all of a sudden, this feeling went through my body and I thought I was sick. now it all makes sense. Depression. I’m not happy. I have really really really bad anxiety. and I now think I have bad depression. I’m moody all the time and I’m never genuinely happy.
i have tried -so hard- to not feel jealous when you talk with her because once one time a long time ago, when we were younger we were friends -dare i say best friends?- what happened? i don't know- i don't know if it was because i acted as if i didn't see those gazes thrown across the instructors as they told us what to do or because i realized to late what i felt but i felt elated when you looked at me if we could only go back in time before this pandemic and retain what we once had THAT would be enough. because now we don't talk. in fact, you get annoyed when we're partnered together but uh i wish, sometimes things were like how it would be in the books i suppose they're just pieces of paper, though -the purple belt you probably once liked
Yeah ok whatever everything is an excuse with you because your afraid afraid of being hurt again don't go through life holding it against everyone else for someone else's mistakes
I lost my first love my everything my best friend 8 months ago. He was my best friend for 12 years then somehow in those 12 years became my boyfriend for 5 years. I got a secound job to better us to start a life, a family, and he broke up with because the streets and drugs were more important and he couldn’t give it up for me,for our life.i just thought we would be together forever. You just never see anything like this coming. We were smiling saying I love you one day then next day he said he was using me and on meth. It’s just nobody understand the hurt your feeling and you just don’t understand it yourself and you just can’t explain it, all you can do is just feel it all day and when you sleep you dream about them and it just becomes a habit. It’s just really hard.nobody tells you about the day you lose your best friend and boyfriend in one day.
So I need advice I think I like this guy he's abt 3 years older than me and in my sister's grade😥😒I told him a few years back that I liked him but he had a HUGE crush on my sister at that time after that I said I got over him and we went on with our lives but now he's back in mine and I don't want to loose/ruin our friendship Soo how do I tell him??!!??
The worst thing is when you open your HEART truly. And they lie and take advantage of TRUE love. And use your heart and kindness to manipulate YOU.WOW.
I’m sorry I wasn’t enough for you... that I couldn’t be good enough while we dated, or for your feelings to me would last while I was on that week trip in June, or for being the crappiest friend... I’m sorry I can’t be what you want from me...
im really loyal but my boyfriend thinks I don’t love him anymore bc he thinks I fell in love with somebody else when I told him no , you’re my last , I only want you forever , you’re the right one for me baby 😔
This hits me in the soft spot😢 my ex boyfriend broke up with me after I found out he cheated on me with my best friend break ups suck when you really loved him and he didn't care about hurting you.😢
"I see the way you look at her. In a way you never saw me. Like you never saw me at all. And I see the way you avoid me whenever I bump into you in public. What changed?"
no one refers to me as the beautiful girl as I was anymore. even my parents complain about how angry I am and how I’m not nice anymore. I try to be happy and nice but it’s just so hard. They don’t get it :( no one gets it.
I’m convinced that RU-vid is stalking me...this was in my recommended and I click being curious and not knowing that it audio of “The Vow”. The Vow is one of my favorite movies in the world, but there’s actually no way that RU-vid could know that because I haven’t put anything about it on the internet...unless Alexa or Siri were listening to me while I was watching it on DVD
Ever.. be in so hopelessly in love with someone you can’t be with...? You know you can never be with them but you love them even more...? You know they are terrible for you but you see past that and love them anyways....? It’s the worst feeling.. feeling of hope and loss. Happiness and depression. Happiness and sadness. Tears and laughs... smiles and scars.. life and death... I miss you, and I wish. I could close my eyes and forget all the pain you put me through...
I have this feeling, unexplainable it’s like I love this person , but I don’t see us as a couple or dating but I just don’t see them as friend either or neither a bff or close friend. Something more stronger but which I don’t what... which I’m trying to figure out :/
I was in a one sided relationship just I was the one side it hurt every day to say I love you and hear same back to hold there hand and they just shove it aside for them to continue hurting me and for me to continue loving them it hurts every day even though I left him leave it still hurts ☹ I'm breaking evry day and just need someone to help me and tell me its gonna be okay 😣💔
Ugh this hit hard. I broke up with my bf three times and he still loved me. I never knew why. But then the fourth time he broke up with me. And it was because I’m in love with another guy. And I can’t be with him. And I hate myself for what I put him through. And it sucks. So I know exactly what the girl feels…💔
That song reminds me of how i broke up with my ex i told him because it was like he didnt give a fuck about me and acted like we were friends and he didnt respond and you dont how much i wanted to to say something... *anything* but he just let me walk away its been 8 monthes and i kinda *miss* him 😕 but he moved on i wish i could do the same
What do you do if you can’t heal after breaking up with your ex? It’s been almost a year now and for some reason I haven’t been able to let it go..It hurts still. And I wonder why? And then I realized it’s because I loved him with everything I had in me..Only for it all to be taken advantage of. He wanted sex, I wanted love...He lied, he always wanted other girls while dragging me along, and I was stupid enough to hold on. To wait till he finally chose me..And when he did, it did make me happy, but I was so tired. Too tired to give more after all of that investing with nothing being reciprocated. I was drained. Empty. So I started to become distant as he wanted to get more intimate. I closed myself off and eventually broke up with him. I didn’t want to. But I knew I needed to. He wasn’t treating me right...And now after ten months let’s say he comes back in and wants to start over..He has changed through out that time. He’s now wanting to try again with me, to make it work this time and treat me better. But then there’s a chance for me to move on, a new guy comes in..Also wanting to be something with me. So what would you do? Give your ex another chance? Or try someone new? >-
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