I spent a day with NON-BINARY PEOPLE 

POG

Ok, I’ll check back then 😄

Hello :D

YOOO

Can't WAIT

It is just a person thing. You don't have to accept sexist stereotyping. You can challenge it, as women, gays and lesbians have been doing for centuries now. The so-called 'nonbinaries' challenge nothing. They endorse the very system they claim to be against.

@@AM-ne4uo Not true, nonbinary people don’t identify as nonbinary because they don’t fit in with stereotypes, it’s because they don’t feel like either gender

@@Batshitcrazyfreak Yes, and 'gender' is sex stereotypes and roles. What else are they not fitting into?

because different genders are good at different things guys are better at doing the heavy lifting because in ages pass we were the protectors of the family and know how to fight girls are better at keeping things neat and tidy because in ages pass they were the housekeepers who needed to keep the place clean and cook for the family guys are better at hunting, wood cutting, building places girls are better at cooking, cleaning, and giving a damn. what i find odd though... since we all evolved from cavemen, didn't the cave women of the past also hunt and what not? wonder what the explanation for that is i'm a guy and i want to learn how to cook/be good at it (mostly because my food tastes are unique and i'd rather cook for my family than my future wife only cooking for herself + kids if i have any) i'm also ocd as hell and need to keep things organized/everything has to have a home otherwise its a mess tl;dr stereotypes exist, just deal with it and move on

Yeah I agree

Awesome

It also adds to my language ! (Filipino) we don’t use gendered pronouns since there’s a term or word for it, “siya/niya” which means “you” and “sila/nila” which are sort of the translations for “they/them” pronouns ! ^^

I think all austronesian languages have no grammatical gender

Same in Finland, we don't have she or he, we use "hän" which is just genderless version of he/she.

turkish people also don't have gendered pronouns, we just use "o"

Oml that's so sweet 😭

Aww, that's so cool! ;v; Thanks for sharing, that's awesome! They definitely sound like a great friend! ^^

i love that so much oh my god

Aww…

aww

Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

AAAA IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A COMMENT TALKING ABOUT THIS YES YES

THATS COOL

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Omg that’s friking amazing that was like my fav charachter

I literally didn’t realize until my second time watching and now my lil enby heart is so happy

I do not have pronouns Please do not refer to me

then what pronouns do you use if not they/them? any??

@@ir489 some nonbinary people do use all/any pronouns, but they can also just use singularly he/him or she/her! they can also use a combination of pronouns like he/they, or neopronouns! for example, im nonbinary and i use multiple pronouns! (they/he/ey/glass) also, neopronouns if you didnt know, are pronouns that arent the typical he/she/they. personally neopronouns just feel more like me when the typical pronouns arent *just* right.

@@beautifuljazz1322 nonbinary and trans people use neopronouns alot too, they are valid and are only wrong when mocking us. not everyone is comfy with the other pronouns and it fits right for them and makes them who they are. these are my pronouns. i am nonbinary. im not mocking anyone, this is my identity.

@@beautifuljazz1322 i use nounself pronouns (glass), and they are valid if used genuinely. using them to mock people is wrong but people use these pronouns because they fit them and it defines their gender. these pronouns are valid when used genuinely and not in a mocking way. it comes down to the users intentions. if they use the pronouns to mock people that is bad, but if it helps them with their presentation ect it is perfectly fine. im not going to fight you on this. they are valid pronouns when used *genuinely* by someone. let people use the pronouns that fit them and their gender. the invalid people you are talking about are the people who mock neopronoun users, not the people who actually identify with the nounself neopronouns.

You never heard of the centuries long women's movement? More freeing than putting yourself in a box just so you can wear a skirt.

@@Mel-wn9gb I don't think you understand, finding a comfortable box allowed me to be myself-- I'm not forcing myself into this box just so I can wear a skirt. I spent a long time dealing with dysphoria around the idea of being a "woman," not because of clothing (my mom has never dressed particularly femininely but is still certainly a woman) but because that label in and of itself didn't fit me. Because I was so unsure of myself and hated the label that was forced onto me, I avoided "feminine" things in general for pretty much my entire life, but now that I'm comfortable with myself, I no longer feel the need to avoid things like skirts or embroidery just because I see them as "girly"-- now they're just things I like that don't determine my gender. I am fully aware of the women's movement, but that was not the issue at play for me-- perceiving myself as a woman in any sense tends to cause me intense discomfort; I spent months coming home and crying on my bed wondering what was wrong with me because of it. I knew I wasn't trans, but I also didn't feel like a woman-- it's just a weird gut feeling that I don't know how to describe. Based on the other comments you have left on this video, though, it seems that you're unwilling to allow people like myself to be who we are, and if you feel the need to try to convince me that I'm forcing myself into a box when I try to share a positive experienxe, perhaps you should take a look at yourself and reconsider the way you spend your time.

im a trans man and i feel the same way. like ppl always ask "why are now comfortable being feminine". bc i needed to get my gender right to feel comfortable. im a man but im comfortable wearing what looks cool and for me coming out and accepting myself helped me with that so much

@@Mel-wn9gb no they didnt like the box they were placed in bc it was the wrong box. the nonbinary box or outside the box (idk what the the correct term) fits them better.

@@kai_alex So what exactly do you mean by the 'binary' box then? What makes you two any different from any other girl or woman who felt comfortable enough in themselves to put on a skirt or a pair of pants, if it has nothing to do with sex stereotypes? Opposing sexism is always a good way to spend our time. You guys should try it.

Yes, that's why defining people in terms of 'gender' is such a huge backward step.

Stop supporting a channel that gives Jeffery Marsh a platform. A guy who tells his fans to stalk and threaten people who call out his concerning behaviour such as telling kids to abandon their parents and get his pateron so he can talk to them "intimately and privately".

Ayyyy fr no cap sleezy shawty triflin no dirty docks cap a hunned 😂😂😂😂👌👌👌👌

Whats there to be mad? atleast youre #1 lol

You dislike the stuff that gets uploaded by my fingers clicking upload? Are you just a h8er boi? I say see you l8er boi. Don't watch the stuff that gets uploaded by my fingers clicking upload anymore. Your dislikes are damaging my good good GOOD reputation. I am a superstar, dear um

hell yeahhh! Also I love your pfp so much, I’m a happyduo fan as well

YOO SAME AND HELLO FELLOW HAPPYDUO USER

that gave me the chills

That perfect response is exactly what caught my attention too. Beautifully said. I do believe the courage these people demonstrate every day will bring peace to future generations.

I had goosebumps the minute I heard them say that. It is so profound and so true.

How I live my life as a nonbinary person too! Especially as an almost nurse

I doubt that people can act anyway and still get hurt

Hungarian too. For the most part. He, she and they are all "ő" and it is "ez, az".

yea, for the oral part yes, but not when writing..

@@again7pyms actually, the difference in writing happened only after the New Culture Movement in China in the 20th century. It was because the leaders of the movement wanted to "learn from the west" hence they altered Mandarin to be more similar to English and other European languages, so they created the female version of the writing "her". Before the 20th century, all the writings between different genders are the same. (Even now if you use the original TA on females I believe no one will regard it as a "wrong" writing)

@@chiuharn-ching9997 Interesting. Thank you for telling us.👍

@@chiuharn-ching9997 genuinely did not know this, I was always confused when learning Chinese why there were gendered means of writing tā when it made no difference to the context or meaning, that's one thing I despise about English, the language isn't gendered whatsoever, so why are there gendered pronouns? A woman's T-shirt is still called a T-shirt, so why is it a woman's T-shirt? I know it's because it's manufactured differently to fit a different body structure, but if it's made to be different, why not label it as a different thing from the start if your intent is to make it gender specific? English is Germanic based, which has gendered words, only with a third, neutral gender, why this wasn't adopted to English outside of words like Blond/Blonde (which I understand is French) is strange, and even the direct gendered words that aren't pronouns have no difference in pronunciation, only in writing It's so strangely inconsistent, the use of gender specific pronouns in other European languages is because they have gender specific words, this was something totally unnecessary to apply to English, yet it was And to finish my rant, gendered titles These only started because other languages had them, and we adopted gender specific pronouns, however most currently used leadership titles are not gender specific, probably because they were created with the intention of only having men fill those rolls, so there wasn't a point, but European sexism isn't what I'm here to get into, there's terms such as President, Prime Minister, Judge, Justice, Ruler, Leader, Senator, none of these are gendered, however Emperor/Empress, King/Queen, Priest/Priestess, Prince/Princess, etc. all are. These are all positions of power, why are only some gendered? Even if the formerly mentioned titles were created with the intent of being male-only, why do we have female-specific terms for other positions of power? As I was finishing that up, I remembered we do have a term for a president's wife/husband in First Lady/Gentleman, however the term for their spouse remains gender neutral president With the absurd amount of inconsistencies within our own language, I don't understand the point of contention so many people find, considering the only gendered part of the language is pronouns, titles, and words that originate from gendered languages I'm sorry I wrote so much, I basically came in here intending to say "hey, I'm learning Chinese right now, and you just taught me a little fun fact that clears up some of my confusion", once passion kicks in, I begin to ramble (really hurts me when I'm arguing with someone, since there's often inconsistencies or a lack of structure)

Hi! I’m an intersex and transgender genderless youth. Thank you for posting this. I find it rly hard to find other transgender intersex people, even just stories of us being happy, so seeing your post made me really happy. I hope you have a good day

@@Thisisit_zaijian I'm glad it made you feel happy. I hope you have a beautiful day/night.

That’s good way of thinking

yes king!

This makes me feel better about shopping in the men's section for shoes and bags despite being cis-female. Thank you.

This is pretty cool! Small steps are great! Thank you for that end part!

such a cool story!!

this makes me so happy, please keep being you

I got scared too, Jeffrey seems like a really cool and wise person, I love them

@@gay_king22 I think im in love with jeffrey's personality. the kind of confidence, positivity, and "no struggle is too hard" attitude I need in my life. 10/10 would be good friend

I too thought this was going in a VERY different direction

I read this right as the part came up lol

I got so scared for them honestly I thought it was going in a VRY different direction

This made me so happy.

fellow transdude!!!!!

Based on what? If you don't mind me asking

@@solmoman Hm? What do you mean? What's "based on" what?

@@solmoman Probably based on.. experience? No idea what you're asking lol

You're either one or the other.

@@DarthSion6987 I'm the or

@@DarthSion6987 im fidel castro

Manbearpig is real

@@Bingobanana4789half man half bear half pig?!?!?

Yep. I use they/them and he/him.

@Random Kiddo do I need to smack said people?

Just out of curiosity, can you be non-binary using she/her or he/him? Like I’m generally used to the typical they/them for enby people and (I think) she/they for demigirls, he/they for demiboys (don’t quote me on that), but are they still considering non-binary? (This is out of curiosity. Just because I’m part or the LGBTQIA+ community, doesn’t mean I know everything about it)

@@Aconitums_Poisoned_Art yeah I use just he/him and I’m still 100% NB

I'm non binary and I use he/him, so I can confirm that this is true

... i was subconsciously doing that... thank u

@@louvervaeke8121 me too… 🥺

Thanks

💞

haha i was actually scared to check the comments but people are nice :)

Why do you use the terms 'gender nonconformity' and 'nonbinary' if you don't think 'gender' should define us or matter? Doesn't make logical sense. What even is 'light gender nonconformity'?

@@Mel-wn9gb **sigh** Did you even watch the goddamn video you're commenting under? I've got better things to do than educate you on stuff that is literally right in front of your eyes.

@@TheNotoriousDUDE I watched it and used my critical thinking skills while I did. You should try it. You don't want to educate me. You want to indoctrinate me. It's not going to happen. Lol.

While I agree with you, I must also say that as a trans guy who's getting misgendered all the f*cking time and has tons of dysphorias, gendered items kinda save my life. It's just so important to me to be seen as a guy, by others and also by myself, and wearing "girl" things would make things SO much worse. I'm really looking forward to starting hormones and stuff so I can get my freedom of expression back, but until then, I always make sure I'm only shopping in the men's department

@@fussballer1001 Yes of course, that definitely makes sense! What pisses me off is when people use items' gender designations as a means of restricting their kids' freedom of expression. I will say that these are two separate issues though ^^

I think they did a lot of healing at the Buddhist monastery

ikr, wtf… it's so insane! But it makes a lot of sense to think of it from the perspective of the parents being in fear. Fear often makes ppl make very dumb decisions🫂💚

He turned out to be weird so no

I love this 🥰 *gender limitless* This is why I love linguistics, words are so powerful 😌🤩

@@soulgazer11 i agree such a great term that i will now use

if the terms don't mean anything, what's the point of keeping them?

I completely agree! My parents didn't really seem to push me and my siblings beyond our comfort zones but they did seem to expect us to like certain things when we were younger. As we've grown up, they haven't pushed us toward doing things according to our gender. It's nice to encourage your kids to do certain things but ultimately it's up to the child.

There are some parents who raise their kids genderless, and that's a problem. But raising kids to do things without them being gendered is fine

Fan fact: the reason it was a symbol of royalty is because purple-coloered dye was really hard to acquire back in the day, so only rich people could afford it this is the same reason way no country has purple in it's flag, because then it would've been to hard to recreate for the general population

@@bigwijdsljla what does that have to do with fans

@@lucidlemonarts7597 well I am a fan of the color purple

Is THAT why I look good in it?

blue and pink didnt mean boy and girl till after world war 2

Ikr!!!

Its vv pogg

Seriously one of my favorite RU-vidrs. I love him. 🥰🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Wait it's non binary awareness week? Damn, I'm a bad non binary 😂😂😂

OMG NO WAY THATS POG! 😝

Yeah, hes a great interviewer.

it's a sign if Satan approves it

Wow Satan likes Anthony, don’t know how he would feel bout it

yes he's mastered the arts of interviewing

That's cool Satan!

Yes but that doesn’t mean you can run around proclaiming your a woman when your not

@@Bingobanana4789 i don’t believe that.

@@celestialmorpho you should because you can not change your gender. Your gender is determined the minute the sperm hits the egg. Your born you live and you’ll die the same gender no amount of body disfigurement can change that

​@@celestialmorphoYeah because you are mentally ill

​@@Bingobanana4789*you're

You should give a shit because you'd be defining not only your own child, but yourself and everyone else in terms of regressive, sexist stereotypes.

@@Mel-wn9gb lol what?

@@DustyKeyboardahh 'Cis', 'trans', 'binary' and 'nonbinary' are literal sex stereotyping. Why would you support that?

@@Mel-wn9gbyou should support anyone, for who they are. But you shouldn’t support haters that talk shit about these things.

@@-LinnHasPaws- If 'who you are' depends on sex stereotyping other people, then no, we should not support that shit.

HELPSDKSFNSK why would that make me so euphoric I would love for my gender identity not to be perceived

Yea I’ve felt that before ಥ_ಥ

@@nickmerryman1666 void-gender

"Error 404: Gender not found" I love that

Damn.

Bump

Yas

Absolutely !

and captions help non hoh people consentrate

1000% agree!! Honestly all videos should have captions

I am happy for you!

That’s awesome!

same with me!

That you are mentally ill

You are being brainwashed mate

i also very recently updated my ID to have X as gender and it's so freeing ,, holy crap

'Gender' is just a made up social construct based in sex stereotyping. You're no different than anyone else. Nobody is 'binary'.

"How I identify does not correlate with how I pee, my guy!" I love it.

Best go-to response I've found to "What's in your pants?" is "Sorry, you're not my type."

I haven’t had anyone ask what’s in my pants yet, but the appropriate response would be “f*ck off, creep” cause that’s a really perverted question to ask someone lol. My genits are nobody’s business, I can’t believe people actually say that to you

That made me laugh so much. I hate how most things are pointlessly gendered.

Me too! love this concept 💕

@Kelly Ali hm??

@Kelly Ali i think that is a personal choice. The difference between this is that the things that should not be gendered are objects. Or ways to do something. I personally feel better after i discovered my gender identity. I guess we should stop gendering items, and just listen to peopke and the way how they identify.

@Kelly Ali someone deciding their own gender isnt harmful, nor sex stereotyping.

As an AMAB person, that’s always made me confused thinking I couldn’t be non-binary because of only seeing them be AFAB. I learned that it was not only AFAB people after a google search, and now I identify as demiboy.

@@Disearned Good for you!! Hell yeah

wat is afab?

@@emilpersidski stands for assigned female at birth, another is amab which means assigned male at birth Hope i helped ^^

@@U.R.coolkid thanks I didn’t know that either!

LMAO THANK YOU

You mean men or woman in the video have impeccable fashion

@@Bingobanana4789 No they mean non-binary people

@@BasedGrandmasKitchen where do you find those? How does a non binary person reproduce?

They look like a My Little Pony character took a shit on them.

As a white, kinda skinny, afab nonbinary person, welcome to the family! Anyone who is nonbinary and a good person is welcome here.

@@AceOfStars0 i appreciate it!! thank you for being so kind!!

@@Kinkamo you're welcome!!! ❤️❤️

You go you little gender frog!

@Serena Nintendo ?

@Serena Nintendo ?

@Serena Nintendo ?

@Serena Nintendo ?

@Serena Nintendo ?

coming soon 👍

​@@AnthonyPadilla yay :)

@Serena Nintendo wdym it’s literally his channel

@Serena Nintendo what?

@Serena Nintendo Could you please explain your comment?

Welcome to the club! No matter size, race, assigned gender, disability, religion, sexuality, etc, you are welcomed as nonbinary, who you are! 💛🤍💜🖤

I feel this a bit.

FR!!

Kids are weird

I remember I was like “red is my favorite color!” And someone told me “that’s a boys color” or my male friends telling me their “secret” and their secret was just that they liked the color purple or pink, and id always be confused cause yknow- they’re just. Colors.

Hold on, I thought cars was a boys thing anyways?

@@incased_pol7335 I think they're a girl

@@ramona974 oh alr

@Serena Nintendo okay this one confuses me??? what do u even mean

He respect everyone on his channel

@Serena Nintendo really??🤦🏻‍♀️

Why r u gae?

I mean if it fits his views of course he will respect it

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Oh my god

THEN DO IT!!!

SLAY

Eyyyy! That's awesome, you do you! I'm proud of you :)

That’s great! The cool thing about life is we can try things out and see how we feel about them. :) wishing you well.

I’m super late, but this was me too!! Proudly using she/they pronouns now as a cis woman :D

True! And here for a side note on your comment: I would suggest you use "assigned female at birth" (AFAB) instead of "biological girl", as there are - as was mentioned in the video as well - more biological gender types than just XX/"female" and XY/"male" :) using AGAB or cis instead of biological is more inclusive for intersex people and just everyone in general, so just a heads up!

Yeah, but it also doesn't make you NOT trans. It's not about the activity. It's about why you do it, how you relate to it, and how you feel about it. Activity is sometimes done IN SPITE OF gender, sometimes REGARDLESS of gender, and sometimes BECAUSE OF gender. It takes introspection to tell. Going against the grain IS ABSOLUTELY a sign to start gender questioning. Questioning is healthy for all people, trans and cis. It brings people closer to their own gender, regardless of what it is. And if they are trans, they're going to want to catch it early. There's nothing wrong with wondering if you're trans and then concluding that you're not. It doesn't hurt cis kids to do this. A better version of your statement would be that your gender is on the inside, not the outside. That goes for trans kids as well as cis kids. Trans girls can like sports and trans boys can like dolls. It doesn't make you who you are.

Flip side: If you're a biological boy, liking football doesn't mean you can't be transgender or nonbinary. If you're a biological girl and like dresses or makeup, that doesn't mean you can't be transgender or nonbinary. Trans women can like football, and trans men can like dresses.

True!! Remember people: sports, hobbies and/or clothes don’t have genders. You can do anything without it being a boy or girl thing!!

This is EXACTLY why Non-Binary isn't a REAL thing! People need to stop misusing and confusing the words gender and sex. You're not labeled a gender at birth, you're labeled a sex according to your biology!

lol I prefer half-hearted ball kicking over whole-hearted ball kicking. tho I think any amab person will agree that no ball kicking is best.

Your friend is mentally deluded don’t buy into their bull shit

REAL

Haha nice. In my family we call my dad “Pop” and as a nonbinary person, I like the idea of going by Mop

There was a cartoon of two kids searching for their parent they called "Mapa"

@@dr.bandito60 that sounds so nice omg

@@dr.bandito60 to be a mop one day…

I’ve thought about that but I came to the conclusion of Pama instead of mapa because- *Pamasian cheese*

AWWW I LOVE THAT

He deserves a frog hat 💕

bless his heart

Lol amazing story

@@patarsbutthole fr

What is there to grasp? You're no different to anyone else. Nobody is 'binary' to begin with.

that's awesome

@Kraus von Grat that’s just untrue lol

@Kraus von Grat If I was born at a weight of 7 pounds, would i be that same weight now? No, I would be at least 100 pounds after years of growth. People can change and you need to learn to accept it.

Hell yeah 💛🤍🖤💜

treading in eggshells when cracking jokes XD

Mantasha Malik Very well spot xD

@@kunaihanaki2914 lol ty

He also asks intelligent questions so that he, and through him his audience, can learn and understand.

Very off topic, but I love your pfp (profile picture) :))

Also, I want to reiterate that you don't need to use they/them to be nonbinary. The interview didn't really show that; two of the interviewees used they/them exclusively, and the third used she/they. You don't have to use they/them at all. You can use he/she, you can use neopronouns, or you can even just use the pronouns you were assigned at birth. So don't stop questioning your gender just because you don't like they/them. Or because you're fine with your name. All are welcome in this community!

And also, you don't need "dysphoria" (at least not in the traditional sense) to be nonbinary. Dysphoria is typically thought of as crying yourself to sleep every night because you don't have breasts, but it doesn't have to be like that. You don't need to hate your body either. You can just feel weird every time you're called a man/woman. You can feel like there's an emptiness in you, that suddenly goes away when you try on the nonbinary label. You can feel perfectly fine, but then trying the label makes you feel like an itch on your back that you didn't notice is finally being scratched. If you think the nonbinary label fits you, that's all there is to it.

And finally, there are many ways of being nonbinary. You can feel in between man and woman. You can feel like some of both. You can feel like your gender fluctuates or alternates. You can feel like your gender's completely off the man-woman spectrum. Or you can feel like your "gender" slot is empty. All of y'all are valid

@@seronimo__7735 Why do we need to be 'slotted' into a 'gender'. That's just sex stereotyping.

​@@AM-ne4uo You don't have to be slotted into any gender if you don't want to be. That's perfectly valid as well.

The reason you didn't fit into sex stereotypes is precisely because they're just stereotypes. Nobody fits into them. That's what makes them stereotypes. Nobody is 'binary' to begin with. That's just sex stereotyping. Therefore nobody is 'nonbinary'. You're just like everyone else.

Congratulations you went 38 years as a normal person then decided over the last 2 years to enter the deluded freaks challenge.

@@Bingobanana4789being non-binary is natural

Slay frfr

So you're still a women?

Agreed my friend. Agreed

straight up factsss

WHY ARE YOU EVERYWHERE XD

Unfortunately your not one of the only people abusing a checkmark

@@magnusw.2758 look at his explanation video for that

^^ *VOUCH*

Big agree

VOUCH!

vouch!

YEAH!!!

It's not transphobic to call out ridiculous bs when we see it.

Yeah. Nonbinary peeps are WAY more epic than dumb transphopes.

@@RivuletClone Thank you :)

@@DarthSion6987 star wars fan moment xd

We don’t need your love we just need you to stop making shit up and expecting us to buy into your mental delusion

That's so cool omg

Damn, moving to Finland rn

Dang, can we get a group flight to Finland.

Indonesia, too. We have "Dia" which can mean He/Him/She/Her and (singular) They/Them.

I had a concept for a homemade language that only had two 3rd person pronouns, they and it, person and object

even yt subtitles r smarter than u

@@saudade_9. ok¿ what do you expect me to say bro you're clearly one of those little kids who think they're based🗿

@@zkolii Subtitles didn't misgendered that guy, that's all. Mabey I am 15 but I'm not gonna let myself to get brainwashed by ppl who r trying to normalize "they/them" pronounce like u "adult". I call u stupid not bcuz I hate u, bcuz ur making scandal out of no where

@@saudade_9. you've already been brainwashed, don't worry

@@saudade_9. bro you're 15? Lmao im 14 and im still smarter than you💀 "brainwashing" lmfao

THAT’S GREAT LMAO also your pfp basically describes my gender, as Link helped me realize i was nb

@@marthmallow7420 HSBSJEHD botw was my biggest hyperfixation for a while i Literally beat it in full 20+ times 😭😭

Imposter syndrome is real, my friend. I am afab nonbinary and still present fairly feminine. At first I felt like I needed to overcompensate for my unconventional feelings but it just wasn't me. You can present however you want and feel totally different. As long as you're comfortable

Good luck! I'm still trying to find out who I am and Anthony has actually helped me with a lot of stuff. I wish you luck with finding out who you are and whether you are a male, female, it, they/them, or you just dont have a gender, we love you and want you to feel safe here.

@@kayladattilo8667 tHe ImpOstEr fRoM aMOngUS??!?!?!!//1

Wow same here, I really love that they put emphasis on that. I think people kinda see non-binary as a third gender or inbetween-gender, when actually it's more like any or every gender outside of the binary.

Ya I'm also feeling this, I really like to wear pretty things which would be considered conventional for my birth assignment, but when I try out labels, be they "woman", "man" or "nonbinary" every single one of those makes me uncomfy ;__; I suppose I might be fine with "agender"..? I just prefer not to think about it and leave it blank :'D But since I dress semi-conventional, there's always the inner nagging of "are you sure you're not just faking", which seriously gets to me sometimes... It's good to hear people confirm you don't have to look a certain way :)

F pointless rules. You do you. If he/him is your jam, then he/him away! :D

There are no rules, you can wear makeup as a guy. No ones stopping you.

@@incased_pol7335 there's actually a lot of people *trying* to stop others from being themselves, and that's exactly why Pride is a thing. The fight for our rights, our freedom to live authetically.

Have you not heard OF A FUCKING TOM GIRL

lol i can’t paint my hair blue because my dad thinks it’s “gay” as well and that shit HURTS

this is so sad. you have been washed by the media.

@leilani how is stating ur pronouns being attention seeking😭

Neopronouns, he/him, she/her, mixed sets of pronouns: *allow us to introduce ourselves*

Yessss - fellow he/they/she

@leilani Neo-pronouns are a thing and are valid. If Firefox feels comfortable with those pronouns than you should respect that. Don't tell someone what pronouns they should or shouldn't use, if that is the way someone wants to be referred to as than deal with it. Also you sound really condenscending, so you should re-think how you write things out.

@leilani stay mad - nonbinary person who uses they/it pronouns

Dope pronouns! I view myself as a guy and use He/They and Xe/Xir pronouns.

@@starnathanstar Awsome!!

I typically hear people say “guys, gals, and non binary pals” because it rhymes

@@charlie_mario6292 same And rhymes are never not awesome

Yup ^^ I'm agender and use he/him pronouns

Addison is a great name. Other names are : Karter, Taylor, Emery, Morgan, and my personal favorite: Alex

How did you find out?

addison is such a cool name!

Gender is a fact

Yeah, I laughed so hard. Such a creative way to think about it XD

I honestly do love it when my children call me "Parental unit number 1" it gives me some much gender euphoria. I'm still ok with they calling me mom though.

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Yeah same lmao

jg;ah

What’s up, checkmark?

Same in Persian!

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Could you give an example of this? I’ve always been super curious about gender between languages but I’m only fluent in English and variations of English-based sign language

@@shaikai3 in a lot of languages using a noun isn't really common and verbs are not gendered like actor and actress but in Persian and Turkish we say things like: O is a actor (referring to male). O is a actor (referring to female). O is a actor (referring to nonbinary). So yeah basically sex based pronounces are a social construct and confusing as fuck for a non native speaker

You're hopping on a trend, maybe to piss off your parents. As old as time.

actually she's masc.

@@trollrat2828 wdym i got offended? i simply corrected the person.

@@simba1376 they use she/they pronouns

Yessss

@@llynxfyremusic I think they were referring to her looks, not her identity

Old time shakephare English weird

Yeah, and in Spanish there's no actual non-gendered pronouns. Every object has either female or male pronouns.

I live in Slovakia 👁👄👁 Every verb, every object, EVERYTHING has a gender T^T

@@gimmebleachlmao2576 I live in France, I understand you bro 🤝

Try Germannnnnn..... we have he, she and it as pronouns. Guess what's an it? Girls. DAS Mädchen, 'cuz it's a diminutive. Still feel English is weird? XD

@Kelly Ali That's what I wanna know? I still don't get anything of this.

that was honestly the most beautiful thing I've ever read, I almost teared up

I love this comment so much. It perfectly describes how pro nouns can feel to a person. Thank you for helping me understand myself better.

I have the exact same feeling as someone who goes by she/they, she/her pronouns are comforting and normal to me, it’s something I’ve known my whole life, but they/them pronouns are a mix of exciting and comforting, I like being called by them, and I love it when people switch up my pronouns when talking about/to me because I get tired of being called by one pronoun consistently in a conversation. That’s my experience :)

As a cis woman, this comment helped me understand. Thank you

me when I'm thirsty : I NEED THAT THEY/THEM

Awesome!

YESSSS

Angel is very attractive they are the way I wish I looked

I've always believed that as long as what you're putting out is 100% YOU, then you can't go wrong! Not everyone will like you and that sucks... but being "true to yourself" is probably the best corny advice I've ever heard. Wear, do, and say things that are true to the person you are inside. Also, I'd buy that shirt!

Yes, I would like one too, with the colors of the non binary flag

I would definitely buy it too

im greek (not fluently, i grew up speaking greek but i also grew up in germany so i stopped speaking it regularly for a long time) and i was unaware of that. do you have any example sentences?

Oooo in german we have He she and another kind of „it“ It’s like Neutrum

@@nikkidevitz Maybe they meant ancient greek? idk.

@@elmolovesyou2320 then it would probably be best to specify that, but if they did, fair enough, i dunno squat about ancient greek.

It’s also the same for Latin, in Latin there is masculine, feminine and nueta

"in the end i'm just a fruit cake!" - big mood, really encapsulates how i feel as a bisexual non-binary person 😂

Just a fruit cake lmao

I don't think that these things can't be one in the same. You can affirm your children and their expression and still feel fear for how the world treats them.

This is very sweet :) I’ve always been curious about intersex experiences but I don’t know anyone who is intersex (or at least openly) and even if I did I’m sure it would be rude to ask. It must be cool to have a sibling who can share experiences with you and expose you things that are (unfortunately) not considered to be the norm. Much love to your sibling, you, and the rest of your family :)

😍

Agree

i love that:(

I’m kidnapping your parents. Parentnapping. ~Seeking the love and affection I never had~

It's not cool. It's sexist and regressive to define people in terms of sex stereotypes.

Btw I believe that there are more than 2 genders I take all pronouns and I’m omnisexual

Maybe you should listen to your mon

@@user-cc4rn6om4i Maybe you should stfu and let people live their life

@@user-cc4rn6om4i It’s all about how you perceive yourself. I’m non-binary and it’s been highly apparent to me for my whole life that gender is a spectrum. My outward appearance has been naturally very neutral for most of my life to the point where it was a 50/50 chance whether someone would call me “he” or “she”. Even today a lot of people can’t tell depending on how I do my hair on a particular day. Even my voice is naturally pretty neutral and always has been. As a result I’ve never really perceived myself as a particular gender because it never felt natural to me. It’s literally just how I am and how I’ve always personally been. Same goes with other nonbinary people. It’s how they are. Like it or not.

right it’s so weird

let’s just make a new term lol, “tom” “boy” - “jane” “girl” 😂

The only problem is girly girls would make fun of and isolate the tomboys. Which create it own problems.

so true…society stop thinking feminity is bad challenge !

yes oh my gooood i used to be so happy i was born a girl because i could do everything even if it wasn’t a girl thing and it wasn’t “not allowed”

Sure but those traits vary through sexes and masculine traits are usually expressed by men and feminine traits are usually expressed by women. it's not to say that there are no feminine men or masculine women but those are few and far between. Even those atypical behaviors for men and women is influenced by prenatal testosterone exposure in the womb. So this idea that gender roles are EXCLUSIVELY socially constructed is not at all true.

@@sandrorukhadze8707 That's bullshit. It's not biological at all, just pure gender roles. Femininity and masculinity are social constructs. Having a female or male body is not. If we grew up without gender roles, people of any gender would be free to do anything they wanted to.

@@sandrorukhadze8707 gender roles ARE exclusively socially constructed. You are conflating gender and sex. male does not equal masculinity (a term invented in the 1890s), male equals penis--and even that is a bit fluid accd to scholar Judith Butler.

@@monbub Wow, talking about logic. What you just did is that you assumed all of the opposite things without providing any substantial counter-arguments to back up your claims and started throwing blanket statements at me. I have a strong suspicion that you deliberately side-stepped addressing the points that I've made. Can you bring proper scientific evidence which shows sex and gender are completely unrelated ? most likely you won't be able to because all of these left-leaning theories have been based in the idea of social constructivism which has quaint scientific basis. All the political games aside, the idea that biology has nothing to do with our behavior is simply not true . It would be enough to look at the animal kingdom and observe continuity between us and them and track how they behave. On the other hand, I kind of understand where you are coming from, you are worried that these biological facts will re-incite sexism between men and women, but that reason isn't sufficient enough to disregard pure scientific facts and truths.

@@sandrorukhadze8707 you're the one pulling facts out of your ass. biology does impact how men and women act (bc of evolution), but its not to the extent where men are always/usually masculine and women are always/usually feminine. we only think we're supposed to act that way, but we don't need to. many people are living proof that it is a social construct. and they dont have any genetic mutations or anything like that, they are just average people. btw the idea of certain traits being masculine or feminine is definitely a social construct. for example, people like to think that men aren't emotional, but they have emotions too. they can also cry, but whenever they do, they feel ashamed of themselves bc its seen as a feminine thing according to society.

You are not, these people are all been acting pretty weird one has been trying to get children to pay to talk to him privately.

​@@RandomCommentMakerPersonWhat a horrible thing to say.

@@Mel-wn9gb indeed it is, but when someone is also being a douche and saying "no you can't have that identity and people who do are p£d0s" i think it's valid to tell them to set themselves ablaze or become a better person

@@cosygoose1813 stage 1 is always denial. Maybe you’re non binary 🤔

​@@Sentient-potatoSo your trying gas light me. Typical.

pls i read "how they walk, how they talk" and my brain went "how their face disintegrates into chalk" ✋

@@mxerror404 same 😭

@@mxerror404 where’s that from?

We prefer NBi because NB means Non-Black, I just thought I would let you know so you can update this going forwards. Thank you

@@TigTig-Kitty i neversaw nb used like that used outside of random miku fanpages on tiktok

One fact.

You guys conflate the two whenever it's convenient. Most people understand the theory. We just reject it because it's conservative and sexist.

@@Mel-wn9gb Please educate yourself. You won't listen to trans people, so listen to scientists. I'm literally begging you at this point, your ignorance is hurting people.