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i started my life over at 30 

itssuhgud
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Soooo this is a bit of a different video. I didn’t expect to post something like this so soon on my channel buttttt I had a wave of emotions come over me. If you don’t know me too well and this video was confusing, that’s okay! It’s more for me to memorialize how I’m feeling and reflecting on a pivotal person and moment in my life.
Someone really important to me passed away four years ago on February 29, 2020. She was like my spiritual grandmother and I didn’t think she would leave this world so soon. Since then, I got divorced, moved back in with my parents, married again, and had two kids. I wonder what she would think about how my life has turned out. It honestly is so wild how much has changed in 4 years.
I guess part of the reason why I’m making this video is because I felt so alone when my life was falling apart when I turned 30. So if your life is not going the way you thought it would be, I hope this video shows you that further down the road, it’ll be okay.
Thanks for being here x3
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Комментарии : 88   
@georgetarr1352
@georgetarr1352 6 месяцев назад
I’m so grateful that you shared this video when you did. I’m a 27 year old woman in Ireland and honestly I really wish we were friends. Bless you 🎉
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw, thank you! We can be RU-vid friends :)
@kathyl3290
@kathyl3290 6 месяцев назад
I called off an engagement after a 10 year relationship just after my 30th birthday. I feel this
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
So glad you got out before you got married.... 🥲 Thank you for watching and sharing too!
@Afrovazi
@Afrovazi 6 месяцев назад
This is so timely! Some of your previous feelings are so relatable. In my 30s and girl this is not what I envisioned my life to be when I was younger. You are blessed to have supportive friends around you. Personally am at that point where if you ask me to mention just 5 close friends except my husband I WILL STRUGGLE. Am starting all over to do things I like, venturing into RU-vid, entrepreneurship etc. The punchline for me, God's got it, it is going to be okay and even great!
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Totally!!! Thanks for sharing. You can start now. It's going to be GREAT!!!
@christellesalomon
@christellesalomon 6 месяцев назад
This video is so refreshing. I am 30 yrs old and my life looks nothing like I thought it would. And at the same time, I know for sure God has designed my life so intentionally and His promises for me will come to pass. Thanks for the encouraging word
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
You could not have said it better!!! Truly!!! ❤❤
@chillwithash
@chillwithash 6 месяцев назад
I had a similar hardship on my 30th birthday. I literally thought my world was crumbling… until one day I woke up and realized that it wasn’t.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
You are strong. You got this!! ❤❤
@KeturahsKaleidoscope
@KeturahsKaleidoscope 6 месяцев назад
Babe I needed this I’m 28 and I started over at 25 this is beautiful
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
So young with your whole life ahead of you!!! You got this 😊😊😊
@samanthalee7863
@samanthalee7863 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing! I started my life over in September 2023. I started over at age 32. I had to hear this today that something better is on its way!
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Totally on the way!!! You got this. ❤❤❤
@workinprogresssince1974
@workinprogresssince1974 6 месяцев назад
I have started my life over multiple times (I make bad choices!). Knowing that you can do it, and it's fine and it's not a step backwards but the start of a new adventure, takes away all the fear that comes with it. Embrace the change. You never know where it's going to lead!
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
One hundred thousand percent!!!
@Purpleavatar96
@Purpleavatar96 6 месяцев назад
thanks for this, it reiterates the fact that peace of mind is more important than holding onto a "reputation" & peoples approval if youre a wreck cus of it.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
It is definitely complicated, but doing things for people's approval is definitely not the way to go. Thanks for watching!!
@SaraiahLopez
@SaraiahLopez 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so so much for sharing this video. You spoke to so many of the current fears that I’m facing. I just turned 35 and it’s like I’m waiting to exhale. I appreciate you💜💜💜
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing... whatever you're going through, you got this and you are strong!!! ❤
@niasteadley
@niasteadley 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing. Life has felt weird for me since turning 30. I plan to start over (in a different way), but this gives me hope!
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aww yes there is so much hope!! I'm rooting for you. :) thanks for watching!!
@IndAfgxx
@IndAfgxx 5 месяцев назад
This was very comforting. Not in a way that i am happy for these negative stuff that happen to you but in a way that I for the first time thought to myself if I was married now and had kids would I be happy? is that what i really want right now? being 28 coming also from an asian background i feel this pressure to reach this "goal" soon. But now seeing this video it made me think if I even want that right now or maybe i am not ready for it. Thank you for this video.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for sharing! I'm glad it was comforting. Definitely think about if you want those things rather than doing it just because of the pressure. Our lives are too short and precious to get married and have kids because other people told us to. I love that you are thinking about it before making a huge decision like that!! Here for you!!
@julianarr94
@julianarr94 6 месяцев назад
My sister always makes a question to me and to herself every year: if the 15 y/o u was looking to how your life is today, would she be proud? Last year I was on the clouds! Had the profession I always dreamed about (I’m a doctor), had a great relationship and was happy. Turning 30 this year and at January my life took a 360! And the 15 y/o me would NOT be proud of me right now, but that made me feel uncomfortable enough to make changes. It is not easy… there are days where I just cry until I scream, but everyday gets less hard. ❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
So crazy how things can turn around for better or worse... it just shows that it can get better too. You got this. Scream if you need to and also keep healing. It's never too late❤
@kywacheese960
@kywacheese960 6 месяцев назад
February 29 will always be a special day especially since it happens once every 4 years. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
For sure... thank you for watching 🥲🥲
@Acefoxygirl
@Acefoxygirl 5 месяцев назад
I’m going through the same situation right now. Scared to leave a marriage then I came across this video when I truly needed it. 🥹🙏 much love to you.❤ Prayers please. Thanks friend🥹
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
So sorry you are going through that... 😔 will definitely lift up a prayer for you!! He is with you!!! ❤️
@Acefoxygirl
@Acefoxygirl 5 месяцев назад
@@itssuhgud thank you so much queen 💕
@heyhellohi_
@heyhellohi_ 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing. This really got me thinking... on the surface, it sounds like you had all the plans to live out your life’s dreams and chose the route most travelled (motherhood, marriage) instead. Kids and marriage are absolutely a blessing when it’s right for someone but, it sounds like you wonder what life would have been had you chased your dreams instead. I hope you still are able to see what that’s like nonetheless.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
It totally looked great on the outside but it was far from it!! My marriage and kids are amazing and I am living my dream right now. 😊😊
@dudapereiralima
@dudapereiralima 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video! I really appreciate your honesty. I'm from Brazil and your video just pop up to me and im glad! I feel God is working in my heart, and your video just touched me so much! I dont know exactly how, but i felt a incredible peace from God and assurance that everything will be ok, even when i dont know how it will works 😅
@npelehacs
@npelehacs 6 месяцев назад
God is with us always, let Him support you and guide you always 😊
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw, God is definitely with you!! We can find peace in knowing that He is working, even if we don't know exactly how!! Thank you for watching and sharing. ❤️
@eunicelee4320
@eunicelee4320 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing Sharon! Love you so much ❤❤❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thanks Eunice ❤️🥰
@breannegeorge9924
@breannegeorge9924 6 месяцев назад
And people start their life over at 35, 40, 50, and on and on. 30 isn't exactly old
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Absolutely!!!
@TruePathLiving
@TruePathLiving 6 месяцев назад
Im going through this. My ex and i of 6 years kind of broke up, he is dating someone else but he still reaches out to tell me he misses me from time to time. I pray to God to reconcile our relationship because i know he is my man. We cannot not talk to eachother. :( ! Also... I have a friend named Madia and we pray and call every single day too. I'm 29! She is 27. I pray tbat God 's plan be revealed for me in my life too.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
oh man, that's hard. if he is dating someone else and still calling you -- it sounds like he has a lot to figure out. I hope you can find peace in whatever decision you make. ❤️ if you're having trouble letting go, my newest video might be helpful..
@savageornah7696
@savageornah7696 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video on RU-vid you see the perfect life but not how someone start over or talk about it
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
yes for sure... ❤️
@itssimply_lily
@itssimply_lily 6 месяцев назад
Watching from Sydney australia. THANK TOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!! you are amazing and blessing on this earth.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw thank YOU so much!!!
@normalouis8593
@normalouis8593 6 месяцев назад
What is your experience with divorce coming from a Christian/ immigrant background? My family and a friend know my situation and agree divorce is an option for me (despite my family being very Christian). I am still practicing and I struggle feeling guilty that my reason isn't good enough (based on the reasons listed in the Bible), it's been very confusing and frustrating. My story is that I ended up in a marriage when i should've said no long ago to being with this person, almost everyone around me was against it too. Somehow though I kept this idea to persist, possibly because I saw my parents go through worse and they stayed together even though they absolutely should divorce but our religion and culture makes it difficult. I even feel guilt thinking about being in another marriage and if it'd be a sin that I moved on/ if some karma would come back to me for the choices I made, even if those choices made my life better. I'd really like to know your perspective, I heavily resonated with this video. Im currently 23 and although we can redeem ourselves at any age, I'd really like to make the right choices sooner than later to decrease difficulties in the future.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
I'm sorry you're going through that. There is a lot to consider. I think sometimes we will get too caught up in doing the "right" thing because we cannot figure out what it is... for me, I tried my best to be Biblical and also know that I will make mistakes and God will still love me. It was a hard process and I struggled a lot with guilt. I would talk to people you respect and also ask God for wisdom. He is your loving Father, and He is with you and for you!!!
@normalouis8593
@normalouis8593 6 месяцев назад
@@itssuhgud Thank you so much for your reply, I really appreciate the advice. Wisdom is something I'll be praying for, it'd be so helpful to be able to have discernment to hear what God is trying to tell me, I learned too late that I didn't listen to him when getting into this marriage. It is really nice to discover more RU-vidrs with a similar background, I think I speak for myself and a lot of my generation when I say it's hard to build a community with others who are seeking God nowadays as it's so easy to be isolated. Channels like yours are such a big help and encouragement while also searching for a community in person.
@BlackChamomile
@BlackChamomile 6 месяцев назад
Sending you love 🤍 Appreciate this vulnerable talk
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thank you 🥲❤️
@Cecred586
@Cecred586 6 месяцев назад
Grief teaches one to be Present in Flesh, Spirit and Form. Grief isn’t to break you but to break free from the fear of taking up space. Take up space because God knows what ails you. ~Dir. dr. Jerusalem Lung
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
thanks for sharing that ❤️
@SophforReal
@SophforReal 6 месяцев назад
❤❤❤ I really appreciate this. Thank you 🙏🏾
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for watching!! ❤
@Cecred586
@Cecred586 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for being a Shining Light ❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
thanks for watching ❤️
@ladybug3380
@ladybug3380 6 месяцев назад
Sending love,light and peace your way❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@josiemystery
@josiemystery 6 месяцев назад
30 and trying to start over in my car. I feel like it's the only way I can be financially independent
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
You are so brave!! I hope things work out for you!!!
@hannahpicart9865
@hannahpicart9865 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for sharing this wisdom!! 🖤🖤🖤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw, thank you for watching!!
@weightliftbracelet
@weightliftbracelet 6 месяцев назад
i LOVE how real you are. Subscribed ✅
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw thank you!!! 😊
@garcia46j
@garcia46j 6 месяцев назад
Just found your channel! You have a way with words 😊
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aww thank you so much!! 🥲❤️
@gh-sb1dy
@gh-sb1dy 6 месяцев назад
i am the samemme way we ar liek identicla twins omg x8 im going thru same thinig im about to hit the big 80 and im thinkign about these also yoru video hits home and im glad i saw thi snow while im still young . ive lived a very simpel life in the midwest arkansas and i finall ynwo decided to leave home and live a real best life. im so happy to have seen this while im young. keep ya head up yoru helping millions of people liek me also and i had many many frends pas sover teh yers it is so hard hard and i decided t divorce my hsband in 76 and ive never looked back. im now happy single and redy to mingle
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Aw thank you for watching and I wish you the best in everything!!
@joannekim4408
@joannekim4408 6 месяцев назад
Love this message Sharon ❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
🥲❤️ Thanks Joanne
@0420ckim
@0420ckim 6 месяцев назад
love you, sister. ❤️
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Love you, sister!!! 😊😊
@smithyt632
@smithyt632 6 месяцев назад
I Appreciate You. ❤❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
I appreciate you too 😊😊
@AnjelaNedyalkova385
@AnjelaNedyalkova385 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing ❤❤
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for watching!!
@michaelworld415
@michaelworld415 6 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@Theodore-vv5sx
@Theodore-vv5sx 6 месяцев назад
New subscriber, Carry on.
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
Thanks for being here!
@Hhnn142
@Hhnn142 6 месяцев назад
❤❤
@Sandra-o1e
@Sandra-o1e 6 месяцев назад
Take Love
@mrs.sueyxbubblez
@mrs.sueyxbubblez 6 месяцев назад
🤍🤍🤍
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 6 месяцев назад
❤❤
@Cecred586
@Cecred586 6 месяцев назад
Reminisce Less, Remember More
@itssuhgud
@itssuhgud 5 месяцев назад
ooh interesting saying!!
@Sandra-o1e
@Sandra-o1e 6 месяцев назад
❤❤
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