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I Think My Teammate Is Sleeping With Our Boss
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@brandonyoung5037 15 дней назад

"What is my role" literally nothing. Mind your business lady.

@mikenelson8377 15 дней назад

Eh, not if promotions are on the line. Then it becomes illegal and unethical.

@edwinrodriguezjr3978 15 дней назад

Ya I seen someone get whipped for getting in business

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

If it was your spouse and their coworker, would you have the same opinion?

@The-Best-Version-Of-You 14 дней назад

karen alert

@anonymouse9833 13 дней назад

@@sitcomchristian6886yes. It’s happened to me and this lady is just putting her job at risk if she starts pointing fingers without proof.

@Dark_Souls_3 15 дней назад

STAY👏🏻IN👏🏻YOUR👏🏻LANE👏🏻

@lanagraham4587 15 дней назад

Completely agree!!

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

Or, you know, speak up against something effed up.

@AquaGirl953 15 дней назад

It is good that she has morals and values, but for her own sake and career she needs to stay out of it. If she knows, I guarantee others do to, and it will all come to a head without her involvement.

@BirdDogey1 15 дней назад

Deloney's advice is horrible. Co workers are not your friends. They are your co workers. No way this ends well. Either you caught them and they will hate you for it. Or they are innocent and they are insulted by your accusation. Mind your own business or get your resume together.

@TonyCox1351 15 дней назад

And they completely glossed over the fact that this is her BOSS. You better have your resume printed out and in-hand, and a six month emergency fund ready to cover all your expenses, before you even think about confronting your boss over something like this.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

so spot on. not her business. they are not her underage kids.

@SwimSweetie100 14 дней назад

Exactly. Huge difference between ‘friend’ coworker and legit close friend

@user-st6nt4ou6f 12 дней назад

Excellent

@pamelaliegh 14 дней назад

It creates a hostel work environment. It needs to go to HR .

@moniqueengleman873 3 дня назад

That is a stretch dude

@ErinWilke 15 дней назад

If it is happening at work, it isn't private or personal. They 100% made it her and everyone at the office's business by bringing it into the workplace. Favoritism and/or relationships change the dynamic of the workplace and will effect everyone in their team. A boss cannot manage a team fairly or effectively without boundaries. Her career and potential for upward mobility will be affected sooner or later.

@kcourtney6826 15 дней назад

💯

@pamelaliegh 14 дней назад

It becomes a hostile work environment when married bosses mess with single subordinates. I’ve worked in these environments. Don’t let anyone at work know you think anything. Quiet. An anonymous tip to HR. Then keep your head down and let it play out while polishing your resume.

@nancyfrazier2329 14 дней назад

As a retired HR manager I agree.

@juliea. 14 дней назад

Many of the comments are focusing too much on the caller and completely ignoring how inappropriate it is for a boss to have sexual relations with a subordinate. For those of you accusing the caller for "being jealous," or "nosy," you need to be educated on what an imbalance of power is. It's hard to "mind your business," when so-called religious "Christians," are flaunting an office affair, especially when one of them in married.

@christinahek 13 дней назад

Of course, you have an opinion, but it's work. Unless it impacts the job, shut it. We're not the genitalia police for coworkers. If I were actually friends with one of them, I might say, "People see you and it's not a good look," but prepare for backlash and getting into a mess.

@andresortiz560 13 дней назад

I wonder how many of these commenters would say the same to their spouse’s coworkers if they were put in that same position.

@juliea. 13 дней назад

@@andresortiz560 good point!

@kurtjames9487 12 дней назад

Thank you. I suspect a lot of people in our culture get defensive because they know they lack character as well and they enjoy their own "relationship" with their work husband or work wife.

@juliea. 12 дней назад

@@kurtjames9487 yes, very true!

@jennyj0007 15 дней назад

None of your business. Trust me, you will not be appreciated for your candour.

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

Appreciated or not, the truth will set you free.

@jennyj0007 14 дней назад

@@sitcomchristian6886 it's not her truth to tell

@morgandawn6413 14 дней назад

Don't waste anxiety on your coworkers problems

@LiveEatLove777 15 дней назад

As Christians the hardest thing to do is holding other professing Christians accountable and to do it in a loving manner because you love them

@javanburton 15 дней назад

I love how everyone in the comments say don't say anything. But if their partner they got married to was cheating on them and everyone knew they would want someone to tell them. be the change you want to see in the world.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

i wouldn't want anyone to interfere my relationship and come to tell me this about my spouse. our business. we'll manage. thanks. ignorance is bliss.

@javanburton 15 дней назад

@@eff9266 good to know make sure you tell your friends and family if you ever see my wife cheating don't tell me. Personally I think they would judge you more for that but whatever float your boat.

@anonymouse9833 13 дней назад

Haha my ex did cheat on me with a coworker and I’m glad people let me figure it out instead of putting their own livelihoods at risk over office rumors. This lady doesn’t even have any actual proof, she’s just annoyed they spend so much time together. If she calls them out, she better get ready to find a new job because she’s making herself the drama

@SwimSweetie100 14 дней назад

This is a great example of when you should mind your own business. I’ve worked places where coworkers were cheating with each other on the regular. I thought it was disgusting but it wasn’t my business to get involved in. Just do your job and go home. These things always come to light at some point or another

@maureenwolfe8914 15 дней назад

I have worked in two offices where the supervisor was having an affair with a subordinate. In both cases, the subordinate was given greater opportunities and significant attention over the rest of the team. The boss was not leading the team. As a result, productivity nosed dived and the teams eventually fell apart.

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 15 дней назад

Preach baby 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙏

@helenahanley 15 дней назад

But what is the company policy about supervisor having a romantic relationship with a subordinate. That's the question.

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 15 дней назад

@@helenahanley nothing of course 🙄🙂

@perry9080 15 дней назад

Coworkers are not your friends.

@blakeandrews4480 13 дней назад

Everyone telling her to mind her business, and while I understand that logic, I would be very uncomfortable if my boss was blatantly hooking up with one of my coworkers

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

You guys realize the horrifying evils that have been perpetuated because people decided to "mind their business" and not say something was up, right?

@FabriceLabako 12 дней назад

This isn't a war or a homicide. It's just an affair. I don't care if my boss has an affair with a co-worker or if my co-worker cheats on their spouse. It's none of my business. I there for work not investigating other people's private relations.

@Amila-ym7ny 15 дней назад

Everyone’s saying she should mind her business but if theyre being so out there w their relationship then they did it to themselves if a person gets involved. Also this could be weighing on her knowing this man is married. They are making others feel uncomfortable with their relationship so theyve lost the right to not have others in their business. I think John is right. You mention it to the one u have a personal connection with and say “hey just letting you know it looks really weird and he’s married so do you think its weird youre doing all of this with a married man” maybe the friend doesn’t see how weird and out of line she is. I think she should just say something to the friend and if nothing changes then F that and mind ur business. Let them implode themselves. You did ur part

@rosemaryjackson3679 15 дней назад

Nicely put (fyi my first opinion was “stay out of it” .. came around to your thoughts.)

@jazpoop7976 15 дней назад

Exactly! People saying to mind your own are looking pretty sus

@thescramble4309 15 дней назад

@@jazpoop7976Yea the fact people are saying mind your own business means they’d want the same treatment if they could get away with it . Unless…. Unless it was their wife getting railed by the boss! Lmao but whatever, people are shady !

@shanchan8247 15 дней назад

@@jazpoop7976No its just that we know she's sticking her nose in something that will come back to bite her. And she has no reason to do it. I think she wants her boss and is jealous.

@jazpoop7976 15 дней назад

@@shanchan8247 she wants her boss?! What indicates that?

@clankgang6096 15 дней назад

Lady, if you want to fix other's alleged wrongdoings, just join the police.

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

Lol the police don't do that...

@Orenoryori 14 дней назад

The police do a great job of that…

@Girlgonewise 15 дней назад

Why do so people always feel the need to stick their noses where it doesn’t belong? She turned herself into an investigator for no reason.

@Ryan-wx1bi 15 дней назад

If my wife was cheating on me, I'd want one of the co workers to tell me

@eff9266 15 дней назад

if your wife is boss, she would just fire the long sniffy nose. or just raise his salary. and you ll never know.

@ErinWilke 15 дней назад

If there is a relationship it will effect everyone in the team. Even if it's just loose boundaries and favoritism, it is her business because it will effect her and her career

@2Ryled 14 дней назад

@@Ryan-wx1bi there are people you can tell their partner cheated. And the partner convinces their spouse otherwise. Or the spouse blames you for their breakup, not their spouse.

@juanvelasco4591 15 дней назад

John, sometimes you have to read between the lines. This woman has feelings for her boss...period!

@cyoohoos 15 дней назад

I thought the same thing. Otherwise…why is she obsessed with the time he spends with someone else?

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 15 дней назад

@@cyoohoos she is afraid they go freaky over her job and kick her out for freaks nights duh 🙄🙄

@eff9266 15 дней назад

like she is somehow able to prevent it? and remain friends after such "conversation" or co workers at minimum

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 15 дней назад

@@Dogmeat47 the latina burning pu******

@figand_fern3997 14 дней назад

mm hmm

@anonymouse9833 13 дней назад

Yikes. This lady better get her resume ready because getting herself involved in the drama is not going to end well.

@preethyawesome8278 15 дней назад

Ok, so my advice is to stay away from all the drama and gossip at work. It is never going to get you anywhere. It pays to be friendly and helpful and get along with your colleagues and boss, but please, for heaven's sake, DO NOT get involved in their private lives.

@themadbassist795 15 дней назад

Well, one thing’s for certain……one of them is trying to get a raise 😳🤷‍♂️🤣

@segason6 15 дней назад

Or both 😉

@mquinn5186 15 дней назад

If my boss is canoodeling with a coworker, it IS my business, as it affects everyone on the team. Caller is uncomfortable. Likely so are other people. When boss makes the workplace uncomfortable, a "hostile work environment" even, with their sexual behavior with a subordinate... it's a problem worth doing something about.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

getting hung up on is what actually makes karens uncomfortable about it. just don't. and live your life.

@maryannelawless4447 14 дней назад

I think it wouldn't be as big of a deal if he wasn't the boss. If he's sleeping w an employee, while he's married, that makes for an awkward work environment. Also, the wife deserves to know.

@jasonmorgan5275 14 дней назад

“Hostile work environment” 😂😂😂

@TrueSimp 15 дней назад

I think shes a bit jelly actually 😅

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

John should have asked her that question because it certainly sounded very possible.

@Zumcho 15 дней назад

Same. She knew way too much about their activities together. She sure is paying attention.

@dudeorduuude5211 15 дней назад

Your comment is why we don't listen to advice from you, and listen to Delony. Also, heads up, your family and friends pull their hair out around you, because you have takes a teenager would have. She is a religious person at a religious organization. Jealousy isn't top of the list of what runs her. You watch too much p*rn.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

paying attention and paying her private detective. or a few.

@iRRichiee 15 дней назад

I dont think shes jealous so much as she just is desperate to be seen as a better person than everyone else around her…

@BeautifulStranger 15 дней назад

She's the type to go to HR over someone bringing spray cheese to work 😂😂😂 Mind your business ma'am!!!

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

100% ... And, throws out other peoples food from the office refrigerator after she deems it a day too old.

@BeautifulStranger 15 дней назад

@@JustinCase780 😂😂😂😂😂

@alberttang6955 15 дней назад

I once had a coworker who would file complaints because she didn't like smelling the food other people heated in the break room microwave.

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

@@alberttang6955 Was her name Karen Gettalife?

@theshunnedBandersnatch 15 дней назад

This is so oddly specific 😂

@happycamper6298 15 дней назад

Wow. These comments. I think the advice is sound in this situation. The nuance, or intuition of the caller is important. Seems like lots of commenters here might be projecting, or maybe have something to hide.

@BassBwoy3 15 дней назад

I agree. If they are actually friends, she shouldn't be concerned about telling her 'friend' what's up. Depending on how the 'friend' reacts, that will tell you in an instant whether they really are 'friends'.

@DarthFurie 15 дней назад

I'm just not interested in my coworkers' lives or business, we're not friends or associates and never will be 💀 I go in, do my time, and leave. Love what I do, couldn't give a rip about my coworkers as long as they perform at their jobs

@ErinWilke 15 дней назад

@@DarthFuriethat's fair, but every person and workplace doesn't have to operate the same way you do

@SwimSweetie100 14 дней назад

It’s just not worth the absolutely headache getting involved will cause

@darleneskupien9853 15 дней назад

Nope …. Nada…. Negatory … do NOT say anything to anyone. Find a different place to work

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 15 дней назад

They go after people 😮🫢🫢🤢...

@carnivoreRon 14 дней назад

She needs to go to HR. That would give her cover. Going to the woman would allow them to hide their actions. HR could potentially monitor phones at the workplace and get knowledge from other employees. Do an investigation. The supervisor may retaliate if she talks to the woman. Or, it may be nothing is going on. But the appearance is questionable. She needs to consider moving to another company.

@mariamwangara3786 15 дней назад

I am thinking she needs to mind her business.

@StoicJohny 13 дней назад

This is literally the type of person absolutely no one wants in their circle, Im surprised John didn’t tell her not to read the comments…

@cpirtle 11 дней назад

Something very similar happened at one of my previous jobs and I quit. I didn't respect my boss anymore and realized he wasn't the person I thought he was so I quit.

@beautifulday7528 13 дней назад

Possible lawsuit: I worked in law firms for years, and what people need to understand is that if this relationship is between a supervisor and a subordinant, and it goes awry, the company is now open to a sexual harrassment lawsuit. It is because of their heirarchy in the firm. It is not equal. You go to HR to protect the company. It is not being nosy.

@mellowbirddreamer77 12 дней назад

People you work with are not friends. Contact HR, ignore it, or leave.

@Enviro-Erin 15 дней назад

I was in a similar situation except it was my colleague and mentor having an affair with one of our college students while on campus. Walked in on some awkward situations. My feelings are that is is no one's business what people do in their personal lives, but if your shady behavior is causing coworkers anxiety, then a talk needs to happen with HR. If you're going to cheat on your spouse at work, don't be so brazen about it. Drama has no place in the workplace.

@shanchan8247 15 дней назад

Unless you're in the relationship with them, how would their affair cause you anxiety? Its not good to be that emotionally invested in every person you meet. Your setting yourself up for unnecessary stress.

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

Please stop with the HR is the answer to little pet peeves of nonsense.

@coreywiley3164 15 дней назад

She ever thought about just turning her head to the left & minding her business

@isabelcorrea8432 Час назад

Omg her “yeah, mmh” is driving me nuts

@Riona146 15 дней назад

CRAZY to be here early enough to see no comments. Thank you for the upload

@user-ig4mn6cm5y 13 дней назад

Leave it alone the co worker will learn never mix business with pleasure The co worker will lose their job wether they stay together or not You stay out of it protect your job

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

Mind your own beeswax!!

@coreywiley3164 15 дней назад

Literally just said this to myself. What u don’t know won’t hurt.

@jazpoop7976 15 дней назад

Their beeswax is making other people uncomfortable

@AJZona-AJR79 15 дней назад

@@jazpoop7976 so what?? penises make me uncomfortable in a females bathroom but I have to put up with it. 🙄🤡

@BeautifulStranger 14 дней назад

I really, really wish John Deloney would do reaction videos to these calls! This would be one I'd love to know off the record of what his thoughts were. I'm cetain after the call ended, he laughed endlessly 😂

@Pol06S 15 дней назад

She never mentioned she was worried about her friend being in a dangerous situation. All she cared about was reputation and being a Christian, etc. I hope I never get to work with someone like that….

@mikeysflag1519 15 дней назад

As christian we also say mind your own business.

@rosemaryjackson3679 15 дней назад

Haven’t heard a lesson in using the “I” language for a while. If your “intent” is sincere I believe for you it was good advice. Good luck with that.

@BrynGarrett 13 дней назад

I think the caller works for Joyce Meyer Ministries! Which is super awesome! Back to the topic at hand, I feel for this caller. I just hope it doesn’t backfire on her big time so that the coworker and boss can keep their jobs and secrets.

@BP-xe7dw 15 дней назад

If you have to call a show on this subject, you have more problems than others.

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

Ive had this happen. Causes unfair advantages and pay raises.

@freespeech9515 15 дней назад

She’s jealous

@joywebster2678 14 дней назад

We learned who were "up the bosses butt" regardless of gender, and avoided them like the plague socially in the workplace. When the entire set of staff avoids " toady boy, or girl" the boss begins to see their pet is isolated, and ive seen behaviours adjusted. Speaking up rebounds back on you.

@figand_fern3997 14 дней назад

one time i asked a coworker friend if she was ok. she was pregnant w her 4th child months after admitting her husband beats her. she was so offended by me asking if she was ok she ended the friendship.

@audreybringgold6217 11 дней назад

Whatever she does, she has to be comfortable with the idea that it could lead to her losing her job.

@sw6155 15 дней назад

This is the silly content I’m here for! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Them fools are entertaining… 🤣🤣

@user-nd3tg5zn1b 14 дней назад

Does she know for sure that they are doing something wrong?

@isaacwerbel7077 13 дней назад

"...make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life will win the respect of outsiders..." 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 It's right there in the good book.

@colettebenson9658 14 дней назад

In situations like this, before I did anything, I would ask myself what outcome I expected by approaching my coworker (or boss) with my suspicions. If an affair is happening-does she expect them to automatically stop the affair and go back to business as usual?? Does she expect her coworker/friend to bare her soul to her? Then what? They go to HR together? Their boss gets fired? If theres no affair-how does she see them working together after this conversation? Or what if the coworker shares her unfounded suspicions with their boss? Either way, things are about to get super awkward/uncomfortable at work between the 3 of them.

@angryox3102 11 дней назад

Leave them be, it isn’t her business.

@lauras6762 15 дней назад

I have such mixed feelings about this one. As a Christian myself, I understand the importance of integrity at the workplace, especially if it’s a Christian company. At the same time, is this affecting her work, job, and working relationship with her boss? If not, I don’t know if I would say anything.

@KidYale 14 дней назад

Same.

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

It would cause favortism. I also suspect its against company policy. Dont listen to the Twerps that Love sin and evil in this chat, they are heading straight down to a fiery place . Find out what the policy is and act from there. Relationships with subordinates causes favoritism and unfair advantage. I applaud you caller ❤

@erinnkemp 15 дней назад

People can't mind their business😂😂

@andresortiz560 13 дней назад

I was in a very similar position. I said something to the person I knew (the Christian girl) and she reported me to HR. Well worth it if it made her steer away from blowing up a man’s family. One day when she has a husband and a family, she’ll understand.

@joyariffic4217 14 дней назад

If she's getting promotions and opportunities or lighter workloads over everyone else then yes its a problem. If not (which i doubt) then id just go home and gossip about it to my family

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

💯

@thestorybehindthat5236 14 дней назад

It sounds like they're having a relationship together and budding romance. Is that now illegal? It's not an affair, right? The company should probably figure out breaking up the direct report conflict of interest if they're going to be together. In any case, not this ladies responsibility to figure out.

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

The boss is married to someone else. And HR might have issues with him dating a subordinate (especially given that he's MARRIED). Plenty of issues here.

@thestorybehindthat5236 14 дней назад

@@sitcomchristian6886 oh I missed the part about him being married. Yea, that's messed up. I think John should've warned her to prepare to lose her job. In my experience this kind of thing doesn't end well for the whistle blower. I had an issue with her getting bent out of shape that two adults who like each other and might end up married to one another was something she felt the need to bomb. It's a bit meh to me for a boss to date a subordinate, but I know lots of old people in my church who ended up together like this. One little old lady was a voice teacher to her male student and a couple years older than him and they ended up together married for 60 years. There are plenty of instances that aren't nefarious exploitations of power. But yea, if he's married then this is definitely screwed up.

@JosiePC44 15 дней назад

If she genuinely considers the co-worker a friend, let her know the perception in the office is she is involved with the married boss. (The fact that she had to call in to a show to ask this question, tells me she is not that close to the co-worker or she would have spoken to her already - tbh Caroline sounds a little jealous - just an observation.) There is a power dynamic with the boss and co-worker which is a bigger problem than him being married - as far as HR is concerned anyway. HR will look at it as a liability - potential sexual harassment lawsuit IF things go sideways. It's a bad outcome all around. People, to protect your heart, brain and your job - don't get involved with people from work.

@coffeecake1803 15 дней назад

You should always tell people if they have a 🦇 bat in the cave - just like tags - you should always say your clothes tag is sticking out - like a tail of a shirt - you need to tell a guy your tail is sticking out

@blakeharrison3972 14 дней назад

If this girl says mhm yeah one more time I’m jumping out my window!

@moniqueengleman873 3 дня назад

She sounds jealous. Get it together and shut your mouth. It will all crash down on them.

@figgityfly 15 дней назад

I used to work in a school where a male teacher who worked at the school lived across a street from the school he worked at. Everyday for lunch he took the same married female teacher to his house. They walked out together and walked into the school together. Everyone knew about the affair.

@alyssamurphy2002 15 дней назад

Uggghhh. Imagine being the husband and EVERYONE KNEW AND NO ONE TOLD HIM! Terrible.

@figgityfly 15 дней назад

@@alyssamurphy2002 Her husband didn't work at the school. It is terrible, but It was not our business to tell him.

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

Half of our teachers in High School were getting down with each other...it was so obvious. 😅😅

@eff9266 15 дней назад

but none of you guys of the "it's terrible!" type has ever thought that you will never guess whether the husband or the wife of the cheater would appreciate you informing them or send you to hell because they d never known and wouldn't ever want to know if given such an option. "ignorance is bliss." citation. how about that

@alyssamurphy2002 15 дней назад

I mean basically the whole town knew. When he found out I bet he would have wanted blood that everyone was too cowardly to tell him he was being cheated on. That's like witnessing a robbery at your neighbor's house and not calling the police. He could be raising a kid that is not his.

@jerrisleejackson9679 10 дней назад

Just think, all the " mind your business people" would simply look the other way if their friend was having an affair. Sad

@lanagraham4587 15 дней назад

NO!! Bad advice! Not ANY of her business! A booger is completely different from an affair!! None of Caroline's business!! ZERO!! I don't care about other people's integrity!! The only integrity I should be concerned about is my own! Bet you're wrong about how it will be received!!

@bbeautiful6390 15 дней назад

Did she talk about how happy she is in her relationship on a scale.🤷🏽‍♂️😳🤦🏾‍♂️

@dudeorduuude5211 15 дней назад

It would be uncomfortable to work around. I wonder what I would do? I think I would make sure I had the correct information first. E.g. maybe they are long time friends. Maybe talk to the coworker, gently, yes. The mind your business advice the whole comment section is giving... maybe? Probably time tonfind a different job.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

the only reply karen will get will be - so what? is it any of your business?

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

💯

@Dirtybird51077 15 дней назад

I’m so glad the comment has restored my faith in humanity. This Karen needs to mind her own business!

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

People like you and them are the reason I lose my faith

@user-rr4or1xh2g 15 дней назад

OMG... I live in St. Louis... I'm trying to see if I know this lady... 🤦

@JamesCraigWhoop 13 дней назад

Why is it weird to not go to lunch with someone of the opposite sex? One of my rules of thumb is no one on one w opposite sex lunches, period. Unless its management. Two or more women then okay

@BigBobbyBoLo 15 дней назад

why is this her business? because she feels morally superior? Also, something tells me that they arent actually friends and are more coworkers, who she finds annoying

@shionajoseph3248 15 дней назад

The fact that she knows about their weekend activities is weird. Has their “relationship” affected work at all? If not let grown people be grown people

@jaybah836 14 дней назад

Why do you care? Why is this your concern? You should've kept ot real with her

@nochillbill 11 дней назад

Why do all these women sound the exact same? Voice and cadence and everything.

@dakotasikes6690 15 дней назад

If it doesn't affect you then it's not your business, sometimes I wish there was a second commentary cause here recently johns been getting pretty soft or being super one sided I remember when he would say this isn't jerry springer and actually ask hard questions

@littleme3597 14 дней назад

She will harm herself......one can't fix mankind.....

@user-kp6we9qw7i 14 дней назад

What other people do is their business. Unless they are actually close friends with you it’s not your business to say anything. Close friends give each other permission to speak into each other’s lives. Coworkers do not. He may be hurting his marriage by engaging in an inappropriate relationship at work, but that’s his business. Even if you say something and it stops the relationship, he has already hurt his marriage regardless of you interfering or not. Just because something is morally wrong or you believe it is morally wrong It does not give anyone the right to speak into someone else’s life who is doing it. Unless they’re actually hurting someone, it’s not your business to step in. The man’s wife is already been hurt therefore you’re not stopping that hurt by stepping in.

@khloekloset3645 13 дней назад

This is the completely wrong advice. She wont be thanked for it and will likely need to find another job....soon 🙈

@alexanderhernandez9665 9 дней назад

She’s jealous.

@pwstroud 14 дней назад

serial cheaters will do anything to anybody

@seagullsg784 15 дней назад

Stay out of adult business

@caroldorsett8170 15 дней назад

None of her business unless she is a very close friend, none!!

@user-mz7de3kc3d 15 дней назад

They go to lunch together…should I tell on them? This is why I’m literally scared of Christians. Everything is seen through this weird prism. And it’s none of your business! These are consenting adults!

@cyoohoos 15 дней назад

True Story: My ex and I moved a lot. If a new neighbor introduced themselves and started with “I am a Christian”…we AUTOMATICALLY avoided them

@jazpoop7976 15 дней назад

Weird prism called integrity huh

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

Lol scary Christians....ooooo.... Btw, the Mind Your Own Business mentality is precisely how awful behavior perpetuates. So thanks for that.

@brianclingenpeel5123 15 дней назад

How about just mind your own business unless it starts affecting you directly? Where did all these people get the idea that it's their place to jam themselves in the middle of other people's personal situations without ever being asked?! This woman just wants to be able to tell herself she is a better person than the people she works with. It's not good enough to just think it, she needs to rub others noses in it.

@pixiedust8961 14 дней назад

Some people can not stand to see other people in love and happy. This woman is the type that wants to destroy their happiness.

@AshleyLebedev 14 дней назад

Stop. She may need to mind her business and they may be in love and happy but if they are cheating, it’s not just love and happy.

@SIGSEGV1337 15 дней назад

everyone saying 'mind your business' is morally bankrupt. good on you for forbidding evil!

@erinnkemp 15 дней назад

😅😅😅

@eff9266 15 дней назад

😂 so?

@SIGSEGV1337 15 дней назад

@@eff9266 You're next.

@sitcomchristian6886 14 дней назад

Lol they don't want to hear that. "mind your own business" and let evil perpetuate.

@juliehernandez80 15 дней назад

The caller’s replies (mmhmm, mmhmm) to Deloney’s possible choices with consequences sound very Karen-ish. I would not care if my coworker was sleeping with my boss. And who gives a sh*t if they’re self proclaimed Christians. People swear Christian = good and integrity. Give me a break. Girl, go to the gym or go the library and mind your business. You sound bored with your life.

@eff9266 15 дней назад

library or gym are too difficult for the karen

@laurasaura4944 12 дней назад

How do u no he hasn't been separated and started dating this girl they don't hav to tel u everything along as ther not fkn in office n ur walking in then mind ur own be different it were u I bet lol

@StrongerThanBigfoot 15 дней назад

Its none of this woman’s business what her coworkers do. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!!

@ajrodriguez1254 15 дней назад

I'm 30 seconds into this, mind your own business! I love the comments

@GearReviewDepot 15 дней назад

My your own damn business.

@MyhorseInthegravy 15 дней назад

I kinda agree with him but on the other hand it’s none of her business.

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

John didn't help her by pretty much saying that her over the top extreme obsession with other peoples lives is justified. I know he was trying to coach her but a dose of reality would have helped. Life observations - situations that are not anything about her own situation are giving her that much anxiety?

@MyhorseInthegravy 15 дней назад

@@JustinCase780 I agree. So much anxiety over something that has nothing to do with her. I’m sure others noticed too and it will all come to a head one day. And 1) she’s either snoopy/nosey/busybody OR 2) she may be jealous because she secretly likes him.

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

@@MyhorseInthegravy Not to go extreme in suggestion but she almost sounds like a stalker.

@MyhorseInthegravy 15 дней назад

@@JustinCase780 lol

@JustinCase780 15 дней назад

@@MyhorseInthegravy When she shared that they "diet together" I spit out my coffee. 😅

@sanitary103 15 дней назад

Just mind your effin business. These are the type of people on “Next Door” complaining and getting in people’s business for no reason other than having no life.

@Girlgonewise 15 дней назад

Mind your business.

@zackmoore5174 14 дней назад

What a strange call. Leave them alone lol.

@bbeautiful6390 15 дней назад

Mind your business. They have to live with the consequences..🤫..If its so uncomfortable go spend more time in church. 🤨🤦🏾‍♂️🙄

@meghangantt717 13 дней назад

This is just water cooler gossip. She wanted John to say “OMG girl, no way, really?!” When he started giving her a mature response, she checked all the way out. “Yeah,” “right,” “yeah,” “mmhmm,” “yeah.”

@mellowbirddreamer77 12 дней назад

I noticed that too! Like this woman didn't care about what he had to say. Everyone knows you either go to HR, ignore it, or get another job.