Meanwhile, us kink folks just want to have our safe space to be ourselves in... I have no idea why the straights/vanillas/whatever need to insert themselves in everything. This isn't about you. Its about people who agreed to a mutual thing that helps them feel in tune with themselves, for whatever reasons. And that quiz is geared towards kink folks, who already know that when we say "torture" we dont mean actual soul crushing, life devastating torture. Pain produces pleasure, and fear produces adrenaline which enhances the pleasure. Much like sky divers, or boxers and such. Its just that when you've been in the community, we know that the word slave comes with the disclamers "Not actually a slave, and yes I want to be respected and have a functional life and yes in the end, no matter how much we pretend otherwise, i do actually have the power to say no, if for no other reason than that the law wil fuck you in the ass if you try to bring a ~slave contract~ up in court." ANyway, my apologies, I just get annoyed when vanillas act like BDSM content is some sort of attack against them when it has nothing to do with them. It's not for them, and their opinion shouldn't have any say in how I live my life. And yes, people have gone to jail over kinky, consensual sex. Its fucking horrible.
@@SilverishKitten yeah because that ‘kinky/consensual’ sex had been taken to far to the point where it has KILLED people or seriously harmed them. it can be kinky and consensual but you still have to realize BOUNDARIES and the fact that there are CONSEQUENCES if you take things too far.
@@SilverishKitten the way they phrase it was bad. You are not special or differenent from "vanilla people". You are like everyone else stop trying to think highly of yourself. If you kill people or torture them of course "vanillas" have a say in what you do in your life. Not to metion that people can consent and have some type of mental illness or drug that makes their consent not valid. Not to mension that stockholm syndrome is a real thing. If you are doing with a consenting adult do what you want as long as it doesn't put in danger other people. The problem is that people in bdsm communities sometimes put other at risk even if everyone had consented, and that needs to be pointed out and stopped. Not to mention that being a sex slave 24/7 can ruin your life even if you consented to it.
@@alexandrad.9367 Yeah if you know anything about the bdsm community youd know thats literally the most important thing and is a constant discussion at events and within friends groups.
Charlie and Tiana are a gorgeous couple and it warms my heart that she doesn't crucify him while he screams blasphemous racial slurs at her as they torture a random woman who's defecating on them both. They're so wholesome.
So basically, "Are you a sadist, masochist, or vanilla? Are you into children? What about parental figures? Cuckolds? Does being a pet do it for you?" I agree with Charlie. Why is it only weird shit? Where are the balloon fetish questions?
@@smallface6471 she gon break your neck and leave you paralized,if that's not a kink in itself (which I guarantee someone has) a kink of fear is has close had they are
The director made a great use of colors on this one. Charlie’s pure-white shirt foreshadows his dedication to clean, biblically-accurate sex and the white color of a vanilla ice cream cone
I'm crying i didn't expect charlie to be this innocent and i hope he still is. I'm glad to be part of the kink community but i have been in contact with toxic people in the kink community that have definitely scarred me. i know not everyone is like this but I'm definitely not openly promoting trying stuff like this! Good education on kinks is needed before trying anything related to bdsm because it can be quite dangerous.
the test is basically 1. do you like colouring books? 2. do you wanna have all of your human rights thrown out of the window just to serve someone as a real life slave?
Slaves, if done correctly, should still have a contract that is renewed every other month/year, containing some things both parties agree to, and either can leave someone breaks the rules or hard limits in the contract
As someone who enjoys BDSM, this video cracked me up, lmao, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who is more vanilla. xD (No offense to vanilla people, of course, that's not a negative thing despite the fact that some idiots think it is for some reason.) I also realized that this test is way more flawed than I remember it to be, pity.
@@krisbeagles7045 He decided to take the shorter version of the quiz but didn't decide to pick the option to weed out the questions for bottoms for some reason
I love how half of this is Charlie going: "Who the hell would be into [describes things people are very specifically into sexually] that'd be ridiculous!" Like uhhh you just described the fantasies of a lot of people lol
I can relate with Charlie, I met a girl on tinder once who asked me to take a bdsm test and it turned me off because it sounded like this chick wanted to murder me once she mentioned stabbing and stuff like that
@@realswobby thats because almost every creator doesnt act like a normal person when making content. So when they see just a normal guy they see it as something very unique
Idk if he'd see this, but Charlie should do the 1500 question quiz. I remember being introduced to it by friends in college. It is basically a life experience quiz. It has several sections on adult areas of experience, but also areas on like, do you own a wrench, have you ever used a buzz saw, etc.
@nitrrogen of course they do! But only in human parts. See, they Maul you if you enter their territory. Then put you in a box and mail you to your family. They are real sweethearts like that.
Seeing vanilla people react to BDSM stuff with sheer terror and confusion is just so funny to me. It's like being a little kid and amusing yourself by creeping all your classmates out.
@@natman2939 Fair warning, before you click read more I go fairly in depth into my reasoning, if you don't wish to read it, don't. If you do I hope you'll read it with an at least moderately open mind. If you wish to discuss them feel free to ask questions or criticize where you think it's valid. If will address any concerns or questions to the best of my abilities if RU-vid decides to give me the notification, I'm always happy to help people understand my viewpoint as long as they are truly trying. No, believe it or not BDSM can have psychological benefits. CAN, not always, plus some people are just into it. Believe it or not sadomasochism is INCREDIBLY common, it's just not extreme in most people. Spanking, hair pulling, biting, scratching? All examples of pain being inflicted during sex. That's normal, yes? Well, simply put sadism, masochism, and sadomasochism are just versions of that that happen to be a bit more extreme. Some sadists are incredibly tame, some masochist are incredibly tame. There is a line to be drawn yes, and to me the line is abusive behaviors (such as ignoring safe words) or inflicting not just pain and fear, but legitimate injury. A little but of cutting or some lashes is fine, but things like broken bones, ripped tendons, etc. are too far. Also, I feel it's important to clarify that in any HEALTHY BDSM relationship boundaries are set up, and it's discussed beforehand, it's not just "Okay, let's go with the flow you tell me when to stop." It tends to go more along the lines of, "Okay, so today you only want me to go (enter limit) far, I can respect that. If I go too far for you say your safe word and I'll stop, okay? That's why aftercare is a thing, someone is treated nicely when they're pushed. Not to mention whenever someone talks about it they almost ALWAYS portray the sub as the abused, but it CAN be the other way around. There us a thing called dom drop, where a dom feels guilt, or thinks what they're doing is too far. In that case the dom is the one that needs aftercare. However, it is possible for the sub to be an abuser and demand them to continue despite making them legitimately upset, uncomfortable, and possibly even leaving legitimate trauma in the dom. BDSM isn't a one-sided activity, it involves two, or more, consenting parties, where it is perfectly okay to revoke consent at any point and time. If that isn't respected, at least from my experience, the person responsible for disregarding that is ostracized and people warn as many as they can about them. Are there still abusers? Yes. Are there more abusers in the BDSM community? It is possible, however in the BDSM community cases of this are taken VERY seriously most of the time. In the general population, though abuse is taken seriously, it isn't as easy to open up because generally speaking the BDSM community is more sensitive to these issues as they understand abusers can take advantage of the trust put into such a relationship. Obviously normal abusers take advantage of this same trust, but often times people will see the "normal" person and think "they would never do that" however in the BDSM community we know it is very much so a possibility. Thank you for reading my TedTalk.
@@krisbeagles7045 what lead to you wanting to tell me this? I feel like you may have accidentally replied to the wrong person. All I said was we need more kink shaming. But I feel like you were replying to someone who said something like “BDSM is terrible and filled with abuse!” Or something like that. Either way, I like your style. I also like to give ted talks and go deep on subjects even at the risk no one will read them. Let us be friends for life.
ORORORORO!!! I spend half of my day sleeping! ORORORO!!! Then I sometimes get up and tell you that I am a famous content creatorORORORORO!!! Please don't sleep while driving, dear shy
you could make so many no context jokes with well timed clips of this. he reads most the questions like a statement so just cut the clip before he answers what he just read and you have gold
Charlie as professor oak but looking like a 70 year old professor who smokes and skates. The question is would he have. A pokeball grinder hidden among his regular pokeballs?
It's like a zodiac sign except it actually means something, instead of explaining how much you like getting your balls stepped on you just show people your results.
The only thing I got out of this is that Charlie enjoys school role-play in the bedroom. He joked about it the whole time, even though none of the questions referred to it.
