I’ve seen a lot... basically every RU-vidr using Wet Line Xtreme Pro Styling Gel for their “wet” looks. They have it at target for only $2.99 that’s what I plan on using when I gain the confidence to try it out on my fine short hair. Good luck!
You shoulden worry about your hair because you are beautiful the way God made you and I know we are us how ever you want to say it we just want our hair to look as good and beautiful as the inside and out looks but anyway you are beautiful I can tell by the way you talk God bless you and have a wonderful day or night I don't know where you stay but be blessed I'll see you on your next video
Your hair is not fully 4C (and obviously most people don't have just one type of hair). It's definitely 4B it the back, and looks like some on the sides, it was just missing hydration. You can watch some of the women with true 4C hair on here (or the people in your comments saying they have 4Z hair which is likely true 4C hair) with all the hydration and gel in the world try this look and similar methods to achieve a wash and go, and it does not curl that way (meaning the looseness and definition). You seem to have 4B with maybe some 4C mixed in. So the true 4C(4ZZZ) hair won't respond this way. Curl pattern doesn't matter in most cases except when it comes to styles, because the different curl patterns will not look the same on unmanipulated/unstretched hair.