I Used To Feel Lost In Life, Until I Changed This! 

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You know every time I watch you I hang on every word, you’re actually an angel reaching out to people when they need it.

Started watching your lectures WHILE hitting the gym, training mentally and physically. Big thanks

i got sick with covid and having a ten day long guilt free break seriously made me wake up and realise how much i’ve wasted my life grinding for the next thing for nothing. i felt so good during that time being sick that i decided that i was going to prioritise just vibing out not even caring about my future as long as i get the bills paid but no more and no less. honestly my life has gotten so surprisingly better since then and i’ve had so many breakthroughs I find it a truly ridiculous thought to ever go back to the way i was. All i’ve been doing is skating, hanging out with friends and making money in the days I feel like it. I’m not worried about motivation or where I might be headed because I know following loving myself legitimately is the only thing worthwhile doing, the rest just seems like ego. i used to hate myself and when it clicked how horrible and wrong it is to hate on myself was, I cried and said to myself that I would never treat the truly innocent part of me (the child) like shit ever again. Most of what I want nowadays is to just not being anyone down, including myself. Just hang, give, love and remember that we’re all gunna die. I totally sympathise with anyone reading this who is thinking “fuck… how?!” I thought like that for most my life. Took seemingly forever to have all the pieces tumble into place after years and what i’ve shared with you just now is what the result was. This isn’t the end by no means, believe that my life may just be beginning now. Well… there you go. hope this helps someone

Bro I’m thriving rn and really feeling for everyone stuck in trauma, thank you for helping so many over the years, to anybody stuck in the mundane, you have one life bro chase your dreams !! 🖤🎶

Julien, thank you for all of the content you so freely and generously create and put out to the world. The wisdom and value/benefit of what you are teaching is infinitely more worthwhile and beneficial than say the curriculum being taught in our traditional educational system.. What’s puzzling to me is how few people “get it“. You probably know this better than anyone, Julien, but experience has taught me time and time again that the vast majority of the people with whom I interact with in a meaningful way, be it family, friends, coworkers, or even casual acquaintances, are quite literally incapable of grasping the simple truths of your message. Don’t get me wrong, I am far from perfect and I still struggle with breaking free from all the trauma, programming and preconditioning I received in my youth. What I’m learning now, though is when to dial it back, and how to accept the simple fact that some people aren’t ready to get it, can’t get it, or may well never it. The irony or rather tragedy, is that most everyone wants it and needs it, at least that’s what they believe/say, however, there are unwilling to do the work, the REAL deep inner work…. the core foundational work. that must be done. They are, in effect, trying to scratch an itch that they will never ever reach, and in essence, sleep walking through life, despite the genuine desire, effort and repeated UNSUCCESSFUL attempts to improve their lives through all forms of coping mechanisms, therapy, hacking, trickery, etc. I realize you already know all this, but it still blows me away. My biggest learnings are 1) not everyone is going to like or approve of me, and that’s OK/normal, and 2) I am not the ‘get it’ police and to keep the do gooder, codependent, all pro people pleaser inside of me in check, and focus on myself. It’s all too easy for me to become an advice monster, and try to fix/save/rescue all the people around me who CLEARLY can’t see and are content to stick with what got them to where they are. The devil we know. You and Owen are beautiful people. Thanks for showing up authentically, Julien, and for all you do. You are making a huge impact, and I hope you are making a little dough. I know it’s not your driving goal/purpose, but for crying out loud, you sure as heck deserve it for all of your good hard work, and for the positive impact you are making on the world. Andrew

You have been helping me improve my life for so long. Thank u Julien.

Thanks for sharing this video. It helps me to work on myself and my behavior.

Honestly, scheduling mess around time actually made me procrastinate less on my work. I am a university student and I found as soon as I scheduled 1 to 2 hors of mess around time I could then truly just relax and take a break. Then when I have to work I am no longer thinking about wanting to watch a show and hangout with friends, and when I am relaxing I'm not beating myself up about how unproductive I really am. I actually can now get more work done in less time because I'm not distracted thinking about relaxing. Thank you Juline for the great message!

you can't find purpose because there is none... other than the one you define yourself probably one of the hardest lessons to learn

Thank you Julien..

This is brilliant thanks!

Crazy video and crazy message. I love your for your content and the way your are

Thank you 💯☮️❤️

Some people like me have no purpose on one exclusive thing. My purpose is to have child like wonder with ANYTHING I tend to gravitate to, and be in the present-- be it chores, work, or play. First time in a long time hearing this message this way, without the never ending hustle view on things in this age of self improvement.

Always allow the regular time to mess around and doing what feeds your soul, only this way it's sustainable in a long run. 💪

purpose can change but its the most important thing that gives meaning to life

I live the life I love. I surf every day. I teach kids skateboarding. Great friends/comunity and even help holiday makers out with free surf lessons so they don't kill me and my mates. I sing in a band as well. Then it gets to 4pm n I go to my factory job till 12am. I'm greatfull for this job as I get the day time to embrace so much joy n fun. My question to my self is how can I make after tax £350 pounds a week so I don't need the evening job. With so much abundance out there n I still haven't spotted the answer yet. Its such a low amount I feel dumb not knowing what's possible and a how.

Thankyou for saving me! Father J🙏

Adult ADD has childlike tendencies naturally - paraphrasing Gabor Mate..obvs stifled for some adults.. omg you’re explaining my old ideal life 😳😳😳😂.. I must of been a right joy 😂😂😂😂😂😳 xx

Amazing video Julien, greetings from Sao Paulo Brazil

I love you Julien and I love all those others that don't have a comment section that I can't tell them

I’ve luckily been able to protect my childlike excitement. It’s one of my most precious states. 🎉

Hoooooray!!!!

0:50True Genius 1:38 I dont get excited about things I used to get excited about 2:05. 2:27Life is Not serious2:43what is success?3:13. 3:23 5:02What is the actual win?

Today at work was awful. I was taken to my supervisor's office with her and a high-ranking chef. They (or mostly the chef) told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not _THAT_ type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter. She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service). She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say inappropriate stuff at work, but not _horribly_ nor intentionally. I like to joke around and have fun with my coworkers, but I guess it isn't like that after all (more or less). I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who. She understands and likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake. And again, that I shouldn't touch my coworkers (shoulders or arms) without their consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep! I don't randomly hug people or anything like that. I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely). I'm so embarrassed about the office lecture. I am not like Biden at all. I'm really not. Have I really gone that far at work? I already hate being on the spectrum, and sometimes I actually hate myself. I wish I could work somewhere, not only for my coworkers' sake (should that presumption be true) and myself, because I'm so ashamed.

Good to see Gabe Reudiger doing well these days.

recommend this to more people dear ai

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"Those who ran away from death stood still to life" cartoon quote

Holy cow. The food analogy hit home...

"Many teachers think of children as immature adults. It might lead to better and more 'respectful' teaching if we thought of adults as atrophied children. Many 'well-adjusted' adults are bitter, uncreative, frightened, unimaginative, and rather hostile people. It might be better if we thought of adults as atrophied children." Keith Johnstone, Impro Thought you'd like this quote.

I have paranoia about nuclear bombs and World War 3, and have been bugging me for a year. I have trouble sleeping and often panic attacks when, for example, a plane flies. I do not know how to deal with it, I got a referral to a psychologist but I just wanted to write this because I do not know when I will have an appointment. You mentioned "nukes" and it gave me shivers

What about someone who is ADHD? Like myself, I still have the child like excitement of things that are new but I am not able to stay on task as I lose interest in things very quickly. I have so many things I want to do, I've started but then fall off as I don't have the motivation to continue because my dopamine level is low and btw meds haven't worked for me

If you can talk To us more about the mindfulness based méditation and the trails of why and the shadow work in détails

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someone tell me drinking water is also purpose

This is exactly how I am from 7:33 to 7:58 not from instagram but I keep getting pulled in all directions and I want help so bad! Everyday I'm always so confused and wondering "What do I do?" And I end up arguing with myself and hating myself because I'm "Lazy" And I have this whole constant battle of thoughts and I just need help because everyday is terrifying and I want to get help so bad but then I'm scared to get help and It's so scary.

I still have feelings for cocaine but they won’t let me be with it. Messed up that you can treat ADHD with medical meth but can’t dabble in cocaine occasionally

we need a book on things you talk about.

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Anyone know what to do with if you become aware they you have never been able to be yourself and developer a real identity at all? 31 yo here, have no idea what to do with this. Nobody seems to understand what i mean with this and how badly it affects me. Therapist does not know what to do with it and does not know other therapists that cover this topic.

I feel like trigger is me talking bad about myself

What happens to your purpose, when your ex wife never lets you see your kids, its been 10 years, not 1 birthday, not 1 Christmas or Thanksgiving, no reason to breath

are those owens glasses?

------1:38 I dont get excited about things I uses to get excited about. 2:29"Life is Not serious" Me

------1:38 I dont get excited about things I uses to get excited about.

Ah see when I’m on holiday I moan on line… as well as show off… I’m real. Feel good about tbh, or do I only have a phone to talk to lol

Do you make it sound so easy dude it’s not easy if you have social anxiety to do anything really

4 mins in and sounds like she’s looking for beef with the rock 😅😂

One day you'll wake up. And it'll be ten years. That's the crazy/ scary thing about not being successful. Or even being nostalgic of something super long ago. That fomo is real..i recommend having a goal and a plan.

dont tell us its free but charge 25$ tho