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This is the reason I've been absent lately... I can't wait to share it with you. 😊
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@eileenodom1609 10 дней назад

You didn't stop creating. You are creating a little human inside. Rest and good health is needed!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

THIS. THIS is the best response ever. You're so right!! I'm creating the best thing I've ever made!!!

@eileenodom1609 6 дней назад

@@AbbeyHowe 💖

@trinaq 10 дней назад

Congratulations on your exciting news, Abbey! Your little boy will be so lucky to have parents as cool as you two. Roll on December! 👶💙

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you, Trina!! ♥️

@AMoniqueOcampo 10 дней назад

I saw on your husband's social media. Congrats on having a kid! You're gonna be an amazing mother. Pregnancy is not an easy process. Take care of yourself.

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you, friend. Appreciate you!!

@bodhimartina6985 9 дней назад

Oh you are soooo sweet❣️For a type 3, not creating??? Wow. You are facing a huge opportunity to really dive deep into the liberation of the 3, yes? You did loose who you thought you were. Now you will be a mom! You have your T2 wing that will serve you. You will Return with even deeper insights to share with those who find themselves loosing their conditioned frame of reference. This I am sure will empower your new work! You are so loved

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

YES 👏 what a great way to think about it... an opportunity to dive into the liberation of my personality type's struggles and traps.

@writingmelody 10 дней назад

As someone who has depression, anxiety, and CPTSD, I just got out of the first trimester 🤣 I’m 13 weeks today & my brain is definitely different! I’m due January 2nd 🤰🏻💕 Congratulations to you! Praying for a safe delivery for baby boy 🩵👣 I hope your hubby is feeling better!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Congrats!! We will do this journey together. Hope you have a smooth pregnancy, friend. ♥️

@writingmelody 7 дней назад

@@AbbeyHowe I hope your pregnancy is smooth as well & that delivery will be safe 🥰🩵

@despinatheodoraki5625 6 дней назад

I'm a 4 but I'm not crying,...YOU'RE crying🥲. Best of wishes from Greece. 🏖😭💖

@bodhimartina6985 9 дней назад

@twlahue 10 дней назад

Awesome, Happy For You!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you Tom!! 🙏

@Dani-jo9yr 6 дней назад

I knew it- happy for you guys 😍😍

@briaweea02 10 дней назад

Congratulations, Abbey! I’m so sorry you guys have had such a rough beginning, and as someone with depression and anxiety, I’ve always feared how it would show up in pregnancy. I’m glad the tides are turning, and we will be here waiting for you when you and him are safe💙You’re going to be the best mom

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

it has been my BIGGEST reservation and fear about pregnancy, but I want to say that my fears were way worse than the actual reality. I feel very supported by my doctors, family, friends, and Jon of course. And the joy of my baby adds a whole other dimension too. But definitely recommend having a plan prior to pregnancy to manage your mental health -- I got a therapist specifically for this season and it has been really helpful!! and tons of supplements and exercise

@jofromoz 7 дней назад

Congrats Abbey, how beautiful and exciting. We have missed you but so happy for you😊

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you so much!!

@cindysessions5836 10 дней назад

Congratulations!! I am a 6w7 so I totally get this! Both of my pregnancies were tough because of how my mind processes things. I’m glad you took a break.

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thanks for sharing!! It helps to know I'm not alone. 💜

@rhondahummel7253 10 дней назад

You have been missed, but you need to take care of yourself and your family. Praying for health and joy! God bless you all!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you!! ♥️

@kellykaatz6472 10 дней назад

Congratulations! As a mom of 3, and empty nester now, I can say it is a very exciting yet scary time of your life! Best wishes to you, hubby & baby boy!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you so much, Kelly ♥️

@emmamoss6679 10 дней назад

Congratulations Abby !!! 🎉 Do what’s best for you girly! We will be here

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you Emma! ♥️

@938quilt 10 дней назад

congratulations! relax and enjoy every moment!!

@carolinamarrelli 9 дней назад

Oh my gosh I am soooooooo sooooooo sooooo happy for you!!!! Congratulations and welcome to the best club in the whole world!!!!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

THANK YOU!!! ♥️

@AndreaS-kj4rb 10 дней назад

Super congrats!! Wooooohoooo! (Just stay away from that Liquid Death shizz!)

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you!! and don't worry - it's just water! 🤣 looks like a beer or energy drink though haha

@Avionne_Parris 10 дней назад

Congrats, Abs! Lemon Drop's gonna be a big brother :) Of course, I noticed your RU-vid absence and I thought, "She's either REALLY busy with her enneagram workshops OR she's pregnant." My younger sister (who's a type 6) just had her second baby (a girl - she already has her boy who's 6 years old) and "pregnancy brain" is not a myth. I couldn't stop crying at your last pregnancy reveal; I'm so happy for you and your family! The joy and glee they felt was so palpable, thanks so much for sharing that with us! Plus, a December baby, yay (that's my birth month - December 15th). Also, turns out I am a type 4 after all (I know, I thought for SURE I'd found my type with the 2 but I always keep coming back to the 4 for some reason :) Fun fact: I have a type 3 writer friend who got pregnant and was freaking out because of how her productivity would be impacted (not that she wasn't excited to be pregnant though). She planned and did as much as she could before her baby boy arrived and has made the transition to writer mama that she loves! Can't wait for "Enneagram Types Getting Pregnant" videos and all that. Congrats again, Abs, Jon, and of course, Lemon :)

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

I wonder how Lemon will react to such a change... 👀 Thank you for your sweet comment. I definitely have been having weird pregnancy brain symptoms... like I was trying to say "Star Wars" to Jon and instead I said "Trader Joes" 🤣

@karissahammond4587 10 дней назад

Congrats! 😃

@leeshpooh 10 дней назад

Congratulations!!

@charlesowens3360 10 дней назад

Congratulations!!!

@jmoser 10 дней назад

Congratulations!! 🎉

@sandy-intro 9 дней назад

So happy for you! ❤

@lady_icarus 10 дней назад

CONGRATULATIONS!!! 🎉

@jpopbakkari 10 дней назад

Congratulations! 💙

@Akigirl2004 10 дней назад

Congratulations!

@AmyPreston 10 дней назад

Super Happy Congrats, Abbey!!!

@Lensssss1806 10 дней назад

Congratulations!!! So happy for you🤗

@carriemeitzler8460 10 дней назад

Congratulations🎉

@marvelgurl1012 10 дней назад

Congrats, glad you're feeling better! And glad hubby is okay!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you!! and me too 😅

@lesliegordon2809 10 дней назад

Congratulations 💙💙💙

@emilinizialek5000 10 дней назад

Congratulations! Sending lots of hugs

@ej3606 10 дней назад

Yayyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! Congratulations! And thank you for sharing all the sweet videos of finding out and telling your loved ones! Hope your husband is all healed up and doesn’t have any lasting side effects. And hope you are feeling better and better as you build a new human being! Looking forward to your added insights on personality and family/parenting!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

He is TOTALLY healed. thankfully, typhus has an easier fix than mono. So he's all back to normal and now I'm the only one who has sick symptoms 😂 though it has been SO much better since first tri ended. ♥️ thank you for the sweet and thoughtful comment. means a lot.

@juls_krsslr7908 9 дней назад

Congratulations! How exciting! This is a huge deal, so I wouldn't even expect you to be thinking about RU-vid. I hope all goes well with the rest of your pregnancy.

@jessicah3865 10 дней назад

Congratulations!!!! Thanks so much for sharing with us!!!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you for being here! 🙏

@Allonari 10 дней назад

Congratulations!!! 🎉🥳

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you so much 😀

@kathypedersen1979 10 дней назад

Wonderful news! Congratulations!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you!!

@PegR38 9 дней назад

Congratulations!!!! So happy for you!!!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you so much!! 💜

@ozzyfernandez8228 10 дней назад

Congratulations Abbey!!!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thanks Ozzy!!

@ramenwayfarer 10 дней назад

I found out from your Instagram. Congratulations. I assumed you were still burnt out & needed time off. This is obviously much better news. Congratulations! So happy for you & John, both.

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you so much!! ♥️ have to say, i feel VERY happy to be back creating and on the channel again though. :))) feels like coming back to myself

@the_real_littlepinkhousefly 10 дней назад

Oh, Abbey -- first, CONGRATULATIONS!!!! So happy for you! When I was pregnant, I was sick every single day for the first four months and having to work, as my husband was in school. Just ugh, those pregnancy hormones! I was suicidal for much of that first trimester, too ... I remember sitting in the bathroom sobbing and thinking "If it wasn't for this baby I would off myself"...and then halfway laughing and thinking, "If it wasn't for this baby I wouldn't feel like offing myself." And then I could go on with my day. I went on to have the most amazing kid ever (he's 30 now) and every minute I suffered was worth it -- but still not fun, so total validation for the suckyness of pregnancy. I'm so glad you have already gotten through the horrible phase of pregnancy and into the more fun bit now; all the planning and getting the room ready and reveling in the joys of motherhood-to-be!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you for sharing your experience... it's a weird juxtaposition like... i hate my life right now but im excited for you, baby and also... i wouldn't hate my life if it wasn't for all the hormones you're giving me baby hahaha DEFINITELY very excited about designing his nursery... i'm thinking like a boho beatrix potter vibe!!

@the_real_littlepinkhousefly 10 дней назад

@@AbbeyHowe Yeah, the hormones are CRAZY! Totally love the baby, totally hate what its presence in my body is doing to me. And boho Beatrix Potter sounds fantastic.

@Vancaskeys 9 дней назад

Congratulations!! We are so happy for you both!

@AbbeyHowe 8 дней назад

Thanks guys!!!!

@shanemaloy 7 дней назад

Huge congrats!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

thanks Shane!

@Jae_C_ 10 дней назад

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you! 🎉🎉

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you so much!!

@mollieirvine1026 10 дней назад

Whoo! Congratulations Abbey! You and Jon are going to be amazing parents!!! Best of luck with the pregnancy!!!!!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you, Mollie!! ♥️

@karincoart929 10 дней назад

That is so sweet! Congratulations to all 3 of you! 💫

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

Thank you!! 😊

@jillmappin3316 10 дней назад

What fantastic news thank you so much for sharing your life with us. We watch people on RU-vid videos and we do start to feel like we know them. It’s really lovely to see what’s happening in your life. Congratulations to both of you. I am now on my way to look up typhus.😮

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

haha thankfully it's easily cured ONCE it's diagnosed. But it's super rare!! And thank you for the well wishes ♥️

@dawnmarieandjeff 8 дней назад

This is so wonderful!!! I'm a new mom of an 18 month old. He was born in December. It is a life-changing experience so give yourself so much Grace during this process. There is no normal and you will be an amazing mama. ❤❤

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

congrats!! I am soooo unsure about what to expect... but I guess I should expect not to expect anything!!

@marishaten7399 10 дней назад

Congratulations Abbey! This is very good news!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you, marisha!

@thadnorris 10 дней назад

Congrats Abbey!!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you thad!!

@Cloverrisesthemoon 10 дней назад

OMG CONGRATS ABBEY!! Me and my mom hope everything goes well for you❤ Also, I wonder what enneagram he will be!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

wondering that too!! I've been thinking it would be cool to be a type different than me and Jon (3 and 4). selfishly, for research purposes 🤣

@Cloverrisesthemoon 10 дней назад

@@AbbeyHowe Yeah XDD usually, I’d say, you usually don’t have the same enneagram as your parents! Cause they all raise ya different.

@dawntripp1974 9 дней назад

Congratulations Abby!! You are going to be an amazing momma!! 💕

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you so much!! 😭

@hinanos 10 дней назад

so so happy for u queen!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you 😭

@Gandellion 10 дней назад

Very exciting!!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

🎉

@cactipickles 10 дней назад

What a lucky little guy to have parents as full of love and understanding as you both! Congratulations! Thank you for your transparency around the first trimester; so glad things are going better now. We're all sending our best!

@Bobbyholland901 9 дней назад

Congratulations to you and your husband and thank you for sharing this. I greatly enjoy your content and you can count on my support regardless of how often you post My daughter is 27 and my son is 24. Being a parent can feel at first like a massive identity departure. There are many sacrifices that must be made along the way. The great news is that by creating priorities in your life you can maintain your own identity. I freely admit that this is easier for a father than it is a mother, but you remember that you are in charge of the thoughts you think in the actions you take. Prioritize, caring for yourself, your husband and then baby. Babies eat up a lot of bandwidth but setting priorities keeps you in control and as an eight I’m all about that control.

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

"The great news is that by creating priorities in your life you can maintain your own identity." Thank you for sharing 🙏

@donnarowe8618 6 дней назад

💙Congratulations!💙

@carolynpeterson9968 10 дней назад

Congratulations on this happy news!! You're going to be the best mom!!! Hope your hubby is feeling better and that you are feeling more yourself. Can't wait to watch the journey. Much love to you guys!!

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

😭 this is so sweet. thank you for the encouragement. and Jon is totally healthy and typhus-free, thank the Lord!!!

@YellowLittleDucky 9 дней назад

Aww, congrats! ^.^ Pregnancy is challenging for most people.

@sarahrzewnicki7292 10 дней назад

Congratulations you guys! You are already awesome parents! ❤

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you 😭 i think we're going to be very good parents

@debbie.8720 10 дней назад

OMG WOW CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I'm so happy for youuu, you'll be an incredible mum ❤❤❤

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you so much, Debbie!!

@Mathematchit 10 дней назад

And also, that kid is really lucky to have you as a mom, you are amazing. And for Christ sake, stop trying to hanging on what you were before this moment, you are caring an entire universe inside of you, enjoy this moments instead of controlling it, you are doing fine. We missed you though. Congratulations once again.

@fulltimemonti 10 дней назад

Yay! Congratulations! There is no greater calling than parenthood.

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

♥️

@roseberry5253 9 дней назад

Congratulations 🎉👶🏻

@sofiyaserj2553 10 дней назад

I'm so happy for you❤

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

♥️

@abbyherold2905 10 дней назад

Congratulations

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you!

@hilc6777 10 дней назад

Congratulations! How exciting! You should start a pool with guesses as to what number and wing he will be once he’s older. 😂 I’ll start! 4w5! Come back in 18 years and let us know. 😂

@LuvLife2Max 10 дней назад

7w8

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

hahah 4w5 would be Jon's exact type and wing!! So a mini Jon 😊

@Majestic_Sam 10 дней назад

AHhh!!!! congratulations. Eekkk!!!I am so excited for you and your husband.

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Thank you so much!!

@KristyKapp 10 дней назад

We didn't think we were able to have kids...now at 44, I have a 4 yo son (born in December) & an almost 2 yo daughter. Congrats!!! My first was difficult pain wise but I also had really bad anxiety that I downplayed until about a year or so after his birth when I looked back & saw how bad it really was. With my daughter, I had crazy complications & even spent much of the last month hospitalized & didn't have the least bit of anxiety but about a year after having her, started having some PPD. Every pregnancy, birth, & child are so very different. Our son (I'm almost 100% sure is a 7...I mean text book 7) is very extroverted, talkative, energetic, always wanting to go and do exciting things...pretty much the opposite of his type 5, very introverted, homebody parents (yes, we are very similar). Our girl, I'm not so sure about...she's much more sneaky than him & calculating but I cannot wait to see her personality develop over the next few years. Kids are exhausting & change your brain majorly but they are so fun to watch as they grow & learn & develop into their own person. They are truly amazing creatures. :D

@JessicaMcLeanxRose89 10 дней назад

Well, we already know the little dude is probably going to be a Sagittarius, so that's a hint on his personality right there. Congratulations!! This is honestly so exciting!! 🎉

@maxens_is_here 10 дней назад

Congrats! (I was born in December too 8o)

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

December babies!! Jon is a December baby too... Gonna be a big month for us 🤣

@gretchenrodriguez 10 дней назад

Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family. How is your husband feeling now? ❤

@AbbeyHowe 10 дней назад

thank you, gretchen! and he is SO much better. 10 days of a strong antibiotic cured it!!

@ryliefrisch6933 10 дней назад

You are super women and I Love you so so much!

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

I LOVE YOUUUUU

@stu6097 9 дней назад

can you give hint of where this typhus outbreak is?

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

Los Angeles!!

@Mathematchit 10 дней назад

INTJ Type 5w4 here, i deductively conclude that the secret was the pregnancy, you can see it in your face, congratulations, i hope he is a Type 5 too, it'd be nice to know there is another one out there.

@Flora-j6t 10 дней назад

I knew it. Why dud i know it?

@Flora-j6t 8 дней назад

By the way I'm a 5. So that explains it.

@AbbeyHowe 7 дней назад

intuitive!!

@Nehpets1701G 10 дней назад

Shit the sheets, it's zero seats 💩

@BotlheMolelekwa-ju2se 9 дней назад

You are already created something more and need time, space to attend to yourself and the baby.

@21cormorants 8 дней назад

Just wanted to say … I was having a really rough night, feeling a little teary… then saw this, saw your and your husband’s reaction to your pregnancy test and teared up for a completely different, and far more wonderful reason. Congratulations on your wonderful news; it truly brightened this stranger’s day! 🥹

@AbbeyHowe 8 дней назад

Wow, thank you for sharing this. Hope your day is brighter friend