I WANT TO SUE MY HUSBAND FOR CHEATING || Justice Court EP 154-A 

The only concern that I have in situations like this is that an irresponsible parent will want to reap where he did not sow when the children become successful and people will start preaching forgiveness. Bottomline, stop making children that you can't care for please

Silly to think because you separate from someone that means you are no longer responsible for your children. If any child is watching this, please remember the sacrifices of the Active parent. It’s a struggle but parents do it for the Love of their children.

Women we are always suffering for our children, I pray Africa should start helping single parents. Myself I passed through this 37 years ago. My son was abandoned by the father. I cried when I see this lady,I was very lucky that I had a good paid job. Sponsored my son in good school, he became a marine engineer and the retired father came to his life for forgiveness and asking for him to help take care of his children he had with 4 Women. Life is very difficult for African mothers. Am in Australia now and I see women abandoned with children enjoying the best of their lives.

The man should man up, the salary he earn is to small for the upkeep of the children, the woman has done great work for feeding the kids for almost 2 years, if the kids are staying with the man will 50k be enough for one month? Thanks to judge Funmi for added feeding and medical allowance to the man bill.

I feel the woman wasn't given enough time to express herself better. And, the 25k is way too small for three children. Who would balance the school fees when she's already taking care of their accommodation and clothing.

The women feels cheated, she wasn’t given enough time to pour out her heart.. She doesn’t look satisfied

Business is affected and your stomach is big. Shame

All these Lagos marriages e get as be shaa....How can you marry someone without knowing his/her village? Do you even know if he/she is a ghost? People dey take risk oo...

I don't know how God created some men some fathers if I may say, personally I can't leave without my children with me and I made sure av done everything to forgive my wife or that she forgives me no matter the problem we have just so I can keep and see my children with me and growing under my watch.God I love my children.

The man's responses seemed well rehearsed to avoid financial responsibilities...judging by his appearance, I'm doubtful of his claims🙄

The man is looking so mean and wicked You left all 3 children with her alone for years No matter your claim you could have still been supporting them no matter how little biut you’re just wicked

This man is showing a very deep sense of negligence towards his responsibilities. I wish our justice system will work so that there will be great consequence for not paying child support to deter from making babies indiscriminately.

I’ll never understand men that neglect their children after a marriage fails just to spite their exes. Shameless lots!!!

Let them go to government school if he can't afford private school

As soon as she mentioned cheating, thise two men at the front tho😂😂✌️

This man is very funny. Because his business collapse doesn't mean he should neglect his responsibilities for his wife

This wasn't a fair judgement at all. Too much burden left for the woman. Her income wasn't even put into consideration at all.

The judge is very inconsiderate towards the woman

The man was allowed to speak but the woman was constantly interrupted. Annoying much!

But the money is very poor for the upkeep of the three children things are very hard now in the country

How is he suddenly earning 50k if he was a business man earlier 😅

That's why we have condoms to avoid this kind of drama, nobody say's that you should not have sex.

Well, if a man earns 50k monthly and gives out 25k for feeding every month and has to pay 120k school fees every 3 months + hospital He will die.. Cos expenditure is way more than what he earns.. Assuming the 50k is the truth though.

Hope this man didn't mention 25k per month under dures? If he eats free food, Free house, Working from home without transportation, Free clothing, Free detergents, Free hospital bills, Free salons, Free recharge card and phone, Even free life, There is no way he can raise 120k in every 3 months o (if 50k is his salary true true). Emergency for the kids no dey this bill o My take is Look for an affordable school for your children or else, yahoo boys or armed robber will be plus one very soon. God help men iut there

God bless you Judge Funmi. May God continue to give you the wisdom of Solomon. I love the way you handle case. More grace your honour.

Oga take care of your small pikins u dey have for this woman oo i said my own🙌🏾

Someone said the woman has been taking care of the kids for 2 years.. I laugh😃.. Was it stated that the man had not been taking care of his family before the separation?? Truth be told, the Law is way too harsh on the male folk. If the man is expected to pay the bills, the woman should take a share of the bills too, Atleast 70:30. As they both made the kids. That to me is fairness, If we cannot afford private schools, then the kids should attend government schools. Afterall, most of us here are products of government schools and we didn't die.

I don't like the up keep he proposed for the three children things are expensive

This woman looks very disappointed, like she was deceived, and u can tell the man is very good at his game of cover up. Smh…..

Proud of you ma❤

How u sue for cheating😂😂😂😂 anyways oga,man up and start taking care of your kids

Good a man have to take responsibility of his children, judge fumi i am not against your judgment, but you fully know that nothing is working in Nigeria so you can also use that power to speak out to the BAD governance in Nigeria, we need the support of the judiciary to make the system work in Nigeria

A whole churchman cheating and neglecting his wife chaiii! 🙆🏾‍♀️

Judge forget to say thank you to AKIN... pressure ti wa

There are public schools doing better than the private school, abeg cut your coat according to your size.

Na so so igbos dey come this show now. Nonsense! Tomorrow, they will say it was Peter Obi who started the program in Lagos, and it was Obi who appointed Judge Funmi. Lets kuku call the program Igbokwenu Court

Your honor, I’m still confused about the responsibilities sharing ratio of both parents?🤔I believed both parents have to share the responsibility equally except the husband is making more than the wife and a ration of 63/35 would be d considerable. But most Nigerian women were brought-up like a slave especially going into marriage, to obey their husbands like they’re going to another training center.

There's a law that remove a man earnings to his wife and children?

That man does not look like someone earning 50k o, he might make up a fake statement of acc. He definitely earns more

What scares me the most is bringing kids into this world and not being able to care and provide for them... I would rather die childless.. If I can't guarantee the type of life i desire for my kids I wouldn't bring them into this world.

You’re seperated and want to sue him for cheating? We need Moral, Academical and Constitutional orientations in that country, not all these religious and cultural foolishness that’s killing us all. More grace you Honor

Husband in the courtroom with hat on

This man will not meet up with all the responsibility given to him by the court considering what he said his salary is. He is supposed to be saving 40k monthly to be able to pay the children's school fees. He will be left with 10k for his transport to work and feeding. If he wants to sacrifice so much for his kids he will then give them 5k every month for feeding. He will definitely default.

Judge funmi didn’t handle this case as expected ooo

How can you say a northerner cheated on you, where you blind. People that marry plenty woman as their want

But does the woman has the right to put the children in any school of her choice not minding the school amount of the fees ?

The man looks unhappy with life in general. He may not be wicked but it seems his finances are not at its best. It is a difficult situation. Marriage is complex and one can imagine the pain in their hearts. The woman needs help to cope while the man should gear up and train his children to avoid unpalatable stories in the future

I don't understand how the man don't have to prove his salary. He can say anything and the court accepts it. How do we know what he can afford. There's no proof of income. No one knows what he really makes. Did the Judge address the domestic violence? smh

Women dey suffer sha. It is well

That was sound judgement by judge fumi

Public service announcements!!! Men that neglect their children reaps 1 million percent of their negligence. Even if the child decides to forgive you, it is never the same and all support that the man receives from such child later in life is cursed.

If it's a course or spiritual forces that causes marriage to break after man and woman agreed to give birth to children due to love, ,, God please do something 🙏. Because the world is bleeding.

This man is not sincere at all

We Africans have to stop having many children now. One child is minimum two should be maximum. Children suffer when parents separate. We know women always bear the brunt. Women should stop listening to people saying have more children. My husband told me right to my face that if I could have another child he will see im stupid and it was going to be my responsibility alone,Respect to the beautiful judge.

Can someone confirm which sign language this is? Is it ASL, BSL or NSL?

This woman was not properly attended to. I am seriously wondering why this session was handled poorly

I don't think dat dis school fee's is true,but try to be giving dem enough money pls.

The judgement wasn't fair to the woman.

The man only 25k and 3 children #25k too . Not fair

the women needs to protect their self with protection,i don't care what he says how he want a baby

Igbo lady & hausa man as couples! She must be from imo state or abia

This man is very funny. Because his business collapse doesn't mean he should neglect his responsibilities for his wife

This woman dey pay 40k for children school fees at d east😂 So she no see 5k,10k,15 or 20k schools since there is no money.

The Lord bless Judge Funmi Asaolu

Women and their choice of marriage

Are these cases true

Good judges and best among so far

The woman is unhappy

You go marry hausa Sha

From imo state to North

Please I help ooooooooooo

Same reasons, I stopped watching this program for quit sometimes… judge Funmi, pls let the woman’s speak for God’s sake. She’s not even asking for too much, not asking for rent just upkeep and school fees for the kids the unserious man brought to the world. The man should be made to pay up to 100k for three kids monthly. A man that doesn’t know where his kids live and which school they attend but quick to say he wants to have one… what a show of shame. Don’t bring kids to this world if you ain’t going to care for them. And ladies, pls love is not about facial looks or love making, look for a man that would care, listen and express himself through dialogue and not violence to you.

In as much as the man has no reason not to pay the children's fees, it's obvious the lady is lying about the amount for the fees... She couldn't even come up with the name of the school at the snap of a finger... The judge in her wisdom also sensed it and agreed the man should find out the fees and be paying...

Women have to be very careful when going into inter tribal marriages! Values are very important!!!

They both look responsible and beautiful together; and I’m sure the love was shacking themselves

An 18yr old boy stole a phone from a neighbor that was valued at 55k, the boy was arrested by the police & his parents were asked to pay 250k to free him, the parents struggled & managed to raise the money for the police so as to bail out the boy, as they were driving home, the parents pleaded their son, "never should you repeat this kind of nonsense young man, don't you see how much your bad behaviour has cost us................" The boy replied, "don't worry, your 250k, is here with me, I stole it from the drawer when I was being released"🙆🙆 Now😋 the question is if you were the parents: 1) Will you return the boy to the police station❓ 2) Will you return the money to the cops ❓ 3) Will you punish the boy❓ Honest response pls......🤔 FROM anonymous

Very irresponsible man. His manhood shud be cut off

Alot of Kaduna men are in this WhatsApp group. Very irresponsible men

Marriage Marriage Marriage, if your salary is #50K per month how will you be able to pay 120k partime for the children school fees.

From watching this I have observed that this judge does not care about DV She’s always harsh on the women like it’s their fault In this case she did not care at all She was still nasty to the woman It’s a shame but that’s Africa

Weldone ma'am You're doing well

I don't agree to this judgement please judge Funmy please revisit this case first the man said he has nothing doing that his business collapsed Then he said he's salary is 50k And asked to divide it into 2 So only him will be enjoying half while,3 children makes use of half no now he should be giving them 35k. Let him manage 15k so that he will see how hard it is to manage little amount of money to survive as he is indirectly asking 3 children to survive with just 25k a month.

What a shame and dis guy is a pastor?? 🧐 Heyyy. Wonders shall neva cease o. 🤦🏾‍♂️🙄

God help you ma💜

Why do so many pay for school? Isn’t school free? It should be so that every child has an education.

I don't pray for anybody I know to marry this kind of selfish man. ' it will be burdensome ' who is supposed to carry the burden of your own children?

What's an average Nigerian salary for a 4 member family, and how much should that family be able to make to to live comfortably?

If he earns N50k and he is handing over N25k for the kids is it sustainable to live in the remaining N25k? This is not an argument that he should not be supporting them, but more how difficult things are in Nigeria for those on low wages and that is before the upcoming increase in prices due to the removal of fuel subsidy.

Today, DreamFM, Enugu in one of its programmes centred on Abakaliki People committed what's more than media crime. I wouldn't have lent a voice to this aspersive subject matter as I'm not from the so-called Abakaliki, but it became imperative that I should condemn what's condemnable. The comments from contributors to the programme who are all Igbo people have once again substantiated my view about the Igbo ostentatious and vindictive attitude. The attitude is vexatious. These are the people who are in-ferior to the Western World as Africans. These are people decrying political intimidation by the Northern political bloc since independence. These are people crying for help in the Lagos of Yorubas. These are people insecurity has taken over its territory. These are people who completely have lost bearing in the Nigeria's national agenda. Instead of finding a way to pull off the veils, they'll always use the Abakaliki rhetoric as shock absorber. These are people begging parts of Delta and Rivers States to identify with them so as to make population index, yet, they're always denying affinity with a community in the same territory. DreamFM should be made to pay heavily for this aspersion if they don't tender public apology and dedicate an hour programme to that effect to assuage the people they so aspersed. Ebonyi State is almost the first state on the chart of states patronising the radio station. It was more like the radio station for Ebonyi people, but I'm sure it'll no longer be so from today. I guess DreamFM must have brought this topic to insult the Abakaliki people because the imprisonment of the owner of the radio station in the UK, Sen. Ike Ekweremmadu was due to the inhuman transaction he struck with a boy from that axis of Ebonyi State. Again, a new private radio station has been established in Abakaliki and DreamFM feels it's going to affect its audience and patronage. What on earth should prompt a radio station to discuss in a derisive manner a people? What kind of journalism is that. Doesn't Enugu have ills? Is there any part of the South East that exists without ills? Should that be enough reason to dedicate an hour to deride them on air? What junk journalism this has become! I want to urge those from the Abakaliki axis of Ebonyi State to whom DreamFM has maligned publicly to initiate a mass action against DreamFM as a move to register their disenchantment. They should cease patronising the radio station forthwith and unfollow its social media platforms. They should also report their social media platforms and petition them to the NBC or take a legal action against the station. Why bring a people for open mockery? Ike Ekweremmadu who committed a criminal act against a young boy from Abakaliki wouldn't have been any better than the people his radio station has insulted. What hell of a radio station is DreamFM! I'm taking this action because it can

the woman want to talk......but judge funmi didn allow her to pour out her mind

Someone whose salary is 50k should put his children in school that pays 7-8k not 40k,there is no way he will meet up with that obligation

#JUDGEFUNMIASAOLU, God bless you always and anything you lay your hand 🖐️ on we be prosper, because I can see in so many cases you don't normally take side, and I also like this your old school hair style na confirm old school 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤

if the woman says she doesn't need the man's money to look after the children, does that free the man legally of his responsibility?

I love Judge Fumi, she is focused on the Children’s welfare ❤

Hmm

This is the primary problem with Nigerian Everything about this case was about money. No detailed judgment on access to the kids like equal time or kids visiting. What if the children are not his? Will the court provide opportunity costs?

the children should be enrolled in a government school cut down some financial burden on both the man/woman side

Is it a must that one children should to school that can drained your pocket? If you divide your salary by two for only the upkeep of your children, what about the other expenses such as rent, transportation, school fees and unforeseeable situtions? Man must always die first in a relationship. End.

Why is the woman finding it hard to mention the name of the school her children attend? Why are people like this? And the man abandoned his responsibilies n he sleeps comfortably...

immediately you separated and you eat?oga you're wucked