I Was a Juror in a Murder Trial (I Can’t Move On)

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@lavenderandgold8588 13 дней назад

it's surprising the courts don't offer free therapy after jurors have to sit through and listen to trials that are heavy like this

@deannab8890 13 дней назад

What therapist would want to work for free when they can bill $150/hour?

@blackosprey2219 13 дней назад

@@deannab8890The government could compensate the therapist and offer other benefits to entice participating in the program.

@lavenderandgold8588 13 дней назад

@@deannab8890 lol true

@theanonymousasmrchanelguid2620 12 дней назад

Yeah well nothing is free though.

@tpeters85 12 дней назад

@@deannab8890I believe “free” would mean paid for by the county or state

@bub8002 12 дней назад

An ICU nurse once spent 4 hours brushing my hair out when I woke from a coma as they were going to shave it, it took me a while to realise she probably should have been at home in those hours as there's no time for hair brushing in an ICU. I think about her all the time when I think the worlds a dark place, her kindness continues even 10 years after the act

@Mrs.TJTaylor 4 дня назад

That’s a beautiful, uplifting story. Thank you for sharing it.

@TheForestBeganToSing333 18 часов назад

That is so beautiful. I'm glad I came across this comment today.

@toscadonna 12 дней назад

My Mom was on a jury for the rape of a 7 year old girl here in our small town. It still haunts her. We need to punish these monsters and stop letting them live on to reoffend.

@mariguzman7752 13 дней назад

It never crossed my mind that jurors could be traumatized… to hear the evidence and see the people who could’ve potentially been involved is so scary… wishing her a speedy healing process

@builtontherockhomestead9390 13 дней назад

There's a TED Talk I On YT that was a death penalty case. Juror was the speaker. The trauma caused to the jury was significant.

@AC-ss5oy 13 дней назад

yep. i was on the grand jury and saw murder photos in 2011. it sticks with you. i can still see the photos in my head even to this day.

@amandaleighplans 12 дней назад

Same here, I never would have considered that. It’s kind of fucked up that they show civilians that stuff. I feel like cops, etc. are at least going into their professions knowing what they’ll see and making that choice but it’s messed up to traumatize regular people who didn’t choose those lines of work

@gaaraxnaru 12 дней назад

@amandaleighplans There is really no choice. Experts can be biased, so we need regular citizens who at least have lesser potential to be biased. It sucks. They SHOULD offer free therapy for jurors who feel they need it though. That'll never happen, though.

@todd2324 12 дней назад

Just imagine what homicide detectives and FBI agents have to see and deal with. Sure, it's their job, but it comes with a heavy burden.

@sharonleis1365 12 дней назад

A co-worker of mine was on a murder jury and after it was over he had a nervous breakdown.

@ourlady6196 13 дней назад

If this was the Harmony Montgomery trial, the whole state of New Hampshire was traumatized. And i'm so sorry that you had to be on the jury for what that man did to that baby girl. Harmony is safe now.

@Hypnotizes_Lobsters 13 дней назад

If this is Hannah Montgomery, I would say the whole world was traumatized by what happened to that sweet girl. I know the dads who adopted Jamison are active on X. It might help to follow their story of resilience, support and love.

@catH727 13 дней назад

My nursing career in pediatrics came from my childhood trauma. I wanted to prevent one kid from pain. Need to write some letters.

@cookie_dough_hangover 13 дней назад

@@catH727I think you're awesome..❤ Take care.

@signalfire15 13 дней назад

Omg I just watched the impact statement from the fathers who adopted her little brother and I cried my eyes out.

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

Usually there's a few mo that between recording and release.... this case could have been last fall or winter

@1ucapedia 13 дней назад

I don't think it gets much more real than the conversation the two of you just had. That was heavy.

@juliestone9371 12 дней назад

You put that much better than i could.

@tpeters85 12 дней назад

They absolutely do not pay jurors enough to deal with that kind of trauma.

@catH727 13 дней назад

Prayers for this lady. Unfortunately it’s not like the TV shows.

@ryancohen5580 13 дней назад

As a combat medic and volunteer emt and firefighter, I have a lot of letters to write… thanks to this lady and all our nurses

@trudykennedy2380 11 дней назад

And thanks so much to you, good sir, for doing the integral, lifesaving work you do! Hope you seek help coping if ever you need it; a friend’s husband teaches EMTs and remains one now. Years back, I hired him to teach a first aid/CPR course to childcare workers and suddenly, while explaining why to do something one way vs another, he broke down in tears. Turns out he’d been unable to save a child and the technique he was teaching (using a device developed since her death years before) could have. To see this loving, funny, but 100% serious on the job guy sob really hit us all - what seeing gory, tragic, shocking things can do to a normally centred (the caller seemed pretty levelheaded) person. Take good care of yourself, okay? Props to you from Canada! 🇨🇦

@user-lf4td9xr4v 11 дней назад

Thank you! As a person who gets sympathetic pain in their ass when seeing someone gets wounded on tv, I cannot imagine the trauma you have to go through on a daily basis. Take care, take good care, take great care!

@angelasepi657 13 дней назад

To the caller, the little girl you are calling about is home. She returned to paradise as soon as her spirit left her body. Her family is hurting so pray for them.

@eevee2411 12 дней назад

Not everyone believes that and telling them their sorrow is out of place is very invalidating.

@pumpkin6464 12 дней назад

@@eevee2411what other option is there 😢

@eevee2411 12 дней назад

@@pumpkin6464 There are many things you can do, pretending something awful is actually not awful to push away your negative feelings is not going to help anyone. They don't go away, rather they build up and negatively affect your life. Talk to people, seek therapy, try to make the world a better place. But whatever you do, you have to acknowledge the pain for what it is and not kid yourself.

@pumpkin6464 12 дней назад

@@eevee2411 ❤️ you are absolutely right.. I’ve reread the post ,,, I’m not sure how I read it the first time ❤️

@taylordru7361 11 дней назад

@@eevee2411It is called trying to bring closure. Get over yourself.

@Hatbox948 11 дней назад

I never really thought about this topic. It's good she called in and brought this to our attention.

@lindarockower6028 13 дней назад

Thank you ICU nurses! You make all the difference when our loved ones are hanging by a thread. People like you saved my husband's life. I'll never forget you, ever. Please remember those who lived 🎉 ❤

@tobyesperanza2649 13 дней назад

A friend of mine had to leave her csi career because she could no longer manage her feelings about what she witnessed, the evil people could do to each other.

@SlayerMoon17 13 дней назад

Sounds like Harmony Montgomery. That poor baby. The poor jury

@murdahmammiez 13 дней назад

Her body was never found So what crime scene pictures did she look at?? Probably différent case

@Tamara-id1pe 12 дней назад

@@murdahmammiezthere was photos

@MC-mk6gs 12 дней назад

💔💔💔💔

@pinkfairydust83 12 дней назад

@murdahmammiez I watched the whole trial and there were photos of stains where she was left in the ceiling etc. Lots of gruesome images an

@kateri17 2 дня назад

There are so many other child murder cases that just don't hit the media, it could be another case.

@ashleyb1091 12 дней назад

I worked in the ED for 10 years, the most significant thing I remember is doing CPR on a young girl after her family was hit by a drunk driver. Unfortunately she passed and I remember after leaving the trauma bay, I was so numb and in shock, it’s like body was out of itself. When I left my shift and drove home, I just busted out crying, it finally hit me. I still think about her and felt so bad that happened to her and her family.

@JS-hu7pv 12 дней назад

I have a friend who was our county prosecuting attorney for years. He had to try a case in which a child was brutally abused and died as a result. He had to try the case three times due to appeals. He said he had to look at things, talk about things, and show things to jurors that were unbelievable. I’m glad we had him in that position as prosecutor for a while, but there’s a reason he’s now in corporate law.

@Lauren-vd4qe 13 дней назад

My husband was a juror on a murder trial, but strangely enough, the perp wasnt in jail! he had a court ID monitor collar on his leg, and he did appear at all require court/police appointments. He was being charged with murdering his father. After a morning of court testimonials, they broke for lunch. my hubby followed this perp along the sidewalk near the courthouse when he went to get some lunch, as did the perp. as my hubby walked a ways behind this guy, he observed his body language and the way he spoke to the food cart staff. really rude, in your face, its all about me, etc. My hubby commented later to me, this jerk was a real piece of work! At the trial, my hubby wanted to b jury foreman but a very young girl was elected instead. at the end of the jury session, for the vote, she covered her face and turned away. refused to conduct business. she was the only dissenter, all other jury members voted the dude guilty, she could not bring herself to even VOTE! my hubby informed the court clerk of this, so she was removed and another person came in, was informed of all the discussion and current vote, he was found guilty. My hubby found the whole process interesting, and did not shrink from doing his jury duty.

@LoudUpstairsNeighbor 12 дней назад

He's a man. They have a different emotional capacity for that.

@janetmessman95 2 дня назад

Thank you Meg for what you do. My husband went into septic shock 12 days after his first chemo treatment followed by a hemorrhagic stroke. He was admitted to ICU. 12 hours after he was admitted I had to make the decision to let him go. His neurosurgeon was the rudest, most arrogant, and cruelest physician I have ever encountered. It was the ICU nurses that were a rock for me. They were so very special. You are special.

@foxxybrown291 13 дней назад

I have spent a considerable amount of time of my life in hospital. I’ve had 3 strokes and been around watching families say goodbye to loved ones and I balled my eyes out and those nurses were amazing in every single way possible. I asked how do you get through it and some said you get used to it but once they got home it hit them hard. I adore nurses 💓💛💓

@senpai_dolph7873 13 дней назад

I hope he didn't let that incident outside sway his decision in court

@janwells2199 13 дней назад

Oh Meg, my heart aches for you. Justice can't be served without brave citizens like you. You have learned a lot about yourself. I pray Delony's strategy will help. I think that plus time passing should.

@kimdoes32 13 дней назад

I think writing a letter is a beautiful start to resolve underlying pain and trauma. Pray always and put on the full armor of God daily to block the intrusive thoughts. 🙏🏼❤️

@starrfadeable 13 дней назад

Thank you to every person who takes being a juror seriously. I saw 1st hand this year the power of our legal system. My daughter was on trial for 2 weeks and was found not guilty. I hugged the jurors afterward and cried as I thanked them for seeing the truth. Many of them told me that they lost their faith in the police and realized how much junk science is out there after sitting on her trial.

@JustinCase780 13 дней назад

This is friggin' horrible. So sorry. Take care.

@WalkaboutBridge 13 дней назад

Sweet, beautiful human. Feel the embrace of the entire community on this channel. I'm so very sorry that you had to endure this and that she still crosses your path and mind. She sits in my heart too and I'm far away. I don't envy your pain and I will hold your voice in my heart when I think of the jurors who are impacted by these unbelievable crimes. Bless you, thank you for every patient you helped in the past, every human whose heart you'll touch in the future. Thank you for deeply touching mine 💜

@c.w.2234 13 дней назад

I can’t imagine the trauma. I’m grateful the juror called in. Much respect to her and others who have set in on these trials. I wonder if writing a letter to my ex who verbally abused me would work. I’ve never thought about that before. It really hit me when he said that.

@NvrDieNvrSurrender 10 дней назад

I was a jail deputy for almost a decade, including being a court deputy. I sat in on trials, and the kid cases were always the hardest. I had to sit there stone faced with a poker face hearing some of the darkest secrets during jury selection of all the horrible things that happened to potential jurors. It broke my heart for them hearing their stories about the worst that had happened to them that many of them had kept inside all those years. Then you'd sit through trials of all the horrible things that the defendants did. Oooh, him saying to write a letter hits hard. That brought some tears for sure. There is one particular case that the mother got 25 to life so if she ever comes up for parole, I will be there to testify to make sure she doesn't get out for what she did to her kid... sounds like I need to write some letters.

@bts_vintagearmy3754 12 дней назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you, Meg. Thank you John. Letting go is Healing, it just takes time.

@Alice-jt1cd 13 дней назад

This year I was a juror in a murder trial and readily took the position because It was My Civic Duty. I repeated that so many times, proud to be chosen, but following the guilty verdict I questioned my right, being part of 12, to judge the defendant .... We were paid handsomely and I thought if I donated the money to worthy causes I'd feel better. Doesn't work that way I was fooling myself. Working through this will take much time..

@blackosprey2219 13 дней назад

It's not a right. It's a duty that society has imposed upon you. That power wasn't granted to you because you were worthy of it, but because you are a citizen with civic responsibilities.

@Suzette-gb7uj 12 дней назад

Yes, it will.

@Mmmmkaaay 12 дней назад

Paid handsomely? I thought we only get $15 a day as jurors...

@toosense 12 дней назад

You are not responsible for the defendant’s actions. When jurors find someone guilty they are keeping society safe. It’s not about you.

@Suzette-gb7uj 11 дней назад

@@Mmmmkaaay, I’m pretty sure it was $8.00 a day when I served. And I never got a check. Not that it mattered.

@Texasvampire 12 дней назад

I was in school to become a mortician but I couldn't deal with the death of children. I hope this woman finds healing and I hope that little girl finds peace.

@fretlon 13 дней назад

Thank you for your service

@martystub3990 12 дней назад

This advice would really help someone I know who lost a child traumatically many years ago. Thank you.

@FaithAndRepentance 13 дней назад

3:29 thanks for your transparency when dealing with others ❤

@Suzette-gb7uj 12 дней назад

I probably should not have watched this episode. I was on a jury for a murder trial, and the young man was found guilty. We, the jury, also had to deliberate the sentencing, and we gave him the maximum sentence. I knew that was going to be an emotional journey for me. It did truly affect me negatively for a long time. I believe we did the right thing, but it was incredibly difficult for me to reconcile, not to sometimes question our decision. Listening to this call brought it all back, and my heart goes out to Meg. She’s a strong woman. I wish her all the best.

@reckonerwheel5336 11 дней назад

You sound like a strong woman too, Suzette.

@Suzette-gb7uj 10 дней назад

@@reckonerwheel5336 , thank you. I believe I am.

@user-sl4cd2sz5l 13 дней назад

Sending luv ❤️. So sorry to hear this .

@marcicisketti4608 13 дней назад

poor kiddo, sad

@juliestone9371 12 дней назад

Gosh this is making me cry.

@DoggyDoula 12 дней назад

I for real need someone like this guy!!

@ginab6142 12 дней назад

I witnessed a murder in 2019. Not a child and not anyone I knew. It haunted me for months, but eventually I was able to turn it "off" in my head - - or at least not playing in my mind until I fell asleep and immediately upon waking. The suspect was caught a short time after the murder, but here it is 2024 and the trial has been delayed again and again and again. So every year, I have to meet with the prosecutor to prepare for the trial and then at the last minute, the murder's lawyer who happens to be a state delegate, delays the trial until the next year. So every year, I have to pull out these memories and examine & discuss them in preparation for the trial that never seems to happen.....

@rachelh2731 11 дней назад

Absolutely heartbreaking 💔💔

@janethartmannjones4781 13 дней назад

Serving as a juror at a murder trial got me to therapy, I'm sure my career as an oncology pa and child of dysfunction added to the pressure. Great advice, I have some letters to write as well, I still see their faces as I gave them bad news and told them goodbye.

@lauren8627 12 дней назад

The support you gave families is priceless. I hope your heart can heal and move forward.

@cmoore7518 5 дней назад

I was a juror for a molestation case, and it affected me more than I thought it would. Worst experience of my life

@firefly9838 6 дней назад

Weird to me how shocked and how sheltered some people are from the less pleasant side of human nature... some people just really are blessed with never seeing death, greed, lies, violence, gore, and all the rest of it.

@EYES0FGOD 13 дней назад

Thank you Meg.

@willburrows8834 13 дней назад

Man, this floored me.

@EmmaAndEmmaAndEmma 8 дней назад

It’s crazy that juror trauma isn’t talked about more. My heart breaks for this caller.

@noahvale2627 13 дней назад

Thanks so much, John, I now realize I have some letters to write.

@ColdTruth 12 дней назад

I needed to listen to this particular episode more than I knew. I am going to write Nakota Kelly a letter today.

@donaldjohnson-ow3kq 13 дней назад

I've learned to just say "yes, I would have a problem with that" when they are filtering out potential jurors with questions to see who should be excused because they wouldn't like something about the case. Sitting on a traffic case made me realize that nobody in that jury room operates under the reasonable doubt assumption and is just putting their own personal experiences into the case - "I've run 10 times as many stop signs as the 1 time I wrongly got pulled over for, so we're going to say she's guilty"

@AquaGirl953 13 дней назад

It’s called vicarious trauma…God bless this poor woman!

@evanl889 13 дней назад

What about the cops that are on scene in the homes and in the woods and finding and picking up these bodies for years on end they need more support especially these days.

@flashthecorgi2053 13 дней назад

That’s exactly what Dr. John did for years. He was with the cops who responded to crisis scenes and death notifications. So when John says “Hey Meg, you shouldn’t have seen that and I’m sorry” it’s the inner pain because he’s seen so much death. Its what his job was for years seeing dead bodies and helping families with their grief and trauma in the aftermath!

@mayraalexandra1016 13 дней назад

Perfect timing!

@andreaa.9709 5 дней назад

For some reason midway through this video I just started crying. I know this focus of this video was the murder and not her being a nurse but I am a nurse and lost a patient today. I knew she was in organ failure when I left this morning and she died later. She was 54, had metastatic cancer, and had been at home, her normal self, just a few days ago. Over 3 days I watched her slowly die in an obtunded state and her husband just stayed with her 24/7 occasionally tearing up and probably feeling so helpless. I didn’t feel like I was allowed to tell them that she might be dying. Doctors were still trying to find a cause of her sudden decline and I didn’t feel it was my place to suggest the worst. I usually leave work at work but this video reminded me to give a few moments for my feelings to be felt and I just cried for a while. Her husband is having the worst night of his life and I can’t imagine what it’s like.

@VDOVault 13 дней назад

What if Dr. John were to have on a future episode a grief counselor or a therapist who specializes in these difficult deaths (think s*icide, m*rders, etc)? I would go to them to get their advice to get unstuck. I know that the people who survive them (families & friends) end up going to specialized grief therapy groups & individual counseling. Also their advice to the rest of us who didn't witness it but who want to support those who do would be good to hear.

@a.bielski 13 дней назад

Pray to her🙏and i will Pray for you, Amen ❣️

@shortsauce 13 дней назад

This call makes me think of the fall of mankind (Adam and Eve) and how we were never meant to be the judge. Makes me appreciate those who rise to the call such as this lady, even though it is terrible and hard and honestly never something we were created to do but have to do while we are here in this fallen world. Thank you for your service to that little girl and to all of us.💕 And praise God, that he is the ultimate judge and that we can put our trust in his Son, who takes our own guilt away if we put our trust in him!

@aaronwilson8403 6 дней назад

She became a part of this childs life and is in the process of mourning now.

@tamathaidel8205 12 дней назад

Judges, clerks, bailiffs, and other court staff all sign up for that when we accept the job. Jurors do not sign up for any of that; they’re just doing their civil duty. Ideally, the judiciary would pay for the therapies (medicated and not) of jurors until they feel safe again. That’s the price the state can pay for putting its citizens through such hell.

@CrustyUgg 12 дней назад

I'm going to school to become a nurse... I specifically want to work with children and babies. I will probably be entering therapy once I start my job or shortly before to prepare myself mentally.

@ebrennie 10 дней назад

Having worked at a max security state penitentiary with a death row, I agree: nobody is meant to see that side of humanity. It will gorge on your soul and make you hopeless if you let it.

@Bright_Broccoli 12 дней назад

I have seen people come back from jury duty a changed person.

@bryanduchane2371 13 дней назад

My sister had the exact same thing.....

@jennysnow4766 11 дней назад

I’m so sorry she had to hear all of that

@user-lu9hq6jv4v 11 дней назад

Respect here!

@Themoomabides 10 дней назад

This is why I always tell the judge, “I’m voting guilty every time because the DA could lose his job” and I get dismissed.

@acepilotson3331 13 дней назад

I was on a jury last month for a double murder. It was two 20yr olds who were shot over a drug deal gone bad. I was surprised because I was also a correctional officer for 22yrs but they picked me. I’m not bothered but it wasn’t a child. That would be rough.

@MoTee1 13 дней назад

My only advice would be to pray and talk to God like you would to your journal, He knows but tell Him anyways all you feel and everytime it comes up. Make a time, I find 3-6 am around that time when everyone is sleeping and the world feels still, it is just easy to pour your soul out. Pray to God and He will give you His peace, because it is peace that you need more than anything else. I pray that you heal and move past this trauma. I pray the Lord fills you up with His peace which surpasses all understanding. ❤🇿🇦

@Hannah-201 12 дней назад

is she able to go to a special place and lay some flowers and candle and pray for her and her spirit is free. great advice from Dr John to write a letter

@zephyr1408 9 дней назад

Wait a minute? I am a retired LE Officer and 11 yrs a Detective with multiple murders investigations including Children along with the autopsy’s not the photos but in the room watching ppl cut up!

@trudykennedy2380 7 дней назад

What are you intending to say?

@zephyr1408 7 дней назад

@@trudykennedy2380 I am not belittling you at all! I loved all the doctors and nurses I worked around! I actually am agreeing with you ! As you suffer so goes your brothers and sisters in this environment ! I am retired and I found I remember things at thee oddest moment? I watched a little 8 yr old boy who was hungry , left alone (I found this out later) and he had a little change so he chanced crossing a very busy open hiway right in front of me as I drove up in my patrol car to turn! He was hit by a car and I watched it all? Sounded like a gun shot ? He flipped up in the air end over end, above the roof line? Then landing face down on the pavement? I just thought (I had two little ones) he is going to die alone? So I shoooed every one away , bending down next to him ; I stroked his hair saying “ it’s ok little man , it’s going to be ok”? Then he let out a breath and died! So I am not making fun of you! What I am saying is you hv a soul ! That soul was placed into you by Christ and he and he alone is the answer ! One day I will see that little man? And the little girl, and the other little girl, and I forget! Pls I apologize if I offended you! I hope you find peace ! I bet you’re a wonderful lady! God Bless!

@agricolaregs 10 дней назад

I’m haunted by a trial I sat on. We convicted. He essentially got life. I second guess myself often. Did we do the right thing? Will this impact my ending when I meet my maker?

@patriot7681 12 дней назад

I was rhe last one to see my aunt Alivr the night she was murdered I was 6 she taught me how to tell time I watched that clock woke her up and she brought down flowers for my gma and the. The neighbor did Hainus act were she died I spread this memory till this year for some reason

@hospitalitystate6945 10 дней назад

Think of how the jurors on the Gabriel Hernandez case feel

@rikard.h 13 дней назад

Can someone explain why the US has this system where random people have to participate? (maybe other countries do too, idk)

@PFM719 13 дней назад

It's supposed to give the best odds of having a fair, impartial verdict, opposed to having it handed down by the state. Each potential juror is questioned in order to filter out anybody with any biases that may relate to the trial.

@cookie_dough_hangover 13 дней назад

It's cruel..

@HopefulTabbyCat-eo6ub 12 дней назад

We have the same system in Australia.

@bah-bah29hinks7 13 дней назад

Wow.

@charliek359 11 дней назад

Put it at the foot of the Cross and give it to Jesus. She's in heaven and has no pain anymore. I saw a man commit suicide when I was 16 and that has never left me. Had to move past it.

@JulietActual 13 дней назад

I been called to duty for the exact same reason. Matter a fact, twice. Both times i got with the judge and i couldn't continue it. Those were one of the reasons. I then got called for the 3rd time and denied going. Of course i had to write a note for the judge to excuse me. I hope she finds peace. Its not easy.

@bernadettehuff2984 12 дней назад

Remember the Detectives, first Responders, Forensics personal, ME dept, Justice dept, and all the people that have to see this stuff. I have worked with this, for 9 years and it has changed me. But I know 100% there is evil, but there is also good people fighting it. I know it's horrible for the victims, but God is there for them when they leave here. The hell is over for them. Good luck.

@zephyr1408 9 дней назад

To finish ? No one told me I was not suppose to see that? Kidding aside ! I am sorry mam ! I found hope in Christ! He changed my life , took away all those dreams , and filled my heart with his joy and life! Each person has that moment or moments ! Then when you realize there was no evolution , no reason for life except creation ! Then you turn to Christ ! Stay focused on him! The rest is noise except his good things !

@trudykennedy2380 11 дней назад

I’m a Canadian; are victim’s services units (in police departments, sheriff’s offices, through state or federal justice departments, etc.) not common in the US? These units are usually overwhelmed with too many hurting people and too few social workers, but most police departments here have them. Truly, I’d assumed jurors who adjudicated murder or other violent, gruesome cases were offered psychological help. It’s certainly deserved after 13 (don’t forget the alternate) everyday people devote sometimes months to a gut-wrenching crime - like the one the caller dealt with.

@MariaInIowa 7 дней назад

They are common in the settings you mention, yes, but I have never heard them offered to jurors.

@kateri17 2 дня назад

It depends on the state and the court. At a federal court level I'm not sure how it works.

@Nickbronline 13 дней назад

When summoned for jury duty, always tell them you are an -ist of your choice

@Mmmmkaaay 12 дней назад

Well especially since they only pay $15 a day. How are you supposed to live on that?!

@MC-mk6gs 12 дней назад

Yep NURSE'S are the back bone of hospital's

@sitcomchristian6886 12 дней назад

The Bible speaks very strongly against speaking to the dead, so I would caution against writing the deceased a letter. You might consider writing to her parents (no need to ever send it).

@Stphne1968 12 дней назад

Writing a letter to a person who's passed away isn't the same as "speaking to" or "summoning" the dead. Letter writing is a cathartic way to heal trauma and grief. It's not a seance. Writing a letter isn't gonna conjure spirirs.

@oceanbluewaves4918 13 дней назад

Trauma Stewardship....what is this book about?

@robkingman7623 13 дней назад

Free Karen Read

@dumpybear8664 13 дней назад

Stop interrupting your guests

@annca 13 дней назад

When you have your platform with thousands of subscribers, then you can give directions there. Until then, shut up.

@MissAmerica-fs6jg 13 дней назад

@dumpy you sound grumpy. I see your podcast oh waittttt um yeah you don't have one. But I'm sure your advice taught everyone something about you. Let Dr. John does what he does and pipe down tater tot. ❤

@dumpybear8664 13 дней назад

@@MissAmerica-fs6jgHe should stop interrupting his guests. It's pretty rude. ❤

@ithinkigottalent4047 13 дней назад

@dumpybear8664 sometimes it's necessary to prevent people from rambling. Most people don't know how to be succinct when speaking, and John has a time limit with the show.

@netsyxx1137 13 дней назад

I thought i was the only one that felt that way...

@bribri8042 13 дней назад

Dr. John, with respect, what did you think she had to look at as a juror? That questioning was out of sheer sensationalism. C’mon.

@LatteBean-mf1qr 13 дней назад

I disagree with your assessment. It didn't go off the rails, it was kept respectful, and it acknowledges the horrible reality through communication and sharing, It gets it outside the body and mind where it can be stuffed and suppressed.

@flashthecorgi2053 13 дней назад

@@LatteBean-mf1qrDr. John also may of been genuinely asking if she saw pictures of the little girls body because this was before he found out they never found her. It is a different trauma seeing the body vs just hearing about it and with John having been in so many crisis scenes he knows that trauma very well.