I was a transgender child. 

Yeah. Natalie Wynn also made a smimilar statement (but inverse) wenn she talked with Dr K. It is wild that GCs came up with Rogd as if it was somehow puzzling that a lot of trans people would only really start feeling dysphoric with puberty. As a kid my bio sex basically didnt affect anything in my life. Strangers would easily believe me whether I told them I was a girl or a boy. But I sure as hell never wanted to be a man or go through male puberty so everything turned to garbage in my teens.

@@RexxyRobin yeah. Similarly I first showed discomfort with my assigned gender as a toddler. I hated anything associated with being girly, would scream over wearing dresses (although tbh, that might have actually been a texture thing instead, I can’t remember), had a tantrum over not having a penis too and wouldn’t calm down until I was completely redirected. I also asked a lot of questions about “can people change from a boy to a girl” in early school years and would try to always be grouped with the boys instead of the girls. My mother pushed back though and by the time I was 7 and sign of me being trans disappeared without any real discomfort. Like, I quickly became none bothered by it all. Then puberty hit and yeah, it was rough.

Yes that statement perfectly embodies my experience and will be what I say to anyone who asks about my transition lol

What he meant is that he felt okay being a girl, but not okay turning into/being a woman. Many trans people realize they are trans at puberty. Get a clue.

Agreed right here

Be your beat self lovie!! You got this!!!

Best

@@prozierozie5692 Thank you so much!!! The same to you

No be held hostage by the decision of your 15 year old self instead smh

@@briarfox6129 Why?

All men are libertarian for a while, even trans men. Most grow out of that sort of magical thinking.

@@TransHippie I'm not male, but I'm a left-libertarian. Do I count?

​@@gorenbkit just ain't the same

@@DUWANGlai_kangyisocial libertarianism has an air of having actual thought put into it at some point that capitalist libertarianism just doesn't have ya know

I'll never understand this open embrace of authoritarianism. Why have so many people on the left become bootlickers all of a sudden?

I think that I love How you view the world. Do you fully understand my experience as a trans woman? No.... But... do you understand that I struggle to be respected, and have my basic right to life and liberty respected? Yes!! You do it not because you agree with me,...but because... It's the right thing to do. Thank you.

Wow I really want to hear you talk about being gay in the 60s, that sounds so interesting

This video is very educational

​@@clarissanavarro2762 sorry but you typed so manly

@@olaf-chan-728 You are being rediulous. Never heard of someone typing " Manly". I mean what does that even mean? What segment of the y gamete results in "manly typing" ?? lol....

@@ville__He’s a transman tho?

@@ville__ he, and if you were deliberately misgendering him that's not even the right tense to use for the pronoun?

That individual (who's spamming all the comments with the anti-trans pronoun "corrections") is notorious. They are all over 90%+ of the creators I follow. Imagine having such an empty life that all you do all day is search for *any* video by or about non-cis people just to do that on *every* single comment all day every day. (I report every single one I see, but it doesn't get addressed unless YT gets a flood of reports or an admin bans them. Still, I try.)

@@searchingfororion just reported them for spam 🥰

@@searchingfororionTo help, I will report it, all the comments and channel

Same!! 🤯

Dude , this is litterally me, I liked when I was younger but when puberty hit i kinda realized I was trans

@@Zeldas_Stars i realised a bit later, but i had a cringe period of trying to make womanhood work lol

@@fanatykpasztetu7964 I went through like questioning genders before I actually just accepted that I was just trans too, it might just be because I've always felt like I'm in a safe place and my parents are both LGBTQ+ but I was most definitely trying to say I could be anything but a guy, I remember me and my friend as 9 year olds sitting in my room and I just went "I just want to be a boy" and my friend just answered "Me too" turns out, I'm a trans guy and they're Nonbinary

Same here.

If I remember right, Amanda Bynes said her dysphoria came more from seeing herself as a boy on screen after the film was made.

There is SO MUCH that trans people experience that is pathologized but no one has even bothered studying whether cis people experience it too. For instance, the terven masses love to screech about AGP the second a trans woman expresses feeling sexy in her body...while ignoring that what is pathologized as AGP is a completely normal thing that cis women experience. Cis women also think about their own bodies and sexual characteristics and feel turned on! (And tbh that was sort of another tick in the column of me realizing I was a trans man, because I have never once thought about my chest or my genitals and felt sexy -- at their best, my AFAB characteristics have been things I could use as tools, more utilitarian than anything. So it really does turn out that thinking of your own body and feeling aroused is just a quirk of womanhood.)

@@MorganChaos whats agp?

​@@usernameisusernam Autogynephilia, a "paraphilia" where a man is aroused by the thought of himself with a female body. It's used to portray trans women as not women, just men with a fetish, but as I said, it's something cis women also do. It's not a paraphilia if it's normal.

@@MorganChaos thank you ^^

@@ville__ where do you even put the world girl in that sentence

So what? It’s quite obvious either way. And if it wasn’t it’s only very little of this person’s audience that would’ve read that tumblr post. This content creator outed themselves. No one else

It’s wild seeing someone do a genuinely nice thing and just *have* to post about it.

RIGHT LIKE WHY DID THEY DO THAT

​@@ntbored7727who even are you 💀💀

This. It feels so alienating to hear politicians talk about me as if I'm something to debate.

@@Elenuayexactly!! this is what I’ve been saying

APIB: Assigned political issue at birth

like other people mentioned, its really fucking weird and kinda scary to see how people dehumanize those of us who dont fit their version of normal just so they can talk down to us

@mooni it’s a bot 💀

Right 😮

And they fact they used “woman or child using a voice changer” when they were dressing who they thought was a trans man

@/Ville/: ***man

god ikr

I'm a trans alien from Ohio

Humans normally nail people to crosses if they suggest such things.

@@TransHippie I'll sacrifice myself

@@TransHippie lmao 😭

like please just leave me ALONE

@Acornsgo - sure if they are adults who can consent to all the side effects and life long consequences. And If they don’t flaunt and force their ideology and delusions on everyone as if it is fact. But teaching kids they can change their sex or going as far as encouraging it IS abuse. And just like all other forms of abuse it should be taboo and banned by society.

That’s how I feel I’m also a trans girl

You wouldn't know your real self if it punched you in the face, the devil has you confused😢 God doesn't make anyone trans

God doesn't make mistakes. The Devil has you confused. Most people know how to present as their REAL self but 'society' has a different box for them to live in@@busybody1474

@@busybody1474 i spoke to God, It's cool with it.

I GET THAT SO MUCH I don’t hate that I was born male but I’ve never actually felt deeply connected to manhood or masculinity. And though I’m non-binary not trans it still has a similar effect where i want to express myself in a way that isn’t traditional but feels true to myself

FR it blows my mind

Both are wrong and it's not a matter of hate to deny children to castrate themselves

It’s not contradictory because they don’t care about the well-being of children, they care about violently enforcing a socially acceptable model of sex and gender on literally everything they can. It makes logical sense to them but it’s evil.

Newborn born with intersex conditions are no longer subjected to having surgeries which was once the standard practice this has changed. Children are not allowed to drink or smoke should not be allowed to make decisions in their life they can't reverse. There have been plenty of successful adults who transition as adults. Leave the kids alone 80% tp 90% of children grow out of this phase.

I think you are making a disconnected conclusion. who are those people? are you sure you are not making generalizations ?

Innit

who is denying your right to exist?

@@dink7458 Have you seen the news?

((HUGS))

​@mat12 well Uganda wants to kill gay people, and Ted Cruz Is being called a "woke sellout" for saying "killing people for being gay is wrong."

You’re a beautiful soul.

hope you and your son can live a beautiful and happy life ❤

Your son is very lucky to have a mom like you ❤

❤❤❤

He was my first born and I was almost 30. I remember holding him and thinking that I loved this person more than anything on earth, and that my entire job in life was to raise him so that he could go out into the world, and in a way I would lose the biggest love of my life. That's why you get those overbearing boy moms and crap. In some way, you loved him so much you don't want to ever let them go. As they grow up, and you see them having their own lives, it's such a strange feeling. You're so proud and yet so profoundly sad that that close bond you had is going to go away, and you were going to have to deal with this person in a different way. Sometimes it makes you react in ways that aren't helpful, and sometimes I made terrible mistakes. It's hard to let go. He's a very strong personality who always knew the direction he was going in, but he would never talk about sexual orientation or even the talk about sex as your kid gets he would just brush it off and say he's not having sex and don't worry about it and he's not gay lalalalala but it was so obvious to both me and his father. It was my religious sister who how did him. He moved in with her for a bit thinking she could get some work out there. There was a shared computer and my sister read a love letter to a girl that he had met at comic-con. Basically he was kicked out because she homeschools her son and is very judgemental and wants to hide him from the world. He doesn't share much, but it's so fun to be around him. He's funny in the way that most of my family is kind of sarcastic and mean. His partner is like a rainbow unicorn, full of giggles and positivity, but a little less responsible. I'm sorry I'm writing a novel, but although he's accepted by my other relatives, which really only consists of my father and mother, it's kind of a we don't talk about it situation. With the exception of a couple of jokes my dad said about my sister not handling the situation well, everybody just treats him like anyone else in the family. I never got to process the feelings I went through. Just being scared for him, and at the same time him growing older and realizing he was going to grow up and leave me, combined with how proud I was that he was so strong and brave and responsible, just so many feelings that I didn't get to share with anybody, which is why I'm sharing it here. It's so hard to let go of your kids and watch them grow up, but at the same time it's so amazing to see them become real people with their own hopes and desires and wishes and dreams and lives. I can't understand parents who want to control who their child is. I'm not a great mom. I made lots of mistakes. They just weren't mistakes related to ever loving him or worrying about his gender identity or sexual orientation or whatever. Whomever he was, he was. He was a girl, then he was a lesbian, now he's a man. Everybody changes, and I'm so proud of him and I tell him but he gets embarrassed so I guess that's why I'm babbling here because I don't get to tell him all these things because he doesn't like to talk about all the feels. Thank you for showing me points of view on how it is to grow up to be a person like him. It makes me even more proud of him and empathetic towards him. I can't understand how anyone could feel any other way about their child. All that love. How can that change? Everybody changes over time everybody. That's what life is. Oh my God this is so huge oh I'm so sorry I need to stop

I see you, and empathize with your fear and pain. I grew up many years ago, but in an equally cisnormative environment. You are not the defective one in your family; your father is. I don't know how old you are, but one day you will be old enough to walk away from him for the last time. Protect your egg until that day. There is joy and gender euphoria on the other side which will be forever lost if you harm yourself out of desperation. It's not all dysphoria and depression, I promise. Your identity is valid, and it is yours to define, no matter what anyone else tells you. I hope this gives you some small peace of mind, and if you have any questions, please ask.

im sorry man. im here for you

Whether or not your father or the rest of your family come around, I hope you know that the only person whose thoughts on your identity matter is you. It’s near impossible to keep going, though, when the Venn diagram of you and your support system is just a circle, so please remember that there are people out there willing to become your found family if the one you were born with doesn’t cut it.

Read your Bible, find God, reject modernity and run to Christ

​@@silloweetas a Christian trans woman: STFU. Stop dragging my savior's name into your political agenda.

People do it all the time, it's weird. Talking about real people like lgbt+ headcanons. I'm sure they had no ill intent, but keep it to yourself.

@@cassidyb.3531 Exactly.

yeah, shit was wretched. especially that part when they say "i messaged them some tips 😇😇" like congrats do you want your sticker? your good ally star for saying he sounds like a child? i wish with all my heart i could go back in time and tell them to eat shit.

​​@@md-fi7zt they're the type of person to go up to a queer person and say "i just wanted you to know i think you are really brave for going out like that☺️☺️☺️"

yeah it almost sounded like it came from a good place, what with them sending him advice on how to pass better, yet then following that up with outing him, completely ruining the initial intention.

As one of those cis people, I agree. I've always gone with the "man in a woman's body" perspective to help myself understand trans people I know, but it never seems to fit the whole picture, and I am left confused when it just makes my relationship with that person even more hostile. “Do I feel a forceful pull towards male identity? Yeah. I couldn’t live any other way. But to say I know the location of this pull, to say I know the mechanism of this pull, the shape of this pull, that would be at best an exaggeration, and at worst a lie.” This^ is valuable as a perspective that helps me empathize with my fellow human beings, who just like me, are finding themselves in life and don't need to have all the answers to everything, an expectation that might drive me crazy if everyone demanded that I know what I am and why I am in every interaction. I guess I feel like a kid going up to people and asking "why are you different?" and then when they get angry at me for asking that question, I learn to stop asking.

Yeah, I'm some flavour of nonbinary/genderqueer and this description of gender fits my personal experience so much more accurately than "man in a woman's body" or anything like that

It’s also how love works. We don’t know to perfectly describe it so it can fit everyone’s way of describing it because everyone is different towards it. A lot of phenomenons are unexplained and don’t have a concrete truth or explanation. The same thing for beauty.

Exactly! 🤍

I've tried to find ways to describe gender dysphoria, and the best way I can describe it is as a feeling that this thing feels wrong and this other thing feels right. It never felt right to say women in a man's body because to me that delves into religious and spiritual matters, which I don't think apply. I like to describe it as an existential itch, but more extreme than an itch, maybe more like an existential burn that exacerbates until I have a mental breakdown, then it would sort of reset til it worsened again. The only thing that's really alleviated it is HRT. I could also bury myself in video games or books to help alleviate it, but I'd always have to come back from those dissociation experiences back into reality where I'd have to deal with it somehow

Do you mind me asking what video it is? it sounds like it would be an interesting video!

@@creepercat8536 It's thr newest video by Hbomberguy about plagiarism

@@nomercyformayhem2506 are you the flash? Jesus that was fast thank you!

@@creepercat8536 Got a notification about your comment, so I could answer fast 😁

I was initially saddened when I learned that James Sometron was a plagiarist, but I am glad that it led me to finding so many *better* channels with video-essay content.

@@ville__Bro this isn’t gonna accomplish anything

@@alibolink0719 he like his own comment of course he wont

The stealth school switch was something i wanted to do when i transferred but i chickened out lol

Based and ally pilled

you feel like a man, because you are a man. That's it. If you ask trans people, they only have sexist things to say "I always liked girl's stuff". So what, many effeminate gay dudes always liked girls stuff, too.

YOU UNDERSTAND

CLASSIC ALLY W

BASED!!!!

Sending you so much love ❤

I'm glad you were able to have such a beautiful and supportive friendship with your cousin. I may be a stranger on the internet, but just know that I appreciate you sharing this story and I'm sending you my support

((HUGS))

rest in piece, all the best to you sunny 💗

​@@ville__ You okay buddy? You seem kinda lost. Do you need help?

If they were medically transitioning minors, they absolutely should be shut down.

@@micahslash ...

Social transitioning is fine, that's reversible. Minors are not old enough to have life altering surgeries that aren't medically necessary, including hormone blockers (because yes, those are permanent, no matter what you want to say. The research shows otherwise. I don't see why this is a controversial statement in any way.

@@micahslash the research shows that it is reversible. It also helps the minor, and nobody is performing surgery like that on minors unless, apparently, bigger boobs on cis girls. Cis. Girls

@@micahslash and u say "life altering" as if it's bad, even though it (most of the time) reduces depression, gender dysphoria, and risk of suicide.

Omg same

Trans, ADHD, or both

same and i live in a conservative country. i hope nothing bad happens to me! boy do i enjoy being cis :)/j

The sissy hypno is going well, the plan is almost finished, soon the whole world will be transgendered

@@veesaos8316 same :) /🏳️‍⚧️

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Yeah this is such a mind blown thing for me! It's just like nikkietutorials and Kim Petras. I had no idea they were trans!

exactly! everyone should have the choice to come out or not, no one should be forced to do something that's uncomfortable. if that means you come out extremely soon, later down the line or not at all, you're still absolutely valid. dont let anyone tell you how to live your life

​@@zzzcocopepe with Kim Petras us Germans knew because she was on TV as a child to talk about her experience. So i personally thought everyone just knew and was surprised that she didn't really talk about it with her international audience apparently. It's not like she was hiding it and I also think there is nothing wrong with mot constantly coming out to new people again. I don't do that either but answer questions if someone asks otherwise it's just my life and I don't see cis people constantly coming out either.

This world is a miserable fucking place for us right now. There is no shame in not being ready to openly put yourself at risk by revealing to everyone who you are. Everyone should have a choice when to put themselves at risk like that, and for us (not just us but we as trans people are in this group) it's not a choice we can make by ourselves way too often. I lived through torture against my own will just because I happened to be born to transphobic parents, in a transphobic environment, whom put me through hell, and what always scared me the most was not being able to choose if I want to "bear a cross on my back" or not. I think being forced into something like this is one of the scariest things that can happen on this earth, and I lived through it, and it still scares me shitless. Even more after I've been forced into this already.

The best time to start medical transition is the beginning of puberty, but the second best time is right now.

@@TransHippie do you think it’s fine for men to wear dresses and makeup

@@Dolphinboi anyone can wear whatever

​@@Dolphinboiyes I absolutely do, but either way trans women aren't men so that doesn't fucking matter

I was recently buying a card congratulating some family members on the birth of their new baby. You'd think it'd be easy to find something that just says "baby" or "bundle of joy" or "new addition to the family". Only one card out of 15 or so.

Yeah, I remember buying sheets for my eldest and being asked "boy or girl?". I was like "I mean, I asked for *sheets*, you know".

I think it's because when babies are just born we don't know anything about their personality, so to a lot of people their sex is the only interesting aspect that can focus on. They just don't realize how weird is it to be hyperfixated on it

It's not even just children some people get angry at people who accidentally misgender their pets. I don't correct anyone and my youngest cat constantly get called a girl. He doesn't care as long as they give good belly rubs. I'll tell people his name and I genuinely had someone yell at me because I didn't correct them. Calmly stated the same I said here, Hermes doesn't care this happens regularly and has his entire 7 years of life. No need to feel bad about this. Babies don't care either and my nephew was called a girl and my nieces were called boys and we just all went with it when it was a stranger because it's just more of a hassle to correct them than just let them look at the baby and then you move on and never see them again. People also constantly misgendered me as a baby apparently because our parents just really didn't like the typical baby pink and blue and I was dressed in green and red and all the other colors that aren't really gendered unnecessarily. I think it's funny now as a 30 year old nonbinary person but even as a child it just didn't matter to me. Babies don't exactly know what they are called when they are freshly outside the womb.

Mensage lol

​@@aerosquid262sorry... English isn't my first language.... ( And I'm also dyslexic...) I don't know how to write even in my own language 😂

@@jorgecho1987 No need to apologise! If anything, I should be apologising, I didn't know!😅 I just found it funny cuz he's a trans man, and men-sage just sounded funny and fitting in my head!

hey trans brother:)

hey, i’m openly trans! we all got your back dude!

based af

adults can do whatever they want, yeah.

I’m in the same boat. I’m a cis guy, so I don’t think I understand it all that well either, but the thing is that its not our job to understand it. Like you said, trans people are just trying to get through life same as everyone else. Why should we project what out norm is onto other people? Why try to dictate their story in the first place? The only thing we can do in this life is be kind and accept others for all their differences. I also hope things get better for trans people and everyone else who doesn’t fit into what society dictates as the norm. Godspeed you beautiful humans

@@gurozawa as a 16-year-old who has been on test for over a year, I can say it was on of the main reasons that I didn't kill myself. Who tf are you to take away life-saving medicine from kids? Oh yeah, nobody

​@@OllieOllie-fj5cpDunno if I'd classify the meds as life-saving off that alone. Otherwise, a lot of other, much more common, medication would be considered life-saving. Seems a little disingenuous to me. That aside, I'm pretty sure the logic behind "we shouldn't let kids make a decision that (after a certain point) is one-way" is that too many of those kids will regret the choice. Not everyone walks away happy with the treatment. As to whether adult-only medication or child-included medication is better in this manner, is hard to say. In my eyes there's only one way to know for sure. But i wouldn't defend such treatments with things as disingenuous as "it's life saving, since I would have killed myself without it".

Someone can educate themselves however much they want, But that doesn’t mean by default they’re instantly going to feel comfortable with transgender people. One should educate to make the right points

this is the first time ive heard the term non-trans in a while. the term for not being trans is cis btw

THIS!!!

protecting trans kids would be waiting to make sure they are trans instead of cutting off their body parts before they hit 18 💀

That's the point they're making. They think kids need protection from being made to think they're trans. It's just so much culture war bullshit.

They simply do not believe trans kids exist, unfortunately

They often don't want to protect the children, they want to "protect" themselves. When I say protect I mean "not want to have their view of the world hurt because it's just so difficult to understand for their small brain"

Thank you - a trans man with small hands

As a trans man who got his tiny little hands from their cis dad, it's nice to not be alone :)

Your right. Also anyone can feel gender dyshoria or even euphoria. Trans people just obivously have it hit harder.

there is so much misogyny in society that tells men having any feminine qualities is the most shamneful and embarrassing thing that could possibly ever happen to you. so while people need to unlearn internalized transphobia, we all need to unlearn internalized misogyny too

It's interesting to hear about the other side of the coin, I have all of what you described though I am a trans woman so all those descriptors were always points of euphoria rather than hatred.

i wish you and your son nothing but love and prosperity

Hi Craig! Thank you for sharing this. I really hope you and your son are doing great. 🥰

You failed your kid.... time will show and you have nothing but that with constant medical intervention and meds on a healthy body that didn't need it otherwise. The side effects alone are a risk. Your child when look back with adult lense will regret it and you could of saved that and their health. You now cut your childs chances back by half to find a partner in life.

@@emd1494 You failed to learn anything from this video. Continue watching it until you actually learn.

@@Corbomite_Meatballs I learnt that you cherry pick studies to suit your agenda and can easily link a video of experts who lost their job if they don't go along with it and a lot of that is happening. Stay in your echo chamber all you want. Just a coincidence almost EVERYONE in this comment section is claiming they are trans 🤣. Wait for the new study in 15 years when you all come out the other side of this brainwashing.. or even half of you. Too many adults speaking out and having regrets to do this to kids it's disgusting.

Why did you cut contact with him? If it has anything to do with the question, just send him a message apologizing for the way you've approached it and say you're more sensitive and better educated now - and tell them you still wanna be friends because they still matter to you. If that's not the case, I still hope you can work it out. Friends, especially the loyal ones, are so difficult to find, it's a pity to lose a connection like this.

@@nanda_ Why apologize for asking a question 🤔??? ''I apologize for asking a question and not staying in hypocrisy!!!''

​@Sidney H. I agree, i think they just move on into a new chapter in life after they finish High School. thats how it is sadly.

@@K-Lys.. How dare you ask a question to a trans person? They are the ones possessing gnosis, you should shut up and listen.

@@nanda_ I suspect that the "he was helping me get out of a dangerous situation" part is why they stopped seeing each other. It seems as though bluemoon knew it was the last time they would see each other and that they were close enough for bluemoon to feel comfortable asking the question, I doubt it was a falling out. My guess is that the friend helped bluemoon move far away from an abusive family, and that living with the friend was a temporary part of that process. I don't know how old this story is, but my guess is that it happened before things like Facebook were readily available to keep people connected over long distances. I admit that I could be completely wrong on this assessment, but it seems to match up with the tones in bluemoon's comment and I hope it helps you find some closure to your curiosity without forcing bluemoon to talk about something so difficult.

I'll never understand this open embrace of authoritarianism. Why are so many on the left bootlickers all of a sudden?

@@en--ev Unfortunately the word 'libertarian' in the U.S. is pretty much exclusively associated with the Libertarian Party and Ayn Rand style laissez-faire capitalism. The anti-authoritarian, anti-hierarchy original meaning of the word has been entirely co-opted.

......................how the fuk did a russian support lgbt.......................ah well good for u ,putin is insane anyways so who cares

​@@deadshotx5003 what people r u talking about?

@@tracedd it’s RU-vid. Not VK or something like that😁

​@@deadshotx5003 Not every gay/bi whatever person is the typical toxic asshole, I don't even consider myself lgbtq despite fitting into it by definition.

Based we got a Russian ally up in here woot woot

@@ville__ go be insufferable somewhere else freak

So sorry about your mother. I hope she will come to accept you. Your community is out there and we love you just as you are!

i hope you will be able to find a good environment for yourself... Never lose hope !

Essentially, being trans is wrong because it goes against the very nature we were given by our Creator. You are born male or female at birth and society, along with drugs in our water, food, products, and air as well with our society cultures, has emasculated the minds of many of our men. God doesn't make mistakes. I am not trying to condemn you. I am saying this because I care about you and want your soul to be in the highest vibration for your entire life - so that you can go to heaven.

That makes me so sad, there's nothing my kid could do to make me love or accept him less. I'm your mom now! I love you and I'm proud of you, the world is better with you in it.

It's super weird how even after we are given a tribe to belong to, we'll limit how much we're "allowed" to be queer. I finally figured out I was queer at 35, eventually settling on pansexual. It took me another two years to realize I was non-binary, after having to fight through the same sort of mental walls as I did the first time. Anyways, hope you're having a good day queen

Shhhhhhh! Don't tell my parents that i'm here. But, I found another of my kind. YAY! (I'm a [closeted] trans girl) Edit: LOL!! i'm cisn't 🤣

@@whitesausagedog5392 I told my parents I'm trans and they were like, "We're not gonna accept you." so I left. They've started putting in more effort since then.

@@kptech4028 Virtual hugs

@@kptech4028 I hope you have somewhere safe to be and that your parents give you the kind of support you want, whatever that is

I'm a GenX trans woman, and I'm starting a channel where I'll talk about what it was like growing up as a trans kid before anyone knew trans kids were a thing. I'll explain why you probably believe you didn't know any trans kids when you were in school.

Trans kid here and I just came in to say we appreciate people like you so much!

You understand that you don’t know everything and you’re trying to learn, so remember that that makes you less ignorant than an appalling number of people on the internet.

Wooo we love character development

I hope I can help my Gen X mom by making her more aware

I hate it when parents think its ‘just a phase’

Me too, it's hard being trans in latin culture because religion is extremely ingrained. I've suffered worse transphobia with my latin friends and relatives than the american ones, they ask very personal questions. It's a part of why I don't interact with Hispanic content at all and mostly avoid hispanic cis men

Laith Ashley is a Dominican trans man. He's a model/ activist/ actor. And stars in Taylor Swifts latest video.

Tell me about it man 💀 im a latino nonbinary person and like. The culture is kinda very gendered 💀

I’m a closeted Latino transmasc and having to interact with my family is Suffering

@@SomeBoyHere !!! my brother is FTM trans & our mother is an immigrant from Ecuador. you can only imagine how well that went over with her before she finally accepted it lmao

i'd suggest trying to figure out if they're transphobic or not

i hope everything goes well for you hun, its a scary thing to do but one of the most refreshing as well. Stay safe and have a happy pride!

also dont translate that message thats in arabic, its obviously scummy. If you dont believe me, just a trigger warning if you google translate

wow, I never really thought about it before but that _does_ sound super exhausting! Hang in there bro, you got this :)

@@walnut_raisin2621 Yea, I got that impression and wasn't going to even bother.

ewww

@@Lui34779average reaction after meeting you

bro stfu@@Lui34779 your acting like you have 2 brain cells

@@Lui34779bro. Be so Fr right now “EEewW” like come on are we kindergarteners 😂

If you felt the need to add in you were never transphobic there’s prob a chance u weren’t so lgbtq friendly to say the least

@@Dolphinboiseriously gonna flame them for being honest and vulnerable? We’re all learning here

@@JootBird my point wasn’t to flame them. I just think the adding in the I wasn’t ever transphobic part was telling on their end. And they aren’t being vulnerable. The people being vulnerable are the trans people sharing their stories in the comments

@@Dolphinboinah you're totally right. i prob meant to say "outwardly" transphobic, but evidently i still had inward beliefs that were/are bigoted

Minors should not be medically transitioned, only socially. Medical treatment is irreversible and damaging to the person even if they don't detransition.

I desperately wish this was reality

​@@ville__shut up transphobe

​@@ville__I love invader zim

⁠@@ville__gir moment ong gotta love invader zim

​@@RegularRhombicDodecahedronoh so that's the place where you can get gender fluid

​@@ville__I do

@@ville__ What's with you always stalking videos focused on trans issues? Get a hobby, seek therapy, and leave us alone. If you're trying to overcompensate for possible internalised transphobia, then let's talk about it.

@@ville__ oh so you're a real groomer?

@@ville__ ok groomer, you "fooled" us there

@@ville__ Yeah, and we charged it to your bank account, too! Thanks, honey 💕

What is a woman & what is a man are things I've been wondering about for a decade. I still have no answer. All I know is that I'm nonbinary, and that's what feels right to me.

Does society make you a woman by giving you the function of a woman like V* ?💀

I work in the medical field. Biology defines a woman as an egg carrying, ovulating, life-incubating/producing specimen. Really not that hard to define. And many, many non-biological attributes begin to come into my head immediately as well. This is a new problem we have, not being able to define the term woman. We have female and male sockets for christ's sake. Society has gotten beyond bored.

@@darkwebgirl what about infertile women? Or women who never bear a child, by choice? Or women who have gone through menopause? What about women who are born without ovaries, or are on the intersex spectrum? Biology isn’t as straightforward as people would like to believe. Sure, the gender binary is the simplified version, but like everything that’s simplified, this just doesn’t perfectly reflect reality.

A woman is an adult female human. A woman is not something someone can choose to be. A male can be a trans woman but not a woman.

So what makes you a girl?

​@@martind2520what's the definition of a girl

@@martind2520 Why are you so committed to harassing trans kids?

@@Claude_1303 That's a good question. I was always taught that the definition of a girl was a juvenile female human. But now I am being told I am wrong about that, so I am asking.

@@TransHippie Asking people questions to try and understand their position is _not_ harassment. _You_ were the one who directed me to this video so I could learn more about binary people's experiences; why are you now attacking me for trying to do that? As someone who is agender I literally do not understand what makes someone a trans girl.

I thought so too. I was like ooohhhh no... been seeing too many detransitioners throwing trans ppl under the bus.

@@KrystalklearEntertainment detransisioning can be part of someone’s gender identity journey and a lot of people who detransition are still in some way trans… genderfluid, nonbinary, agender,… throwing them under the bus and demonizing people who detransition isn’t the move

@@localabsurdist6661 I understand. However when I'm talking about detransitioners who throw trans ppl under the bus I'm talking about the ppl who choose to shake hands with terfs and GCs and are actively inspiring the anti-trans movement and legislation. Detransitioning as an action itself is not a problem. Everyone have their own path, but it just isn't right that some ppl, in which transitioning didn't work out for them, is trying to take away that access from others.

@@KrystalklearEntertainment Agreed, I've never met a trans person who was hostile to someone for detransitioning. If, though, they try to take their individual experience, sad as it might be, and try to apply it to others, I and many others have a hard time with that. Tools of the TERF's are people with bad intent and should not be spared criticism for trying to go on an anti trans crusade.

@@localabsurdist6661 as someone with a transgender sibling, we kind of agree that being transgender is one or the other. meaning you either identify as female or male, obviously based on which gender you were assigned at birth. the whole non-binary/multiple genders thing is what’s given impressionable teenagers that trans or transitioning is a fad & something you can just decide on a whim since its so “normalized” now…ultimately making actual transgenders taken less seriously & painted in a bad light. not saying people cant have gender identity issues but if you’re that confused whether you dont know you identify as 1 of the 2 genders, that seems like cause for something else (whether it be mental illness?) & should be dealt with as such before slapping the trans label on yourself. my brother would never think to detransition as he resembles a male, the gender he most felt like since he was able to dress himself at 4/5 (edit:) furthering our notion that those who detrasnitioned because they didnt feel right even after transitioning…most likely weren’t trans to begin with

Yep, it’s the same thing with people getting their tubes tied, informed consent is what’s important. If you can comprehend the risks then no one should stop you from doing what’s best for you.

hi, i’m a trans kid, and this is very reassuring to know that there are supportive cis people like you out there

well you're amazing /gen

you should get yourself a couple nice outfits that make you feel really handsome. something for you that makes you feel manly. you don’t have to do any sort of transition. just small things for yourself. you got to find little ways of letting it out because pushing it down completely can really cause harm

You should totally go for it! You’ve got nothing to lose, and you’ll be so much happier. When you feel ready I mean, obviously it’s very intimidating, but doing small things to start with could be good, like getting a hair cut or some new clothes. Whatever happens, whatever you learn about yourself, I’m rooting for you! I hope you become the best, truest, happiest version of yourself :)

Hey, Junes23, just putting this out there; I'm a 65 yo trans man who began my transition in my late 30s, and have been living as the man I am for the last 2 decades. I'm not saying it was easy or simple. I took it a bit at a time, searching for the level of social/bodily change I needed to be happy and comfortable in my own skin. It will be different for everyone. Don't let the number of years you've already lived hold you back from exploring your possible futures.

So much like my own story! But I just started taking T this year at the age of 42! Can’t wait for top surgery! Thanks for sharing your experience!

@@yourmom2189 Congratulations! Hope everything goes well and living life finally starts to feel normal.

@@austinluther5825 thanks!

Yup!

💖 thank you so much especially in these hard times

thank you. i needed this. happy pride

@@rinnittt happy pride 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️

@@lmcb8447 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈❤️

As a trans woman, I find the relief of not having kids to be in relation to my AGAB. For me, personally, I would like to have a uterus and a cycle and all the messy stuff on its own merits. The option of having kids in a way that aligns with my perception of my sex is something I want. Maybe I wouldn't want the reality of having kids for other reasons, and that's fine. The idea of having kids by using this thing I don't want however is... terrifying. I'm sure it's terrible for you in a very different manner, but similar in some ways. Acceptance is definitely getting better, and my parents, despite being quite old (52 and 68 each) are accepting. Not good allies mind you, but they do respect my wish to be seen as their daughter, use she/her pronouns and a different name to what they gave me. How they talk about me when I'm not around I don't know but they do also fund my transition which is enough. Australia really needs to up its game on trans health however, in highschool just a few years ago so many of the trans kids there just CAN'T access transition before 18. I can't understate how much trouble this causes, especially when 18 is enough for people to have developed gendered traits they're uncomfortable with that are costly to reverse.

Exactly the same for me but I didn't realise I was trans at the time😅

that segment at 24:08 about dysphoria hit me

@@orangepeelz3579 right?! Even the conversation around language used to describe gender in medical fields not being accurate felt pretty great too.

update now that I'm done with the video: movement 4 hit hard. I've been asking myself these same questions a lot lately and they've definitely been hurting more than helping. i feel i was more secure in my gender identity as a boy/guy/man earlier in my transition than now- i do not regret any of it and i am most definitely a man- but i had less questions about what manhood and gender meant then than now. i don't have the answers and was a little disappointed you didn't either- i was hoping someone would. but I'm glad they've been asked. maybe one day we'll figure it out.

Same for me too. I always thought he was such a shining beacon of cool, cis gay masculinity that was something to aspire for. I've loved his channel for so long, I obviously had no clue. Okay, going to continue watching the video now, much love to all trans guys :]

Me too. It's rough. Stay safe

They don't want to kill us, just push us until we kill ourselves. We'll be find so long as we stay in the closet where it's dark, cold, lonely and painful. I feel like I'm watching a train wreck 50 feet in front of me. I'm not in immediate danger but those cars (laws) are getting really close. Problem is, I can't move. It's a terrifying sight that impacts everything in my life.

the blue haired trans activists who walk in public naked are to blame, I used to know some transgender people who were chill, they didnt feel the need to talk about themselves all the time, those are the transgenders I like, not the ones who are afraid of confrontation and opossing views.

@@whatsaaappthesequelexcept that basically never happens like ever

@@whatsaaappthesequel Bro is too afraid to commit to being a transphobe, so you just say only some of them suck. Just accept you're a pos dude.

@@whatsaaappthesequelWho is doing that

idk how to respond to this but. good comment. hope you're well

Nobody is shaming you or saying that gender dysphoria doesn't exist. There is a difference between a person who actually transitions through procedures and changes their gender for the better. But the roblem is the sheer number of people suddenly in the last few years inventing a shit ton of other stuff and calling themselves trans when they hadn't done any procedures as well as many other weird things that people proclaim nowadays.

​@@gjbsarmeri3957Why is that a problem, exactly?

@@ville__ where 😭

@@Elwias. 99% sure they’re being transphobic

​@@crowkitten2661 what did it say

@@sporkzzz they said "it"

@@crowkitten2661 ohh

Sometimes you just have to mourn. I hope it gets better. 💙

I've give you my girlhood if I could

This. I can totally be a kid, but after I started high school I became more and more depressed. Now I know why :3c

This is still hurting me until now…

take mine pleaaase

Тебе может помочь тот факт что у транс людей мозг анатомически устроен по-другому, всм если посмотреть на скан. чекни видео у Сапольски он рассказывает об этом

You’re weak

yeah right!

❤

do the thug shaker for me

@@michaelbfagoli4444 you're bald

remember to stay safe and only come out if you’re absolutely sure you have a support system. i hope everything goes well and you get to live authentically ❤

Good luck!

((MOM HUGS)) Take it at your pace.

​@Ville we don't want your pov

We're all in this together. I say this as both a lesbian, and as a trans woman. Conservatives are trying to end us. If they succeed, they'll move RIGHT along to... Us.

Happy pride month.

​@@ville__ Oh I'm sorry. Do you at least have a mother?

@@ville__ Hun you don't have to keep telling everyone you're fatherless. Get a therapist for it

High school is a rough stage of everyone’s lives. So much social pressure and judgement on a daily basis. Just know that things do get better. You are perfect in whatever way you present yourself ❤

we're in a very similar boat. i hope it gets better, dude. i'm bi, and i also feel like i can't feel romantically towards guys, because they won't see me as a guy. you know what? one day they will. it'll get better for the both of us

Thank you for saying this, I feel the same. Also happy pride month!

@@nobitches707 Happy pride month🖤

@@nobitches707 you too!!

This is absolutely true and you put it into words so nicely. Thanks for your comment and have a great pride month!!

That’s how propaganda works.

❤

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Lotta straits, especially cis-females, refuse to believe theres even such a thing as bi. They think its just gayism in denial. If a women you've been with, later finds out you'd been with a man at some point, they freak out. They wanna assault you.

Don’t think about changing your gender

@@ThatFCMobileCreator I'm gunna do what I want mate.

​@@ThatFCMobileCreatorYou don't change your gender by transitioning, you change what gender you present as.

Same 😭 At least transphobes who think the same thing will give him views, maybe even listen to his thoughts.

Same, I only watched it now because I recently learned that many detransitioners support trans people

Maybe stop worrying that other people's opinions are going to hurt you in the first place

@@mrboost4186 I do my best But misinformation is important to be aware of

Sometimes it's simply the thought that counts 😂

Yeah i assume its cuz bigots tend to be more violent in general and thats why they got arrested. I'm gald to know you face soff agaisn them in the 90s your a great person and I hope you know that. Also we all understand if you or me for that matter as a sraight cis dude its our intentions that count is what ive heard. And bro you aint that old you my mums age and look great mate 👍🏽

isn't the homophobic phrase "adam and steve"? anyway, nice comment

I've always noticed that more accepting people make much better friends. Thanks for sharing your experience

Karma isn't real, most my former bullies are thriving now :(

i relate to this comment so much

^^ my experience exactly. not sure i can articulate it as well as you but it’s kind of a mindfuck being trans and gay/queer… it’s a lot easier being proud of the latter and it’s easy to envy cis gay/queer men for not having to struggle with the former..

Good luck on your journey :)

Just want to say you already are a boy and I hope you get to feel like one soon. Goodluck with your journey. I'm rooting for you

I was 13 when I found out I was a trans man. Best of luck in your journey. Whatever you end up figuring out is valid. ❤

Good luck❤❤

people born in '04 will be turning 20 next year

​@@FrazzleFlib yes....

​@@FrazzleFlib I was born in November 2002. I just turned 21 :Aware:

@@FrazzleFlib 😭

I was born October 7th, 2005 and will be 19 later this year and I’m a trans boy.

I dont get it lol

@@macadoodle1237 kids will believe all kinds of wild things like Libertarian ideals that is the joke lmao This exact thing happened to me it's too relatable

@@Park0urSanta ohhh ok, thanks, I'm not too familiar with what Libertarian's believe lol.

I was once, shockingly, Christian.

@@ville__ Ahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaahahhahahahaha (How much you laugh when you misgender someone) That someone: Oh, a bitch in the wild

@@ville__ow rehehe haha thats so funny !! you do realize you arent changing anything, right? misgendering ppl isnt going to make them go ‘aw shit ur right! i’ll just be cis then, my bad’? youre just trying to make ppl feel shitty out of spite and rage? and then you argue that youre the morally correct party ????

@@ville__*K*eep *y*ourself *s*afe! ❤❤❤❤

This lines will probably get more and more blurry with each year. In a few decades there wouldn't be such thing as "female/male clothes", " Female/male hobbies", or certain type of behavior, associated with one gender. After all, there is no large inherent difference in a way female or male way of thinking. Only difference is parents and and society treating boys and girls differently

Think it's dumb they make up their mind if they are a boy or a girl based of these things and what they like. As if that is not se*ist

To me female and male is just differing physically and reproductively. I use to think that environments also shape who you are, like for eg the roles that come with being male or female but to me thats kinda debunked as soon as you see the existence of trans people and people that don’t fit those roles. I think the gender norms in general is whats making gender dysmorphia a phenomenon, because people treat a body as if its something more then a reproductive system and physical difference. Im also supportive but I don’t a 100% agree with letting teenagers decide even after this video. I don’t think the process of transitioning should be simplified but it should be easier to access money wise. And obviously conversion therapy banned. I don’t like how people want to erase trans people. To me if you wanted to erase the suffering of trans people and the operations in general you should work on the mentality of society changing. That we see a person for who they are and don’t judge them by their label, identity or body. I don’t know this for a fact but Im sure there should plenty trans kids that were just accepted for who they were even in the body that they were in and never transitioned just cus they probably felt comfortable with time. Idk tho cus Im not them. I just am a bit scared by the over simplification of the process taking place cus maybe kids who were confused like I was at a point will transition earlier and come to regret it. But only time can actually tell so.

@@username_creates6991 I agree with a lot of what you said. New study came out twelve days ago. The regret rate from the old study from years ago was 1%. This new study is at a huge 30%. It's going to keep crawling up and it's sad for the ones who can't go back.

My mother said I‘m not a boy because I like horses and don’t play football. :/

yeah, I really thought this was gonna be a much more concerning video, but I came across more of his videos and then saw this on his channel

I was reluctant to watch this video too. I thought it was going to be a right wing detransition propaganda video.

^^^

Maybe being a RU-vidr makes people delusional

This!!!

This might help me "grasp" it. I love philosophy and have a fair question that is not an attack or me being a bigot but trying to understand from a philosophical place. How can you know what it feels like to be something you have never been?

@@emd1494 you can apply this question to the opposite of what you are asking. In my experience as a trans man, I never knew what it was like to be a woman. Instinctually I see myself as a man, and I think an awful like like one, to the point where all the bullshit stereotypes and put-ons that I forced myself to live with before just melted right out of my brain as soon as I stopped trying to force myself to be a woman. I believe the way to truly understand this if you are cis, is to look at the gender of trans people who share that gender and try to imagine struggling with that. If you are a cis woman, think about how you would feel if your body looked more masculine and/or you showed characteristics of a man, and how that would hurt. Imagine what it would be like if you had a man's name, and everyone around you treated this as something that wasn't odd at all, because you look like a man, and sound like one, etc. Imagine waking up with a deeper voice and every time you speak, it just sounds *wrong* to you because it's too deep. I can only try to come up with so much cause I have no idea what it's like to actually want to be a woman other than denying myself authenticity, so I apologize if that wasn't a good enough scenario. If you are a cis man, imagine if your voice never dropped during puberty, imagine if you suddenly grew tits and everyone used that as a way to "identify" you as a "woman". Again, treating this as completely normal and without any malice, they just thought it was completely natural. Imagine your dick just vanished without a trace. It's quite an uncomfortable thought! Many binary trans people deal with this every single day. This is why the commentor we replied to says "my body is just disfigured" because our bodies aren't inherently wrong, they just don't completely match up with how we see ourselves. Your body is your body, and your brain is your brain. I don't know why it happens, nor do I really care, I just know that I will never understand what it is like to want to be a woman

Hopefully that answered your question lol. Basically, you may not ever have been TREATED like the gender you feel that you are, but that doesn't mean you never were it. Your body may have developed differently than you had hoped, but that doesn't mean that in your heart and mind, you aren't the gender that you feel that you are. There are two things that are incongruent with our bodies themselves, and both are malleable! Firstly, we all start growing as fetuses with the same parts, and sexual dimorphism occurs later in development - this is why in pregnancy, you must wait weeks before being able to find out the sex of the baby! Both female and male babies are born with nipples. Both female and male babies are born with erectile tissue, one just physically grows bigger on its own. Puberty gives us secondary sex characteristics- and that is simply the only thing that outwardly shows people how to gender children with clothes on- because otherwise you would have no clue, and I believe this to be why many trans people don't give a shit about gender until puberty, because suddenly people (yourself included) are EXTRA aware of what's in your pants and under your shirt. To my point, asking "how can you know you are something if you've never been it?" (paraphrased cause I'm onobile and can't actually read your comment as I type this), is essentially asking "society didn't see you as the gender you feel you are, so how do you know?" And to that I say, it is a bodily need for many trans people. If we were on a deserted island, we would still feel the same. No matter how society treated us, out identity will stay the same. Yes, it can absolutely confuse us due to arbitrary rules like say, if you're a trans man and don't have an issue with getting pregnant, and maybe even WANT biological kids- but you would still feel like you are the father of that child. It all depends on which body parts you're disgusted by or indifferent towards, or actually do like. Sorry if this got a little complicated. It's a complicated thing. Feel free to continue asking questions

@@satunbreeze I appreciate your honesty. I am trying to understand but like you said it's hard to explain. I guess from my point of view you cant know what it's like to be something you are not and your voice or cup size doesn't make your gender. Now if you are passable it might make your pronoun but and I understand that can make it easier to live with. My worry is that I can reverse around what you just said with these poor detransitioners who's voice is now stuck on deep from the hormones, who look down and they don't recognise what is between their legs, to have constant medical issues (I get is a risk up to them if they are an adult) but in a way these people are now stuck in the wrong body but they have the comparison of what it was like before. In a way what you are saying is religious in a small sense, to believe you were born in in wrong body or even the other way around would suggest you belive in a soul, in not just reproduction and your here type thing. There is more to it then that I believe also and is why I try to understand it on so many levels Psychology, religion, social, scientifically, medical, romance, se× life etc. I think a lot more treatment into this before any body modification would be key. I still won't understand how you can know what it is to be something you are not other then based of masculinity or femininity and they are not a gender. Nor is liking female things if you are male. I don't think any of that changes it so I'm trying to understand how they even come to the conclusion I suppose. I thank you for being open and not calling me names or shooting me down for asking.

even if it's not her thing, she's still a woman, and will always be a woman

@@firasjemil213 even if it's not your thing, you need to mind your business, and stop kissing politicians and the churches' asses 😘

@@firasjemil213 They're always going to be a female (a biological term) but "woman" is more of a social category. She/her are just pronouns, and if someone wants to swap pronouns why not? Do they really only refer to someone's sex? If so, we should get rid of sexed pronouns because it's a bit invasive. What next, pronouns for whether you're circumcised or not? Pronouns for what size of dick you have? Not too hard to let people use whatever pronouns they want. If a biological female wants to call themselves some other label, why not? It's just words.

@@ahuman5772 women are, by definition, female. and men are, by definition, male. you can't be a male woman, or a female man. that doesn't make sense. she needs proper psychotherapy in order to accept herslef the way she is. she didn't need hormones and surgeries. her hormone levels are certainly normal, and her breasts are fine and healthy

yeah, he got it exactly. i don't mind being feminine and expressing femininity but being perceived as a woman? not for me

im 19 and only out to like 6 people :p so ur not alone

This this this!

omg, yes. i performed my girlhood so well, but now i grew up and i feel better performing masc, i feel stronger, cooler, more confident. my teens were marked by me trying to continue to fit the girl role, but more and more i would not feel good about it. i would feel disgusted when someone found the fem me attractive, why? i didn't know. i felt so much better when presenting male, and i feel really happy when i get address as male, and my family is all wondering what happened to their daughter that performed her gender so well...

Gender as a performance sounds insane

I think my egg has been cracked... I think I may be non binary. Edit: I say that label so people get it but to be honest I don't really want a label I'm like sort of a girl but not really and also a cat but most importantly I'm me.

@@celestielsigh gender as a performance is a pretty big theme in humanities.

T puberty really has some significant effects that can be super annoying for us and obviously women are looked at with a little more scrutiny overall so it’s pretty tough to pass nowadays 😅

Wasn’t possible for me as a trans guy. It’s not possible for a lot of us

*Probably most of us

:/ non binary trans girl sad moment, will I ever pass?

Your birth and death certificates will tell you who you are people. Wake up! You were born that way and will die that way.

oof as an NB stuck in WV I thought I had it bad. But your situation is way worse! Stay safe! Get out as soon as possible!

as a transmasc in michigan if you ever plan on leaving honestly the midwest is the best place to be right now, so if u get the opportunity imo the best way to go is up. stay safe and remember we love you!!!

i'm agender and stuck in florida as well, things here are so fucking weird and i can't even leave

@@lord_ozymandias I'm working on getting my degree and making some money, before I move to a blue state. Thanks for the support.

@@sl33pl3ss9 Yeah, its kind of scary. And it disturbs me what Florida is doing to trans children with supportive parents.

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