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Me. What a sad story with a good ending

Me✊

Ndio nimefika

Me

Me

seriously am sorry for what happened to her, but if you have been getting abused like this, when you have to leave dont show, dont ask for permission to leave dont pack everything and sit there and wait, just go....take the kids ...anything just go, so many stories we hear of people who waited, who in-between arguments said they are leaving the abuser, and guess what, they got gunned downed before they can even pack. when your son told you he was being abused, going to ask your husband to kindly let him take his things was you again putting him amd yourself in a risky position, this habit of being polite and submissive even after you left, had to stop the first time he laid hands on you...African women stooopp if he beats you, he looses all rights and respect, he does not have to validate anything anymore for you, just go....before it elavates to murder. go quietly and stay away

May God help you and His grace is sufficient. You are one in a million

Hallaluy

Yes

Yes man

Thats our style# wilson

@@vincentomondi5612 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mQzXLfAymzE.html 15yrs

Its well wt you and your children.

@@mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255 tttttttlm

@@mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255 😀😀😀😀😀

No job if you don’t know someone

She really has

She is a good orator as well

May God see you through

You wear grace so beautifully and you are so fine🌹

I agree

She no longer hurting

@@lizzwaceraofficial8307 yeah, just manifestation of her feelings and emotions in an intelligent and humorous way

Not everyone can do that she is lucky .There are people who smile in pain

I do smile while i am broken

Her English is very polished!

Nmejiuma nkisoma hio kizungu mamaaaa

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mQzXLfAymzE.html Lov urself

Ongezea volume…… true !

True

Women need to just leave toxic men. Marriages are overrated. And men nned to do the work and not scapegoat their BS to God or lack of Him

0 pop s(((

That's the truth. Whole truth right there 😭😭😭😭😭

Totally I concur

I beg to second it

Her beauty..,you cannot even tell she is a mother of 4..,some people gotta very good genes.

This is REAL GREAT advice!!! ❤️ Thanks.

100 percent!

I always tell my girls in life there are no guarantees as weather you are a virgin or not whether you marry a wealthy man or poor man there's no guarantee that he won't end up treating you like this man but there's nothing worst than a man treating you this way and you have taken care of him.dont ever make it soft for men they must deliver their pound of flesh as a man is expected in the same breath I train them to be independent and self sufficient never to rely on a man but never to allow a man to not bring his side.

@@thembisaodendaal right!

@@thembisaodendaal oooooh you'you've spoken gosh❤❤

May God hear her cry. God will make a way and you will be alright

Surely

Jamani add me to the list of friends of hope.

How do we do that?

Was a group formed? kindly add me

Add me to the group

How did her dad fail her though??

True words 👌

it broke my heart

Why do people make reference to her English.... I’m Zimbabwean so I find this reference to good English strange

Kenyans loves mixing English Swahili all the time

O oooh means a lot

Very sad..all her youth was waisted for nothing

Hugs darling all shall be well ❤

True. I wonder why

Cruelty at its BEST.

One never forgets,I remember I was six when my mum started her journey of trauma to date....I can remember the dress I was in and I was seated on some plastic container a blue one to be specific,it was about 4pm.....I am now a mature woman now

Who is like a woman living her parents to live with a stranger calling a husband oh God have mercy on us

Same way.

For us youths it's a challenge that we should not date at young age, so let us develop ourselves first

🙏🙏🙏🙏

Why are men so cruel though?

Most men get abusive when they have a mistress

@@cherylmartin9031 I beg to disagree... abusive men are users and they don't love. They are people who don't love themselves and have no ability to love. They are people seeking validation every other day. They don't change. They copy paste themselves to all their supplies

@@Wakinyua thats why I said abusive men have mistresses....abuse is a learnt behaviour that can be unlearned. No one is born abusive...every baby is born angelic. They copy the behaviour mostly of their care giver. Generational cases. Divorce follows the whole clan and the grand children's children. A person in love will NEVER abuse their loved ones.

It's called narcacism

​@@cherylmartin9031 Narcissists they are. Always behaving like they are the victim! So horrible.

Not only beauty but a humble and good hearted human being

God will provide her the best husband.

Sadly we women are our own worst enemies.

TRUE

Should men also date ladies who are also still trying to find themselves

@victor omondi Of cause no its a big mess as well.

No. She summarized the lesson; Never date young and never date/marry a person who is trying to find himself/herself.

@@anneanjao7008 good student

Shez eloquent.We schooled together in Pri.Im deeply hurt to hear her story.

I like her english too

@@gracenyaboke8483 hi seeing your comments now long time dear, call me

Marriage is challenging for both men and women..... you need serious counseling before you go in .......and you must try everything to make it work. You only leave under two conditions (1)cheating if you can't forgive (2) your life is at risk

Beautiful for sure

Truer words have never been spoken...

Exactly..

....Because it's never going to stop.

Nimeolewa na wine na whysky this shit ain't happening

I needed this...Thank you sir

Amen

As a father of girls, I can feel your pain. I am so scared for my girls.

Same as rape thoug

@@estherbernnardino Very true... curses follows even the innocent those who were never part of it and don't know anything about it...2nd Samuel 13:15...the same sin that David committed followed him to the fourth Generation when his own son lay with her sister..

@@ROBERTOOGEMA i

You are so so right.

Yes the truth

And yet the world is full of them

You are right